Find Your People, Your Tools, and Your Voice: A Blueprint for Professional Success
By Sima Patel
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In this special guidebook learn how to build and invest in key relationships, utilize your most effective tools, and get the confidence you need to get out of your own way.
After over 20 years of experience climbing the corporate ladder in operations, seasoned businesswoman and entrepreneur Sima Patel shares he
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Sima Patel is a daughter, a wife, and a mother of two working full-time to support her family. Inspiration for Dosti, Love, Aur: The Bond from the Beginning came from a recurring dream that she had intermittently for over five years. She had never before thought of writing a novel but, with help and support from a special person, she finally plucked up the courage to put her dream onto paper. Dosti, Love, Aur: The Bond from the Beginning is the result.
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Find Your People, Your Tools, and Your Voice - Sima Patel
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Paperback ISBN: 979-8-8229-4277-6
eBook ISBN: 979-8-8229-4278-3
TABLE OF CONTENTS
Introduction
Part I Find Your People
Chapter 1: Get to Know People—Any People
Chapter 2: Walk a Mile in Someone Else’s Shoes
Chapter 3: Communication and Trust
Part II Find Your Tools
Chapter 4: Core Values
Chapter 5: Get Stuff Done
Chapter 6: Dress for Success
Part III Find Your Voice
Chapter 7: Give Yourself a Break
Chapter 8: Remind Yourself Every Day Why You are so Amazing
Chapter 9: Have the Courage to Fight for Yourself
Conclusion
Acknowledgments
My Favorite Leadership Books
INTRODUCTION
I’m an Indian woman, the one who had very traditional Indian parents who moved to the US a long time ago. In my case, it was in 1970 when my parents moved to America. I was a bridge kid, that’s my first identity. But, add to that, I’m a mom of two of my own kids, a wife for twenty-one-plus years, a daughter, a sister, an aunt, a friend, a team member, a leader, and a mentor. Also, I have a full-time job as a Chief of Staff for a publicly traded company. That’s a lot of hats. And for all these hats, I take my responsibilities very seriously. Sometimes I look at my kids—who are now in high school and middle school—and wonder how in the world I ever got through while working full-time and having a very demanding career. It’s a very delicate dance to balance what I call home hats
while pushing yourself to grow and pursue your work hats
for your career and dreams. Historically, my culture has been much more welcoming to men in the workplace, resulting in a male-dominated workforce. So, growing up (despite my progressive parents who were always so supportive), the messages around me were more about being a good Indian girl, getting married, having babies, and being a part of the Indian community.
As an American-born, very traditionally raised girl who grew up in the ’80s and ’90s, life was so different for me than it is for my daughter, who is now fifteen. I always felt like I had to claw my way up, dodging the roadblocks of not really being American
and not being male, so two strikes against me. My daughter, however, celebrates her culture and has flawlessly found a way to appreciate being both American and Indian. Probably because the world she lives in accepts other cultures, and in her eyes, she’s no different from anyone else. Those two strikes against me are instead two check marks of diversity for her.
Feeling like you have something to prove can sometimes be the best motivator. Maybe that’s why I work extra hard and why my accomplishments feel even more deserved. It’s been really important for me to grow my career because, while I live to do things for other people, my career is my own, and I do it for myself. It brings me so much gratitude and personal satisfaction. I want my daughter to know she really can do anything she sets her mind to and my son to see how powerful women are. I want them to see that you can have both a successful career and be everything to everyone that’s most important in your life at the same time.
And that brings me to why I wrote this book. Thinking back on my career, I’ve had over twenty years of experience in sales and operations, spanning multiple industries, including: media, wine/beverage, medical equipment, commercial construction, professional services, software as a service (SaaS), a bakery, hotels/motels, and a franchise restaurant. All these moments taught me pieces of information that I have carried, used, and cherished. Even the worst—and I mean absolute worst—of times taught the greatest lessons that I value so much now (not so much while they were happening, though).
I wanted to leave behind something that will help people get to where they want to be in their own careers. I’ve learned to navigate work dynamics, handle complex situations, and have difficult conversations. Success is such a subjective word, and it means different things to different people, so I don’t like to throw it around casually. But I’ve been successful by my own standards, and I believe my advice can relate to a lot of people. I want to offer words of wisdom and life experiences that maybe my kids and future grandkids can learn from. I know I learned a lot from my grandfather Bhulabhai Patel; he was an inspiration to me and to many women. He left a legacy that is still impacting hundreds of girls in the rural villages of Gujarat, India.
Bhulabhai’s Story:
My grandparents’ marriage was already arranged when my grandfather was two and while my great-grandmother was pregnant with my grandmother. When my grandmother was born, tragically, her mother died during childbirth. Her father died when she was just seven. As an only child with no other family, her young groom’s family took her in, sealed the marriage to my grandfather, and raised her. They grew up together and supported each other.
My grandfather, Bhulabhai Patel, was smart and ambitious, but his parents were poor and couldn’t afford an education past middle school. In those days in India, you had to pay for high school in addition to college. My grandmother decided to sell what gold and jewelry she had inherited from her parents to put my grandfather through school. He became a very successful senator. He led rallies to fight for women’s rights and always gave back to those less fortunate than he was. Using his influence, he felt like he could do so much more than what he was already doing. So, after discussing it with his wife and three kids (my aunt, uncle, and my mom), he made the decision to downsize their lifestyle so he could make a bigger impact.
Education for girls in the ’50s in India was very rare, but he believed in equality. He used to always say that his daughters should get the same education as his son. At that time, it was taboo for girls to leave a village for school, but that was