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She first began her study of Islaam about 18 years ago under Shaykh Dr
Muhammad Salah (of Mishkah University and Huda TV fame).
She was blessed to study directly under him and gain from his immense
knowledge for several years, including the science of Tajweed and
Arabic.
Ustaadhah Asma has been teaching and holding weekly halaqas for
sisters in various masaajid in English and Urdu, on the aqeedah of Ahle
Sunnah wal Jama'ah based on the Qur'aan and authentic Sunnah.
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Currently she is teaching the explanation of "The Forty Hadeeth of
Imam an-Nawawi" at two of the masaajid in her area.
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ahaadeeth, upon the practice and understanding of the Noble
Sahaabah.
She also teaches classes for younger sisters of the preteen and teen age
group in English.
May Allaah forgive us and accept from us. May He gather us all
together under His Shade on that Day with the people who love each
other for His sake. Ameen.
Wassalaamu Alaikum
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Word from the Author
ried to use simple language for every one of us to understand and I hope
that this ebook will reach far and wide and be a source of motivation and
inspiration for all of us and a means to attain the Pleasure of Allaah
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Table of Contents
Taraaweeh
7. Taraaweeh and its Issues . 66
8. Any difference between Qiyaam al-Layl, Tahajjud and Taraaweeh . 82
9. Praying Taraaweeh at Home 85
10. Is Taraaweeh Bid'ah .. 93
11. Can I hold the Qur'aan (Mus-haf) while praying Taraaweeh BEHIND an
IMAAM 96
12. Can I read directly from the Mus-
Taraaweeh or Tahajjud or any other Nafl on my own 99
13. Want to get the reward of praying the ENTIRE NIGHT .102
14. Is Taraaweeh 8 or 20 rak'aat 107
15. Is it permissible for my young son to lead us in the fardh prayer ..112
36. Is it better for women to pray Taraaweeh in the masjid or at home 198
37. Can a Woman lead Other Women in prayer
38. Is your Fasting COMPLETE 206
39. How to benefit in Ramadan even during Menses 15
. 231
41. Fasting and Feminine Issues 236
42. Is it allowed to take the "Ramadhaan pill" to delay your menses 243
43. If I am pregnant or nursing, do I have to fast in Ramadhaan 246
because of pregnancy or breastfeeding, should I makeup the
fast only OR feed a poor person only OR both 250
45.I did not make up any of my Fardh fasts that I missed during menses, from previous years
Should I make them up now 254
Beyond Ramadhaan
59. Eid Salaah 28
60. Mistakes related to Eid Al Fitr 34
61. The Annual Muslim Fashion Show called Eid Prayer
62. What to do if Eid falls on a Friday 351
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64. The SIX fasts of Shawwaal and related issues 56
Preparing for an Amazing Ramadhaan
by Asma Bint Shameem
Imagine.
Someone really, really important is coming to visit you. Surely, you
would cook, clean, shop, prepare and plan everything for them, well
ahead of time. You would make sure they are comfortable and well
taken care of.
You would ascertain that everything is perfectly ready and adequately
in place before they arrive.
Now imagine someone coming to visit you that is even more important
than that....more precious, more valuable, more honorable. Wouldn't
you prepare even more and give it the best you got?
Well, the best month of the year, the most blessed and most precious,
is coming up.
The month that brings the fragrance of Jannah and the sweetness of
Imaan....the tears of Taubah and the forgiveness of your Lord....
Wouldn't you want to be ready for it with all your heart and soul so that
you don't miss this great opportunity?
They say the more prepared you are for something, the easier it is for
you to handle it and the greater the chances that you will be successful
at it.
So what to do?
1. Mental Preparation
RACE with one another and compete with each other for it!
Come on!
Be excited. Be energized. Get electrified!
Get all pumped up and feel vitalized.
After all, this is a time when the gates of Jannah are all open. W..I..D..E
open...
And all the gates of Jahannum are closed.
And here is a chance for you to get all your sins forgiven.
It is only the Shaytaan trying to play with your mind and spoil this
wonderful time for you.
You are going to fast because it is the ORDER of Allaah and NOT
because it is culture or your family does so, or even because you want
to lose weight.
"O you who believe, fasting has been prescribed for you as it has been
prescribed for people before you so that you will (learn how to) attain
Taqwa" [al-Baqarah, 2:183]
3. The Qur'aan and You
Have full intention from now, to read as much of the Qur'aan as you
can.
LOVE the Qur'aan. Build a close relationship with it. Realize that these
are the Words of your Lord....Words that will take you to Jannah, your
Ultimate Goal.
Rather, take your time to ponder over the words and understand the
meanings.
4. Lots of Sujood
Realize that this is most HONORABLE position for you...placing the thing
you value most, your head, on the ground, humbled before your
Creator.
You are the slave and He is the Ultimate Master.
You are the 'abd and He is your Owner.
6. True repentance
In the darkness of the night, when the whole world is asleep, have full
realization, that this is no ordinary time, no time to waste away
sleeping.
Remember, you are not a good Muslim just during a special month of
the year. Rather you are a Muslim THROUGHOUT the three hundred
and sixty five days.
Use the upcoming month of taqwa and training to coach and develop
your nafs, to cultivate virtuous deeds and actions and to give up your
bad ones.
Tell me, are you going to let all that hard work of fasting, waking up in
the middle of the night, reading all that Qur'aan, standing up for
Taraaweeh and prayers, and all that dua go to waste???
Other tips:
1. Make a schedule or time-table for all your activities during
Ramadhaan and write it down.
Allocate specific times for reading Qur'aan, waking up for tahajjud,
cooking, sleeping, etc and stick to it.
You will find you have much more time at hand now that you are
organized about your activities.
2. Get to know the rules of fasting from NOW, so that your fasting can
be closest to the Sunnah and thus be more beloved and acceptable to
Allaah.
3. CLARIFY any doubts that you may have and don't be afraid to ask a
scholar.
4. CLEANSE your heart of any anger, hatred, grudges, etc from now.
And forgive EVERYONE.
That's because forgiveness is delayed for the one who has anger and
grudge against his Muslim brother/sister.
6. If you are like most people who give their zakat during Ramadhaan,
get it all calculated and worked out BEFORE the month starts.
Conclusion
May Allaah enable us to make this our best Ramadhaan, one that is
accepted by Him and He is pleased with. Ameen.
but smile at the happiness and excitement that I felt as a kid trying to
sight the new moon, perching on tiptoes, competing with my brother to
spot it before he could!
I also remember the joy, simply at the anticipation of sighting the new
tomorrow???
Sighting the moon was such a sweet joyful experience and it was part of
the whole spirit of Ramadhaan.
It only added to the sacred beauty and sanctity of the blessed month,
and to our Ibaadah and submission to Allaah.
And now, many years later, as another Ramadhaan approaches us, I
look forward to another chance to look for the moon, this time with my
kids, teaching them the importance of this Sunnah, sharing with them
crescent that brings glad tidings of a blessed month full of mercy and
barakah.
Yet nowadays, people have abandoned this beautiful Sunnah and have
resorted to calculations, without even attempting to sight the moon.
They just sit at home, rely on a calendar and start their fasting based on
calculations.
They forget that, to search for the new moon is an ACT OF IBAADAH
and a means of EARNING REWARD from Allaah.
He said:
whoever among you SIGHTS (the crescent on the first night of) the
-
Baqarah 2:185]
Here Allaah uses the word which means to SEE something with the
EYE.
We need to realize that the month of Ramadhaan does NOT BEGIN with
the 'BIRTH' of the moon.
It does not even begin when it becomes 'possible' to sight the moon.
The month of Ramadhaan, begins according to the Sunnah of the
Messenger of Allah (sallAllahu alayhi wasallam), with the actual
SIGHTING of the moon.
days of
He is clearly telling us to start and stop fasting when we sight the moon
and then he's saying something really important.
He's telling us "if it is concealed by clouds".
That means that he is well aware of the fact that the moon might be
behind the clouds.
So it is 'born'.
It is there behind the clouds.
It is present.
Yet if we cannot SEE it, we are not supposed to start fasting, even if it is
there behind the clouds.
"The Prophet (sal Allaahu alayhi wa sallam) used to count the days in
Fadl said:
Yet there are people who resort to calculating the beginning or end of
an Islaamic month.
He knew that there will come a time when it would be easy to calculate
the birth of the moon.
Yet, in spite of that, He ordered us with His Infinite Knowledge and
Wisdom, to 'see' the new moon and He instructed His Messenger (sal
Allaahu alayhi wa sallam) to teach his Ummah the same.
Argument:
Now someone might say that at the time of the Prophet (sal Allaahu
alayhi wa sallam) there were no calculations, but now that we do,
what's the harm in it?
But the fact of the matter is that astronomical calculations DID exist at
the time of the Prophet (sal Allaahu alayhi wa sallam) and even way
before that.
Astronomy and its calculations have been around for literally thousands
of years before the Prophet (sal Allaahu alayhi wa sallam)'s time, some
even say as early as around 2000 BC.
"It is a basic fact of Islaam that we must SIGHT the crescent moon with
There are many texts from the Prophet which indicate that, and the
Muslims are unanimously agreed on that.
"The Council has studied the issue of proving the new moon by means
and they have studied the comments of the scholars on this matter.
They have decided UNANIMOUSLY that astronomical calculations carry
no weight in determining the new moon with regard to Islamic matters,
The majority of scholars are of the view that sighting the new moon of
Ramadhaan on the first night of the month is a Fardh Kifaayah
(communal obligation).
This means that if everyone abandons 'looking' for the moon, then we
are all sinful.
"It is obligatory to witness the new moon for establishing certain acts of
worship. If these acts are obligatory, such as fasting Ramadhaan and
Hajj, then witnessing the new moon also becomes obligatory on at least
a part of the Muslim Ummah (Fardh Kifaayah).
The Sunnah Dua upon seeing the new moon:
The Prophet (sallAllahu alayhi wasallam) even taught us the dua to read
when we see the new moon.
- - -salaamah
-islaam. Rabbiy wa rabbuka Allaah
(O Allaah, make the new moon rise on us with blessing, faith, safety and
-Tirmidhi - saheeh by al-
Albaani)
So make an effort to sight the Ramadhaan moon with full attention and
eagerness and say this prayer on sighting it.
RAMADHAAN SERIES
Ramadhaan is Here
by Asma bint Shameem
Ramadhaan...
A Step CLOSER...
Something HIGHER...
RAMADHAAN SERIES
Some Common Mistakes in Ramadhaan
By Asma Bint Shameem
For many of us Ramadhaan has lost its spirituality and has become
more of a ritual than a form of Ibaadah.
We forget that it's a time to purify our hearts and our souls from all
evil....we forget to make dua, forget to beseech Allaah to forgive us and
ask Him to save us from the Fire of Hell.
Sure we stay away from food and drink but that's about all.
"Jibreel said to me, 'May Allaah rub his nose in the dust, that person to
who Ramadhaan comes and his sins are not forgiven,' and I said,
'Ameen'...." (Tirmidhi, Ahmad, others. Saheeh by al-Albaani)
2. Too much stress on food and drink
They spend the entire day planning, cooking, shopping and thinking
about only food, instead of concentrating on Salaah, Qur'aan and other
acts of worship.
All they can think of is food; so much so that they turn the month of
'fasting' into the month of 'feasting'!
Come Iftaar time, their table is a sight to see, with the multitudes and
varieties of food, sweets and drinks.
They are missing the very purpose of fasting, and thus, INCREASE in
their greed and desires instead of learning to CONTROL them.
And how can you do that if you spend all your time in the kitchen
cooking?
Some people stuff themselves at Suhoor until they are ready to burst,
because they think this way, they will not feel hungry during the day.
"The son of Adam does not fill any vessel worse than his stomach; for
the son of Adam a few mouthfuls are sufficient to keep his back
straight.
If you must fill it, then, keep one-third for food, one-third for drink and
one-third for air." (Tirmidhi, Ibn Maajah. Saheeh by al-Albaani).
"Does a man find any softness and humility in his heart when he is
FULL?"
He said,
"I do not think so."
These people are also missing the very PURPOSE of fasting and just
falling prey to laziness and lethargy.
6. Wasting TIME
The month of Ramadhaan is a precious, precious time, so much so that
Allaah calls this month "Ayyaamum Ma'doodaat" (A fixed number of
days) (Surah Baqarah: 184).
Before we know it, this month of mercy and forgiveness will be over.
However, there are some of us who waste away their day playing video
games, or worse still, watching TV, movies or even listening to music.
"Whoever does not give up false speech and acting upon it, and
ignorance, Allaah has no need of him giving up his food and drink." (al-
Bukhaari)
Allaah says:
"He allows them as lawful At Tayyibaat (all good and lawful things), and
prohibits them as unlawful Al Khabaa'ith (all evil and unlawful things)."
[al-A'raaf :157]
Smoking is harmful, not only to the one smoking, but also to the ones
around him.
-Ibn 'Uthaymeen)
9. Skipping Suhoor
Some of us are too lazy or sleepy to eat Suhoor or just don't think it's
important.
Even if you don't feel like having a lot of food, just eat something little;
a few dates, even a glass of water.
That's because of the following hadeeth.
"The thing that differentiates between our fasting and the fasting of the
People of the Book is eating suhoor."
(Muslim)
Besides, ANGELS PRAY for the ones who eat suhoor as the Prophet sal
Allaahu Alayhi wa sallam said in an authentic hadeeth.
