Sex
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How to Talk Dirty During Sex Without Feeling Cringey
Experts offer ideas for things to say—plus tips for getting out of your own head in the moment.
By Erica Sloan
The Best Sex Furniture You Never Knew You Needed (Until Now)
We found 37 functional options to help you spice things up.
By Sarah Madaus, Gabrielle Kassel, and Kristin Canning
Treasure chest
How to Have a Fantastic Nipple Orgasm Because, Yep, That’s a Thing
It’s all about making your boobs the main event—not the sideshow.
By Erica Sloan
Super Soaker
So You Want to Learn How to Squirt During Sex
A step-by-step guide to turning on the water works.
By Erica Sloan
Here’s Where to Find the Best Audio Porn and Erotica
Whether you’re into sexy stories, masturbation tutorials, or straight-up moaning.
By Anna Borges and Jenni Miller
16 Sex Pillows to Help You Hit All the Right Angles
According to experts and very pleased shoppers.17 slidesBy Jessica Kasparian and Gabrielle KasselVibrators 101: Everything You Need to Know (and the Expert-Approved Ones to Try)
We found beginner-friendly wands, bullets, and more.42 slidesBy Kate Sloan, Sara Coughlin, and Gabrielle KasselThe Best Rabbit Vibrator Is Actually a Snail
After weeks of testing, I can confirm: The hype is real.By Gabrielle KasselYou’re Gonna Want to Say Yes, Yes, YES to These Clitoral Vibrators
These suction, finger, and wand vibes are ready to show you a good time.27 slidesBy Malia Griggs and Kristin CanningHere’s How to Shop for the Right Strap-On
Sex therapists and other experts share their top picks for beginners and experienced users.16 slidesBy Malia Griggs, Sara Coughlin, and Gabrielle KasselAmazon Sells Thousands of Sex Toys—Here Are the Best Ones
Twenty-two expert-approved options that'll get you buzzing.By Jessica KasparianThese Are the 13 Anal Lubes Sex Experts Swear By
With options for beginners, sensitive skin, and more.16 slidesBy Sarah Madaus and Kristin Canning- Back to the grind
The Best Grinding Sex Toys For When You Feel Like Ridin’ Dirty
There are more ways to use them than you’d think.By Gabrielle Kassel - Health
Here’s How to Properly Clean Your Sex Toys
Yes, you have to do this. No, it doesn’t have to be a hassle.By Kathleen Felton and Lindsey Lanquist - Buzz-worthy
This 3-in-1 Vibrator Makes It Easy to Switch It Up in Bed
I found a beginner-friendly wand that does (almost) everything.By Gabrielle Kassel
The Best Clitoral Vibrators, Whether You’re With a Partner or Flying Solo
The more, the merrier.
By Kristin Canning and Gabrielle Kassel
The Best Lubes for Smooth Sailing Alone or With a Partner
Loved by both experts and shoppers.
14 slides
By Sarah Felbin and Kristin Canning
How to Use Temperature Play to Ignite Your Sex Life
Adding hot and cold sensations to the mix can go a long way.
By Erica Sloan
Why Does It Burn When I Pee After Sex?
Doctors explain why doing the right thing can feel so painful in the moment.
By Erica Sloan
8 G-Spot Sex Positions That’ll Hit All the Right Angles
Say hello to deeper penetration (and an incredible orgasm).
By Erica Sloan
Love
How to Take Nudes You’ll Actually Love, According to Boudoir Photographers
Your guide to snapping sexy photos of yourself and feeling great about them.
By Erica Sloan
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How to Stop Queefing During the Worst Possible Moments
It’s a normal bodily function—but it can still be hella awkward.
By Erica Sloan
Ex-streamly hot
17 Incredibly Sexy Movies You Can Watch on Hulu Right Now
Get ready to settle in for a titillating evening at home—alone or with a partner.
By Katie Way and Samantha Vincenty
7 People on Why They Chose to Be Celibate for a Spell
“This break ended up being a wake-up call: Most of the people I was seeing didn’t really care about my pleasure.”
By Jenna Ryu
Love
What to Do If You and Your Partner Have Mismatched Sex Drives
Your relationship isn’t doomed, but it’s important to address it to keep resentment from building up.
By Jenna Ryu
Who's a good girl?
Are You Seriously Turned On By Validation? Here’s How to Explore a Praise Kink in Bed
There’s nothing like a steady stream of compliments to make good sex fantastic.
By Erica Sloan
A Beginner’s Guide to Pegging
Ready to take butt stuff to a whole new level? Here’s how to try it.
By Erica Sloan
I’ve Tested More Than 100 Wand Vibrators—But This One Is My All-Time Favorite
It won me over in minutes.
By Gabrielle Kassel
9 Very Hot Non-Penetrative Sex Ideas
If you can’t—or don’t want to—get it in, we’ve got some moves that’ll still get you off.
By Erica Sloan
Hot mama
How to Feel Horny Again as a New Mom
Remember that you won’t be sexless and covered in spit-up forever.
By Kathleen Felton
17 Hot Ways to Stimulate Your Clit for an Amazing Orgasm
There’s so much more than your basic nub-rub to try.
By Erica Sloan
How to Try Edging, the Sex Technique That Takes Teasing to a Whole New Level
Drawing out the buildup to an orgasm can be incredibly hot.
By Erica Sloan
Buzz worthy
15 Wand Vibrators That’ll Hit All the Right Spots
Try them on clits, nipples, penises, butts—anywhere you want to feel a nice buzz.
16 slides
By Malia Griggs and Jessica Kasparian
What to Do If IBS Is Shitting on Your Sex Life
GI symptoms always seem to show up at the worst possible times.
By Erica Sloan