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The Veil in Kuwait: An Empirical Study
Thorsten Botz-Bornstein* and Noreen Abdullah-Khan
Abstract
In April 2013 we conducted a survey on Islamic veiling at the Gulf University for Science and
Technology (GUST) in Kuwait. The purpose of the survey was to view the veil through the
prism of recent international developments that have transformed veiling, at least partially,
into a fashion phenomenon. It became obvious that most veiled students at GUST recognize
that, in religious terms, hijab and fashion are incompatible. However, they do not “solve” the
contradiction by transforming the hijab into a merely cultural item, thus fusing traditional
veiling and contemporary fashion in order to create a new ethos of “veiling fashion.” Nor do
they solve the contradiction by stating that the hijab has been forced upon them and that they
are trying to soften its effects by combining it with modern influences. Instead, they separate
the hijab as a religious phenomenon conceptually from the cultural phenomenon called
fashion. By doing so, they hope to establish a moral justification of their engagement in
fashion.
* We thank Ahmed Al Saber from the Gulf University for Science and Technology for his help with the
statistics.
Contents
1. Introduction
1.1. Significance of the Study
1.2. Previous Research
1.3. Kuwaiti Society
1.4. Gulf University for Science and Technology
1.5. Methodology
2. The Survey
2.1 Survey Measures
2.2. Family Background
2.3. Limitations
2.3.1. General Context and Difficulties of the Survey
2.3.2. The “East-West” Problem
2.4. Preliminary Conclusion
3. Results and Discussions
3.1. The Central Question: Why do you Veil?
3.1.1. First Findings: Answers of ‘Covered Girls’
3.1.2. Second Findings: Answers of ‘Uncovered Girls’
3.1.3. Third Findings: Answers of ‘Male Students’
3.2. The “Protect Women from Men” Argument
3.3. The Feminist Argument
3.4. Preliminary Conclusion
3.5. Religion as a Factor
3.5.1. Praying Attitudes
3.5.2. Knowledge of the Scriptures
3.5.3. The Qur’anic Passages
3.6. Social Interactions and Mutual Perceptions
3.6.1. Culture and Religion
3.6.2. Perception and Self-Perception
3.6.3. Respect and Virtue
3.6.4. Different Perceptions of “Male Attention”
3.6.5. Combining the Hijab with Western Clothes and “Veiling Fashion”
3.6.6. Does the Hijab Enhance the Woman’s Beauty?
3.6.7. Preliminary Conclusion: Unequal Perceptions and the Question of Tolerance
4. The Guilt/Shame Paradigm
4.1. Modesty and Fitna
4.2. Shame and Guilt in Islamic Culture
5. Conclusion
5.1. The Paradox of Veiling Fashion
5.2. Overall Evaluation of Responses
Bibliography
Appendix: The Questionnaires
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1. Introduction
1.1. Significance of the Study
In April 2013 we conducted a survey on Islamic veiling at the Gulf University for Science and
Technology (GUST) in Kuwait. The purpose of the survey was to establish reasons for veiling
within the complex society of Kuwait and, in particular, to view the veil through the prism of
recent international developments that have transformed veiling, at least partially, into a
fashion phenomenon. International research has shown that in many Muslim and non-Muslim
countries the veil is no longer necessarily a traditional item but is influenced by fashion and
other contemporary phenomena. Such research has been undertaken since the late 1990s in
several countries such as Egypt, Iran, the USA, the Netherlands, France, and Turkey
(Gökariksel and Anna Secor 2012; Hoodfar, Homa. 2001; Karim 2006; Killian 2003; Laborde
2006; MacLeod 1993; Mir-Hosseini 2007; Nieukerk 2008; Sandikci and Ger 2010; Williams
and Vashi 2007; Zuhur, Sherifa. 1992; Williams 1979). In North America, Williams and Vashi
observed how “girls and young women talk about hijab with each other as if they were talking
about their clothes from the mall. Further, the ways in which it is wrapped about the head and
draped down over the shoulders, is subject to fashion, innovation, and trend” (Williams and
Vashi 2007: 285).
Over the last thirty years everywhere in the Middle East, veiling has increased.1 A recent
survey from the University of Michigan’s Institute for Social Research conducted in Tunisia,
Egypt, Iraq, Lebanon, Pakistan, Saudi Arabia, and Turkey, finds that most people in those
countries (except in Turkey and Lebanon) prefer women to cover their hair in public. For
Kuwait such data are not available, but it is clear that here too, veiling has increased over the
last thirty years. Jennifer Hargreaves reports that following the 1990 Iraqi invasion of Kuwait,
when Islamism became more influential as Kuwaiti refuges who had fled to more
conservative countries such as Saudi Arabia, returned home, “there was a marked increase in
the number of veiled women than in previous years; and then, following the bombing of the
World Trade Centre in New York, in 2001, anti-Western feeling in Kuwait resulted in a
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See Ahmed 2011 on the fact that today the majority of Muslim women throughout the Islamic world again wear
the veil.
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further increase of Islamism and the veiling of even more women than before” (Hargreaves
2006: 78).
How could a phenomenon like “veiling fashion” develop in the relatively conservative society
of Kuwait? So far, not much research has been done on modern aspects of veiling (that is the
veil as a not merely traditional item but as an item influenced by fashion) in the Gulf region.
The only existing study is the one conducted by Sobh et al. (2011). This is surprising because
the Gulf States are an interesting territory for such research. On the one hand, a distinct ethos
of traditional dress for both men and women does still exist and on the other hand, Kuwait is a
country tolerant enough to permit the coexistence of both veiling and non-veiling practices as
well as the combination of the hijab with Western clothes. The editor of the Kuwait-based
Pan-Arab fashion magazine Alef explains: “We only tend to see the negative thing, overhyped Dubai [or] conflict zones.... But we don’t really see the subtleties of Kuwaiti society
that is (...) Kuwait which is traditional and modern and semi-democratic, but also very
conservative at the same time” (Lewis 2010: 73). Kuwaiti clothing culture is intriguing
because it contains in itself two extremes: conservative religious traditions (more so
conservative than in many other Middle Eastern countries) are combined with features of a
frenetic Western-style consumer culture bolstered by oil-money. The present study tries to
explore any internal logic that may exist which sustains the coexistence of these opposed
elements. Is Kuwait the country of hijab-wearing fashion victims or do religion/tradition and
modernity communicate along reasonable lines?
From this follow further questions: Does the present re-veiling wave in Kuwait express
frustration and resentment in the face of broken promises of modernity? Is there a real desire
to return to the values of the past? Does the combination of the hijab with modern clothes
represent a compromise of modernity and tradition? How do those patterns function within a
reality influenced by mass media, mass communication and globalization in which unilinear
scenarios of identities and worldviews become increasingly impossible?
In summary, the study focuses on the following aspects of the veiling phenomenon:
•
To what extent do local woman strive to emphasize their authenticity and ethnic
affiliation through the wearing of modest dress?
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How do consumption styles such as extravagant and conspicuous fashion interfere
with this ambition?
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How important is religion in the decision to veil?
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Are young Kuwaiti women aware that the adoption of new clothing styles and
adornment practices can potentially conflict with traditional values requiring modesty
in the public domain?
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Is veiling a matter of identity search and/or a rejection of Western values? If it is an
authentic form of a stable cultural or religious essence, how is this essence
experienced within social interaction including traditional, modern, as well as
fractured values?
•
Is the veil merely perceived as a symbol enhancing traditional values or can decisions
to veil also be supported by feminist justifications?
•
Is the act of veiling voluntary or dependent on parental, social or religious influence or
on any combination of those three influences?
•
How do men relate to the veiling of women within the above contexts?
The strong point of our study is that we did not only ask covered students why they veil but
also asked uncovered students what they believe to be their classmates’ reasons for veiling.
Naturally, such a comparative approach invites critical reflections on the veiled students’
statements. By considering responses from subjects who are not directly but only indirectly
concerned (because they do not wear the hijab themselves), we realize that not all of the
veiled students’ answers can be taken for granted but must be submitted to a critical reading.
1.2. Previous Research
Macleod (1993) and Zuhur, (1992) conducted research in the 1980s in Egypt. As Ahmed
(2011) has noted, though interviewing similar populations, Macleod’s and Zuhur’s results are
antagonistic. Zuhur’s respondents, while not Islamist activists themselves, veiled because they
were self-consciously affiliating themselves with the goals of Islamism; while Macleod’s
interviewees seemed to be adopting the hijab mostly to resolve personal dilemmas. Williams
(1979) received stock responses from women affirming that veiling had helped them “to know
who they really were.” In Macleod’s later survey on the other hand, 56% of the women
interviewed suggested that veiling is a matter of fashion for which they could provide no
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further explanation. For example, one respondent commented the veiling phenomenon like
this: “I don’t know why fashions change in this way, no one knows why, one day everyone
wears dresses and even pants” (from Ahmed 2011: 120). The ambition to distinguish “veiling
fashion” from those motivations by which veiling has been determined in the past, has
become more current. Williams and Vashi find that “wearing hijab has a fashion dynamic that
cannot be fully accounted for by religious motivations or social, ethnic, or class backgrounds”
(Williams and Vashi 2007: 284).
This contradicts other recent surveys, like that undertaken by Hoodfar in Quebec which
brought to the foreground an unambiguously religious attitude with regards to veiling: “Only
four out of fifty-nine veiled women claimed the veil to be part of their Arab or Muslim
identity and not an Islamic requirement” (Hoodfar 2003: 17). Neither a militant political
consciousness nor a cultural interpretation of the veil as a fashion phenomenon account here
for the veiling phenomenon, but simply the will to follow one’s religion. On a first level, this
corresponds to our own findings; however, because of conflicting results provided by other
target groups (uncovered students and male students) we had to submit those findings to a
further critical reading. The practical and theoretical implications of this point will be
explained in Chapter 2.3. on the survey’s limitations.
1.3. Kuwaiti Society
Kuwait is among the richest countries in the world per capita and has all features of modern
consumer societies like malls and a large number of restaurants and luxury cars. The literacy
rate of Kuwait is one of the Arab world’s highest (93.3% according to the CIA World
Factbook 2013). Public primary and secondary school education is free; university education
is also free through graduate school if the student qualifies. Most Kuwaitis are bilingual
because English primary and secondary education is popular. English is also popular because
of TV and movies. Of Kuwait’s 2.7 million people, 1.7 million are non-nationals (Factbook).2
Though 96% of Kuwait’s population is considered urbanized and only 4% nomadic or seminomadic (Demographics of Kuwait), the distinction between “city dwellers” (hadhar, )حضر
and people of Bedouin origin (badu, )بدوis far from being erased but is reflected in
Numbers vary very much. Often Kuwait's current population is estimated at 3-3.5 million people with 1 million
of Kuwait's population being Kuwaiti nationals (Demographics of Kuwait).
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contemporary social life (see Longva 2006 and al-Nakib 2014). Post World War II population
growth has brought the proportion of people who can trace their origins to Bedouins up to
40% of the Kuwaiti national population.3 The differences between hadhar and Bedouins (or
rather the descendants of Bedouins) are spelled out in terms of tribal, cultural and religious
identities. In general, Bedouins are conservative and often have strict religious dress codes.
The hadhar-badu distinction has gained a political dimension during Kuwait’s recent political
crises where one of the political cleavages was produced by the Emir’s and the hadhar class’s
opposition to Bedouin demands of more political influence. To a limited extent, social
interactions at our university are determined by those differences.
Kuwaiti society maintains similarly clear distinctions between Sunni and Sh’ia Muslims (the
Shi’a population represents between 20 and 40% according to sources consulted). Shi’a can
come from both the badu and hadhar classes though most Shi’a are hadhar. Furthermore, a
considerable portion of Kuwaiti nationals is not only Shi’a but also ethnically Persian.
In our study we decided to neglect the above social divides for two reasons. First, the student
body of our university does not fully reflect the differences present in Kuwaiti society but is
relatively homogenous. Second, the study would have changed its focus because direct
questions about tribal or religious identities could have led both participants and audience to
the conclusion that the purpose of this survey is to inquire into the sensitive topic of Kuwaiti
communities though this was not the case. Additionally, it would have been difficult to
establish those differences because direct questions inquiring about students’ religious or
ethnic affiliation would most likely have been unacceptable to the university administration as
well as many students.
1.4. Gulf University for Science and Technology
The Gulf University for Science and Technology (GUST) is a Kuwaiti owned private English
speaking university with currently 3113 students enrolled (2013). 85% of our students are
Kuwaiti nationals; the majority of the other 15% have nationalities from other Arab countries
though most of them are born in Kuwait or have spent the largest part of their lives in Kuwait.
60% of the students are female and 40% are male. The tuition fees are relatively high (about
3
Indications about how many individuals with a strong Bedouin identity live in Kuwait vary but there might be
between 100.000 and 260.000.
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US$19,000 per year) but a generous government scholarship system makes GUST accessible
to all students who have a moderately high GPA, provided they are Kuwaiti nationals. 24% of
our students come from English or American private schools, 11% from other private schools,
and 65% from government schools. The large proportion of Western teachers as well as a
Western-style curriculum established in collaboration with American universities creates a
relatively liberal environment. It is no exaggeration to say that our university is one of the
most open-minded places in the country. The typical age group of our students is 18-23 years.
Gender segregation is applied in classes. The pressure from conservative political groups in
Kuwait made this measure necessary in March 2008. Though some other private universities
in Kuwait recently began to circumvent it, radical gender segregation is increasingly practiced
in Kuwaiti national educational institutions. One of Kuwait University’s new campuses has
different sections for male and female students with separate gates and a motorway running
between the two. The bridge uniting them is guarded and can only be used by teachers. At
GUST however, male and female students can come together in all areas outside the
classrooms though a considerable amount of “self-segregation” persists.
1.5. Methodology
In selecting the questionnaire as the research tool for this study, there was little doubt that in
order to understand the complexities of veiling in Kuwait it was essential to have female
participants who veil and those who do not veil as well. Similarly, the male perspectives were
deemed important to ascertain male views on veiling. The questionnaire contained a
combination of open-ended and closed-ended questions, thus generating both quantitative and
qualitative data. The closed-ended questions focused on obtaining demographical data whilst
the main research questions sought more qualitative responses. 4
The main aim of our study was to seek the meaning that people attribute to their behaviors
(veiling or not veiling). It has frequently been suggested that positivist or quantitative
researchers distance themselves from the research process whereas supporters of qualitative
4
The debate on how to conduct research in the social sciences between the two traditions of qualitative and
quantitative research is ongoing (Bulmer 1979; Kirk and Miller 1986; Marshall and Rossman 1989; Neuman,
2003; Silverman 2011; Bryman 2008). Bryman points out that qualitative research is a “research strategy that
usually emphasizes words rather than quantification (…) it is inductivist, constructionist, and interpretivist”
(2008: 366). Here it is clear that the aim is to study the social world in depth, using descriptive writings and to
interpret the social events through the meaning that actors attach to their actions (Taylor 1993: 7).
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research methods immerse themselves into the research process.5 While our survey did
combine some elements of quantitative data collection, the emphasis was on studying the
social world according to the meanings that respondents attach to their world.
When exploring social experiences using human subjects, it is vital that some consideration be
given to ethics. Discussions of ethical concerns around questionnaires have concentrated on
the right to privacy, informed consent and confidentiality. The right to privacy may be
challenged when students are approached to complete the questionnaire. Furthermore, the
right to privacy may also refer to the students’ right to control data about themselves. We may
ask questions but the student has the right not to answer if she/he feels that it is sensitive or if
she/he feels that she/he does not wish to share this information with others. Our survey’s
results indicate that students did at times exercise this right to privacy.
Informed consent suggests that respondents should be made aware of how the data may be
used, something we made evident in the beginning of the questionnaire. Furthermore,
informed consent is measured by the level of potential harm to the respondents from
participating in the research. Our project was approved by the IRB within the Research and
Development Office at GUST, which has a rigorous peer-reviewed assessment process for
approving research conducted on human subjects. To preserve confidentiality, all identifying
data was omitted and not made available during any part of the research process. Both
researchers have also successfully undertaken IRB training to ensure that the welfare of the
participants remains paramount.
2. The Survey
2.1. Survey Measures
The general and official title of our survey was “Cultural Attitudes to Dress Code.” We
distributed three distinct surveys: one for female students who cover (with hijab, abaya or
5
Patton (2002: 14) points out that whilst in quantitative research, credibility is measured in terms of instrument
construction, in qualitative research, ‘the researcher is the instrument’. Kvale (1995) argues that validity is an
expression of craftsmanship, with an emphasis on quality of research by checking, questioning, and theorizing on
the nature of the phenomena investigated.
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niqab);6 one for female students who wear no hijab; and one for male students. Each survey
contained twenty-five questions concerning attitudes, habit, and perceptions of veiling. The
surveys were distributed online, separating male and female students and were processed
through SPSS software. All surveys were anonymous. Female participants could choose
between an “I wear a hijab” and an “I wear no hijab” survey. We received 1662 responses:
1236 responses from female students and 426 responses from male students.
Group
Female students
Male students
Total
n
Percent
1236
74.40
426
25.60
1662
100
The participation rate of 1662 individuals (53% of the current enrollment rate) can be
considered high. It could be expected that male students would be less interested in a survey
on a female clothing item (34% of all male students responded). A female participation rate of
66% shows that this topic is popular. We, and some of our colleagues offered extra credits to
students who participated.7 It turned out that over 1000 students participated without receiving
extra credits, which is unusual for surveys at our university.
