Seduce Her With Your Touch
Seduce Her With Your Touch
Seduce Her With Your Touch
The touch is one of the most important and the fastest developing senses ( it appears
around the 8th week of a fetus' life). 80% of an infant's contact with the surrounding world
takes place through the touch.
Psychologists, pharmacologists, cosmetologists, physiotherapists make use of enormous
potential of the touch in their work helping people get rid of both spiritual and body
problems.
The touch helps to:
develop sight
develop manual skills
develop one's positive self image
keep one's self-esteem high
make somebody feel better
lower the level of anxiety, stress, and insecurity
keep oneself healthy
establish closer relations between people
communicate with other people
soothe emotional and physical pain
Unfortunately, the touch remains a taboo subject in the society. We are taught
that touching people or ourselves is wrong. Touching yourself can be good if it's a natural
care about your body: for example when you rub your acheing neck or your hands when
you're cold. I think that if all people were taught that it's good to touch, then more of
them would be happy. I'm sure you know people who are always in a bad mood and
complaining. In 99% of cases they have a touch deficit. Although in the beginning such a
person may react in a negative way, the touch will do wonders for him or her.
The touch is every person's basic need. Notice the popularity of massage
parlours, renewal centers, dancing classes. They all give people opportunities to satisfy
Warning!
I'm only giving you a small fragment of my knowledge and experience in the field of
physical contact with a woman. You can get the rest of it only during the workshops cause
even the best photo presentation cannot show the little details you'll discover taking part
in them.
The more you learn, the more responsible you should become. If your attitude to women
is negative then get rid of this e-book.
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abusing the techniques or methods described in this e-book.
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It's the right state of mind. It forms the basis for the right use of the strategies and
techniques described below. Without proper inner game you hesitate and hallucinate
making all the methods totally useless. I always start working with a person with
changing, modifying his beliefs. I'm never Mr. Nice Guy when doing that, but I believe
that's the only way to enable a guy to improve quickly and reach his goals. It's the same
thing as a gardener does: he gets rid of the weed and tills the land in order to cultivate it
and make it fruitful.
II.1. Accept your sexuality a belief that will bring your relations with women to another
level.
You take responsibility for your children's life because it is you who chooses
their mother.
As soon as I accepted the fact that I approach women because I'm sexually
attracted to them, I felt enormous relief and my relations with them became much easier.
I love sex. I can do it all the time. I love it when a woman and I exchange the
She didn't go anywhere. She continued talking to me, giving me more and more
indicators of interest.
Show your sexuality by your intentions, gestures, speech, non-verbal
communication, clothes, relations with women.
Stand in front of a mirror and say: I'm a man and I love women in every aspect of their
femininity!
I think that the source of the problem with escalating the touch lies in the conflict
between desire and false asumptions about sex.
Don't you like it when somebody shares something with you? Sex is like a
candle though it lights other candles, it doesn't lose its original glow.
The fact that you restrain your sexual desire frustrates both you (ONH one
night hand) and a woman (Such a great guy, too bad he can't take the matters in his
What inspired me to writing this text was the course of events in Project Wroclaw 2 and 3.
There I saw the enormous role of being sexually open in the process of seduction.
It's original title was Sex vs. Ego.
Let's consider the basics:
1. Ego it wants to have as much sex as possible. Ego is the core of being a man.
2. Subconsciousness (men's and women's programmed roles, sexual blockades,
feeling of guilt, important experiences connected with sex, practice in sex,
madonna-whore complex, etc.) influences man's sexual life a lot. The quality of
your sexual life depends on whether you cooperate or fight with your ego.
Every man wants to have sex. But not everyone is ready for that.
On one hand men want to have lots of partners, on the other their subconsciousness
doesn't let them do that. Such situations take place when:
A women would like to make love to a guy, but he thinks she's a whore and backs
away
A man notices signs showing that a woman is attracted to him, but he doesn't do
anything about it
Although he knows that he will be having sex, he decides to withdraw
First you have to sort everything out in your head and get rid of your sexual blockades to
start fulfilling your sexual fantasies. You have to accept them as good, natural, and
healthy both for your body and spirit.
Once, during my personal coaching I trained a man who never had sex before. I sent him
Intimate distance
Every time I read some some book about body language I come across information that
there's something like intimate distance 0,45 m ( or some other length, you'll soon learn
it doesn't matter). And every time I do it I wonder who gave these people their diplomas?
