In our thematic analysis of 16 interviews with Arab Muslims, we generated three predominant themes from the coding process and sub-themes within these groupings. The first theme encompasses religious perspectives in daily life and on women’s intimate health. The second theme relates to what Arab culture means to the participants and what values manifest as part of their cultural identity. The third theme concerns their journey of self-discovery about women’s intimate health issues and the elements that hindered or facilitated the process. Given the qualitative nature of our work, we acknowledge that Arabs, Muslims, and Arab Muslims cannot be considered a monolithic group due to differences in various cultural practices and religious interpretations. Rather, this work focuses on the perspectives of the 16 specific participants by highlighting commonly shared cultural and religious values and practices. We believe the reflections we present here are a necessary first step towards understanding cultural or religious factors that may influence the pursuit of designing and developing women’s health solutions.
4.1 Religious perspectives
4.1.1 Impact of Islam on life.
Most participants (14 out of 16) indicated that Islam was an essential part of their lives, primarily in the spiritual and metaphysical sense, but also in religious practices such as praying and fasting. There was a range of adherence to religious practices among participants, but most agree that religion was more significant in their lives in comparison to culture with regards to giving them a higher sense of purpose, a feeling of calmness for having a higher power watch over them, and a guidepost for how to treat people and live in harmony with others. Perhaps the most comprehensive sentiment that encapsulates those felt by multiple others was that of Female Participant 10 (FP10):
"It (Islam) helps frame how to deal with the world. It’s a good guideline. If you don’t know what to do, you can fall back on what feels right within the context of Islam. How to behave with people like you feel like there is some hope in the future, even if life is not great now, maybe this will actually get you some rewards in the afterlife." –FP10
Degrees of Islamic practice varied across participants. Adherence to religious practice is difficult to quantify, but 10 out of the 16 participants said they prioritize maintaining regular Islamic practices such as daily prayers, fasting during Ramadan, or wearing the hijab. A few participants stated that they do not regularly observe established practices or wish to improve their observation of such practices. Female Participant 4 (FP4), a university student, says,
"I plan my schedule around prayer times so I don’t miss them. Even during the school year, when I’m taking classes, I try to at least have a gap. Even if it’s like 10 minutes or 15 minutes, I’d go to the library or somewhere else to pray and then go to my next class." –FP4
Regardless of adherence to teachings or compulsory practices, most participants hold Islam in high regard in daily life and beliefs. As seen in subsequent sub-themes, the connection to Islamic values reappears for many participants in the context of women’s intimate health education.
4.1.2 Ritual cleansing (ghusl).
Participants’ Islamic perspectives on women’s intimate health centered solely on teachings mentioned in the Quran or Sunnah (the practices of the Prophet Mohammed). Hygiene and cleanliness were the most reoccurring themes both male and female participants brought up when asked if they knew of any Islamic teachings on intimate health. Hygiene was viewed as an obligatory act of worship that involved physically cleaning with running water and had a ritualistic series of steps. In Islamic scripture, the ritual of cleansing intimate parts,
ghusl, is performed at the end of a menstrual cycle for women or after a sexual act for both men and women [
84].
Ghusl is necessary to reach a state of purity to carry out other acts of worship, such as prayer. Another Islamic teaching that participants mentioned is that menstruating women should not pray or fast during Ramadan. Refraining from praying and fasting is considered an act of worship during this time. This teaching has been well-established for both male and female participants in their Islamic education of women’s health.
"I know during the period, you’re not allowed to pray. And you’re not allowed to have any sexual interaction. And then after you finish, you have to wash up; you have to clean everything. And then you’re back to, you can pray, you can have whatever you want." –MP11
In addition to Quranic passages, Muslims believe in and follow
Sunnah and
Hadith to varying degrees.