Some people stop eating Suhoor 10-15 minutes earlier than the time of
Fajr to observe 'Imsaak'.
They think they cannot eat beyond that time and that it would be
wrong if they did.
And the Prophet (Sal Allaahu Alayhi wa sallam) said: "....eat and
drink until you hear the adhaan of Ibn Umm Maktoom, for he does not
give the adhaan until dawn comes." (al-Bukhaari)
Sometimes, our alarm doesn't go off on time and we miss the time for
eating, just barely waking up with the adhaan. I'm sure this has
happened to all of us one time or another.
In this situation, there are some people who are too scared to fast if
they miss Suhoor.
They think they will feel too weak during the day or that, by default,
missing Suhoor automatically means NO fast that day.
But, if you think about it, unless a person has a genuine health problem,
it is not such a big deal after all.
It is not prescribed by the Shari'ah for us to say out loud, "I intend to
fast", "I will fast tomorrow" etc as some people do.
Whatever 'dua' or SPECIFIC WORDS that you may see on some papers
or Ramadhaan calendars, etc. as something you HAVE to say at the
beginning of fasting is NOT proven from the authentic Sunnah and so
falls under Bid'ah.
"The people will continue to do well so long as they hasten to break the
fast."
(Bukhaari, Muslim)
So, determine to the BEST of your ability, the accuracy of your clock,
calendar, etc. and then have tawakkul on Allaah and break your fast
exactly on time.
The Sunnah of the Prophet (Sal Allaahu Alayhi wa sallam) was that once
he broke his fast with some dates, them he would hasten to the prayer.
Once you are done with the prayer, you can always go back and eat
some more if you wish.
"Three prayers are NOT REJECTED: the prayer of a parent, the prayer of
a fasting person, and the prayer of a traveler." (al-Bayhaqi, saheeh by
al-Albaani).
Instead of sitting down and making Dua at this precious time, some
people forego this beautiful chance, and are too busy frying 'samosas',
talking, setting the food, filling their plates and pouring drinks into their
glasses and they lose this golden opportunity.
Is food more important than the chance to have your sins forgiven or
the fulfillment of your Duas?
REALIZE that the fasting of one who does not pray WILL NOT BE
ACCEPTED.
-
Bukhaari)
You can do your studying and revision at night if it is too hard to do that
during the day.
Besides, if you will fulfil your obligation to fast, even if you have to
study, Allaah will make it easy for you and help you in everything you
do.
Allaah says:
"Whosoever fears Allah, He will appoint for him a way out and provide
for him from where he does not expect, Allah is Sufficient for
whosoever puts his trust in Him." (Surah at-Talaaq 2-3)
Sure, there are always added benefits of obeying Allaah, one of them
being, losing weight while fasting.
That comes in automatically, so reap the benefits but don't make it part
of your intention.
If the side benefits come, they come. If they don't, that shouldn't stop
you from obeying Allaah and fulfilling your duty.
Some people pray ONLY on the 27th to seek Lailat ul-Qadr, neglecting
all other odd nights, although the Prophet (Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa
Sallam) said:
"SEEK Lailat ul-Qadr among the odd numbered nights of the last ten
nights of Ramadhaan." (Bukhaari, Muslim).
"When the (last) ten nights began, the Messenger of Allaah (Sal Allaahu
Alaiyhi wa Sallam)) would tighten his waist-wrapper (i.e., strive hard in
worship or refrain from intimacy with his wives), stay awake at night
and wake his family."
(al-Bukhaari, Muslim).
Solution: Get all your Eid shopping and preparation done BEFORE
Ramadhaan starts.
Although inviting each other for breaking fast is something good and
encouraged, some people go to extremes with lavish 'Iftaar parties'
with all sorts of disobedience to Allaah, from flirting and mixing of the
sexes, to show-off and extravagance, to heedlessness to Salaah and
Taraaweeh, to even music and dancing.
May Allaah protect us. Ameen.
RAMADHAAN SERIES
Is it true that the month of Ramadhaan is divided into
ANSWER
limitless.
And as for making specific duaas during this time, we CAN NOT limit a
certain time or place or number or manner to a certain act of ibaadah
into three parts
Prophet sal Allaahu Alayhi wa sallam EVER SAID THAT or DID THAT or
EVER APPROVED of that.
-
Tirmidhi - saheeh by al-Albaani).
He said:
Say:
"
So go ahead and make all the Duaas you want in this month,
THROUGHOUT this blessed month, without limiting or restricting it to
Remember, with Allaah lie the TREASURES of the Heavens and Earth.
His Bounties are PLENTY...
His Mercy...LIMITLESS...
His Forgiveness...
UNSURMOUNTABLE...
RAMADHAAN SERIES
FALSE HADEETH WARNING
By Asma bint Shameem
The so-
something with the Prophet sal Allaahu Alayhi wa sallam that he did
not say
A PLACE IN HELL-FIRE!
The Messenger of Allaah Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa sallam said:
-Bukhaari)
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For what?
Subhaan Allaah how Shaytaan plays with our minds and makes us blind
to the simplest and most logical of things...
This prayer is a perfect chance to have our sins forgiven and earn the pleasure of Allaah.
But there are some issues or points associated with this beautiful prayer that may need some
clarification.
1. What is Taraaweeh?
Taraaweeh is the prayer that is prayed in Ramadhaan at night after praying Ishaa'. It is a confirmed
Sunnah of the Prophet (Sal Allaahu Alayhi wa sallam) and a regularly established practiced of the
Sahaabah.
It is called 'Taraaweeh' because the Sahaabah used to make their prayers very long in Ramadhaan, eager
to please Allaah and do their best to earn Jannah.
And when they got tired, they would rest (istaraahu) after every two or four rak'ahs.
"Whoever prays qiyaam (Taraaweeh) in Ramadhaan out of faith and in the hope of reward, all his
previous sins will be forgiven."
(al-Bukhaari, Muslim)
Al-Haafiz Ibn Rajab said:
"Note that in the month of Ramadhaan the believer engages in jihad al-nafs on two fronts: during the
day by fasting and during the night by praying qiyaam. Whoever combines these two types of jihad will
be given reward without limit."
People are very keen to read the Taraaweeh prayer, which is very good, of course.
But the problem arises if we give things more importance than what Allaah places on it.
Some people will give so much importance to Taraaweeh that they make it even more important than
the Ishaa' prayer.
And come Ramadhaan, they will come every single day to the masjid, even if they are tired, even if it is
late.
Or they may even be regular in their daily prayers in Ramadhaan but after Ramadhaan is over, they stop
praying altogether, although they are very, very regular and very keen to pray Taraaweeh.
Now, please don't get me wrong.
It becomes an issue when Taraaweeh takes precedence and greater importance than Fardh prayers.
Remember that Taraaweeh prayer is MUSTAHABB, and recommended while Ishaa prayer is FARDH.
The questioning will be about the Faraidh, the obligations, NOT the voluntary or nawaafil Ibaadaat.
Indeed, Taraaweeh is one of the greatest acts of worship by means of which we can come closer to
Allaah, our Lord, beg Him for forgiveness and hope for His Mercy, all the while earning immense reward
from Him.
Yet, some people don't understand the virtues of this beautiful prayer and have a very casual attitude
towards it.
They either just sit at home doing nothing, although they are awake, or they spend their time at the
gym, or shopping, eating, playing, watching TV or movies, etc. and miss out on this golden chance.
And although, we will not be sinful if we don't pray Taraaweeh, what a waste of abeautiful opportunity!
He's showering us with blessings upon blessings...mercy upon mercy....forgiveness upon forgiveness!
And we just sit at home and let this chance of a lifetime pass by?
That's because the Prophet (Sal Allaahu Alayhi wa sallam) led the people in the masjid to pray
Taraaweeh for three consecutive nights, as was narrated in Saheeh Bukhaari by Aaishah Radhi Allaahu
anha.
Also that was the practice of Umar Radhi Allaahu anhu and the other Sahaabah because the Prophet (Sal
Allaahu Alayhi wa sallam) said:
"Whoever prays qiyaam with the imam until he leaves, it will be as if he spent the whole night in
prayer."
"Do you prefer a man to pray with the people in Ramadhaan or on his own?
He said:
If some people cannot go to the masjid for some reason, they miss the Taraaweeh prayers all together
thinking that it can only be prayed in the masjid.
Although it is better for them to pray it in the masjid, it is also allowed to pray Taraaweeh at home.
So don't miss out on this wonderful opportunity, thinking that you cannot pray this virtuous prayer at
home.
6. Oh no! I missed Ishaa and they're praying Taraaweeh! What should I do?
Sometimes you may get to the masjid late for whatever reason, and the Ishaa prayer has already
finished. The Imaam is praying Taraaweeh, but you have not yet prayed 'Ishaa.
So what to do?
Don't be the like the ones who go to the back, quickly read four fast Rakaat Ishaa', separate from the
rest of the congregation while they are praying Taraaweeh and then quickly join the congregation.
That is against the etiquette of prayer, and there's no khushoo' in your fardh prayer.
Solution:
Since the Taraaweeh prayer is read ONLY after you're done with Ishaa' so what you can do is to join the
congregation and pray with them. However, you make the intention for your Ishaa prayer while they are
praying with the intention of Taraaweeh.
Then, when the Imaam finishes and says salaam after two rakaat, you don't say salaam; rather you stand
up and complete the rest of your Ishaa prayer. It is perfectly OKAY for you to have a different intention
and the Imaam has a different intention.
"There is nothing wrong with his praying with them with the intention of praying 'Isha', according to the
more correct of the two scholarly views. When the imam says the tasleem he should stand up and
complete his prayer. It was proven in Saheeh al-Bukhaari and Muslimfrom Mu'aadh ibn Jabal that he
used to pray 'Isha', then he would go back to his people and lead them in 'Isha' prayer, and the Prophet
(peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) did not denounce that. This indicates that it is permissible
to offer a fard prayer behind someone who is praying a naafil prayer."
Some people leave the congregation before the Imaam is finished because of various reasons. It could
be that they want to pray more Nawaafil once they go home or they think that one shouldn't be praying
more than eight rakaat (if the Imaam is reading more than that) or because they want to pray witr just
before suhoor, etc.
But in doing so, they miss out on the reward of praying the whole night.
"Whoever prays with the imam until he finishes, Allaah will record for him as if he spent the whole night
in prayer" (al-Tirmidhi--saheeh by al-Albaani)
So whoever finishes with the Imaam will have the reward of spending the whole night in prayer, even if
you go home and sleep! Subhaan Allaah!
And whoever left early, will only get the reward of whatever he prayed.
He replied: "The Sunnah is to complete the prayer with the imam, even if he prays twenty-three rak
'ahs, because the Messenger Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa Sallam
said:
"Whoever stands (in prayer) with the imam until he finishes, Allah will record for him (the reward of)
spending a night in prayer."
It is better for one who is praying behind an imam to stay with him until he finishes, whether he prays
eleven rak'ahs or thirteen or twenty three or whatever.
And Imam Ahmad used to pray with the imam and not leave until he finished, acting in accordance
with the hadeeth.
If there are two or more Imaams leading Taraaweeh in the masjid, then Taraaweeh prayer is the prayer
of all the imaams.
So if you want to attain the reward of spending the whole night in prayer, then do not leave until all the
imaams have completed his prayer.
Try and do your best to stay till the Imaam finishes so that you can get the reward of praying the whole
night.
However, it happens that sometimes we just have to leave even if we so desperately want to stay till the
end.
And this may be because of very valid reasons such as work, school, kids, health reasons, etc.
In this situation, stay as much as you can and pray whatever Allaah enables you to.
Allaah says:
Praying even two rakaat with the Imaam is much better than not praying at all.
And of course, Allaah is well aware of your situation and your niyyah.
"Maybe a small action is made great by its intention, and maybe a great action is made small by its
intention."
10. I want to finish with the Imaam but I want to delay my Witr
There are many well-known ahaadeeth which encourage us to delay our Witr, and to make it the last
prayer.
"Night prayers are two by two, and when you feel that dawn is approaching, pray one rak'ah." (Bukhaari,
Muslim)
So you want to follow the hadeeth and make Witr your last prayer of the night but you also want to get
the reward of praying the whole night when you finish with the Imaam.
When the Imaam stands up for Witr, you stand up with him and join him in the prayer. However, you
make your intention to pray more rakaat for taraaweeh, although the Imaam will have the intention of
praying witr. Then when the Imaam says salaam, you dont say salaam; rather you stand up and add a
rakah to the Witr and make it an even number. This way you finish with the Imaam and you can then go
home and pray as much Tahajjud as you want before Suhoor and then pray your witr so as to make it
your last prayer of the night.
"When some people pray Witr with the imam and the imam says the salaam, they stand up and do
another rak'ah so that their Witr will be at the end of the night.
He replied:
There is nothing wrong with that, and that does not mean that he did not stay with the imam, rather he
If you have prayed Witr with the Imaam, it is not allowed to pray Witr again at night later on.
If I have prayed Witr at the beginning of the night, then I get up to pray qiyaam at the end of the night,
how should I pray?