What for? For making people frustrated and feeling guilty because of doing what's natural,
good and healthy?
In theory, this distance is characteristic for every human being. In practice, it's
bullshit. Is there any intimate distance in a crowded bus? Have your ever measured the
distance between you and a woman during a hot dance? I doubt it.
On lots of occasions have I proven that intimate distance can really be found
only in pseudo psychological books.
Every bit of the knowledge I teach during my workshops I experienced in real life so I'll
give you proof which will ultimately destroy all the false assumptions concerning so-called
intimate distance.
Yesterday, (The day before these words were written) there was a situation
which once again underlined my belief that there's nothing like intimate distance. I was
dancing with a sexy woman I have just met.
Me and a friend of mine are standing next to the dance floor and having a
conversation. Everything that happens on the dance floor is natural for us. We're not
concentrating on beer but simply on having fun. I notice HER dancing. She notices me
looking at her. Her dance is getting hotter, and she starts giving me a challenging look in
the eyes. I stop her, take her hand and start pulling her off the dance floor. We take a
seat in a quiet place and then she gets a chance to present herself in the best possible
way ( I check if a woman meets my expectations she's an intelligent, warm
person). We're having a longer conversation and after a while her friends come. She
takes me to the dance floor so that we could enjoy ourselves. I lead her to the center
of the dance floor so that her friends couldn't see us (she's with friends so I make sure
they keep good opinion about her). She starts cuddling me. I can feel her hot,
fragrant body. I'm touch her smooth skin. We're looking in each other's eyes, it's
How long time do you have to spend knowing her, before you get implied permission to
touch her?
Are 3 days, 4 hours, 56 minutes and 11 seconds all right?
Those who saw me picking up a woman, know that I escalate very quickly. I am able to
create an impression that we are an old couple during first few minutes of a conversation.
Before you start doing the exercises described below, create a Success Diary. It is a
place for you to write down all the information about how those exercises looked like, and
your observations concerning the physical contact with women. I know it's very helpful
cause I also keep such a diary.
1. Seduction
2. The touch (because it's a sphere I specialize in, I separated it from others )
3. workshops (ideas, organization)
1. Date
2. Situation
3. Technique
4. Did it work?
5. What can I improve in the future?
Exercise 1:
1. Go to a swimming pool or jacuzzi ( focus on what you sense, what your body
senses, the pressure of the water as you swim, what the temperature is when you
get out of the water, what you feel when you get goosebumps. You have to know
your body. Stop talking to yourself. Inner dialog off)
2. Do sport where your whole body is active ( Especially aerobic sports, team games,
martial arts, for example Krav Maga). And by sport I mean S P O R T. A round of
chess will not do! Though it's a very useful for your intellectual development, it
won't improve your ability to touch.
3. Take up some dancing classes. You can touch people within acceptable social
norms there.
Plus, there are women there, and you cannot overestimate contact with them. Latin
dances are very fashionable nowadays. I know a lot of attractive women, who love to
dance salsa. I also recommend Argentinian tango ( I've taken up such classes myself) for
3 reasons:
it teaches you how to lead your partner because it is up to YOU to lead her in every
aspect of your life
it helps to keep straight posture ( Walk with you back straight, because you present
yourself in a better way. Check out Brad Pitt in Fight Club. Did he slouch and hid
his head between his shoulders?)
It gives you a great picture of man woman relation, which relates to woman's
natural instincts and is very attractive to her on the subconscious level
4. Use your entire body when taking to her use gestures, smile, make your body
seem really alive, your face should express all the possible emotions. Present
yourself as an expressive person. The movement of your body has to be easy it
shows that you're comfortable with your body. Stand in front of a mirror and do
funny faces for 10 minutes. Do the same to practise smiling. If you don't smile a
If you're interested in seduction through the Intenet, give yourself a break. Sitting in front
of a monitor will not teach you interacting with real pepole. Which do you prefer: an hour
of sex, or
an hour of visiting dating sites and watching some women's photos?
By typing letters you don't learn to seduce. Cybersex is not sex. You never
know who's on the other side of the wire.
Be an egotist. Think about the time you can save. You can get the phone number very
easily but how much time will it take you to give her enough comfort to make her want to
meet you?
You cannot feel a woman through the Internet, which leads to funny situations. I used
to date through the Internet a few years ago I even had my own profile on a daying site
(It's long gone;) )
I met a few girls. The funniest situation took place when the picture of a girl was 3O
pound slimmer than its owner.
