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Abstract
All couples look forward to having normal healthy babies. The issues of disabilities in their children shake the
families and serve as sources of severe psychological disruption to family adjustment. The parents of such
children live with many difficult issues and frequently experience trauma, grief and stress. Intervention
programmes are necessary part of the process involved in supporting families with children with special
educational needs. Such intervention requires active involvement of a wide range of professionals such as social
workers, teachers, psychologists, therapists, medical officers and many others. Skill training, parent education,
advocacy roles on part of parents and professionals alike are required. Counsellors should also be aware of the
wider inadequate systematic supports for parents and to advocate for more generous social and financial
resources for these parents.
Keywords: parents of children with special educational needs; trauma; counselling intervention; family security;
family support models.
1 Introduction
Ozozi (2005) sees the family as a system in which the action of each individual member has an effect on the
family as a whole. Okeke (2001) describe the family as “an interacting communicative network in which every
member influences the nature of the family system and is in turn influenced by the system.” The family system
therefore is such that any problem affecting a member will definitely affect the other members. Family is the
most important institution to any child. It is the primary arena that a child learns his/her initial experience, he/she
learns to interact and learns from this interaction with his/her parents and siblings.The parents have the most
important influence on their children, whether they are normal or abnormal (Mamman 2007).
The birth of a child with disability in a family is said to be a shock to the parents and to the family, and
poses many challenges for them. The special educational needs child as well as his/her family experiences
trauma, grief, guilt, aggression, rejection, stress, and strain, and even inclination towards murder and suicide
(Obi, 1998; Cantwell-Barti, 2009; Kaur, 2010). Initially the parents of children with special educational needs
are faced to accept their powerlessness to prevent the catastrophe that had happened. The future seems bleak
with the never ending expenditure of energy and resources to provide care to the child (Jaswal and Jaswal,
2000). Children with severe special needs drain enormous amounts of time, energy, and money. Marital
problems are reported to be present to a greater degree because of the lack of time for nurturing the marriage and
the frequent problem of parents disagreeing on what needs to be done for the child (Heller, 2012). Contemporary
research on parents of children with disabilities has found that parents frequently experience traumatic stress and
that traumatic symbols can endure (O’Neill, 2005). Parents may experience trauma at various times such as the
time of diagnosis, or in response to treatment, or when a child is hospitalized, particularly if the child has to
spend long periods in hospitals.
Grieving is an ongoing features of raising a child with disability. For example, parents could grieve
over the child’s lack of achievement of developmental academic and social matters, and ongoing stigmatization.
Parents are likely to also grieve for themselves and the lost opportunities for personal growth and achievement as
every aspect of their life may be threatened and changed. They are more likely to be socially isolated as
friendships change, and extended family can withdraw in response to the child’s disability (Cantwell-Barti,
2009). Many children with disabilities have challenging behavioural disturbances or complex physical needs
which can place an enormous stress on families. Parents are likely to be confronted with limited support
resources in the community and long waiting lists, or they may encounter unsympathetic health professionals
that they have to struggle with to access resources. As well, many families of children with disabilities are
economically strained as mothers may not be able to return to work and there may be extra expenses in
supporting the child (Cantwell-Barti, 2009). Akkoh (2000) and Okeke (2001) emphasize those families with
children with special educational needs need a lot of support from the community, philanthropists, and
governments in order to care adequately for them
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Ozozi and Mugu (1999) saw children with special educational needs as people with significant sensory deficits,
or unusual high intellectual ability, that is not properly addressed in the regular school programme. Heward
(2003) defined children with special educational needs as those who need modification in curriculum and
instruction in order to help them maximize their potential. According to him, modification of curriculum and
instruction are necessary as a result of their disabilities. Alli (2003) defines children with special educational
needs as people with unique educational and/social needs or desiring extra attention in virtually all aspects of
life. Venden and Peter (2004) view children with special educational needs as those exceptional children
differently challenged, who may be physically, socially or intellectually different, either below or above average
that require individually planned and systematically monitored arrangements of physical setting. According to
them, modification of curriculum and instruction are necessary as a result of their disabilities.
3.1. Heward and Orlansky, (1992) also classified children with special educational needs under the following
categories:
a.. Mental Retardation: This is said to be a term used to identify “performance deficit” that is failure to
demonstrate age appropriate intellectual and social behavior. It is a developmental disability characterized by
significantly sub average general intellectual functioning, with concurrent deficit in adaptive behavior. Mental
retardation is used when a person has certain limitation in mental functioning and skills such as communicating
and social skills. These limitations will cause a child to learn and develop more slowly than a typical child.
