The Psychoanalysis of Symptoms Henry Kellerman PH D Auth
The Psychoanalysis of Symptoms Henry Kellerman PH D Auth
The Psychoanalysis of Symptoms Henry Kellerman PH D Auth
The Psychoanalysis
of Symptoms
Henry Kellerman, Ph. D.
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Preface
Prevailing wisdom in the clinical arena has had it that each psychological symp-
tom is a separate lock requiring its correspondingly unique key. Thus, it has been
thought with respect to symptoms, that there are an infinite number of locks and a
correspondingly infinite number of keys. Further, the psychoanalytic sense of it is
that each symptom needs to be assessed, analyzed, and approached with reference
to the unique experience of the patient and the patient’s history; among other fac-
tors, also in terms of psychosexual conflict, and ego-strength. Given this position,
it also has been felt that no single procedure, or code could be developed to
address all symptoms of all patients as though, as an analogy, one lock and one
key could apply to every symptom.
In this sense, there has been scarcely any attempt to derive a universal code that
would address all symptoms with respect to the formation and structure of the
symptom, regardless of the patient’s particular experience and psychological his-
tory. In this volume, however, with only a few qualifications, I will present a sin-
gle universal code to unlock any and all specifically defined psychological
symptoms. I will present a system and procedure–a blueprint–with which to do it.
One key.
Further, this procedure will be guided entirely by a set of propositions and
axioms regarding each step in the unlocking of any symptom. The only qualifying
conditions to this promise of presenting such a universal key for the unlocking of
“any symptom,” are these:
1. The symptom has not entirely radiated the person in terms of a psychotically
deeply engraved pathology, which can best or even only be alleviated with
medication.
2. The symptom has not been characteristic of the person for the major part of
that person’s life. It is not, in other words a chronic condition.
3. The symptom is not a chronically entrenched somatized one.
4. The symptom is not a function of a physiological problem, an organic brain
syndrome, or genetic anomaly.
5. The symptom is not one of recent onset due to extreme trauma and based upon
a profound sense of helplessness regarding the trauma, in which an implosion
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of rage, unconscious though it may have been, has been chaotically scattered as
rage-debris throughout the psyche.
6. The symptom is not a function of a less than normally resilient ego that would
in turn generate a thin stimulus-barrier ultimately resulting in an exaggerated
response to untoward or intense stimuli.
Other than such encrusted, overly ego-susceptible, somatically or organically
based, and deeply etched pathological symptoms, all others are subject to an
unlocking by this one master key.
That there are two classes of symptoms is clinically evident. The class of symp-
toms not easily treated, and quite resistant to psychotherapy, are those that swallow
the person whole so that he or she, in a sense becomes the symptom. In contrast,
the class of symptoms that indeed, is more easily subject to psychotherapy
includes those that remain only as an aspect, an alien facet of the
personality–seemingly outside of the personality.
Alleviation of emotional-psychological symptoms and symptom-cure is what
we want to do. I have long believed that what psychoanalysts and psychothera-
pists accomplish has nothing to do with cure. The notion of cure regarding the
psychoanalytic or psychotherapeutic endeavor misses the point. Life cannot be
cured. The best we can do is to offer the patient the ability to develop tools with
which to struggle, and to struggle better. No more, no less.
However, the only cure we do achieve, is with symptoms. This, despite the fact
that there is no legacy either from Freud or anyone else that details a specific
procedure or blueprint that we can use to proceed, in order to cure those
symptoms that are subject to the talking cure in the same manner, and from a
specific knowledge base, so that no matter the symptom, we can apply this
template, penetrate the symptom, and cure it.
In this volume, as I’ve stated, a blueprint will be presented that forms the
equation necessary to indeed penetrate the symptom and erase it, dissolve it, and
cure it–eliminate it forever.
I believe it needs to be remembered that a useful theory is one that works best
empirically. Framing it in more universal scientific terms, the most useful, or
most powerful theory, is the one that can explain the widest array of phenomena
with respect to the fewest number of variables.
One master key.
Table of Contents
Preface . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . vii
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4 1. History of Symptom Psychology
the pleasure principle, that this self-same psyche regards the wish as an impera-
tive, and as such, does an undeniable, almost mathematical dance, a contortion of
sorts, to get the wish represented, gratified– in the extreme form of a seemingly
incomprehensible symptom.
Other Authors
Many other authors have considered symptoms in general terms, restated Freud’s
psychoanalytic position regarding the etiology of symptoms, attempted to further
understand the structure of the symptom, or suggested ways of elucidating vari-
ous specific facets of the symptom or of its formation (Alexander, 1950; Arlow,
1969; Brenner, 1973; Deutsch, 1953; Fenichel, 1945; Greenacre, 1958; Josephs,
1992; Kellerman, 1987; Luborsky, 1996; Rangell, 1959; and Seligman, 1975).
Brenner (1973) validated Freud by pointing to the importance of defense as a
way of keeping an equilibrium in the psyche. This equilibrium acts as an ego adap-
tation to the stress of the drives. The symptom, therefore, is seen to be a result of a
failure of ego defenses. Brenner wrote that as the conflict between the ego and id
intensifies, defenses of identification, regression, and sublimation, are utilized to
further control the drives. Yet, when drives threaten to break through–to emerge into
consciousness–and correspondingly, when defenses are deemed insufficient to sus-
tain an equilibrium of the psyche, the ego then struggles to create a compromise.
This compromise, of course, is the psychoneurotic symptom. Brenner further
concurred with Freud by noticing the similarity of the symptom to the manifest
dream; that is, the descriptive story line of the dream. As such, and just as in a
dream, a wish on the part of the subject is of primary importance in the momentum
toward the formation of the actual dream, just as the wish is of primary importance
in the formation of the symptom. In order to be understood, the manifest dream
must be unfolded into its latent products through an analysis of the dream mecha-
nisms of condensation, symbolization, displacement, and secondary elaboration. So
too, is the implication that the symptom needs to be unfolded by a process that
utilizes mechanisms that have psychologically evolved to address the intrinsic
structure of the symptom. For example, in the dream, these dream mechanisms are
considered to do the following: two or more elements are condensed into one, hence
condensation; one thing can represent another, hence symbolization; one thing can
be transposed to another, hence displacement; and, elaborations can be made that
coalesce the various and sundry sense impressions, images, thoughts, and feelings,
into a more coherent story, hence secondary elaboration.
The Freudian notion of the parallel between the manifest dream and the psy-
choneurotic symptom begs to be compared in the same manner. What are the
mechanisms that are brought to bear on the Freudian precept of the ego-id con-
flict where the person’s psychological experience was incubated in the first place,
resulting in the appearance of the symptom? The question arises as to whether
such symptom mechanisms may be identified and defined so that an X ray of the
symptom as constituted, showing its structure, the location of the wish, how the
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wish is transformed into the symptom, and so on, could be developed. This would
comprise an analysis of the infrastructure of the symptom, and, in essence, would
constitute the psychoanalysis of symptoms.
Identifying the wish is of central importance with respect to this X ray of the
psyche. Brenner (1973), stated:
As seen from the side of the id, a psychoneurotic symptom is a substitute gratification
for otherwise repressed wishes. As seen from the side of the ego, it is an eruption into
consciousness of dangerous and unwanted wishes whose gratification can be only partly
checked or prevented, but it is at least preferable to, and less pleasurable than, the emer-
gence of those wishes in their original form. (p. 189).
In this sense, thus far in the theoretical investigation of the structure of the
symptom, we can see that the wish, defense mechanisms, and instinctual drives
form a primary Freudian focus in understanding how the symptom is formed.
Then, by way of extrapolation, we may wonder whether it would be possible,
through a series of axioms, to know how to systematically unravel the symptom,
dissolve it, or, even hold it in abeyance, so that we may reconstitute the original
wish that the symptom is ostensibly representing as well as concealing. In doing
this unraveling, the issue of anxiety as it relates to symptom formation needs to be
examined. In addition, it is proposed here that the assumption of repressed wishes
as unpleasurable products of the psyche may need to be reexamined.
Anxiety
It should be remembered that from a Freudian psychoanalytic perspective (Freud,
1905/1953), the symptom derives from a series of events, a process, that is taking
place outside of the ego, so that in its formation, the symptom removes the ego
from danger. Freud posited that the ego becomes more and more helpless in the
face of increasing instinctual demand. A point to be discussed later concerns
the issue of anxiety itself as a symptom and what this implies. Regarding the
importance or place of anxiety in symptom formation, Luborsky (1996) stated
that anxiety is the original reaction to helplessness. The symptom then becomes
the first way to cope with this helplessness.
The entire issue of helplessness and anxiety, is of special importance in under-
standing symptom formation, and Luborsky’s reference to it permits us to include
issues of helplessness and anxiety to the expanding list of salient concepts that
will need even further elaboration to enable us to penetrate the symptom. Such a
list would now include: the wish; defense mechanisms; instinctual drives; anxi-
ety; and, helplessness. In fact, Luborsky stated: “Wherever symptoms appear,
helplessness appears before it; whenever helplessness has appeared, symptoms
occasionally follow it” (p. 370). Luborsky also stated: . . . . .“after the symptom
appears degree of helplessness and of anxiety lessens.”
As proposed, and whether intended or not, Luborsky’s formulations are basi-
cally framed as axioms. Luborsky continued to assess the relationship between
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anxiety and symptoms by positing that with the symptom present, anxiety is
better bound and thus yields a primary gain for the subject. The subject, however,
also attracts help from others and thereby creates a secondary gain. The case is
also made by Luborsky that, “signal anxiety exists before the symptom appears in
an amount just sufficient to announce that a danger situation is about to appear”
(p.369). On the face of it, it would also seem that anxiety and helplessness are
related, and that they are related in the overall puzzle of symptom formation and
possibly by implication, symptom cure.
The helplessness variable is also referred to by Engel and Schmale (1967), who
point to what they call a “giving-up/given-up” complex. This is a nonspecific
presymptomatic state. It contains a cluster of tendencies and characteristics
including: a lessening of control and a lessening of a sense of security, helpless-
ness and hopelessness, less certainty of one’s perceptions of the environment and
of past experience, and a clouding of differentiation between past and future.
Seligman (1975), concurred, insofar as negative events lead to pessimism in the
subject and then to vulnerability to symptoms, especially to the increase of
depression. Seligman called it “learned helplessness.” The extreme form of such
helplessness is posited in an early book by Goldstein (1939), who discussed cata-
strophic behavior as a prelude to substitute reactions such as symptoms.
psyche. Thus, there is probably not a universal wish that could be identified as
pivotal in all symptom formation. With respect to emotion, however, there are
only a limited number of basic emotions that might be implicated in all symptom
formation–an emotion other than sexuality–that may be the actual culprit.
Assuming this as a possibility, is that emotion love, fear, acceptance, disgust,
guilt, anger, joy, anxiety, or sorrow? In this volume I shall identify which it is:
One thing is quite certain–it is not sexuality or libido–repressed or not.
Themes
The capsule review in the previous chapter of the psychoanalytic concepts
involved in symptom formation reveals several components in the construction
and organization of symptoms that will now be further considered. The focus here
will be to present a series of axioms or rules regarding the symptom and the vari-
ous psychological principles embracing it, so that in the end, by understanding
these principles, and by utilizing the rules or axioms, a practitioner would be able
to systematically penetrate the conundrum of the symptom, unfold it, and cure it.
Of course, the psychoanalytic endeavor generally, is not about cure, it is only,
as noted in the Preface, about struggle. The only curing we do however, is the
curing of symptoms, despite the fact that no one has ever established any system-
atic way of doing it. In fact, there is an absence of any systematic approach to
understanding symptoms, as for example, in the absence of any course work
either in undergraduate, graduate, or even postgraduate curricula entitled “The
Psychoanalysis of Symptoms,” or “The Psychology of Symptoms.” The issue of
symptoms is usually a secondary consideration in courses on psychopathology,
or abnormal psychology. Furthermore, the nature of our theoretical repository
sources regarding an approach to symptom cure is similarly quite fragmentary. It
seems that the symptom is seen as derivative of something else, and in psychoan-
alytic education is given secondary status to a focus on the patient’s psychosexual
history, transference, resistance, neurosis, and characterological issues, that are of
primary psychoanalytic interest. This, despite the vast amount of material on
symptoms throughout Freud’s written work, as well as a considerable literature
on symptoms within psychological, psychoanalytic, and psychiatric scholarship.
It is in this sense that the focus in psychoanalysis is on process and not specifi-
cally on cure.
As noted above, through psychoanalysis, people learn to struggle better. There
is no such thing as eliminating anxiety. It is the pleasure principle that governs, so
anxiety becomes a fact of life. The pleasure principle is the fount from which every
symptom is derived. The wish for the complete absence of tension defines both the
pleasure principle and the death instinct. As a matter of fact, Freud’s notion of a
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death instinct is primarily based upon the inexorable desire to erase tension. Thus,
with respect to both the pleasure principle and the so-called death instinct, the
symptom becomes a means to manage the presence of tension–albeit neurotically
expressed tension. In addition, the wish is the steady-state product of the pleasure
principle, and reflects its stasis. In daily life, it is the wish that is most often
thwarted. Thus, it is a look at the thwarted wish–this ever present force in all
human affairs, that begins our journey into the heart of the symptom.