By starting seducing in the real world you save your own life!
I've seen hundreds of men in clubs, who kept carrying a conversation and not
doing anything, though a woman was sending indicators of interest. A woman shows her
interest when she isolates you from friends, focuses on you. You need to show your
interest by touching her. By focusing only on talking to her, without making any contact
with her body, you will improve your verbal skills and the strength of your forearm ( yeah,
you know what I'm talking about:) )
The longer you wait with getting into her physical sphere, the more difficult it
gets. By avoiding the touch, you put yourself in a sack called a friend and tie it from the
inside. And there's no sex in this sack.
The moment you unwillingly start touching a woman, even if you do it in the
beginning of the first conversation with her, you put the relationship in a different frame
(the way something is perceived). She gets more open and more willing to establish a
physical contact with you.
If you seduce a woman, touch her during the first minute of a converstation
with her. No matter if you're in the club or in the street - do it! If you see a woman you
find attractive approach her, and the moment you start talking to her put your hand on
her back (in the middle of it between her shoulder blades and her buttocks). Do it in a
natural, easy, and confident way. Remember it's good to touch.
IV.2 Be consistent
There's nothing like rejection, there's only feedback. You don't fail, if you
continue doing something until you succeed. You're always a winner. You are going to
seduce her or learn something that will be useful in future.
The source of the discomfort you feel when being rejected is in the fact that the
area of the brain responsible for social ostracism is connected with the area responsible
for feeling pain.
Once, during a rally I took part in, one of the lecturers asked a woman sitting close to me
-
What do you think if you keep meeting a man and he doesn't move forward?
I think I'm loosing my time - she answered
A woman said she's loosing her time if a man doesn't touch her!
In my opinion, the ability to pull the trigger is one of the most important in
the whole seduction process. I've seen many guys doing really great (they were getting
lots of IOIs) but they didn't do another step. The women left them, searching for some
other guy for that night.
Sometimes, I meet people dressed in PUA-Uniform in the club. They approach
every woman there, but few of them are successful. They later take photos with girls they
met at the party, but it's very easy to notice that they'd known each other only for the
time needed to take a photo.
You can tell that they are more excited with the sole fact of forming a community and
going to clubs together, then with actual seducing and having sex. And after it's all over
they make the folowing reflection: Something's fucking wrong, I didn't even kiss a girl. I
have to read another 2000 pages of materials, and everything will get better. They used
to dress up as Indians and cowboys, and now they dress up as seducers.
To make things clear: theory is good, if you try it in practice right away. Then
you can relate it to real-life situations. If you don't do it, you act like a person who's eaten
You've probably been in a situation when, during a meeting with a woman, you
thought I should probably kiss her, cuddle her now, etc. You didn't do it so the candles
went off, the romantic music stopped, and she asked you politely to leave her house. She
was tired, and she had to get up early.
If you want to avoid this in future, you have to trust your instinct. Every time
you think Should I touch her? your subconsciousness sends you a signal that you should
do it.
If you don't take advantage of all the natural opportunities for touching a
woman, you may be able to seduce her but it will take you ages to do it.
Don't worry about time. What really matters is only the type of interaction
between a man and a woman.
Another real life example:
Feniks: What should I do with you? (I look deep into her eyes, as if I wanted to drill her
down to the panties)
Vicky: I don't know:) ( When a woman says something like that, smiles and looks
sideways or downwards, I know she's excited and interested)
Feniks: [Yes, you know :)] - I thought
Then we go upstairs. I turn her around, touch her, kiss her I do whatever I please. The
women in a lounge next to us almost choked with their beers seeing us doing all these
things. In the checkroom, I try to communicate with her using gestures.
Feniks: Me, you ( I gesture with my hands trying to explain that I mean sex), taxi, 5
minut, hotel ( fortunately there's one in the city center), will be back in an hour. My friend
is waiting.
Vicky: Ok. (She smiled and kissed me), but I'm with a friend. I have to tell her that I'm
leaving, I have her stuff.
Feniks: Ok. So I will tell my friend.
I took her from the club 15 minutes after we kissed without using any routines ( stories
created in order to make seduction possible), without giving her much comfort. We both
wanted the same. She didn't test me. She was with me between 2 and 3 a.m. leaving her
friend. I must have made her trust me with my body language and subcommunication.
Otherwise she wouldn't go with me:)
Practise establishing physical contact all the time. It will help you to shape your
instinct. You will have more points of reference established through experience.
