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malignant self-love

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narcissism revisited the narcissus would

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tend to display the sadistic aspect of

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streak in his personality in one of two

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cases one that the very acts of sadism

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generate narcissistic supply so then

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such a narcissist can say I inflict pain

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therefore I am superior or omnipotent in

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the other cases when the victims of the

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Nazis sadism our stealing is only or

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major sources of narcissistic supply but

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they are perceived by him to be

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intentionally frustrating and

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withholding sadistic acts are the
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narcissist way of punishing them for not

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being docile obedient admiring an

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adoring as he expects them to be in view

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of his uniqueness cosmic significance

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and special entitlement narcissists are

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not full fledge sadist in the psychic

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psychosexual sense of the word they

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rarely inflict physical torture or

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sexual torture on their victims but in

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all other respects they are full-fledged

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sadie's because of the narcissus lack of

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empathy and rigid personality he often

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inflicts a great physical or mental pain

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on meaningful others in his life and he

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enjoys their writhing and suffering the

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narcissist is as much an artist of pain

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as any other type of sadist the

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difference between the narcissist and

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the classical sadist lies in their

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motivation the narcissist tortures and

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abuses as as a means of punishing and

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reasserting superiority re-establishing

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omnipotence and grandiosity the sadists

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does the same thing for pure usually

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sexually tinged pleasure but both types

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classic sadist the classic narcissist

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are adept at finding the chinks in

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people's armors their vulnerabilities

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frailties

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fears both

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venomous in the pursuit of their prey

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both are unable to empathize with their

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victims serve sentient and rigidly the

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narcissist abuses his victims verbally

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mentally or physically will very often

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in all three ways he infiltrates her

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defenses the narcissus shatters the

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victim self-confidence confuses and

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confounds her demeans and debases her

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the Nazis invade her territory

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abuses her confidence exhausts her

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resources hurts her loved ones threatens

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the stability and security and measures

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her in his paranoid state of mind
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frightens her out of her wits with all's

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love and sex from her prevent

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satisfaction causes frustration

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humiliates an insult her privately

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Republic points out her shortcomings

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repeatedly criticizing her profusely and

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in this scientific and objective manner

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and this is a very partial list of the

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sadistic tactics of narcissus very often

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the narcissus sadistic acts are

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disguised as an enlightened interest in

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the welfare of his victim he plays the

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psychiatrist to her psychopathology

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which is usually totally dreamt up by

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him he acts the Guru the avuncular
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father-figure the teacher the only true

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friend the old experienced the these

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roles this this acting is intended to

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weaken the victims defenses and to lay

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siege to hurt this disintegrating nurse

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the narcissistic variant of sadism is so

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subtle so poisonous or pernicious that

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it might well be regarded is the most

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dangerous of all variants of sages it's

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not overt its covert luckily for the

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victim the narcissus attention span is

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short and his resources and energy are

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limited in constant efforts consuming an

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attention diverting pursuit of

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narcissus lets his victims go and

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usually he does it before the victim has

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suffered irreversible damage the victim

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isn't free to rebuild the life from

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ruins it's not an easy undertaking this

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but it's far better than the total

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obliteration which awaits the victims of

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the true classic series narcissists are

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a touch and go a sadistic narcissist

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once his written quote I find it

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difficult to accept the time

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irredeemably evil that I ecstatically

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almost orgiastic aliy enjoy hurting

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people and that I actively seek to

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inflict pain on others he trans so

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contrary to my long cultivated and

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tenderly net nurtured self-image as a

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benefactor sensitive intellectual and

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harmless Hermes in truth my sadism

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meshes well and synergetic Lee with two

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other behavior patterns my relentless

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pursuit of not cystic supply and my

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self-destructive self-defeating and

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therefore masochistic streak the process

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of torturing says the narcissist

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humiliating and offending people

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provides proof of my only pittance

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nourishes my grandiose fantasies and

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buttresses my false self the sadistic
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narcissist continues to to write the

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victims distress and dismayed constitute

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narcissistic supply of the purest grade

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it also alienates them turns them into

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hostile witnesses or even enemies and

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stalkers thus through the agency of my

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hapless and helpless victims I bring

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upon my head recurrent torrents of wrath

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and punishment this animosity guarantees

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my unraveling my failure outcomes which

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I avidly seek in order to placate my

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inner chastising castigating voices what

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Freud called the sadistic super-ego

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the narcissist concludes similarly I am

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a fiercely independent person this is
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known in

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logical jargon is culture dependent but

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mine my independence my autonomy is a

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pathological variant I want to be free

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to frustrate myself by inflicting mental

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heaven on my human environment including

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and especially my nearest and dearest

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this way I secure in incur their

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inevitable ire I'm in my comfort zone

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getting attached to or becoming

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dependent on someone in any way

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intellectually means surrendering my

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urges to for men to torment free like

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all to be ruined by the consequences of

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my own evil actions concludes the

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narcissist