#225 Etz Hachayim Parasha Sheet
#225 Etz Hachayim Parasha Sheet
#225 Etz Hachayim Parasha Sheet
עץ החיים
-English Weekly-
Issue # 225
Midos & Mofsim tell me about the Rosh Yeshiva, and this is what he told over.
THE GEDOLEI YISROEL, THE LEADERS OF THE "We went to a Chasunah in northern New York and the Rosh
JEWISH People, who spend their entire lives soaking in the Yeshiva was the Mesader Kedushin. After the Chuppah the
words of Abaya V' Rava night and day, receive special סייעתא Rosh Yesiva headed to the car and went inside. There was a
דשמיאfrom Hashem. They have the couple who was married for five
ability to see things that no one else years and had not yet been blessed
can, to the extent that the people in with children and I brought them to
their surroundings become stunned the Rosh Yeshiva to receive a
by the amazing events which Bracha. When the couple came to
transpire in their presence. One must the car I opened the window and
know that when a person learns told the Rosh Yeshiva that they
Torah he gets everything and will wanted a Bracha for children. The
see everything – as the Mishna Rosh Yeshiva said, "Ahh, they don't
writes הפוך בה והפוך בה דכולה בה. need a bracha." I'm telling you, I
The greatness of our Gedolim is not was so embarrassed I wanted to
their Mofsim, but rather their toil in bury my face in shame. I told the
Torah and their Midos Tovos. They Rosh Yeshiva again, "They're
say that what excited a good, Kalta, married for five years and they want
Litvack, was a good Shtickel Torah a Bracha!" But again the Rosh
from a Rashba, or a good Rav Chaim Yeshiva told me the same thing.
or Rav Boruch Ber. It was nit Two days later I received a call that
necceraly stories of Mofsom. the couple had not yet known that
However, there is a positive side to they had Baruch Hashem already
hearing stories of mofsim. 1 – It can been expecting their first child…
strengthen one's Emunas The son-in-law of Rav Yehudah
Chachamim. 2 – It shows us what Aryeh Dunner שליט"אof בני ברקtold
the koach Hatorah can do to a me the following story which took
person. place within the last couple months.
This week I want to share some I confirmed the story with Rav
stories of Mofsim: Dunner שליט"א.
TWO STUDENTS OF RAV A YOUNG MAN CAME TO THE
CHAIM VOLOSHIN once snuck HOME of Maran Harav Chaim
away from the Yeshiva to spend a Kanievsky שליט"א, and introduced himself as "Nimrod", a
Shabbos by a Chasidisshe' Rebbe because they wanted to see common secular Israeli name. Harav Chaim Kanievsky told
Mofsim. On their way back they stayed at an Inn and lo and the young man that "Nimrod" was not an appropriate name.
behold their Rebbe, Rav Chaim M' Volosion happened to walk The young man asked what he should change his name to, and
in and "Busted them" red handed. Their Rebbe told them, Harav Chaim answered him, "Shaltiel." People thought it was
"You went to the Rebbe because you think by the Litvaks we interesting, since Harav Chaim doesn't usually tell people to
don't have Mofsim. So, if you want I will make a Mofes so you take uncommon names. When the young man came home he
will see that by us we also can do Mofsim. He told one of the told his mother what transpired and how HaRav Chaim told
young men, "Your wife just burnt the dish she was cooking…" him to change his name. "To what name?" she asked.
When the Yungerman came home, he asked his wife if at that "Shaltiel", he replied. His mother was stunned! She told him,
time she had burned a dish and she confirmed that indeed it "I will tell you something that you never knew. At your Bris,
was true… we called you "Shaltiel", only later did we change your name
IT'S KNOWN THAT AT THE END OF THE ROSH and began calling you "Nimrod"."
YESHIVA'S life, Ruach Hakodesh was a normal occurrence. Hashem commanded the Jewish People to take pure olive oil
Close to seven years ago I was visiting the kever of Maran and use it for the lights of the Menorah. The Menorah is a hint
HaRav Chaim Pinchos Shienberg זצוק''לon הר הזיתים. As we to Torah, as the posuk says,
were leaving I asked Rav Shia Chaitovsky שליט''א, the "father"
the boys in Yeshivas Torah Ohr, if he had a story that he could ""כי נר מצוה ותורה אור
The Kesav Sofer says: "It's not enough for a person to just have The כתב סופרconcludes, this is what was bothering משה.
לימוד התורה, he also needs to be מקובל בעיני הבריות, and his דיבור Moshe Rabbeinu wondered, "How ע"יlearning Torah alone
must be בנחתwith the people around him. One may reason that will that "magic" happen and suddenly the person will become
in order to become מעורב עם הבריותone must study all of the so striking in the eyes of people?" Hashem told Moshe,
other חכמותin the world to beautify his personality in the eyes "Throw it into the fire and it will happen." Hashem was telling
of the people." The כתב סופרsays that this is שקר. If a person Moshe "I will create the beauty and חןwithin a person who
will just focus on and learn from the Torah his entire life he learns Torah, it will happen מאיליו. עכ''ל
will see for himself that – הפוך בה והפוך בה דכולה בהall the חכמות
can be found in the Torah itself. THIS PAST SUMMER A WELL-KNOWN LAKEWOOD
All this is hinted to in the building of the מנורה. photographer came to visit Maran Harav Chaim
Kanievsky שליט''אwith his Bar Mitzvah boy. When they
1) The structure of the מנורה, and the (pure oil), and the
came into the room Rav Chaim told the father, "I have
magnificent lights that shone from them - are מרמזto the Torah
and the (purity) that illuminates the entire world through been waiting for you for the last 25 years!" Why? When
people who learn Torah. this photographer was a bochur in Eretz Yisroel 25 years
2) The flowers and the other designs on the menorah are what earlier, he once tried to take a photo of Rav Chaim and
beautify the menorah. They are compared to the ''''מידות טובות Rav Chaim gave a motion with his hand as if saying,
and the חןthat beautify a person through learning Torah. "Don't take photos ". Rav Chaim said, "I was afraid I was
3) Lastly, and most importantly, these beautifications and pogeah in your Kavod so I have been waiting to ask you
דברי חןare not added on beautifications, but rather they are מחילה." Not only that, but Rav Chaim let him photograph
part and parcel of the actual menorah. How? Just as the Rav Chaim in a special pose to be mifayes him…
menorah must be made out of one piece of gold, so too –
"What will beautify a person who learns Torah? What will Have a great Shabbos
give him חןin the eyes of people?" It will not by learning other
חכמות, rather it will happen through the תורהitself – one piece.