Imagine that you're sitting next to a woman on a sofa, and you're touching the
great, smooth leather it is made of. Either you touch the furniture, or her. The choice is up
to you. If you don't touch her, you won't sleep with her.
If you asked Where should I touch a woman my answer would be
Everywhere!
I consider a woman's body to be one great erogenous zone. However, if we want to be
really efficient you have to follow so called shadow rule. Imagine a woman standing
under a lamp, which shines right down at her. The places where shadows are created
make the erogenous zones. You will find more information about this in the Internet. They
will prove that erogenous zones and the shadow zones are one and the same.
Would you trust a doctor who asked you how to cure you? I think not. Likewise,
a woman won't sleep with a man who asks her for sex.
She wants you to act like a male. And gives you chances to do it.
Don't ask a woman for permission to touch her. If you ask her in a reasonable way (for
example: Is it all right if I hug you? I don't want to bother you... blah blah blah) you
destroy the atmosphere.
If she's interested, be a man and do what you're supposed to do.
If you meet her in a club, be prepared for her company. If it's a street it's
more simple. There's no point in avoiding women's friends you have to learn to deal
with them.
Make it all easier by making her friends (especially her best friend) like you.
Have a conversation with them. Present yourself as a normal, relaxed guy. It's important
that you're sober in a club. Reasonable persons won't leave their friend with a drunk guy.
The way you look is also crucial. Especially if it all happens very fast and you don't have
If a woman sends you indicators of interest, and gives you opportunity to touch
her, don't hesitate to do it. Let it happen naturally.
These are the examples of indicators of interest sent by a woman:
posing her body in a sexy way
playing with her hair or jewellery
breaking the eye contact (looking downwards or sideways, if she looks upwards
and shows you disapproval she's not interested)
asking her friends to leave you alone
complementing you
asking you to repeat something she didn't hear, but in a polite way
touching you by accident
waiting for you
following you
looking at you if you go somewhere
stopping doing something when you approach her
asking where are you going?
asking for your attention
getting closer to you
widened pupils
deeper breath
smiling nervously
Here's the list of IOIs. It's always nice to see her playing with her hair, you can surely
think That's it!. But let's shorten that list Is she talking to you? - If yes, she's
interested.
Remember that it's good to touch. It's my frame and I suggest you take
example from me. What you're doing is good beacuase it gives her a gift masculine
behaviour. She feels great with the endorphins released thanks to intereaction of two
people interested in each other. And it is you who made it happen. If she doesn't want to
accept this gift, give her a break nobody likes beggars. There are 6 billion of people all
around the world, the majority of which are women. Your chances of finding a woman
delighted with you and your touch are GREAT.
You can only win thanks to touching her. If she's interested in you, even the
initial signs of disapproval can be overcome and made work for your benefit. And if she's
not, you will save a lot of time and energy which you'll be able to devote to other beautiful
women.
Give yourself time when you're learning to seduce. Focus on the general
process as a whole, and remember that everything you do brings you closer to the
moment when touching becomes as natural as breathing. You always win either you
succeed or you learn something.
It is thanks to all the experiences I had with women both the nice and
unpleasant ones that you're reading this e-book.
You can get some of these IOIs even if you're with her friends. It's because sexual
excitement is very difficult to control (Sometimes it creates funny situations). In such a
case case, isolate her as quickly as possible. You can try the sexual state on her, but only
after isolation.
It's supposed to be very delicate touch. If you do it with your hand use the tips
of your fingers, and touch her very slowly and delicately.
Warning! Do not put your hand on her as if you were resting it on the table. Even if you
massage her neck do it in an erotic way. It's not supposed to be therapeutical. Be careful
about the pressure you apply.
You can also use the external side of your hand. Women are very sensitive to
touch. They can tell what the type of the touch was, even if it lasted only for a moment.
Leading (introduction)
While talking to women, I like to turn them around so as to face their backs. I
like to hug them in this position. Thanks to that I have an easy access to their necks, and
every (!) woman likes to have their neck caressed. I like woman's body. I think it's a
Put your hand on her leg, buttocks, chest the way strippers do. Make her
button your shirt, tie your tie, tie something around your neck, flick the dust from your
clothes, shave you, play with your hair. These simple activities build sexual tension
between a man and a woman.
Visualization
Imagine that you're having long wild passionate sex with her. Let your
imagination carry you away.