816 female students (65.8% of all females) chose the “I wear a hijab” survey and 421
individuals (34.2%) chose the “I wear no hijab” survey.
Female students
n
Covered
816
66.01
Uncovered
421
34.06
1236
100
Total
Percent
167 individuals (13.5% of all female students) indicated that they wear not only a hijab but
also an abaya, and 23 individuals (0.18% of all female students) indicated that they wear also
a niqab. This distribution overlaps very precisely with manual counts (done by counting
incoming students at certain hours of the day) undertaken in 2011 out of a sample of 500
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Hijab is here, as in most instances in Kuwait, defined as the headscarf worn in an Islamic way covering also the
neck and leaving only the face visible. The abaya is an all-covering black cloak and the niqab is a face cover that
leaves only the eyes free.
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The IT could document the names of participants but we could not see the answers in connection with the
names, thus keeping the responses anonymous
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students.
Covered Girls
n
Percent
Wearing hijab only
625
76.59
Wearing also an abaya
Wearing also abaya and niqab
Total
168
23
816
20.59
2.82
100
The sample of the students wearing a niqab is very small (only 15 completed questionnaires)
but in certain contexts its consideration permits interesting observations. 8
Target Groups
We distinguished five target groups whom we named (for convenience sake) as follows:
(1) ‘Hijab wearing girls’ (meaning female students wearing a hijab but no abaya or niqab);
(2) ‘Abaya wearing girls’ (meaning female students wearing a hijab and an abaya);
(3) ‘Niqab wearing girls’ (meaning female students wearing a hijab, an abaya, and a niqab);
(4) ‘Uncovered Girls’ (meaning female students who do not cover);
(5) ‘Male students.’
In this text we most often group together (1) (2) and (3) and speak of ‘Covered Girls’.
The Comments Option
Students could leave comments after most questions and made extensive use of this option;
we received around 4500 comments.9 Numerous conversations with students about the survey
as well as veiling in general have also provided relevant information that has been used in this
book.
8
Of the 1235”female” surveys, 297 questionnaires were incomplete (though only 1 out of the 428 “male”
surveys was incomplete). 235 of those 297 incomplete “female” surveys were incomplete in the sense that only
the first question had been answered (“Do you wear a hijab, abaya, niqab or no hijab?”). Obviously those
students had been under the impression that the survey ends right after the first page. The incompleteness
concerns all categories except the males. We could not consider those incomplete surveys except for an
evaluation of the first question, that is, we could use it in order to establish whether they wear a hijab or not, and
whether they wear an abaya or a niqab. We received 678 complete responses from ‘Covered Girls’ (137
incomplete), 323 complete responses from ‘Uncovered Girls’ (98 incomplete), and 425 responses from ‘Male
Students’ (1 incomplete). This brings the total number of female respondents down to exactly 1000 and of all
respondents to 1426. In this text, from Chapter 2.2. onwards, we consider only questionnaires in which more than
the first page has been completed.
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When dealing with comments, we filtered out all “fake comments,” that is, comments merely saying ‘yes’ or
‘no’ (if yes/no options had been given beforehand) or simply write “no comment.” All numbers in this article
refer to the comment count after ‘fake comments’ have been filtered out.
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2.2. Family Background of Students
The family background of students is not homogenous in terms of education. 68% of the
‘Covered Girls’’ fathers have university degrees against 79% of the ‘Uncovered Girls.’ The
difference is important. In the two independent sample T-test, the two-tailed P-value
(indicating statistical significance) falls underneath 0.01 points when calculating the above
values, which means that the difference is significant by conventional criteria. In spite of this,
we hold that the difference is not important enough to speak of an educational gap between
‘Covered Girls’’ and ‘Uncovered Girls’ parents.
70% of the ‘Male Students’’ fathers have university degrees. Within the ‘Covered Girls’
category, the fathers’ education rate goes down for ‘Abaya Wearing Girls’ (64%) and ‘Niqab
Wearing Girls’ (53%). The proportions remain almost the same when it comes to the mother’s
education. 66% of the ‘Covered Girls’ mothers have a university degree against 77% of the
‘Uncovered Girls’. Again only 57% of ‘Abaya Wearing Girls’’ and only 40% of the ‘Niqab
Wearing Girls’’ mothers have a university education.
Father has
University
Degree
(n)
83
Father has
University
Degree
(in %)
63.84
Mother
has
University
Degree (n)
71
Mother has
University
Degree
(in %)
54.61
Girls wearing also abaya and niqab
All covered girls together
Uncovered girls
9
461
255
50.00
67.99
78.94
7
447
248
38.88
65.92
76.78
Male students
297
69.88
284
66.82
Group
Girls wearing an abaya
Cultural attitudes towards the status of women in society do not seem to vary very much.
Around 70% of all groups answer ‘yes’ to the question “Do you believe that men women are
equal?” with a slight upward tendency from male to female students. Only 54% of the
‘Covered Girls’ state that their mothers have worn the hijab since their early youth (and did
not start, for example, after marriage), which shows that for a large part of these students
veiling has started at an earlier age than for their mothers. 82% of the ‘Uncovered Girls’ say
that they are open to wearing the hijab in the future and 68% of the males affirm that their
future wife should wear the hijab.
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Transmission plays a major role in veiling. 97% of the ‘Covered Girls’’ mothers wear the
hijab against 67% of the ‘Uncovered Girls.’ The use of the niqab, on the other hand, has
decreased from one generation to the next. While only 0.02% (n = 23) of the ‘Covered Girls’
group (n = 814) wear a niqab, 19% of their mothers are wearing it.
2.3. Limitations
2.3.1. General Difficulties
Before passing to the central part of the survey, it is necessary to elucidate the special
circumstances surrounding the research. The hijab is considered a sensitive topic in the
Middle East and we had great concerns as to whether or not our university would grant us the
permission to conduct this survey. In general, the mere fact to talk openly and critically (that
means, most of the time, not in a religious context) about religious matters is new in this
culture and still very much frowned upon. As one ‘Covered Girl’ formulates it in a typical
comment: “The only thing I can tell is that we can’t argue or even discuss the hijab issue [and]
if is it a must or not, as long as it has been mentioned by ALLAH.”
The GUST administration turned out to be liberal enough to grant permission, but once it was
obtained, we had to fear protests or other negative responses from conservative faculty or
students. Though no protests were voiced officially, it appears that the survey was not
welcomed by all students (we had no negative reactions from faculty). Several students told
us, sometimes weeks afterwards, that many of their comrades had felt “shocked,” “offended,”
or “insulted” by the research. As a result, many had decided not to participate. One Covered
Student came to the first author’s office and explained (by considerably raising her voice) that
this survey “simply cannot be done in Kuwait” because “there are no answers to such
questions.” To show her that he does not agree, the author pointed to the option “Because my
family asked me to wear the hijab” as a possible answer and said that he does not understand
why this answer cannot represent a valid option at least for some people. “You, for example,
why do you wear the hijab?” he asked her. “Because my family asked me to wear it,” she
replied. “In that case, why don’t you check this answer?” “Because I don’t want to check it,”
was the reply. “And why do you not want to check it?” “Because I don’t like the question.”
The dialogue shows that some questions are so heavily connoted with elements that people
prefer not to think about, let alone talk about, that they will either not answer those questions
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or produce answers that do not reflect their genuine thoughts. In the latter case, they will most
probably produce answers that conform to socially or religiously sanctioned model-answers.
In many cases, this is not done in order to avoid a conflict with society (after all, the survey
was anonymous), but rather to avoid a confrontation with the problem evoked. A male student
posted in response to the question “Do you think that the hijab can be seen as a fashion
phenomenon?” the comment: “Offensive question!” However, the question is totally
legitimate, which is shown by the fact that 41% of the ‘Covered Girls’ do see the hijab as a
fashion item and willingly checked this answer. Apparently, the question pointed the above
male student to existing contradictions between his modern and his traditional self, which his
culture had taught him to ignore rather than to approach critically. Another such example is
the comment from a female student who indicates that she wears the hijab mainly for reasons
of peer pressure and family pressure but also points out that “I don’t want to write my
opinions and I do not like this survey.”
Naturally, the above described psychological phenomenon becomes most obvious with regard
to the answer “Because my family asked me to wear it,” an answer which the complaining
student who came to the first author’s office, so obviously abhorred. Strictly speaking, for this
student, like for many others who provided similar replies, this answer was socially and
religiously unacceptable. As many respondents explain in their comments, one should not
wear the hijab merely because one has been asked (or forced) to wear it. Wearing it only
because one has to is like not wearing it at all and thus contradicts basic religious principles.
The difficulty to which women are submitted becomes obvious when looking at the fact that
in most Muslim countries surveyed by the Washington based PEW Research Center,
majorities of women as well as men agree that a wife is always obliged to obey her husband,10
but affirm at the same time that a woman should be able to decide for herself whether to wear
a veil. Here, as with all social phenomena but in particular fashion, “successful incorporation
into bourgeois social order involves not a person’s subjugation of his own will to that of the
‘law’ but the absence of any distance between that will and the law,” as Erin Mackie explains
in her book on fashion (1997: 21). This point turned out to be important for our survey.
10
More than nine in ten Muslims in Iraq (92%), Morocco (92%), Tunisia (93%), Indonesia (93%), Afghanistan
(94%) and Malaysia (95%) express this view. From PEW Forum 2013.
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2.3.2. The “East-West” Problem
Another problem was represented by what can be called the “post-colonial context” of the
survey. According to what could be derived from conversations with students, the project had
been perceived by some as one of those typically “western” attempts to examine non-western
cultures, which those westerners neither understand nor respect. As a consequence, as we
were told by several students, many students announced that they intended to participate in the
survey merely as an act of defiance. They planned to refute the image of the downtrodden and
oppressed Muslim woman (which they thought “westerners” would expect to encounter) at
any cost. Accordingly, one male student writes in the comments: “Just please accept Islam
and don’t make a big scene;” and a female student writes at the end of the survey: “Now I will
advise all my friends who do not wear hijab to think of wearing it ASAP.” Some students
announced (according to reports we received from other students) that they planned to “annoy
those foreigners who are against Islam.” When reading the students’ comments, the constant
justifications of Islam in places where they are entirely off topic (because the corresponding
question did not deal with religious matters at all) raise indeed suspicions of a post-colonial
complex.
The above reactions are in keeping with what Esposito and Mogahed report in their Gallup
documentation about frustrations of “Third World” women at the dictations of “First World”
women and how Muslim women often resent Western women’s perceptions that Muslim
women lack modernity. In the eyes of those women, this perception “signals their degraded
cultural status” (Esposito & Mogahed: 110). As an example, Mogahed reports how during a
talk with American diplomat Karen Hughes in 2005 some women in Jeddah, Saudi Arabia,
challenged Hughes by saying: “We are not only content, we’re happy. So what steps are you
taking to show that image?” Mogahed recognizes this as an act of defiance (124) and other
researchers have called this phenomenon the “optimism gap.” Himmelfarb, in a study of
American culture, has named it the “I’m O.K., you’re not” attitude and writes: “According to
one survey, two-thirds of the people ‘feel good’ about their own communities, but only onethird have good feelings about America in general. This resembles the ‘self-esteem syndrome’
which induces people to have a higher opinion of their own abilities than others have of them
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(or than is warranted by objective measures). The optimism gap, like the spurious self-esteem,
is a kind of dissonance, a reluctance to confront reality” (Himmelfarb: 20-21).11
There are reasons to assume that those students who wanted to “annoy those foreigners”
decided to stage the image of an ideal culture in which their religion and their culture make
everybody happy and in which free will and obedience perfectly overlap. The words “proud”
and “pride” (in connection with being Muslim and with wearing the hijab) appear 35 times in
the comments drafted by the ‘Covered Girls’ group. A male student refers to another problem
but his motivations remain the same when asking (apparently without referring to any
particular question in the survey): “Do you think anyone should be discriminated against just
for following their religious beliefs or expressing themselves? (…) Equality, Freedom of
expression and Freedom in practicing religious beliefs should be rights that no one has to
argue for or against.” He had perceived the mere fact of conducting such a survey as a
potential attack against his religion and his culture though there were no particular indications
in the survey that would have made him suspect this.
A further limitation must be acknowledged. In a country such as Kuwait where Muslim
women are the majority, Muslim dress code such as the hijab is not a contested issue and is
not openly questioned, similarly to how Western women are most generally not questioned for
wearing short skirts (cf. Gill 2007). It is thus probable that our question of “Why do you
veil?” was regarded as bizarre to some of our female respondents, in a similar way to Western
women being asked why they wear short skirts. The backlash or disdain expressed by some
students may also be attributed to this fact, as our questions may have been seen as
challenging their everyday norms of appropriate dress code. Research by Wager et al. (2012)
illustrates how Muslim women in a Muslim majority society are more likely to explain
wearing the hijab in terms of convenience, fashion and modesty, whereas Muslim minority
women or most women in a minority Muslim society see the veil as a way of affirming their
cultural identity. Our own findings demonstrate that Muslim young women in Kuwait do not
have a challenging relationship with dress code and their Muslim reality. Sometimes it can
actually be a political statement not to veil. The need to demonstrate a different identity from
non-Muslims is not so important in a society like Kuwait where the majority is Muslim.
11
With regard to the “optimism gap” Himmelfarb also refers to Ladd & Browman 1998 and to Whitman 1998.
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During the weeks we were working on this survey, the above “East-West” dissonances
produced a certain feeling of uneasiness on both sides. In principle, our intention had not been
to reveal a tale of oppression, nor did we want to liberate our students from their hijabs, but
we were simply interested in interferences between religious dress (or religious values) and
(modern) fashion. We were not searching for elements that could put participants down. On
the contrary, ideally, we were looking for the image of the modern, educated woman able to
handle her religious heritage responsibly and critically by combining veiling with fashion. Our
ideas were supported by observations other researchers had made about “veiling fashion” in
countries like Turkey as well as in Western emigrant communities. Mogahed rightly states
that stories of oppressed women normally revolve around women without education, but here
our main respondents were female university students whom we knew to be, in general,
smarter, more engaged and more curious than their male counterparts. Mogahed complains in
her chapter “What do Women Want?” that Western researchers and media rarely present the
voices of women themselves, but like to portrait them as silent. Through our survey, those
young women could speak. In doing so, they clearly wanted to contradict certain western
clichés. On the other hand, instead of providing critical analyses or some sort of feminist
thought, most of them preferred to indulge in formulaic and exalted reinstatement of religious
beliefs. Statements like the following are typical: “Islam saves our rights in everything. We
won’t find any [other] religion or country that saves women’s rights [in the way in which]
Islam did.”
There are reasons to assume that if the survey had been conducted by local professors
(possibly by a women-only team wearing the hijab) the students’ attitude would not have been
the same. However, even then, the fact that the study of cultures is often per se perceived as
an exclusively Western phenomenon might have produced similar results. On the other hand,
one of the two researchers, Dr. Noreen Abdullah-Khan, is English of Pakistani origin and
wears the hijab herself. However, it is not measurable as to how much this helped students
feel less defensive, given that not all participants knew her. Furthermore, it is also possible
that there may be a reverse effect: some students might have felt more comfortable submitting
their thoughts to westerners, that is, to people from outside their community or religion.
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2.4. Preliminary Conclusion
Though the surveys were anonymous, experiences (conversations and more personal
comments) during and after the survey lead us to the conclusion that students did not always
say what they believed to be true but instead presented what they thought they are supposed to
say in order to conform to social standards or to defend their culture and religion in front of
foreign spectators. On the following pages, several findings will provide evidence of this. At
this stage it can be stated that the respondents’ answers were determined at least partly by two
important criteria: (1) The survey itself might be part of a Western conspiracy that needs to be
encountered by advertising pride and contentment. (2) Wearing the hijab because one has
been forced to wear it is a “haram” position that needs to be contradicted at any cost by
choosing other options.
In the end this means that many students were not so much lying to us but rather to
themselves. Of course, it is difficult to prove such a claim in an empirical study. However, in
particular cases, contradictions within the surveys provide evidence of this. The finding is
interesting in itself; it does not invalidate the results of the survey but rather equips this
research with supplementary and instructive dimensions whose analysis is one of the tasks of
this study. That is not to say that none of the students presented the truth, but that a large part
of the answers seem to follow strikingly standardized patterns that can be traced to one of the
two strategies indicated above. Such assumptions are also supported by the “optimism gap”
theory developed by other researchers. As will become clear below, the explicit character of
many of the religiously-minded comments suggests that many students felt that this survey
challenges definitions of their selves, which they want to see as coherent but which they feel
contain contradictions.
