This technique describes using indirect language to describe hypnosis experiences to a client by pretending to tell them about the experiences of "my friend John or Jane". By using indirect language and mirroring the client's breathing, the unconscious mind understands the descriptions are about them, creating a strong rapport for hypnosis.
This technique describes using indirect language to describe hypnosis experiences to a client by pretending to tell them about the experiences of "my friend John or Jane". By using indirect language and mirroring the client's breathing, the unconscious mind understands the descriptions are about them, creating a strong rapport for hypnosis.
This technique describes using indirect language to describe hypnosis experiences to a client by pretending to tell them about the experiences of "my friend John or Jane". By using indirect language and mirroring the client's breathing, the unconscious mind understands the descriptions are about them, creating a strong rapport for hypnosis.
This technique describes using indirect language to describe hypnosis experiences to a client by pretending to tell them about the experiences of "my friend John or Jane". By using indirect language and mirroring the client's breathing, the unconscious mind understands the descriptions are about them, creating a strong rapport for hypnosis.
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Refinement 2: My Friend John Technique
A particularly useful technique for this is what is called the
my friend John or my friend Jane technique.
In this one you basically use all the same descriptions
about hypnosis and what it feels like to go into a trance, etc.
But instead of talking to the other person, you just
describe to them the experience that your friend John or Jane had when he or she went to see a hypnotist, or when he or she was hypnotized by someone.
And in that way, you create this weird sort of double
reality, where you are talking about an experience someone else has had, but because you have biofeedback, it is actually reinforcing whatever your client at that time is actually giving you in signals.
They know that you are actually talking about them at
some level and so you create a very strong rapport with the unconscious mind.
Refinement 2: My Friend John Technique
Another way to make this more indirect is to use some of
the lessons that youve already learned. Of course, you will be using this with the hypnotic gaze induction and in that, you can also use the my friend John or the my friend Jane technique in order to put another indirect spin.
Because I have to describe all of these experiences as
though they have happened to someone else.
For example, as John was relaxing in the chair,
breathing in and breathing out. I tie in those words breathing in and breathing out to the same time as the person opposite of me is breathing in and breathing out. It becomes very clear to the unconscious mind who I'm talking about. It really isn't to John.