The more attractive you find her the better. Such a visualization will help you
pass your the energy of your sexual desire to her. You can imagine an energy ball which
you are sending to her with your touch.
One of the tasks that I assigned the participants of Project Wroclaw 2 and 3,
was to think about sex all the time in the club. Their results were much better than with
neutral state of mind.
Eye contact
Look at her with desire. Don't be afraid to look at every little piece of her
beautiful body do it as if you were admiring a masterpiece, a sports car, or a source
code of some software;) Look blatantly at her, but always with a smile.
In front of you, there's an exquisite dish to be consumed in the bed.
Don't be afraid to show your sexual desire with the way you look at her. It's not
being needy. You're needy if you restrain your desire while talking to her, because you
Use atavisms
Breath
Talk to her in such a way, that she could feel your breath on her neck (the
neck gives you great opportunities to escalate the touch in a group. You can, in a way,
teleport yourself to the level of sexual contact with her thanks to the neck).
Remember that you have to be careful: don't pant like a horse. It's enough if you exhale
the air naturally during a conversation. If you want to caress her in a more advanced way,
you should put your mouth to her skin but leave some open space. Then, if you suck the
air, you'll create an impression of a pleasurable chill.
I won't give you any routines. I don't use NLS (neurolinguistic seduction), I
didn't even try to study this method of seduction. It's not that I think it's evil or not
working I simply find it unnecessary. I bet that evertbody who uses NLS would stop
doing it, if he could seduce women with the touch.
Do you prefer to talk to her for half an hour , or to pull her hair to turn her on? Style
(Neil Strauss).
I like to tell women what I want to do with them, but I do it naturally, without following
Intimacy
Treat intimacy as your ally. The faster a woman gets used to you and your
touch the better. It is why I always say that the right touch makes the best method of
seduction. Sit or stand next to her, so that your bodies are touching each other.
Choose places that enable you to do it, for example cafes, As soon as you
choose the right place - where you and her are isolated from the rest of the people - sit
IV.10 Forget about What will she think about me? What if she takes her arm?
What if ...(you can put other excuses here)?
Are these thoughts helpful or not? Thinking about problems causes problems.
Thinking about solutions brings solutions. Thinking about all these things will influence
your subcommunication, and the woman will feel that you want to touch her but you're
afraid to do it.
Do you think I care if she finds me attractive, or what she thinks about me? Not
at all. I don't give a damn.
Remember you're a man, not a therapist. Stop trying to make women happy
if they don't want to. Some of them have some inner problems, or bad assumptions, and
their reactions to to the touch are bad. Some women don't make good girlfriends, good
lovers, or good friends. You should be glad if you identify such type right in the beginning.
Get rid of her as fast as possible. Your emotional energy will avoid being consumed by her
black hole. Think about it if she doesn't like to be touched, she's probably hopeless in
bed.
Women are not stupid. Some pretend to be, but generally, they are not. They
know exactly what your up to, so if you are honest, you get rid of those who have
different view of your relationship right in the beginning. It all saves your time!
Truth is such a powerful weapon. The day I decided to be completely honest
some really extraordinary things started happening. If you're honest the wise shit you
want to sell her doesn't matter any more. Who you are becomes important. Real you is
the basis for everything.
A confident guy who doesn't hesitate to touch usually surprises women. They often react
The following article will help you deal with women's tests and doubts.
My experience with women made me draw a conclusion presented here.
There was one situation which really made me think that way.
In one of the places I applied for job, there was a woman who was 4 years older than me.
She wanted to teach me the job, but she was a bit annoying when doing that. When I got
a bit nervous I said - I'll handle it (thinking fuck off). She got angry and cut me off with
her body language. After a few months she told me that she thought Ok, you dick but
she felt strong sexual attraction to me.
As we dated she showed she's a hard one giving me shit tests all the time (I
have sex every time I want blah bla bla ). I responded by looking at her like a little baby
waiting for the show to end. I didn't like her behaviour I think my time is valuable.
There was a punishment I ignored her for three months I didn't even respond to text
messages containing sex propositions. When we met after 3 months she was humble like
a little lamb. She invited me to her place and we spent 3 nights in a row having sex.
A few examples:
Shit test woman's way of checking if you're really the great kind of guy you appear to
be or you're just an ordinary loser pretending to be one. Her test may be perceived as an
IOI. If you want to buy shoes, you have to try them on.
