Personal Relationship

Personal
Relationship
refers to the association
lose connections between
e, formed by emotional bounds
nteraction.
Family
Relationship
Family is defined as “two
or more persons related
by birth, marriage or
adaptation, and who live
together as one
household.
Remember!
Having a strong family
relationship is ideal
although it doesn’t always
happen. There should be
love and closeness.
Friendship
They are the people we
trust, respect,
care about and feel that
we can confide in and
want to spend time with.
There are different
degrees of friendship.
Furthermore, friends
who are very close and
know each other very
well are referred to as “
Romantic
Relationship
This is when you feel
very strongly
attracted to the other
person, both to their
personality and often
A romantic relationship
exists between a
boyfriend and a
girlfriend (heterosexual
relationship)
 Homosexual
Remember!
Successful romantic
relationship
are built on love, trust, respect,
support, acceptance, shared
interest,
a desire for two people involve
to share their lives together
and end with marriage.
Attraction
When you are attracted to
someone,
you may always think of his or
her appearance.
Love
Love is a more complex feeling
that sometimes you can never
understand. There are different
kinds of love.
 Love for oneself
 Love for God
 Love for someone regardless
of gender
But the main point is,
Love should be
respected.
Commitment
This is the time in which you
have decided to settle down
and look for your own partner
for the rest of your life.
This is very practical since you
need to consider your income
and occupation.
According to Helen Fisher,
Attraction is primarily
on Physiology or certain
hormones that get attracted to
others.
the biological model of love as
oposed by anthropologist Helen Fishe
ove can start with any of these feelin
THREE BRAIN SYSTEMS
Stages of Falling in love
. Lust – refers to an urge or desire that
motivates us to partake in sexual activity
2.Attraction– is described as love-struck
phase. A person loses sleep and appetite
over someone and become excited.
Factors
of Attraction
Physical Attractiveness – it is one of th
rimary determinants of romantic attractio
specially in the early stages of dating.
Proximity– tend to get attracted to peopl
oser to them. They develop feelings to
omeone who shows increased comfort.
Similarity– people pick a partner whom
we have similarities such as background,
eliefs, social class, and etc.
Reciprocity– people like others who like
hem back. They feel indebted and tend to
eciprocate the action.
Similarity– people pick a partner whom
we have similarities such as background,
eliefs, social class, and etc.
Reciprocity– people like others who like
hem back. They feel indebted and tend to
eciprocate the action.
Stages of Falling in love
3. Attachment – refers to a deep and
enduring emotional feeling that connects
he two people across time and space.
is when long-lasting commitmen
are exchanged
Robert Strenberg (1998)
suggest that there are three

main
Components of Love.
Three components
of
Triangular
Theory of Love
Intimacy– is an intimate interpersonal
he relationship that involves physical and
motional intimacy.
Passion– is an intense emotion, enthusias

or desire for something.
Commitment– is the attitude of someone
ho works very hard to do or support
omething.
easy ways to express your commitm
show love, trust, respect, and
loyalty.
TYPES OF LOVE INTIMACY PASSION COMMITMENT
Non love No No No
Liking Yes No No
Infatuation No Yes No
Empty No No Yes
Love
TYPES OF LOVE INTIMACY PASSION COMMITMENT
Fatuous No No Yes
Companionate Yes No Yes

Romantic Yes Yes No
Consummate Yes Yes Yes
Love occurs not solely
between romantic partners
only. Humans can experience
different types of love
in various relationships.
Ancient Greeks studied
love
and denote each type by
giving each
one a Greek name.
Lee (1973) offers a theory
of love
styles which are derived
from
analysis of writing.
1. Pragma- Enduring Love
 It is a mature love that develops
over time.
 Instead of “falling in love”, you
are “standing in love”
with your partner.
2. Philia- Affectionate Love
 It is love that runs deep in
true friendship.
 It is called brotherly love when
Both people share the same values
and beliefs.
1. Storge- Familiar Love
 It is a naturally occurring love
rooted in parents and children.
 It is an infinite love built upon
acceptance and deep emotional
connection.
3. Eros- Romantic Love
 It is personal infatuation and
physical pleasure.
 It is a passionate love displayed
through physical affection.
4. Ludus- Playful Love
 It is a child-like and flirtatious
love found in the beginning.
 This type of love involves teasing,
playful motives.
5. Ludus- Playful Love
 It is a child-like and flirtatious
love found in the beginning.
 This type of love involves teasing,
playful motives.
6. Mania- Obsessive Love
 Madness over love is Mania
 It leads to unwanted jealousy
and possessiveness.
7. Philautia- Self Love
 It is having healthy
“self-compassion” love.
 It is when you recognize self-worth
and don’t ignore your personal needs.
8. Agape- Selfless Love
 It is an empathetic attitude of
love for everyone and anyone.
 It is given without any expectation
of receiving anything in return.
8. Agape- Selfless Love
 It is the highest love to offer.
 It is an unconditional love.

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