Luborsky (1996), is correct, each symptom, no matter how simple, complex, or
seemingly bizarre, has a context. It is proposed here that it is necessary to con-
sider both the context as well as the source of the symptom in order to begin to
understand the underpinnings of the problem. The problem, of course, concerns
the etiology of the symptom as it relates to symptom cure. In fact, it is proposed
here that the order of importance, chronologically, in the etiology of the symp-
tom, needs to consider source first, then context.
The source is the pleasure principle, and its chief representative in all human
desire and human affairs is the wish. It is the wish that is at the bottom of all
symptom formation. However, before the wish is considered, it is necessary to
define what we mean by a symptom.
The Wish
As the chief representative of the pleasure principle, the wish is the most perva-
sive, permeating force within the personality. The problem is that in life there
are too many variables that are not within anyone’s complete or sometimes,
even partial control. The upshot of such meager control of wishes is that every-
one’s daily life is continually replete with thwarted wishes, sometimes big,
sometimes small. If wishes are not fully thwarted, then they are perhaps only
partially blocked. Or, whenever the wish is indeed realized, then frequently it is
not realized to the fullest measure – and even when the wish is realized to the
fullest measure, this frequently takes place not exactly when it is wanted. Thus,
despite the fact that we are a wish-soaked species, on an earth of wish soaked-
creatures, the irony is that wishes are usually in a state of incompleteness – their
benign form, in a state of delay; in its severe form, in a deprived, fully thwarted
state.
In addition, most people find it difficult to make distinctions between important
and unimportant wishes. All wishes are treated as being more or less equally
important – no less, and urgent. Apparently, there are no small wishes in the psy-
che. With many people, the slightest frustration of a wish – minor though the wish
may be – creates the same disempowerment that the frustration of a major wish
does. Hence, the thwarting of wishes in a person can be seen to occupy an inordi-
nate amount of psychological concern.
On a practical level, the definition of civilized living, or of civilization itself,
perhaps concerns the issue of how to survive, and survive happily, in the context
of daily experience in which only simple wishes are really ever met with effi-
ciency; for example, to turn on the hot water and have it be hot–wish gratified.
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But to wish that your request for a substantial raise in salary will be efficiently
met, can usually mean disappointment.
the actual emotional culprit in the formation of symptoms. That is to say, when
the wish is thwarted, the person is angry. This raises the second question that
asks: Given the assumption that everyone is angry because of thwarted wishes,
then why is everyone angry at thwarted wishes?
Anger
The answer to this question regarding the experience of anger to thwarted wishes,
is that thwarted wishes generate feelings of disempowerment, of helplessness.
Thus, it is evident one might say, on the face of it, that even in the thwarting of
sexual wishes (sexual impulses), disempowerment and anger will be evoked. And
to Freud’s axiom that no wish will be denied, we add an axiom of our own: Anger,
or anger as a sample emotion of the aggressive drive, is the emotional reflex that
has evolved in evolution to address each and every incident of disempowerment.
The rationale for this axiom concerns the natural equilibrium all people seek.
This equilibrium concerns the issue of mastery over the immediate environment.
We want to be empowered! It feels good. Thus, when we feel disempowered, we
get angry. The question is why?
Anger is an attack emotion, and by nature, it is not shy. The essence, or we
might say, the personality of anger can be understood by the presence of a cluster
of traits that characterize its nature-a kind of personality profile of anger consisting
of an attack proclivity, an explosive potential, an aggressive drive, a confronta-
tional inclination, and an entitled frame of mind. Furthermore, and parenthetically,
these traits are all reactions to feelings of disempowerment, helplessness, or even
dependency. Of course, dependency is a special form of disempowerment or help-
lessness. For example, adolescent rebellion after all those years of dependency,
makes more sense when seen through this particular lens of dependency incubat-
ing anger. Clinically, the hard-core psychological principle is that dependency
breeds rage–all the time and in every person. Disempowerment and helplessness
also breed rage, which is the high intensity level of anger. And here is the logic and
answer to why disempowerment generates anger: To feel angry is to regain the
ascendancy and to feel empowered when one feels particularly disempowered.
And at times when there is no other way to find some empowerment, anger will be
the reflex in response to the disempowered condition because for that moment it
will be the only way to feel, at least minimally, reempowered.
Yes, anger is an empowerment, and this brings us back to the wish. In light of
the psychology of disempowerment leading to anger, the implication for a theo-
retical gradient of anger reaction, reveals itself. For example, even though in the
psyche all wishes are major, nevertheless, there exists an implicit “thwarting-
index” so that when a person’s wish is thwarted a little, then the person, in all
likelihood, generates a low level of anger, perhaps at the level of annoyance.
When the thwarted wish is experienced as moderate, then it could be predicted
that the person will generate a medium level of anger. However, when the wish is
very important to the person and then subsequently thwarted, the anger will be
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That is, all anger wants to do, is attack. That is its basic nature. Therefore, when
the anger is repressed, it can do nothing else but attack the self, the subject. It can
do nothing else. The anger when repressed therefore, takes the self, attaches to the
self, attacks the self.
This process of the target object morphing into the target-subject invokes another
principle of emotion. Now to the proposition that each basic emotion has a unidi-
mensional personality (anger, attacks; fear, flees), this must be added: In order to be
fully realized as an emotion, to be fully crystallized as an emotion, the emotion must
be targeted toward or attach itself to a person-the object. When the emotion cannot
be directed to, or cannot “take” the object, then the emotion will just hang there, in
a virtual state as it were, a condition that cannot be sustained because the emotion
will not be fully realized without it attaching itself to a person-the subject becomes
the object of the emotion. And here is the important moment. When the self, the
subject, is attacked by the repressed anger, then this moment constitutes the instant
of conception leading to the birth of the subsequent symptom.
Thus, the first step in understanding the genesis of symptom formation – and
the organization of the symptom equation formulated in this volume – concerns the
awareness that, on the face of it, the thwarted wish essentially deprives the pleasure
principle of its reward. The second step emerges from the sense of disempowerment
regarding this thwarted wish. The third step focuses on the reflex of anger as a
response to the state of disempowerment in order to gain reempowerment. The fourth
step is concerned with repression. When the anger, for whatever reason, cannot be
directed toward its intended object, a person, a “who,” repression is therefore invoked
and acts on the anger before the anger reaches consciousness. Now the anger is
repressed and unconscious. The fifth step occurs when the anger is repressed,
because accompanying the repression of the anger is the original wish that was
thwarted or denied. In this respect it should be remembered that one of Freud’s sem-
inal observations concerned his discovery that no wish will be denied. Therefore, the
wish must, through repression, accompany the anger into the unconscious. There is
no other way for the wish to be translated into the symptom if it is not, along with the
anger, subject to repression. When the criterion of repression regarding both the
anger and the wish, as material of the unconscious, is satisfied, only then is Freud’s
axiom that no wish will be denied revealed as a truth. Only then, is step 6 achieved;
that is, that the wish is realized albeit neurotically or perversely as the symptom, or
simply that the symptom appears as a symbol of the wish.
The originally denied wish therefore accompanies the anger, pressed as it were,
into the unconscious–repressed together. Another of Freud’s brilliant observa-
tions resonates here. Freud indicated that we love our symptoms, and this obser-
vation now makes sense. We love our symptoms, obviously, because symptoms
are the wishes, fully gratified, though in symbolic form.
Review of the Six Steps of Symptom Formation in Phases 1 and 2
1. A wish is thwarted.
2. The subject is disempowered.
3. The subject becomes reflexively angry as a way of becoming reempowered.
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4. If the anger cannot be directed toward its intended target–a person–then repres-
sion of the anger is invoked.
5. The original wish that was thwarted now accompanies the anger into the
unconscious.
6. So long as the anger remains unconscious it stokes the repressive furnace, out
of which emerges the symptom, which is the wish neurotically gratified in this
transformed symbolic state.
A final seventh step involving the lifting of the symptom, to be discussed
below is:
7. When the anger is made conscious, when the identified who–the person toward
whom the anger was originally intended, is revealed–then it is predicted that
the symptom will lift.
In the following section, these steps are formulated as a sequence of axioms.
Regarding Anger and Symptoms:
Where there is repressed anger not only will there be
a symptom, but there must be a symptom.
Corollary: Where there is no repressed anger, not
only will there not be a symptom, but
there cannot be a symptom.
Where there is a symptom, not only will there be
repressed anger, but there must be repressed anger.
Corollary: Where there is no symptom, not only will
there not be repressed anger, but
there there cannot be repressed anger.
Regarding the Wish:
A thwarted wish results in disempowerment feelings.
Disempowerment generates anger.
Anger that cannot be expressed directly, is repressed,
thereby creating the moment of conception of the
symptom.
In the process of repression, the wish–or rather
the symbolization of the wish–joins with the anger in
becoming unconscious.
The anger remains unconscious and acts to fuel the
transformation of the wish into the symptom. Hence,
no wish will be denied.
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The object is never a chair or a lamp. In trying to understand the symptom, one
must always look for the person toward whom the anger was originally intended–
the who.
Thus, the reaction of anger is always about a who. No emotion can just hang
there suspended in mid air, as it were. Of course there are times when the other
person, the object, is absent, or for whatever reason cannot be targeted with a direct
expression of anger. Then, the self, the subject, becomes the substitute target of the
anger–an internal target–so that as stated earlier, the object becomes the self. Thus,
the emotion still has a person to attach to–the self. This then, is the process identi-
fied as the anger attacking the self and can be stated as an axiom, as follows:
When anger cannot be directed at the object toward
whom it is intended, then the subject, the self, becomes
the target, and thus the anger is repressed, and attacks
the self.
What emerges here is the ascendancy of anger and not sexuality or libido, as the
salient variable in all symptom formation. Again, it is proposed that when libido is,
in fact, implicated in symptom formation, it is not because of any impasse in the
expression of the libido as it relates to sexuality, or because of a failure of repres-
sion, thereby permitting infantile sexual impulses to escape. Rather, it is here
suggested that the implication of sexuality in symptom formation only exists
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because due to sexual impasses, failures, or frustrations, the subject becomes dis-
empowered and fundamentally angry about it. Then because of the potential
repression of the anger, a symptom will potentially appear. Clearly, in this formu-
lation it is the anger and not the sexual impulse that is at the core of symptom for-
mation.
Any symptom will be challenged more decisively, if after the who is identified
and the anger toward this object, this who, becomes unrepressed, and if then the
subject becomes actively involved in facing some aspect of the original
problem–that is, the circumstance that involved the subject with the object in the
first place (the symptom context)–then that kind of “doing” implementation will,
in all likelihood, raise the probability of more decisively erasing the symptom.
The axiom is:
When the anger toward the who is made conscious,
then the symptom will become challenged or even lift.
To further reinforce and fortify the cure of the symp-
tom, some doing activity, some implementation, needs
to take place involving the original symptom-context
condition that first led to the need for the symptom.
in the first place. Instead of being consciously expressed to this who, the anger,
along with its connection to this who, then becomes repressed.
Implication
In this way, the transformed wish into the symptom satisfies Freud’s discovery
that in the psyche no wish will be denied – so that since the symptom is the wish
(albeit in perverse or neurotic form), then indeed, we all love our symptoms
(including those that are unpleasant or even painful), because they are informed in
the unconscious as gratified wishes.
Chapter 4
On Wishes, Symptoms, and Withdrawal
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positive wish and relieving symptom, or indirect wish and painful symptom, the
subject falls in love with the symptom, because, as discussed previously, the
symptom is the wish satisfied, albeit in perverse or neurotic form, regardless of
whether the symptom is relieving or painful.
Thus, the symptom is locked in, in perverse or neurotic form, and with respect to
cure, it matters not whether the symptom is an ameliorative tension reducer, or a
painful and tension exacerbating one. The cohesion of the symptom, its constraint
or tight parameter, is impervious to reason of any kind. Rational or cognitive logical
appeals or any kind of beseeching of the subject, or any kind of inducements–no
matter how attractive–cannot have any curative effect on the symptom. None of
these persuasions, seductions, or paradigmatic assumptions of normalcy, will ever
have the slightest effect on the symptom. Not the slightest! These are reality
oriented appeals and speak an entirely different language from that used by the
symptom. The symptom does not respond to usual, manifest logic. The reason for
such monumental failure on the part of reality-based appeals, approaches, or even
admonitions toward the subject–regarding a relinquishment of the symptom–-
concerns the very nature of the symptom as an entity in a defined realm of the
psyche. The symptom exists in the unconscious. It is condensed, a symbol for a
wish; and more so, for a fully gratified wish (that we love), albeit in a translated,
transformed, neurotic, or perverse configuration. It is proposed that the symptom
can only be communicated with through the code presented here, involving an
approach that aims to uncover the original wish by identifying the who toward
whom the subject’s repressed anger was originally directed.