Sunnah refers to a body of the practices of the Prophet Muhammad and can serve as a clarification for some Quranic verses [
21]. For example, praying five times daily is an established obligation in the Quran. However, the sequence of steps in prayer is determined in
Sunnah, based on how Prophet Muhammad performed them. Similarly,
Hadiths refer to accounts of Prophet Muhammad’s sayings and customs [
22]. Participant 6 reflected on the prevalence of menstruation and sexual intercourse in sources other than the Quran:
"Religion doesn’t really talk a lot about menopause and pregnancy, per se, but you can find a lot of Hadith and Sunnah about periods because having your period and having a sexual relationship affects other parts of Islam, like your prayer, your fasting, and all of these. So you have to refer to them in order to know, like, are you doing it right? Are you doing it wrong?" –FP6
Although most study participants became aware of menstruation and sexual intercourse through Islamic teachings, we learned that participants who attended school in Arab countries have varying degrees of religious influence in their education in the form of regular or semi-regular Islamic Studies classes. Female Participant 4 spoke of her experience learning directly from passages in the Quran about the complete ablution, ghusl, during one of her classes:
"In middle school, I remember we worked out the concept of ghusl (ritual cleansing), washing up after you get your period. And then they also discuss the ghusl that you get after having sex. But we were all kids who were a little confused at that part, but we all were taught about the ghusl." –FP4
Thus, exposure to some aspects of women’s intimate health has been rooted in the significant Islamic values of cleanliness and purity. So, at a minimum, participants have learned about religious contexts relating to women’s health if they had attended schools emphasizing Islamic education.
4.1.3 Sex and self-pleasure.
All participants noted that the topic of sex and sexual health is the least comfortable to bring up in conversation in comparison to other topics encompassed by women’s health, such as menstruation and menopause. Participants older in age (27+) were noticeably more open and at ease when asked about their experience and feelings about being exposed to discussions of sex and sexual health. Participant 8 talked about her experience visiting a gynecologist for the first time:
"I remember the first time I went (to a gynecologist). They asked me if I was married or not. Because they assume that no one has premarital sex in the Arab world. So they ask women if they’re married or not. Later on, I sort of became more aware of that sentence because I became more active. More sexually active. I just wanted to make sure everything was okay, and I didn’t want to lie to anybody. So I made sure the doctors weren’t Arab doctors or Muslim doctors so I can openly say, hey, that’s a strange question to ask." –FP8
While commonly a taboo topic, premarital sex is forbidden in Islam, with varying degrees of punishment in countries where Islamic law (Sharia) is the predominant ruling law of the land [
94]. This was largely recognized by participants from an early age, though typically not in explicit terms. For example, Participant 7 described her exposure to lecture series in school by a female
daa’iyah (preacher) discouraging improper relationships with boys and men:
"I remember more than one of the lectures was about how you are supposed to behave as a girl. How if you let a man near you even speak to you, people will think that you’re a whore. How people will think you’re shameless. People will suspect things and people’s suspicions are the most dangerous thing for you as a woman. And they would talk about the dangers of talking to men. I remember very clearly, this being said more than once: if a man doesn’t come through the door, he’s not welcome. If he’s not brave enough to meet your parents and be a potential husband then he’s not welcome. If he comes through your window he is like a sly fox." –FP7
A number of participants described a strong sense of religious guilt when researching some aspects of women’s intimate health, such as when Participant 8 attempted to learn about sex online:
"I always tied religion to it. Like I’m not going to look at that, haram (it’s forbidden), I’m not going to see that. But I see a little bit and I stop myself. And I’m like ’astaghfurullah’ (I seek forgiveness from Allah) and I pray to wash my sins away, that sort of thing." –FP8
Although not part of the interview, self-pleasure was brought up by five participants (3 female, 2 male); the female participants mentioned it in conjunction with severe religious guilt, mentioning feelings of being a "bad Muslim" or practicing excessive showering (to achieve ghusl).