He replied:
If you have prayed Witr at the beginning of the night then Allaah enables you to get up at the end of the
night, then pray whatever you can two by two - without Witr, because the Prophet (sal Allaahu alaiyhi
wa sallam) said:
"There cannot be no two Witrs in one night." (al-Tirmidhi-- saheeh by al-Albaani) (Majmoo' Fataawa Ibn
Baaz)
Indeed, the Prophet (sal Allaahu Alayhi wa sallam) told us to make the Witr our last prayer of the night,
However, this command is in the sense of it being mustahabb and preferable, not in the sense of it being
obligatory and compulsory.
Proof:
When Aa'ishah Radhi Allaahu anha was asked about the Witr of the Prophet (sal Allaahu Alayhi wa
sallam) she described the way he (sal Allaahu Alayhi wa sallam)prayed and then she said: ".... then he
would pray two rak'ahs after that, whilst sitting down."
(Muslim)
Al-Nawawi said:
"The correct view is that he (sal Allaahu Alayhi wa sallam) performed these two rak'ahs after Witr sitting
down, to demonstrate that it is permissible to pray after Witr, and to demonstrate that it is permissible
to offer naafil prayers sitting down."
Shaykh Ibn Baaz also said, explaining the reason why the Prophet (sal Allaahu alyahi wa sallam)
prayed two rak'ahs after Witr:
"The reason for that - and Allaah knows best - is to show to the people that it is permissible to pray after
Witr." (Fataawa Islamiyyah)
"Witr at the end of the night is better, but whoever prays Witr at the beginning of the night, that is fine.
It is permissible to pray after Witr but one should not repeat Witr."(al-Muhalla)
So if you want to pray Tahajjud at night, it is permissible for you to pray Witr with the congregation,
then to pray more Nawaafil after that.
It does not have to be only two rakaat and do not repeat Witr.
13. Should I pray 8 or 20?
Some people go to extremes and fight with each other over the number of rakaat in the Taraaweeh
prayer.
They refuse to pray in the masjid that has eight rakaat or twenty rakaat and or just sit in the back if the
Imaam is reading more than eight.
Dear brothers and sisters, there's no need to fight, argue or get angry.
It is perfectly OKAY to read EIGHT rakaat and it is ALSO OKAY to read TWENTY.
Proof:
A man came to the Prophet (Sal Allaahu Alayhi wa sallam) and asked:
"How are the night prayers done? He (Sal Allaahu Alayhi wa sallam) said:
"The night prayers are two by two, then when you fear that dawn is about to break, pray Witr with one
rak'ah."
(al-Bukhaari)
Here we see that the Prophet (Sal Allaahu Alayhi wa sallam) told the man how to do the night prayer but
did not specify the number of rakaat.
Yes, the Prophet (Sal Allaahu Alayhi wa sallam) himself used to pray eight at night but when the man
asked him about it, he did not tell him to pray only eight.
"There is no set number of rak'ahs for qiyaam during Ramadhaan, because the Prophet (Sal Allaahu
Alayhi wa sallam) did not set a number."
e Sahaabah to
pray eleven rak'ahs, and it is also proven that they prayed twenty-three rak'ahs based on his command.
This indicates that the matter is broad in scope and that the matter was flexible according to the
Sahaabah.
That is also indicated by the words of the Prophet (Sal Allaahu Alayhi wa sallam) :"The night prayers are
two by two."
(Majmoo' al-Fataawa)
It is much BETTER and more preferred that one should NOT be reading from the Qur'aan while praying
Taraaweeh, in order to have full concentration and better khushoo' and avoiding excessive movements.
However, IF reading from the Qur'aan while praying Taraaweeh, gives you better UNDERSTANDING of
what the Imaam is reading, (that goes especially for non-Arabic speaking people), and gives you more
KHUSHOO' and concentration, then some Ulama allowed holding the Qur'aan and following the
recitation of the Imaam.
The Taraaweeh prayer is a CONFIRMED SUNNAH of the Prophet (Sal Allaahu alayhi wa sallam) and the
established practice of his Sahaabah.
The Prophet (sal Allaahu alayhi wa sallam) HIMSELF prayed it and led the people as did the Sahaabah,
Tabi'een and the great Ulama of the following generations, following his example.
Proof:
Aa'ishah Radhi Allaahu anha said that the Messenger of Allaah (sal Allaahu alayhi wa sallam) prayed one
night in the masjid, and the people followed him in prayer. Then he prayed the next night, and many
people came. Then they gathered on the third or fourth night, and the Messenger of Allaah (sal Allaahu
alaiyhi wa
"I saw what you did, and nothing kept me from coming out to you except the fact that I FEARED that it
would be made OBLIGATORY for you." And that was in Ramadhaan."
This proves that praying Taraweeh in congregation is prescribed according to the Sunnah of the Prophet
(sal Allaahu alayhi wa sallam), but he (sal Allaahu alayhi wa sallam) refrained from doing it continuously
because he feared that it might become fardh on me and you.
When the Prophet (sal Allaahu alayhi wa sallam) passed away, Umar Radhi Allaahu anhu revived this
Sunnah since this reservation was no longer there, because the Sharee'ah was established and
complete.
When Ali Radhi Allaahu anhu passed by the masaajid in which there were lamps during the month of
Ramadhaan, he said:
''May Allaah illuminate Umar's grave for him as he illuminated our mosques for us." (al-Mughni).
16. Any specific duas to be read in between every two or four rakaat
There is a very common misconception that there are some specific duas (called 'Dua Taraaweeh') to be
read in between the rakaat.
You see people reading it and even some masaajid have overhead projectors that highlight and show
these duas to the people so that they can read them.
And neither the imam nor those praying behind him should read those duas.
That's because acts of worship are 'tawqeefi' which mean that Ibaadah is governed by the principle that
nothing is permitted except that which was prescribed by the Prophet (sal Allaahu alayhi wa sallam).
Constantly doing a particular act of worship at a particular time without any evidence for that from the
H or innovation.
"Whoever does an action that is not part of this matter of ours (Islam) will have it rejected."
(al-Bukhaari, Muslim)
17. Finishing the Qur'aan in Taraaweeh early does NOT mean there's no more Taraaweeh
Some people are under the impression that if they finish the recitation of the Qur'aan early in
Ramadhaan, then there's no more Taraaweeh.
The main goal in Ramadhaan is to stand in qiyaam at night...every single night, read a lot of Qur'aan and
reflect on the ayaat....NOT to quickly finish the Qur'aan from cover to cover whether in five days or ten
days or whatever and then the rest of Ramadhaan, you are 'off' from Taraaweeh!
Reading the Qur'aan in Taraaweeh is not a 'chore' or 'burden' that you get off your head. It is to humble
yourself before Allaah, get yourself away from the dunya and its glamor and bring yourself back to the
reality that one day we have to face our Lord and give account of ourselves.
It is hard to believe that there are masaajid in Pakistan that hold Taraaweeh prayers in the first ten days
of Ramadhaan ONLY.
Why?
So that they are 'done' with Taraaweeh and they don't have to pray this beautiful prayer for the rest of
the nights of Ramadhaan because they 'finished' the Qur'aan.
Now they can do what they want; relax, shop, have fun, go to sleep... basically go back to their 'pre-
Ramadhaan' state!
May Allaah guide us all and enable us to see and realize the real purpose of fasting and qiyaam and
enable us to achieve that. Ameen.
RAMADHAAN SERIE
Any difference between Qiyaam al-Layl, Tahajjud and
Taraaweeh?
by Asma bint Shameem
Qiyaam al-Layl:
Tahajjud:
night.
Taraaweeh:
Taraaweeh is a kind of Night Prayer or Qiyaam al-Layl, that is
-Ishaa.
Thus they would get tired because of standing for so long, and would
Tahaajud, Taraaweeh and Qiyaam al-Layl are ALL pretty much the
SAME prayer except that Qiyaam al-
Nawaafil PLUS other acts of Ibaadah.
Ramadhaan.
RAMADHAAN SERIES
*Praying Taraaweeh at Home*
QUESTION
Taraaweeh as we want.
How?
Book.
se
Or read a bit more than that or a bit less; whatever Allaah enables you
to do.
-obligatory
Salah.
He said:
-
QUESTION
But I heard that too much movement like picking up the Mus-haf or
turning the pages etc, will invalidate the prayer!
Proof:
[al-Bukhaari (1/245)]
Mus-
(al-
Moving the pages and picking up the Mus-haf does NOT invalidate
the prayer.
Proof:
And if the Prophet sal Allaahu Alayhi wa sallam picked up a child and
put her down every time he went into sujood, then that proves that
such movement does NOT invalidate the prayer.
B
movements by opening the Mus-haf to a particular page that he wants
to recite, then place it on a table in front of him.
ead
Conclusion
-haf and
read directly from it.
And benefit from the Book of Allaah.
May Allaah accept our ibaadaat, our duaas, our Taubah. Ameen.
-Bukhaari)
I pray?
When a man asked the Prophet sal Allaahu Alayhi wa sallam about
the night prayer, (in the hadeeth above), he Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa
QUESTION
ANSWER
Proof:
Aa'ishah Radhi Allaahu anha said that the Messenger of Allaah (sal
Allaahu alayhi wa sallam) prayed one night in the masjid, and the
people followed him in prayer.
Then he prayed the next night, and many people came. Then they
gathered on the third or fourth night, and the Messenger of Allaah (sal
Allaahu alaiyhi wasallam) did not come out to them.
The next morning he (sal Allaahu alayhi wa sallam) said: "I saw what
you did, and nothing kept me from coming out to you except the fact
that I feared that it would be made obligatory for you." And that was in
Ramadaan."
(al-Bukhaari and Muslim)
When Ali Radhi Allaahu anhu passed by the masaajid in which there
were lamps during the month of Ramadhaan, he would say:
QUESTION
ANSWER
As for the one who's reading any prayer except the fardh prayer, on
his OWN, it's perfectly fine to look at the Qur'aan and read it while
praying.
And there's no problem in it.
PROOF
Dhakwaan to lead her in praying qiyaam in Ramadhaan, and he used to
read from the Mus-haf (Qur'aan). (al-Bukhaari)
QUESTION
ANSWER
Just because we have not memorized the bigger Suwar (plural of Surah)
How to do that
Just hold the Mus-
something in front of you and read as much of it as you want in each
in the
Or read a bit more than that or a bit less; whatever Allaah enables you
to do.
non-obligatory Salaah.
He said:
-
Shaikh Ibn Baaz said:
May Allaah accept our ibaadaat, our duaas, our Taubah. Ameen.
"Whoever prays with the Imaam until he finishes, Allaah will record for
him as if he spent the whole night in prayer" (al-Tirmidhi--saheeh by al-
Albaani)
So whoever finishes their prayers with the Imaam, they will have the
reward of spending the whole night in prayer, even if they go home and
sleep!
Subhaan Allaah!
And whoever left early, will only get the reward of whatever he prayed.
He replied:
"The Sunnah is to complete the prayer with the Imaam....It is better for
one who is praying behind an imam to stay with him until he finishes,
whether he prays eleven rak'ahs or thirteen or twenty three or
whatever. That is preferable, to follow the imam until he finishes."
(Majmoo' Fataawa Ibn Baaz)
QUESTION
"Night prayers are two by two, and when you feel that dawn is
approaching, pray one rak'ah." (Bukhaari, Muslim)
So you want to follow the hadeeth and make Witr your last prayer of
the night but you also want to get the reward of praying the whole
night when you finish with the Imaam.
When the Imaam stands up to pray Witr, you should also stand up with
him and join him in the prayer.
HOWEVER, at this time you should make your intention to pray MORE
rather you should stand up and ADD a rakah to the Witr and make it an
EVEN number.
This way you finish with the Imaam and you can then go home and pray
as much Tahajjud as you want before Suhoor and then in the end, pray
your witr so as to make it your last prayer of the night.
"When some people pray Witr with the Imaam and the Imaam says the
salaam, they stand up and do another rak'ah so that their Witr will be
at the end of the night. What is the ruling on doing this?
Is it regarded as finishing the prayer with the Imaam?"
He replied:
"We do not know of there being anything wrong with this. The scholars
stated that there is nothing wrong with doing that so that one will pray
Witr at the end of the night. It is still true that he has stood with the
imam until he finishes, because he stayed with him until the imam
finished, then he prayed an extra rak'ah for a legitimate shar'i purpose,
so that his Witr will be at the end of the night. There is nothing wrong
with that, and that does not mean that he did not stay with the imam,
rather he stayed with the imam until he finished, but then he did not
finish with him, rather he delayed a little.
(Majmoo' Fataawa Ibn Baaz)
May Allaah enable us to worship Him sincerely and to the best of our
abilities. Ameen.
RAMADHAAN SERIES
by Asma bint Shameem
They refuse to pray in the masjid that has eight rakaat or twenty rakaat
and or just sit in the back if the Imaam is reading more than eight.
Dear brothers and sisters, there's no need to fight, argue or get angry.
It is perfectly okay to read eight rakaat AND it is ALSO OKAY to read
twenty.
Proof:
A man came to the Prophet (Sal Allaahu Alayhi wa sallam) and asked:
Here we see that the Prophet (Sal Allaahu Alayhi wa sallam) told the
man HOW to do the night prayer but did NOT specify the NUMBER of
rakaat.
Yes, the Prophet (Sal Allaahu Alayhi wa sallam) himself used to pray
eight at night but when the man asked him about it, he did not tell him
to pray only eight.
Rather he left the number up to him.
If it was good to pray only 8, surely he Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa Sallam
would have told the man so.
This shows that the matter is FLEXIBLE and broad in scope.