3. Results and Discussions
3.1. The Central Question: Why do you Veil?
The main purpose of the survey was to explore the reasons students veil and what attitude
students who do not veil (females and males) have towards veiling. Instead of limiting the
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answer to one option we asked students to select four options (or three for ‘Uncovered Girls’)
from a list of eight (or seven) and to rank them according to importance. For Covered Girls
the nine options (preceded by the sentence “Select four reasons why you are wearing the veil
from most important to least important”) were:
1. My family told me to do so
2. Islam tells us to wear the hijab and I simply want to obey my religion
3. Many of my friends wear it and I want to be part of the group
4. I seek to affirm my Muslim identity and show that I am different from non-Muslims
5. I want to make a statement against Western consumer culture
6. I am bothered by the attention that male students will give me if I do not wear a hijab
7. Simply because I find it nice and fashionable
8. Wearing a hijab gives you a better public reputation
9. Other reason
3.1.1. First Findings: Answers of ‘Covered Girls’
‘Covered Girls’ ranked answers to the question “Why do you wear the hijab?” like this:
Options ranked first:
n
Islam tells us to wear the hijab and I simply want to obey
my religion
482
71.09
My family told me to do so
45
6.63
I seek to affirm my Muslim identity and show that I am
different from non-Muslims
41
6.04
Wearing a hijab gives you a better public reputation
24
3.53
I am bothered by the attention that male students will
give me if I do not wear a hijab
20
2.94
Many of my friends wear it and I want to be part of the
group
11
1.62
Simply because I find it nice and fashionable
6
0.08
I want to make a statement against Western consumer
culture
6
0.08
43
6.34
678
100
Other reasons
Total
Percent
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Options ranked second:
n
I seek to affirm my Muslim identity and show that I am
different from non-Muslims
177
26.10
Islam tells us to wear the hijab and I simply want to obey
my religion
162
23.89
Wearing a hijab gives you a better public reputation
88
1.29
My family told me to do so
89
13.12
Simply because I find it nice and fashionable
33
4.86
I am bothered by the attention that male students will
give me if I do not wear a hijab
27
3.98
Many of my friends wear it and I want to be part of the
group
28
4.12
I want to make a statement against Western consumer
culture
13
1.91
Other reasons:
61
8.99
Total
678
100
Options ranked third:
n
Wearing a hijab gives you a better public reputation
180
26.54
I seek to affirm my Muslim identity and show that I am
different from non-Muslims
108
16.11
My family told me to do so
82
12.09
Simply because I find it nice and fashionable
74
10.91
I want to make a statement against Western consumer
culture
55
8.11
I am bothered by the attention that male students will
give me if I do not wear a hijab
47
6.93
Many of my friends wear it and I want to be part of the
group
47
6.93
Islam tells us to wear the hijab and I simply want to obey
my religion
30
4.42
Other reasons
55
8.11
678
100
Total
Options ranked fourth:
Wearing a hijab gives you a better public reputation
Percent
Percent
N
Percent
129
19.02
Simply because I find it nice and fashionable
91
13.42
I seek to affirm my Muslim identity and show that I am
different from non-Muslims
81
11.94
I am bothered by the attention that male students will
give me if I do not wear a hijab
68
10.02
20
I want to make a statement against Western consumer
culture
54
7.96
Many of my friends wear it and I want to be part of the
group
48
7.07
Islam tells us to wear the hijab and I simply want to obey
my religion
24
3.53
My family told me to do so
88
12.97
Other reasons
95
14.01
678
100
Total
Weighted Average of ‘Covered Girls’ Answers to the Question “Why do wear the
hijab?”12
Option
I seek to affirm my Muslim identity and show that I am different from non-Muslims
I want to make a statement against Western consumer culture
Islam tells us to wear the hijab and I simply want to obey my religion
Many of my friends wear it and I want to be part of the group
My family told me to do so
Simply because I find it nice and fashionable
Wearing a hijab gives you a better public reputation
weighted
Avg.
162.36
40.74
415.75
45.30
126.68
66.35
142.81
The weighted average, which compares frequency and weight, has been calculated in the
following fashion: we granted four points on a scale out of four to ‘first rank’ options, three
points to ‘second rank’ options, etc. The above table shows that the “Islam tells us” option is
the option with the highest weight (415.75) followed by the “…Muslim identity” option
which has a much lower weight (162.36). The “my family told me so” option receives a
weight of only 126.68. At the end of this section, the above weighted averages will be
compared with the weighted average of ‘Uncovered Girls’.
For the measurement of the weighted average the “Other reasons” option had been filtered out. The option
referring to the avoidance of male attention” has also been filtered out because this option had not been offered
to ‘Uncovered Girls’.
12
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Selected Data Analysis
The most striking finding in this part of the survey is that 71% (n = 481) of the ‘Covered
Girls’ group indicate “Islam tells us to wear the hijab and I simply want to obey my religion”
as the first reason, and that only 6.6% (n = 45) check “My family told me to do so” as the first
reason. All other options receive relatively small or completely insignificant scores as the first
reason.
As the second reason, the option “I want to obey my religion” receives again a significant
24%, just a little less than the option “I seek to affirm my Muslim identity” and the option “It
gives me a better public reputation.” The latter two options stick out among the low scores of
the other options. “My family told me so” receives only 13% as the second reason; and it
receives just as little as a third reason. The “My family told me so” option does not appear as
a fourth reason at all.
The “In order to be fashionable” option appears only as the second, third and fourth reasons
(between 5 and 13%). The “To avoid male attention” option has even lower scores: from 1 to
10% in increasing sequences from first reason to second reason. Even less represented are the
“I want to make a statement against Western consumer culture” option (between 2 and 8 %
from reason two to four).
“To obey my religion” option is thus the overwhelmingly strongest reason for veiling that
‘veiled students’ indicated. It receives 71% as a first reason, still 24% as a second reason and
does practically not appear as a third or fourth reason. “Because my family told me” receives
only 6.6% as a first reason and between 12 and 13% as a second, third and fourth reason.
‘Abaya wearing girls’ and ‘Niqab Wearing Girls’ reinforce this pattern though the ‘Abaya
Wearing Girls’ give a more important rank to the “It gives me a better reputation” option
(33% chose this as a third reason and 19% as a fourth reason). ‘Niqab wearing girls’ give the
“To avoid male attention” option a more important rank (13% rank it first).
Because many ‘Covered Girls’ used the “Other reason” option in the “First Rank” field to
indicate reasons that had already been listed among the initial eight options, we had to
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distribute those votes among the eight existing options (for the calculation of the weighted
average the “Other reasons” option had simply been filtered out, see note 12). There are a few
“Other reasons” different from the suggested eight options. The most popular one is the
statement “I simply like it,” which 38 individuals (6%) of the ‘Covered Girls’ group chose as
a first reason. One might consider this “reason” not as a supplementary option (because it is
not said why they like it). It rather appears to be meant as a comment seeking to emphasize the
voluntary and pleasant character of veiling. Should it be considered a “real reason,” one must
conclude that 6% of ‘Covered Girls’ wear the hijab without thinking about it any further and
thus wear it for mainly cultural and not religious reasons. The only new and real “other”
reason is the one indicating practical aspects like “it protects my hair,” which only two
individuals chose. Eight students used the “Other reason” option to express the fact that they
do not like the hijab and that they have been forced by a particular person (father, mother,
brother, husband) to wear it (all but one of those indicated persons are male and all persons
are family members). Another “Other reason” (added by 16 individuals or 2%) is “It’s my
tradition or culture,” which we initially believed to be contained in the “I seek to affirm my
Muslim identity” option. However, those students preferred to rephrase the option in a less
aggressive or combative tone.
Covered Girls’ Comments
Two students report in the comments that they had been too young (10 and 11 years old)
when they started wearing the hijab; one student says that she found it adventurous at the age
of 12 to wear something new; and another one writes that she was very religious when she
started wearing it (and apparently no longer is). One student explains that “wearing a hijab in
front of foreigners makes my husband a special person.” Answers and comments of one and
the same person do sometimes contradict each other, thus confirming the psychological
complexities that this survey encountered. For example, a student who indicates as a first
reason for veiling “My family asked me to” and who writes in a comment that she is “against
it although I am wearing it since 4th grade [because] I was forced to,” will still check as the
second reason the option “I want to obey my religion.” The two comments contradict each
other.
Apart from that, the comments of the ‘Covered Girls’ group abound with religious statements
like “I don’t want to go to hell,” “I want to be an Angel,” “I am proud to be Muslim,” “I love
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God,” “God is beautiful,” “What a great feeling it is to wear hijab” as well as many
unsolicited and unrelated explanations of details of the Islamic faith. Very many students also
produce dogmatic statements such as:
Who does not wear a hijab will be hanged with their hair and put to fire.
The Quran is basically what GOD tells us to do. If you read the Quran you will discover things not even
scientist discovered.
Even prophet Mohammed’s wives and daughters used to cover themselves in black, isn’t that evidence
enough?
My sisters, do not be deceived by Satan, because he knows if your heart is vulnerable to manipulation.
Of the approximate 280 comments that have been submitted by ‘Covered Girls’ and ‘Male
Students’ in reply to the three religion-related questions (“Why do you wear the hijab?” “How
important is religion for wearing the hijab,” and “Is the hijab obligatory in Islam?”), about
70% are of an eagerly religious character. The enthusiastic religiosity ceases a little when
other questions such as virtue or respect are commented upon. However, spontaneous
comments like “I want to be close to God” or “Islam is the right thing” in places where such
comments were not solicited because they do not contribute to a clarification of the subject
matter, appear very regularly in all comment sections posted by ‘Covered Girls’. The
religiousness flares up particularly strongly at the end of the survey where all participants are
invited to add comments about whatever aspects they want. 270 out of 415 of the ‘Covered
Girls’’ comments read like this:
Wearing hijab is absolutely obligatory for Muslims women because it gives women security and purity.
If God in the Quran and our Prophet ordered to wear it, we have to do it. Personally, I wear it with
complete conviction because of the reasons and the evidences.
When I see those girls who don’t wear hijab I feel happy in my heart. I say thanks God I’m wearing
hijab, I have a house in heaven.
Hijab is a beautiful thing! You are lucky if God chose you out of all those people in the world that you
would wear it.
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No discussion in this issue because God told us to wear hijab and we must follow it.
What’s the point of being a Muslim if you don’t like what your religion is telling you!
Hijab is such a beautiful item, it covers you, makes people respect you more and you are also obeying
Allah and he’s pleased with you and what can a girl asks for more…
The remaining 145 final comments provided by ‘Covered Girls’ express criticism towards
their classmates’ incorrect way of wearing the hijab (28), insist that it protects them from
males (22), but also that one should never force a girl to wear the hijab (13). Only 11 use the
opportunity to write something critical about the hijab.
3.1.2. Second Findings: Answers of the ‘Uncovered Girls’
Question: “What do you think is the reason why girls wear the hijab? Select three reasons and
rank them from most important to least important.” The options to be ranked were:
1. Their family told them to do so
2. They want to obey to their religion
3. Many of their friends wear it and they want to be part of the group
4. They seek to affirm my Muslim identity
5. They want to make a statement against Western consumer culture
6. Simply because they find it nice and fashionable
7. They believe it gives them a better public reputation
8. Other reason
‘Uncovered Girls’ ranked the answers like this:
Options ranked first
n
Percent
Their family told them to do so
129
39.93
They want to obey to their religion
87
26.93
Many of their friends wear it and they want to be part of
the group
11
3.40
They seek to affirm my Muslim identity
10
3.09
25
They believe it gives them a better public reputation
They want to make a statement against Western
consumer culture
Simply because they find it nice and fashionable
Other reasons
6
1.85
1
0.30
3
76
0.92
23.53
Total
323
100
Options ranked second
n
Percent
They want to obey to their religion
87
26.93
Their family told them to do so
77
23.83
They seek to affirm my Muslim identity
47
14.55
They believe it gives them a better public reputation
Many of their friends wear it and they want to be part of
the group
45
13.93
35
10.83
Simply because they find it nice and fashionable
7
2.16
They want to make a statement against Western
consumer culture
7
2.16
18
5.57
Total
323
100
Options ranked third
n
Other reason
Percent
They believe it gives them a better public reputation
79
24.45
Many of their friends wear it and they want to be part of
the group
47
14.55
They seek to affirm my Muslim identity
45
13.93
Their family told them to do so
46
14.24
They want to obey to their religion
They want to make a statement against Western
consumer culture
39
12.07
6
1.85
Simply because they find it nice and fashionable
26
8.04
Other reasons
35
10.83
323
100
Total
Weighted Average of ‘Uncovered Girls’ Answers to the Question “Why Do You Believe
that Covered Girls Wear the Hijab?”13
Option
13
Weighted
Avg.
For the Weighted Average, the “Other reasons” option has been filtered out.
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They seek to affirm my Muslim identity and show that they are different from non-Muslims
94.25
They want to make a statement against Western consumer culture
13.37
They want to obey their religion
Many of their friends wear it and I want to be part of the group
Their family told them to do so
They find it nice and fashionable
They believe it gives them a better public reputation
254.19
81.43
316.61
29.93
112.00
The weighted average has been calculated by granting three points on a scale out of three14 to
‘first rank’ options, two points to ‘second rank’ options, etc. The above table illustrates that
“Their family told them to do so” is the selected option with the highest weight (316.61).
“They want to obey their religion” receives the much lower weight of only 254.19.
Comparative Analysis of Selected Data of Covered and Uncovered Girls:
Many of the above numbers collected from the ‘Covered Girls’ group are contradicted by the
survey of ‘Uncovered Girls’ at the moment they express their opinions about why their
classmates do veil. The discrepancies between those two surveys represent the most
spectacular finding of the research. To the question “What is, in your opinion, the main reason
why students wear the hijab?” 40% of the ‘Uncovered Girls’ (n = 129) check “Because their
family told them” as a first reason, 24% (n = 77) check the same option once more as the
second reason, and still 14% (n = 45) check it as a third reason. On the other hand, “Because
they want to obey their religion” receives only around 26% (n = 84) as both the first and the
second reason. This contrasts very much with the ‘Covered Girls’ own statements, which
credited the “I want to obey my religion” option with 71% and “Because my family told me”
with only 6.6% as a first reason; and even as a second reason the “Because my family told
me” option received only 13% from ‘Covered Girls’. “To get a better reputation” as well as “I
am bothered by male attention,” on the other hand, are credited by both veiled and unveiled
girls to a similarly insignificant extent. The graphs below show the ‘first rank’ answers of
both covered and uncovered girls:
14
‘Uncovered Girls’ had to establish only three ranks while ‘Covered Girls’ had four.
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I want to obey my religion
My family told me so
I want to be different from
non-Muslims
It gives me a better
reputation
I want to avoid male
attention
In find it fashionable
Make a statement against
Western consumer culture
Peerpressure/I want to be
part of the group
Other
‘Covered Girls’’ first rank answers
Their family told them to
wear it
They want to obey their
religion
Peer pressure/want to be
part of the group
Seek to affirm their Muslim
identity
They believe it gives them
a better reputation
Make a statement against
Western consumer culture
They find it fashionable
Other reasons
‘Uncovered Girls’’ first rank answers
The family pressure argument that ‘Uncovered Girls’ credit with 40% as a First Reason for
veiling, is linked to personal experiences to which they have been submitted. As is shown by
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the answers to further questions, 14% of ‘Uncovered Girls’ report to have been pressured to
wear the hijab. The pressure came almost exclusively from their family members. In the
comments appended to this question, 22 individuals out of 47 report that they have been
pressured, most of the time by “parents or family.” Six specify that it has been the father who
pressured them, three that it has been the mother, two the grandmother and two the aunt, one
the siblings. Only five say that it has been their friends, three experienced pressure in school
and two by other non-family members. Nobody in all three surveys mentions advice (directly
or indirectly) received from a mosque or from any official religious person in any context.
Compared Weighted Averages
A comparative analysis of weighted averages yields the same results. Among ‘Uncovered
Girls’, a weighted average of 254.19 believes that the hijab is worn to obey religion against a
weighted average of 415.75 of ‘Covered Girls’. Among ‘Uncovered Girls’ a weighted average
of 314.61 believes that the hijab is worn because of family pressure while Covered Girls
present for this option only a weighted average of 126.68. Two-independent-sample T-tests
that have been undertaken for all seven questions show P-values of less than 0.01. This value
is statistically extremely significant by conventional criteria.
Covered
Uncovered
415.75
314.61
254.19
162.36
142.81
112.00
126.68
94.47
40.74
13.37
81.43
45.30
Affirm Muslim Want to make Want to obey Peer pressure/ Family told
religion
want to be
them/me
identity
a statement
part of the
against
group
Western
consumer
culture
66.35
29.93
Find it nice Gives a better
and
public
fashionable
reputation
Weighted averages of covered and uncovered girls compared
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Covered
Affirm Muslim identity
Want to make a statement against…
Want to obey religion
Peer pressure
Family told them/me
Find it nice and fashionable
Gives better public reputation
Uncovered
Covered SD
Uncovered SD
P-Value
162.360
94.470
4.176
3.419
< 0.01**
40.740
13.370
16.642
24.159
< 0.01**
415.750
254.190
1.631
1.271
< 0.01**
45.300
81.430
14.967
3.967
< 0.01**
126.680
314.610
5.352
1.027
< 0.01**
66.350
29.930
10.219
10.792
< 0.01**
142.810
112.000
4.748
2.884
< 0.01**
T-tests results of weighted averages of covered and uncovered girls
Mann-Whitney Test
Also the Mann-Whitney Test shows significant differences between answers of Covered and
Uncovered Girls for ranks 1 and 2.
‘Uncovered Girls’’ Comments
By and large, the ‘Uncovered Girls’’ comments to the question “Is there any particular reason
why you do not wear the hijab?” do not refer to any religious topics. 48% simply say that
there is no particular reason for this and 2% say that it is a personal matter, which they cannot
disclose (in spite of the fact that the questionnaire was anonymous). 20% take the opportunity
to point out that they might wear the hijab in the future and are simply not ready for it now.
Later, 82% of the ‘Uncovered Girls’ will answer the question “Are you open to wearing the
hijab in the future” with ‘yes’ and only 16% with ‘no’. This is an interesting finding that will
be discussed below.
