everything that women do that isn't explicitly for men can be construed as being mean to men.
there's this expectation that everything women do and experience and desire must be in relation to men, and so if they do or experience or desire something that doesn't benefit or flatter men, this misogynist logic goes that it must be deliberately done to neglect or insult men.
the idea that women are independent human beings is just so completely absent from possibility.
lesbians must experience attraction and form relationships with other human beings on this earth just because they hate men..
trans women must only want access to basic bodily autonomy to trick men..
woman seeking divorce must want legal freedom from a man to punish him..
can anyone just consider that women are human beings who have experiences and exist in a social world and desire autonomy over their bodies and lives? no? is that too mean? is that man-hating?