"I later found out from my friends that, apparently, they did have that kind of sex education for guys. They did tell them you’ll experience urges or pleasures, or he’ll experience something such as wet dreams. No one tells these things to girls because they don’t expect women to have urges or women to grow up to want or desire pleasure because pleasure is never a conversation... There was this attachment to the concept of virginity that was very intense. There’s the shame that comes with feeling pleasure. Desire, even doing things such as masturbation, felt very shameful. That was specifically not okay for the longest time. –FP7"
Perspectives on self-pleasure were only discussed in detail by two female participants, who emphasized both feelings of guilt and lack of knowledge, even in religious contexts.
4.1.4 Islam and education.
Participants were asked two questions relating to the influence of Islam on women’s intimate health education: 1) if Islam has influenced past education, and 2) if it would influence their decision now. To address the first question, most participants stated that maintaining a state of purity through ghusl was the most notable religious contribution. They also mentioned the strict prohibition of sex before marriage and religious shame associated with self-pleasure, hence influencing their exposure to any material relating to sexual education. However, most of the participants stated that religion does not currently influence their decision to seek information about women’s intimate health; for example, they are sometimes curious about Islamic rulings on intimate health issues, such as surrogacy or different sex acts. Female Participant 8 (FP8) felt strongly that Islam does not prohibit knowledge acquisition regarding intimate health:
"Islam doesn’t say don’t teach your daughters about it. Islam doesn’t say don’t introduce your daughters to the concept of protection or teach them how to wear their pads. There’s no such thing as shutting off all that information." –FP8
Male Participant 14 (MP14) suggested that Islam is not against seeking knowledge in that area but feels that the way that Islamically influenced education relating to intimate health has been implemented requires improvement. He felt that scientific details were glossed over or ignored in favor of religious commandments regarding intimate health, even though Islam does not discourage it. Overall, participants’ beliefs of Islamic views have overwhelmingly indicated that Islam does not discourage curiosity regarding women’s intimate health, nor does it prevent followers from seeking knowledge or disseminating information.
4.2 Influence of Arab culture
When asked if participants felt that there was a difference between their Arab culture and Islam, with the exception of one participant, they all felt certain that there was a distinction. However, they also acknowledged that there were common values that the two agreed on, such as family bonds, generosity, attending to social obligations, and avoiding premarital sex. The role of culture in participants’ lives fluctuates across individuals. In comparison with the influence of Islam, Arab culture and identity were mostly deemed by participants as less influential. Yet, it is important to note that the line separating religion and culture was difficult for participants to define. One participant remarks that Arab culture and Islam are the same; one informs the other and so they are inevitably interwoven in most aspects. Female Participant 3 (FP3) compared the two from her perspective:
"The distinction is that religion comes from a religious text that’s very defined in the Quran. In Islam, your actions are very calculated. Everything is very clear and transparent. It’s very black and white in terms of the moral code. Whereas culture is really transient, it’s very fluid and it’s based on our way of telling stories. It’s very oral." –FP3
Participants’ answers about what defines "Arab culture" in their views varied greatly. Firstly, common characteristics were mentioned, such as Arabic language, food, art, poetry, and music. Other characteristics of Arab culture were highlighted that are closely linked to Islamic values, such as hospitality, generosity, strictness, cleanliness, maintaining a pleasant appearance, and maintaining family bonds. Participants have acknowledged that their Arab culture forms their identity, that that is unavoidable, but they are also selective about what parts of culture matter to them and which they choose to implement.
The next few sub-themes determined from participant responses highlight significant cultural traits and practices that have influenced participants’ education about women’s intimate health.
