82 reviews
- constanza-nm
- Feb 10, 2018
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- carolinalarsencinema
- Feb 21, 2018
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- sheepish-wolves
- Nov 23, 2018
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This film tells the story of a man and a woman, who use dating apps to meet others for fun with no strings attached.
That's the first ten minutes of the plot anyway. It appears that they constantly want newness in their love and sex lives. Yet, the story soon develops to another direction. It is clear that one of them is stuck in the past, while the other wants something but would not admit it. It is a brilliant portrayal of modern relationships. It even explores honesty to self and others. In addition, the lighting and the sets are consistently remarkable. Though the film is a little slow at times, it is still worth a watch.
That's the first ten minutes of the plot anyway. It appears that they constantly want newness in their love and sex lives. Yet, the story soon develops to another direction. It is clear that one of them is stuck in the past, while the other wants something but would not admit it. It is a brilliant portrayal of modern relationships. It even explores honesty to self and others. In addition, the lighting and the sets are consistently remarkable. Though the film is a little slow at times, it is still worth a watch.
Nicholas Hoult and Laia Costa are very attractive young people compulsively using a dating app and having several minute stands. They match one night ... after each had already had a previously unsuccessful hook-up ... and meet for drinks, but hit it off so well that they don't just immediately have sex. Soon they are in a committed relationship, but familiarity creeps in and they conveniently cheat on each other on the same night. They realize that while they really do love each other, they are also really drawn to the rush of new relationships, so they decide to try an open relationship. Each is allowed to pursue other people as long as they are completely honest with each other?
So ... do you think that works out well for them?
This movie has some things going for it. Hoult and Costa are really quite good ... Costa especially ... and neither will disappoint in the film's numerous and quite explicit sex scenes. The style, impressionistic with very close, hand-held jittery cam, makes the early sequences pretty exciting, and the film goes quite some way towards recreating the rush of physical attraction and first love.
This relationship is not very interesting though. The really quite charming actors are not given characters that ever have much of interest to say, so it's tough to invest much in their relationship. Once the open relationship starts going south and Danny Huston enters the film, you're almost routing for the Huston/Costa pairing to prevail since he's actually given decent things to say. The film reaches a conclusion, but it's not a very compelling one since you don't really care about this couple and the issues that drove them into an open relationship are never really resolved anyway.
So ... do you think that works out well for them?
This movie has some things going for it. Hoult and Costa are really quite good ... Costa especially ... and neither will disappoint in the film's numerous and quite explicit sex scenes. The style, impressionistic with very close, hand-held jittery cam, makes the early sequences pretty exciting, and the film goes quite some way towards recreating the rush of physical attraction and first love.
This relationship is not very interesting though. The really quite charming actors are not given characters that ever have much of interest to say, so it's tough to invest much in their relationship. Once the open relationship starts going south and Danny Huston enters the film, you're almost routing for the Huston/Costa pairing to prevail since he's actually given decent things to say. The film reaches a conclusion, but it's not a very compelling one since you don't really care about this couple and the issues that drove them into an open relationship are never really resolved anyway.
I almost made the mistake of switching the movie off 15 minutes in. Thankfully I didn't. Laia Costa in a very emotional scene captivated me as she did for the whole movie and the story finally really began.
Even though we get obvious unsubtle punches against facebook and tinder it is not really about these technologies because they are just that. They don't force us to do anything. It is about generation "swipe left if you are bored". It is about running away from conflict thus running away from real relationships. Relationships are messy. They always have been always will be. But what makes them deep the work you put in. The best quote of the movie nails it: "love is two people not giving up on each other" as I didn't give up on this movie 15 minutes in being rewarded at the end.
- PaxtonMalloy
- Sep 12, 2019
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I just saw it. In fact, I like it a lot, the camera has this frames very close to the character, somethig that we aren't used to in real life, so that makes me think of a solitary and individual person and society. I like this camera language 'cause it goes hand in hand with the movie plot. The looks and the camera movements make me feel like its something natural, like real life.
The sound design has a few parts with an exclusion that I found magical, it goes with the tone of the movie, although I would have love to have a little bit more from the ambient. They used the silence so good I really enjoyed to have those quiet moments, where I felt everything that was happening in scene.