Children with mental retardation may take longer to learn to speak, walk and take care of his personal needs such
as dressing or eating (Heward and Orlansky, 1992; Ozozi, 2005; Mamman,2007; Ali (2012 ).
b.. Learning Disability: This means a disorder in one or more “basic psychological processes
involved in understanding or in using language, spoken or written, which may manifest itself in an imperfect
ability to listen , think, speak, read, write, spell or do mathematical calculations”(Heward and Orlansky (1992). It
refers to variety of disorders that affect the acquisition, retention, understanding, organization or use of verbal
and non-verbal information. Children who exhibit one or more deficits in the essential learning process of
perception, conceptualization, language, memory, attention, and impulse control are said to having learning
disability (Okeke, 2001; Ali, 2003; Mamman 2007; Ali, 2012).
c. Behaviour Disorders: Children with emotional disturbance are referred to as children with behavior
disorders. Behaviour disorders have been defined as “deviation from age appropriate behavior which
significantly interferes with the child own growth and development” (Okeke, 2001). A child behavior to be
classified disorder must differ markedly and chronically from current social or cultural norms.
d. Communication (speech and language) Disorders: Interaction is the major means by which human
beings learn and successful interaction requires communication. Communication is said to be “transmitting and
receiving of information through a common system or symbol” (Okeke, 2001). Children who are not able to
make themselves understood or who cannot comprehend ideas that are spoken to them are said to suffer from
communication disorders. Thus, communication disorder is impairment in the ability to understand or use words
in context.
e. Hearing Impairments: Hearing is vital to every aspect of our daily existence. Hearing impairment
refers to the ability of a person to hear sound. It is impairment in hearing whether permanent or fluctuating that
adversely affects the child educational performance. It can be total, “deaf” or partial “hard of hearing”.
f. Visual Impairment: Vision is fundamental to human development. It is a visual factor in the
development process and the wellbeing of the child. Visual impairment is the functional loss of vision. It is an
impairment or difficulty with vision. The visually impaired include children that are partially sighted, children
with low vision, and children that are totally blind. A child with little or no vision is unable to rely on visual
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signals such as eye gaze and smiling by parents, siblings and peers in social exchange, therefore; social
interaction is limited and sometimes misinterpreted.
g. Physical and Other Health Impairment: This refers to a broad range of disabilities. It indicates a
medically diagnosed chronic physical or health impairment, either congenital or acquired. Their intellectual
functioning may be normal or below normal. Many physical or health impaired children adjust to their
conditions. Some use special devices or equipment such as wheelchair, because of their disabilities or illness
they may require modification in physical environment.
Physical and Health Impairments include:
Orthopedic Impairments
Neurological Impairment
Cerebral Palsy
Traumatic Head Injury
Spinal Bifida
Limp Deficiency
Epilepsy
Cystic Fibrosis
Diabetes
Asthma.
h. Severe Handicaps: These are the children that “exhibit extreme deficits in intellectual
functioning and may also need special services because of motor impediments, communication, visual and
auditory impairments and medical conditions such as seizure” (Heward and Orlansky, 1992). Children with
severe handicaps often have combination of disabilities because of their intense physical and behavioural
limitations they tend to learn much slowly than any other group of children (including other children considered
children with special educational needs or handicapped).
i.. Gifted and Talented: These are said to be children who “who give evidence of high performance
capability in areas such as intellectual, creative artistic or leadership capacity”. A gifted or talented child is one
who demonstrates above average intelligence; possess creativity, leadership qualities, and abilities in visual art.
According to Kolo (1991), “giftedness implies surplus of cognitive powers indicated by a high level of
observable precocity”. The gifted who is also a child with special educational needs demonstrates exceptional
abilities both in and out of the class.
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and how such a child could be helped to succeed in life. They are ignorant about the type of services their child
should have, where to go for help and educational opportunities for the child. Ozozi (1985) is of the view that
ignorance leads the parents of children with special educational needs to seek the services of quacks like
unqualified native doctors or self-styled spiritual mediators
Psychological Problems: Once a child with special educational needs is born in the family, the family
suffers psychologically for having an abnormal child. Most people believe that an abnormal child is a curse to
the family; as a result the family is psychologically disturbed for having an abnormal child. It takes great effort
for the family to accept the child. In most cases some members of the family experience psychological
breakdown.
