PD 11
PD 11
PD 11
Introduction to Emotions
In this activity, we are going to explore and test your emotions. And right after,
tell what was happening when you felt this emotion. Emotions are what you
feel on the inside when things happen. Emotions are also known as feelings.
The skills we use to manage our emotions and react well are part of a
bigger group of emotional skills are part of EQ. Developing all the skills that
make up emotional intelligence takes time and practice.
Improving Your EQ
Emotional intelligence is a combination of several different skills:
Most people feel many different emotions throughout the day. Some
feelings (like surprise) last just a few seconds. Others may stay longer,
creating a mood like happiness or sadness. Being able to notice and
accurately label these everyday feelings is the most basic of all the EQ skills.
Being aware of emotions — simply noticing them as we feel them — helps us
manage our own emotions. It also helps us understand how other people feel.
But some people might go through the entire day without really noticing their
emotions. Practice recognizing emotions as you feel them. Label them in your
mind (for example, by saying to yourself "I feel grateful," "I feel frustrated,"
etc.). Make it a daily habit to be aware of your emotions.
We can all work to build even stronger emotional intelligence skills just
by recognizing what we feel, understanding how we got there, understanding
how others feel and why, and putting our emotions into heartfelt words when
we need to (KidsHealth Behavioral Health Experts, n.d.).
TYPES OF RESPONSES
1. Personal Competence
2. Social Competence
They know they can choose the way they react instead of letting
emotions influence them to do or say things they later regret.
They have a sense of when it's best to speak out — and when it's better
to wait before acting on or reacting to, what they feel.
They know that their reaction influences what happens next — including
how other people respond to them and how they feel about themselves.
Maybe you can think of a time when you didn't manage your reaction.
Perhaps anxiety, anger, or frustration got the better of you. It happens. When
it does, forgive yourself and focus on what you could have done better. Think
about what you might do next time.
Imagine this situation: Your friends have received proposals (or college
acceptances, team places, etc.). But you haven't. Once you identify,
understand, and accept how you feel, how might you react?
1. Look unhappy when you're around your friends, hoping they'll ask you
what's wrong.
2. Gossip about people who already have dates and say you don't even
want to go to the stupid dance.
3. Confide in a friend, ‘I feel bad about not getting asked yet. But I can still
go with friends.’
4. Remind yourself that it's not the end of the world. Decide to give it time
and not let it ruin your day.
Consider each choice and think about what might happen next for
each one. Which reaction would lead to the best outcome? We always have a
choice about how to react to situations. Once we realize that, it's easier to
make choices that work out well.
Learning to react well takes practice. But we all can get better at
taking emotional situations in stride and expressing emotions in healthy ways.
And that's something to feel good about! (KidsHealth, n.d.).
A young man had only a limited amount of beer in his fridge. His
best friend came round to visit. During their conversation, he told his friend not
to drink his last beer. Later he found his friend had drunk it.
Better career
Stronger Personal Relationships
Increased optimism and confidence
Better health