A person may pray two, twenty or two hundred rakaat if he likes, and
then he can pray Witr.
It is proven that 'Umar Radhi Allaahu anhu told the one whom he
appointed among the Sahaabah to pray eleven rak'ahs, and it is also
proven that they prayed twenty-three rak'ahs based on his command.
This indicates that the matter is broad in scope and that the matter was
flexible according to the Sahaabah. That is also indicated by the words
of the Prophet (Sal Allaahu Alayhi wa sallam) :"The night prayers are
two by two." (Majmoo' al-Fataawa)
It is true that the Prophet sal Allaahu Alayhi wa sallam used to pray not
t in his night prayer but his standing
(while praying) was very long.
read even 36 and some even more) and made the recitation shorter.
Point to ponder:
20, a lot of us also do read some nawwafil for tahajjud before Fajr.
Conclusion:
The night prayer is two by two.
Whether you pray 8 or you pray 20 or you pray as many as Allaah wills,
HEART with which you stand in front of your Rabb, with faith and
hoping for a reward from Him, that matters.
-Bukhaari, Muslim)
ANSWER
Proof:
and it was as
if it took root in my heart.
When Makkah was conquered, then every tribe hastened to embrace
Islaam, and my father urged our tribe to hasten to embrace Islaam.
So they looked for such a person and found none who knew more
Qur'aan than I, because of what I used to learn from the people.
So they made me their Imaam (to lead the prayer) and at that time I
(al-Bukhaari, 4051)
This proves that even a young boy, as little as six or seven years of age
can lead the prayer.
In such cases it would be BETTER for the son to lead the family in prayer
even though he is young under the age of puberty.
heart, train him to lead prayers in the future, and help build confidence
in him.
A woman asked Shaikh Salih al-Munajjid if her young son can lead
her in prayer.
He said:
This indicates that a boy who has reached the age of discernment can
lead the prayers.
If that were not permitted, there would have been Revelation to say
that it was not allowed.
If your son fulfils all the conditions and obligations of the prayer, then
Answer
You see people reading it and even some masaajid have posters and
overhead projectors that highlight and show these duas to the people
so that they can read them.
And all acts of worship are 'tawqeefi' which mean that nothing is
permitted as Ibaadah except that which is prescribed and proven by the
Qur'aan and the Sunnah of the Prophet sal Allaahu alayhi wa sallam.
and his Sahaabah.
But they did NOT say this duaa or ANY OTHER specific duaa in between
The ulama also do not report any such SPECIFIC dhikr or tasbeeh being
said specifically after two or four rakaat of Taraaweeh.
religion is forbidden.
The best of guidance is the guidance of Muhammad Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi
wa Sallam then the four caliphs who came after him, then the
Sahaabah (may Allaah be pleased with them all), and it is NOT narrated
that ANY of the salaf did that, and we should be content with what was
If it was good to say this specific dhikr at this specific time, the Prophet
Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa Sallam surely would have done it himself and
taught his Sahaabah as well.
But he didn't.
And if he Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa Sallam didn't do it, why should we?
"Whoever does an action that is not part of this matter of ours (Islam)
will have it rejected."
(Bukhaari, Muslim).
Taraaweeh....
read Qur'aan some times, or do Istighfaar some times, or send salaams
on the Prophet sal Allaahu Alayhi wa sallam some times....
All goodness lies in following the ways of the Prophet Sal Allaahu
Alaiyhi wa Sallam and his noble Sahaabah.
And Allaah knows best.
RAMADHAAN SERIES
If the Imaam is praying Taraaweeh when I get to the
Masjid, but I have not yet prayed 'Ishaa, what should I
do?
ANSWER
Since the Taraaweeh prayer is read ONLY AFTER you're done with
Ishaa', so what you can do is to JOIN the congregation and pray with
them.
However, you should make the intention for your Ishaa prayer while
the rest of the people are praying with the intention of Taraaweeh.
Then, when the Imaam finishes and says salaam after the two rakaat,
you should not say salaam; rather you should stand up and complete
the rest of your Ishaa prayer.
What NOT to Do
Don't be the like the one who goes to the back, quickly reads four
SUPER FAST Rakaat Ishaa', alone on his own, separate from the rest of
the congregation who are praying Taraaweeh and then after he
finishes, he quickly joins the congregation.
QUESTION
It is perfectly OKAY for you to have a different intention and the Imaam
has a different intention.
PROOF:
-
Allaahu anhu
would pray with the Messenger of Allaah Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa Sallam
(al-Bukhaari, Muslim)
Of course the Prophet sal Allaahu Alayhi wa sallam Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi
prayer behind the Prophet sal Allaahu Alayhi wa sallam and then
leading his people in Ishaa prayer later.
And that counted as Nafl prayer for him.
If it was wrong, surely the Prophet sal Allaahu Alayhi wa sallam would
"There is nothing wrong with his praying with them with the intention
of praying 'Ishaa', according to the more correct of the two scholarly
views.
When the Imaam says the tasleem, he should stand up and complete
his prayer.
It was proven in Saheeh al-Bukhaari and Muslim from Mu'aadh ibn
Jabal that he used to pray 'Isha', then he would go back to his people
and lead them in 'Isha' prayer, and the Prophet Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa
Sallam did not denounce that.
This indicates that it is permissible to offer a fard prayer behind
someone who is praying a naafil prayer."
(Majmoo' Fataawa al-Shaykh Ibn Baaz)
ANSWER
In order for your prayer to count, you have to fulfill the following
conditions
reach his house and he is able to follow the imam by seeing him or
hearing his voice, in which case it is valid.
But if the condition mentioned is not met, it is NOT VALID, because
what is required of the Muslim is to offer the prayer in congregation in
the houses of Allaah with his fellow Muslim, because the Prophet Sal
Allaahu Alaiyhi wa Sallam said:
-Daaraqutni and
al-Haakim)
And because the Prophet Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa Sallam said to the blind
man who asked him whether he could pray in his house:
a radio or TV,
because prayer in congregation means being together in the same
place, so it has to be in one place and the rows should be connected to
one another (i.e. immediately behind one another).
It is NOT PERMISSIBLE to pray via radio or TV because they do not meet
these criteria. If we were to allow that, anyone could pray all five
If praying in your home following the Imaam from far, without actually
being physically present in the masjid was okay, why would the
After all, their houses were right there, next to the masjid.
prayer.
Yet they would actually, physically get out of their houses and GO to
the masjid and join the Imaam for each prayer.
Conclusion:
s not allowed to follow the Imaam in prayer from home.
You must actually, physically, be present at the masjid in order for your
prayer to count.
So, insha Allaah the following points will shed some light on the virtue
and importance of perfecting them.
Anas ibn Maalik said that the Prophet (Sal Allaahu Alayhi wa sallam)
said:
Muslim)
And he said:
Muslim).
(al-Bukhaari)
When the Prophet (Sal Allaahu Alayhi wa sallam) saw a man sticking
out his chest he said,
(al-Bukhaari)
The Prophet (Sal Allaahu Alayhi wa sallam) used to straighten our rows,
as if he was straightening the shaft of an arrow, until he saw that we
had learned it.
Then he came out one day and was about to say the takbeer, when he
noticed a man whose chest was sticking out from the row.
If the congregation does not straighten the rows, then they are
SINNING. This is the apparent meaning of the words of Shaykh al-Islam
-Sharh al-
When Anas ibn Maalik radhi Allaahu anhu came to Madeenah after
the death of the Prophet (Sal Allaahu Alayhi wa sallam), someone asked
him:
"What do you find has changed in us since the time of the Messenger of
Anas radhi Allaahu anhu said:
Foot-to-foot does NOT mean your two feet next to each other as some
people misunderstand..
It means your LEFT foot next to the foot of your neighbor on your LEFT
and your RIGHT foot NEXT to the foot of your neighbor on your RIGHT.
Another part of making the rows complete and perfect is not leaving
any gaps in between.
shoulders in line with one another, and FILL THE GAPS, and do not leave
any room for the Shaytaan.
Whoever joins a row to complete it, Allaah will reward him and
--
Saheeh by al-Albaani)
the shoulders at the top of the body, and the heels at the
bottom of the body.
As for the toes, they do not count, because toes vary; some people
force their neighbor to actually end up standing with his feet close
together in a very uncomfortable way and not be able to stand with his
feet spread at a balanced distance.
b) Also, making the rows compact does NOT mean crowding and
cramming people in, because there is a DIFFERENCE between making it
COMPACT and making it CROWDED.
c) Feet to feet means to gently lay your foot next to your neighbor's
foot.
It DOES NOT mean to jam your foot against your neighbor's foot or
push down, hurt, slam, squish or otherwise abuse your fellow Muslim
praying next to you as some people who take it to the extreme do.
It also does NOT mean that you insist on putting your foot next to his if
he does not want to or he moves away.
Realize that you are disturbing and annoying your Muslim brother and
distracting him from his salah when you do so.
Let this matter not to be a reason of division amongst you. Deal with it
with wisdom, gentleness and love.
At the end of the day, it's about bringing people closer to Allaah and
salaah and NOT push them away.
8) The BEST row for the men is the first row and for the women, the
last is the best.
and the best rows for women are the last rows and the worst are the
This is also part of straightening the rows. The second row should not
be begun until the first row is complete, and the third row should not
begin until the second row, and so on.
-
Bukhaari, Muslim)
nd if there is to be any
- Saheeh
by al-Albaani)
10) The rows should start from BEHIND the imam; NOT from the
extreme right:
The scholars said:
Rather they should start from right behind the imam, then the row
should be completed to both the right and the left, so as to follow the
islam-qa)
the right and the left, not from the farthest point to the right . The
(Al-Lajnah al-
11) Make the rows close to one another and close to the Imaam:
The Sunnah is for the Imaam to be close to the people who are praying
behind him, and the people should be close to the imam, and each row
should be close to the other. The definition of close is that there should
be enough room between them to do sajdah and a little more.
QUESTION
Ramadhaan
ANSWER
highly encouraged.
for us and MORE BELOVED to Allaah that we read maybe LESS of the
Remember:
of being counted.
These are the ayaat where the Prophet sal Allaahu Alayhi wa sallam
made sujood when he read them.
And there are 15 such places
the Shaytaan withdraws, weeping and saying: Woe unto him (in
another narration- Woe unto me) the son of Adam was commanded
to prostrate and he prostrated, so Paradise will be his; I was
say takbeer when going into sajdah as well as when you get back up
movement of
Salah.
No, there no proof of that from the action of the Prophet sal Allaahu
Alayhi wa sallam.
to do sajdat al-
(Al-Lajnah al- -Buhooth al- -
Can I add my own duaa after reading the Tasbeeh for sujood?
) (
"
(al-Bukhaari)
The Sunnah is to do the sajdah when you reach the Aayah which
contains the sajdah of Tilaawah.
dhikr instead?
Saying Subhaan Allaah or some other dhikr instead of the sajdah is not
proven from the practice of the Prophet Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa Sallam
or his Sahaabah.
What if I hear someone ELSE reciting the Aayah with the sajdah of
Tilaawah? Should I do the sajdah?
Shaikh Ibn Baaz said:
just do it ONCE an
again and again.
What happens if the Imaam said Allaahu Akbar and went into
Sajdah at-
realize my mistake until after I heard
Do I have to offer sujood as-Sahw?
If you realize that the Imaam went into sajdah at-Tilaawah although
mistakenly you were in rukoo, obviously you should immediately go
into sajdah as well and follow the Imaam.
stands back up, and you were still in rukoo, all you do is stand back up
gets up from prostration. In that case we say to the person who bowed:
stand up now and follow the imam, and bow with your imam and carry
on, and the prostration of recitation is waived in your case, because the
prostration of recitation is not a pillar or essential part of the prayer
such that you need to do it after your imam, rather you are obliged to
follow your imam. You missed out on following, and it is a Sunnah that
was missed at the proper time, so you should carry on with your
ataawa al-
Yes because this is not Salah and does not take the same rulings as
Salah. So purity is not a condition for it to be valid.
Again, since sajdah at-Tilaawah itself is not Salah and it does not take
the same rulings as Salah.
RAMADHAAN SERIES
Ramadhaan Series
by Asma bint Shameem
QUESTION
Are there any specific duaas for the month of
Ramadhaan
ANSWER
There are NO specific duaas for the month of Ramadhaan except the
duaa that the Prophet sal Allaahu Alayhi wa sallam taught Aaishah radhi
Allaahu anhu for the LAST 10 days of Ramadhaan.
-Qadr, what
Otherwise there are NO other duaas that are SPECIFIC for Ramadhaan.
Develop a CLOSE relationship with the One Who LOVES you the Most,
the One Who TAKES CARE of you the Most,
the One Who KNOWS you the Most.
The One Who can address all your problems and solve all your issues.
Show Him how BROKEN you are and how much you NEED Him.
QUESTION
Is it true that whoever dies in Ramadhaan will enter
Jannah without account? Even non Muslims?
ANSWER
-saheeh by al-Albaani)
enter Jannah.
(al-Bukhaari, Muslim)
The scholars explain that the gates of Jannah being opened means that
Allaah is ENCOURAGING us to obey Him and strive in His Path.
from SIN.
Allaah is ready to forgive anyone and everyone, whoever makes
SINCERE Taubah ALL the time but especially so in the month of
Ramadhaan.
And the scholars say that it ALSO means that Allaah makes it EASY for
the believers to do good deeds and to stay away from bad ones,
because the gates of Hell are closed and the devils are chained.