35% of the ‘Uncovered Girls’ use the comment section appended to this question to specify
that in their opinion, the hijab is not a requirement in Islam (though with regards to the
corresponding question about Islamic requirements that will occur later, only 18% say that
they do not believe that the hijab is required in the Islam). 1.5% (n = 5) of ‘Uncovered Girls’
state that they are non-believers. A few students offer statements like “it’s ridiculous,” “it’s
against fashion,” or “it’s physically uncomfortable.” One student also points out an identity
problem because the hijab “does not reflect who I am.”
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Another main contrast between covered and uncovered students’ approaches is represented by
the fact that the strong insistence on “pride” that has been so flagrant in the ‘Covered Girls’’
comments does not occur at all in the ‘Uncovered Girls’’ comments. While the ‘Covered
Girls’ use the words ‘proud’ and ‘pride’ 35 times, the ‘Uncovered Girls’ use them only twice
and both are in the following sentences: “I pray and I have little knowledge of Islam. However
I’m not proud of it;” and “I may be agnostic, but I am not fake like them, which makes me
proud.” Equally interesting is a further contrast in tone and content between surveys of veiled
and unveiled girls, which will be further analyzed below. Though, for example, the question
about the equality of men and women is answered similarly by all groups, ‘Uncovered Girls’
offer here more criticism of Kuwaiti society. The most critical comment by an ‘Uncovered
Girl’ is this one:
The hijab does nothing but suppress women and give men the upper hand and allow them to control
you. Unfortunately I was born in to a society where women do not believe in equality between
themselves and men. So they allow themselves to be abused and forced in to god knows what. Only a
minority of the families in Kuwait believe in true equality.
3.1.3. Third Findings: Answers of ‘Male Students’
Question: “What do you think is the reason girls wear the hijab? Select four reasons and rank
them from most important to least important.” The answers to be ranked were:
1. Their family told them to do so
2. They want to obey their religion
3. Peer pressure. Their friends wear and they don’t want to stick out
4. They seek to affirm their Muslim identity and show that they are different from nonMuslims
5. They want to make a statement against Western consumer culture
6. They do not appreciate the attention that male students give them if they do not wear a
hijab
7. Simply because they find it nice and fashionable
8. Wearing a hijab gives them a better public reputation
9. Other reason
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‘Male Students’ ranked the answers like this:
Options ranked first
n
Percent
They want to obey their religion
166
39.05
Their family told them to do so
98
23.05
They seek to affirm their Muslim identity and show that
they are different from non-Muslims
9
2.11
Simply because they find it nice and fashionable
8
1.88
Peer pressure. Their friends wear and they don’t want to
stick out
6
1.41
Wearing a hijab gives them a better public reputation
4
0.94
They want to make a statement against Western consumer
culture
2
0.47
They do not appreciate the attention that male students
give them if they do not wear a hijab
5
1.17
Other reason
127
29.88
Total
425
100
Options ranked second
n
Percent
Their family told them to do so
127
29.88
They want to obey their religion
106
24.94
Wearing a hijab gives them a better public reputation
64
15.05
Peer pressure. Their friends wear and they don’t want to
stick out
30
7.05
They do not appreciate the attention that male students
give them if they do not wear a hijab
28
6.58
Simply because they find it nice and fashionable
21
4.94
They seek to affirm their Muslim identity and show that
they are different from non-Muslims
19
4.47
They want to make a statement against Western consumer
culture
13
3.05
Other reason
17
4.00
425
100
Total
Options ranked third
n
Wearing a hijab gives them a better public reputation
108
25.41
51
12.00
Simply because they find it nice and fashionable
Percent
32
They do not appreciate the attention that male students
give them if they do not wear a hijab
45
10.59
Peer pressure. Their friends wear and they don’t want to
stick out
34
8.00
36
8.47
26
6.11
42
9.88
Their family told them to do so
60
14.11
Other reasons
23
5.54
425
100
They seek to affirm their Muslim identity and show that
they are different from non-Muslims
They want to make a statement against Western consumer
culture
They want to obey their religion
Total
Options ranked fourth
n
Percent
Wearing a hijab gives them a better public reputation
85
20.00
Simply because they find it nice and fashionable
76
17.88
49
11.52
49
11.52
48
11.29
30
7.56
30
7.56
18
4.23
40
9.41
425
100
They do not appreciate the attention that male students give
them if they do not wear a hijab
Peer pressure. Their friends wear and they don’t want to
stick out
Their family told them to do so
They want to obey their religion
They seek to affirm their Muslim identity and show that
they are different from non-Muslims
They want to make a statement against Western consumer
culture
Other reasons
Total
Weighted Average of ‘Male Students’’ Answers to the Question “Why Do You Believe
that Covered Girls Wear the Hijab?”15
Option
Weighted
Avg.
They seek to affirm their Muslim identity and show that they are different from non-Muslims
44.62
They want to make a statement against Western consumer culture
26.63
They want to obey their religion
Many of their friends wear it and I want to be part of the group
Their family told them to do so
They find it nice and fashionable
15
255.60
54.20
217.28
64.01
Also here the “Other reasons” option has been filtered out.
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They want to avoid the male attention
They believe it gives them a better public reputation
54.09
133.17
Selected Data Analysis of Male Students’ Survey:
Given that the ‘‘Male Students’’ group contains individuals who support the veil as well as
individuals who support it much less (the former group being the larger one), it could have
been expected that the answers of ‘Male Students’ will confirm the above findings. At least
68% (n = 289) of the males are very supportive of the veil because, as mentioned, 68% state
that their future wife should wear the hijab. However, in spite of this, the ‘Male Students’’
answers do not match the ‘Covered Girls’’ answers but come closer to the ‘Uncovered Girls’’
answers. When asked what they think why girls are wearing the hijab, only 39% indicate
religious motivations as the first reason, thus much less than what the ‘Covered Girls’ (71%)
had indicated themselves. 22% check “Their family told them” as the first reason. 30% choose
“Their family told them” also as the second reason, while only 25% check “They want to obey
their religion” as the second reason. “Their family told them” appears again as a third reason
with 15%.
Apart from those two options, ‘Male Students’ give only “They want to get a better
reputation” a higher score (26% as the Third Reason) than to all other options. The percentage
of 26% as a Third Reason for the “It gives me a better reputation” option is more or less the
same in all target groups.
Male Students’ Comments
27 male students use the “Other reason” option but they do so mainly in order to express their
faith and to elucidate (most of the time unrelated) religious details, though they do so to a
much lesser extent than the ‘Covered Girls’. Three male students point to the “hypocrisy” of
girls who wear the hijab and one student finds that “men are forcing women” to wear it. The
same tendency persists in the final comments, except that here complaints about “improper
veiling” dominate. Also, a very large number of male students points out in their comments
that women should never be forced to wear the hijab. In the entire survey not a single
respondent (male or female) recommends to force women into veiling in any way. In the 240
comments drafted by ‘Male Students’ for the “final comments” section, only two express
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criticism of veiling. It is evident therefore that respondents are clear that while veiling is
desirable, it should be the chosen way for women, rather than one dictated to them.
The results contrast with Williams and Vashi’s study of American Muslims, in which “fire
and brimstone speeches and warnings of moral danger among young women” have been
common among men but almost absent among women. The latter preferred to discuss
interpersonal issues “visibility, social ostracism and public reputation” (Williams and Vashi
2007: 281) but not modesty and moral purity. In our survey, such reputation issues were
almost neglected by Kuwaiti respondents.
3.2. The “Protect Women from Men” Argument
Does the hijab protect women from the male gaze? Surprisingly, the “protect women”
argument, which had in our survey been phrased as the “I wear it because I am bothered by
the attention that male students will give me if I do not wear a hijab” option, receives
relatively little attention in all target groups. This is surprising because internationally,
defenders of the hijab do often put forward the “protection” argument as primordial. Messini’s
(1994) research indicates that her sample group in Morocco equates being unveiled to being
naked since there exists a deep rooted belief that unveiled women are guilty of provoking
unwanted male attention. Covered women are therefore regarded as being clothed. In our
surveys, this option receives only between 1 and 10% in increasing sequences from First
Reason to Second Reason among ‘Covered Girls’. Also ‘Male Students’ did not see this
option as an essential argument. Only 19% believed that “women without hijab are exposed to
unpleasant male attention” and 45% answered here “sometimes.” The tendency is even more
extreme in the ‘Uncovered Girls’’ survey. Of those girls who obviously have first-hand
knowledge of the matter, 73% answered that they have “never” been exposed to unpleasant
male attention and 24% answered “sometimes, but I can deal with it,” and only 2% stated that
they had been confronted with an unpleasant male gaze quite often. This survey renders the
“bothered by male attention” argument insignificant while the “family pressure” argument
turned out to be more important than initially assumed.
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3.3. The “Feminist Argument”
Considerations of the “protect women” argument lead to reflections about arguments offered
by “pro-veiling feminism,” that is, by those women who see their veiling as an act of
resistance and liberation. The Middle-Eastern world has particularly created its own
feminisms without merely deriving its ideologies from Western models. Pro-veiling feminism
is not the equivalent of Islamic feminism, which emerged in the early 1990s when some
Muslim feminists began to interpret feminist problems through re-readings of the Qur’an and
other religious texts and attempted to reconcile Islamic faith with international human rights.
Asma Barlas, Leila Ahmed and Fatima Mernissi are Islamic or Muslim feminists. There is
also a Western pro-veiling feminist position adopted by Western feminists who defend veiling
on a feminist basis. Martha Nussbaum in her often-quoted article “Veiled Threats?” adopts
such a position. The juxtaposition of veiling and feminism can adopt curious traits. In Turkey,
for example, the commonly called “veiled feminists” “do not want to be called feminists, and
neither do they want to emphasize gender in their way of thinking” (Sakaranaho 2008: 53).
In our survey, the feminist pro-veiling argument that women need to be protected from the
male gaze in order to be recognized as intelligent human beings is practically absent in all
groups. In the entire survey, only one student mentions the word “feminism” and justifies her
veiling thus:
People underestimate inner beauty and ignore women as thinkers, and they focus on her physical beauty
and the shallow things that don’t matter. Hijab is a concept, not just a piece of cloth of one’s head, a
way to behave, act, live, it is not to oppress women, but rather to let their minds, ideas, and personalities
shine in a world that is, and always has been, let’s be honest, dominated by men. I see as part of
feminism and part of the women’s liberation movements, not something those movements should fight
against.
3.4. Preliminary Conclusion
What dominates in the “reasons for veiling” section in the ‘Covered Girls’ and ‘Male
Students’ groups is the “obedience to religion” theme. However, there is a gap between the
‘Covered Girls’’ affirmation that they wear the hijab for religious reasons, and the
assumptions of ‘Uncovered Girls’ and ‘Male Students’ who do not confirm this perspective
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but attribute hijab wearing to following family wishes. The contradiction between the
different positions concerning “reasons for veiling” has been highlighted in this research
through qualitative analysis as well as through quantitative research employing T-tests
designed to compare the weighted averages of covered and uncovered girls’ results.
3.5. Religion as a Factor
The detection of religious motivations was central to this survey. The majority of the
respondents (between 80 and 90%) believe that religion is either a “very important” or an
“important” factor for veiling in Kuwait. It was important to check whether this is true. It may
be evident that students are religious; but it is hasty to conclude that the hijab is generally
worn for religious reasons.
Are our Students Religious?
If we measure the degree of religiosity by way of questions about the knowledge of Islam or
the dedication to prayer, we can find only small differences between covered and uncovered
female students. Around 64% of the ‘Covered Girls’ consider their knowledge of Islam ‘good’
(even ‘Abaya Wearing Girls’ score here only slightly more) against 54% of the ‘Uncovered
Girls’. Equally, only 0.7% of ‘Covered Girls’ and 3% of ‘Uncovered Girls’ consider their
knowledge of Islam ‘poor’. 92% of ‘Covered Girls’ and 74% of ‘Uncovered Girls’ affirm to
pray daily. This is a 18% less for the ‘Uncovered Girls’; still, the number of devote Muslims
even among ‘Uncovered Girls’ remains impressive. If at least 74% of them pray daily, our
student population needs to be considered as predominantly religious. The conclusion is that
overall, veiling or not veiling is not really dependent on religious practice because almost all
respondents through all categories can be considered as religious. What is more important for
an understanding of the relationship between religion and veiling are the differences of how
religiosity is handled by students.
3.5.1. Praying Attitudes
As mentioned, 92% of the ‘Covered Girls’ affirm to pray daily (98% of the ‘Abaya Wearing
Girls’) against 74% of the ‘Uncovered Girls’. Perhaps surprisingly, it appears that more
female than ‘Male Students’ (78%) pray daily. The question “Do you pray daily?” has been
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commented by 110 of the 467 ‘Covered Girls’ who answered this question (11 chose not to
answer). 95 of those 110 comments from ‘Covered Girls’ emphasize their already affirmative
answer by adding an often-enthusiastic statement about how important and/or pleasant
praying actually is. There is not a single ‘fake comment’ in this section that would be limited
to ‘yes’ or ‘no’ or a comment that merely repeats what had been checked beforehand.16 This
clearly distinguishes this comment section from all other comment sections. Only eight out of
the 110 ‘Covered Girls’ who post comments state that they do pray but are sometimes late for
prayer, forget it or need to be reminded. This creates a strong contrast with the ‘Male
Students’’ attitudes towards prayer. While 20% fewer males than females pray, only half of
their 48 comments merely emphasize the fact that they do really pray daily. Male students
simply check the yes box and refrain from reinstating that they really mean ‘yes’, as do the
girls. The other half states (often jokingly) that they often forget to pray, pray irregularly, need
to be reminded… Such comments are absolutely absent in the ‘Covered Girls’’ section.
The 323 ‘Uncovered Girls’ who chose to answer this question post here only 26 comments
(against 110 by the 678 ‘Covered Girls’). Twelve of them briefly state that they do really pray
five times a day; the rest writes that they do not pray regularly, forget it, or are late. The
‘Uncovered Girls’ do also omit the ardent religious lessons that many ‘Covered Girls’ like to
append to their answers.
3.5.2. Knowledge of the Scriptures
An important part of the survey concerns the question of whether students are able to establish
links between veiling and concrete references from the Qur’an and/or hadiths. There is a
general consensus among the veiled, unveiled, and male students that the hijab is obligatory in
Islam and that clear indications about this can be found in the Qur’an and/or in the hadiths.
93% of the ‘Covered Girls’, 96% of the ‘Abaya Wearing Girls’, 80% of the ‘Uncovered
Girls’, and 83% of the ‘Male Students’ are convinced of this. This is an average of 87% for all
respondents. Several students write in their comments that there are “lots of quotations from
the Qur’an and hadiths” proving that veiling is obligatory. Many refer to internet sites, paste
links into the comments or say that we should simply google it. 41% of ‘Covered Girls’ and
16
See note 8 for the definition of “fake comments.”
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‘Male Students’, and 25% of the ‘Uncovered Girls’ do also believe that the abaya is
obligatory according to the scriptures.
73% of the ‘Covered Girls’, 96% of the ‘Abaya Wearing Girls’ and 72% of the ‘Male
Students’ state that they are themselves able to indicate corresponding passages from the
Qur’an or a hadith. Only 31% of the ‘Uncovered Girls’ state this. Of the 673 ‘Covered Girls’
who answered this question, 183 add comments, 50 of which contain full length quotations
from the Qur’an. Of the 344 ‘Male Students’ who answered this question, 81 add comments,
20 of which are quotations from the Qur’an. The ‘Uncovered Girls’’ approach is different. Of
the 110 ‘Uncovered Girls’ who answered this question, 69 post comments. Only five quote a
passage from the Qur’an. Instead, twelve ‘Uncovered Girls’ write critical evaluations of the
hijab, attempt to link the question to themes like ‘tradition vs. religion’, to the metaphorical
character of scriptures, to historical debates by specialists who could not solve the question, to
the Qur’an and the difficulty to apply it in modern life, to the different meanings of modesty,
to the male role in the act of veiling (if he would not look then we would not have to cover),
etc. Such critical evaluations are practically absent in the comments posted by ‘Covered
Girls’. Most of the remaining ‘Uncovered Girls’’ comments concentrate on the “one should
not force women to wear the hijab” theme.
3.5.3. The Qur’anic Passages
The most popular passage pasted by ‘Covered Girls’ and ‘Male Students’ into the comments
box is the Surah Al-Noor 24: 31 (pasted fifty-six times). Ironically, at least in the three
existing translations by Yusuf Ali, Mamarduke M. Pickthall and Saheeh International
(translations that students used most of the time when quotations came in English) as well as
in Arabic, this Surah shows that the woman’s head does not need to be covered:
And tell the believing women to reduce [some] of their vision and guard their private parts and not
expose their adornment except that which [necessarily] appears thereof and to wrap [a portion of] their
headcovers over their chests and not expose their adornment except to their husbands, their fathers… 17
17
The above text is Saheeh’s translation. Pickthall’s translation is similar: “And tell the believing women to
lower their gaze and be modest, and to display of their adornment only that which is apparent, and to draw their
veils over their bosoms, and not to reveal their adornment save to their own husbands or fathers…” Also Yusuf
Ali’s translation is similar: “And say to the believing women that they should lower their gaze and guard their
modesty; that they should not display their beauty and ornaments except what (must ordinarily) appear thereof;
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Hair cannot be considered adornment and even if it is, it is said that that “which necessarily
appears thereof” can be shown. Furthermore the head cover should be wrapped over the chest
and not necessarily over the head.
