Tears of God: Persevering in the Face of Great Sorrow or Catastrophe
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Fr. Benedict has written previously about faith and sorrow (Arise from ; Darkness) and seeks in this book to study catastrophes of all different kinds in relationship to our faith in divine providence, in God's goodness and mercy, and finally in the light of Christ's suffering and death. Christianity is the only religion which speaks of a God who suffered a terrible catastropheùcrucifixion and death. Therefore, the Christian must, in the midst of catastrophe, find his way to the foot of the cross, and there he will find answers which cannot be given by any other religious faith.
All religions attempt to deal with catastrophe, all confront the mystery of suffering and of evil. Christianity invites you to share the burden of your catastrophe with the person who is our Savior and Redeemer, one who Himself endured great pain and sorrow, the son of God, Jesus Christ.
Benedict C.F.R. Groeschel
Fr. Benedict Groeschel, CFR is the director of the Office of Spiritual Development for the New York Archdiocese. He has written numerous books on the spiritual life and pastoral counseling. He is a member of the Franciscans of the Renewal who preach evangelical reform and work with the homeless in the South Bronx.
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Tears of God - Benedict C.F.R. Groeschel
The Tears of God
Benedict J. Groeschel, C.F.R.
The Tears of God
Going on in the Face of
Great Sorrow or Catastrophe
IGNATIUS PRESS SAN FRANCISCO
Unless otherwise noted, Scripture quotations (except those within citations) have been taken from the Revised Standard Version of the Holy Bible, Second Catholic Edition, © 2006. The Revised Standard Version of the Holy Bible: the Old Testament, © 1952, 2006; the Apocrypha, © 1957, 2006; the New Testament, © 1946, 2006; the Catholic Edition of the Old Testament, incorporating the Apocrypha, © 1966, 2006, the Catholic Edition of the New Testament, © 1965, 2006 by the Division of Christian Education of the National Council of the Churches of Christ in the United States of America. All rights reserved.
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I gratefully dedicate this book to all who helped me to survive a catastrophe—being hit by a car on January 11, 2004. I am grateful to God for making it possible for me to think and work and even get around.
This book is an act of gratitude to God and an attempt to help others facing a catastrophe. I wish to thank Father John Lynch and David Burns who were with me and remained with me at the time ofthe accident. Their presence, no doubt, kept me alive because the attending physicians had given up when I had no vital signs for fifteen minutes. In response to an appeal from Father Lynch, they went on, and after another thirteen minutes, my heart started to beat again.
I will be ever grateful to the doctors, nurses, and staff of Orlando Regional Medical Center, and especially to the trauma team. I am also very grateful for the support I received from my sister Marjule, who remained at my side, and all the friars who came and remained with her and supported her during those difficult weeks. I am also grateful to thousands of people who prayed for me, especially through EWTN, and to the fifty thousand people of many denominations and faiths who sent me e-mails, letters, and cards telling me of their prayers. Whatever one wishes to conclude, prayer is a very effective means of responding to catastrophe.
I wish to thank an anonymous hermit priest, who prepared this manuscript, and Kathie McCusker, who carefully checked the text.
—Fr. Benedict J. Groeschel, C.F.R.
January 11, 2008
Trinity Retreat, Larchmont, N.Y.
Contents
Preface: Faith and Catastrophe
1. Tragedies and Catastrophes Happen All the Time
2. The Catastrophes That Happen
3. Evil That Does Not Become the Worst
4. When The Storm Goes By
5. Steps of Grief and Sorrow
6. The Meditation on the Cross of Christ
7. After Horror
Prayers and Meditations
Prayers in Times of Grief and Sorrow
A Prayer in Time of Desperate Need
Prayer to God Our Father in Time of Catastrophe
A Prayer to Jesus in Time of Catastrophe
A Prayer in One's Own Serious Illness
Prayer to Jesus in Serious Illness
A Prayer to Our Lady in Serious Illness
A Prayer to Saint Joseph for the Very Sick
A Prayer in Time of Natural Disaster
A Prayer in the Time of the Death of a Dear One
Prayer in Time of Suicide
Prayer in a Time of Murder
Prayer in Time of Betrayal
Prayer in Times ofOne's Own Moral Failure
Stabat Mater
Hymn to the Holy Spirit (Veni Sancte Spiritus)
Reparation Prayer of Those Who Have Caused Catastrophe
Serenity Prayer
Learning Christ
The Prayer of a Trusting Soul
Scripture Quotations That May Be Helpful for Meditation
Psalm 51 (Miserere)
Additional Readings
Preface
Faith and Catastrophe
Some time ago, I published the most popular book I ever wrote, Arise from Darkness. It is a book about what to do when life doesn't make sense. Many people have told me that it was helpful to them in difficult times with problems of the family, with the Church, with finances, with themselves. I became aware, however, that there was another group of people who read the book but whom I had not reached: those who had suffered catastrophes or horrors. We all have sorrow, but we don't all have the horrible in our lives. But it does come. It comes to people we know, and maybe someday it will come to us, and we will have to be prepared.
I had thought of waiting to write a book like this until I was dying of a terminal illness because then I would have a personal experience of the catastrophic. Devastating events of life have happened to me in the past, but nothing that I could call a real catastrophe. Then, I was struck by an automobile and lived through a real catastrophe. It turned out that it was not as bad at it originally seemed, and I have been able, with limitations, to get back to my pastoral work. But it lives on still. As I awoke in the hospital from three weeks of unconsciousness and realized that I could hardly move, I thought, ''Well, Benedict, you've had your catastrophe. Get writing.''
Many years ago, I read a book that deeply moved me, Hour of Gold, Hour of Lead, by Anne Morrow Lindbergh. She pointed out that into all lives comes sorrow but only into some lives comes horror. It had come to her and her husband, Charles, in the form of the kidnapping and murder of their infant son. She tells us in that book that as she tried to recount her horror, her long road back to where the tragedy ''is buried is overlaid with new life'', and that, undoubtedly ''the long road of insight, suffering, healing and rebirth is best illustrated in the Christian religion by the suffering, death and resurrection of Christ."¹
I am writing this book now, first of all, for those who have experienced horror or catastrophe in their lives. This includes the appreciable number of people that you read about in the course of a month in the newspapers of any city. Not only are there murders and accidents and firefighters or police killed in the line of duty, there is often the terrible news of young men and women being killed in military service. As I write this, we are involved in the conflict in Iraq, which frequently brings accounts of the deaths of many innocent people on all sides. Not only this, but we read about natural disasters ranging