The hadeeth does NOT mean that just because someone died in
Ramadhaan, will enter Jannah right away, without account, even if they
commit major sins or live a life of evil or disobedience.
The ones who will enter Jannah are those that believed in Allaah Alone,
without associating partners with Him and believed and FOLLOWED the
Prophet sal Allaahu Alayhi wa sallam and his teachings.
So LIVING and PRACTICING Islaam is the KEY.
As for the Muslims who committed major sins, they will EVENTUALLY
enter Jannah AFTER being PURIFIED in HellFire, for as long as Allaah
seems fit for the person, to purify him.
he weight
of a grain of mustard-
So I will go and do that, then I will come back to my Lord and I will
praise Him with those words of praise, then I will fall down prostrating
raise your head.
Speak, you will be heard; ask, it will be given to you; intercede and your
and whoever has in his heart faith that is smaller, smaller, smaller than
a grain of mustard-
He said:
Rather what this means is that the gates of Paradise are opened to
encourage people to strive hard, so that they can enter it, and that the
gates of Hell are closed, so as to encourage the believers to refrain from
sin, so that they will not go through these gates.
That does NOT mean that the one who dies in Ramadhaan will enter
Paradise without being brought to account;
rather those who will enter Paradise without being brought to account
are those whom the Messenger Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa Sallam described
when he said:
or believe in omens, or use cautery, and they put their trust in their
Those who did NOT believe in Allaah or committed Shirk, will NEVER
enter Jannah even if they died in Ramadhaan.
Allaah says:
"When the race horse knows that it is nearing the END of the track, it
EXERTS ALL of its EFFORT to WIN the race.
With each NEW day we have YET ANOTHER CHANCE to ask for
forgiveness.....
Yet another chance to beg for Allaah's Mercy.....
The FINAL few steps are even MORE IMPORTANT than the first....
RAMADHAAN SERIES
Don't make HOLES in your SHIELD
by Asma bint Shameem
"Fasting is a SHIELD.
So if it is a day in which one of you is FASTING, then he should not be
OBSCENE in speech nor should he be SINFUL nor should he be
IGNORANT." (al-Bukhaari, Muslim)
Subhaan Allaah!
No reward?
Only hunger and thirst!
"Fasting does not mean abstaining from food and drink only, rather it is
also abstaining from lying, falsehood and idle speech."
"When you fast, then let your HEARING, SIGHT and TONGUE FAST from
LYING and SIN and stop abusing servants.
Be tranquil and dignified on the day of your fast, and do not let the day
you do not fast and the day you fast be the same."
Let that shield protect you from all that displeases your Rabb.
THAT is the TRUE fast.
THAT is the REAL fast.
Is this YOUR house
poor, fast regularly, and pray to Allah at night while people are
-Tirmidhi-- hasan by al-Albaani)
Don't we already fast in this month? And pray when people are asleep?
The Prophet sal Allaahu Alayhi wa sallam was the most generous of
Having good manners is one of the best things one can do and is the
heaviest on the scale on the Day of Judgment.
What better month is there for training our tongues and perfecting our
manners than this month of Taqwa and ibaadah?
his voice, and if anyone reviles him or wants to pick a fight with him, let
(al-Bukhaari, Muslim)
So speak kindly and softly to people. Be nice, polite, patient, pleasant
with them.
And if someone irritates you...take a deep breath.
Think of the awesome houses waiting for you in Jannah.
And then SMILE.
Perhaps Allaah will count us among those who will qualify for these
houses in Jannah.
QUESTION
ANSWER
This way you get rewards for following the Sunnah AND also get to
clean your teeth at the same time!
The Prophet Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa Sallam LOVED to use the siwaak
and would would use it all the time during his day and nights.
And he said:
- -
saheeh by al-Albaani)
Recommendation:
Clean your mouth using the toothbrush and toothpaste after Suhoor
and before you go to bed.
RAMADHAAN SERIES
Ramadhaan Series
by Asma bint Shameem
QUESTION
ANSWER
He said:
use the siwaak which was encouraged by the Prophet Sal Allaahu
Alaiyhi wa Sallam.
If the spray is used and none of it reaches the throat, there is nothing
wrong with it.
But the smell that comes from the mouth of the fasting person as a
result of fasting should not be disliked, because it is the effect of
obedience and is beloved by Allah, may He be glorified and exalted. In
ANSWER:
If you're in a situation where you're fasting but you don't have access to
any food or water, like maybe stuck in the middle of the highway, and
it's time to break your fast, what should one do?
Well, in such situations you break your fast with your INTENTION.
You see, in our Deen, if a person forms a firm intention to stop doing an
act of worship while he is doing it, it becomes invalid.
"The one who forms the intention to break the fast has broken the
fast." (Zaad al-Mustanqi)
Side note:
Do keep a few dates with you handy in a plastic bag in your purse or in
the car, etc during Ramadhaan, just in case!
RAMADHAAN SERIES
Fasting and Vomiting
by Asma bint Shameem
QUESTION
I vomited during the day while I was fasting. Is my fast valid? What
should I do?
ANSWER:
is still GOOD.
Proof:
ne who cannot help vomiting does not have to make up the fast,
not help it then his fast is not invalidated. Similarly it is not invalidated
So if you feel the food in your throat, try to spit it out and do not
swallow it.
not invalidate the fast, even if you unintentionally swallow some of it.
[al-Muhalla (4/225)]
RAMADHAAN SERIES
Fasting and the Doctor's office
by Asma bint Shameem
YES. Drawing a few vials of blood for testing purposes does NOT
invalidate the fast because the blood is only a small amount.
If it was a larger amount like in cupping, donating blood, etc. then that
would break the fast.
Injections?
Ultrasound?
Ultrasound and X-ray by themselves don't have any effect on the fast
itself. BUT if the ultrasound test requires that you drink a lot of water
before the test then if you can delay the test till after Ramadhaan that's
better. Or at least delay it until after maghrib if possible.
BUT if it's something urgent, then you're allowed to break your fast for
that day if you need to drink water for the test. Just make up this day
later.
But since the procedures usually involve rinsing with a lot of water, it
would be better if you can delay it till after Ramadhaan.
However if i
allowed to have such dental procedures done.
Just be careful not to swallow any water or rinsing material used during
the procedure.
stomach.
If you need to get surgery done during the day and that requires
GENERAL anesthesia that would put you to sleep, your fast would STILL
be VALID as long as the anesthesia lasts for only PART of the day.
erson loses consciousness for the entire day and does not wake
up for any part of it, then his fast is not valid.
If the one who lost consciousness WAKES up for PART of the day, then
his fast is VALID, whether it was at the beginning or the end of the day
[al-Mughni (3/12)]
fasting, then his fast is valid and it is not invalidated by that. But if he
was given the anaesthetic before Fajr, and he remained asleep under
the influence of the anaesthetic until the sun set, then his fast on that
And Allaah knows best.
RAMADHAAN SERIES
by Asma bint Shameem
For such people who are sick TEMPORARILY and are expected to get
BETTER in a few days, paying the fidyah and feeding a poor person is
NOT AN OPTION.
Rather they should MAKE UP the days that they missed, once they get
well.
Th
The sickness is PERMANENT and it doesn t seem likely that they will
recover.
days later: rather, they should pay the fidyah and feed one poor person
for each day they miss of fasting.
which there is no hope of a cure, then you must feed one poor person
for every day of Ramadhaan, and you do not have to fast. The measure
it is dates, rice or something else. If you invite a poor person for a meal,
lunch or dinner, that is sufficient.
But if the doctor determines that there is hope for recovery from your
sickness, then you do not have to feed a poor person, rather you have
to MAKE UP the MISSED FASTS when Allaah grants you healing from
-Shaykh Ibn Baaz (15/221)]
fasting.
you live.
RAMADHAAN SERIES
Ramadhaan Series
by Asma bint Shameem
QUESTION
Up till what time can I eat suhoor
ANSWER
of Fajr.
We can eat and drink UP UNTIL DAWN, meaning up until the ADHAAN
of FAJR.
Allaah says:
e thread (light) of dawn appears to you
distinct from the black thread (darkness of night), then complete your
(Surah al-Baqarah:187)
OBJECTION
wa sallam ate suhoor before Fajr adhaan, the time it takes to recite 50
Aayaat
ANSWER
What this hadeeth means is that the Prophet sal Allaahu Alayhi wa
sallam DELAYED his suhoor.
And he ATE when there was about that much time LEFT before adhaan.
That does NOT mean that the Prophet sal Allaahu Alayhi wa sallam
stopped eating a certain time before the adhaan and started fasting
BEFORE the adhaan of Fajr. Or thought that he cannot eat beyond that
time.
No.
Rather, he Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa Sallam ATE TILL the break of DAWN.
This does not mean that you started fasting from that time, rather you are simply stating what time you
ate suhoor.
What may be understood from the hadeeth of Zayd ibn Thaabit radhi Allaahu anhu is that it is
MUSTAHABB to DELAY suhoor and it is NOT MUSTAHABB to STOP EATING and drinking a WHILE BEFORE
Someone asked Shaikh Ibn Baaz about Imsaak and stopping eating and drinking a certain time before
fajr comes in.
He said:
In fact, if a person woke up late and does not have enough time to eat or drink before the break of
dawn, he can even eat WHILE the adhaan is STILL GOING ON!
- saheeh by al-Albaani)
This is for the person who did not have a chance to eat his fill and the adhaan of Fajr is called.
If we were supposed to STOP all eating and drinking 15 minutes or so before the adhaan of Fajr, would
Conclusion
food or drink a certain time before dawn and the adhaan of Fajr, is BASELESS.
QUESTION
ANSWER
No dates? No problem!
You can still follow the Sunnah.
If you're out of dates, but you still want to follow the Sunnah of the
Prophet Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa Sallam what should you break your fast
with?
Water.
Yes that's right. Water.
Not salt. (
we heard this when we were kids!)
Not sweets.
But WATER.
ANSWER
PROOF:
(al-Bukhaari-
The scholars of the Standing Committee said:
necessary, and his fast is still valid so long as he does not deliberately
swallow it, but you should not do that unless there is a need for it; in
that case (even) if a little of it reaches your stomach by accident your
So if you forgot whether you put salt in that soup or not, or you want to
make sure the sugar is just right in the dessert or if the chicken needs
ANSWER
PROOF:
He said: "I know that you love to pray with me, but praying in your
house is better for you than praying in your courtyard, and praying in
your courtyard is better for you than praying in the masjid of your
people, and praying in the masjid of your people is better for you than
praying in my masjid."
So she ordered that a Musalla (prayer area) be built for her in the
furthest and darkest part of her house, and she always prayed there
until she met Allaah (that is, until she pass
(Ahmad - saheeh al-Albaani)
heart, or there are some lectures there that she can gain knowledge
from,
- the clothes should not be tight or revealing the shape of the body
gathered somewhere.
PROOF:
-
Musannaf-
Abdur Razzaq and Daraqutni)
Similarly Umm Al-Hasan narrated that she saw Umm Salamah radhi
Allaahu anhaa leading women in prayer while she stood in the middle
especially since they confirm the general meaning of the words of the
are the twin halves of
woman to lead other women in prayer, are things that are permitted in
- -Fiqh al-Islami)
You will pray exactly how you would if you were praying behind a male
Imaam, except there are certain points we have to pay attention to.
The female Imaam will stand in the middle of the first row with the
sisters to her left and right.
She will not stand ahead of them like a male Imaam does.
Al-Nawawi said:
It is allowed for women to give the adhaan and iqaamah when they
themselves based on the fact that Aaisha radhi Allaahu anhaa used to do that when she led other
women in Salaah.
But she should lower her voice so that nonmahrams may not hear her.
If it s a loud prayer, like Fajr, Maghrib or Ishaa, the female Imaam may recite out loud.
(Al-Mughni, 2/17)
All the other rules of praying in congregation will apply, like you have to follow the Imaam, and not
precede him, etc.
own son.
NO ONE ever did that before and anyone who allows it is going against the Prophet sal Allaahu Alayhi wa
sallam, the Sahaabah, and the consensus of the ulama of all the generations.
And if any man prays behind a woman, his prayer is NOT VALID.
s are agreed that it is not permissible for an adult man or a boy to pray behind a
Taraweeh and all supererogatory prayers. This is our view and the view of all the scholars from the
earlier and later generations may Allaah have mercy on them. Al-Bayhaqi narrated this from the seven
(al-Majmoo(4/152)
What if you hire someone to do something for you, but they only do
PART of the job and leave the rest incomplete?
Will you recompense them fully for a job completed?
And what do you think a teacher would say if a student turns in only
some of his homework and fails to do the rest of it? Will he get full
marks for it?
And what about a child who is supposed to clean his whole room, but
he only cleans HALF of it? Do you think he did what was required of
him? Would you reward him for a job well done?
That's because they did not complete what they were supposed to do
and only did part of it. And thus they do not deserve to be fully
rewarded.
Similarly, my dear sister, is the case when you fast but you don't wear
hijaab.
Do you realize, dear sister, that by not wearing hijaab, you are only
doing PART of the job and not doing whole of it?
The One Who made the FAST an obligation on you and me is the same
Rabb, Who also made the HIJAAB an obligation on you and me.