Five students paste another translation (most probably found on the internet) of the same
Surah. It is taken from the translation by the contemporary Pakistani scholars M. Khan and M.
Hilali, whose work is called The Noble Qur’an. This translation has been recognized as
problematic by more liberally minded Muslim scholars because it is interspersed with
commentaries from medieval religious scholars Tabari († 923), Qurtubi († 1273), and Ibn
Kathir († 1373). The problem is not only the extremely conservative nature of the comments,
but also the fact that the comments (most often provided in brackets) are not identified as
comments but are presented as if they are part of the Qur’an. In Khan and Hilali’s translation
the same passage from the Surah Al-Noor reads thus:
And tell the believing women to lower their gaze (from looking at forbidden things), and protect their
private parts (from illegal sexual acts) and not to show off their adornment except only that which is
apparent (like both eyes for necessity to see the way, or outer palms of hands or one eye or dress like
veil, gloves, headcover, apron), and to draw their veils all over Juyoobihinna (i.e. their bodies, faces,
necks and bosoms) and not to reveal their adornment except to their husbands, or their fathers… (our
italics).
The passages in italics have been added by the translators (without identifying them as
additions). The Noble Qur’an’s translation is sponsored by the government of Saudi Arabia
and authorized by Saudi institutions. It is distributed for free in Islamic libraries all over the
world. Khaleel Mohammed, professor of Islamic studies at San Diego University, writes that
the “translation reads more like a supremacist Muslim, anti-Semitic, anti-Christian polemic
than a rendition of the Islamic scripture” (Mohammed 2005).
It clear that in the Surah Al-Noor, everything depends on the translation of the word juyub. It
is impossible to enter here a discussion of this problem but it should be noted that three
standard translations (Yusuf Ali, Pickthall and Saheeh) say that the head cover (khimar)
that they should draw their veils over their bosoms and not display their beauty except to their husbands, their
fathers, their husband's fathers…”
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should be drawn over the bosom or chest (juyub). Only Khan and Hilali suggest that juyub
does also mean “faces,” and “necks.” They even link the word juyub, in an inconsequential
fashion, to “gloves,” “a covering of one eye” and “apron.” It is impossible for laymen to make
a scholarly point here, but obviously neither the ‘Male Students’ nor the ‘Covered Girls’ are
aware of those interpretation problems since nobody points them out. On the internet, the
Hilali-Khan translation appears on literally hundreds of popular English speaking Islamic
websites like Islam Questions and Answers, missionislam.com, the “Hijab” facebook page,
Inter-Islam.org or islamiccenter.com.
Another popular reference are lines 33-59 from the Surah Al Ahzab, which students pasted 21
times and which reads in Yusuf Ali’s translation:
O Prophet! Tell thy wives and daughters, and the believing women, that they should cast their outer
garments over their persons (when abroad): that is most convenient, that they should be known (as such)
and not molested. And Allah is Oft- Forgiving, Most Merciful.
Again, there is no indication of the covering of the head though The Noble Qur’an adds, again
in brackets: “i.e. screen themselves completely except the eyes or one eye to see the way”
after the word “persons.”
Seven students indicate the Surah Al Nisa’a though without verse number. It is most likely
that verse 34 is meant. The verse talks about wives’ “obedience” to husbands and The Noble
Qur’an translation brings in the modesty theme.18 Still it is not clear how this could refer to
the covering of the head. Three students quote also hadiths but they appear to be unrelated to
the topic.
Surprisingly, only one student presents the hadith 4092 from Abu Dawud’s collection of
hadiths, though defenders of the obligatory character of the hijab quote this hadith relatively
often. It is possible that students decided not to indicate it because they knew that Abu Dawud
(a Persian collector of hadith who died in 889) had classified this hadith as weak (mursal) but
there is no evidence of this. In the hadith, Aisha reports that Asma, daughter of Abu Bakr,
18
The issue of “obedience” is controversial and depends on the translation.
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“entered upon the Apostle of Allah wearing thin clothes. The Apostle of Allah turned his
attention from her. He said: ‘O Asma, when a woman reaches the age of menstruation, it does
not suit her that she displays her parts of body except this and this, and he pointed to her face
and hands’.” Abu Dawud classifies the hadith as weak because the narrator who transmitted it
from Aisha is not known (cf. Syed 1998). It can therefore be concluded that nowhere in the
Qur’an is the veil prescribed to women. The passage from Surah Al-Noor 24:31 tries to focus
on the need for modesty in general rather than on the need for veiling.
3.6. Social Interaction and Mutual Perceptions
The results show that the social interaction between veiled and uncovered girls is intact and
functional. Relationships are friendly and there is no discrimination. Only 17% of the
‘Covered Girls’ think that they have at least once been discriminated against in Kuwaiti
society and this concerns mainly ‘Abaya Wearing Girls’ and ‘Niqab Wearing Girls’. As one
Niqab Wearing Girl comments: “I wear hijab and niqab and although we’re an Islamic
country I still get treated less well than others because I’m not ‘fashionable’ enough.” The
survey contained four questions asking ‘Covered Girls’ and ‘Male Students’ about their
opinion of ‘Uncovered Girls’. Significantly the ‘Covered Girls’ comments here have eloquent
reminders that unveiled girls are not less ethical, not less Muslim, not less respectable. Over
again, ‘Covered Girls’ insist that Kuwait is a free country and that nobody should be judged
by the hijab because wearing it is a personal and free decision. There is not a single comment
that refers negatively in any way to unveiled girls. A typical comment is: “The behavior also
does not relate to the hijab, there are many girls who do not wear hijab [who] are more polite
and respectful than girls who do wear it and vice versa. In the end we are all equal in our
lovely country, men and women.”
Accordingly, only 16% of the ‘Uncovered Girls’ say that they have received “somehow
negative” reactions from their environment for not veiling. One ‘Uncovered Girl’ writes:
I’ve only had this problem with older men and women in the less developed areas of Kuwait. My most
recent experience was when I went to donate blood at the blood bank. The gentleman there was rude
and would not address me properly, then told my brother point blank that it would be better if I wore a
hijab.
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Another girl writes: “If anything I’ve been treated fairly if not better;” and another girls writes
even: “I never felt treated negatively about not wearing a hijab. Rather I’ve been treated as a
liberal who is encouraging feminism.”
58% of the ‘Covered Girls’ state that they have “advised other girls to wear the hijab,” but the
advising session did not seem to have taken the form of pressure because only 14% of the
‘Uncovered Girls’ indicate that they have been pressured in wearing the hijab. Above that, as
shown above, almost all of them refer to parental pressure when being asked for details.
“Advising” seems to be mainly a family matter. Some of the ‘Covered Girls’ do also point to
the impossibility of persuading uncovered girls to veil: “Nowadays it is too difficult to advise
any girl to wear it because they like to do what westerners do” and “unfortunately, not
everyone respects the idea of hijab and the fact that it is a must.”
3.6.1. Culture and Religion
The above facts permit an interesting observation. When it comes to questions about relations
between covered and uncovered girls, it appears that the hijab is seen at least temporarily, as a
cultural item and thus as an item that can be detached from the realm of religion. Girls without
hijab can be good Muslims because wearing the hijab is merely a cultural choice. Given the
efforts that ‘Covered Girls’ made in other places of the survey to link the hijab to religion, this
attitude can appear as surprising. As a matter of fact, all through the survey, the hijab as a
religious and not merely cultural item is praised literally hundreds of times. Many times,
when certain ‘Covered Girls’ are criticized because their immoral behavior does not match
their pious appearance, the reproach is phrased like “they wear the hijab merely for cultural
and not for religious reasons.” Both veiled and unveiled girls tend to use this pattern. Here
however, when it comes to judging uncovered girls in general, tolerance predominates;
suddenly veiling is depicted as a cultural choice that can be handled flexibly as long as the
person’s “religion is right.” Comments like “It’s not a matter of personal freedom, but in
Islam we need it” are very rare in this section. The contradiction or paradox emanating from a
certain double standard when it comes to the hijab as either a ‘religious must’ or a ‘cultural
choice’ will interest us more in our concluding remarks.
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3.6.2. Perception and Self-Perception
On a first level, it can be concluded that there is truly a strong attitude of tolerance when it
comes to veiling as a social (and not as a religious) phenomenon in Kuwait. The absence of
extra-parental pressure as well as the liberal attitude of ‘Covered Girls’ towards ‘Uncovered
Girls’ can yield the impression that Kuwait is a free country able to coordinate progress and
tradition along reasonable lines. However, the harmonious picture of peaceful coexistence that
the above figures and comments suggest needs to be taken with a grain of salt. The value of
tolerance is put into a relative context by the comments of ‘Uncovered Girls’. While the
‘Covered Girls’’ evaluations of uncovered girls are, as will be shown below, almost angelic,
the comments delivered by ‘Uncovered Girls’ about ‘Covered Girls’ are much more critical;
sometimes they evolve even towards the sarcastic. In general, topics like “hijab and virtue,”
“hijab and respect,” “hijab and fashion” are approached much more critically by the
‘Uncovered Girls.’ This is shown already by the number of comment entries. While the 678
‘Covered Girls’ produce only 33 comments in response to the question “Do you see the
combination of the hijab with fashion as a contradiction?” the 323 ‘Uncovered Girls’ produce
here a total of 90 comments. ‘Covered Girls’, on the other hand, are more active when it
comes to the production of religious quotations and demonstrations of faith.
3.6.3. Respect and Virtue
Above we have pointed to the strong discrepancy between the ‘Covered Girls’’ selfperception and those statements that were made by others (‘Male Students’, ‘Uncovered
Girls’) about them with regard to the question of whether religion or family pressure is the
main reason for wearing the hijab. A similar discrepancy arises with regards to the question of
whether the hijab gives women more respect. 87% (n = 589) of the ‘Covered Girls’ (and 96%
of the ‘Abaya Wearing Girls’) answer here ‘yes’ but only 26% (n = 84) of the ‘Uncovered
Girls’ are ready to confirm that the hijab does indeed earn them more respect. 52% (n=221) of
the ‘Male Students’ find that the hijab provides more respect, which is much, but still much
less respect than what the ‘Covered Girls’ themselves believe to obtain.
“Yes, the hijab gives women more respect”
n
All Covered Girls
589
Percent
87
44
Abaya Wearing Girls
Uncovered Girls
Male Students
124
84
221
96
26
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A similar gap exists with regard to the question whether ‘Covered Girls’ are “generally more
virtuous.” As a matter of fact, only few people support this idea: 18% (n = 122) of the
‘Covered Girls’ group answer here ‘yes’ (and 25% of the abaya wearing group). One
‘Covered Girl’ establishes a quasi-empirical link between veiling and virtue: “Wearing it
reminds me always that I have to pray. It also reminds me about the right way for ladies to act
in public. Wearing it made me a better person.” However, only 5% (n = 16) of the ‘Uncovered
Girls’ support the idea that “Covered Girls’ are more virtuous.” ‘Male Students’ support it
most strongly (27%) and one male student adds the following comment: “Because girls with
hijab are more likely to have been disciplined by their mothers and are less spoiled and
obnoxious than those that are not wearing the hijab.”
“Yes, veiled girls are more virtuous”
n
All Covered Girls
Abaya Wearing Girls
Uncovered Girls
Male Students
122
32
16
114
Percent
18
25
5
27
It is true that the largest proportion of the ‘Covered Girls’’ comments to the question “Are
veiled girls more virtuous?” offers some criticism of their own group. However, this criticism
is rarely expressed in a straightforward manner. “Even a whore can gain respect,” written by a
‘Covered girl’, is an exception. It is important to note here a particular pattern. First, the nonvirtuous ones are, of course, always the others: “I don’t think (…) the hijab dictates her
behavior or attitude. However, personally, I believe that my hijab makes me more virtuous,”
is a typical comment. Next, when ‘Covered Girls’ are critical of their own group, they are so
most of the time only after having distinguished beforehand between those who wear the hijab
properly (that is, of their free will) from those who don’t (that is, those who have been
forced). The strategy is interesting because it is linked to the above central question of “Why
do you wear the hijab?” Those who wear the hijab without being virtuous are precisely those
who do not want to wear it: “Not all of them [are virtuous], because some girls were forced to
wear the veil, so their behavior is not always virtuous.”
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In the comments of both female groups (covered and uncovered), only one single ‘Covered
Girl’ explains that ‘Covered Girls’ are indeed more virtuous by writing: “Yes, this is Islam
and what Sayeda Fatima did.” Apart from that, only two ‘Male Students’ point out that they
believe in the hijab = virtue equation. Overall the ‘Male Students’’ comments are rather
critical (“I feel they hide behind the hijab just like men hide behind their beards”) but are still
less aggressive than those of ‘Uncovered Girls’.
What do ‘Uncovered Girls’ say about hijab and respect? First of all, ‘Uncovered Girls’ apply
a logic similar to that of ‘Covered Girls’ when distinguishing those who wear the hijab of
their own will from those who wear it because they have been forced. The only difference is
that for many of them all veiled girls are non-virtuous simply because all of them have been
forced: “Hijab girls are less virtuous because a majority of girls are forced into wearing it,
they are not truly committed.” For them, it is mainly the symbolic representation of the hijab
as a public demonstration of purity and good behavior, which makes it attractive to wear.
This brings us to a very important point. An animosity that seems to be incompatible with the
above described image of the “religious country of tolerance” flares up here, in the comment
section of “Do you believe that hijab wearing girls are more virtuous” more than anywhere
else. Of the 87 ‘Uncovered Girls’ who comment on this question, 36 say ‘no’, 16 say ‘it
depends’, 18 say that they are actually worse than the others, and 8 point out that veiled girls
have merely been forced to wear it and are therefore in no way better. The comment rate is
very strong: this is one out of two cases (the other one being that of the “Do you see the
combination of the hijab with fashion as a contradiction?” question) where the ‘Uncovered
Girls’’ number of comments considerably exceeds that of ‘Covered Girls’. The latter deliver
here only 29 comments. The aggressive tone of many of the ‘Uncovered Girls’ in this section
contrasts with the harmony-seeking tone used by the ‘Covered Girls’ when talking about their
unveiled classmates. Here are some examples:
Most girls who wear hijab behave worse [than those] who do not wear it. I see some girls taking off
their hijab once they leave their houses. (…) once they travel they take it off.
The most outrageous people I meet tend to be those wearing the hijab. There really is no difference
between them [and the others], except that people who wear the niqab and abaya tend to be a bit bolder
because their faces are hidden.
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They are not as innocent as they seem.
The ones who don’t wear the veil are the ones who behave properly. Most of those who wear it are
disrespectful and don’t behave properly.
No, I disagree, and I hate students who wear the veil.
Most of them are witches hiding their true identity fooling the world with the hijab and using it as a
mask.
They’re the most fake people I know. Shockingly I’m more of a Muslim than they are, all they seem to
do is talk behind people’s back.
I know for a fact that wearing a hijab doesn’t mean you’re better than other girls. I have seen a lot of
girls wearing hijab do deviant acts that are not acceptable. But society sees girls with hijab [as] better
than other girls, which is just wrong
There are a lot of girls who wear abaya, hijab, and niqab and do stuff that you can’t imagine behind
their parents back and do you know why? Because they were forced to wear it and not allowed to do
anything. [They are] being watched over all the time. (…) When you tell a little boy don’t go near the
fire what will he do? Go to the fire.
Most of the girls that I have seen who behave wrong or cause trouble are girls wearing hijab.
3.6.4. Different Perceptions of “Male Attention”
A further gap exists with regard to how “male attention” is perceived by ‘Covered Girls’ and
‘Uncovered Girls’ respectively. Two target groups had been confronted with the option
suggesting that female students could be bothered by the attention that male students will give
them if they do not wear a hijab. It is possible to extract a “Women need to be protected from
men” position from some of the answers, but this position is not very often expressed by any
of the three groups. However, certain differences appear from one group to the other. As
stated above, with regard to the central question “Why do you veil?” only between 1 and 10%
express the conviction that the hijab is necessary because it protects women from men. The
option is more present in the lower ranks than in the upper ranks. For ‘Abaya Wearing Girls’
the rate is higher (between 0.8 and 18% from rank 1 to 4). This is a relatively small
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percentage though it still denotes a perception that considerably differs from the ‘Uncovered
Girls’’ ideas of male-female interaction.
The ‘Uncovered Girls’ do not seem to see males as a problem. As stated above, 73% of the
‘Uncovered Girls’ indicate that they have “never” been exposed to unpleasant male attention
and only 2% state that they are confronted with the male gaze quite often. It is actually the
‘Male Students’ who emphasize the “protect women from men” argument most strongly: 19%
believe that “women without hijab are exposed to unpleasant male attention.” In absolute
terms, 19% is not much but it is much greater than the 2% of ‘Uncovered Girls’. Nonetheless,
few ‘Male Students’ believe that women wear the hijab because they seek to be protected
from the male gaze. Male students rank this from first to fourth reason with 0.7%, 6.5%,
10.5% and 11.5%.
Once again, this reveals a difference of perception: the reality is the same for all, but it is
perceived differently by each of the three target groups. 22% of the ‘Covered Girls’ see their
own group as “females in danger” because they attribute one of the four ranks to the “I want
to avoid male attention” option. Males emphasize this idea even more: 29% check the “They
want to avoid male attention” option in one of the ranks. ‘Uncovered Girls’, on the other hand,
perceive their environment – and therefore also their own role within it – differently as has
been shown above.