Once, when I was qualifying her (checking if a woman meets my standards), I said
You're such a daddy's girl. - My daddy's dead she responded. As it turned out later, her
dad was alive, and doing great. It was just a shit test. Her body lanuahe showed that
she's interested in me her pupils widened, she looked at my mouth now and again, but
she also shit tested me.
ASD (anti-slut defence a way of showing she's not easy) If a girl gives the following
question:
- I have never done this, are you a womanizer? She doesn't want to know the number of
women you've slept with, or the pattern you've been practicing all they in front of the
mirror. She only wants to check if you're not one of the guys who will treat her like an
LMR (last minute resistance the last barrier you have to overcome before having sex
she doesn't want to be perceived as easy by you and herself) You're sure that you're
going to have sex but suddenly she says: - We shouldn't (meaning Do something so that
I could have sex with you). Still, her body trembles, she's getting more and more excited,
moist, warm, and soft. If you are honest with a woman, her LMR goes away.
If women talk with one another they concentrate on their feelings concerning
the topic of the conversation. One of them wants to know what the other feels. When
talking about porn, they concentrate on their feelings when watching it not on the
series, labels, or the names of the actors like guys do.
If a man talks to a man he slightly ever asks How do you feel about that?
What did you feel at the moment? When you go to a mechanic you ask him about the cost
of the repair, and when it's going to be ready. You don't care about your mechanic's
emotional attitude to your gears, or what his day was like. You may ask out of politeness,
but you'll soon forget the answer.
If you remember about the main thesis, it will be easier for you to pass all the
shit tests and to make your relationship better. If you get into the woman's emotional
roller-coaster, you'll lose because you'll put yourself in the role of the responding beta
( Beta mail the weaker male a man with low self esteem and social value).
Empathy is ok. The problem begins when you don't see the difference between a self-
esteem and feelings. A woman may cry in the morning, laugh at noon, get angry in the
afternoon, and get excited in the evening. Sometimes the source of her emotions is
situated somewhere else. If you respond to it, pay too much attention to her moods,
subconsciously she may perceive you as a loser, who's easy to play with, and you'll feel
awful about it. The best way to deal with this emotional swing is simply to wait. A hug,
stroke, sweet talking will also do, as long as you separate her feelings from your self
esteem. If you feel that it's your fault, and you should apologize, do it. But do it only
because you feel that it will make your conscience clear. If you do it only because you
Lack of response - it's when you stand firm no matter what. Nothing can destroy your
confidence.
It's the best way to pass all the shit tests. The lesser you do the better. I'll give you a
good example. Thanks to my lack of response I made love to a woman 10 minutes after
meeting her.
It's only a fragment, you'll find the rest in the end of the e-book.
She says:
I'm sure you do it every saturday
Haven't you catch anything? (Feniks: No, I'm a big boy.)
I have a boyfriend, a few actually ( Feniks: Ok + no judging, no emotional
response)
When was the last time you've had sex?
...etc. etc.
I responded mainly by saying Ok or Yes but without hesitating. She was looking in my
eyes all the time, but I kept saying Ok and never looked downwards. I didn't show a tiny
bit of emotion or of being judgemental (for example by saying: how can you have a few
boyfriends?! [I think it was a lie her body language showed it]). The 90% of my
responces was saying yes.
Remember - No matter what she does you stay firm. Don't respond. The less you do the
better.
To make it clear: lack of response doesn't consist only in saying Ok. It's all about being
confident about what you're doing, and where it leads to. You need to behave like a
parent, who remains indifferent to his child's silly behaviour, but keeps carrying out
preestablished plan. To really understand it, is to concentrate on why? it is working, not
how?. As soon as you understand why, you'll stop following other people's advice
blindly. It will enable you to adapt their techniques to your own style. You should always
V. Conclusion
You have just learned all the rules that govern my relations with women. It is thanks to
them that I'm successful. I trust that you won't abuse the knowledge I'm giving you. If
you decide to make use of it, then congratulations. You'll also become successful.
If you have any questions concerning escalating the touch, or you want to
improve your relations with women, or other aspects of your life, feel free to get in touch
with me.
e-mail: feniks.pua@gmail.com
+48 792 485 410
facebook profile: http://pl-pl.facebook.com/FeniksPUA
my polish website: www.feniks-uwodzenie.pl
my english website - soon
Some people say that as soon as a man and a woman kiss for the first time, she knows
what type of relationship they're going to have. Having this in mind, it's reasonable to pay
some attention to the the kiss.