Allaah says:
"And tell the believing women to lower their gaze (from looking at
forbidden things), and protect their private parts and not to show off
their adornment except only that which is apparent, and to draw their
veils all over Juyoobihinna (i.e. over themselves) and not to reveal their
adornment except to their husbands, or their fathers, or their
husband's fathers, or their sons, or their husband's sons, or their
brothers or their brother's sons, or their sister's sons, or their (Muslim)
women, or the (female) slaves whom their right hands possess, or old
male servants who lack vigor, or small children who have no sense of
feminine sex. And let them not stamp their feet so as to reveal what
they hide of their adornment. And all of you beg Allaah to forgive you
all, O believers, that you may be successful"
[al-Noor 24:31]
There are so many other ayaat and so many authentic ahaadeeth that
clearly order believing women to cover themselves.
Don't you want to obey the One who created you, gave you life, food,
health, family, friends and everything that you know and don't know of
??!!
You wake up for suhoor, you fast all day, you take care of your family.
But, my dear sister, do you realize that by not observing hijaab, you
only get part of the reward of all your hard work and not 100 percent of
it?
Realize, dear sister, that not wearing hijaab is a major sin and sins may
take away some or all of the reward, and the fasting person may be left
with nothing from his fast apart from hunger and thirst.
"It may be that the fasting person gets nothing from his fast apart from
hunger, and it may be that the one who prays qiyaam at night may get
nothing from his qiyaam but a sleepless night."
(Ibn Majah-authentic)
"Whoever does not give up false speech and acting upon it, Allaah has
no need of his giving up his food and drink." (al-Bukhaari)
Imagine! All that hard work.....all that effort you put into fasting, and
some of it or even all of it may be lost!
What a terrible loss indeed!
And just because you didn't cover yourself the way your Rabb, your
Creator, the Creator of the heavens and the earth, ordered you to.
The real aim is to stay away from sins and those deeds that displease
Allaah.
And to train oneself to OBEY Allaah and SUBMIT to Him.
Allaah says:
"O you who believe! Fasting is prescribed for you as it was prescribed
for those before you, that you may attain piety"
[al-Baqarah 2:183]
So submit to Allaah fully. Obey Him in wearing hijaab, just like you obey
Him in fasting and praying.
Don't let the Shaytaan keep you away from getting full reward for all
your hard work in Ramadhaan.
Let your fasting motivate you to obey Allaah and keep away from that
which He has forbidden.
Do it NOW.
BEFORE Ramadhaan starts.
CORRECTION Sister!
Do remember, my dear sister:
Conditions of Hijaab
There are certain conditions that have to be met for the clothes of a
woman to be appropriate according to our Deen.
He said:
1. It should cover all the head and body, apart from whatever has been
exempted (meaning face and hands).
-through"
4. It should be loose, not tight so that it describes any part of the body
I see many sisters, who are ma sha' Allaah, very enthusiastic about their
prayers, duas and Ibaadah during the month of Ramadhaan. But, come
their time for menses, it's like someone turned their switch 'off'. They
completely stop all forms of worship and think that their menses is a
reason to take a 'vacation' from remembering Allaah....totally. They
start spending their time shopping, watching TV or just doing other
stuff, just because they are 'on it', although previously they were very
eager to spend their time remembering Allaah.
And then, there are some of my sisters, who are genuinely very
distraught and feel kind of deprived and sad and so helpless that they
cannot pray or fast during these days.
Naturally, they stop praying and fasting, as per the orders of Allaah, but
then, they also stop all other forms of worship and means of coming
close to their Rabb.
This is so much so that even during the last ten nights of Ramadhaan,
instead of searching for Laylatul Qadr, the night in which worship is
better than a thousand months, although they feel bad about missing
out, they sleep through it, just because they are having their menses,
thinking there is nothing they can do.
And thus, they lose out on the countless blessings, tremendous
goodness and precious moments of this beautiful month.
So what's a woman to do during this time?
Dear sister, don't feel sad or deprived. Realize that Allaah has decreed
for all women to have menses. It's not just you. All women have to go
through this. And when the time for it comes, it comes.
Once our Mother, Aaisha Radhi Allaahu Anha was accompanying the
Prophet (sal Allaahu Alayhi wa sallam) on Hajj when she got her period.
This made her sad and she started crying.
The Prophet (sal Allaahu Alayhi wa sallam) consoled her, saying:
Remember, it's all about doing things the way Allaah wants. That's
Islaam. That's Ibaadah.
Also know that if you can not fast due to a valid Shar'i reason then
Allaah will reward you, just as if you were fasting. The Prophet (sal
Allaahu Alayhi wa sallam) said:
And Shaikh Ibn Baaz said: "It is permissible for the woman who is
If you want to be extra careful about not touching the Mushaf, you can
also read the Qur'aan off of the Internet or on your cell phone.
Reflect on the words of your Rabb, ponder over the meanings and
understand what Allaah is saying to us.
These ayaat,my sister, are not there just for us to read; rather to
interact with them, and implement them in our lives. Allaah says:
It fills the heart with such tranquility, such peace that no words can
describe.
It increases Imaan and brings you great rewards since listening to the
Qur'aan with an attentive heart is an act of Ibaadah in itself.
The Sahaabah loved to listen to the Qur'aan being recited and even the
Prophet (sal Allaahu Alayhi wa sallam) would sometimes listen to the
Qur'aan from other people and he would cry.
"The Messenger of Allaah (sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa sallam) said to me:
So play a beautiful recitation of your favorite Qaari, close your eyes and
listen attentively.
Let the Words of the Lord of the Worlds echo in the room, filling your
ears, your mind, your whole being.
Let those ayaat penetrate deep into you until your heart shakes and
your skin shivers...and then Believe. And Submit.
5. Do a lot of Dhikr:
Keep your tongue moist with the remembrance of Allaah, when you are
on your period and when you are not. There is nothing like it. It is one
of the most beloved deeds to Allaah and His Messenger (sal Allaahu
Alaiyhi wa sallam) and gets you tremendous rewards. And yet, it's so
easy, Alhamdulillaah.
The Prophet (sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa sallam) said:
"Shall I not inform you of the best of your action which is the purest to
your Rabb, which raises your status, which is better for you than
spending gold and silver, and better for you than that you meet your
enemies and cut off their necks or you yourselves achieve martyrdom?''
They said, "Certainly.'' He (sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa sallam) said, "It is the
remembrance of Allah the Exalted.'' (Tirmidhi-hasan)
"He who utters a hundred times in a day these words: `La ilaha illallahu,
wahdahu la sharika lahu, lahul-mulku wa lahul-hamdu, wa Huwa `ala
kulli sha'in Qadir (there is no true god except Allah. He is One and He
has no partner with Him; His is the sovereignty and His is the praise,
and He is Omnipotent),' he will have a reward equivalent to that for
emancipating ten slaves, a hundred good deeds will be recorded to his
credit, hundred of his (minor) sins will be blotted out from his scroll,
and he will be safeguarded against the devil on that day till the evening;
and no one will exceed him in doing more excellent good deeds except
someone who has recited these words more often than him. And he
who utters: `Subhan-Allahi wa bihamdihi (Allah is free from
imperfection and His is the praise)' one hundred times a day, his sins
will be obliterated even if they are equal to the extent of the foam of
the ocean.'' (Bukhaari and Muslim)
Subhaan Allaah!
Could anyone ask for more?
So keep yourself busy with the dhikr of Allaah and recite the morning
and evening adhkaar (supplications) and other forms of dhikr
prescribed from the Sunnah, while eating, drinking, sleeping, wearing
clothes, going out of the house, etc. and Allaah will remember you in
turn.
So go ahead and make dua, lots and lots of it; for dua is one of the best
acts of Ibaadah.
-saheeh by Albaani).
Spread out those hands in humble submission to the One Who gives all
and sustains all from His limitless Treasures and Bounties.
Ask and He will give you.
Beg and He will suffice you.
7. Do plenty of Istighfaar:
My sister, Ramadhaan is THE month of repentance.
The Prophet (sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa sallam) said: "Jibreel said to me,
`May he be destroyed, the person who Ramadan comes and his sins are
not forgiven,' and I said, Ameen'....." (Saheeh al-Jaami')
Subhaan Allaah!
The gates of Jannah are open and the gates of Hell are shut, and the
So don't let this chance go by just because you are on your menses.
Make sincere repentance to Allaah and cry over your sins. He is al-
Ghafoor, the Oft-Forgiver and He will forgive you.
themselves (by committing evil deeds and sins)! Despair not of the
Mercy of Allaah, verily, Allaah forgives all sins. Truly, He is Oft-Forgiving,
Most Merciful." (Surah Zumar: 53)
And don't forget to make the best form of dua when seeking Laylatul
Qadr.
(Tirmidhi- saheeh)
It can easily be done any time, in almost any place with no prerequisites
of tahaarah.
Allaah Himself sends his blessings upon the Prophet (sal Allaahu Alayhi
wa sallam) and so do the angels. And this act has been enjoined upon
us by Allaah.
"Allaah and His angels praise and venerate the Prophet (Muhammad).
O you who believe! Praise and venerate him (Muhammad) and
pronounce peace upon him in abundance." (al-
9. Thank Allaah:
All Praise is due to Allaah Alone, Who gives His sinful slaves a chance to
earn multiple rewards, have their sins forgiven and their duas accepted.
It is only He Who blessed you with the biggest blessing that could ever
be.
And that is the blessing of Islaam.
And even having your period is a reason for you to give thanks to Him.
So give thanks to Him from the bottom of your heart, and show your
gratitude to the one Who gave you all that you possess, for this season
of goodness and blessing that He has bestowed upon you, and for all
the bounties and immense blessings for which He has singled you out.
"He who embarks on the path of seeking knowledge, Allah will ease for
him the way to paradise." (Muslim)
And he said:
Allaah, His angels and all those in the heavens and in the earth, even
the ants in their holes and the fish in the water, pray for those who
instruct people in beneficent knowledge." (Tirmidhi)
You don't have to have Tahaarah for seeking knowledge so pick up
some good books of authentic Islaamic information or go on the
Internet.
So give and give and give for the sake of Allaah during this month.
Be the most generous at the time of your menses and you will earn
great rewards, bi idhnillaah.
Spend in the path of Allaah, feed the poor, sponsor an orphan and
donate to your masjid.
It's also about how you deal with people and doing all kinds of good
deeds. So you can earn rewards and worship Allaah in your menses by
serving your parents, keeping up the ties of kinship, being kind to
everyone, giving dawah, enjoining what is right, forbidding what is
wrong, etc. etc.
Conclusion:
May Allaah accept our deeds from us and enable us to worship Him and
thank Him in this month and at all times of our lives. Ameen.
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by Asma bint Shameem
menses, but they don't allow to read the whole aayah at a time. Rather
the aayah and say each word with a pause in
You see, these are electronic devices and they DO NOT take the rulings
of the Mus-haf.
the bathroom even if
may be recorded do not come under the same rules as the Mus-haf.
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Fasting and Feminine Issues
by Asma bint Shameem
1. QUESTION
What happens if I get my period during the day while
fasting?
If you get your menses ANY time during the day, your fast gets
invalidated.
ENTIRE day.
2. QUESTION
But I heard that if you get your period AFTER 12 pm or midday, then
your fast is valid.
Is that correct?
Even if you get your period A FEW MINUTES BEFORE MAGHRIB, the
fast is invalidated.
even if that is a moment just before sunset, and she has to make up
[al- - -
3. QUESTION
What if my period finishes around fajr time?
If your period finishes at night at ANY time up until BEFORE Fajr, you
have to fast that day, even if you become pure a FEW minutes before
Fajr.
g woman becomes pure before dawn, even if it is
one minute before, but she is CERTAIN that she is PURE, and that is
during Ramadhaan, then she MUST FAST, and her fast on that day will
4. QUESTION
In this situation, the fast is NOT valid because for a fast to be valid, it
has to last from DAWN to SUNSET.
And once Fajr sets in, if you were not free of menses b
too late and you cannot fast.
ghusl because even though the FAST is not valid, the PRAYERS are still
obligated.
ffer the
prayers that are left for the remainder of the day.
5. QUESTION
you to take ghusl before Fajr, you can make the intention to fast and
then take the purification bath later, after Fajr adhaan.
But be sure to hurry up and not delay your ghusl too long because you
Similarly, you can delay your purification bath after having intimacy
earlier.
Allaahu anhaa who said: The Prophet Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa Sallam used
to wake up junub as the result of intercourse, not a wet dream, and he
-Bukha
6. QUESTION
Each woman is different and each has to judge for herself when her
period ends.
Then she should make ghusl as soon as she is pure.
7. QUESTION
I took my purification bath and started fasting. Then after few days, I
saw some brown discharge.
Should I stop fasting?
e after a
Your fast is valid in this situation. All you have to do is to make fresh
wudhu for every fardh prayer.
QUESTION
ANSWER
-
the last ten days of Ramadhaan.
You ca
Besides all this, DO realize that you NOT reading Salaah or fasting while
on your menses, is ALSO ibaadah.
And Who told you NOT to pray and fast during your menses?
me
And submission to Him is what ibaadah is all about.
make up the fasts you missed, later on etc. then it is permissible to take
these pills.
you.
ANSWER
- Some said you should PAY the FIDYAH ONLY (feed one poor person
per day of fasting you missed)
have to make up the days; rather we just have to feed one poor person
per day.
So what to do?
Perhaps what Shuyookh such as Kareem Abu Zayd and Salah as-Sawy
said shows us the MIDDLE ground.
