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If you and a special someone feel excited just to talk to each other, or feel weak
in the knees while kissing each other goodbye, chances are, there’s a lot of
sexual chemistry in the air.

When you think you’re falling in love with someone at first sight, it’s infatuation.

And when you think you’re getting sexually attracted to someone, it’s sexual
chemistry.

Sexual chemistry is the infatuation of lust. Simply put, it’s what attracts two
people to each other sexually. [Read: 10 devious ways to sexually attract and
seduce a guy who isn’t yours (https://www.lovepanky.com/women/attracting-
and-dating-men/how-to-seduce-a-man)]

Why is sexual chemistry important in a relationship?

Love may hold a relationship together, but sexual chemistry keeps the attraction
alive.

If you and your partner don’t share sexual chemistry, you’d find no difference in
the way you treat your lover or your sibling.

After all, love without sexual attraction is just too innocent to be termed as a
romance. And that’s why sexual chemistry makes all the difference in a
relationship.

But at the same time, sexual chemistry isn’t something that can be faked or
created. It has to come to life from deep inside when two people who are
attracted to each other meet. If you don’t feel the sexual attraction towards
someone, there’s really not much hope for a relationship. [Read: How to know if
you’re in love or getting attracted to someone (https://www.lovepanky.com/love-
couch/sweet-love/how-to-know-if-you-are-in-love)]

Even if you end up dating someone who doesn’t feel sexually excited to be with
you, they may just end up leaving you for someone else or having an affair
behind your back. So if you can’t feel the sexual chemistry when you’re dating
someone, don’t get into a relationship. It’s just not worth the pain and effort.

Why can’t you feel the sexual chemistry?

There are many types of people in the world. And not everyone will be able to
share the perfect sexual chemistry with each other. If you’re an enthusiastic and
adventurous type of person, you may not enjoy a great sexual chemistry with
someone who loves routine. After all, as much as sexual chemistry is about sex,
it also has a lot to do with lifestyle choices and the way we present ourselves.

If you like someone and find yourself getting attracted to them, but at the same
time, you don’t feel the sexual excitement deep inside, perhaps both of you are
just not sexually compatible with each other. Don’t fret though. These things
happen all the time. So if you ever find yourself having seconds thoughts about
someone you like, chances are, both of you are lacking in the sexual chemistry
department. [Read: A true story about chemistry and sparks in romance
(https://www.lovepanky.com/love-couch/sweet-love/love-chemistry-sparks-in-
love)]

The two types of sexual chemistry

Sexual chemistry is important in two phases of interaction between two
individuals, at first sight and in the long term.

When you meet someone and immediately feel sexually attracted to that person,
and they feel the same towards you, then you’re experiencing the chemistry at
first sight.

And if you’ve been in a relationship for over a year, the second form of sexual
chemistry starts to kick in. During the first few months of the relationship with
your new lover, the infatuation and the sexual chemistry combine to create an
intense attraction towards each other. But as the months turn to years, the
infatuation fades away and turns into a mature love.

And when that happens, sexual chemistry too starts to take a nose dive. Almost
all relationships that hold past a year or more, enters this stage of mediocre
sexual chemistry. But there are always ways to bring that back with a bang.
[Read: 10 sexy ways to make married sex feel like a one night stand
(https://www.lovepanky.com/sensual-tease/fantasy/how-to-make-married-sex-
better)]

How to increase sexual chemistry in your relationship

If you feel like the sexual chemistry’s lacking in your love life, try to look for ways
to constantly keep each other’s bodies and sexual sides exciting. And just use
these 10 tips to bring sexual chemistry back into your romance again.

#1 Don’t cling to each other. Spend some time away from each other now and
then. Spending too much time with each other will prevent either of you from
missing each other. And when you don’t miss each other, you can’t crave for
each other sexually, can you? [Read: How to love someone without smothering
them (https://www.lovepanky.com/my-life/relationships/how-to-love-someone-
without-smothering)]
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yourself, feel good about who you are on the inside and outside, and you’ll
become a lot more attractive overnight.

