(Ebook - Psychology) Ross Jeffries - How To Meet Beautiful Women
(Ebook - Psychology) Ross Jeffries - How To Meet Beautiful Women
(Ebook - Psychology) Ross Jeffries - How To Meet Beautiful Women
Women be at this point that she will fall in love with you.
Dating her will provide you the opportunity to
showcase who you really are, a nice,
BY FRENCH AUTHOR PETER LATOURETTE
hardworking, good guy.
It is extremely important to take a close look at We are arrogant. We do not like to think of our
ourselves as men. It is equally important to shortcomings and faults. I think that taking a
understand why we are who we are. The more good hard look at ourselves is an important task
in touch you are with yourself, the more that we must be willing to face. This
attractive you will become to the opposite sex. self-discovery is the key to our success in life in
You're comfortable with yourself, thus, others general, and with women in particular.
will be comfortable with you. In general, women
will be very happy with this type of man, Men need to channel their natural inborn
because they enjoy the company of someone aggression into productive pursuits . We must
who is sure of himself. So listen guys, be never be abusive towards women. Treat them
confident and let it show. like ladies, and you will be amazed at the positive
responses that you will receive. Be strong,
Women worry a lot more than men do. They fret confident and kind.
about such things as work, money, health and
family. A sophisticated approach in appealing to A man's life expectancy is nine years shorter
a woman involves the subtle suggestion that you than a woman's. The reason for this is that we
will be "good for her future". She needs to are self destructive. It is not a genetic issue. We
clearly understand that you are a person who smoke more, drink more, use more drugs, and
can handle tough situations. You can be counted get into more accidents. These are not very
on to take care of things for her, and bring her attractive traits.
happiness. Let her tell you what her concerns
are. What bothers her? Explain to her how you You must ask yourself "what self-destructive
dealt with similar situations, and offer her some things am I doing that are hurting my potential
intelligent, concrete suggestions. If she seems to relationships?" Only you know the answer to that
be lacking self confidence tell her how capable question, and only you can help yourself. You
she seems to you, and that based upon what you must first examine your own behavior.
have seen in her, she will have no problem Otherwise, whatever tips I give you on how to
handling the situation. Many times during your pick up women will do you no good. After you
initial encounter with women, this type of have looked in the mirror, we can start with a
scenario will play itself out. She will evaluate fresh perspective.
your every response. She is testing you. She is
asking herself "what kind of husband will this Up to this point I have covered some general
man be to me?", "what kind of father will he be principals. These general principals will be the
to my kids?". Keep this in mind as she mentions foundation for the specific points that I will be
her concerns. making from here on.
You must truly believe that you are worthy of THE IMPORTANCE OF HUMOR
her. You deserve a beautiful woman to be your
companion. Your attempt will be half-hearted
Women love to laugh, so you can always use a
and doomed to failure, if you do not feel worthy
bit of humor to your advantage. This is a great
of having the beautiful woman that you are about
ice breaker. It is one of the best ways of
to approach. The real secret to scoring with
beginning a conversation with a woman. You
women is simply having the guts to go over and
can start off by saying, "I just heard a funny
start up a conversation. Always keep in mind
story ... may I tell it to you?" You will be
that you have nothing to lose, and everything to
shocked at the number of times that she will say
gain. You go up to her and say "HI". It's that
"Sure, why not". She will love to hear it. Your job
simple. Sure there's more to say. However, this
is to make sure that you have a funny antidote to
is the essence of what you must do.
relate to her. You can look at comedy tapes or
joke books to come up with something that is
INTERPRETING HER SUBTLE especia lly charming.
SIGNALS TO YOUR ADVANTAGE
Many times off the cuff comments work much
In picking up beautiful women there are no better than well thought out pick up lines, or
complicated formulas involved. You simply need jokes. You need to judge the situation, and
to keep a few fundamental things in mind. The determine what is best for you to use.
first one is Interpreting her subtle signals to your
advantage. This means getting a sense of who BEING YOURSELF
she is before you begin speaking with her. You
observe her for a few minutes and ask yourself- Let her see the real you. This is important to
What is her body language telling me? What do remember. A lot of times it is very difficult for
her clothes, hair, posture, mannerisms, etc. say men to be relaxed when they approach a
about her? All of this information that you woman. This is mainly due to the fact that we
visually collect gives you an idea of who she is, are often too busy trying to be someone that we
and what she's about. It's important to go are not.