Shaikh Salah as-Sawy said after discussing the different opinions on the
subject:
So in other words:
breastfeeding, you should definitely FAST.
Rather just PAY the FIDYAH and feed one person for each day that you
missed.
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Ramadhaan Series
by Asma bint Shameem
QUESTION
ANSWER
- Some said you should PAY the FIDYAH ONLY (feed one poor person
per day of fasting you missed)
unless
she fears that fasting may affect her or her foetus, in which case she is
allowed not to fast, and she should make up the fasts after she gives
However other ulama like Shaikh Bazmool, Shaikh al-Albaani etc said
she does NOT have to make up the fasts.
have to make up the days; rather we just have to feed one poor person
per day.
So what to do?
Perhaps what Shuyookh such as Kareem Abu Zayd and Salah as-Sawy
said shows us the MIDDLE ground.
Shaikh Salah as-Sawy said after discussing the different opinions on the
subject:
So in other words:
have accumulated for you, then you DO NOT have to make up the days.
Rather just pay the fidyah and feed one person for each day that you
missed.
QUESTION
I did not make up any of my Fardh fasts that I missed
during menses, from previous years.
Should I make them up now?
ANSWER
Yes you should make up those days as they are a kind of DEBT due to
Allaah.
So what to do
Make sincere Taubah to Allaah for not making up the fasts in time
Calculate the number of days that you missed, add them up and fast
them one by one.
You can make up these days on any day, but you can also fast on
Mondays and Thursdays, or on the 13th, 14th and 15th of every month
(ayyaam al-Beedh) or on the 9th and 10th of Muharram or on the day
of Arafah, or in the first nine days of Dhul-Hijjah etc.
This way, you get the reward of fasting these Sunnah days as well.
Some of the ulama are of the opinion that you should also feed one
person for each day you missed.
MUSTAHABB to do that.
In other words, if you are ABLE to do that and you want to be on the
safe side, then feed a person for each day you missed.
Shaikh Ibn Uthaymeen said:
enjoined making up the same number from other days, and He did not
mention more than that.
Based on this, we should not oblige the slaves of Allaah to do any more
than they need to fulfil their duty.
Based on this, then what is necessary is to make up the fasts only, but
if a person wants to be on the safe side and feed one poor person for
each day missed, then that is good.
QUESTION
ANSWER
Some people buy new clothes and wear them especially on a Friday in
Ramadhaan thinking there will be no accountability for buying/wearing
those clothes just because they wore them in Ramadhaan and
especially on Friday.
Some even buy their ENTIRE WARDROBE for the YEAR in Ramadhaan
based on this misconception.
Nothing.
Actu
Allaah will ask each person about what He bestowed upon him of His
blessings and whether he fulfilled His rights over him.
So t
or worn in Ramadhaan will not be asked about.
And that goes for ALL the blessings of Allaah.
friday in Islaam?
He said:
Bottom line:
You may wear NEW clothes in Ramadhaan.
You may wear OLD clothes in Ramadhaan.
You can wear whatever you like.
GUARANTEED to be accepted.
And both these times occur around Maghrib.
FASTING person when he breaks his fast, and the prayer of one who has
QUESTION
Is there any significance of the LAST FRIDAY of
ANSWER
ne.
MISCONCEPTION # 1
Thinking that the last Friday of Ramadhaan has some SPECIAL VIRTUE
and SIGNIFICANCE.
And deeds done this day have SPECIAL REWARDS.
And they spend this entire day praying special prayers and making
They wait for it, and prepare for it the entire year.
FACT
And the first, second and third Fridays are NO LESS than the last Friday
of Ramadhaan.
The Prophet sal Allaahu Alayhi wa sallam or the Sahaabah did NOT
attach ANY SPECIAL VIRTUE to the last Friday of Ramadhaan or having
any extraordinary value.
And they did NOT gather together on the last Friday of Ramadhaan for
ANY SPECIAL WORSHIP or PRAYER.
Anybody who singles this Friday out for some special acts of worship or
considers this Friday more virtuous than others, is doing something that
was NOT done by the Prophet sal Allaahu Alayhi wa sallam and this
MISCONCEPTION # 2
missed in their lives.
- -
(Salaah that makes up the missed Sala
FACT
month of Ramadan, this will make up for any deficiencies for his prayer
These are NOT the words of the Prophet sal Allaahu Alayhi wa sallam.
It is FAKE, MADE UP and a LIE upon the Prophet sal Allaahu Alayhi wa
sallam.
Astaghfirullaah!
- - -ahadeeth al-
If a person missed prayers when he was younger, then the time for that
prayer is GONE.
PROOF:
Allaah said that the time for each prayer is FIXED.
Salaah (the prayer) is enjoined on the believers at fixed
hours
(Surah al-Nisaa :103)
So basically there's no "qaza umri" as they call it where years later, you
count all the prayers you missed and then make them all up one at a
time.
QUESTION
So what can we do in this situation ?
1. Make sincere taubah to Allaah and ask forgiveness for missing Salah.
"Verily, the good deeds remove the evil deeds" (Surah Hood :114)
And the Prophet Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa Sallam told us that good deeds
are multiplied ten times or more while the bad deeds is written only as
one.
So we hope with Allaah that He will forgive the one who repents from
missing the prayer and his good deeds would outweigh his bad ones.
MISCONCEPTION # 3
Some people buy new clothes and wear them especially on Fridays in
Ramadhaan thinking there will be no accountability for buying/wearing
those clothes just because they wore them in Ramadhaan and
especially on the last Friday.
Some even buy their entire wardrobe for the whole year in Ramadhaan
based on this misconception.
FACT
is questioned about his life and how he spent it, about his knowledge
and what he did with it, about his wealth, from where he acquired it
and on what he spent it, and about his body and for what he wore it
upon him of His blessings and whether he fulfilled His rights over him.
The blessings that will be asked about are of two types:
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What to do in the Last Ten Nights of Ramadhaan
recitation done.
COOK Iftaar and suhoor and SHARE with the people at the
masjid.
Or send it to someone needy.
Salaah.
You can also volunteer to baby sit the kids at the masjid or at
your home and let others pray.
Helping others in ANY way is a great act of worship in itself.
Prolong your sujood by making LONG duaas in your OWN language and
in your own words.
Do lots of ISTIGHFAAR esp the duaa that the Prophet sal Allaahu
Alayhi wa sallam taught Aaishah radhi Allaahu anhaa.
COOK Iftaar and suhoor and SHARE with the people at the masjid.
Or send it to someone needy.
If
You can also volunteer to baby sit the kids at the masjid or at your
home and let others pray.
Helping others in ANY way is a great act of worship in itself.
Who would want to miss this beautiful opportunity to have his sins
forgiven and collect rewards of 83 years?!
QUESTION
ANSWER
Yes the hadeeth is authentic and it is said that we should look for
Layatul Qadr in the odd nights of the last ten nights of Ramadhaan.
BUT in order to make SURE we don't miss Laylatul Qadr, the Ulama say
it is better to worship ALL of the LAST TEN NIGHTS of Ramadhaan, if
possible.
WHY IS THAT
The best example for us is the Prophet sal Allaahu Alayhi wa sallam
and he spent ALL TEN NIGHTS worshipping Allaah Subhaanahu wa
Ta aala and strived the HARDEST in them like he NEVER did at any other
time of the year.
Alayhi wa sallam) would stay up at night, wake his family and tie his
(al-Bukhaari, Muslim)
On this basis, if the month has THIRTY days, these will be EVEN
NUMBERED nights, so on the twenty-second there will be nine days
left, on the twenty-fourth there will be seven days left.
This is -Khudri in the saheeh
hadeeth, and this is how the Prophet Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa Sallam
prayed qiyaam during this month.
If this is the case, then the believer should seek it in ALL of the LAST
TEN DAYS."
-285)
Also put into consideration, the difference among the Muslims when
they start Ramadhaan.
So what is an EVEN night for YOU, will be an ODD night for the OTHER
group.
Having said all that, yes indeed Laylatul Qadr is most likely to fall on the
odd nights and according to the majority of the Sahaabah and Ulama, it
is most likely on the 27th.
But of course we don't know that for sure.
STRIVE HARD in worship so that you will FOR SURE 'CATCH it' in one of
those nights bi idhnillaah. :)
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al-
by Asma bint Shameem
(al-Bukhaari, Muslim)
The purpose of Itekaaf is to seclude oneself for some time in the masjid
to worship Allaah and to seek Laylatul Qadr.
That was the main reason the Prophet sal Allaahu Alayhi wa sallam
observed Itekaaf.
He Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa Sallam said regarding Laylatul Qadr:
said to me that it is in the last ten days, so whoever among you wishes
(al-Bukhaari, Muslim)
hours?
mosque for the sake of Allaah with the intention of drawing closer to
(Al-Muhalla, 5/179)
The last ten nights start with the night of the 21st of Ramadhaan.
And since the night comes before the day in Islaam, we should start
Itekaaf when the sun sets on the day of the 20th fast.
be done when the sun sets on the night of the twenty-first, because
[Fataawa al-Siyaam (p. 503)]
of our ability.
Ramadhaan, and she spoke to him for a while, then she got up to leave,
and the Prophet
(Al-Bukhaari and Muslim)
(Jalasaat Ramadhaaniyyah(18/15)
We can use our phones or laptops etc if we want to listen to some good
Islaamic lecture or read something about our Deen, etc.
comb his hair (wash it- according to another narration) when I was
-Bukhaari)
or take a shower, or buy food, etc if such things are not available to us
while at the masjid.
The Prophet sal Allaahu Alayhi wa sallam left his Itekaaf for a short
while to drop Safiyyah radhi Allaahu anhaa back home as per the
hadeeth above from al-Bukhaari and Muslim.
to stay at the masjid for worship and turn away from all else.
obligatory.
else.
(al-
ANSWER
(Surah al-Baqarah:187)
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Can I do it for less than that?
ANSWER
Ramadhaan, it is allow
than that.
(Al-Muhalla, 5/179)
0
days.
So try and stay in the masjid maybe over the weekend or for a day or
two or more or less, whatever is possible for you.
Next time you go to the Masjid for your prayer, make your intention to
Plan to stay just a little while longer and turn a simple trip for prayer
Dedicate your time to the worship of Allaah to the best of you ability.
Duaa.
aid:
-Qadr, what
-
(at-Tirmidhi -saheeh)
May Allaah have mercy on us, forgive us all and enable us to turn our
Ramadan Series
Signs of Laylatul-Qadr
by Asma bint Shameem
Allaah in all the last ten nights of Ramadhaan and thus earn even more
rewards and have a greater hope of having our sins forgiven.
Here are some signs that only point to the timing of Laylatul-Qadr but
these signs are not absolute
"On the morning following Laylatul-Qadr the sun rises not having any
rays, as if it were a brass dish, until it rises up."(Muslim)
"Laylatul-Qadr is calm and pleasant, neither hot nor cold, the sun arises
on its morning being feeble and red." [at-Tayaalisee, Ibn Khuzaimah
and al-Bazzaar with a Hasan Isnad].
but it is in the odd nights of the last 10 nights. I saw in my dream that I
wa
In those days the roof of the masjid was made of branches of date palm
trees.
At the same time the sky was clear and no cloud visible, but suddenly a
cloud came and it rained.
The Prophet Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa Sallam led us in the prayer and I saw
the traces of mud on the forehead and the nose of the Prophet Sal
(al-Bukhaari)
But we HOPE with Allaah that we may have witnessed this blessed night
and we make duaa that Allaah accepts it from us.
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by Asma bint Shameem
Why not?
Eid.
.
Thus, the night starts at MAGHRIB and lasts till Fajr. Then the day starts
AFTER Fajr and lasts till the next Maghrib.
So DO NOT think that the night before Eid should be spent in special
ibaadaat or that this night has extra virtues.
-
"Whoever stays up on the night of Eid, his heart will not die on the day
when hearts die."
That means that the Prophet sal Allaahu Alayhi wa sallam DID NOT
spend the night of Eid in any SPECIAL ibaadaat and he DID NOT TEACH
the Sahaabah to do that either.
They spent the night of Eid, as they USUALLY spent the rest of the
nights of the year.
Ibn al-Qayyim said regarding the actions of the Prophet sal Allaahu
Alayhi wa sallam in the night of Eid:
NOT pray any night prayers that night, and nothing is established from
[Zad al- ]
But to PICK OUT this night thinking there is extra reward and special
status to worship this night is not correct.
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End Ramadhaan with ISTIGHFAAR
by Asma bint Shameem
After performing tahajjud, the most beloved prayer to Allaah after the
five daily prayers, Allaah praises those who make Istighfaar.
(Surah adh-Dhaariyaat 51:17-18)
Even after the day of Arafah, when Allaah forgives ALL SINS, Allaah
STILL commands us to make Istighfaar and seek His Forgiveness!
(Surah al-Baqarah:198-199)
Subhaan Allaah!
Even our Istighfaar needs another Istighfaar, leave alone the act of
ibaadah itself.
Shaikh as-
But Alla
to clean out our ibaadaat of imperfections and wash away any
shortcomings with Istighfaar.
Then what better way to end this month of Forgiveness with seeking
even more forgiveness and making lots and lots of Istighfaar?
RAMADHAAN SERIES
Signs of an accepted Ramadhaan
by Asma bint Shameem
Ramadhaan is over.