Thus, the main theme, and the salient point to the present work, is to indicate
that only when the subject becomes conscious of being angry toward this target
person, will the symptom begin to dissolve. This is the only language understood
by the symptom; that is, by the subject’s unconscious. It is the language of
wishes, repression, and the dynamics of the emotional mortar determining
immutable laws of the connection between the subject and the who–the object,
the other person.
It is in this sense that all of these reality-based genuine appeals, sincere
approaches, and even severe admonishments, on the part of others toward the
patient to relinquish the symptom, are all doomed to failure. The patient is almost
always helpless to do anything voluntarily to assuage the symptom, because by def-
inition, the symptom is beyond the patient’s control. The symptom is a product or a
ward of the unconscious, of repression. The symptom only exists because its host,
the subject, when reacting with the symptom, is basically in a state of withdrawal.
The Line
A useful metaphor that illustrates this notion of withdrawal, is to imagine a line.
The Line divides reality from fantasy; in front of The Line is reality, a “doing,” an
active place. There is no rumination in front of The Line. Rather, it is a place
where one can be appealed to, approached, or even admonished, and usually with
immediate effect, or at least with immediate response. There, in front of The Line
is where logic reigns, and where genuine appeals, sincere requests, or even strong
criticisms can be responded to. All of this is possible to achieve in front of The
Line. All of these reality-based appeals, are in front of The Line data.
Behind The Line is defined as the arena of withdrawal. The fact that all people
slip behind The Line several times each day, simply signifies that such brief with-
drawal moments are rather successful attempts for all people to take a breather, to
relax for a moment, to quickly recalibrate their balance, and then just as quickly to
step out in front of The Line and resume their existence in the reality doing place.
In contrast, being behind The Line, is existing in a non-doing inactive place, of
rumination and fantasy. It is a place to discharge one’s feelings of anger, rage,
fury, vengeance, depression, and miseries, and also one’s conscious wishes, com-
pensatory needs, and self-esteem tensions. Thus, in this fantasy place, behind The
Line, frustrations can be played out, thereby relieving pressure.
A behind The Line withdrawal – especially in small doses – can also be seen as
a condition of refuge, a sanctuary from worldly demands, expectations, and
failures. This experience and place, behind The Line, in withdrawal, is where
symptoms and the constituents of symptoms–the wish, repressed anger, and the
who become fortified from above, from the level of consciousness–albeit in an
arena of conscious or quasi-conscious withdrawal.
To the psychoanalysis of symptom composition–meaning the amalgam of the
wish, repressed anger, and the who–is now added the collateral factors of the dif-
ference between ameliorating and exacerbating symptoms and their causative
underpinnings. Along with this map of the psychoanalysis of symptoms is also
added the notion of The Line (separating the arena of withdrawal – a non-doing
place – from the region of reality – a doing place – and on the one hand, assessing
normal withdrawal as the everyday experience of behind The Line pauses,
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compared to pathological withdrawal on the other hand, the ground for the incu-
bation and sustaining of symptoms.
With these introductions, reintroductions, reviews, and summaries of symptom
formation, and the blueprint to decode, unlock, and cure the symptom, a variety
of clinical cases will be presented in Part II of this book. This blueprint, utilizing
the set of axioms presented here, will be applied to these clinical cases and the
systematic curing of symptoms will be demonstrated. All of the factors in the for-
mation and ultimate penetration of the symptom will be focused upon with an aim
of lifting or curing the symptom. These factors will include reference to:
1. The code for symptoms involving wishes, repressed anger, and the who;
2. Ameliorating and exacerbating symptoms;
3. The issue of the “doing” activity with respect to the original wish;
4. The issue of establishing The Line of withdrawal versus reality-doing.
Subsequently, with a lifting of the symptom, the most immediate and derivative
result will show the subject moving from a behind The Line non-doing position,
to a doing position, one that is in front of The Line.
It should be noted that symptoms do not just appear out of the blue. Each
symptom is embedded in an understandable process; that is, a symptom context.
The belief in the unknowability of symptom formation and the thrall of mystery
or mystification with respect to the phenomenon of the appearance of symptoms,
is simply a result of an absence of discovery, insight, and knowledge.
In the following section, Part II of this volume, the clinical application of the
symptom-code will be utilized to demonstrate that the symptom, its formation,
and process, is quite understandable, and not at all mysterious.
Part II
The Clinical Casebook:
Accessible Symptoms
A young boy, an only child of 11, reported “funny feelings” in his stomach, which
he learned to “cure” (as he said), “by putting bottles under the bed.” The case
began with a phone call from his father, a psychiatrist, who stated that recently
and quite accidentally, he noticed his son was placing “bottles under the bed.”
The father said that he had consulted two other colleagues–a psychiatrist and a
psychologist-the first of whom said medication was the treatment of choice
because the symptom seemed too dense, while the psychologist suggested psy-
chotherapy twice a week. The father had consulted with these colleagues only
after he discussed the “bottles” symptom with his son. He also admitted to being
embarrassed at not knowing how to approach this problem, especially since he
was an experienced professional.
Apparently, his son told him that he began feeling funny in his stomach and
quite naturally knew to put bottles under the bed. The boy reported that immedi-
ately upon placing the bottles under the bed, the funny feelings disappeared, as he
kind of knew they would, and that then he instantly felt better, relieved.
The father, upon further questioning, ascertained that these feelings began
several months earlier, and gradually increased in frequency. It was clear that the
boy’s funny feelings in his stomach and his method of curing these feelings, defi-
nitely qualified as a bona fide clinical psychological symptom. The father further
indicated that neither he nor either of the consultants was able to determine or
identify a cause for this symptom, and all were actually baffled about what
seemed like something quite “strange and even weird.”
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forward to figuring out what it was all about, what it meant. He made it clear that
he knew it meant something.
He started by saying, “I know it’s completely connected.” He explained that when-
ever he got a funny feeling in his stomach he would also immediately get a corre-
sponding urge to put bottles under the bed. He confirmed what his father had initially
reported–that as soon as the bottles were under the bed, he would get relief from the
funny feelings. In response to my inquiry he also said that the feelings were not
painful; that is, the funny feelings in his stomach were not painful feelings, they were
just uncomfortable, “Like worried feelings,” he volunteered, “butterflies”.
Thus, in the first few minutes of the session, I confirmed that he was indeed
suffering from a compulsive symptom eruption in the ostensible absence of any
obsessive preceder. What seemed to be happening to him was that he had some
generalized somatized condition that he was able to cure through a compulsive,
highly symbolic act, so that in its realized ritual, he got relief by temporarily dis-
solving the symptom–“It was like magic,” he said.
In this sense of the patient’s description of the symptom, the symptom itself
could be considered to be an aspect of a process rather than an isolated event.
First, the funny feelings were preceded by some still undetermined stimulus, and
second, there was the compulsion to dissolve the funny feelings by putting bottles
under the bed. In addition, according to this boy, the cure worked every time. One
of the poignant moments occurred when he spontaneously said, “It’s starting to
happen more and more now, and I’m worried about it more.”
When faced with any symptom, therefore, applying this understanding, will
transform the most complicated, seemingly baffling symptom into a form that
can be immediately understood, and of course, managed. The symptom-code
presented here permits an approach to this or any such symptom so that an efficient
penetration of the very infrastructure of the symptom can be made–to its very core.
In this case, an entry point in the treatment and decoding of his symptom could
begin almost anywhere within the terms of the symptom-code: seeking the who;
seeking the pivotal original event (the symptom context) containing the who; or,
trying to make conscious the anger itself. In addition, each element of the symp-
tom story, of course, is subject to scrutiny. What kind of bottles are they? What do
they contain? Whose bed do the bottles go under? Basically, no assumptions can
be made about such questions until detailed information is provided by the patient.
Ultimately, it is important for the patient to know that he did have a wish, and
to know what that wish was. Furthermore, it is important for the symbol, that is,
the symptom, to be understood. The subject needs to see that “bottles under the
bed” means something, and to know what that something is. That is, that “bottles
under the bed” relates to a specific feeling (anger), about a specific person (the
‘who’), regarding something that was blocked or thwarted (a wish).
I decided to begin by asking him when the symptom began, when he first
noticed it. He said that it was several months earlier when he started feeling the
funny feeling in his stomach and that then he began putting bottles under the bed.
As soon as he put the bottles under the bed, then like magic, the funny feeling dis-
appeared. He added that at first the funny feeling came only occasionally, but that
now it was more frequent–“all the time, in fact”–and he was, for the first time,
worried that he would not be able to control it and that it would “just keep getting
worse and worse.”
He claimed, “it just happened”; that is, he was saying the symptom just
appeared and that by implication there was no pivotal event that started it, at least
that he was aware of. In contrast, I was tenacious in pursuing an actual pivotal
event, which he assumed he never had, but which I assumed we simply had not yet
identified. After working for a while on trying to pin down some event occurring
prior to the onset of the symptom, he casually mentioned that some time ago (he
thought it was before he had his first funny stomach feeling) he remembered that
his parents had a “humongous fight, a tremendous argument.” He had never before
heard them fight like that. He said: “They were both red in the face and they were
shouting to each other about divorce.” What seemed to scare him was that his
father’s threat to divorce his mother bothered him, while his mother’s threat was,
“only a counter to it,” and he further said: “I think it was made in self-defense.”
I immediately considered this boy’s recollection of his parents’ fight to qualify
as a possible pivotal stimulus that may have originally triggered his symptom and
constituted the symptom context. At that point, I shifted to a focus on the who.
It is clear that an 11 year old boy’s repertoire of objects (important people in his
life), is probably rather limited: parents, siblings, a friend or two, a teacher,
another relative. In this case, he had no siblings, and further, in describing his
friendships, relationships, relatives, and teachers, it seemed unlikely that any of
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them would qualify as the who. His mother and father remained as the possible
culprits. Yet, only one, either mother or father, would ultimately be the one who.
Emotion takes an object–singular!
Thus, fundamentally, he would have been angry at one of them. Based on the
sobering effect his father’s declaration of divorce had on him, my theory was that
the who was his father. To further validate this hypothesis and not assuming
I knew which bed he put the bottles under, I then asked him which bed it was.
He answered as though his answer would have been obvious, as though to say,
“of course.” He said, “My parents’ bed.”
And now the puzzle was beginning to coalesce, even in the absence of the pre-
viously recommended twice per week sessions or the use of medication. So far,
we only needed knowledge of the symptom-code. And now it was increasingly
evident that the symptom itself would be under pressure; that is, he and I were
beginning a partnership that would likely also begin to undermine the symptom
by diluting his very own resistance to knowing something important that he was
concealing–repressing, especially from himself. This self-same resistance, like
all resistance, designed to support repression, would begin to lift in the face of
making the unconscious, conscious; that is, in making conscious the anger toward
the who. In this case, his resistance was, of course, supporting repression of the
anger toward the who – that person who, in his unconscious, he held responsible
for the thwarting of his original wish.
Then I finally addressed the issue of what might be considered oedipal
geographic archaeology. “Where under your parent’s bed do you place the
bottles?” I asked. “Is it always in one place, or are the bottles placed anywhere at
all?” Since an emotion, like anger, takes a single object, I was sure he didn’t place
the bottles in the middle, under the bed. It would have to be either on his mother’s
or his father’s side of the bed.
“Under my father’s side,” he immediately answered. “Always,” I asked? “Yes,
always. Only on my father’s side.”
With this answer it became clear that his father was definitely the who. Now,
I wanted to know more about the bottles. I had not assumed I knew anything
about them. I asked him about them, asked whether size mattered as in whether
they were big or small, or the type of bottle. To this, he said, “They all have to be
medicine bottles or about medicine. Some are big and some are smaller.”
That answer was the last piece of the puzzle revealing the entire picture. The
symptom and the whole process of the symptom formation of “bottles under the
bed,” became clear. We would now be able to reconstitute the original wish and
make it clear and conscious to him.
ultimately relieved tension. The symptom, beginning with some stimulus that
produced a funny feeling in his stomach ended in the automatic, compulsive act of
putting bottles under the bed and thereby immediately relieving the funny feeling.
When divorce was threatened, especially passionately threatened, he then felt
his world was about to be shattered. He became frightened and it was this fear,
this apprehension, that occupied his consciousness. However, the salient factor
was not the fear; rather, what was crucial was his anger toward the who, his father.
The main point here is that in contrast to his conscious fear, his anger was uncon-
scious. He could not bring himself to know he was angry at his father. He loved
his father. Apparently, the conflict between the love and the anger was too great.
Therefore, he had not been aware of his unconscious anger and the devastating
emotional and psychological effect it was having on him. It was his anger that
needed attention. Trying to cure his symptom by focusing on his fear could never
cure the symptom. It’s never about the fear!
He believed his mother loved his father but that his father probably didn’t love
his mother. It became clear that he had formed this opinion because his mother was
more demonstrative with her affection than was his father, whom he described
as “more quiet.” And therefore, the fact that he believed it was his father who was
threatening the integrity of his world–actually threatening his wish of keeping the
family in tact–kept feeding this boy’s anger because he felt disempowered in the
face of his anticipated crumbling world.