4.2.1 Privacy.
Within the confines of care for public representation lies care for maintaining privacy. Intimate health is generally considered a private matter; thus, participants considered it a delicate issue with appropriate contexts. The first dimension of privacy concerns respect for the inner workings of family life. For example, sharing intimate details about one’s sex life is viewed negatively. Female Participant 3 (FP3) observed:
"Sex is associated with family life, and family life is very private, so it’s something that I just have to respect. I don’t want to be the odd person on the table talking about it." –FP3
One participant suggested that this tendency can be detrimental to the woman:
"Your friend could be suffering with her partner sexually, and you would not know because she’s not able to talk about it because these are like family secrets." –FP5
In the vein of maintaining public decency, the sharing of private information relating to women’s intimate health has also been viewed as potentially harming one’s public image. One notable example mentioned by Participant 9 was her encounter with an Arab Muslim couple on social media who were relaying their experience with their first sexual experience. The participant recognized that the purpose of this story was to relay information, destigmatize sex, and combat sexual myths, yet the story made her uncomfortable. When urged by the interviewer to expand on this feeling and the reasons behind it, she responded:
"Any (online) platform now is public. It doesn’t really matter what you use because, at the end of the day, she’s a hijabi woman. She’s representing most of hijabis. Putting it out there. She talked a lot about detailed stuff that she she had gone through. And I feel like a lot of people would benefit from that, but I do think that a lot of people would be like, "That’s a bit inappropriate." I think if she would have had a private group on Instagram that is only for girls, it would have made more sense instead of showing it to the public." –FP9
Female Participant 9 (FP9) also indicated that if the content had been more scientific and factual than personal, she would have been more receptive.
The following male participant statement provides insight into two potential dimensions for privacy and comfort relating to conversations about women’s intimate health: 1) privacy of intimate health, and 2) discomfort discussing with a different gender:
"In our country, in the culture. It (women’s intimate health) is not really something that is comfortably opened up, or they (men) would accept to hear it or listen to it from a woman. Heck, some of them have issues hearing a female doctor telling a man and his wife, "Have you had sex in the last three weeks?" Obviously, you can answer her, but they would have issues doing so." –MP14
This observation bridges privacy with comfort, which will be discussed next in terms of what forms a comfortable setting for Arab Muslim participants.
4.2.2 Comfort in social settings.
There were multiple dimensions to the notion of comfort from a cultural perspective. In order of frequency of appearance in participant responses, these were: 1) not feeling judged, 2) being in an educational or professional context, and 3) being in the presence of people of their gender (e.g., all women gathering). The most prominent descriptor for creating a comfortable environment for conversing about women’s intimate health was the feeling of not being judged. Participants stated that, aside from "feeling" that the other person was more accepting, they were more likely to feel comfortable in a social setting with those deemed as peers, such as those close in age. Multiple female participants highlighted that being in the presence of other women was crucial to feeling a sense of comfort when discussing any issues relating to women’s intimate health.
"I think it would depend on the social setting –if you feel like people won’t be offended. I don’t think people should be offended, but if I think that people might be offended, I would speak to the person –If I had the questions, I mean– I would speak in private. But if I feel like people are like-minded and they won’t be offended by any of the questions, I would gladly participate and ask." –FP6
"There’s some kind of strength in having girls around. You can talk about period stuff out loud. With the girls. The girls, not the teachers. The teachers made us feel bad about talking about stuff like that. But amongst us –I remember a girl got her period in grade 6. She didn’t tell her teacher, she came to us, and another girl had a pad, and we all went into the bathroom." –FP8
Participants were also asked specifically how they felt about discussing women’s intimate health for educational purposes. They all said they had no moral issues with that context. Additionally, younger participants (under 24) emphasized that the purpose of discussing women’s intimate health affects the level of comfort in a social setting. For example, seeking advice or educating are more acceptable than sharing stories about sexual encounters.
