As an acronym, CODA stands for Children of Deaf Adults. As a word, Coda means the terminal portion of a musical piece. Seen in this context, the title seems to be very appropriate. Our protagonist, Ruby is the child of deaf adults. She is gifted musically. In essence, the film deals with the terminal portion of her childhood, when she has to choose between music, which is her passion and her family. Ruby has always had it a bit harder than most children because she is the conduit between her family and the rest of the world. In a way, she doesn't belong to both the worlds. Music is her only refuge but if she chooses to go to music school, she would have to leave the family business at a very crucial time.
Perhaps the best thing about this movie is the sensitive portrayal of Ruby's family. The characters are all very relatable. The parents are scared to let their baby go into a world of music because they are unable to share it with her. They fear that they would lose her completely to an unknown world. Ruby's mother even asks her not to leave, making Ruby feel very resentful. A POV scene where Ruby's father is sitting among the crowd at her choir recital is particularly well done. It beautifully puts the viewer in the father's shoes and makes us realize how isolated he (and Ruby's mom & brother) must be feeling at that moment. The parents also realize that Ruby has had to grow up too fast. The scene where Ruby's mom tells her that she was worried that she would fail her as a mother is a beautiful example of effective communication without any verbal dialogue. Ruby's brother is a flawed and yet a very relatable character too. Since his little sister can hear, the family is more dependent on her and this hurts his pride and self-esteem. He is the only one in the family who believes that the family could manage the business without Ruby. He is confident that given the right circumstances, the hearing people will soon learn to interact with deaf people, and he's quite right about that!
In a particularly beautiful scene, when Ruby's teacher, Mr. V asks her how she feels when she sings, she finds herself unable to find the right english words, and so, she uses ASL to describe the overwhelming sensation.
Despite its serious subject matter, the movie has many comedic elements too, some of which are genuinely funny. In particular, Ruby's father has a terrific sense of humor!
The film does have some flaws like the absence of any interpreters during court hearing and medical appointments, but these minor quibbles aside, the film is very deserving of the Academy award!
Perhaps the best thing about this movie is the sensitive portrayal of Ruby's family. The characters are all very relatable. The parents are scared to let their baby go into a world of music because they are unable to share it with her. They fear that they would lose her completely to an unknown world. Ruby's mother even asks her not to leave, making Ruby feel very resentful. A POV scene where Ruby's father is sitting among the crowd at her choir recital is particularly well done. It beautifully puts the viewer in the father's shoes and makes us realize how isolated he (and Ruby's mom & brother) must be feeling at that moment. The parents also realize that Ruby has had to grow up too fast. The scene where Ruby's mom tells her that she was worried that she would fail her as a mother is a beautiful example of effective communication without any verbal dialogue. Ruby's brother is a flawed and yet a very relatable character too. Since his little sister can hear, the family is more dependent on her and this hurts his pride and self-esteem. He is the only one in the family who believes that the family could manage the business without Ruby. He is confident that given the right circumstances, the hearing people will soon learn to interact with deaf people, and he's quite right about that!
In a particularly beautiful scene, when Ruby's teacher, Mr. V asks her how she feels when she sings, she finds herself unable to find the right english words, and so, she uses ASL to describe the overwhelming sensation.
Despite its serious subject matter, the movie has many comedic elements too, some of which are genuinely funny. In particular, Ruby's father has a terrific sense of humor!
The film does have some flaws like the absence of any interpreters during court hearing and medical appointments, but these minor quibbles aside, the film is very deserving of the Academy award!
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