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Nina Power
W H AT D O M E N W A N T ?
Introduction
Nina Power is a writer and philosopher. She has written regularly for
the Telegraph, Art Review and Spectator, amongst other
publications. She is the author of One-Dimensional Woman (Zer0,
2009), which the New Statesman called ‘a joy to read’.
By the Same Author
Jack, on Twitter1
Why did I write this book? Partly because I have been personally
and politically disturbed by the divisions created by media and
technology between men and women in my own lifetime. Partly
because I feel that men and women have had their lives reduced to
generalizations by a media that loves sweeping claims; I think that
these claims don’t accord in the slightest with the complex reality of
our lives. It has become very easy to speak cynically and
dismissively of a group of people on the basis of taking minor
examples and acting as if they apply to everyone included. There
are, furthermore, in the current understanding of the world, some
groups one is ‘allowed’ to denigrate, and others it is forbidden to
criticize. The most oppressed groups according to today’s logic are
those that suffer, or have suffered in the past, by virtue of their
identity. Those who want to make the world a better place – and
who doesn’t? – if they are not themselves members of oppressed
groups are encouraged to be ‘allies’ to these groups, be they trans
women, the descendants of enslaved people, or other people
marked by poor treatment. And why shouldn’t there be a historical
shift in who receives preferential treatment?
The problem comes when there is, in effect, according to this
schema, the implicit idea of a finite (or small) amount of suffering.
That there is only enough sympathy to go round for whichever
group is deemed to deserve it in the present moment. This
quantitative image of pain would mean that some people do not
suffer even when they do, which is to say, their suffering does not
count for anything. So men, to take the theme of this book, cannot
truly suffer, even when they do, because their suffering is not as real
or important as the suffering of others.
At the same time, there is a strong moral strain in some of today’s
politics, which may not only be misplaced, but, in actuality, actively
dangerous. There can exist a kind of cruelty when one is convinced
that one is behaving in the name of the ‘good’, that is to say, when
one believes one is helping those who should be helped. As
philosopher Judith Shklar puts it:
July 14th.—At six o’clock this morning the steamer arrived at the
wharf under the walls of Fortress Monroe, which presented a very
different appearance from the quiet of its aspect when first I saw it,
some months ago. Camps spread around it, the parapets lined with
sentries, guns looking out towards the land, lighters and steamers
alongside the wharf, a strong guard at the end of the pier, passes to
be scrutinised and permits to be given. I landed with the members of
the Sanitary Commission, and repaired to a very large pile of
buildings, called “The Hygeia Hotel,” for once on a time Fortress
Monroe was looked upon as the resort of the sickly, who required
bracing air and an abundance of oysters; it is now occupied by the
wounded in the several actions and skirmishes which have taken
place, particularly at Bethel; and it is so densely crowded that we
had difficulty in procuring the use of some small dirty rooms to dress
in. As the business of the Commission was principally directed to
ascertain the state of the hospitals, they considered it necessary in
the first instance to visit General Butler, the commander of the post,
who has been recommending himself to the Federal Government by
his activity ever since he came down to Baltimore, and the whole
body marched to the fort, crossing the drawbridge after some parley
with the guard, and received permission, on the production of
passes, to enter the court.
The interior of the work covers a space of about seven or eight
acres, as far as I could judge, and is laid out with some degree of
taste; rows of fine trees border the walks through the grass plots; the
officers’ quarters, neat and snug, are surrounded with little patches
of flowers, and covered with creepers. All order and neatness,
however, were fast disappearing beneath the tramp of mailed feet,
for at least 1200 men had pitched their tents inside the place. We
sent in our names to the General, who lives in a detached house
close to the sea face of the fort, and sat down on a bench under the
shade of some trees, to avoid the excessive heat of the sun until the
commander of the place could receive the Commissioners. He was
evidently in no great hurry to do so. In about half an hour an aide-de-
camp came out to say that the General was getting up, and that he
would see us after breakfast. Some of the Commissioners, from
purely sanitary considerations, would have been much better
pleased to have seen him at breakfast, as they had only partaken of
a very light meal on board the steamer at five o’clock in the morning;
but we were interested meantime by the morning parade of a portion
of the garrison, consisting of 300 regulars, a Massachusetts’
volunteer battalion, and the 2nd New York Regiment.
It was quite refreshing to the eye to see the cleanliness of the
regulars—their white gloves and belts, and polished buttons,
contrasted with the slovenly aspect of the volunteers; but, as far as
the material went, the volunteers had by far the best of the
comparison. The civilians who were with me did not pay much
attention to the regulars, and evidently preferred the volunteers,
although they could not be insensible to the magnificent drum-major
who led the band of the regulars. Presently General Butler came out
of his quarters, and walked down the lines, followed by a few
officers. He is a stout, middle-aged man, strongly built, with coarse
limbs, his features indicative of great shrewdness and craft, his
forehead high, the elevation being in some degree due perhaps to
the want of hair; with a strong obliquity of vision, which may perhaps
have been caused by an injury, as the eyelid hangs with a peculiar
droop over the organ.
The General, whose manner is quick, decided, and abrupt, but not
at all rude or unpleasant, at once acceded to the wishes of the
Sanitary Commissioners, and expressed his desire to make my stay
at the fort as agreeable and useful as he could. “You can first visit
the hospitals in company with these gentlemen, and then come over
with me to our camp, where I will show you everything that is to be
seen. I have ordered a steamer to be in readiness to take you to
Newport News.” He speaks rapidly, and either affects or possesses
great decision. The Commissioners accordingly proceeded to make
the most of their time in visiting the Hygeia Hotel, being
accompanied by the medical officers of the garrison.