Montage, what could I say, I went nuts with the first sequence. (Maybe nuts its a bit extreme, but you have me). Its something to appreciate in the whole film.
Direction, I could almost listen to the director voice in some parts, I´m not sure if that´s something bad, but I liked it, it helped to feel the moments.
I´ve found the acting good enough to reflect real life in some parts, in another I found them a bit forced and overacted, but I think that´s part of the essence of the script, and they were necesary to the story keep going.
The script was really good, firstable it´s about something real, something that many of us have been trough, or thinking of it like and option (at least we have doubts about it) and in this time is the "new black", so its pretty modern.
Secondable, from my view I think the characters are the most natural and related to real life, how an actual person would react in front of some situations. Cause lets be honest here, we all are possessive when it comes to a partner that we care of.
I really liked it! Hope you enjoy it! I might be the worst to trust. (Let mi know if not) Sorry fot the bad english :/
I really liked it! Hope you enjoy it! I might be the worst to trust. (Let mi know if not) Sorry fot the bad english :/
There are many montages in this movie to move things along, all with soothing piano music that therefore must be touching and sweet, but in actuality, these characters are so one dimensional, selfish, and unlikeable that you end up not caring if they end up together. I get that it's trying to be a look at millennial dating, but there's literally nothing beyond the "sex" level here. No interesting conversations, no intelligent dialogue, nothing beyond just sex. I would say it was a let down, but I had no expectations, so it was ok-ish.
This movie, to me, is not about how they meet, go through life or the open relationship. It is about that moment we always look for, the instant chemistry, which makes us euphoric and therefore happy. That bubble that everything is oke, everything is in line and I love somebody and that person loves me back in that moment.
The way this movie is shot, the high level of acting, it is as if you are watching your own life in some way. I think everybody can take moments from it and see what moments happen in their own life and how they react.
It is not intended as a movie to learn from, but just to hold a mirror up. It is not good or bad, just how we walk through life. To me, it is a good thing to keep realizing it.
If I had to pick one thing that stout out, I would say; that moment the bubble bursts. When you start to talk to each other and learn more about their way of thinking. At that point you are going to hear something you don't like and in an instant, your face changes and you need to deal with that emotion. That's when the euphoria stops and you try to get it back.
This review shows that this movie won't be for everybody, but watch past the first 10 minutes and get taken away by the emotions and reflect on yourself.
The way this movie is shot, the high level of acting, it is as if you are watching your own life in some way. I think everybody can take moments from it and see what moments happen in their own life and how they react.
It is not intended as a movie to learn from, but just to hold a mirror up. It is not good or bad, just how we walk through life. To me, it is a good thing to keep realizing it.
If I had to pick one thing that stout out, I would say; that moment the bubble bursts. When you start to talk to each other and learn more about their way of thinking. At that point you are going to hear something you don't like and in an instant, your face changes and you need to deal with that emotion. That's when the euphoria stops and you try to get it back.
This review shows that this movie won't be for everybody, but watch past the first 10 minutes and get taken away by the emotions and reflect on yourself.
- charlotte_v_dijk
- Nov 5, 2017
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Movies like these don't come along very often. This is my third Doremus film (after Like Crazy and Equals) and while Equals probably remains on the top of my list, Newness comes in at a close second. Newness explores the dangers and thrills of online dating in an urban world, where distractions are easily found and easier to be pursued. In the midst of it all, Martin and Gabriela are trying to find their way as a couple. The movie's appeal comes from its splendid directing and cinematography, which was already outstanding in Equals. The wash of hues, the angles, everything fits like a glove and helps underline the vivid and thrilling nature of the movie's theme. It feels organic, authentic and vigorous, not least due to the unadulterated performances of its main cast - Nicholas Hoult and Laia Costa (who was already brilliant in Vicotria) have chemistry coming up the wazoo, it's almost ridiculous. This movie took me on an emotional roller coaster; it's definitely not for everyone. And it's not a perfect movie by any means. Watching this movie simply felt a bit like falling in love, which - in my book - always seems like a good thing.
- nathaliehrivnak
- Nov 4, 2017
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- karinkytokangas
- May 30, 2019
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Boring, predictable...
Predictable, boring...
I've read fairytales more exciting and surprising than this!
