While the stigma of being gay has diminished these past years, leading to such things as gay marriage, the trans-gender community continues to be apart from that community. A gay man or woman can walk down a street and remain anonymous unless he or she is being deliberately flamboyant (don't get me wrong; they are still persecuted in just about every way). A trans-gender person is met with raised eyebrows and confusion, at the very least, discomfort. I can't think of much else that would be riskier than this. This documentary is about Kris Beck/Kristin Beck, who was part of the elite SEALS, a group that faced incredibly danger, during 13 deployments, including 7 combat deployments. He/She was decorated for valor and received a Purple Heart. Beck was not just a SEAL but had the reputation as one who was near suicidal in confronting enemy fire, doing things others would not have done. This almost monomaniacal commitment led to great problems in his marriage (he has two sons whom he hasn't seen in years). When his military career was over, he realized what was going on. He had already been cross dressing when he could as a child and had all sorts of conflicts with his being. Of course, this was the final straw in the marriage. This documentary shows what it is like to try to continue to do things that most of us take for granted, to lead a life we would like to have, and do it under circumstances where people often see you as scum (being told he will have lots of company in hell; I suppose these are self professed Christians). While the presentation is a little bit repetitive, it's a thoughtful, courageous portrayal. At one point Beck says something like, "It's not like a movie. There are no happy endings." See this and see someone who is just human being. Also, I was really impressed with some of his SEAL brothers who have managed to support him/her along the way.