The rooms, but a short time ago occupied by the fair ladies of
Virginia, when they came down to enjoy the sea breezes, were now
crowded with Federal soldiers, many of them suffering from the loss
of limb or serious wounds, others from the worst form of camp
disease. I enjoyed a small national triumph over Dr. Bellows, the
chief of the Commissioners, who is of the “sangre azul” of
Yankeeism, by which I mean that he is a believer, not in the
perfectibility, but in the absolute perfection, of New England nature,
which is the only human nature that is not utterly lost and abandoned
—Old England nature, perhaps, being the worst of all. We had been
speaking to the wounded men in several rooms, and found most of
them either in the listless condition consequent upon exhaustion, or
with that anxious air which is often observable on the faces of the
wounded when strangers approach. At last we came into a room in
which two soldiers were sitting up, the first we had seen, reading the
newspapers. Dr. Bellows asked where they came from; one was
from Concord, the other from Newhaven. “You see, Mr. Russell,” said
Dr. Bellows, “how our Yankee soldiers spend their time. I knew at
once they were Americans when I saw them reading newspapers.”
One of them had his hand shattered by a bullet, the other was
suffering from a gun-shot wound through the body. “Where were you
hit?” I inquired of the first. “Well,” he said, “I guess my rifle went off
when I was cleaning it in camp.” “Were you wounded at Bethel?” I
asked of the second. “No, sir,” he replied; “I got this wound from a
comrade, who discharged his piece by accident in one of the tents
as I was standing outside.” “So,” said I, to Dr. Bellows, “whilst the
Britishers and Germans are engaged with the enemy, you Americans
employ your time shooting each other!”
These men were true mercenaries, for they were fighting for
money—I mean the strangers. One poor fellow from Devonshire
said, as he pointed to his stump, “I wish I had lost it for the sake of
the old island, sir,” paraphrasing Sarsfield’s exclamation as he lay
dying on the field. The Americans were fighting for the combined
excellences and strength of the States of New England, and of the
rest of the Federal power over the Confederates, for they could not
in their heart of hearts believe the Old Union could be restored by
force of arms. Lovers may quarrel and may reunite, but if a blow is
struck there is no redintegratio amoris possible again. The
newspapers and illustrated periodicals which they read were the
pabulum that fed the flames of patriotism incessantly. Such capacity
for enormous lying, both in creation and absorption, the world never
heard. Sufficient for the hour is the falsehood.
There were lady nurses in attendance on the patients; who
followed—let us believe, as I do, out of some higher motive than the
mere desire of human praise—the example of Miss Nightingale. I
loitered behind in the rooms, asking many questions respecting the
nationality of the men, in which the members of the Sanitary
Commission took no interest, and I was just turning into one near the
corner of the passage when I was stopped by a loud smack. A young
Scotchman was dividing his attention between a basin of soup and a
demure young lady from Philadelphia, who was feeding him with a
spoon, his only arm being engaged in holding her round the waist, in
order to prevent her being tired, I presume. Miss Rachel, or
Deborah, had a pair of very pretty blue eyes, but they flashed very
angrily from under her trim little cap at the unwitting intruder, and
then she said, in severest tones, “Will you take your medicine, or
not?” Sandy smiled, and pretended to be very penitent.
When we returned with the doctors from our inspection we walked
round the parapets of the fortress, why so called I know not, because
it is merely a fort. The guns and mortars are old-fashioned and
heavy, with the exception of some new-fashioned and very heavy
Columbiads, which are cast-iron 8-, 10-, and 12-inch guns, in which I
have no faith whatever. The armament is not sufficiently powerful to
prevent its interior being searched out by the long range fire of ships
with rifle guns, or mortar boats; but it would require closer and harder
work to breach the masses of brick and masonry which constitute
the parapets and casemates. The guns, carriages, rammers, shot,
were dirty, rusty, and neglected; but General Butler told me he was
busy polishing up things about the fortress as fast as he could.
Whilst we were parading these hot walls in the sunshine, my
companions were discussing the question of ancestry. It appears
your New Englander is very proud of his English descent from good
blood, and it is one of their isms in the Yankee States that they are
the salt of the British people and the true aristocracy of blood and
family, whereas we in the isles retain but a paltry share of the blue
blood defiled by incessant infiltrations of the muddy fluid of the outer
world. This may be new to us Britishers, but is a Q. E. D. If a
gentleman left Europe 200 years ago, and settled with his kin and
kith, intermarrying his children with their equals, and thus
perpetuating an ancient family, it is evident he may be regarded as
the founder of a much more honourable dynasty than the relative
who remained behind him, and lost the old family place, and sunk
into obscurity. A singular illustration of the tendency to make much of
themselves may be found in the fact, that New England swarms with
genealogical societies and bodies of antiquaries, who delight in
reading papers about each other’s ancestors, and tracing their
descent from Norman or Saxon barons and earls. The Virginians
opposite, who are flouting us with their Confederate flag from
Sewall’s Point, are equally given to the “genus et proavos.”
At the end of our promenade round the ramparts, Lieutenant
Butler, the General’s nephew and aide-de-camp, came to tell us the
boat was ready, and we met His Excellency in the court-yard,
whence we walked down to the wharf. On our way, General Butler
called my attention to an enormous heap of hollow iron lying on the
sand, which was the Union gun that is intended to throw a shot of
some 350 lbs. weight or more, to astonish the Confederates at
Sewall’s Point opposite, when it is mounted. This gun, if I mistake
not, was made after the designs of Captain Rodman, of the United