- CarlosMendesPereira
- Apr 3, 2019
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Good indie movie that puts you inside of an emotional trench and then on the craziest roller coaster of pain with a inkling of hope for the characters development. For a lot of new age people, the events that occur in this film should inspire many to know the right path to choose when it comes to the facets of love and trust.
- andrewchristianjr
- Aug 7, 2020
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What a Movie! Let's get out of the way, the arty stuff in the editing, it seems a little pretentious and if you're not into indie movie it can be pointless and boring. But I'm into it and the cast is great. Now the movie is really well written and did I say that the cast is great? You feel like you're living this relationship. More than a movie it's a guide in the jungle of modern love.
- laetitiapayombo
- Jul 9, 2018
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The production team badly wants to bring back the imagined moral values of some desert tribes some 2000 years ago. As the story is only an excuse for the militant statement, the story is rather boring. And the script writing skills are also not too good so the story is slow.
In this repetitive film we become witnesses of a miserable subculture and its dead ends. The subculture of dating sites ,what kind of people you will get to meet and the problems that one may face if he attempts a relationship. To begin with, the acting is convincing indeed but the characters are so unethical and problematic that tend to be annoying. For a middle aged viewer who is not accustomed with the dating sites and this animal like behavior of such people, this film is a punch under the belt. I have rarely witnessed such miserable lives and disregard for love and emotional bonding. The 20 something characters appear to be something between animals with some level of consciousness who are driven by only a desire for sex with anybody available and who also lead highly problematic lifestyles and lack of personal goals. The story is constantly circulating but it is evident from the first ten minutes of the film that people like that do not deserve any serious attention by others since they are constantly creating or recycling emotional and personal problems. What is completely outraging is that the characters of the film are struggling to find a balance by trying to persuade their partner to accept their miserable lives. It is really sad and I could not watch it. This is one of the worst films I have ever seen, maybe the worst and trust me , I have seen great many films. There is no ethical basis, no coherent storyline and the characters are extremely miserable and unethical.
- misel982001
- Sep 13, 2019
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This film isn't for everybody. If you are a millennial, or maybe older but open minded, or if you are just empathic enough, you will understand the feelings this film aims to pass. It's not about the characters promiscuity or dating apps relationships, it's about doubt and excitement and fear of loosing freedom, and that moment when you meet someone new and you are talking, flirting, it's very exciting, you are having a really good time and THEN if you decide to take one step forward, you have to face the baggage that person carries. Past, exes, fears, traumas.
That's something the older generations don't get, because back in time people used to date less and get married sooner. But for millennials, that's very relatable. People have dated other people, some times many other people. People have had sex with other people too. People have met other people's families - I could go on but you all already got it - and we have to deal with it. So that's why not everybody will understand.
I'm young and getting married soon. The story made me think a lot. I'm very sure of my decision on spending the rest of my life with my partner. Even knowing it's going to get boring eventually. Then we will figure it out. I'd never do what the characters do because I have different principles, but I totally understand their feelings.
Now, going back to the film. The actors were convincing. The way it was filmed was also particular. The camera wasn't steady, maybe purposefully to make it look like the videos we're used to see in social medias. Again, very close to younger generations. And about the end, I saw some people saying they don't like it, but this movie isn't about the end, it's about what they went through to get there. I wouldn't change a thing.
In my opinion, 6.4 doesn't do justice to this film, but, again, I can imagine people with different visions about life and relationships watching it and not getting it.
That's something the older generations don't get, because back in time people used to date less and get married sooner. But for millennials, that's very relatable. People have dated other people, some times many other people. People have had sex with other people too. People have met other people's families - I could go on but you all already got it - and we have to deal with it. So that's why not everybody will understand.
I'm young and getting married soon. The story made me think a lot. I'm very sure of my decision on spending the rest of my life with my partner. Even knowing it's going to get boring eventually. Then we will figure it out. I'd never do what the characters do because I have different principles, but I totally understand their feelings.
Now, going back to the film. The actors were convincing. The way it was filmed was also particular. The camera wasn't steady, maybe purposefully to make it look like the videos we're used to see in social medias. Again, very close to younger generations. And about the end, I saw some people saying they don't like it, but this movie isn't about the end, it's about what they went through to get there. I wouldn't change a thing.
