Masochism in The Mental Life of Women
Masochism in The Mental Life of Women
Masochism in The Mental Life of Women
PART I
• FEMININE' MASOCmSM AND ITS RELATION TO FRIGIDITY.1
In the analysis of women we became familiar with the masculinity-
complex before we learnt much about the •femininity' which emerges
from the conflicts accompanying development. The reasons for this
later recognition were various. First of all, analysis comes to know
the human mind in its discords rather than in its harmonies, and, when
we turn the microscope of observation upon the woman, we see with
special distinctness that the main source of her conflicts is the mascu-
linity which she is destined to subdue. It followed that we were able
to recognize the • masculine' element in women earlier and more
clearly than what we may term the nucleus of their • femininity'.
Paradoxical as it may sound, we approached the feminine element
with greater interest when it formed part of a pathological structure
and, as a foreign body, attracted a closer attention. When we
encountered in men that instinctual disposition which we designate
feminine and passive-masochistic, we recognized its origin and the
weighty consequences it entailed. In the case of women we discovered
that, even in the most feminine manifestations of their life-men-
struation, conception, pregnancy and parturition-they had a constant
struggle with the never wholly effaced evidences of the bisexuality of
their nature. Hence, in my earlier writings 2 I shewed with what
elemental force the masculinity-complex flares up in the female repro-
ductive functions, to be once more subdued.
My aim in this paper is different. I want to examine the genesisof
. femininity', by which I mean the feminine, passive-masochistic
disposition in the mental life of women. In particular I shall try to
elucidate the relation of the function of feminine instinct to the func-
tion of reproduction, in order that we may first of all clarify our ideas
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Another way in which the girl regularly tries to account for the loss
is by ascribing the blame for it to her mother. It is interesting to note
that, when the father is blamed for the little girl's lack of a penis,
castration by him has already acquired the libidinal significance
attaching to this idea in the form of the rape-phantasy. Rejection of
the wish that the father should have been the aggressor generally
betokens, even at this early stage, that rejection of the infantile feminine
attitude to which I shall recur.
In his paper t Some Consequences of the Anatomical Difference
between the Sexes', Freud sees in the turning of the little girl to her
father as a sexual object a direct consequence of this anatomical
difference. In Freud's view, development from the castration to the
<Edipus complex consists in the passing from the narcissistic wound of
ment in this paper of Freud's is that the ffidipus complex does not develop
in girls until after the phase of phallic onanism. Cf. also Deutsch: Op. cit.
t In his paper on ' The Economic Problem in Masochism' (Collected
Papers, Vol. II), Freud points out that the important task of the libido
is to conduct into the outside world the instinct of destruction primarily
inherent in living beings, transforming it into the' instinct of mastery ',
This is effected by means of the organ of motility, the muscular system.
It appears to me that part of these destructive tendencies remains attached
to the subject's own person in the earliest form of masturbation, which has
as yet no libidinal object, andthat it is thus intercalated between organic
pleasure and motor discharge into the outside world. At any rate I have
been able with some degree of certainty to establish the fact that children
who are specially aggressive and active have a particularly strong urge to
masturbation. (I am speaking here of the earliest masturbation, which
is as yet autoerotic). We see too that in little children frustration may
provoke an outburst of rage and at the same time attempts at mastur-
bation.
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angel". I clearly saw that they were obstetrical forceps, but I had the
feeling that the instrument was to be used to fore- my legs apart and
display the clitoris. I was very much frightened and struggled. A
number of people, amongst them you and a trained nurse. were stand-
ing by and were indignant at my struggling. They thought that Pr0-
fessor X. had specially chosen me for a kind of experiment, and that I
ought to submit to it. As everyone was against me, I cried out in
impotent fury: No, I will not be operated on, you shall not operate
onme " . . II
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Without examining the dream more closely here, we can see in its
manifest content that castration is identified with rape and parturition,
and the dream-wish which excites anxiety is as follows: 'I want to be
castrated (raped) by my father and to have a child '-a three-fold wish
of a plainly masochistic character.
