A Sad Commentary On The State of The Garden City
A Sad Commentary On The State of The Garden City
A Sad Commentary On The State of The Garden City
Bangalore –
A few of my friends and I were just paying our bills and coming out
of our regular Friday night watering hole and dinner place in Rest
House Road, just off Brigade Road, and most of the women in the
company were already standing outside. Some of us outside were
smoking, people were happy, there was laughter and jokes, as there
were many other people in the street, all coming out, satiated, in
the closing hour of the various pubs and restaurants around.
Suddenly from up the street a massive SUV comes revving and speeding,
hurtling down, and stops in a scream of brakes and swirling dust,
millimeters away from this group of 4 women, barely missing one of
their legs. A white Audi, imported, still under transfer, with the
registration plate of KA-51 TR-2767. Some millionaire's toy thing,
that in the wrong hands can kill.
Naturally the women are in shock. And quickly following the shock
comes indignation. These are self made women running their own
businesses, managing state responsibilities for global NGO firms,
successful doctors. They are not used to being bullied. So they turn
around, instead of shrinking back in fear. They protest.
And as soon as they turn around in protest, the car doors are flung
open, and a stream of 4-5 rabid men run out towards these women,
screaming obscenities in Hindi and Kannada against women in general,
fists flailing. Some of us who came in running at the sound of the
screaming brakes now stand in the middle in defense of our women, and
then blows start raining down. One of the goons make a couple of
calls over the cellphone, and in seconds a stream of other equally
rabid goondas land up. They gun straight for the women, and everyone –
a few well-meaning bystanders, acquaintances who know us from the
restaurant, basically everyone who tries to help the women – starts
getting thoroughly beaten up.
Women are kicked in the groin, punched in the stomach, slapped across
the face, grabbed everywhere, abused constantly. Men are smashed up
professionally, blows aimed at livers, groins, kidneys and nose. A
friend is hit repeatedly on the head by a stone until he passes out
in a flood of blood.
Finally when the police van does come in it is this vandals who are
raging and ranting, claiming to be true "sons of the Kannadiga soil",
and we are positioned to be the villainous outsiders, bleeding,
outraged. How do the cops believe them, especially seeing the bloody
faces of our men and the violated rage of our women, while they carry
nary a scratch on their bodies? Don't ask me! Yet, it is us who these
goondas urge the newly arrived law-keepers to arrest, and the police
promptly comply, and we are bundled into the van, some still being
beaten as we are pushed in. Some blessed relief from pain inside the
police van at least, even if we are inside and the real goons
outside, driving alongside in their spanking white Audi. The guy who
was hit by the stone is taken separately by the women to Mallya
hospital.
Inside the police station at Cubbon Park it becomes clear that these
goons and the police know each other by their first names. The
policeman in charge (Thimmappa) initially refuses to even register
any complaint from me, on the purported grounds that I am not fluent
in Kannada and I have taken a few drinks (3 Kingfisher pints, to be
precise) over the evening. No, it doesn't matter that I didn't have
my car and was not driving, and no, it doesn't mater that the
complaint will be written in English. We watch them and the goons
exchange smiles and nods with our our bloodied and swelling eyes and
realize in our pain-clouded still-in-shock brains the extent of truth
in the claim of one of the main goons when he claimed earlier in the
evening in virulent aggression: we own this town, this car belongs to
an MLA, we will see how you return to this street!!
This was the turning point of the saga, I guess. For we refused to
lie down quietly and be victims.
One of our girls, a vintage and proud Bangalorean who is running one
of the town's most successful organic farming initiatives, took upon
herself to write the complaint, when I was not allowed to write the
same. Another Bangalore girl, a state director of a global NGO firm,
wrote the other molestation complaint separately on behalf of all the
girls. Some of us called our friends in the media and corporate
world. Everyone stepped up. And even when the odds were down and we
were out, we did not give up, and as a singular body of violated
citizens we spoke in one voice of courage and indomitable spirit.
That voice had no limitation of language, not Kannada, nor English,
or Hindi. It was the voice of human spirit that cannot be broken.
And in the face of that spirit, for the first time, we saw the ugly
visage of vandalism, hiding behind the thin and inadequate veil of
political corrupt power, narrow-vision regionalism and self-serving
morality, start to wilt.
Of course nothing much happened to them, nor did we expect it. They
were supposed to be in lock up for at least the weekend till they
were produced in court, but we understand that they were quickly
released on (anticipatory?) bail. The car, purportedly belonging to
an MLA, also does not figure in the FIR, apparently for reasons
of "irrelevance to the case".The media also have given us fantastic
coverage and support so far, strengthening the cause.
Is this the end of this saga? Probably not. Are these women, more
precious to us as friends and wives than most things in our lives,
safe to walk or drive down Brigade Road from now on or are the goonda
elements, slighted by this arrest and disgrace, are lying in ambush,
waiting, biding their time to cause some of us more grievous harm? We
don't know. Is there reason for us to remain apprehensive of future
attacks and victimization? Perhaps.
We stood up.
It is the people who make this city, this country, this world. It is
you and I, as much as the terrorists inside and outside. And in our
small insignificant little ways, it is my responsibility and yours to
not shirk from investing effort – not just lip service or any token
attempt, but real effort – in backing up what we ourselves believe
in. It is so easy to logically argue that everything is corrupt,
nothing is worth it, there are so many risks involved. We must not
fall trap to this escapist trend. We must not fail to try.
Next time you feel outraged, violated, abused, don't let it go by and
add up to your list of litanies and complaints. Stand up and take it
to the limit - at least your own limit. Not in the same way as they
wrong you, but in the way that every citizen, at least in theory, is
entitled to complain and protest. Do not let the hooligans power rant
scare you or prompt you into submission. Do not allow the corrupt cop
make you give up trying. Carry the flame forward. Try harder.
Forward this note to everyone you want to be made aware of this. Post
it in your own blogs. Talk about it amongst your circles. And if
anyone of you should like to step forward with a word of empathy or
advise, talk to me. Comment.