5. The Need for Counselling the Family of Children with special educational needs
Counselling is a profession by which a troubled person is helped to feel and behave in a more satisfying manner
through interaction with a counsellor who provides services which stimulates the client to develop behaviours
which enable him to deal more effectively with himself and his environment. Counselling therefore, is a
profession that is central to proper adjustment of an individual. It is therefore imperative that parents and
families of children with special educational needs need counselling for effective management of the
handicapped child Ali (2012). Most families of children with special educational needs find it difficult to accept
them due to ignorance, superstitious beliefs, pride, fear misconception and misinformation. Hence, counselling is
very needed by parents of children with special educational needs for enlightening. Families of children with
special educational needs need counselling so as to bring about behavioural change, positive mental health,
problem resolution, personal effectiveness and decision making (Obi, 1998).
Counselling therefore helps these families to effectively cope with the demand of children with special
educational needs. Counselling helps the parents of children with special educational needs to examine their
roles as parents and become aware of the parent-child relationship. It helps to remove the sense of guilt that
some families feel when they have children with special educational needs. It also helps the family to overcome
the negative attitude they have towards the special needs children (Ali, 2012). The family of children with
special educational needs need counselling to assist them to acquire social,, physical, emotional and cognitive
skills necessary to successfully cope with the disability experienced. Counselling assist the family of children
with special educational needs to learn how to manage stress associated with boredom of routine in parenting a
special needs child. It equips the family with skills to develop assertiveness, problem solving, decision making
and goal setting skills in their wards. Counselling also helps parents develop independence in them and in their
children (Okeke, 2001; Mamman, 2007).The Counsellors are of great help to the family of children with special
educational needs by providing professional information on how to detect and manage their children, in order to
give the m hope for living.
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(iii) Counselling Practices: Intervention through counselling arises out of the fact that most families
with children with special educational needs have many concerns about both the present and the future and as
indicated in many instances, they may worry about their own competence as parents. They may fear that
something did cause the handicapped condition. They may be angry or may be grieving that services are not
being provided for their child. They may even feel rejected or stigmatized by other parents or people within the
community. Group counselling can be organized around specific topics suggested by the parents or by
professional. Such meetings give parents the opportunity to meet parents of children with special educational
needs and thereby making it possible for personal support network outside the group context. Teachers and
others can play active roles by developing or helping locate respite care services, day care programmes for
children with special educational needs. Information support provides the family with necessary information so
that services could be easily located.
(iv). Parental Rights and Advocacy: There is need to understand that parents are the owners of their
children and apart from having their own rights over their children; they also need to be protected legally against
wrong notions. When their children attend school, these rights should be recognized by the school authorities
concerned. Parents should fight for the existence of strong regulations and laws protecting them and their
children in the Nigerian community.
7.1. Sloper (1999) categorized four support service models for parents.
i. Key worker models: A ‘key worker’ or link person is a named person whom the parent approaches for advice
about any problem related to the children with special educational needs. The key worker maintains regular
contact as needed with the family, and has responsibility for collaborating with professional from a range of
services, and coordinating support for the family. Particularly important aspects of the service are the key
worker’s knowledge of and ability to access information and services from a range of agencies.
ii. Parent Counselling Models: Dunst, Trivette and Deals (1994) carried out a number of studies of
family support services in the USA. Their findings suggest that many elements of effective support services
centre on interpersonal aspects of the relationship between families and service providers. It matters as much
how professional assist families in mobilizing resources as it does which supports are mobilized. Features of
effective help-giving are identified as: relationship building; communication, honesty and clarity; understanding
of families own concerns, and responsiveness to family values and goals.
iii. Parents Partnership Models: Relationship between parents and professionals is a crucial aspect of
service effectiveness. Evaluation of such an approach employed by the KIDS Family Centre points to positive
effects. The centre employed a range of services from which parents could choose. Professional practice was
based on a negotiating model of partnership (Dale, 1996) whereby time, listening, openness and discussion are
used to help parents and professionals to reach consensus on needs and actions.
iv. Coping Skills Models: In general, these interventions have used the ideas from stress and coping
theories to inform parent training in problem solving and decision making, communication skills, skills in
accessing and utilizing social networks, and coping strategies such as positive self-statements, self-praise and
relaxation. These models focus on services that take a holistic approach to parent support. One of their strengths
lies in their ability to work with parents to determine their needs and to provide opportunities for parents to
access a range of other services as appropriate.