Furthermore, that the bottles under the bed were always medicine bottles made
this symbol quite easy to understand. Medicine is used to cure. Thus, he placed
these medicine bottles under his father’s side of the bed, obviously because it was
his father who needed to be cured of not loving his mother. Then, of course, when
cured, his father would love his mother. Hence, no divorce, and his wish for the
family to remain whole, would be realized. His world would then be undisturbed,
his security protected. Then, and only then would the unconscious anger disappear
because he would have no identifiable tangible reason to be angry. To the contrary,
he would now, with his wish met, feel quite empowered. With empowerment, there
is no anger, and therefore, no symptom.
Thus, whenever he placed these “medicine” bottles under the bed on his
father’s side all his funny stomach feelings disappeared. This, rather ingenious
boy, who was curing his father over and over again, also satisfied the definition of
a Freudian repetition-compulsion which relieves the immediate tension but never
solves the problem. In this boy’s case, the problem concerned the complex issue
of the wish for an intact family interacting with his anger toward his father, as
well as a repetitive compulsive attempt on his part to cure his father, and in so
doing, also continuing, of course, to cure himself.
Thus, this repetitive compulsive ritual of putting bottles under the bed could
never solve the actual problem. All it could do was symbolically cure his father,
and then again, the logic of the medicine bottles was itself entirely symbolic. This
was so, because the bottles didn’t actually need to contain medicine. Actually,
most of them were empty, or nearly empty. The whole ritual was symbolic. In its
symbolic nuance, in the behind The Line fantasy, imaginary medicinal fumes,
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medicinal vapors really, would waft up from under the bed, through the mattress,
and into his father’s corpus–thereby curing his father. Thus, putting bottles under
the bed gave him a good feeling, dissolved the funny feeling in his stomach, and
produced a relief of tension.
Each step of the unraveling of this fully developed symptom was shared with
the patient, all within the first session. He was an astute boy and eager to know
what the symptom was all about. Our work reached the point where he under-
stood that he was angry at his father, and why he was angry. He now knew that
because of his father’s outburst during his parents’ fight, he himself was feeling
weak (disempowered) and this was devastating him because it thwarted his wish
to keep the family intact. That he was trying to cure his father with fantasy medi-
cine, astounded him. He was now also amazed at the logic of his symptom, and
the whole symptom process.
His understanding included: an awareness of his wish, and his frustration about
it; his unconscious anger; and the identification of the who, his father–the object
about whom he was angry. He actually said that knowing it all “was amazing,”
indicating also that it was far more interesting to him than even the original,
seemingly unfathomable mystery of the symptom itself.
At the end of the session he acceded to my request that we have one session
with his parents. When later we convened that session, his parents remembered
their fight but assured him that the fight was unimportant and that they never
intended to divorce or anything like that. In fact, they intended to be together
always. His father verbalized his love both for his wife and for him, and both
parents were entirely believable in their claims of loyalty, fidelity, and love.
This family session further satisfied one of the criteria for the permanent disso-
lution of a symptom; that is, that doing something in front of The Line that directly
relates to the original thwarted wish will more decisively erase the symptom. Even
several years later, this boy’s symptom had entirely lost its power and had never
reappeared.
The question of why this boy reacted so strongly to the event of his parents’
fight, and any other more deeply etched conflicts, could be reserved for further
therapeutic work.
Chapter 6
Holes: A Case of Body Delusion
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of holes. “These holes that you can even see through them,” is how he put it.
I asked him if the holes were all over his body or if they were located only in one
spot. My interest in asking this question had less to do with any particular aim and
more with creating an ongoing discussion. He said the holes were all over his body
and that he knew it meant he was “through.” By “through,” he explained that it
meant his life no longer mattered and that he was now a useless person.
He reported that his wife had “departed” (died) several years earlier and that for the
past few years he had “taken up” with a very nice lady. He also un-self-consciously
reported that he had been sexually active all of his life but that now he could no longer
function “in the same way.” He also confirmed that he was continuously employed in
the same job for all of his working life. In total, he confirmed everything on his intake
chart, and further, filled it in with greater detail. He also spoke at length about his first
love, poetry, and indicated that he was a published writer.
With respect to his family, he had two sons–one a “very successful lawyer,” and
the other, a struggling actor who frequently needed to be subsidized. He claimed
to be close to both sons and was in constant touch with them. He followed this
discussion by wondering what had happened to him. He didn’t know why he sud-
denly became depressed nor what had happened for him to become so plagued
“with all this craziness.”
When referring to the “terrible feeling” in his stomach, the patient pointed fur-
ther down, toward his genitals, and did this, what might be considered a displace-
ment downwards, whenever he again, referred to his stomach. He sighed deeply
and said, “Look what happened to me.”
must be repressed anger, and second, all emotion including anger, takes an
object, a person.
3. Hence, he was angry at one particular person, and again, who was that who?
Who is the person with whom he was angry?
When faced with any symptom therefore, applying this code, this understand-
ing, will reduce the most complicated, seemingly baffling symptom, into a pro-
portion that can be immediately understood, and of course, managed. The
symptom-code presented here, permits an approach to this or any such psycho-
logical symptom, so that an efficient penetration of the very infrastructure of the
symptom can be made.
Ultimately, in this patient’s case, a major clue to his symptomatology, perhaps
because he was a poet, proved to be a play on words. In addition, it was clear that
his symptoms did not materialize out of the clear blue sky. Someone got into his
guts and caused him to have that queasy stomach and all the other symptoms that
had him in its grip. He was dispirited and demoralized.
We carefully spent the remainder of the interview going over, step by step, his
activities at the time immediately before he wakened one morning with his depres-
sion. Thus, my decision in this case was to at once seek a pivotal event. He then
reviewed his work relationships and his relationship with his common-law wife.
None of these seemed to yield any sort of event containing the person nor the
crisis; that is, until he began discussing his sons.
The patient finally revealed that he was not feeling good about his lawyer son.
Apparently, what had occurred during this pivotal event, left the patient in a terri-
ble emotional state. He had called this son to ask for a loan because he needed to
help the other son with rent payments. Such requests had also occurred in the past
and were always responded to favorably by this lawyer son. This time, however,
our patient was summarily dismissed and his son, without even ending the con-
versation with a familial “goodbye,” simply put down the receiver–hung up.
We discussed this for a few minutes. It seemed to me that the patient perhaps
had called at an inopportune time and his son, without realizing the effect of treat-
ing the call the way he did–that is, allegedly abruptly, and in the absence of any
consideration or even respect–created in his father a terrible feeling of rejection,
even humiliation. As it turned out, the patient’s sense of humiliation became the
sine que non of this interaction and of its effects.
It seemed obvious that the who had now been identified. Additionally, it seemed
also obvious that he was angry at his attorney son and that it was precisely this
anger that he avoided acknowledging–at all costs. He simply didn’t want to know
about it. He could feel humiliated and subsequently depressed about this humilia-
tion, but would not allow himself to understand, to be conscious of, his deep anger
toward this son. Apparently, he did not want to consciously institutionalize the
breach with his son that was already fulminating, albeit unconsciously.
No, it was not his sexual repression that caused these symptoms. There may not
even have been a sexual repression. What was, however, in all likelihood the
problem, was that the swallowing of his anger, the repression of his anger, anaes-
thetized his sexuality, his libido, so that he could no longer feel sexually
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interested. It was the anger that was the emotional culprit, the repressed anger
toward the who-the attorney son. The principle may be stated as: Where there is
anger, there is no libido.
Now each element of the symptom-code had fallen into place. His wish was for
his son to respect him and even show respect with indulgence, and in addition, to
offer the loan without any ambivalence or hesitation whatsoever. This was the
wish that was probably thwarted. Faced with this situation, he then probably felt
helpless, and immediately disempowered.
It can be predicted that to the disempowerment, he felt angry. As stated earlier,
the psychology of such a connection between a feeling of disempowerment and
the emotion of anger is really quite logical. When one is disempowered, there are
times when the only way to become reempowered is by becoming angry. This
particular understanding of the connection of empowerment and anger also
reveals that the emotion of anger is an empowering emotion–a conclusion that is
usually not understood because of the tendency to see anger as negative reaction.
Thus, the wish this patient had for his son to cooperate, was dashed. He became
angry, but repressed the anger because: (1) he was humiliated by the manner of
the rejection; and, (2) because to know he was angry would have been a humilia-
tion on top of a humiliation. His lawyer son was the who, that was for sure.
After discussing his feelings of this son’s rejection of him, he then readily
admitted to seeing the connection between what his son did and his own subse-
quent depressed feeling. Yet, although he saw this connection, nevertheless, he
still was not in touch with his actual anger toward his son. He agreed that
he was disappointed in his son, and he agreed also that he was feeling awkward
about again calling his son. But he couldn’t quite face his anger, or even rage,
toward this son. It was only gradually that he began to notice that whenever he
replayed the event of his rejection by his son, he got “that terrible feeling.”
I assured him that at the bottom of this terrible feeling he was not only dissatis-
fied and disappointed in this son, but that he was justifiably angry at him
because, as I put it: “You felt he was rude, that he was disrespectful, and you
were probably dissatisfied–don’t you think?”
The idea that his son may have been rude and disrespectful, and as a result, the
patient may have been dissatisfied in response to this rejection, very much helped
him to get a bit more in touch with his anger at his son. The rationale here was
that one can have anger at rudeness but not as easily feel angry at being rejected.
Feeling rejected is worse with respect to one’s ego, to one’s self-respect, than
feeling angry. Being angry at rudeness, is more socially acceptable and does not
as easily implicate one’s ego with regard to feeling humiliated. It’s really a matter
of easing into it.
“Okay,” he said. “Yes, he was rude and he should never be rude because I raised
him to be a good boy. So, yes, I am mad at him because maybe now he thinks
because he’s a big lawyer he doesn’t have to be nice to the smaller people.” After a
pause, he said, “Well, no, maybe it’s not that. Maybe it’s just that he doesn’t need
me anymore–like a son needs a father. Like maybe he’s the father, and I’m the son
now. No good, no good.”
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body was simply his way of expressing his inadequacy, defeat, shame, unwhole-
ness, embarrassment, and so forth. So long as this condition of inadequacy would
be sustained, would in turn constitute the corresponding length of time that he
would believe in his “holes.” And this condition of inadequacy refers to the reten-
tion of repressed anger regarding a who.
The point at which his anger toward the who, his attorney-son, became con-
scious, was also the point at which his entire symptom-syndrome experienced its
first death knell. That is to say, that in the first place, his entire symptom syn-
drome was a behind The Line drama. So long as this drama with its repressed
anger and the identity of the who remained repressed, he remained in withdrawal,
behind The Line. When he became conscious of his anger toward his attorney-
son, however, he then stepped out in front of The Line, out of withdrawal, and into
a reality doing place. In this new condition, in front of The Line, his symptoms
could not survive.
In this case, the example of the entire syndrome of depression, impotence,
queasy stomach, and body delusion of holes, demonstrated the powerful effect of
symbolism. This patient’s entire syndrome was all symbolic, and had him in the
grip of what was called “bizarre” symptomatology.
When the picture began to clear up for him, he was astounded at how he had
sacrificed himself in order to avoid knowing how angry he was–and even that he
was, in fact, angry in the first place. Even though he said he felt “a little renewed,”
nevertheless, I asked him to do something that related to the original problem.
This was the final step in more decisively defeating the symptom. I requested a
joint meeting with his attorney-son. After much resistance and a corresponding
amount of my persistence, he agreed.
The point that most astonished him was the word play of “hole” and “whole.”
I appealed to him to trust the interpretation by reminding him that he was a poet
and that such word plays probably would be more germane to him than they
would be to an average layperson, that he would be more likely to unconsciously
engage in such word plays than others who were not as connected as he was with
words. He liked that explanation, and it won him over to the interpretation.
His son did attend the joint session and explained that he had not even realized
that the conversation went the way that his father had experienced it. He further
explained that he was in a meeting and couldn’t talk, fully intending to return the
call. As it happened, events kept the return call on a back burner. The patient was
relieved at his son’s apparently authentic and sincere explanation. The son, on the
other hand, was horrified at not being informed, at his father’s request, about his
father’s hospitalization.
The end result was that, through the father’s good offices, the son gladly
offered the subsidy to his brother. Soon thereafter, the patient was released from
the hospital. His entire hospitalization lasted three weeks. He was symptom-free.
The family session was important because it satisfied one of the criteria for the
permanent dissolution of the problem; that is, that doing something in front of
The Line that directly relates to the original thwarted wish, will more decisively
erase the symptom.
Chapter 7
Symptoms Based Upon
Feelings of Rejection:
Strangling, Sweats, and Death
In the following three cases, each patient experienced feelings of rejection, and
developed symptoms directly related to such feelings. In the first case, the patient
developed intrusive fantasies of strangling his girl friend. In the second case, the
patient developed night sweats, so that his bedding and pajamas needed to be
changed because they were soaking wet. In the third case, the patient developed
mortality fears and could not prevent herself from obsessively focusing on the
eventual prospect of her own death.