Read this text and learn to be a man whose kisses become something women will dream
about.
I take it for granted that you remember about such basics as keeping mouth
hygiene. In order to protect yourself, and your partner, against any infections it's good to
use some pills killing bacteria in your mouth. Consult your physician and ask him to help
you choose the right ones.
You should also take care of your lips - you may use some special cream that
will protect them from getting dry.
It's better to start kissing her only with your lips (without the toungue). This is
the safer option which enables you to find the way of kissing that will be good for both of
you. There are some women who don't like to have their mouths penetrated with a man's
tongue. There'll be an opportunity for this too;) It's good to relax the muscles in your face
it's easier to adjust to each other.
She kisses the way she wants to be kissed. It's also her way of showing you
how she wants her body to be caressed. Adjust yourself to her. Don't fight her. After a
moment of kissing be able to change the way you're doing it.
If her kisses are very delicate she uses only her lips and sucks yours from
time to time she shows you the way she wants you to touch her body. Copy the way she
touches your body. Kiss her the way she kisses you. This kind of kissing makes it not only
comfortable, but also takes you to another level of desire.
If she kisses you in a very aggressive way uses wet kisses, sucks your
tongue, licks your neck and behind your ear do the same.
I usually kiss her the same way I touch her. I begin with the mouth and the
neck, go to the chest and the belly, then to the inner side of her thighs, and the other way
round.
You have to build up tension, and the last thing you should do is to release it.
The atmosphere will automatically take you to another level.
One of the things I do with my mouth, while I could do it with my hands, is kissing her
erogenous zones the neck, the chest, the inner side of thighs and the other way
round. Start delicately, apply more pressure later on.
As most things in the world the kiss has its own rhythm. Find your and your
partner's common rhythm. Don't worry if you can't do it in the beginning. It can always
get better.
The rhythm of a kiss usually has the character of a sinusoid; up, down, up
down, deep, shallow, deep.
Be careful about the biting. In the beginning you can only try to hold her lower
lip with your teeth.
The saliva. Try to get rid of excessive saliva before the kiss. The are women who like very
wet kisses but you have to check it on your own.
To show you how everything I write about works in practice, I'll tell you a story.
Once, in the club, I got a phone number from an astonishingly beautiful woman without
using any sentence or pattern.
After that I kept escalating the touch, making her hotter and hotter, and thanks to that I
discovered that there are no rules nor limits, and you can do whatever you want;-)
I'm giving you this account for two reasons:
you can see the essence of what I do presently
I applied the same knowledge I give guys during my workshops
Me and Mat are having good time in one of the best clubs in Warsaw. Both of
us perfectly know what's it all about we are aware of the game and of the impression
we make since we said hello to the bouncers and came inside. The moment we're
approaching the bar a waitress stops us and suggests taking a table reserved for
somebody else. They're also aware of the game, and know that some tough competitors
have just arrived. It's a common belief that people come to the club to pay for a chair or
vodka it's nonsense. People come to clubs to pay for social value. Remember that. We
start collecting phone numbers right in the beginning. But it's not our goal today (they are
a bit different...;)
We get a lot of IOIs from the women passing by.
Next to the bar, 2 meters away from our table, there are two girls. One is a
ravishing SHB (super hot babe undoubted 10/10) , the second one is HB8. A whole army
of men approaches them they try to pick them up, buy them drinks. The HB8 starts
dancing on the bar.
Keeping to the rule Be different than any other guy we're ignoring them for now
timing is everything. The HB10 is taking pictures of us, and smiles to us. She tries to
draw our attention to her. But we don't react. Only for now.
Suddenly, our eyes meet. I'm looking at her just the way a male looks at a
female. And the time stops. I smile, I can feel the intense communication we're having on
the subconsciouss level. It is a very basic, primitive level of sexual energy. Her look is
becoming more and more blurred, her pupils widen... as if she was in trance... After a
A few weeks later I was visting one of the more popular portals to watch some videos,
and suddenly I saw her in one of them. She didn't mention she worked as a model.
I went to a club last weekend. I went alone, thinking come what way, I'm open to
everything. I always carry a condom in my pocket (you should always be prepared). I
went there and waited for something interesting to happen. I won't give you details about
everything that happened that night, though things were interesting.
But here's the essence.