The first, infantile identification with the mother is always, inde-
pendently of the complicated processes and reactions belonging to the
sense of guilt, masochistic, and all the active birth-phantasies, whose
roots lie in this identification, are of a bloody, painful character, which
they retain throughout the subject's life. 7
In order to make my views on frigidity intelligible I had to
preface. them with these theoretical considerations.
I will now pass on to discuss those forms of frigidity which bear the
stamp of the masculinity-complex or penis-envy. In these cases the
woman persists in the original demand for possession of a penis and
refuses to abandon the phallic organization. Conversion to the
feminine-passive attitude, the necessary condition of vaginal sensation,
does not take place.
Let me mention briefly the danger of the strong attachment of all
sexual phantasies to clitoris-masturbation. I think I have made it
clear that the clitoris has come to be the executive organ, not only of
active but of passive masochistic phantasies. By virtue of its past
phase of masculine activity, a kind of organ-memory constitutes it the
great enemy of any transference of pleasure-excitation to the vagina.
Moreover, the fact that the whole body receives an increased cathexis of
libido (since it has failed to find its focus) brings it about that, in spite
of an often very vehement manifestation of the sexual instinct, the
libido never attains to its centralized fonn of gratification.
In far the largest number of cases, feminine sexual inhibition arises
out of the vicissitudes of that infantile-masochistic libidinal develop-
men which I have postulated. These vicissitudes are manifold, and
every form they assume may lead to frigidity. For instance, as a
result of the repression of the masochistic tendencies a strong nar-
cissistic cathexis of the feminine ego may be observed. The ego feels
that it is threatened by these tendencies, and takes up a narcissistic
7 In the second section of this paper I will revert to the part that the
sense of guilt plays in feminine masochistic phantasies. In the present
argument I am indicating the purely libidinal origin of feminine maso-
chism, as determined by the course of evolution.
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she has given a very illuminating description. This flight from the
incest-wish is, in my view, a shunning not only of the incestuous object
(Horney), but most of all of the masochistic dangers threatening the
ego which are associated with the relation to this object. Escape into
identification with the father is at the same time a flight from the
masochistically determined identification with the mother. Thus
there arises the masculinity-complex, which I think will be strong and
disturbing in proportion as penis-envy has been intense and the
primary phallic active tendencies vigorous.
Repression of the masochistic instinctual tendencies may have
another result in determining a particular type of object-choice later in
life. . The object stands in antithesis to the masochistic instinctual
demands and corresponds to the requirements of the ego. In accord-
ance with these the woman chooses a partner whose social standing is
high or whose intellectual gifts are above the average, often a man
whose disposition is rather of an afIectionateand passive type. The
marriage then appears to be peaceful and happy, but the woman
remains frigid, suffering from an unsatisfied longing-the type of the
I misunderstood wife'. Her sexual sensibility is bound up with con-
ditions whose fulfilment is highly offensive to her ego. How often do
such women become the wretched victims of a passion for men who
ill-treat them, thus fulfilling the women's unconscious desires for cas-
tration or rape.
I have also observed how frequently-indeed, almost invariably-
women whose whole life is modelled on the lines of masculine sublima-
tion-tendencies are markedly masochistic in their sexual experiences.
They belong to that reactive masculine type which yet has failed to
repress its original masochistic instinctual attitude. My experience is
that the prospect of cure in these cases of relative frigidity, in which
sexual sensation depends on the fulfilment of masochistic conditions,
is very uncertain. It is peculiarly difficult to detach these patients
from the said conditions and, when analysis has given them the neces-
sary insight, they have consciously to choose between finding bliss in
suffering or peace in renunciation.
The analyst's most important task is, of course, the abolition of the
sexual inhibition in his patients, and the attainment of instinctual
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body, are more accessible to sexual excitation than is the vagina, the
organ apparently destined for it. But conversion-symptoms tum out
to be the seat of false sexual cathexes, Behind the hysterical. pleasure-
inhibiting, genital anxiety we discover the masochistic triad: castra-
tion, rape and parturition. The fixation of these wish-phantasies to
the infantile object here becomes, as we know, the motive factor in
the neuroses. If this attachment is resolved by analysis, sexual
sensibility as a rule develops.