#3 Make your lover feel lucky. As relationships grow, we start to forget how lucky
we are to have found such a wonderful catch in our partner. Look for ways to
remind your partner just how awesome you are, especially when you’re out with
other people. [Read: How to keep a guy interested in 30 super sexy ways
(https://www.lovepanky.com/women/how-to-tips-and-guide-for-women/how-to-
keep-a-guy-interested-in-30-ways)]

#4 Be a tease now and then. If you get something easily, you’ll never understand
its value. If your partner can get to have sex with you whenever they want, they’ll
never truly appreciate you. And when that happens, the sexual chemistry is
bound to go downhill. Tease your lover now and then while making out or while
walking down a street, either by doing something sexual and funny in public or
by playing hard to get.

#5 Be unpredictable. There’s nothing sexier than a lover who’s unpredictable.

Surprise and shock your partner out of the blue, be it about singing at a karaoke
night, getting drunk with ten tequila shots in a row, or by doing something
adventurous or daring when they least expect it. When you flash a sexy and
naughty side now and then, your man can’t help but get hard in the pants! [Read:
How to make your boyfriend want you more than ever
(https://www.lovepanky.com/women/attracting-and-dating-men/how-to-make-
your-boyfriend-want-you-more)]

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#6 Love your life. Positive people are happy people. And happy people love life.
And people who love life always look for ways to keep it fun and exciting. Don’t
let life push you down into the dumps. When you’re optimistic and smiling all the
time, it makes you look and feel more sexy. [Read: Ways to stop thinking negative
about yourself (https://www.lovepanky.com/my-life/relationships/negative-
thinking)]

#7 Don’t make your life feel like a routine. A new relationship is exciting because
there’s so much to know about each other. And all that changes when routine
gets into the relationship. Routines are predictable and boring. If Sunday night is
sex night all the time, can you really enjoy the sizzle of sexual chemistry? Sexual
chemistry has to be unpredictable and exciting. Keep it that way and it’ll always
stay on a high.

#8 Indulge in PDA. Public display of affection is a great way to bring the sexual
chemistry back into love. After all, when you’re restricted from doing things to
each other, it’ll make both of you feel like college kids all over again. If you’re not
a public display kind of person, fret not. Dress up, and get to a club. Grind each
other or just get naughty on the dark dance floor. It’ll still work wonders for your
sexual chemistry. [Read: 10 public display of affection laws you need to follow
(https://www.lovepanky.com/flirting-flings/get-flirty/public-display-of-affection-
etiquette)]
#9 Look good in each other’s arms. Do you look as good as or even better than
how you first looked when you met your partner? No? If you’ve put on a few
pounds or have stopped dressing up for your partner, well, it’s time to turn
things around. Sexual attraction has a lot to do with physical attraction. So if
you’re not feeling the sexual chemistry in love, you’re playing your part in the
blame game too. [Read: How to look better naked using 15 real life tips
(https://www.lovepanky.com/sensual-tease/seduction/how-to-look-better-
naked)]

#10 Awe your partner. Never stop awing your partner, in some way or the other.
When your partner can’t help but drop their jaws when they look at you, you’ll
definitely bring the sexual chemistry back into your lives.

A big tip to remember about chemistry

Don’t try to force sexual chemistry into a relationship. It doesn’t work that way.
Sexual chemistry has to come naturally to both of you. If you push someone into
a passionate session of lovemaking or a bout of PDA, you may end up angering
them instead of making them feel the connection. Show off your best side and
hope for the best. [Read: 9 relationship stages all couples go through
(https://www.lovepanky.com/love-couch/romantic-love/relationship-stages)]

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If you’re in a new relationship, make your date awe you and you may just be able
to attract them sexually. And if you’re in a seasoned relationship and find the
sexual chemistry dwindling, use these 10 tips and remember to always keep
things fresh and exciting. [Read: Seven sexiest types of sex you can ever have
(https://www.lovepanky.com/sensual-tease/passion-pill/different-types-of-sex)]

Sexual chemistry isn’t something you can control. But use these 10 tips on how
to create sexual chemistry and make it stay, and you may just be able to bring
the electricity back into your love life.