Kezia Noble - 10 Hook Lead System 1 PDF
Kezia Noble - 10 Hook Lead System 1 PDF
Kezia Noble - 10 Hook Lead System 1 PDF
Name
Yes
No
Fine
Thanks
Hello
Over there (in day games): e.g: Do you know where I could find starbucks?
Its over there
Medium calibers
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Cuisine
Animals: 1. opinion openers. 2. What kind of animals do you have?
Colors
High calibers
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Celebrities
Countries
Cities
Hobbies
Jobs
Interests
Books
Movies
Stores like HMV are good because people are with good energy; unlike cloths stores
where women are more in a rush.
Example: At HMV, Can you recommend me a movie that I can watch tonight? A
question like What do you like about it? could open more hooks such as
soundtrack80s music
Dont stay on the opening-line subject for long. You have to transition from opener
to comfort.
So movie -> soundtrack -> 80 music -> Michael Jackson -> Hollywood -> drugs
Careful not to talk about one topic (such as the movie) for 20minutes.you wont
get her number
Use this technique by looking at the attitude factor, not the attractive factor. In
other words, use it with women who have an attitude; dont use it on an attractive
girl simply because she is attractive. Regular looking girls could be very bitchy
because they are approached by many guys. The very gorgeous ones may not be as
approached.
French girls love to be intellectually challenged: philosophy, religion, politics. So you
can break the rule of these taboo subjects with French girls
Dont try your best to win the argument, she wont like it
But also dont let her win because she will say oh he doesnt believe in
what he says
Instead, do the diffusion technique:
o With a smile, you say Stopyou and I wont agree on this subject.
We could talk for hours and we will go nowhere. Dont you agree?
She will say yes. Take a small pause for resistance. Then you say
you know what, I love that. Have you realized how some people
have no opinion with what you are saying, they just nod nicely. But
you are like me, you stand up for what you believe in..I love it
o By doing this youre taking control.you took control of the
conversation.
That could make her ask you the following questions: Why do you think that?,
Where would you go like to go?
Why not say thats nice: because it shows that you dont care. Whats your job?
Oh thats nice.
You could use it on: their favorite movie, book, celebrity, cuisine and they wont get
offended. These subjects wont make her say I wont sleep with him because he
doesnt like this movie
Dont use it on: No religion and no country where shes born in.
If she reacts badly you go with diffusion technique.
Be sure your opinion is bold, dont apologize for it. Dont say it in a needy matter.
Dont make your opinion fizzle out in the endremember, its your opinion
PART 2
14. Hook lead #6: Anecdote (Storytelling)
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Elements to add:
o Details
o Timing
o Emotion
o Follow-up threads.
Details: Women love details in stories. Convert a small story to an epic one
If you have a friend included in the story, tell the names. Replace unattractive
names to more attractive ones: Leila, Lea, Candy, Amber.
Timing: Dont speak too fast dont look like you just want to end the storytelling
Emotion: Anchor emotions using certain words. Eg: instead of nice ice cream , you
say delicious frozen ice cream. Eg2: I was a prisoner in my mind instead of I
wasnt feeling well
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Find a sad story that could make her cry. Women love to cry (they get
together every 6 months to watch a sad movie to cry.thats how they
bond). If you dont have one, Google and find one.
Follow-up threads: While you are telling your story, you could go like this: So I was
at the water park, and then there were these annoying kids.. then you ask her
btw, do you like kids? Ya? Because I dont so after I finish my story, tell me whats
so great about kids because I have to like these things. And then you get back to
the story..then again you stop somewhere else..blabla, have you been at a
waterpark? Oh in Vegas? I never been in Vegas, you have to tell me all about it
Then you go back to your story. What this does is that extends your conversation
subjects. When you finish the story, she will get back to one of the subjects you
have mentioned. If she doesnt, then you can choose which subject you want; such
as so you said you like kids, eh? Whats so great about them?
Because you dont want her to take the positive validation for granted, you need to
switch to negative validation without being arrogant.
So you could say to her what will you do during holiday? oh Im going Most
guys would say ok thats cool but in reality they dont care they just want to sleep
with her. What you will do, if you dont agree with her, is say nothing. Dont say oh
thats disgusting. Say nothing, and add a face of whatever, I dont want to
acknowledge what she said or a face of WTF. It will freak her out. If she says
whats wrong? Just say nothing, forget it. She wont forget it. After persistence,
you say okay, I will tell you but promise you wont get moody and shit. Its just
that everything was beautiful, you were my kind of girl but then you said this, I
wasnt expecting it..anyways can we talk about something else? Now, she will
start wanting to validate herself. You want that because you want to show women
that she could lose you in any second. You are more valuable when they think they
could lose you any second than knowing that you are in the safe bet.
This is very strong according to Kezia. Even she falls for it. Its gold when women try
to validate themselves.
You like this movie? Then you should watch that movie. You like sushi? You should
try that restaurant.
So heres what you should do. You pick 3 hooks when you go out: validation,
opinion, and the 3rd is your choice.
END OF SEMINAR
KEZIA FAQ
Q1: How long will it take me to grasp the 10 hook lead system?
A: The more effort you put into it, the faster. Dont get addicted to theory, you have
to practice.
Q3: When is a good point to stop the conversation and get back to her
later when in a club?
A: Thats break rapport.something she recommends. The good time is when you
made an emotional/laughter connection. Always leave her want you more. I will go
see my friends; I will catch up with you later.
A girl doesnt like when a guy spends too much time with her, even if she likes him.
So always make her want more. You dont need her to have a good time.
Q4: What if deep connection goes too far. E.g: her talking about her exboyfriend.
A: You may go like this: You know, this sounds really important. I appreciate that
you are sharing it but you need to talk to your friends about this; they are the one
who can help you.
This sets the boundary of friendship. You are not one of her friends. Thats what you
want to show.