through this analyzation process due to the fact
that it will make you more comfortable when you I mentioned earlier that we need to put ourselves
begin speaking with her. If her mannerisms in a better light than we're actually in, and that
indicate to you that she's a shy person, you will we could do this by slight exaggeration. This is
then use a more delicate approach, with her, and fine if carried out in a correct discreet manner.
speak on the soft side. On the other hand, if you Otherwise, you will come off as a faker and liar.
detect that she is really an outgoing type of You will be most relaxed when you display your
person, then you may want to demonstrate a most true ideal self.
more lively side of yourself. In either case, keep
away from shit like "Hey babe, how ya doing?" GETTING TO KNOW HER
and "Wanna have some fun?" You don't ever
want to use any lines like that. After you say
"HI", you can introduce yourself and mention In conversation tell her about yourself Tell her
that she caught your attention, and you just had
where you went to school, and what your you can ask her out on a date. The date that you
hobbies are. ask her out on will involve an activity that she
has told you she enjoys. This is why you must
You can talk about music, movies, and books. carefully listen to what she has told you before.
You want to show her that you are a well
rounded person who takes part in a variety of AVOID APPEARING DESPERATE
activities. It will be during this conversation that
you will gather up as much information as
As I have mentioned a couple of times before, it
possible about what she likes to do. You will ask
is extremely important that you do not appear
her about her hobbies, and her other interests.
desperate. Do not look like you can't wait to get
Then you just sit back, and listen closely, and
her panties down. I REPEAT do not look like
carefully.
you can't wait to get her panties down. I know
you can't wait, and you know you can't wait. The
This is where "Adapting your personality" will
point is that you don't want to give her the
come into play. You will indicate to her that you
impression that you're horny, and all you're after
have great interest in some of the things she has
is a one night stand.
just told you she enjoys. You will show interest in
these things even if you currently are not really
interested in them. Once you really get to know THE IMPORTANCE OF
the things she likes, and you do them with her, GOOD GROOMING
there is a good chance that you will also begin to
genuinely like doing them. The important thing to Grooming is extremely important. Always be
remember in the beginning is that you must be clean and well dressed. If you want some good
open minded. Having an open mind is extremely ideas as far as dressing is concerned, you can
important in developing a common ground always pick up a men's fashion magazine and
between you and a woman. see what appeals to you. It's smart to take notice
of such things.
Up to this point you have accomplished a couple
of very significant things. First of all, by the very It's also a good idea to wear some cologne.
act of approaching her, you have separated Women love the manly scent of a good cologne.
yourself from the pack. She realizes this was not Don't lay it on too thick. Put on just enough to
easy for you to do. Most men shy away. A lot of get her interested in what you have to say.
men are afraid that women will think they are
idiots for approaching them. In fact, just the TAKE YOUR TIME-KEEP IT
opposite is true. She will love being approached
in such an honest, and straight forward manner. SIMPLE
Even if she is not available for a date, she will
still consider you a gentlemen. Why? Because You will learn a great deal from your experience
you were indeed a gentlemen. That's why. every time that you approach a woman. You can
more fully develop your skills by critiquing your
The second significant thing that you have done own performance. What went well? What
up to this point is the development of a common mistakes did I make? I can tell you one big
ground. mistake most men make, they are in too much of
a rush. They try to get a woman into the sack an
If you can sense that the situation is going good, hour after they meet her. You will not make this
then you must make a move to see her again. mistake. You need to be patient.
You can say "See you here same time
tomorrow", or, if the both of you really hit it off
A lot of beautiful women feel that men approach get the foot in the door. The beauty of it is that
them because they are only interested in getting you don't even have to talk. You can just smile.
laid. You have to demonstrate that you are
interested in her for herself as a person, in her I can tell you that a little kindness can go a long
activities, and that you are just not using her for way. The real scoop on shyness is that the way
sex. Your tone of voice should be calm and to beat it is by facing it. You face it by forcing
confident. The expression on your face is yourself to go up to a woman,, and do what we
relaxed. You are giving her complete attention as have talked about throughout this book. In
she speaks to you. This type of setting, and mind general, the approach by a shy man will not
set, will allow you to concentrate on other differ very much from the approach used by all
aspects of the dating game besides sex. You other men.
listen, and if necessary adapt your personality to
her interests (preferably the one's that really do Once you give it a try you will see that
appeal to you). If you concentrate on perfecting everything will go fine. You will then wonder
this part of the game, you will see that the sex why you ever thought approaching a woman was
will come naturally. such a problem in the first place.