"Some people are very comfortable talking about it. My roommate would totally be detailed and I’m like, ’I don’t want to hear this. But because it was more normal for her to grow up in a house where her mom discussed this stuff with her. Sometimes I’m like, I don’t want to hear this. I feel like it’s just too graphic." –FP4
Three of the participants stated that they sometimes felt the need to turn to non-Arab or non-Muslim friends and doctors to discuss issues with sexual health because they were perceived to be less judgmental. Participant 8 opted for non-Arab gynecologists whenever she could due to concerns of being judged, as seen previously in section
4.1.3. When asked if they had people in their lives they felt comfortable talking to about women’s intimate health, Participant 3 (FP3) responded:
"My friends in New York City. Everyone else here in [edited: Arab country] does not want to converse about it. They don’t wanna know about health issues. They can’t even say yeast infection comfortably." –FP3
With regards to sharing in the presence of male family members, several female participants described a slight shift in what they felt they were acceptable to bring up at home in the presence of male family members. Most of them went through a phase of not being able to be vocal about when they were menstruating, such as hiding when they were not fasting during Ramadan, even when they were exempt by religious scripture. Participant 4 (FP4) recounted her first time asking her father to buy her sanitary pads as being "a little awkward, but fine". In contrast, Female Participant 1 (FP1) emphasized a clear divide between transparency with her father versus her brothers:
"The idea of even buying the menstrual pads is off-topic. It’s outrageous. Yeah, my dad would never buy that stuff. He finds it weird and embarrassing. My brothers buy them for me. I taught them to not feel weird about it." –FP1
In our sample, this was a unique experience. However, it highlights the potential for genuine unease and awkwardness emanating from the patriarchal figures in women’s lives, which could deter women from disclosing intimate health concerns when necessary.
4.2.3 Appropriate timelines and shifting responsibility.
Participants reported that religion and culture do not actively influence their decision to seek information regarding women’s intimate health if they are curious about it. However, most acknowledge that it has influenced their journey towards knowledge-seeking, especially in terms of education in adolescence. With regards to sexual health, the assumption from Arab Muslim parents is that knowledge will not be needed until marriage due to the Islamic ruling prohibiting premarital sex.
"It was not mentioned because I think that it’s not expected of you to do it out of marriage. So I feel like maybe if I were married or about to get married, then this topic might be introduced by my mother or aunts or family members." –FP2
For Participant 11 (MP11), that timeline was earlier than an approaching marriage. This was influenced by the fact that he would be leaving to travel alone for the first time. His reflection denotes the problem with waiting indefinitely to relay pertinent information about sexual health and how to practice safe sex:
"In the Arab region, most of the time they go to Arabic schools, Arabic schools, Arabic schools, and then when they turn 18 or it’s time for university, they fly somewhere and face reality, and then they don’t know what to do." –MP11
The responsibility of educating adolescents about the menstrual cycle or sexual health was often delegated by participants’ parents to their schools or friends. This was the case for the majority of participants, especially with regard to sexual health. Even in the case of menstrual cycles, limited knowledge was provided by the mothers of participants in most cases. They were instead deferred to a school-sanctioned assembly about the science behind menstruation, along with demonstrations of how to apply a pad. In contrast, one participant highlighted a flaw in that strategy, as his mother was employed as a school administrator where he attended school:
"My mom was actually part of the administration at school when I went to seventh grade, and that’s when they introduced the science subjects separately, like biology, chemistry, and physics. So when we went to get our books before the school year started and she saw the biology book and she saw the chapter about sexual reproduction. She went to the administration the next day and made them take all the books back and rip those pages out." –MP12
While MP12’s experience may be considered an uncommon occurrence, it indicates that there is a need for more than one source of education (schools) to consolidate knowledge reliably.
4.3 Self-discovery towards women’s intimate health literacy
Prompted by interview questions, participants embarked on storytelling journeys to describe their first experiences with menstruation or the first time they learned about sex. They told stories about their interactions with other people in their lives, including embarrassing, funny, or shocking moments.
Curiosity was mentioned explicitly multiple times by several participants, but curiosity levels were also inferred by the interviewer. Male and female participants who spoke of high curiosity at an early age demonstrated a much deeper understanding and awareness of women’s health issues, including disorders that are less known in the Arab world, such as endometriosis and polycystic ovary syndrome (PCOS). Most participant’s comprehensive knowledge of women’s health was driven largely by personal curiosity. Curiosity drove participants to use multiple online resources to fill in gaps, despite cultural influences potentially holding them back.