3.6.5. Combining the Hijab with Western Clothes and “Veiling Fashion”
Displaying one’s beauty in public by wearing makeup and fashionable clothes is seen in many
Muslim societies as a violation of social norms able to disrupt society. In Kuwait however,
this interpretation of religion and what defines modesty is different. While for Messini (1994)
respondents use hijab as a shelter protecting them from a society they felt mistreated them as
sex objects and helped them to not be judged by their physical appearance, dress or jewelry,
Kuwaiti respondents seem to have embraced the hijab to help them to stand out from others.
This is an interesting contradiction. Wearing jeans, makeup, skirts and blouses is not regarded
by our respondents as being in conflict with wearing the hijab.
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On closer examination, it appears that “veiling fashion” as it is handled in Kuwait contains
indeed a sharp internal contradiction. In many parts of the world, since the early 1990s,
Islamic dress has been adapted to modern fashion as urban and middle class women began to
cover themselves in a completely new style. In principle, young women combine veiling with
the modern standards of beauty and are also ready to follow marketing methods intrinsic to
international fashion, that is, respond to the dynamics of the fashion system and other
imperatives of consumer culture. The new phenomenon has been observed in many places
where this practice had previously been almost nonexistent such as Bangladesh (cf. Sandikci
& Ger 2010: 11). Some people believe that this phenomenon leads to the “de-sanctification of
the veil” and that the hijab will end up being “just a piece of fabric” (Wassef: 119).
Given those international tendencies, it is natural that in a rich consumer-oriented country like
Kuwait the “veiling fashion” tendency is very pronounced. On the other hand, given the
strong religious attitudes that respondents express throughout this survey, one could expect
that the combination of the veil with fashion will be viewed in this country with a critical eye.
However, in general this is not the case and this fact needs to be analyzed.
81% of the ‘Covered Girls’ state that they do combine the hijab not just with “Western
clothes” but with “fashionable clothes.” Even 58% of ‘Abaya Wearing Girls’ and 20% of
‘Niqab Wearing Girls’ state that they do combine the hijab with fashionable clothes (what
they actually mean by “fashionable clothes” is accessories like shoes, purses and sunglasses).
There was no misunderstanding possible here about what was meant by “fashion” because we
also asked more explicit questions about the hijab and its link with fashion. Not all, but 81%
of the girls who wear the hijab and Western clothes (and thus no abaya) say that they combine
the hijab with “fashionable clothes,” which shows that “fashionable” was not simply equated
with “western.” However, when asked whether they see this as a contradiction, 53% of those
students answer ‘yes’. Some make the character of this contradiction very explicit:
“Sometimes this clothing may break the wall of hijab and show women as a reachable person
to men, and this is the complete opposite of what hijab is supposed to be.” That said, the
respondent still wears it.
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The ‘Uncovered Girls’ opinions are not different: one half of them see this as a contradiction.
Surprisingly, ‘Male Students’ are here most tolerant: only 34% (n = 146) of the ‘Male
Students’ see this combination as a contradiction.
Yes
n
No
Percent
n
Percent
Covered Girls
Do you combine the hijab with fashionable clothes?
509
75
169
25
Do you see a contradiction in this
346
51
332
49
165
51
158
49
146
34
280
66
Uncovered Girls
Do you see it as a problem that girls are combining
the hijab with fashionable clothes?
Males students
Do you see it as a problem that girls are combining
the hijab with fashionable clothes?
Though as many ‘Covered Girls’ as ‘Uncovered Girls’ perceive in the “veiling fashion”
phenomenon an internal contradiction (because, normally, the hijab, as a symbol of modesty,
should not be combined with clothes able to attract men), the criticism expressed in the
comments by ‘Uncovered Girls’ is much more radical than that of ‘Covered Girls’. 24 of their
90 comments represent direct attacks of ‘Covered Girls’ who wear fashionable clothes:
If she wants to put make up she should cover her face.
Either you wear it right or you don’t.
It’s not considered hijab as long as men look at you in a perverted way!!!!!
Hijab is something supposed to be respectable. I request them to take it off and be normal rather than
wearing it and giving a bad impression of our religion.
One student even wanted to draw the limit by saying that “in the university most of [the
‘Covered Girls’] wear tight clothes that reveal everything and most of the ‘Uncovered Girls’
wear loose clothes.” The only other group that attacks fashionable ‘Covered Girls’ as harshly
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are ‘Abaya Wearing Girls’, who post four of the only five comments in the whole ‘Covered
Girls’ category that are vehemently critical of veiling fashion.
In our survey we did not only want to know what students thought of “veiling fashion” in
general, but also how the hijab as a religious item fits into the dynamics of veiling fashion. In
other words, we wanted to know whether the hijab itself (once it has been inserted into the
“fashion game”) has become a “mere” fashion item or if it has preserved (some of) its
religious character. To the question “Can the hijab be seen as a fashion item?” only 41% (n =
334) of the ‘Covered Girls’ answer ‘yes’.19 In general, 86% (n = 701) of the ‘Covered Girls’
agree that fashion trends for the hijab do exist but only 36% (n = 293) state that those trends
are important for them. Half of them like to drape their hijab in personalized ways. Male
students are slightly more critical of the idea that the hijab is a fashion item (only 37%
confirm it) but ‘Uncovered Girls’ turn out to be the most conservative respondents: only 27%
(n = 113) accept the hijab=fashion concept. The score is so low partly because the latter
simply do not find it fashionable. But the main reason is that they refuse the idea that a
religious item such as the hijab can be incorporated into fashion.
This means that though the majority of the veiled students do combine hijab and fashion, they
clearly distinguish between hijab and fashion. This is one of the main findings of the present
study. Generally in Kuwait, “veiling fashion” does not mean that the hijab is fashion but
rather that the hijab as a non-fashion item can be combined with fashion. The difference is
subtle but important. One half of the ‘Covered Girls’ even refuse to personalize the hijab. In
the comments many insist that “hijab is hijab” and that its classical way of draping cannot be
modified in any way because it is religious and not fashion. In the end, this means that fancy
western clothes are allowed but that the hijab must remain static.
Below we will try to elaborate more on the question of whether fancy clothes are allowed just
because the hijab remains static. However, before doing this, the above phenomenon must be
analyzed once again in the context of the culture-religion relationship. As a matter of fact, the
The “hijab as a fashion item” phenomenon refers most of the time to hijabs with innovative patterns that are
marketed like “normal” clothes. It can also refer to hijabs sold by famous brand names or to cotton hijabs. There
are extreme cases of hijabs with Cadillac symbols. Most recently, “hijab as a fashion item” also came to refer to
the turban fashion that many conservative people refuse to recognize as a proper Islamic hijab. The “puffy hijab”
created by stuffing items underneath the hijab in order to yield the impression of having a huge amount of hair
can also be considered a “hijab as a fashion item.”
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distinction between fashion and religion goes hand in hand with the distinction between
culture and religion, a distinction that is pointed out over again especially by veiled students.
While many students are even ready to see the abaya and the niqab as mere culture (because it
is not required by religion), in their eyes the hijab has to remain religion. As mentioned, very
often students who wear the hijab simply for “cultural reasons” are judged negatively.
Sometimes this argument is even used for the dismissal of Bedouin women who are said to
veil only “out of tradition” and not for religious reasons: “Here in Kuwait we have in Bedouin
people who often wear it for tradition not for religion.” We will come back to the evaluation
of dress codes in terms of culture and religion in Chapter 4.
So far, the important point that can be extracted from the above fashion related questions is
that most veiled students (51%) recognize that, in religious terms, hijab and fashion are
incompatible but that they combine them nevertheless. However, paradoxically and contrary
to what could be expected, they “solve” this contradiction not by attempting to fuse those
concepts through a transformation of the hijab into a cultural item by saying that the hijab is
merely cultural (a part of fashion) and therefore less religious. Such a transformation would
actually be the easiest solution because, as a merely cultural item, the hijab would definitely
be compatible with fashion. Nor do they solve the contradiction by saying that the hijab has
been forced upon them and that they are trying to soften its effects by combining the hijab
with modern influences (thus making it less religious). Instead they chose the opposite
approach: they make the hijab as religious as possible in order to separate it conceptually from
the cultural phenomenon called fashion. For them, paradoxically, the hijab does not become
less religious when it is combined with fashionable clothes but, on the contrary, it remains
statically religious.
Why are ‘Covered Girls’ doing this? The answer is clear: by wearing the religious hijab they
hope to obtain a moral justification of their (non-religious) engagement in fashion. In other
words, they emphasize their religious motivations in order to compensate the guilt they seem
to feel for wearing non-religious clothes able to attract men. It is not far-fetched to conclude
here that guilt is present within the entire pattern. When 81% of the girls who wear the hijab
and Western clothes say that they combine the hijab with “fashionable clothes” but at the
same time 53% affirm that this represents a contradiction, one can safely conclude that those
students feel guilt for wearing fashionable clothes. The solution of this moral dilemma looks
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as follows: as long as you are wearing a strongly religious item as the hijab you simply cannot
be bad, even when you are wearing clothes that attract the male gaze. The guilt and shame
paradigm, which is decisive for the topic discussed in this section, will be further analyzed in
Chapter 4 and will be important for the final conclusions to be drawn from this research.
3.6.6. Does the Hijab Enhance the Woman’s Beauty?
The relationship between hijab and beauty follows a pattern similar to that suggested by
responses to questions on (1) virtue, (2) respect, (3) fashion, as well as (4) reasons for veiling.
As can be expected, there is a contrast between veiled and unveiled girls’ perceptions. The
contrast is not as strong as with regard to the above four questions but still there is a gap. 69%
of the ‘Covered Girls’ (and 73% of ‘Abaya Wearing Girls’) believe that the hijab enhances the
women’s beauty, but only 46% of the ‘Uncovered Girls’ and 57% of the ‘Male Students’ are
ready to confirm this.
“Yes, the hijab enhances a woman’s beauty”
All Covered Girls
Abaya Wearing Girls
Uncovered Girls
Male Students
n
468
95
149
242
Percent
69
73
46
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In all students’ comments appended to the “…enhances beauty” question, the formula
“sometimes” or “it depends” appears relatively often. 16 ‘Covered Girls’ and 29 ‘Uncovered
Girls’ use those words; on the other hand, only five ‘Male Students’ add “sometimes” as a
comment. “Sometimes” might thus have been a viable option for many students had it been
proposed by the survey. On the other hand, such an option would have blurred the message
we were seeking to obtain; the sharp distinction between ‘yes’ and ‘no’ makes contrasting
attitudes much clearer. Even so, there is an interesting observation to be made: 7% of the
‘Uncovered Girls’ who answered “yes it does enhance the woman’s beauty” amend their
answer by adding a comment saying “sometimes.” Only 0.01% of the ‘Covered Girls’ do this.
The conclusion is that the latter’s positive answers are more assertive.
In general, the “hijab and beauty” theme is submitted to the same contradictory constellation
as the “hijab and fashion” theme. Strictly speaking, the purpose of the hijab is not to enhance
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women’s beauty and, theoretically, its application in terms of female beauty should be
recognized as inconsistent by people with such strong religious convictions. The fact that
between 46 and 73% of the female students believe that the hijab does enhance the woman’s
beauty shows that here an internal contradiction has been overlooked by those respondents.
Before continuing, some general observations about the concept of beauty are necessary. It
cannot be denied that beauty is a cultural and relative concept. In the first place, beauty has
nothing to do with religion. The spectrum of descriptions provided by ‘Male Students’ shows
that we are here rather confronted with a mixture of aesthetic sensibility (taste) determined by
culture. One male student writes that it “makes them look like angels” and another one writes
that it “makes them look sexier.” Still another one finds that it gives “men the feeling of
mystery” and still another one explains that usually their “make-up ruins the beauty more than
the hijab.” One male student states that “They look weird without hijab” and another one finds
that with hijab they “look more cute.” A student explained to the first author that he cannot
relate to unveiled girls because he is not used to their sight: all women in his environment are
veiled and he simply feels more comfortable with veiled girls. Girls might have similarly
culturally biased views when stating that “Frankly, it beautifies women too much.”
Sometimes the beauty question seems to have been decided beforehand without attempting to
support it with a suitable logic, as becomes manifest in a female student’s comment: “Hijab is
usually worn to hide beauty and attractive parts of the face, the neck, the arms. But it does
make a girl more beautiful.”
Apart from the difference of appreciation of “hijab beauty” (some like it, some don’t), the
comments in this section are relatively homogenous for all groups. About 12% point to the
intrinsic contradictoriness of “hijab-beauty.” Another conviction that many ‘Covered Girls’
highlight is that the hijab “lets the face glow” because the rest of the woman is hidden: it
“brightens her lovely face.”
However, around 10% of the comments in each group employ a problematical concept.
According to them, the hijab does not enhance the woman’s physical but rather her “spiritual
beauty” or the “beauty of the woman’s soul.” Here the cultural and aesthetic concept of beauty
is introduced into the realm of religion. One student equates beauty with faith, which entirely
skirts the intended sense of beauty as an aesthetic concept that our question attempted to
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address. Between five and eight comments in each group point to “spiritual beauty” (‘Male
Students’ find this actually more important than other groups). Has the question been
misunderstood by so many students intentionally or unintentionally? This is difficult to
answer. In any case the spiritual beauty vs. physical beauty paradigm shows that many
students are ready (perhaps too ready) to subsume a cultural concept such as beauty under a
purely religious heading. Some problems follow from this. Any “beauty through hijab”
scheme remains a highly idealized definition. One ‘Covered Girl’ describes the “spiritual
beauty” or the beauty of a woman’s personality quite graphically: “It enhances her beauty in a
way that allows her to see who is actually attracted to her for her personality rather than her
tight pants or straight hair. If a woman is beautiful in hijab she will be gorgeous without it!”
This means that the physical beauty needs to be hidden in order to bring the spiritual beauty
out. Of course, this is a purely theoretical assumption. How well is this aim achieved in
practice? This student’s response is determined by reflections on what the “ideal case” should
look like. Most comments by those who favor the idea of “hijab-beauty,” point to idealized
conceptions of how the hijab can be perceived in the best of all cases. A similarly idealized
beauty is at the root of the following statement: “Wearing the hijab makes me feel
untouchable, like a queen.” It is clear that such statements are not inspired by objective
reflections on beauty. The problem is that no student from the “hijab = beauty” camp points to
a potential conflict between the ideal scenario (written by religion) and actual reality (written
by culture and the actual social situation in Kuwait). What is the reality? The reality is rather
that of women who are most often average in terms of beauty, and who can either gain or lose
points by wearing the hijab. The points they gain or lose do not so much depend on ideal but
on pragmatic definitions of beauty: does their appearance benefit or suffer from wearing the
veil? The question “Does the veil enhance a woman’s beauty” can only be properly answered
as long as it is considered as an aesthetic problem in the first place; it should not be
immediately considered within the context of religion. In this survey, about 10% of the
students had difficulties to disconnect the idea of beauty from religious and spiritual (as
opposed to purely aesthetic, cultural, and social) norms.
Some students derive further conclusions from the preceding points. Students of all categories
make the occurrence of beauty (including “spiritual beauty”) dependent upon the question
whether she wears it on her own will or not. As has been pointed out above, this strategy
serves the purpose of avoiding a conflict between religious requirements and the temptations
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exercised by fashion. As a consequence, only two ‘Covered Girls’ mention a possible conflict
between beauty and religion and are ready to spell out its dramatic consequence: “When we
take off the hijab we look more beautiful, the hair plays a big role in girls, but what [can we]
do, that is our religion [and it] says that we must wear hijab.” The other student writes:
I believe that in the Middle East many girls wear hijab because of their family and society. I have met so
many girls who claim that they are convinced about wearing the hijab but in fact they take it off in other
countries when they travel. I think that because of the environment they live in and because what
society and family has taught them they behave in that contradictory way.
Those are the only students who point out this contradiction. This is surprising because the
question is at hand: does too much beauty not contradict the very concept of modesty? Those
students do not address the contradiction because for them the contradiction has been
overcome. “Spiritual beauty” is one way out of the dilemma. The other way out is the solution
that has been explained in the preceding section: making the hijab purely religious in order to
obtain the moral right to pursue beauty in a cultural way though fashion.
3.6.7. Preliminary Conclusion: Unequal Perceptions and the Question of Tolerance
This section has shown that the ways in which the different groups perceive each other are not
homogenous. The contrast goes hand in hand with the gap that Chapter 3.6.2. (Perception and
Self-Perception) attempted to reveal between the ‘Covered Girls’’ self-assessment and their
assessment by others. 87% of ‘Covered Girls’ (and 96% of ‘Abaya Wearing Girls’) believe
that the hijab gives them more respect though only 26% of the ‘Uncovered Girls’ and 52% of
the ‘Male Students’ were ready to confirm this. It also turned out that a gap exists with regard
to the question whether the veil provides more virtue (18% of the ‘Covered Girls’ and 25% of
the ‘Abaya Wearing Girls’ but only 5% of the ‘Uncovered Girls’ answered here ‘yes’). This
pattern of conflicting views is confirmed by the different ways in which the “beauty” of the
hijab can be perceived by different groups.