I'm sure that you have heard the term "paralysis You can of course all but guarantee your
by analysis". It refers to someone not being able chances of success by showing her you have
to get something done because they have two tickets to a big show, and putting one of the
analyzed it to death. Their mind has made the tickets in her hand. She will love the fact that
specific task much more complicated than it you thought so highly of her. Remember, shyness
really is. As a result, every time the task is will only prevent you from meeting women if you
attempted, the person is intimidated, and thus, let it. Don't let it.
failure is inevitable. You have to keep things
simple. This is the sure road to success. I could
GET OUT THERE-BE
harp on a specific point for nine pages, but what
good would that do anyone. Always keep in mind AGGRESSIVE
that you will have the most success with women
by sticking to the basics. Girls want to have fun, You will only go out on a limited amount of dates
and you are going to give it to them. As long as if you are always waiting for formal introductions
you keep this simple fact in mind, you ,will from friends and relatives. You need to go out
always be one step ahead of everyone. and meet women on your own. Take the
initiative. Be aggressive. The first step is just
DEALING WITH SHYNESS getting out there and doing it. I have found it
helpful to have a few stories in mind that you can
tell a woman in your initial meeting. It's a good
Let's get back to that woman that caught your
idea to commit a couple of interesting stories to
attention. You already know that there is no
memory. These stories will prove invaluable in
magical formula in getting to know her. You
the event that you are at a point in the
simply go up to her with a smile on your face,
conversation where both parties have nothing to
and say hello. If you're shy then you must try to
say. Men are always concerned with this
force yourself. Remember, you have nothing to
problem. Committing a good story or two to
lose. You may never again get the chance to talk
memory is an excellent way to avoid that
to this particular woman. You can begin with a
dreaded deadly silence. You need to understand
simple gesture such as offering her a magazine
that she may be as nervous as you are. She may
you have just finished reading. This can help you
not know what to say. Thus, your story may be a
lifesaver.
As I mentioned earlier on, you must also make
sure that you always flatter a woman. Women BEING THE BEST IN BED
love compliments, so provide them with plenty.
Don't be ridiculous about it, though. You must
SEX. You care about it, and so does she. The
make sure that there is some truth to your
key here is to put her needs ahead of your own.
compliments. Avoid exaggerations.
There is no single advise that will be more
You should always concern yourself with being
valuable to you in the area of sexual relations.
interested, rather than with being interesting.
The biggest mistake that men make is that they
Everyone is so worried about being interesting
get into bed with a woman, and only care about
that they forget to demonstrate that they are also
satisfying their own sexual needs. The beauty of
interested in the person they are dealing with.
being willing to satisfy her sexual needs is that
You must learn to demonstrate genuine interest
she will always come back for more. The guys
in the things that she says. Most people are only
who just mount a woman,) and blast away until
concerned with themselves. Therefore, the fact
they shoot their load into her belly are both
that you show an interest in what she has to say
foolish and reckless. You will separate yourself
will make you special in her eyes.
from other men by taking your time. Remember
the fact that it takes a woman longer to reach
SELLING YOURSELF orgasm than it does for a man. Many times a
man has climaxed, and considers the
You don't have to be smart, handsome, or rich to love-making over, while the woman is just
meet beautiful women. However, it won't help heating up. Think slow. I would advise you to
you much if you are dumb, ugly, and poor. The take more time in foreplay. Massage her back,
point that I'm trying to make is that you must her legs, her breast. Keep kissing her. All during
make a good first impression. You will want to this phase you are taking your time. She is slowly
communicate your good qualities by following the being brought to the boiling point. You will find
pattern noted above. Your actions will that her panties are soaking wet. You will now
demonstrate that you are a good person, exciting, pull off her panties and go down on her. Women
smart, and romantic. You are exactly what she is love to have oral sex performed on them. She
looking for. will go crazy with excitement. She will love it. A
lot of men do not like to go down on a woman.
You will not be able to demonstrate all your Thus, if you are willing to go down on her, you
qualities in 10 minutes. However, you can give will make a very good sexual impression on her.
an overview of your general features that will She will see you as an excellent lover. She will
leave her curious, and wanting to see more. be glad that she decided to open her legs for you.
It is very important to remember that when you
You will be comfortable speaking with her, go down on a woman you should stay down
because you are a gentleman. You make eye there for awhile. Don't just do it for two minutes
contact as you speak, and you demonstrate a and expect her to be satisfied. You should stay
sense of confidence. You are anything but there for at least fifteen minutes. The secret of
boring. It's easy to convey a sense of success in this area is to really get into it. You
excitement, and enthusiasm about life once you need to spread her lips and suck her dry. I hope
realize that this is central to your success with you don't mind it when she comes all over your
women. Each situation will be a bit different. face. At this point you will be in complete sexual
However, as long as you use these concepts, and control of her.
incorporate your own unique style, you will
notice that you will have more success with Another no nonsense way of making yourself a
women than you thought was ever possible. better lover is to develop the habit of figuring out
exactly how your lover most enjoys the way you will usually turn over on their side and go to
make love to her. Sometimes women will be sleep.
reluctant in voicing their sexual preferences.