In my opinion, 6.4 doesn't do justice to this film, but, again, I can imagine people with different visions about life and relationships watching it and not getting it.
I enjoyed this film. I must add that I am over 40 years old and can appreciate this type of film for what it is showing us and the simplicity yet complexity of it.
I can relate to this film even though it is based on modern day where we can meet anyone at anytime. The same happened before it was so easy to meet others online. Love could meet us at any time and any place without us knowing it.
That is why I raited this film a 7 / 10. I think that all of us can relate to this story.
The acting was spot on for the most part and the music and the close ups made you feel the passion surrounding each character.
I think it is worth a watch if you enjoy the journey of human emotions.
I think it is worth a watch if you enjoy the journey of human emotions.
- ronni_meder
- Jul 3, 2019
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- leftbanker-1
- Dec 1, 2017
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My first review ever. Just finished watching this gem of a movie, and I am blown away. There were so many emotions played out in this movie, it should be impossible not to relate to.
The topic is a coming-of-age story. Two young people in the big city, who want to experience everything. And it seems like everything is available today. And your smartphone just amplifies all the choices you have.
The tone of the movie is slow and somewhat grey all throughout. Camera action and music is slow and deliberate really supporting the heavy emotions. It is not sad though. Just really intense. The movie explores many emotions and experiences, and gives you plenty of time to feel them yourself. Don't want to spoil it, but they get to go through a lot.
The main casting was really good. Actors took their time to get into the roles. Some background stories were told but only when needed. Also plenty of good supporting roles.
It all makes for a very interesting story, and as a viewer you really relate to the characters and what they go through.
It is rare that a movie has the guts and takes the time to deal with so much, and do it so well.
The subjects are bound to cause reflection, so if you watch it with your significant other, be ready to take some time afterwards to reflect and discuss.
I was very impressed 10/10
The topic is a coming-of-age story. Two young people in the big city, who want to experience everything. And it seems like everything is available today. And your smartphone just amplifies all the choices you have.
The tone of the movie is slow and somewhat grey all throughout. Camera action and music is slow and deliberate really supporting the heavy emotions. It is not sad though. Just really intense. The movie explores many emotions and experiences, and gives you plenty of time to feel them yourself. Don't want to spoil it, but they get to go through a lot.
The main casting was really good. Actors took their time to get into the roles. Some background stories were told but only when needed. Also plenty of good supporting roles.
It all makes for a very interesting story, and as a viewer you really relate to the characters and what they go through.
It is rare that a movie has the guts and takes the time to deal with so much, and do it so well.
The subjects are bound to cause reflection, so if you watch it with your significant other, be ready to take some time afterwards to reflect and discuss.
I was very impressed 10/10
- danmand-36663
- Nov 2, 2017
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This is my first movie that I'm rating.
It start off not too great.
I love the story of this film.
It resonates with my ideology with how I personally view relationships.
I believe the idea of how relationships are of a certain complexity since it deals with human wants and needs.
The idea that monogamy is a challenge holds truth.
I am no conservative by any means, but this film quite frankly depicts the modern dating scene in a way that holds some truth of how our generation have conflicting views on dating, sex, relationship, and intimacy.
And I think people have to start to realize that everything matters, our decision matters.
And it's good to have a moral compass and to learn to put oneself in another's shoes.
A true relationship will technically end up a little dry, predictable, and repetitive, however, because it holds a value, and because it holds value, it's uniquely preserved to those who are mature and responsible to themselves and their partners.
Lust is normal.
Transparency is most aspects is good.
The grass may seem greener on the other side as most people have this perception. The truth is, water and love your grass, for they will grow with passion.
You will reap what you sow.
And that my friend...is the uniqueness of the universe.
P.S. Don't read this if you're a little lazy. I may have been a little too philosophical or drunk(tired).
Great film plot. Loved the ending.
P.S. Don't read this if you're a little lazy. I may have been a little too philosophical or drunk(tired).
Great film plot. Loved the ending.
- ljohn-30923
- Aug 15, 2020
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Everyone of us love a good story crime action romance ...ect but u really can't put this movie in none of them just bunch of idea put together from no string attached to fwb to swinging lol u gotta love the Hollywood agenda to destroy the society.
- adimabdellah
- Apr 24, 2022
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