In all three cases, the severity and intensity of the symptom was a clue as to the
respective causative stimulus of each. In each case, it was relatively easy to iden-
tify these ostensible causative stimuli. In this respect, the intrusive strangling
thought, the physiologically intense response of sweating, and the terribly obses-
sive, incessant thought of death, were all related to identifiable pivotal events–the
symptom context–containing other significant people in each patient’s life.
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and uninvolved. His modus operandi was to seek a woman who would indulge
him as his mother had done.
He was a successful businessman with a great deal of energy. His clients appre-
ciated his no-nonsense style. When his impatience in interpersonal affairs was a
detriment to his relationships, in business this impatience translated into an effi-
cient style that gave his clients the feeling that they were in good hands. They got
what they wanted, and in record time. The patient frequently boasted about all the
compliments he got with regard to this, what he called his “problem-solving
style.” He said, “None of this emotional stuff, just solve the problem–get it?”
even all of his anger. After his wish to be focused upon was thwarted, and after his
anger became repressed, then the very next thing that occurred was the appear-
ance of his intrusive thought of strangling.
Of course his anxiety about it all, and his stampede out of his date’s apartment,
and according to him, “out of the relationship altogether,” was a clinical indica-
tion that his thought of strangling was really only an expression of his anger–an
alien thought–and not in any way relevant to a bona fide acting out of strangling.
Thus, a direct wish produces a symptom that relieves tension while an indirect
one reflects an indirect route to the primary wish, and will produce a symptom
that sustains or increases tension. The strangling fantasy reflected the indirect
wish–one that represented an indirect route to the primary wish, thus exacerbating
his tension and worrying him.
straws. His wife disagreed and tried to persuade him that there was nothing wrong
with him physically, and in addition, said she didn’t think his sweats were a result
of bad dreams.
automatic, even tacit dismissal. His desire to discuss this issue with her, espe-
cially since his was of a secondary status in their relationship, meant that he could
not be quite direct enough in impressing her with what he wanted. Moreover, his
apparent trepidation in the relationship also may have meant that he himself prob-
ably wasn’t even sure that he really wanted to have a baby, even though, in fact,
he really may have wanted one. The point is that presumably, and in effect, he
may have felt so diminished in the relationship that to really want something
without his wife’s approval probably could not be brought to consciousness by
him in any vivid or crystallized way. In addition, it seemed that he was operating
with a large measure of denial. For example, no matter how much he complained
about her intractability, he maintained that he loved her nevertheless. His denial
was not so much related to the veracity of his love for her as it was directed to the
avoidance of a self-awareness regarding strong negative feelings toward her that
might be present, coexisting with his love for her.
However, in short order, it became evident to him that he really did want a child.
Apparently, he and his wife had several quick interactions about this subject, all of
them ending with his wife abruptly exiting the discussion. He then broached the
subject with her in a more direct manner, which she rejected out of hand. “I’m not
having a baby, period,” is how he reported she said it. There was no further discus-
sion. She indicated she had never been keen on having children, and that attitude
and feeling had not changed. She wasn’t sure it would ever change. No matter
what he said, the answer was the same. It was then that he felt entirely silenced
and rejected.
It now seemed that the specific stimulus in the formation of the symptom was
this exchange about having/not having a child. This interaction preceded the
appearance of his night sweats, and was most certainly the pivotal event that set
off the psychological-emotional process leading to the manifestation of his night
sweats symptom.
In the final analysis, the symptom was the wish gratified, albeit in neurotic or
perverse form, because in order to possibly get what he wanted – a child – he had
to sweat.
tests could throw her into a panic. Any suggestion of an invasive procedure of any
kind would prove to be extraordinarily aversive to her and she would effectively
neutralize all such attempts with the maximum protest. She would simply refuse
to accede to the doctor’s request for whatever test was called for.
She was, by her own definition, “spiritual,” and would consult with all kinds of
crystal ball gazers, self-appointed gurus, and various and sundry unconventional,
so-called alternative types of self-proclaimed treatment personnel, like-minded
spirits and “specialists.” In addition, and ironically, despite her resistance to conven-
tional medical attention, she was hypochondriacal and so would habitually visit
conventional medical specialists, only to then resist their treatment suggestions.
She was a large woman, quite overweight, and given to passivity; that is, she
would want everyone to do for her, often claiming fatigue and nausea. She was
widowed, but her two adult sons were always trying to accommodate her, and
would provide her with housekeepers, cooks, and even chauffeurs, to drive her
here and there, especially to her doctors’ appointments. No matter how much was
done for her, she would consistently complain, whining that things were terrible.
The only arena in which her passivity was absent, was at her place of business, a
physical therapy practice. She was part owner, and apparently this status had
given her a great sense of empowerment.
Despite her obesity, she was constantly eating sweets, and her diet consisted of
anything she fancied. Finally, in the recent past, immediately before she initiated
psychotherapy treatment, she began having intrusive and terrifyingly obsessive
thoughts about dying. In each and every conversation she would have with family
members or friends, she would steer the conversation to the issue of death.
It was these death thoughts that created terrible anxiety in her and drove her to
seek psychotherapeutic help. The first thing she said in the very first session was:
“Do you have them too?” What she wanted to know was whether the therapist
also had such death thoughts, as though she couldn’t imagine anyone not having
such thoughts. However, in her case, such thoughts were obsessive and she
claimed she thought them many times each day until she felt consumed by them.
“Isn’t it terrible,” she said, wide-eyed. “Doesn’t it bother you that everyone
dies?”
According to the patient, he became friendly with her soon after she began work-
ing there. It didn’t take very long before this friendliness evolved into a mentoring
situation, which developed quite naturally because the patient had lost both parents
in a plane crash about three years earlier, when she was 14. She was then very
much in need of a parent figure, especially since she was quite a dependent person.
After the passing of her parents, she moved in with an older married sister who
was busy raising a family The patient felt lost and proclaimed: “My husband
rescued me.”
After her husband died, she began to experience intermittent bouts of “depres-
sion and fears,” but the support of her two sons seemed to stem the tide of any
psychopathological momentum. Occasionally, over the past 10 years, she would
think of death and would, as she put it, “get a shiver.” But this “shiver” experience
was fleeting. It was only in the recent past, preceding the first consultation, that
she began to obsess about death, and for the first time, she was not able to avoid
the thought. She was now vulnerable to a state of “shiver,” much of the time.
She also stepped into her late husband’s role as co-owner of the business, and
the partner in the business ostensibly welcomed her presence. Naturally, the part-
ner was the clinical professional in the business, and the patient was responsible
for the administrative end. This seemed to work well for some years. Yet, some-
how over the past year, the practice began to dwindle, until their patient census
was so low that the business could no longer justify its existence, and it was
agreed by both of them to finally terminate the partnership and the business. The
partner took the remaining patients into his own physical therapy private practice
agreeing that over a certain period of time, she would share in a portion of the fees
yielded by these patients.
This agreement worked smoothly until she discovered, that unbeknownst to
her, this partner had been siphoning patients throughout the year, and most likely,
over all of the time since her husband’s death. As a result, the partner had devel-
oped a thriving practice elsewhere. She began to experience the obsession with
death almost immediately following this revelation.
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information had gotten back to the patient and he began feeling awkward when
in the chief’s presence.
The patient also noticed that this chief of service was assigning duties to other,
less experienced members of his staff, while omitting the patient from some of the
more interesting assignments. A somewhat acrimonious confrontation about this
presumed slight by the chief ensued, and in the end, the chief denied the patient’s
allegation of neglect.
The patient said that the chief “didn’t have the guts to just call a spade a spade.”
The patient felt that it had been since then that “a cold relationship” had devel-
oped between them, and the patient, in addition to feeling underutilized, began
really to feel ignored.
It was not possible to pin down precisely whether the friction between the chief
and the patient correlated to the onset of the patient’s symptom, but it seemed that
such an unpleasant work situation would certainly have involved, or even chal-
lenged, the patient’s identity as a physician, and also very likely raised issues of
competence, and professional respect.
“It’s a good thing that thinking something and doing something are two different
things. Otherwise you could call my case, ‘The Sin of the Priest.’ But, thank
God,” he continued, “it’s all on the level of fantasy.”
This was the first remark made by a 70-year-old male priest after he introduced
himself at the very first session. He was a portly man with a big stomach and an
affable and easy manner. He was intelligent, erudite, and psychologically minded.
It was strikingly clear that he was not at all shy about relating the events that
encouraged him to seek treatment.
It relieved him to say that he was perhaps close to sinning but had not really
sinned. It was not that any act of his was, according to his own standards, sinful.
Rather, at first, it was not clear whether or not he actually believed his stated certainty
that he had not sinned. In other words, the question was: Did he or didn’t he?
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One of his fantasies regarding this woman was that he would leave the church
and marry her. He claimed she was the only person in his priestly existence who
had ever had this sort of effect on him, and that because of his obsession with her,
and especially because of his intrusive thought, he also felt that his personal
dignity was compromised. Thus, his embarrassment was with himself alone. As it
turned out, the intrusive thought was actually more than a thought, it was a
rhapsody!
Over the years, he and this parishioner had gotten to know one another and
although they had often chatted, and even worked together on a church project,
she had never approached him either for advice or confession or for any other
kind of non-church contact. In addition, he said she had never flirted with him or
otherwise indicated that sort of interest. However, she would unfailingly, always
express appreciation whenever he would reflect back to her what he considered to
be her positive attributes, and he was sure she knew that he admired her. In this
respect he admitted that it was he, who both in oblique ways, and sometimes in a
studied, although tentative manner, was the one who flirted. However, he did it
indirectly, and with hoped-for subtlety, so that it was more like an autistic com-
munication about which, probably, only he would be aware. Thus, he felt he was
involved in a one-sided love affair.
When these so-called autistic trysts occurred, he would think to himself:
“What am I doing? This is insanity.” Yet, he was in an inexorable thrall with
respect to the feeling he had for her. He felt less in her actual grip and more in
his own–where everything about this situation turned in on him. He then also
indicated that about the time the intrusive thought crystallized, he had become
gluttonous, and because of this unusual appetite, gained 40 pounds over the
period of the past several years, equal to the life-span of his intrusive thought
symptom.
He then described the symptom itself by introducing it with what to him
was a terribly dispiriting story. He said that three years earlier, this woman
had married a fellow parishioner. He quickly went on to say that, at present
they had no children. It was possible that he quickly added the information
about her childless marriage because in that way he could possibly keep her
virginal. He also admitted to not being able to bear the thought that she would
be in any conjugal relationship with anyone else. So far as he was concerned,
she was saint like, and entirely, as he said, “unsullied.” He was able, at times,
to make himself believe that her marriage was strictly for companionship and
asexual. He then admitted to feeling that this was nonsense, so that at other
times he would try to imagine what her face looked like in ecstasy, and would
then try to visualize her expression during what he imagined to be her orgasm.
When his thoughts took this turn, he said he felt himself “sink into nothing-
ness,” and he had great difficulty coming out of, what he then considered to
be “a despair.”
He introduced the intrusive thought by saying: “Some time after she married,
I noticed I was having this strange thought.”
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attached to each hole so that when pus drains from each site, the pus then collects
into its own cyst balloon. None of it is wasted. Not a drop. It’s all collected.
“Then when that’s done, I sometimes have her soak in the tub for a time
while I stand at the tub and watch her soak. I’m slightly bowed looking at her
and we’re talking. And she is naked in the tub. And she is becoming accus-
tomed to me seeing her in her nakedness. And the fact that she becomes
accustomed to me seeing her like this is also very satisfying. It means that she
is relaxed with me even though she is naked. Therefore she is more intimate
with me than with anyone else. Oh yes, I also pop the cysts with my hands and
I wear rubber gloves in the fantasy. I’m never doing it with bare hands. Then I
have her stand, and I go to work again because after soaking in this hot bath,
more pus has collected, and then I finally push the rest out by pressing my fin-
gers against each cyst. This time even more pus is emitted and the final amount
gushes out of each cyst giving her tremendous relief as if pounds of weight have
been lifted. Then, out of sheer love for me, she falls asleep naked in my arms, in
bed. This part of the fantasy then fades, as though I’m spent. It’s not like an
orgasm or a sexual feeling, but it’s a feeling of relief and a satisfaction that I get.
At that point I no longer need to continue the fantasy. I find that I then go about
my normal life until another time, when the fantasy returns and I go through the
same thing again. And it happens all the time. And that’s it. But it’s not it,
because, believe it or not, I’m celibate and that’s how it has always been. I’ve
never had a sexual relationship.”
He then indicated that he hadn’t seen this woman in the past year but had heard
from others, who had seen her. After he heard that she was in touch with others in
the parish, he related the following:
“Since then, I started to think of actually having sex with her. I broke through a
barrier there. It’s the typical missionary position and we are in passionate sex.
I can see her face is quite sexual and her expression is that of a woman in the
throes of an orgasm. This is when I feel she’s mine.”