"Culture has made it a bit difficult or made me feel shy to reach out and ask about these questions, but they have not affected my decision. My curiosity goes beyond these two factors." –FP2
Three participants described curiosity relating to Islamic rulings on various intimate health issues, such as the desire of Female Participant 6 to determine whether spotting during ovulation affects the obligation to pray. This underlines the importance and prevalence of religion in their lives.
Curiosity about menopause was very low for all participants, as none of them were going through it themselves. The extent of knowledge about menopause was very limited across the board. The men knew less than the women. The women’s exposure to it was through their moms, often through throwaway comments about hot flashes or mood swings.
4.3.1 Supplementing knowledge online.
We learned that most participants seek knowledge about women’s intimate health using digital means such as: 1) top search results on Google, 2) medical websites such as WebMD/Healthline, 3) forums, 4) websites containing Islamic rulings, 5) Arab social media gynecologist, 6) menstrual or pregnancy tracking apps (e.g., Flo). Having easy access to online content enabled participants to search quickly and privately for concepts they were not familiar with. As noted by Participant 3, she had also valued forums or discussion board websites for what was perceived as a more realistic and well-rounded view of experiences with women’s intimate health. This was echoed by Participant 4:
"I do look at Quora sometimes. Just to feel the personal connection. Sometimes that’s why I don’t like Google searches. Whatever it is, it could be the smallest thing and it’ll just show you another disease. You know, it’s just concerning. So then when you look at a lot of other people having that, you’re like, ’that’s probably not a disease’, you know? It’s comforting." –FP4
While some participants indicated that they had gained positive experiences with reading perspectives on online forums, they never participated or asked questions themselves.
One male participant noted a unique experience fueled by his curiosity, where as a teenager, he attempted to access Arab women’s forums in order to learn about women’s intimate health:
"I was still going through Arab women’s forms. And through these forums, a lot of them expressed that they were having issues with their moms asking them to steam their vaginas and their mom asking them to put perfume there. In these Arab women forums, they (make) you consent that you are a woman. And then, when you get to a certain section of the forum, it’s for married women. And there you have to consent again that you’re a woman that is married." –MP14
A few participants talked about using specific websites to find Islamic rulings on various aspects of women’s health, such as what religious practices should be if one is spotting rather than menstruating.
"Sometimes you want to know things about intimate health in an Islamic way. Like, ovulation is considered in Islam istihadha. So sometimes people, instead of having their period, they’re going to have spotting during their ovulation. Reading about it from an Islamic way makes you realize that –oh, it might be similar to a period, but it’s different because you can pray. Because for us, our reference is Quran and Sunnah, But we’re not as educated as religious people, imams, or Islamic scholars. So the only way to access them is through public forums or things like that." –FP6
Only 3 of the 16 participants were exposed to the Arab social media accounts, but they had very positive feelings about the presence of someone who was disseminating important knowledge in Arabic.
"There’s also ’this is mother being’ (@thisismotherbeing). I love her very much. She’s an Egyptian, she’s a mother, and she’s a sexual health specialist, and she started this collective of having a very honest, open conversation about sex. So she’s sort of approaching in a very professional way... So she has episodes. She used to be very directed at women, but she also started kind of moving also towards men’s sexual health. So sort of normalizing talking about things that we don’t usually talk about such as erectile dysfunction, such as anxiety when it comes to sex such as like the connection between the mind and the body when it comes to intimacy." –FP7
Social media content about women’s intimate health in Arabic is not popular yet, but for those slightly older interviewed participants (27+), they were lauded.
Finally, there were varying degrees of use of menstrual tracking apps among female participants. Several used the tracking features in the apps as well as the information panels to learn about women’s health. A few did not actively use menstrual tracking apps as they have regular periods and did not see a need for it. One participant (FP3) notably chose not to use any digital menstrual tracking features due to concerns about companies having intimate knowledge:
"I tried it once on an iPhone. When I first got the iPhone, then I freaked out because I felt the phone knew more about my intimate health than I did. So I disabled that option." –FP3
Overall, participants utilized various technologies for women’s intimate health, depending on context and personal preference.