The final question is: how far does “tolerance” go? On the one hand, it is true that the “no
women should be forced to wear it” theme permeates the entire survey. On the other hand,
this is not necessarily an expression of tolerance, but it might simply be an attempt to make
clear that the “I want to wear it” option is the only religiously correct option and that
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everybody should better conform to it. In this sense, religious subjects work towards the
achievement of a “free society” in which women submit “freely” to the hijab. If this is true,
the pronounced “tolerance” is not more than a red herring.
4. The Guilt/Shame Paradigm
The problem of guilt has surfaced in this study when it was found that 81% of the girls who
wear the hijab plus western clothes are interested in “fashionable clothes,” though at the same
time 53% admit to see that this contradicts Islamic principles. It has also been shown that 69%
of the students believe that the hijab enhances beauty though they obviously know perfectly
well that it is not meant to enhance the woman’s beauty. Though there is no doubt that fashion
generally enhances female and sexual beauty, many ‘Covered Girls’ (and also men) decide to
declare this “beauty” (which they actually desire) “spiritual.” Our hypothesis has been that
those students must feel guilty and in order to overcome this guilt, they define the hijab as a
sanctified and purely religious item. The survey provided some evidence of this. By
emphasizing their religious motivations for wearing the hijab, ‘Covered Girls’ hope to
compensate the guilt they feel for wearing non-religious clothes able to attract men. More
precisely, by conceptually separating the religious hijab from the cultural phenomenon called
fashion they hope to obtain a moral justification of their engagement in fashion. The logic is
one of guilt elimination: if fashion (beauty) plus hijab (spirituality) equates “spiritual beauty,”
then any feeling of guilt is bound to disappear. One ‘Covered Girl’ compresses this logic,
which is supposed to reconcile God and beauty, into a brief formula that she submitted as the
final comment of the survey’s theme: “God is beautiful and loves beauty.”
Furthermore, many students who combine the hijab with fashionable clothes tend to
compensate their “fashion-guilt” through the production of an idealized image of themselves
and of the society they are living in. Those images are dominated by religion: the hijab is
declared to be purely religious and worn merely for religious reasons. Kuwaiti society is ideal
because it rewards women for their religious decisions. By following their religion, women
receive respect, liberty, beauty, and recognition as virtuous beings in return. In this ideal
world, there is not only no conflict between culture (fashion) and religion, but also no conflict
between the individual and society (as long as the individual is really religious). The
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idealizations are supposed to heal the contradictions inherent in a life in which modern and
traditional standards often contradict each other. The self-image of ‘Covered Girls’ is one of
purity (the impure ones are always the others). They are pure because they have decided to
veil on their own will and exclusively for motives of religious devotion. Once this religious
devotion is strong enough, all contradictions between the individual and society are overcome.
The problem is that any idealized images lead to a distorted perception of reality. First, it
appears that ‘Covered Girls’ do not live up to their self-image. In reality, they are tempted by
Western fashion and by a modern life-style that necessarily compromises religious standards.
They are not the “angels” or “untouchable queens” (words taken from the comments) that they
refer to in their self-descriptions. This is why the responses of other groups (‘Male Students’
and ‘Uncovered Girls’) contradict the ideal self-image of ‘Covered Girls’. Many veiled
students do not dare to face this reality. The problem is that admitting this truth can lead to
considerable feelings of shame and in more extreme cases, guilt.20 “Veiling fashion” is not
only counter-religious because it potentially attracts men by emphasizing sexuality; it also
denotes a dissatisfaction with the Islamic concept of veiling itself, which, in return, can mean
that fashionable girls do not really want to veil; and “having been forced” is even more
counter-religious than “veiling-fashion” itself. It is what needs to be avoided at any cost. As a
consequence, an abaya wearing girl charges veiled girls who are wearing fashionable clothes
with one of the worst moral mistakes that can be made in this context: those girls look as if
they have been forced to wear the hijab:
The whole point of wearing hijab is to look not too attractive for boys, so when girls wear hijab with
tight clothes and full make up, what is the use of the hijab she is wearing? She is ruining Muslim girls’
reputation in my opinion. She looks like was forced to wear it!
The guilt scheme used in this context implies that a feeling of guilt leads those female
students to a search for justifications, which they find in the form of a purely religiously (and
not culturally) defined hijab.
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Shame can be defined as a matter between a person and her society while guilt is primarily a matter between a
person and her conscience (see Patai: 113).
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“Veiling fashion” adopts here a peculiar status because it is both the disease and the remedy.
On the one hand, “veiling fashion” inspires a feeling of guilt that needs to be compensated
through an increase of religious devotion. On the other hand, religious devotion is contained
in “veiling fashion,” too. After all, those girls do not only wear fashionable clothes but also
the hijab, which proves that they are religious and virtuous. Paradoxically, “veiling fashion,”
which is the cause of guilt, is also the remedy able to relieve students from the guilt. All that
needs to be done is to shift the emphasis from veiling fashion to veiling fashion.
The twofold symbolical value of “veiling fashion” leads to a considerable amount of
confusion. In extreme cases, it can lead to a sort of double consciousness that some critical
comments from ‘Uncovered Girls’ (as well as from three male students) characterize as
hypocrisy. The hypocrisy reproach becomes strongest when some students suggest that those
women cover only because in reality they want to uncover. An ‘Uncovered Girl’ phrases the
reproach like this: “Most of the girls who wear a hijab are worse than those who don’t wear it
because they feel as though they’ve been deprived from what they want.” This means that, in
the end, they displease men’s sexual instincts only because their desire to please them fills
them with an unbearable amount of guilt.
However, the guilt theme is rarely spelled out in such explicit terms in the comments of
‘Covered Girls’. The reason is either that those respondents believe that they have overcome
guilt through religious devotion, of which the hijab is the proof; or that they simply do not
want to be reminded of the guilt. Comments like the following ones are very rare: “Of course
I would love to flaunt my hair and beauty if it wasn’t forbidden but the access to heaven
overweighs that want of being beautiful in this life.” In this comment the student admits her
desire to please men and sees the hijab as a device able to protect her from her own desire
(though still not from men’s desire). This student is happy to wear the hijab because it protects
her from her own desire. Another student sees the hijab rather as a device that prevents her
from living out her desire:
I still would like to remove my hijab, but I’m pretending otherwise in front of society and relatives.
Mom, dad, my siblings, and close cousin know that I dislike my hijab, but that’s about it... So I guess all
I can do is learn to like it, because I am for a fact stuck with it forever. I guess I can look at the bright
side of this and say that men don’t flirt with me as I drive around in my car. Even though that’s
supposed to be good news, I do not like it because I’m flirt deprived if that even makes sense. I want hot
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guys to flirt with me, but I guess the hijab ruins that for me. So it has been since 2004 that I’ve been
wearing the hijab, and many say I look pretty in it when I do not see that. I believe I look beautiful
without it.
Another student expresses a similar dilemma:
If I had the choice of wearing it or not I would not because it’s not my personality and it takes away all
the fun of fashion and I can’t wear what I like and I wouldn’t advise any girl to wear it, not because my
beliefs are to be kept for my own and my religion says I must wear it, but wearing it was my biggest
mistake and I will regret it as long as I live.
Such comments, which describe the way in which the hijab controls femininity as a tragic
event, are extremely rare. Still one can assume that many girls must have experienced the
adoption of the hijab in just this way. An ‘Uncovered Girl’ reports that she refuses the hijab
precisely in order to avoid this dilemma: “I just think it could hold me back from certain
activities and places I would want to visit. Also, I am open to dating and wearing a hijab
would probably decrease my chances of doing so. But I believe I will wear it when I am
married.”
Contradictions between desire and hijab are rarely admitted by ‘Covered Girls’. Most
‘Covered Girls’ interpret the pious message of the hijab as entirely overlapping with their
personal will. No contradiction, no regrets. However, once the hijab is in place, the search for
femininity can begin, and this time, without feeling any guilt. Though half of all female
respondents admit seeing a contradiction between veiling and fashion and many respondents
(in all groups) do actually comment on it, only five ‘Covered Girls’ dare to explicitly address
the feeling of guilt (two of them by mentioning the word) in this context. One writes: “Despite
the fact that I do wear Western clothes/makeup with the hijab, I know that it’s not appropriate
for Muslims. However, I am simply prone to make my own decisions regarding my own
clothes.” Another one admits: “Yes [I see the contradiction] because the point behind the hijab
is to reduce male attention towards females. But I’m guilty of doing so.” Another ‘Covered
Girl’ addresses the subject of guilt when writing: “It makes me feel much more comfortable
knowing that I obeyed my Islamic values and I don’t feel guilty like I did before when I was
not wearing the hijab.” The comment of the fourth and the fifth girls will be presented below
in the context of a discussion of fitna.
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Removing the Hijab
Removing the hijab is extremely rare and we are only aware of three cases. With one case the
first author is acquainted. Latifa comes from a very religious family but her keen interest in
sport led her to see Islamic dress code with a slightly critical eye. Her religious convictions
became also weaker and weaker during adolescence. When she took off her hijab at age
twenty-three her family was shocked and her hijab-wearing classmates judged her very
critically. Months afterwards she receives phone calls (anonymous or from distant friends and
relatives) urging her to put the hijab back on. Many have insulted her. Latifa is convinced that
the present situation is only a temporary phase and that people will soon get used to her new
appearance (see more about this case in Botz-Bornstein 2014). From many reliable sources we
heard that some of our female students who arrive on the campus in the morning (many of
them brought by their drivers) wear abayas but take them off on arrival to store them in the
locker.
4.1. Modesty and Fitna
The guilt theme introduces itself into the present discussion by way of an idea that is very
common in Islamic culture: the idea that women are responsible for controlling male
sexuality. A veiled student writes that “women must have a good reputation. Without it she’ll
be labeled as bad. When it comes to men they [also] might have a reputation but they
wouldn’t care as much.” What this student explains is that women are seen to be guiltier than
men by default. Indirectly the student addresses the phenomenon of fitna (ةفِتْن, temptation,
disorder, revolt), which has a central conceptual importance in the Qur’an. In colloquial
Arabic the meaning of fitna is slightly different. The Arabic-English Dictionary of Qur’anic
Usage (Badawi & Haleem 2008) indicates that the root fa’-ta’-nun occurs in six different
forms a total of sixty times in the Qur’an. The exact definition of fitna is extremely complex
and cannot be undertaken here. The point that interests us here is that fitna is frequently put
forward by conservative religious people as primordial in veiling discussions because it is
linked to the idea that women are dangerous and that men need to be protected from women
(cf. (Mernissi 1987: 41-45; Mernissi 1991: 19). Men are unable to control their sexual
instincts by themselves, which is why women have to take care of this.
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While the “protect women from men” theme has sparked some reactions within the survey,
the fitna theme (understood in the sense of ‘protect men from women’) is addressed much less
frequently. Fitna means that women are tempting, that they have a destructive power and it is
their responsibility to hide this power. If they can’t, they are guilty. Only two students refer to
the fitna theme and link it to the subject of guilt: “[before I wore the hijab] I did not know that
when a woman walks through [a group of] guys who are not close to Allah [they] stare at her
whole body. It made me feel that I am doing something very wrong. [When I was] nineteen
years old I wore the hijab and the guys’ stares slowly disappeared.” Here the hijab has helped.
The second comment that points to fitna comes from a student who would like to take her
hijab off because she thinks that the guilt is attributed to her by mistake:
Arab societies are very male centered, so God forbid, he cannot control himself and not stare. No, she
has to cover up for him. Which makes zero sense. When I first wore it, I was 16 years old, and I was
thinking religiously, I was just a teenager who wanted to fit in. Now that I’m a grown woman, I can see
things differently and I wish I hadn’t made that decision.
The above two comments show how much fitna is linked to an economy of guilt. For the
above student who covers, fitna implies that women are always guilty, which is very much in
keeping with the understanding put forward by conservative defenders of veiling. Following
one of the patterns that the present study has attempted to define, it can be concluded that one
way of getting rid of this guilt is to decide that those women who wear the hijab without being
virtuous are precisely those who do not want to wear it. In other words, the guilty ones are
always those who have been forced. It goes without saying that those who force them to wear
it (identified in this survey most of the time as males) are not declared guilty. According to
this scheme, guilt is always on the side of the females: all they have to do is accept the hijab
voluntarily and the guilt problem will be solved. Logically, if only they would accept it
voluntarily, nobody would need to force them; and then they would not be guilty.
In praxis, this logic relieves ‘Covered Girls’ at least partially from the guilt. The problem is
that it does not really solve the guilt issue because women will still be tempted by fashion. As
a result, they need to veil “more voluntarily” and also become more religious. More precisely,
the hijab has become more indispensable than ever when engaging in fashion. This explains
the rise of “veiling fashion” in Kuwait. On the grounds of the above economy of guilt, hijab
and fashion become intimately linked because, first, the hijab is needed as a moral alibi
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liberating women from the “fashion guilt.” Second, as will be shown below, fashion might
also be seen as necessary in order to make the hijab more religious. Before coming to this
paradoxical point, the guilt-shame argument must be further strengthened by explaining some
general thoughts on shame and guilt in Muslim culture.
4.2. Shame and Guilt in Islamic Culture
Female shame as a motivator for normative action in Arab and Muslim societies is a classical
sociological topic. The identification of femininity with shame (and masculinity with honor)
in Arab culture revolves around the generic Arab term ‘ird, which is exclusively connected
with “female chastity and continence” (cf. Abou-Zeid 1965: 65; Henderson Steward 1994:
129). What ‘Covered Girls’ put forward can be defined as a “modesty leading to respect”
scheme, which is current in anthropological literature. A student has been quoted in the
guilt/shame section explaining that women wear the hijab because they “must have a good
reputation.” This corresponds precisely to the “modesty leading to respect” scheme. In the
opinion of some researchers, this scheme, which is, in our opinion, the motivating force
behind veiling in Kuwait, is always linked to shame and guilt.
Other researchers prefer to distinguish veiling from shame and guilt. Fatma El Guindi believes
that any detection of a shame model in Arab culture must be dismissed as ethnocentric. For
her, the “modesty-shame-seclusion model” (her own term) makes more sense in Christian
Mediterranean societies. Though the honor/shame paradigm “is the one most commonly
imposed up Arab and Islamic cultural space to describe the division between the sexes (…)
this paradigm is more appropriate to describe European Mediterranean and Balkan cultures”
(El Guindi: 79). As a proof, El Guindi points to a whole range of anthropologist who have
detected the honor/shame paradigm in European societies. El Guindi also believes that a
simple honor-paradigm (without shame) would be most appropriate for “Hindu-based
societies of south Asia” (ibid.). Its use in Islamic contexts, however, does rather obscure the
nuanced differences typical for Arabo-Islamic culture. For those cultures El Guindi suggests a
“sanctity-reserve-respect” paradigm, which can explain, in her opinion, the Arab-Muslim
culture of veiling in a non-ethnocentric way. El Guindi shifts the central motivation of veiling
away from shame/honor towards “respect.” This overlaps with how the ‘Covered Girls’ in our
survey interpret veiling. However, it is not clear why a respect-centered appreciation of
veiling excludes the shame motive. El Guindi only refers to a few etymological connections
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but cannot explain why veiling in Islamic societies should be seen primarily as a matter of
respect and not as being linked to shame.
Our survey has shown that respect is indeed the quality that ‘Covered Girls’ desire most.
However, it has also shown that, by and large, they do not obtain it. What they definitely do
obtain is shame or guilt for not veiling, for not veiling properly (for example, by combining it
with fashion) or for veiling without the right “voluntary” consciousness.
It needs to be concluded that respect is part of the illusion that ‘Covered Girls’ create about
veiling and about themselves and that shame and guilt are the reality. Our hypothesis has been
that this mechanism gets accelerated through a spiral function: the more shame and guilt they
feel, the more important becomes the creation of the illusion of respect, which can only be
obtained by applying the hijab properly and for the right reasons, by insisting that the hijab is
a purely religious and not cultural item, etc.
Our study has also shown what happens to what can be called “etiquettes of female shame”
when the environment becomes more modern. By “etiquettes of female shame” are meant
virtues like bashfulness and passivity, which incite masculine pride and honor and which need
to be adjusted in a society in which women are becoming increasingly independent and
assertive (the words “shy,” “bashful” and “timid” appear many times in the ‘Male Students’’
comments and are highlighted as desirable virtues). “Veiling fashion” in Kuwait represents
such an adjustment: while shame and guilt are still the dominant regulators of women’s
morality, through “veiling fashion” they can be negotiated as long as they pay tribute to a
symbol that needs to remain “religious” precisely for that purpose. This item is the hijab.
El Guindi rejects “Western” virtues of timidity, modesty, and shame as irrelevant for Arab
Muslim culture and suggests that respect and reserve should be seen as the only virtues
important for veiling. Our survey has shown that “respect for women” is a contradictory item
and that most probably in this culture (like in any culture), the “respect for women” and the
“modesty/shame” theme are closely linked. French feminist Sarah Kofman has shown this in
her book Respect for Women. Also in western societies respect for women is always a
promise, an illusion, or a “veil” supposed to hide forced modesty. According to Kofman,
respect always has a price, which is chastity, silence, and retreat (cf. Kofman: 19). The survey
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confirms precisely this: women are always guilty, the more so since they flirt with fashion; as
a consequence, they need to justify their purity by demonstrating religious devotion. In
Kuwaiti culture this leads to the wearing of the hijab.