After relating this new development regarding the fantasy of actual sex with
this woman he indicated that at that point in the fantasy, the intrusive thought, or
the intrusive scenario, was getting the best of him and that it really was out of
control. He was thinking about it all the time.
“I think about it every day, even several times a day. It’s obsessive. I can’t
figure out when it will appear or why. Now it has me worried more than ever. And
even more than the sex–I can understand the sexual part–but why am I thinking
about cysts and pus?”
He also then repeated that it was after she married that he gained all his extra
weight, and he remembered a dream. He said, “All I remember of the dream is a
fragment. She said to me, ‘Well, you just have a hunger for me.’ ” And I awakened.
Now I know it means just that–I have a hunger for her. The fact is I’ve gained more
than 40 pounds over a three year period. My appetite knows no bounds. And she
married three years ago also. At 5 feet 9 inches, I usually weighed 165 pounds.
Now I’m 230. I look at myself and I’m horrified.”
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repressed the anger. What remained was the meaning of the symptom and its
relation to his elaborate fantasy.
He was right. He was thinking about her breasts, and the focus on her back
was a psychological shift, a disguise. The question now became why was he
thinking about her breasts? And apparently the answer was concealed in his feel-
ing that he was being deprived; that is, even though she liked him, and was
friendly with him, nevertheless, she never demonstrated anything other than that.
This left him feeling unrequited. His wish was that she be giving to him and that
meant symbolically, that her breasts would give milk. And this explains why he
needed to collect every drop of the pus–because the pus was a most ingenious
disguise for the milk. Since every drop presumably represented her milk, then in
the fantasy, the symbol of the pus, and the importance of collecting it, meant that
she was giving everything she had to him–her milk; that is, she was giving him
all of her love, concern, nourishment.
Thus, when he got all of the pus out, that’s when he felt true and complete
relief. Only then did it mean that she gave to him the maximum love and nurtu-
rance that she had to give. And she gave it only to him; not to the doctors. In this
sense he was right, the entire fantasy was never about sex, it was actually about
acceptance. He just wanted to be accepted by her.
Yet, he couldn’t have his wish in real life, and so he had the wish in fantasy in
the form of a symptom. It was an obsessive-intrusive thought that got a profound
grip on him which he couldn’t shake. In fact, it was shaking him. And the scores
and scores of cysts and pimples on her back represented a multitude of nipples
also reflecting the truly desperate nature, as well as magnitude of his yearning and
need for her.
So far as his obesity was concerned, this also related to his overwhelming focus
on this woman. It could be said that he was eating because he couldn’t be without
her; that is, he couldn’t be empty or alone. To constantly eat, meant never to be
alone. In addition to his gluttony, he also stated that in his present life, there was
never a time that he didn’t feel bloated and this bloated feeling was seen to signify
that this woman was always with him. She was the who, and since he was presum-
ably so angry with her for depriving him, then he was also really medicating him-
self with food to assuage the anger, to calm it. In effect, he was actually afraid to be
hungry because his empty stomach, his hunger, possibly, would signify that he was
without her. Further, he remembered the fragment of his dream in which she said,
“Well, you just have a hunger for me.” Thus, if he was full, he wouldn’t have to
know he had a hunger for her. In this sense, the wish to have her was always
fulfilled by being full, by being bloated.
It also seemed that he would do anything but admit to himself that he was
really angry at her for ignoring him and for leaving him and marrying. He would-
n’t and couldn’t face this feeling because it would mean that he didn’t have her
and perhaps never would.
All the symbols involving symptom, cysts, appetite, and stomach, that had so
much power over him, had now, in the light of this deciphering increased his con-
sciousness and seemed to have a profound effect on him. It was unlikely that the
symptom could ever again become viable. However, in order to fortify the defeat
of the symptom, the last task he needed to accomplish was something that related
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to the relationship that he had had with her. This doing activity would bring him
in front of The Line, and enable him to burn away the inclination to live behind
The Line in withdrawal where his magnificent obsession/elaborate rhapsodic fan-
tasy lived and thrived, and kept him in a sustained state of high tension.
His answer was that they had worked together on a catalogue for the gifts
given to the church but never finished the catalogue because they were working
on it at the time she married. She never returned, and he avoided the task of
completing the catalogue. Now, perhaps he could get back to it.
But he wasn’t finished. He said that not only did he overeat, but he had food
cravings, and that these cravings for certain foods was a frequent occurrence. He
felt this was a separate symptom even though it may have been related to the entire
rumination about this woman. The meaning of his large stomach requires a bit of
speculation, the relative validity of which, nevertheless, is based upon an interpre-
tation consistent with the data he provided, and in addition reveals a possible path
to understanding this symptom–his large stomach.
The fact was that he had a big stomach on a rather stout frame. He carried his
weight well except for this big protruding stomach. He actually looked pregnant,
and since there was so much repressed anger directed at his woman friend for her
depriving him, then the only way to express a likely interpretation to him, so that
both his anger and his attraction to her would be contained in the same word,
seemed to be the choice of the colloquial term “fucked.” It would seem that he felt
fucked by this parishioner. So what happens when you get fucked? You get preg-
nant! By virtue of this sort of interpretation, it could be construed that his big
belly was his pregnancy. Symbolically, he may have been carrying the product of
his lady friend’s essence in his belly. His gluttony therefore, was his perversion.
It too, represented the pleasure he wanted from her but couldn’t have, and so he
had it another way. And furthermore, perhaps he acted out the pregnancy with
food cravings. This can be considered a content-shift, that is, a shift from the
internalized object, the woman, to food. In the psyche, as Freud postulated,
wishes are never denied. This man wished for her, and in his psyche got his wish.
Symbolically, therefore, being pregnant with her meant that he wouldn’t have
to face life without her. Of course, in bleak reality, he actually didn’t have her.
What he had was a fat stomach, and a magnificent obsession.
Chapter 10
Ingenious Regression:
A Case of Hallucination
A woman of 60 had been in an assisted living environment for her entire adult
life. Over the years she had consistently scored in the I.Q. range of 65 to 70. Such
scores placed her in the category identified as “mild deficiency.” In the more anti-
quated I.Q. language, she would have been classified as retarded.
The mild deficiency designation meant that she could work at a job, especially if
her tasks on the job were structured, and if they enabled her to perform in a repeti-
tive and consistent fashion. And indeed, throughout her adult life, she was always
employed in one way or another, within the context of a variety of programs that
could be defined as “assisted abilities” programs.
This woman had two siblings, a brother and sister, who were never very
involved in her life, and would only visit occasionally–a family interest on their
part that was perfunctory. Her mother, age 97, was still living and surprisingly,
quite active. She was a devoted visitor, and would escort this woman, her 60 year
old daughter, home for holidays and for other special occasions.
This mildly deficient woman, was hardly ever ill. In fact, her health was
excellent, and she was quite proud of the fact that she had never missed a day of
work. Her only identifiable problem was that she was obviously, and severely,
dependent on her mother, and would make decisions only with her mother’s say
so. All of her clothing, and all items and materials she needed, were provided
solely by her mother.
Suddenly, at the age of 97, her mother died. She had expired in her sleep. After
having been told of her mother’s passing, this woman became quickly withdrawn
and depressed, and for the first time that anyone could remember, she stopped
working.
“Devastating,” would be an apt adjective to reflect this woman’s state of being
after she had been informed of her mother’s death. The loss was apparently so
profound and her depression so deep, that she stopped eating, and would lie in
bed, moaning. She was hospitalized and diagnosed with major depression
Within one day of hospitalization, and even before any plan was made for
medication, her depression lifted, and instead, she was floridly hallucinating.
She began talking to the air as well as providing dialogue by answer.
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Of course, as stated, it was assumed that the patient must have repressed a great
amount of anger. This was assumed because a profound shift had taken place in her
psyche, most likely concerning the management of this proposed repressed anger.
This shift could be characterized as the transformation of a thwarted wish into a
hallucinatory symptom. With respect to the structure of the symptom-code,
this repressed anger necessarily induced transformation of the thwarted wish into
the hallucinatory symptom because, according to the Freudian insight regarding
wishes, her wish needed not to be denied. The simple question became, what wish?
In other words, the unconscious process that took place consisted of the transfor-
mation of the wish through the repression of anger, into the symptom–in this case a
hallucination. The patient’s basic wish would necessarily be part of this process
insofar as the wish always, and presumably without exception, becomes satisfied as
the symptom. Therefore, her hallucination became her gratified wish.
Again, the question remained as to the specific meaning of the wish. What was
her wish? The answer was that her wish was simple and actually even obvious.
He said her mother was dead, and that she, the patient, was now independent. But
she showed him that she was not at all independent, that she was still dependent,
and quite dependent for that matter, on her mother, who now in the hallucination,
was very much alive, indeed!
She brought her mother back. And it was a simple regression into a hallucination
that did it. She was now floridly hallucinating – that was true. But it was her mother
to whom she was talking, and it was her mother who was talking to her. Hence,
everything was good with the world. No more depression, no more abandonment,
and most importantly, and thankfully, no more independence. The psychiatrist, was
wrong on all counts. Dead wrong!
To relinquish the hallucinatory symptom as well as the depression this woman
would need to be involved in some doing activity related to her work. It would be
an attempt to reinforce in front of The Line living. For her to understand the wish
and the anger also seemed possible, especially as a prelude to the cure of her
symptoms.
The rather astonishing result here, is that this I.Q. challenged woman devel-
oped a symptom that involved a complex unconscious regressive psychological
maneuver. It was a maneuver, nothing short of brilliant, involving a positive wish
that generated a shift out of despair and depression, via a hallucination, into emo-
tional relief of tension. Thus, she developed what might be called an ingenious
regression, and consequently the symptom of a brilliant hallucination.
Chapter 11
Panic on the Bridge:
A Case of Agoraphobia
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temporary though it was, sounded as though he had had a bona fide anxiety or
panic attack, which he claimed, “was like the others.” He had experienced these
symptoms before.
When they had driven over the bridge, rather than continuing on their journey,
the new driver exited at his very next opportunity, and retraced their route, taking
the patient back over the bridge, and home. As it turned out, the driver was
expecting more of the same kind of episode from the patient on the return trip, but
the patient explained he only became anxious when he was the driver.
The patient described his therapy experiences of the recent past. He had been
treated by two kinds of therapy. The first was strictly a medication regimen con-
sisting of drugs designed to alleviate anxiety and panic. The patient discontinued
the use of such medication when it became apparent that his libido was severely
affected and as a result, he was less able to feel amorous, or to be sexual. His wife
also insisted that the medication was not right for him.
The second round of therapy consisted of a behavioral-cognitive approach in
which the therapist attempted to desensitize him to bridges, but with no success
whatsoever. From a psychoanalytic point of view, and despite reports of success with
such methods, this behavioral-cognitive approach would not at all be considered effi-
cacious, because the problem is not literally about the bridge. Psychoanalytically, the
bridge would be considered a symbol, and the main objective would be to try to
understand what such a symbol meant.
The patient explained that he came from a large Pakistani Muslim family in
which he was the oldest of his siblings, and closest to his mother. He was also the
one most eager to stay close to his family. He admitted to being devoted to his
mother, but also to loving his wife. He felt that he was persuaded into his mar-
riage by his wife, all the while experiencing great ambivalence.
“I didn’t want to hurt her and she wanted to marry me. I did love her, but I
didn’t feel I could do it yet. I wasn’t ready. But I did it.”
He admitted to still feeling uncomfortable with his wife in their rather small
apartment, although he professed that he did love her and was happily married.
They had no children because has he put it, “I don’t feel ready yet to have
children.”
five years ago when he married, was not to marry. Ambivalence is a tricky state. It
seems to mean that you may want to do something and then again, you may not
want to do that thing. Yet, ambivalence is never democratic; each side of the
ambivalence does not get an equal emotional vote. The fact is that in ambivalence,
the “no” vote is dominant. When the “yes” vote brings to bear pressures from
other sources that subdue the “no” vote, then the person will indeed be able to
engage in the action about which the ambivalence was originally concerned. In
this patient’s case, when his “no” was subdued or outvoted, he did indeed engage
in the action about which the ambivalence was originally concerned. He married.
His wish was not to marry. Yet, he did marry, but he seemed also to have married
his ambivalence.
In this patient’s case, his marriage, one might say, was based against his stronger
ambivalent “no” vote, and in favor of his weaker, ambivalent “yes” vote. He had
been suffering the consequences of that “yes” vote up to the present time with the
symptom of selective agoraphobia. He was not phobic about just any open space;
the symptom only appeared with respect to crossing bridges.
unraveled, the symptom loses its power, and so its reason for being will usually
cease to exist. So too, it was expected that with this patient, the bridge phobia
would, for all intents and purposes, vanish.
So what does a bridge do? A bridge usually connects two bodies of land mass
that without the bridge, would in an anthropomorphic sense, find it difficult, even
impossible to be connected, that is, to relate-and in a real sense, without the
bridge, these two land masses remain distinct and unconnected.