Therefore, you need to be aware of how she I think that it's a great idea to surprise her with
reacts to the things you do to her. You will get a instant weekend getaways. She will always have
good idea of her preferences by the way she fond memories of you that will last her a lifetime.
moans, and also by the way she uses her hands. You will make her feel like the most special girl
The secret is to make sure that you do not in the world. Remember that you have probably
overlook these subtle signals. The ideal situation wasted money on countless things that were not
would be to establish a relationship where you as meaningful as a special weekend together
can get her to tell you exactly the way she likes with this beautiful woman. Some very exciting
things done. This however takes patience on things that you may do with her include things
your part. In the beginning of your sexual such as horseback riding, snowmobiling, or
relationship take notice of her reactions. It is camping. In addition give her flowers,
through these signals where you will learn what chocolates, or take her to a good restaurant
most excites her. You can think of it as a trial where they serve her favorite food. You will
and error process. You will have a lot of fun instantly show her your romantic side with
during your experiments. You will also provide actions such as these. You will separate yourself
her with more orgasms than she has ever from other men by doing these things during any
experienced before. You can be sure that this day of the year, not just on special occasions
will make you pretty special in her eyes. You just such as birthdays. You want to bring excitement
follow these simple concepts, and dive in for the into her life. You crush the gates of her dull life,
time of your life. and be her hero. I guarantee you that her friends
will start telling her how lucky she is to know
AFTER THE L0VE-MAKING you. All her friends will envy her.
You are now done with the best love-making COMMITMENT AND
session she has ever had. You have completely EMOTIONAL ATTACHMENT
blown her mind. Both of you are lying on the bed
exhausted. Sometimes a woman will feel sad at You have already attracted her to you at this
this point because the realization sets in that the point in time. Thus, you will now begin the
great sexual feeling cannot last forever. It's a emotional attachment phase. This phase involves
psychological thing that quite a number of comfort and security. It is extremely important
females experience. It is at this time that you for you to realize whether or not you actually
might consider taking her in your arms and letting want to be in a committed emotional relationship.
her know how special she is to you. You might If you are not ready for a commitment, you
even suggest that she spend the next weekend should be an adult about it and tell her up-front
with you in a place such as Miami. That's right, that you are not interested at this time in a
I'm dead serious. Of course it does not need to relationship that requires a serious commitment.
be as extravagant as that, but you can offer her Never forget, honesty is the best policy.
something special. The reason for this line of
thinking is twofold-One, you are instantly If you decide that you are ready for a serious
injecting a lot of excitement that will lift her commitment you should avoid being very
spirits sky high. The second reason is that you possessive. You should also avoid being the
will be instantly separating yourself from most extremely jealous type. You should always let
men, since as soon as the sex act is over men your woman know that you trust her.
It was the roman poet who said "to be loved, be to a woman's small talk. Never just let it go by
lovable". In my opinion that sentence contains with a simple "yeah, the weather's been good
the complete secret of love. It is the key to your lately", and then walk away. She could have
success. The essence of what you need to do to been very easily trying to pick you up. You know
attract women. You treat them kindly, with a lot how crafty women can be.
of tenderness and respect. You take your time
with them in bed. You do great, exciting things Keep that conversation going. A dead give away
for them. In short you love them. that a woman is interested in you will be when
you notice that she is really listening to your
PLACES TO MEET WOMEN every word as you speak to her.
You can meet women all over the place. At ESSENTIAL PERSONAL TRAITS
community affairs meetings, churches, museums,
elevators, clubs, parks, and even on the street. If you care about the topic of meeting women as
You can be creative and put yourself in a much as I think you do, then the following traits
position where you are the only man among are essential. You should work on fully
many women. You can join art classes, or developing these traits:
cooking seminars. I know that these are common
sense ideas, but I also realize that many men 1 ) Self-esteem
overlook these obvious situations. You will have
the women competing for your attention in 2) Positiveness
situations such as this. Give it a try and see what
I mean. I can tell you that it has worked well for 3) Compassion
me. I do my laundry each week at a laundromat
that's filled with women, each one waiting their 4) Enthusiasm
turn to talk to the "nice single guy who's so
polite". 5) Honesty