Furthermore, the survey has shown that many respondents believe that this guilt can only be
overcome by radically reducing all reasons leading to veiling to the “I want to obey my
religion” option. It is not exaggerated to conclude that the religious exaltedness present in so
many of the ‘Covered Girls’’ comments has a therapeutic function. Intrinsic contradictions of
the veiling topic, on the other hand, even obvious ones, are not discussed by ‘Covered Girls’,
most probably because it would increase the amount of guilt. Even the ‘Uncovered Girls’ are
not excluded from this guilt pattern: 82% indicate that they are “open to wearing a hijab in the
future,” which means that they do not dare to retreat to a well-defined anti-hijab position but
prefer to “have their cake and eat it, too,” that is, to remain somewhere in-between veiling and
not veiling. Men, on the other hand, seem to live in their own kind of illusion as many of them
entertain the idea of the idealized, innocent, shy, religious hijab-wearing women.
Characteristically, only 34% of them see “hijab fashion” as a contradiction, most probably
because for them this subject is not linked to personal guilt since they are not wearing the
hijab themselves.
5. Conclusion
5.1. The Paradox of Veiling Fashion
The main purpose of this study has been to explain the meaning of “veiling fashion” in
Kuwait. In principle and outside Kuwait, “veiling fashion” can be interpreted in two ways.
First, as an attempt to turn away from the more militant Islamic dress current in the 1980s and
to make a step towards a more moderate religious consciousness. Gökariksel and Secor, for
example write that in Turkey, “veiling-fashion consumers continuously formulate what
constitutes an acceptable ethical action for themselves—and it is often one that diverges from
their perceived prescribed moral code of complete covering” (2010: 850). According to this
logic, “veiling fashion” can be defined as an intermediary stage between “abaya with hijab”
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and “no hijab.” The second possibility is to see “veiling fashion” as a regressive process
leading “backward” from the unveiled state enforced by modernizing post World War II
leaders of Islamic countries, to a more traditional Islamic dress code. Also in this case,
“veiling fashion” appears as an intermediary state between “abaya with niqab” and “no hijab.”
The present research has shown that in Kuwait none of those two logics applies but that a
third interpretation is necessary. In Kuwait “veiling fashion” is not an intermediary state
between “traditional veil” and “no veil” expressing itself in the form of a more moderate
attitude towards religion and tradition. On the contrary, here “veiling fashion” combines a
rather exalted form of religious devotion with a strong interest in modern fashion. The result
is paradoxical and can almost be rendered through this exaggerated formula: the best way to
be religious is to be fashionable. This needs to be explained.
It has been shown that the hijab is needed as a moral alibi liberating women from the “fashion
guilt.” However, there are also reasons to say that fashion is needed. Without fashion it could
appear that the hijab is worn for merely “cultural” reasons and without the right religious
conviction. If the hijab is worn by people who are “stuck” in tradition and simply not modern,
it might be worn merely out of habit. As mentioned above, a student wrote: “Here in Kuwait
we have in Bedouin people who often wear it for tradition not for religion;” and the woman
who is wearing the hijab merely for cultural reasons does not deserve respect. This is why the
fully covered “niqab girls” do generally not obtain more respect from ‘Covered Girls’; nor do
“abaya wearing girls” obtain more respect from those who wear the hijab without abaya. It is
not the amount of covering that counts but the symbolical value attributed to the hijab. And
this value increases when it is worn for the right reasons. The point is that those reasons must
always be religious and not cultural, which creates a paradox: who could be more religious
than a woman who is culturally anchored in modernity (who is wearing fashionable clothes),
but who wears the hijab nevertheless? According to this logic, it is not the hijab itself (which
can, at least in theory, be cultural or religious) but the contrast between fashion and hijab that
reinforces the symbolical value of the hijab as a religious item.
A caricature will make this pattern clear. According to the above logic, a bikini wearing
woman who wears a hijab must be very religious because: for what other reason could she
wear the hijab? The fully covered Bedouin woman, on the other hand, is less religious because
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she wears the hijab merely for “cultural reasons.” She does not know anything better, she does
not wear it out of religious conviction but simply because she is following a cultural tradition.
The hijab, whose spiritual significance is left untouched even within the most progressive
fashion context and which most students want to see as an item entirely unpolluted by fashion,
becomes even more religious when it appears as a religious statement within a modern context
that is not determined by those religious traditions.
Vice versa, the two things that should be avoided are to be non-religious and to be not
fashionable. A comment by a ‘niqab wearing girl’ about how she is treated in a country in
which 80% of the students of an international university like GUST pray five times a day,
makes this clear: “Discriminated? 100% yes. I wear hijab and niqab and although we’re an
Islamic country I still get treated less well than others because I’m not ‘fashionable’ enough.”
Instead of presenting the coexistence of fashion and religion as a proof of Kuwait’s moderate
religious consciousness seemingly so comfortably settled between religion and modernity, the
present study has shown that both extremes can actually reinforce each other. The result of
this paradoxical constellation is a further paradox: in spite of their apparent fusion of religion
and fashion within veiling fashion, in reality, religion and fashion continue to be seen as
opposites.
A non-paradoxical approach would see “veiling fashion” situated somehow “in between”
religious veiling and non-religious (cultural) fashion. This approach is spelled out by only one
(uncovered) girl who does not even seem to mind the guilt linked to this approach when
writing: “Yes [I see the contradiction], but I do it anyway because I am not extremely
religious, and I am glad I am not.” This student explains what could appear as no more than
logical: combining religion with non-religion will make you somehow less religious. For most
students, however, “veiling fashion” implies that now the veil needs to worn in an even more
religiously assertive manner.
It remains to say that the combination of hijab and fashion creates an immense psychological
tension whose compensation is entirely left to those young women. This tension became also
palpable through the survey. They have to cope with the reconciliation of a traditional heritage
and modern life, which is a difficult act in a culture where religious imperatives are often still
seen as absolute. As one ‘Covered Girl’ writes: “For a country so in love with fashion and
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consumerism, it’s very hard for girls wearing hijab to resist western clothes/fashion. But I still
believe there are ways to wear hijab in a current but modest way.” At the same time it is
surprising that the main device used for easing the tension is the strong affirmation of
religious devotion. Critical evaluation and analyses of the situation have not been the rule.
5.2. Overall Evaluation of Responses
It has been stated above that the students wanted to present us with a positive image of their
culture. As a result they drew an image of Kuwait as a country in which everybody gets, or at
least can get, exactly what she wants: liberty, beauty as well as religious peace of mind. The
condition is, of course, that everybody complies with religion. The students would perhaps
have impressed us more had they provided a more critical analysis of their situation. Feminist
arguments were also quite absent. What we encountered instead was mainly the adherence to
religious imperatives that were very often taken literally. Sometimes the sources had also been
misinterpreted. The characteristic comment “Just please accept Islam and don’t make a big
scene” denotes a categorical refusal of critical evaluations of one’s own culture. As the aim of
critical thinking is always to shatter accepted truths, it appeared rather that many students did
not want to think critically about their own situation because they were afraid that it would
shatter their personal beliefs about virtue, respect, freedom, and beauty.
The lack of critical thinking in Kuwait and other Gulf countries has been noted in at least one
study (Al‐Fadhli and Khalfan 2009: 553). The latter authors’ study has been done with 77
students from Kuwait University and shows a score of 12.45 in critical thinking tests21 for
Kuwaiti students against a score of 18.0 for American students.
A further problem has been a misunderstanding that is common in Muslim societies. It is the
idea that Westerners must be “against Islam” or hate Islam. This misunderstanding has created
big obstacles for our survey. In reality, we had no intentions to take religion away from
respondents but wanted them to engage in a more critical relationship with their tradition.
Normally, nobody should deny that a critical spirit is necessary for all human beings living in
modern societies.
21
The critical thinking skills were measured by California Critical Thinking Skills Test (CCTST), a standardized
assessment tool.
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The problem was likely that our request implied for respondents to take a “detached” view of
religion. This detached view is a precondition of critical thinking. By “detached” we mean
that religion should have been viewed more in terms of culture and not in terms of dogmatic
truths; and this has been refused by many students. Most students were not ready to take a
more detached view of their religion, but often presented us with ready-made religious
statements. In the light of those findings, Mogahed’s statement that “the data [collected from
Middle Eastern women] simply do not support the persistent popular perception in the West
that Muslim women can’t wait to be liberated from their culture” sounds naïve and also
unbearably vague. The problem with our respondents was rather that they had decided not
only to stick to a purist “religion is religion” stance, but also to replace culture with religion.
This is how they were often locking themselves into rather dogmatic visions that prevented
them from evaluating themselves and their environment in a more neutral fashion.
The research shows that the Kuwaiti veiling environment is different from that of other
Middle Eastern and Western countries where the veil turns out to be no longer only an
expression of religious belief but appears as an ambiguous signifier engaging in cultural play
instead of criticizing culture and attempting to replace it with religion. Nilüfer Göle comes to
this conclusion in her article on veiling in Turkey, which she decides to describe as a sort of
“habitus” à la Bourdieu: “Rather than employing the concept of social classes, which
emphasizes economic exploitation for some, it is more useful to refer to this stratification
through the concept of habitus that encompasses lifestyles” (Göle: 480). Here the veil has
been pushed through a movement leading from religion to culture or from religious veiling to
“veil-culture.” This is not the case for the Kuwaiti students.
In our research, we were more than ready to grant the students their own cultural context. We
did not think that everybody who seeks to live and affirm her culture is closed-minded but, on
the contrary, we knew that those people often display interesting patterns of critical reflection.
However, it appears that very many of our respondents systematically insisted that what we
saw as culture needs to be replaced with religion and cannot be discussed for precisely this
reason. A critically elaborated Islamic cultural framework is interesting and valuable; but here
the framework too often followed religious clichés. Sometimes those clichés were used to
overcome an unreflected guilt complex. Beauty, for example, has been turned into a religious
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notion (by saying that it is spiritual). As a consequence, other cultural items like peer pressure
or the desire to marry could not be sufficiently addressed by the respondents.
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Appendix: The Questionnaires
Title: Cultural Attitudes to Dress Code
(A) Questionnaire for Students Wearing the Hijab
1. What is the most important reason why you are wearing the veil? Select four reasons and rank them from
important to less important.
• My family told me to do so
• Islam tells us to wear the hijab and I simply want to obey my religion
• Many of my friends wear it and I want to be part of the group
• I seek to affirm my Muslim identity and show that I am different from non-Muslims
• I want to make a statement against Western consumer culture
• I am bothered by the attention that male students will give me if I do not wear a hijab
• Simply because I find it nice and fashionable
• Wearing a hijab gives you a better public reputation
• Other reason …………..
2. How important do you think is religion as a reason for wearing the hijab in Kuwait?
• Very important
• Important
• Not very important
• Not important at all
3. How would you describe your knowledge of Islam?
• Good
• Fair
• Poor
4. Do you pray daily? Yes/No/Comments
5. Do you feel that wearing a hijab gives you more respect? Yes/No/Comments
6. Have you ever felt you have been discriminated against (treated to less advantage) in Kuwait because you
are wearing hijab/niqab? Yes/No/Comments
7. Does your mother wear a hijab? Yes/No/Comments
8. Has she worn it since her early youth or did she start later? Always worn/Started ……..
9. Does your mother wear a niqab? Yes/No/Comments
10. Do you believe that for Muslims the hijab is obligatory according to the Qur’an or to a hadith?
Yes/No/Comments
11. If you answered yes, are you able to say where scriptural references (Qur’an, hadith) to the hijab can be
found? Y/N/C
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12. Do you believe that for Muslims the abaya is obligatory according to the Qur’an or to a hadith?
Yes/No/Comments
13. Do you combine the hijab with fashionable Western clothes? Yes/No/Comments
14. Do you see a contradiction in combining the hijab with fashionable Western clothes or makeup?
Yes/No/Comments
15. Do you believe that students who wear the veil are generally more virtuous (behave better) than those who
don’t? Yes/No/Comments
16. Have you advised other girls in your environment who are not wearing the hijab to wear it? Y/N/C
17. Are there “fashion trends” for the hijab? Y/N/C
16. Are those trends important for you? Y/N/C
19. Do you personalize your hijab by draping it in a certain way? Y/N/C
20. Would you agree that the hijab is a fashion item? Y/N/C
21. Would you agree that, in general, wearing the hijab enhances a woman’s beauty? Y/N/C
22. Do you believe that men and women are equal? Y/N/C
Background check:
23. Does your father have a university education? Y/N
24. Does your mother have a university education? Y/N
25. Can you summarize your opinions about wearing the hijab (write as much as you want)? Thank you for
your participation.
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(B) Questionnaire or Female Students not Wearing the Hijab
1. Is there a particular reason why you do not wear a hijab?
2. Does your mother wear a hijab? Yes/No
3. Do you feel that not wearing a hijab exposes you to unpleasant attention from male students?
• Never
• Sometimes, but I can deal with it
• Yes, quite often
4. Do you feel that wearing a hijab gives you more respect? Yes/No/Comments
5. What reactions from your hijab-wearing environment can you report about you not wearing the hijab?
• Indifference
• Somehow negative reactions
• Quite positive reactions
6. Do you believe that for Muslims the hijab is obligatory according to the Qur’an or to a hadith?
Yes/No/Comments
7. Do you believe that for Muslims the abaya is obligatory according to the Qur’an or to a hadith?
Yes/No/Comments
8. If you answered yes, are you able to say where scriptural references (Qur’an, hadith) to the hijab can be
found? Y/N/C
9. Do you see a contradiction in combining the hijab with fashionable Western clothes or makeup as some
students do?
Yes/No/Comments
10. What is, in your opinion, the main reason why students are wearing the hijab? Select three reasons and
rank them from important to less important.
•
•
•
•
•
•
•
•
Their family told them to do so
They want to obey to their religion
Many of their friends wear it and they want to be part of the group
They seek to affirm my Muslim identity
They want to make a statement against Western consumer culture
Simply because they find it nice and fashionable
They believe it gives them a better public reputation
Other
11. Have you ever felt you have been discriminated against (treated to less advantage) in Kuwait because you
are not wearing a hijab? Yes/No/Comments
12. How would you describe your knowledge of Islam?
• Good
• Fair
• Poor
13. Do you pray daily? Yes/No/Comments
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14. Do you believe that students who wear the veil are generally more virtuous (behave better) than those who
don’t? Yes/No/Comments
15. Have you been pressured to wear the hijab and if yes by whom (school teacher, parent, friends, etc.).
By whom?
16. Would you agree that the hijab is a fashion item? Y/N/C
17. Would you agree that, in general, wearing the hijab enhances a woman’s beauty? Y/N/C
18. Are you open to the possibility of wearing the hijab at a future date? Y/N/C
19. Do you believe that men and women are equal? Y/N/C
Background check:
20. Does your father have a university education? Y/N
21. Does your mother have a university education? Y/N
22. Can you summarize your opinions about wearing the hijab? (write as much as you
want) Thank you for your participation.
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(C) Questionnaire for Male Students
1. Does your mother wear a hijab? Yes/No/Comments
2. Does your mother wear a niqab? Yes/No/Comments
3. If you have a sister, does she wear a hijab? Yes/No/Comments
4. Would you ask your future wife to wear a hijab?
5. What do you think is the most important reason why girls at your university are wearing the hijab? Select
three reasons and rank them from important to less important.
•
•
•
•
•
•
•
•
•
Their family told them to do so
They want to obey their religion
Peer pressure. Their friends wear and they don’t want to stick out
They seek to affirm their Muslim identity; show that they are different from non-Muslims
They want to make a statement against Western consumer culture
They do not appreciate the attention that male students give them if they do not wear a hijab
Simply because they find it nice and fashionable
Wearing a hijab gives them a better public reputation
Other reason
6. Do you think that not wearing a hijab exposes women to unpleasant male attention?
• No, in general not
• Sometimes, but not often enough to make a big deal out of it
• Yes, quite often
7. How important do you think is religion as a reason for wearing the hijab in Kuwait?
• Very important
• Important
• Not very important
• Not important at all
8. How would you describe your knowledge of Islam?
• Good
• Fair
• Poor
9. Do you pray daily? Yes/No/Comments
10. Do you think girls who wear the hijab are likely to be discriminated against (treated to less advantage) in
Kuwait? Yes/No/Comments
11. Do you think girls who do not wear the hijab are likely to be discriminated against (treated to less
advantage) in Kuwait? Yes/No/Comments
12. Do you respect girls more if they wear a hijab? Yes/No/Comments
13. Do you believe that for Muslims the hijab is obligatory according to the Qur’an or to a hadith?
Yes/No/Comments
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14. If you answered yes, are you able to say where scriptural references (Qur’an, hadith) to the hijab can be
found? Y/N/C
15. Do you believe that for Muslims the abaya is obligatory according to the Qur’an or to a hadith?
Yes/No/Comments
16. Do you find it ok that some girls combine the hijab with fashionable Western clothes? Yes/No/Comments
17. Do you believe that girls who wear the veil are generally more virtuous (behave better) than those who
don’t? Yes/No/Comments
18. Have you advised girls in your environment who are not wearing the hijab to wear it? Y/N/C
19. Would you agree that the hijab is a fashion item? Y/N/C
20. Would you agree that, in general, wearing the hijab enhances a woman’s beauty? Y/N/C
21. Do you believe that men and women are equal? Y/N/C
Background check:
22. Does your father have a university education? Y/N
23. Does your mother have a university education? Y/N
24. Can you summarize your opinions about wearing the hijab (write as much as you want)? Thank you for
your participation.
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