It could be that this kind of metaphor reflects the patient’s unconscious conflict
regarding the genesis of his relationship with his wife, from the beginning of his
courtship, to his initial ambivalence about marrying, to his marriage, and to an
ostensible repressed anger regarding what he may have considered to be, and may
still consider to be, doing something against his wish. The wish, of course, in one
sense, was to rid himself of his ambivalence, which he apparently could not do.
Thus, it could be assumed that he had carried this conflict with him to the present,
in the same configuration as it was in its initial state. Even though five years had
elapsed since his marriage, nevertheless, in his psyche it is quite likely that the
conflict with its derivative product of ambivalence about marriage, remained the
same, intact, with time having no effect on it. The phenomenon of transference is
a supportive underpinning to this notion of the possible stasis of psychic conflict,
or of the resistance of psychic conflict to conditions of the real world. Of course,
particular transferences can last a lifetime without any changes to their nature
whatsoever, no matter what kinds of experiences the person has.
Thus, it may be that his bridge difficulty was really a difficulty in an unresolved
conflict regarding his stated ambivalence that reflected isomorphically what he
originally felt about marriage, five years earlier; that is, a tension about the bridge
to marriage, and a corresponding tension about bridges that connect one land
mass to another. Of course, assuming that these constituents of the symptom-code
did, in fact, faithfully represent what was transpiring in his psyche, then:
(1) knowing that his wife was the who; and (2) knowing that he was angry at her
despite the fact that he also loved her; and (3) knowing that his phobic reaction to
bridges really was a psychological equivalent to his five-year-old ambivalence;
and (4) therefore, that the phobia itself, notwithstanding its selected and compart-
mentalized nature, was an ingenious realization of the part of the ambivalence
that comprised his basic will–namely, not to marry against his wish; then, (5) it
would be expected that the symptom itself would be seriously challenged, and
perhaps dealt a death blow.
At such a point, in the symptom treatment, a doing thing would be important to
implement. In this man’s case the doing thing was seen to be some attempt on his
part to surface a discussion with his wife about the entire issue of his ambiva-
lence, and simultaneously to be sure to assure her that this ambivalence had noth-
ing to do with his love for her. He would need to emphasize that the ambivalence
was about his problem, his psyche, his history, his transference’s, his early family
life, and whatever else it suggested about his capacity to be ready for a departure
from his nuclear family–before he and his wife ever even knew one another. Such
a doing activity would surely nullify his behind The Line withdrawal with respect
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The patient moved very slowly as he walked into the conference room of an out-
patient clinic. He was wearing sun glasses and said that the light bothered him.
However, it was clear that even with his dark glasses, he was squinting, and his
face was pinched with pain. He was a 60-year-old man who was experiencing a
three day migraine.
The room was filled with a dozen or so psychologists, social workers, and psy-
chiatrists. The report that was read to those assembled stated that the patient was
reassured by his physician that there was no physical basis for the migraine, and
that the pain was certainly emotionally based; a severe tension headache caused
by some psychological-emotional conflict.
This was not terribly reassuring to this man who had been suffering with the
migraine for the previous three days, without any relief. It was so bad that he
pleaded with his physician to get him some general anesthesia. He said, “I have
to speak softly. I can’t move too suddenly. It’s like a vice in my head.” He also
indicated that this same kind of head pain had occurred on two other occasions
in his life.
The report had also indicated that he was married with no children, and that he
was born partially deaf. As it turned out, the fact was that he was born almost
completely deaf, and this accounted for his awkward sounding speech. The crisis
of his life, at the time of this conference, was that he and his wife were in finan-
cial straits. Apparently, he, along with many others, had been excessed from his
job during an ongoing recession.
Since the migraine had appeared only three days earlier, it seemed unlikely
that the direct pivotal stimulus for it concerned his job loss, which had happened
more than two months earlier. However, because of his job loss, this couple had
incurred a sizable amount of credit card and other debt, and it was then that the
patient began to feel depressed. “We had to change our lifestyle immediately,” he
said. “I only feel depressed about this situation. Otherwise, I’m not depressed,”
he added.
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which he felt he was being forced to do by relocating and leaving the club, he
became silent, and seemingly thoughtful, and it was then that he exclaimed he
was feeling better.
In addition, it was suggested that he look into other clubs in his anticipated new
environment, and that also with the locating of a professional position, he could
create another productive venue, that in the end would serve him well.
Chapter 13
Doubled Over: A Case
of Displaced Phallic Obsession
This case was unusual in several ways. First, the patient had been seeing a female
therapist at an outpatient clinic, and only a chance encounter with him in the corri-
dor leading to the therapy rooms led to his fervent request for a change to a male
therapist. Second, he did not request this change of therapist because he was angry
or in any other way opposed to his therapist. Rather he wanted to switch because
he felt he couldn’t say things that he needed to say, “In front of a woman–a nice
woman like that.”
When I first saw this man he was kind of in a doubled-over position, arms hold-
ing his stomach, standing somewhat bent over in the corridor leading to the ther-
apy rooms. I asked him if he needed help and he squeezed out a “No,” as though
his stomach was in knots. He asked me if I was a therapist, said that his therapist
was late, adding, “She’s never late,” and finally then said, “I think I need a male
therapist.”
He claimed he had things to say, “something that’s not easy to talk about with
a woman.” After ascertaining that I was indeed a therapist, he asked me, on the
spur of the moment, and without much apparent consideration, whether I would
be his therapist. I suggested he talk it over with his therapist and then see how he
felt. Before I had the chance to explain it further, he started: “I get doubled over
all the time. It’s about beautiful women, you know–built. When I see one in the
street or anywhere, I feel like someone shot me in the stomach. It’s so fierce that
it doubles me over.”
I told him again that I couldn’t get involved, and that really, he should try to
talk to his therapist about it. He disregarded me and whispered: “It’s tits. They get
me right in the labonza. Know what I mean? I just double over. It’s like getting
shot with a shotgun or something. And it hurts. I’ve gotta tighten my stomach
muscles to get over it. What the hell is it?” He then pleaded with me to speak to
his therapist, which reluctantly, I agreed to do. He said, “Okay, but don’t say ‘tits’
to her. Say I said ‘breasts.’ But between you and me, breasts isn’t it. It’s tits! That
does it to me.”
At this point he was no longer doubled over. He had straightened up. He con-
tinued: “And you know that blonde secretary with the big ones down the hall?
Well she just walked past me right before you showed up. And you saw–I was all
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messed up. I had to wait a while before I could straighten up. What’s causing it? I
can’t imagine what’s causing it.”
What he was saying was also reminiscent of what a patient I had treated some
years earlier had told me. That patient felt as though someone had just punched
him in the stomach whenever he saw a woman in a tight sweater who had large
breasts. That patient said it only happened when the woman was wearing a
sweater, and he associated the feeling of being punched in the stomach with anx-
iety. Of course, the anxiety was his conscious experience that was, in all probabil-
ity, radiating up from repressed anger.
“Doubled-over” interrupted my reverie by finally saying: “Listen, when you
speak to her, tell her I like her, but I need to see a male therapist. I mean between
you and me, I can’t say shit to her. I mean I can’t use words. I can’t say fuck, or
anything. Know what I mean?”
He told me who his therapist was, and I did, in fact speak to her. She agreed
that it was very difficult for him to relate to her, and said that he was quite formal
in the sessions and tried always to say the right thing. She thought that he would
be spending too much time trying to talk to her in a relaxed fashion, if he would
ever be able to at all. She mentioned that his attempt to use vocabulary that was
socially acceptable was actually endearing, but despite her efforts to reassure him
that it was all right to use the vernacular, he couldn’t do it. I became “Doubled-
Over’s” therapist.
He was a 37-year-old man who was friendly and very talkative. He had never
married, and as he put it: “I was the ‘Last of the Mohicans’ of my friends.”
Apparently, he was the only one of all of his friends who had not married and he
felt that most of his problems about women, and doubling over, were probably
somehow related to his loneliness.
breasts–it was then that his doubled-over reaction, like being shot in the stomach
with a shotgun, would be the worst. So, he said, “best means worst, and worst
means best. How do you cure that?”
This man was one of three siblings. His brother and sister lived on the West
Coast and were only occasionally in touch with him. As he said, his friends were
all married or away, and he stated that his main task each week was to figure out
how to spend the weekend. He disliked going places alone because he felt a bit
shy, and he was not good at unearthing social or other kinds of events that he
might want to attend. Thus, each weekend became a drudge, and more often than
not, he would simply while away the time.
Monday mornings became his favorite time of the week because it meant he
could go to work, and the structure and requirements of his job would save him
from boredom. It was at his job that he interacted with colleagues, thereby satis-
fying a portion of his need to be social. He worked in the financial affairs depart-
ment of a large corporation and specialized in one facet of financial planning. He
stated that he was also formal at work, as he was with his female therapist. It was
only with his friends that he could let his hair down and relax.
To him, the main cue for feeling that he could be relaxed, was being in the pres-
ence of people with whom he could use profanity, colloquialisms, and all varieties
of sexual allusions. His early history growing up on the West Coast was one
within a lower socioeconomic context, and where his language was always pep-
pered with profanity (or perhaps more accurately, where his profanity was always
peppered with language).
“I tried thinking about the whole thing with psychology,” he said. “The best I
could come up with is that my loneliness is eating away at me, and that I really do
want to get married, so that when I see a beautiful woman the way I described, I
just feel it strongly in my stomach.”
In further describing his preoccupations, he confessed to ruminating about the
size of his penis which he referred to as his “dick.” He said it was amazing that
sometimes when looking at his penis in his bathroom mirror, it looked rather
large, and that that made him feel good, while at other times, it looked small, and
that he didn’t like. He wondered whether his mood had something to do with such
estimates, but reflected on the absurdity of it all; that is, how is a person’s penis,
measured in the flaccid state, or for that matter in any state, as both large and
small, or for that matter, both adequate and inadequate, or moreover, either large
enough or not large enough?
After he revealed his concern about his penis size, he also readily admitted to
not being able to discuss this with his female therapist. His interest in this subject
matter, and the amount of time he spent in this initial consultation talking about it,
suggested that he had gotten to the crux of his symptom, and that a great deal of
the therapy work, would have to be done, as it were, in his crotch.
He also described a recent scene in which he got drunk while at a dance because
as he put it: “I saw this great looking chick with big ones, and I just couldn’t go
over to her. I was stuck. No nerve. So I got drunk instead.” He indicated that the
next day when he was sober and contemplated his previous evening’s failure of
courage, it was then that he realized just how worried he really was.
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some way gratified his wish not to be rejected; that doubling over in pain meant
that he actually could possess the woman. The question is, why did doubling over
mean that? What did it mean that he needed to possess such a woman, but because
he felt he couldn’t, then he doubled over–wish gratified?
hand he actually met a woman or saw a woman with large breasts, and because of
the reality of the situation, could not fantasize, then he would instantly experience
his shotgun-stomach symptom because he felt correspondingly instantly rejected
by her, even though she was in no way a party to this emotional and psychologi-
cal drama.
Another way of framing the conflict is to imagine that only in fantasy does he
successfully achieve his wish not be inadequate, that is to say, only in fantasy is
he able to achieve his wish to be adequate. In reality, his private noninteraction
with a woman he randomly encounters, produces a thwarting of his wish, so that
in his disempowerment, he becomes angry and represses the anger.
He becomes angry at the disempowerment because of not achieving the prize.
To him the prize seems to be to possess the woman with the large breasts.
However, the real prize for him is to feel he has a large penis. And when he is
feeling rejected by the woman with large breasts, he then cannot have the large
penis and ends up feeling his shotgun-stomach because when he can’t have her,
he’s not conscious that it’s his penis that is implicated. For him, consciously, it’s
just that his stomach hurts–a classic case of displacement upwards–in this case,
penis to stomach.
Thus, the therapeutic job here, contributing to the alleviation of the symptom,
in addition to surfacing the unconscious “facts,” would be to enable him to gain
additional self-esteem and begin to value himself, and not displace these concerns
onto his penis through a displacement onto large breasts.
It was the dominant force of self-doubt that needed here to be therapeutically
tackled. This would ultimately constitute the doing component of the symptom-
code ultimately escorting him out of behind The Line into an in front of The line
position.
Part III
The Clinical Casebook:
Inaccessible Symptoms
These are symptoms that are generally characterized by any combination of the
following factors, as being:
1. deeply engraved psychotic, or psychotic-like, and that have usurped the entire
personality;
2. chronically entrenched and/or somatized;
3. a function of an organic brain syndrome, genetic anomaly, or a particularly
thin ego;
4. a function of a catastrophic anger or rage implosion based upon an experience
of profound helplessness;
5. no longer an alien facet of the psyche but rather as having usurped the psyche.
With respect to the nature of the anger or rage implosion, such inaccessible
symptoms are so designated because the repressed anger:
1. is of the severest magnitude so as to have threatened almost all, or literally, all
aspects of the psyche;
2. is of such intensity that the psyche anticipates its imminent demise;
3. is of such sufficient depth that the psyche may anticipate a foreboding of being
imminently cleaved;
4. is so chronic that the psyche is likely to have already succumbed to the symptom.