To feel the atmosphere of this FR I suggest you listen to Crazy Town's Players. The
whole FR is in the atmosphere of Project Wroclaw. If you're going to come to the next
Project Wroclaw, this account will surely motivate you.
The whole process from meeting a woman to having sex with her lasted no
more than 10 minutes. Quickly, dynamically. No problems.
I took a seat on a bar stool. She was sitting next to me. Attractive woman with
red hair. I look at her, she smiles. I smile. We look at each other. The game has begun.
Feniks: Is my face dirty? Why are you looking at me this way? ;) (smiling, in a relaxed
manner)
Redhead (28): No:)
We had a chit chat that lasted no more than a minute:Do you come here often?, etc
A song she liked began. She took me to the dance floor.
Redhead: Wanna dance?
Feniks: Ok. She took my hand and we went to the dance floor.
It was a sexual dance. I had a hard on right away. Good sign.
If you're afraid of the dance floor, you shouldn't be. You don't need to be a
great dancer.
It's not Dancing with the stars casting. It's ok if you know a few moves and are able to
keep the rhythm, which you can learn.
We danced and kissed for no more than 2 minutes. Then I grabbed her arm,
pressed her against the wall and continued kissing. I put my leg between hers and started
rubbing her crotch in order to stimulate her clitoris.
Redhead: We're not going to fuck today. I'm not that kind of girl (or something of that
sort)
Feniks: Ok, let's do it tomorrow.
Redhead: No. Neither tomorrow.
Feniks: Ok. Let's go to the club nearby.
Redhead: Why?
Feniks: Relax, I won't fuck you there.
Redhead: But my friends are here.
Feniks: You'll be back in a moment.
She kept saying something like I'm sure you do it with every other girl . I admitted why
quarrel?
I took her hand and headed towards another club.
As we were walking, she kept addressing me using my name, but I can't remember hers. I
must have missed it while she introduced to me.
On our way to the club I press her against the wall, kiss her, rub her pants so
as to stimulate her clit. I tell her she's a great kisser (She: I like it the hard way). I really
admired her.
It's important that you express your admiration in such situations sexual abilities are
very important survival skills so if you complement her on them, she will open faster than
she would if you marvelled at her favourite colour, or iberoamerican literature. Badboy has
a nice saying: If you teach a girl to do a good blowjob, you also teach her some very
important survival skill. ( I heard it during his workshop in Croatia).
We enter another club. It's crowded. We spent no more than 30 seconds on the
I responded mainly by saying Ok or Yes but without hesitating. She was looking in my
eyes all the time, but I kept saying Ok and never looked downwards. I didn't show a tiny
bit of emotion or of being judgemental (for example by saying: how can you have a few
boyfriends?! [I think it was a lie her body language showed it]). The 90% of my
responces was saying yes.
Remember - No matter what she does you stay firm. Don't respond.
Redhead (28): We're not going to fuck.
Feniks: There are many other ways to have good fun.
Then I open the door from the ladies' room. It's a good club it's clean and tidy, the
clients are ok. One of the boxes is locked. A woman stands in another one but she's
leaving. I give her a get out, you know what's it all about look. She understood
everything and politely excused herself. I lock the door. The lock is very solid ( unlike my
game). I press her against the wall. The box is large and spacious as if designed for that
kind of stuff.
As we were leaving the box, both of us sweaty ( at one point we thought that maybe the
lock had stuck), we noticed about 8 girls queueing up.
The look of their faces was priceless. One of them was only able to say uh lala!!!
One last kiss (she appreciated me she said thank you:)) and she disappeard
somewhere in the crowd. I stayed and drank a pineapple juice (very funny...). I was really
exhausted because of her.
It's always better to have too little than too much. I knew that I had to
continue leading and it was up to me to separate us. It should supposed to be a great
adventure not a difficult conversation between two people who had sex few minutes
after they met.
What's more, an interesting thing happened. Usually I'm very tired after sex,
but this time I was full of energy. The interchange between the two of us must have been
perfect. That night I had only 3 hours of sleep but I felt great the next day.
As I went back to the club where I met Redhead we exchanged looks and
smiles with the guy in the cloakroom. He knows what it's all about he saw me with
different women many times.
I tell him I'm going to a different club.
The guy: Another one?;)
Feniks: You know, people should behave in a certain way. Now I cannot go back there
because her friends could understand everything and eat her alive. I want her to feel
comfortable.
The fact that I changed clubs is very important here. SHE didn't have to be afraid of her
friends.
It's simple
It's efficient