The ulama say that although only Allaah knows for SURE if any deed is
accepted or not, there ARE definitely certain SIGNS that point to
whether our good deeds were accepted by Allaah or not.
Was our ibaadah, our duaa, our fasting and praying accepted by Allaah
If we IMPROVE ourselves after the month of fasting, and develop a
BETT
Allaah says:
So if your attitude, your conduct and manners, your lifestyle, and your
relationship with your Rabb and His creation have CHANGED for the
BETTER and show a POSITIVE TRANSFORMATION after Ramadhaan,
h has accepted your Ramadhaan.
Just as you can tell that a treatment is effective when your sickness
disappears, and you feel better;
Similarly, the effectiveness of your fasting for a whole month should
manifest itself in a POSITIVE CHANGE in you... a beautiful and gentle
transformation of your character, your manners, a keen consciousness
of the pleasure of your Rabb, the ultimate desire to obey Him.
if
And make Duaa to Allaah that He keeps you STEADFAST on His Deen
and ACCEPTS from you.
You have guided us, and grant us mercy from You. Truly, You are the
Bestower."
(Surah Aal Imraan:8)
Hereafter.
Therein you shall have (all) that your inner selves desire, and therein
-31)
Now don't SPOIL all those hard earned good deeds by doing things that
may be DISPLEASING to Allaah.
Things such as listening to music, and dancing, girls going out not
properly covered, guys mixing with girls, neglecting Salaah, smoking
hookah, or a'oodhu billaah something even worse.
And all this in the name of celebrating "Chaand Raat", the night before
Eid?!
Did you know that bad deeds may ERASE some good ones?
-
Bukhaari)
Once a man said about another: "By Allaah, Allaah will not forgive
So and so.
and so? I have forgiven So and so and I have cancelled out your good
deeds." (Muslim)
Hudhayfah radhi Allaahu anhu said:
And Ata said: "A man may say a word in anger that destroys the
good deeds of sixty or seventy years."
Al-Fadl ibn Ziyaad said: "No one of you can be sure that he will not
steal a glance that will cancel out his good deeds."
Raat"!
"The things that cancel out or spoil good deeds are too many to count.
It is not the deeds that count, rather it is the protection of one's good
deeds from that which may spoil them or cancel them out."
(Al-Waabil al-Sayyib)
Side note:
Don't get involved in His disobedience and ruin all your hard work.
Otherwise we're at the risk of losing SOME or ALL of our good deeds
and our hard work.
So PROTECT it.
PRESERVE it.
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Eid Salaah
by Asma bint Shameem
Some people think it is not a big deal if they don't pray Salaatul Eid.
In any case, we should definitely try and attend the Eid Salaah and not
be negligent about it.
Ei
There are several different opinions about the number of takbeeraat
but the strongest opinion and the opinion of the majority of the
scholars is that there are SEVE
recitation of al-Faatihah. And FIVE takbeeraat before the recitation of
al-
Al-
Takbeerat al-
7. Go into rukoo and sujood and finish off the Salaah just like any other
Salaah.
The majority of the scholars are of the opinion that the Takbeeraat are
seven in t
But there are also OTHER opinions among the Sahaabah about that.
Sallam DIFFERED concerning the takbeers, and ALL their views are
-
The Prophet sal Allaahu Alayhi wa sallam used to recite Surah Qaaf in
-
Or Surah al- -Ghaashiyah in the second.
RECOMMENDED.
With regard to doing the Eid prayer in her house, this is a GRAVE
MISTAKE. There is NO REPORT from the Prophet Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa
Sallam or from his Companions that the women offered the Eid prayer
-Darb (189/9)]
The Scholars of the Standing Committee said about the Eid Salaah:
should offer this prayer in the prayer place with the Muslims, because
the Prophet Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa Sallam INSTRUCTED them to do
RAMADHAAN SERIES
Mistakes related to Eid al-Fitr
by Asma Bint Shameem
"Whoever stays up on the night of Eid, his heart will not die on the day
when hearts die."
So do NOT single out the night of Eid for Ibaadah, as this is a kind of
bid'ah that is NOT proven from the Prophet (sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa
sallam) or his Sahaabah.
If it was a good thing to do, the Prophet (sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa sallam)."
or his sahaabah would have done it and we would have evidence for it.
However, if you wake up every day for Qiyaam or Tahajjud and it is part
of you NORMAL nightly routine to pray and worship at this time, then it
is okay to do so.
But to PICK OUT this night thinking there is extra reward and special
status to worship this night is not correct.
Some people do the exact opposite of the above and spend the night
before Eid, singing, dancing , listening to music, with free mixing of men
and women, lack of hijaab and hayaa'.
They forget the promises they made to Allaah during Ramadhaan to
stay away from haraam.
Do you really want to throw away all your hard work and effort you put
in worship during Ramadhaan for just a few hours of utterly useless
waste of time?
Having said that, there is nothing wrong with applying henna, getting
together with mahram family members and having halaal fun, if you
want as a celebration for Eid.
"He (sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa sallam) forbade fasting on the day of (Eid) al-
Fitr and the day of al-Nahr (Eid al-Adha)." (Bukhaari, Muslim)
However, if one visits the graves throughout the year, without singling
out the day of Eid, there is no harm.
It is not right for women and men to freely mix and mingle and hang
out with each other for no reason, if they are not mahrams, whether
throughout the year or during Eid.
each other on Eid, although Allaah has told both the believing men and
the believing women to lower their gaze.
Worse than that is when we see some totally non-mahram brothers
and sisters shaking hands with each other or even hugging non-
mahrams for "Eid"!
Do -mahrams, EVEN if it is
Eid!
'If one of you were to be struck in the head with an iron needle, it
would be better for him than if he were to touch a woman he is not
allowed to." (al-Tabaraani; saheeh by al-Albaani).
Mistake #6: Women going out wearing perfume and makeup, tight
clothing and no hijaab
This is such a serious issue, yet many people take this matter so lightly.
Throngs and throngs of young beautiful Muslim girls walk out into the
prayer area and other places, all decked up with the most beautiful
clothes, jewelry, make-up, perfume... for all the world to see.
Subhaan Allaah!
What happened to all your ibaadaat, the ayaat of the Quraan you read
about Hijaab, the promises you made to Allaah to be good?
Did you not read in the Qur'aan that it is FARDH for an adult Muslim
woman to wear hijaab and cover herself and her hair?
Allaah says:
"O Prophet! Tell your wives and your daughters and the believing
women to draw their cloaks all over their bodies. That will be better,
that they should be known (as free respectable women) so as not to be
annoyed. And Allaah is Ever Oft Forgiving, Most Merciful" [al-
Ahzaab:59].
And the Prophet (sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa sallam) said: "Any woman who
puts on perfume and passes by people so that they can smell her
fragrance, is an adulteress."
(al-Nasaa'i, al-Tirmidhi-hasan )
This confirms the words of the Prophet (sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa sallam)
who said: "There will be among my ummah people who will regard
adultery, silk, alcohol and musical instruments as permissible."
(Bukhaari)
Yes, it is from the Sunnah to enjoy the celebration of Eid, but always
remember to observe the limits prescribed by Islam.
Some people think it is not a big deal if they don't pray Salatul Eid.
Mistake #9: Not saying the Takbeeraat out loud (for men) or at the
right time
Saying the takbeeraat out loud is one of the greatest Sunnahs on the
day of Eid because Allaah says:
"(He wants that you) must complete the same number (of days), and
that you must magnify Allaah [i.e. to say Takbeer (Allaahu Akbar) for
having guided you so that you may be grateful to Him" [al-Baqarah:185]
According to Shaykh Ibn Uthaymeen, the time for takbeer begins when
it is proven that the new moon of Shawwaal has been sighted or thirty
days of Ramadaan have been completed. And it ends when the Eid
prayer begins. (Majmoo' Fataawa Ibn 'Uthaymeen)
Men should raise their voices reciting this dhikr wherever they may be,
in the masjids, in their cars or homes, etc. but women should say it
softly, without raising their voices.
Remember, this fasting, this Ibaadah, this opportunity for dua and
forgiveness is really a blessing on us, rather than hardship.
It is really for our own good and it is nobody but US that will benefit at
the end.
Not only does fasting help us control our desires and trains us for the
rest of the year, but it also gives us compassion for the poor, as well as
many physical and spiritual benefits.
But most of all, it brings us closer to Allaah and instills Taqwa in our
hearts and is a means for attaining Jannah and avoiding the fire of Hell.
Subhaan Allaah! Eid seems to be becoming more and more bizarre with
each passing year!
up for the annual (well, actually twice yearly) Muslim fashion show, also
lieving
women?
- -Tirmidhi: hasan
by al-Albaani)
Did we forget that the Prophet (sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa sallam) said:
others astray, with their heads looking like the humps of camels,
leaning to one side. They will not enter Paradise nor even smell its
fragrance, although its fragrance may be detected from such and such a
My sisters need to realize that they are being sinful in more than one
way:
Not only are these sisters being sinful themselves dressing this way, by
openly defying the direct order of Allaah to cover and dress modestly,
but they also share a part of the sin when they make the brothers look
at them by dressing inappropriately.
And they also set a distorted, misleading example for all the young girls
who come for the Eid prayer, giving them the impression that its OK to
dress like that.
Sure, we are all happy to see our friends and family and want to wish
o get together.
Allaah says:
difficult for you. (He wants that you) must complete the same number
(of days of fasting), and that you must magnify Allah for having
And yes, Eid is a celebration for us and we should rejoice and be happy.
But th
hard work and effort we put in the last 30 days just for a few hours of
loud music?
How can we use our eyes and ears and mind and body to disobey the
One who gave us all these blessings in the first place?
Let's not throw away all of the good deeds that we have gained during
the blessed month of Ramadhaan.
Think of ways to multiply your deeds well into the year and continue to
improve.
Look at what one of the righteous people said when they passed by
some people who were engaged in idle entertainment on the day of
Eid:
to give thanks for
that.
If you did badly in Ramadhaan, this is not the way that the one who did
What to do if Eid falls on a Friday
If Eid falls on a Friday, then the strongest opinion among the ulama is
An
Proof:
Whoever prays
- authentic
by al-Albaani)
-Zubayr radhi Allaahu anhu led us in Eid prayer early one Friday
morning. [Later that day] we went out to pray Friday prayer, but we
az-Zubayr not praying Friday prayer with us. Ibn Abbaas answered by
-Zubayr did (not praying Friday prayer) was in
(Abu Dawood)
This was the opinion of many of the Sahaabah such as Omar, Uthman,
Ibn Masoud, Ibn Abbas and others, radhi Allaahu anhum.
prayer, it is not obligatory for him to pray Friday prayer. Rather Friday
prayer becomes recommended (sunnah) for him. However, as it relates
to the Imam [of the community], it is obligatory for him to pray both
-Ma
As they say...
All you have to do is to fast any six days in Shawwaal and you'll get that
reward in Shaa Allaah.
How is that?
Well, the Prophet Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa Sallam himself explained
further.
He said:
"Fasting for the month of Ramadaan brings the reward of ten like it,
and fasting for six days brings the reward of two months, and that is the
fasting of the whole year."
(Ibn Khuzaymah- saheeh)
Allaah in His Infinite Mercy has told us that each good deed that we do,
is multiplied 10 times.
Since 1 good deed = 10
That makes 1 month of Ramadhaan equal to 10 months.
And the 6 days of shawwaal equals 60 days or 2 months.
And if we do this every year, that means we fasted our ENTIRE life !
Subhaan Allaah!
2. The Shawwaal fasts will compensate for any shortcomings in our
fardh fasts.
Just as Allaah will look at the nawaafil salah on the Day of Judgment
and ask the angels to fill in any shortage a person may have in his fardh
salah, similarly these 6 days of Shawwaal will come in handy and fill in
any shortfalls we may have in our Fardh Ramadhaan fasts.
"The first thing for which people will be brought to account on the Day
of Resurrection will be their salaah (prayer). Our Lord, may He be
glorified and exalted, will say to His angels - although He knows best -
'Look at the salaah of My slave, whether it is complete or incomplete.' If
it is perfect, it will be recorded as perfect, and if something is lacking,
He will say, 'Look and see whether My slave did any voluntary (naafil)
prayers.' If he did some voluntary prayers, [Allaah] will say, Complete
the obligatory actions of My slave from his voluntary actions.' Then all
his actions will be dealt with in a similar manner."
(Abu Dawood- saheeh by al-Albaani).
The word 'thumma' (then) shows that it must be done in this order,
that is, complete Ramadhaan first, THEN donthe six days of Shawwaal.
If we still owe fasts from Ramadhaan, that means we've only fasted
PART of Ramadhaan; we cannot say that we have fasted Ramadaan.
Obviously the fardh takes priority over the nafil, since it's a DEBT that is
owed to Allaah. And it needs to be repaid as soon as possible.
Would you keep praying nawaafil salah although you still have Dhuhr,
Asr or any other fardh prayer still due?
Of course not.
Well, that's how it is with these fasts as well.
For example, if someone wants to pray two rakah at the time of Fajr
with the intention to combine the two Sunnah with the two Fardh,
obviously that's not valid.
For example if you enter the masjid, and people are praying Salatul
Ishaa, you don't have to pray tahiyyatul masjid separately; rather your
praying in Jama'ah will suffice.
No they don't.
You have the entire month to fast these six days. Of course except the
first of Shawwaal which is Eid Day and it's not permitted to fast this
day.