It's like she's 15 years old. She just can't help stirring the pot and plotting against her daughter and granddaughter. Get this, Jessica: Max is a dumb teen who didn't run away or take your daughter and grandbaby to the clinic. He manned up and tried his best. Your job is to be their advocate and make sure they can be good parents. No, they aren't ready for this. Neither one of them are. They're foolish teens who forgot to cross every "I" and dot every "T". Just consider this sacrifice of time as part of your parenting of her.
(Your husband is a cuck, too...)
My wife and I were just like them. We now have 27 year old and 25 year old sons, who are successful emotionally and financially. And their mom and I have 28 years together.
Our sons are our best friends. Unfortunately, they don't speak much to the family members who divided their family when they were young, now that they're mature enough to see what happened. Food for thought...