7.2. Kaur (2010) also categorized parents and family support models into eight.
a. Network of NGOs with families: NGOS play an important role in the development of society. They focus on
the empowerment of depressed sections of the society. There are NGOs working especially for deaf, dumb,
mentally retarded, and physically impaired and for visually impaired. They also organize camps for the children
with special educational needs like wheel chairs, hearing aids, braille etc. Therefore, counsellors should connect
NGOs with families of children with special educational needs children who would provide them adequate
knowledge about care of the children with special educational needs member.
b. More Interactions with Families among Themselves: Families should interact with each other to
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provide appropriate and rehabilitative care to the children with special educational needs at home. They should
help themselves through transfer of knowledge and skills and on finding ways to change and adopt according to
the needs of the children with special educational needs member.
c. Counselling Services for Families with Special focus on Sibs: The inability of any person who is
significant to the family interferes in the family’s home and social environment. Every member of the family
experiences burden of responsibilities and lack of resources to provide adequate care to the disabled. Sibling
disability has a negative impact on the normal sibling’s personality. They experience isolation, anger,
depression, fear and frustration because of their children with special educational needs sibling. Counselling
services should be provided to families with special focus on sibs to release their anger, frustration, fear and
depression.
d. Education about Balanced Nutrition and Personal Hygiene: Families should be educated by
counsellors on balanced nutrition, malnutrition, infectious diseases and personal hygiene. Rural families lack
resources particularly in health and education sectors. They must be provided with the appropriate knowledge,
which would help them to provide a healthy environment to their children with special educational needs
member.
e. Education about Disability: Majority of the families lack knowledge about disability, its causes and
treatments, which is an important reason for anxiety in parents. They should be provided with the adequate
knowledge about the disability and ways to understand and to cope up with the disability of the family member.
f. Frequent Medical Checkups: A major health care challenge for rural areas of the developing
countries is lack of access to medical facilities; due to which children with special educational needs are not
being properly medically check up. Special care and attention regarding treatments of the children with special
educational needs should be provided to the families.
g. Stress Busting Exercises for the Families: Stress is very common among families of disabled, they
should be provided with knowledge about stress busting exercises. Exercise is the best way to diminish the
effects of stress. Conflicts arise from negative thoughts, actions and, conflicts can be resolved by focusing on
positive thoughts, actions and feelings should be inclusive. A student should not be excluded from school,
because he or she has disability. Well-developed inclusive practices which give attention to special educational
needs children are less expensive than segregated one.
h. Provision and Access of Literature and Audio-Video Information: There should be provision and
access of literature and audio-video information by counsellors on various topics related to disability i.e.
management of disabled, causes of disability, sanitation, hygiene etc should be introduced to the families to
make them aware about “what disability is?” “How it is taken care of?”
8. Conclusion
Constant psychological stress, misunderstanding within the family, economic burdens, grief and strain were
significant factors associated with the families of children with disabilities. Presence of a special educational
needs child in a family hinders opportunities for social intervention. Though, it cannot be disputed that parents of
children with special educational needs face a great deal of stress. Intervention programmes such as skill
training, parent education, advocacy roles on part of parents and professionals are a necessary part of the process
involved in supporting families with children with special educational needs. Such intervention requires active
involvement of a wide range of professional such as social workers, teachers, psychologists, therapists, medical
officers and many others.
9. Recommendations
• Parents need to feel supported and to have opportunities to tell their stories without censure, so a
counsellor who is emphatic can be deeply therapeutic.
• Parents may also be supported in noting their resources, capacities and adaptability in caring for their
child. Many parents need to be acknowledged for the courage and loving that is manifest in the care of
their child.
• Counsellors should be mindful that parents need advocacy from health professionals who understand
their situation because the barriers and the difficulties in negotiating support structures can be
exhausting.
• Counsellors should also be aware of the wider inadequate systematic supports for parents and to
advocate for more generous social and financial resources for these parents.
• School systems should encourage parents to participate fully in school programmes affecting their
children.
• Advocates should endeavour to relate their efforts to helping families with children with special
educational needs secure needed services that may offset the efforts of disability in children, and
conducting family education groups is a necessary venture..
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