In touching briefly on the question of frigidity accompanying
phobias and obsessions, mention must be made of the remarkable fact
that in these cases the sexual disturbance is emphatically not in direct
ratio to the severity of the neurosis, There are patients who remain
frigid long after they have overcome their anxiety, and even after they
have got rid of the most severe obsessionalsymptoms, and the converse
is also true. The uncertainty of obsessionalneurosis-in so far as the
genital capacity of female patients is concerned-is most plainly
manifested in certain cases (several of which have come under my
observation) in which the most violent orgasm may result from hostile
masculine identifications. The vagina behaves like an active organ,
and the particularly brisk secretion is designed to imitate ejaculation.
At the beginning of this paper I endeavoured to show that the
masochistic triad constantly encountered in the analyses of women
corresponds to a definite phase of feminine libidinal development and
represents, so to speak, the last act in the drama of the vicissitudes of
the' feminine castration-complex '. In neurotic diseases, however,
we meet above all with the reactions of the sense of guilt, and hence we
find this primary-libidinal feminine masochism already so closely
interwoven and interlocked with the moral masochism, originating
under pressure of the sense of guilt, that we miss the significance of that
which is in origin libidinal. Thus many obscure points in connection
with the feminine castration-complex become clearer if we recognize
that, behind the castration-anxiety, there is further the repressed
masochistic wish characteristic of a definite infantile phase of develop-
ment in the normal feminine libido.
The task of psycho-analysisis to resolvethe conflicts of the individual
existence. The instinctual life of the individual, which is the object of
analytical scrutiny, strives towards the ultimate goal, amidst con-
flicts and strange vicissitudes, of attainment of pleasure. The preserva-
tion of the race lies outside these aims,and, if there be a deeper sig-
nificance in the fact that the same means are employed to achieve
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If it is true that men derive the principal forces which make for sub-
limation from their sadistic tendencies, then it is equally true that
women draw on the masochistic tendencies with their imprint of
maternity. In spite of this symbiosis, the two opposite poles, the
sexual instinct and the reproductive function, may enter into conflict
with one another. When this occurs, the danger is the greater in pro-
portion as the two groups of tendencies are in close proximity.
Thus, a woman may .commandeer the whole of her masochistic
instinctual energy for the purpose of direct gratification and abandon
sublimation in the function of reproduction. In the relation of the
prostitute to the souteneu, we have such an unadulterated product of
the feminine masochistic instinctual attitude.
At the opposite end of the.pole, yet drawing upon the same source,
we have the mate, dolorosa, the whole of whose masochism has come
to reside in the relation of mother to child.
From this point I return to my original theme. There is a group
of women who constitute the main body figuring in the statistics
which give the large percentage of frigidity. The women in question
are psychically healthy, and their relation to the world and to their
libidinal object is positive and friendly. If questioned about the
nature of their experience in coitus, they give answers which show
that the conception of orgasm as something to be experienced by
themselves is really and truly foreign to them. During intercourse
what they feel is a happy and tender sense that they are giving keen
pleasure and, if they do not come of a social environment where they
have acquired full sexual enlightenment, they are convinced that coitus
as a sexual act is of importance only for the man. In it, as in other
relations, the woman finds happiness in tender, maternal giving.
This type of woman is dying out and the modern woman seems to
be neurotic if she is frigid. Her sublimations are further removed
from instinct and therefore, while on the one hand they constitute a
lesser menace to its direct aims, they are, on the other, less well adapted
for the indirect gratification of its demands. I think that this psycho-
logical change is in accordance with social developments and that it is
accompanied by an increasing tendency of women towards masculinity.
Perhaps the women of the next generation will no longer submit to
defloration in the normal way and will give birth to children only
on condition of freedom from pain.
And then in after-generations they may resort to infibulation and
to refinements in the way of pain-s-ceremonials in connection with
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