Crucial Conversations Planner
Crucial Conversations Planner
Crucial Conversations Planner
Planner
Use the following worksheet to plan your next crucial conversation.
Get Unstuck
1. Where do you feel stuck (personally or professionally)?
Master My Stories
1. What stories are you telling yourself about the situation or the person (Victim, Villain, Helpless)?
STATE My Path
1. Create a script for how you will begin the conversation. Start with facts, then tell your story, and be sure to end with a question that
invites the other person into dialogue.
THE FACTS
MY STORY
Make It Safe
1. Whats the worst possible response you could get with your crucial conversation?
2. What safety skills would you use to address it (apology, contrast, create mutual purpose)?
3. If the other person misunderstands your intent, what is a contrasting statement you could use?
Dont:
Do:
Move to Action
1. How will you establish a way to follow up after the crucial conversation?
Who:
Will do what:
By when:
How well follow up: