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Management:
If you’re living with high levels of stress, you’re
putting your entire well-being at risk. Stress
wreaks havoc on your emotional equilibrium, as
and Relieve
effectively, and enjoy life.
Until you accept responsibility for the role you Withdrawing from friends, family, and social
play in creating or maintaining it, your stress level activities.
will remain outside your control.
Sleeping too much.
it in your journal or use a stress tracker on your out, angry outbursts, physical violence).
Tip 3: Practice the 4 A’s of Avoid hot-button topics. If you get upset over
religion or politics, cross them off your
stress management conversation list. If you repeatedly argue about
the same subject with the same people, stop
While stress is an automatic response from your
bringing it up or excuse yourself when it’s the
nervous system, some stressors arise at
topic of discussion.
predictable times: your commute to work, a
meeting with your boss, or family gatherings, for
Pare down your to-do list. Analyze your
example. When handling such predictable
schedule, responsibilities, and daily tasks. If
stressors, you can either change the situation or
you’ve got too much on your plate, distinguish
change your reaction.
between the “shoulds” and the “musts.” Drop
When deciding which option to choose in any tasks that aren’t truly necessary to the bottom of
given scenario, it’s helpful to think of the four A’s: the list or eliminate them entirely.
stick to them. Whether in your personal or respectful way. If you don’t voice your feelings,
professional life, taking on more than you can resentment will build and the stress will increase.
consistently causes stress in your life, limit the do the same. If you both are willing to bend at
amount of time you spend with that person, or least a little, you’ll have a good chance of finding
Take control of your environment. If the Be more assertive. Don’t take a backseat in
evening news makes you anxious, turn off the TV. your own life. Deal with problems head on, doing
If traffic makes you tense, take a longer but less- your best to anticipate and prevent them. If
traveled route. If going to the market is an you’ve got an exam to study for and your chatty
unpleasant chore, do your grocery shopping roommate just got home, say up front that you
only have five minutes to talk. Accept the things you can’t
Find balance. All work and no play is a recipe for
change
burnout. Try to find a balance between work and Some sources of stress are unavoidable. You
family life, social activities and solitary pursuits, can’t prevent or change stressors such as the
daily responsibilities and downtime. death of a loved one, a serious illness, or a
national recession. In such cases, the best way to
cope with stress is to accept things as they are.
Adapt to the stressor Acceptance may be difficult, but in the long run,
it’s easier than railing against a situation you can’t
If you can’t change the stressor, change yourself.
change.
You can adapt to stressful situations and regain
your sense of control by changing your
Don’t try to control the uncontrollable. Many
expectations and attitude.
things in life are beyond our control, particularly
the behavior of other people. Rather than
Reframe problems. Try to view stressful
stressing out over them, focus on the things you
situations from a more positive perspective.
can control such as the way you choose to react
Rather than fuming about a traffic jam, look at it
to problems.
as an opportunity to pause and regroup, listen to
your favorite radio station, or enjoy some alone
Look for the upside. When facing major
time.
challenges, try to look at them as opportunities
for personal growth. If your own poor choices
Look at the big picture. Take perspective of
contributed to a stressful situation, reflect on
the stressful situation. Ask yourself how
them and learn from your mistakes.
important it will be in the long run. Will it matter in
a month? A year? Is it really worth getting upset
Learn to forgive. Accept the fact that we live in
over? If the answer is no, focus your time and
an imperfect world and that people make
energy elsewhere.
mistakes. Let go of anger and resentments. Free
yourself from negative energy by forgiving and
Adjust your standards. Perfectionism is a
moving on.
major source of avoidable stress. Stop setting
yourself up for failure by demanding perfection.
Share your feelings. Expressing what you’re
Set reasonable standards for yourself and others,
going through can be very cathartic, even if
and learn to be okay with “good enough.”
there’s nothing you can do to alter the stressful
situation. Talk to a trusted friend or make an
Practice gratitude. When stress is getting you
appointment with a therapist.
down, take a moment to reflect on all the things
you appreciate in your life, including your own
positive qualities and gifts. This simple strategy Tip 4: Get moving
can help you keep things in perspective.
When you’re stressed, the last thing you probably
feel like doing is getting up and exercising. But include walking, running, swimming, dancing,
physical activity is a huge stress reliever—and cycling, tai chi, and aerobics. But whatever you
you don’t have to be an athlete or spend hours in choose, make sure it’s something you enjoy so
a gym to experience the benefits. Exercise you’re more likely to stick with it.
releases endorphins that make you feel good, and
it can also serve as a valuable distraction from While you’re exercising, make a conscious effort
your daily worries. to pay attention to your body and the physical
(and sometimes emotional) sensations you
While you’ll get the most benefit from regularly experience as you’re moving. Focus on
exercising for 30 minutes or more, it’s okay to coordinating your breathing with your
build up your fitness level gradually. Even very movements, for example, or notice how the air or
small activities can add up over the course of a sunlight feels on your skin. Adding this
day. The first step is to get yourself up and mindfulness element will help you break out of
moving. Here are some easy ways to incorporate the cycle of negative thoughts that often
exercise into your daily schedule: accompanies overwhelming stress.
Play ping-pong or an activity-based video [Read: Social Support for Stress Relief]
close by to lean on when you feel overwhelmed place to handle life’s stressors.
by stress, but by building and maintaining a
network of close friends you can improve your Set aside leisure time. Include rest and
resiliency to life’s stressors. relaxation in your daily schedule. Don’t allow
other obligations to encroach. This is your time to
take a break from all responsibilities and recharge
Tips for building relationships your batteries.
01. Reach out to a colleague at work. Do something you enjoy every day. Make
time for leisure activities that bring you joy,
02. Help someone else by volunteering. whether it be stargazing, playing the piano, or
working on your bike.
03. Have lunch or coffee with a friend.
with a healthy lifestyle That’s where quick stress relief comes in.
In addition to regular exercise, there are other The fastest way to reduce stress is by taking a
healthy lifestyle choices that can increase your deep breath and using your senses—what you
resistance to stress. see, hear, taste, and touch—or through a
soothing movement. By viewing a favorite photo,
Eat a healthy diet. Well-nourished bodies are smelling a specific scent, listening to a favorite
better prepared to cope with stress, so be piece of music, tasting a piece of gum, or hugging
mindful of what you eat. Start your day right with a pet, for example, you can quickly relax and
breakfast, and keep your energy up and your focus yourself.
mind clear with balanced, nutritious meals
[Read: Quick Stress Relief]
throughout the day.
Quo Vadis?
Clinical Chemistry, 2013
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