Chapter 14
The Psychology of Blushing:
Involuntary Disclosure
of Success Wishes
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one’s personality profile, can contain certain characteristic symptoms that become
traitlike. For example, since all people are consistent in their behavior, then even
those who are unstable, unpredictable, or unglued, can be characterized by their
typical personality traits. “She is shy and will blush easily,” is a comment that
reflects a person’s typical behavior or attitude, and, when described this way, the
behavior is recognized by anyone who has known the person. “Yes, she is shy,”
would be the acknowledgment, “and further, we all know that she always blushes
when she is in (such and such) a situation.” Or, the symptom that is trait-like begins
to entirely characterize the person as a shorthand: “Oh, you mean blushing Sally?”
In other words, there are symptoms that become characteristic of the person
and are so entrenched and chronic within the amalgam of the person’s cluster of
traits, that for all intents and purposes, it is no longer meaningful to distinguish
that symptom from any of the person’s other traits.
From a psychological point of view, however, this homogenization of a symp-
tom into the class of phenomena identified as personality traits, is only descrip-
tive. From the clinical-scientific point of view, indeed, even though the symptom
is now also functioning as a trait, nevertheless, that symptom also remains a dif-
ferent species from that of traits. In this respect, the symptom of blushing, for
example, when characteristic of a person’s typical reaction to stimuli, conditions,
or circumstances, is truly a trait but also truly a symptom.
The difference between the trait of shyness and that of blushing concerns the
ability to voluntarily control the state. Usually, traits at least temporarily, can be
voluntarily controlled. The person cannot voluntarily and permanently eliminate
a so-called natural shyness, even though under certain more familiar circum-
stances, shyness can be less evident, or can be better controlled, or even that the
person is not at all shy under certain conditions of familiarity.
In contrast and with respect to blushing, the same phenomenological variation
is absent. The person always blushes in response to certain stimuli. Thus, there is
a psychology to the symptom of blushing, which in the original onset of the
symptom, is different from the psychology of the personality trait; namely, that
the blushing initially sits apart from traits. Yet, a blushing symptom can become
part of the person’s trait structure. When it does, it will retain its immunity to con-
scious decision making. Thus, the symptom is not subject to voluntary control,
and like all symptoms (and unlike all traits), and despite its presence in the
domain of traits, the symptom is both similar and different from a trait. In this
sense, the blushing symptom, like any symptom that insinuates itself into the
domain of traits, takes on the complexion of a trait–becoming part of the person-
ality profile–while also retaining its configuration, as a symptom.
He acknowledged having had this problem all of his life and feeling uncom-
fortable about it since he first began experiencing it in grammar school more than
60 years earlier. He had discussed it in two therapy experiences but reported no
success whatever in overcoming it.
disempowerment. The anger would have been his way of momentarily empower-
ing himself. Of course, the problem was that he could not, or would not show this
anger, whether or not he was conscious of it, for fear of revealing his original,
concealed pridefulness.
The anger, by definition, became repressed because he had a very definite symp-
tom. It could be assumed therefore, that it was his father (whom he indicated was
the disciplinarian and decorum-governor of the home, the one who set the rules
about comportment), who was the who at whom, as a child, this man was angry.
The psychoanalytic implication is that he would need to be conscious of his
unconscious anger toward his father, and to examine and work on it, to make it
conscious, and then to do something that relates to the original prohibition
against owning his personal achievements. It is proposed that until that happened
the symptom would be sustained as part of his personality-trait system, and not
as a separate part of his personality, specifically as a compartmentalized, alien
symptom-characteristic.
In his present state of knowing, what happened was that whenever he reached a
point in conversation with others in which his accomplishments and achievements
appeared, especially in bold relief, then he became angry, because he couldn’t
show his pride, and then at once repressed the anger. His blushing appeared, which
represented his true underlying wish to be noticed, a wish gratified, albeit in this
translated, perverse form. This presumed original wish to be seen, was now there-
fore realized. Getting red in the face, gets you seen-ultimately, an involuntary dis-
closure of success–wish gratified.
suffering with this malady, this symptom, all of her life: “As long as I can remem-
ber,” she said.
intellectual task was that they had assumed. In such cases he would confront the
person in a way that could be embarrassing to that person. This, despite the fact
that if the situation were reversed, and he was the one challenged, his embarrass-
ment, especially if he knew he was wrong, would be great, and without a doubt
would cause him to blush a bright red, from the base of his neck to the dome of
his bald skull. Nevertheless, he showed no empathy to others and could force
others into these embarrassing intellectual encounters.
In this case, the particular inaccessible symptom that will be described was a
highly visible, encapsulated one, embedded within an unusual delusional system.
The symptom was so entrenched and so delusional that in examining the case, it
became difficult not to be struck with the notion that what we were looking at was
the anatomy of a psychosis. Yet, it was a psychosis without hallucinations, gen-
eral distortions, word salads, tangential thinking, flat affect, incoherence, or any
other conventional criterion used to diagnosis psychosis. The psychosis was, in
derivative form, exclusively reflected in the delusion, which was a distortion, but
highly specific, one that did not contaminate other aspects of the subject’s cogni-
tive organization. What it did do, however, was contaminate the subject’s primary
relationship–it contaminated his partner’s ability to be with him, because to live
with such a specific distortion in a partner, and to hear about it incessantly, would
be too much for any normal, balanced person.
The patient was a man in his 50’s who was a crackerjack salesperson in the
men’s department store of a well-known clothing shop. He was the single most
productive salesperson despite a tremendous handicap in the administration of his
job. All of his coworkers knew about his idiosyncrasy (what they called “crazy”),
and unfortunately, all took advantage of it.
The symptom was one in which the patient could do everything required of him
as a salesperson except commit anything to writing. “No writing,” he would say.
He could not bring himself to write, and therefore, would not write. He was natu-
rally intelligent, even gifted, and despite only a high-school education, was an
avid reader, was quite literate and in fact, wrote well. Yet, under no circumstance
would he put anything in writing.
Now, of course, this was difficult for him because he needed to write sales
slips. His solution was to get various other salespeople to do it for him. The catch
was that these other salespeople charged him a percentage of the sale to write the
slip. In street parlance this is known as, “paying the vig.” Since he was extremely
productive as a salesman, then the “vig” each week was considerable, so because
of this problem approximately 15% of his income went to the other sales people.
No matter what his wife said or how she implored him to write the slips himself,
his consistent mantra was: “No writing!”
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This case is an example of the distinction that needs to be made between a symp-
tom that is entirely isolated in the personality versus one that infiltrates the personal-
ity so that rather than only being an aspect of the personality, the symptom becomes
the personality. In this case, despite the fact that the symptom remained encapsu-
lated, nevertheless, it also influenced his entire personality. Despite the fact that he
could function in all other ways, nevertheless, his symptom was so pervasive within
his work life, and so intrusive with respect to the space it occupied in his marriage,
that the symptom itself began to characterize his personality. The symptom there-
fore, became his most visible, dominant trait-characteristic. People who worked with
him would laugh at him as though his problem was all there was to him.
Since this symptom had been plaguing him for the past 30 years, then naturally
he had not written sales slips for that 30-year period, so that the possibility that
his symptom could easily be cured through psychotherapy and by the application
of the symptom-code, was rather unlikely.
The question became one of attempting to identify his basic wish, identify his
repressed anger, and identify the who with whom he was presumably angry.
Because this was such a chronic, long-standing symptom, it was also evident that
the original who, also had surrogates in this patient’s everyday life. Thus, with
respect to the talking cure, and because of the encapsulated psychotic nature of
his delusional symptom, the problem here was clearly that of an inaccessible
symptom. When the details of his reason for not writing such sales slips were
uncovered, then the encapsulated psychosis, as portrayed vividly in his delusion,
was revealed. He was now also depressed because his wife had left him, and med-
ication along with psychotherapy was seen as the best course of treatment.
The Delusion
This patient’s wish became understandable after he admitted that he would not
write sales slips because he felt whatever he wrote would implicate him in some
crime. He also admitted to feeling uncomfortable whenever he read in the daily
newspaper or saw on television news of some terrible crime. His discomfort in
reading or hearing such news was such that he felt vulnerable, and believed he
would be apprehended by the police for the commission of the crime. Thus, it
may be possibly conceived that his fear about writing anything concerned an
imaginary impulse that he anticipated, that might jump out of him and incrimi-
nate him in whatever crime or wrongdoing was reported in the news.
The main problem for him was the distinction between what he knew and what
he felt. What he knew is that he really didn’t commit any crime at all. Yet, he was
gripped by an obsessive, all consuming feeling that, in fact, he did do something
wrong, and that this wrongness would be revealed should he write anything at all.
Thus, for him, “knowing” had very little power, while “feeling” was compelling.
It was a case of a “knowing” that was obsessively gnawing at him, and a “feeling”
that was paranoid. In one person – the obsessive versus the paranoid – the para-
noid was always victorious.
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Thus, simply stated, he was basically afraid that if he wrote anything down in
black and white, he would not be able to control his impulse to confess, so that
what he wrote would turn out to be his confession. He was guilt ridden and this
feeling permeated his very being.
In a deeper sense, with respect to his basic self-image and ego, at the core of his
personality it certainly could be assumed that he felt himself to be completely
imperfect, incomplete, inadequate, and inferior, and was most likely furious
about this self-assumed inferiority. Thus, this delusional thinking regarding his
self-incrimination was a direct reflection of a psychosis. The delusion was all-
consuming and he continually acted it out.
Because the entire syndrome was so chronic and so pervasive, the thought of
succeeding with this patient in a psychotherapeutic endeavor in the absence of
medication would in all likelihood have been folly. It is an example of attempting
to understand and treat an ambulatory character psychosis in only partial lifelong
remission. The remission was partial because, he retained the delusional thought.
Yet, in all other spheres of his life, he was in tact.
patient could not recall a single instance in which his father gave him something
he asked for or countermanded his mother’s refusals.
The speculation that might be made from this rather sketchy history of his early
life, concerns how the symptom-code might be applied to an understanding of his
symptom structure. In this case, identifying the who was difficult. Was it his
mother or father? He was only somewhat aware of the negative feelings toward
each of them. However, even though he was vaguely aware of his dissatisfaction
toward his parents, it is probably safe to assume that it was really anger or rage
toward them that remained unconscious.
It is proposed that his repressed anger was directed toward a specific who,
mother or father. Part of the problem was his inability to produce clear portraits of
his parents, or for that matter, of any other possibly important figures of his form-
ative years.
The wish, is probably not difficult to guess. Since it would seem that his guilt
reveals some basic rage against each of his parents – a guess based mostly on his
obsessive, intrusive memory of thinking it would have been good had they been
killed by the truck – then the rage he presumably felt, and continued to feel into
adulthood, can translate from a wish that it would have been good had they been
killed by the truck, into his wish to kill one or the other himself. It seems likely
that his thought that he wanted the truck to do it, may already have been a transla-
tion of his chronic rage toward them, so that the truck was really a substitute
object representing his own primary wish.
This rage was likely the equivalent of a wish to kill. Usually people can have
such wishes, but they are harmless and remain on the level of wish, fantasy, and
even on the manifest level of figure of speech. In this patient’s case, perhaps the
original wish developed, as suggested above, as a chronic and intense one, and it
may be that he didn’t have the resilience to see it as different from behavior. In his
behind The Line withdrawal and fantasizing, thinking became equivalent to
doing. Thus, he felt guilty that he had committed a crime – one of the ultimate
crimes. It can be speculated that the distorted dynamics of his psyche began to
govern and even dominate his personality, and even though he knew he didn’t do
it, nevertheless, his feeling that he did do it may have prevailed and triumphed
over what he actually knew. It could have been that in the organization and
tyranny of his psyche, as stated, knowing had very little power, while feeling was
compelling.
Thus, as a strategy, not writing made sense. It meant that because uncon-
sciously he had convicted himself of murder, then not writing kept him both in a
guilt-free state, and at the same time enabled him to avoid the legal procedure for
the crime, and, in addition, to avoid incarceration or worse. He could also be
guilt-free because in the acting-out of the symptom of not-writing, the meaning of
the symptom could remain unconscious; that is, because he acts out the symptom,
then he doesn’t have to know that he killed either his mother or father, which
unconsciously, he, of course, in all likelihood, believed he had done.
This definition of acting out as described earlier, is the classic psychoanalytic
definition; that is, that acting out is an attempt to do something rather than know
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something. In this patient’s case, the doing presumably was expressed by enact-
ing the symptom, and the not-knowing concerned his imagined self incrimination
in a parent’s ostensible murder.
With respect to the symptom-code then, the hypotheses here include: that his
wish was to be free; repressed anger was identified; and, the who, of course, was
hypothesized to be one of his parents, presumably toward whom the original rage
was directed. Finally, it should be remembered, as reported in Part I, of this book,
that a direct wish produces a symptom that relieves tension, while an avoidant
wish is defined as indirect, and produces a symptom that sustains or increases ten-
sion. In this patient’s case, his wish was a direct positive one –to do something
rather than avoid something. The “to do something” was the wish to be free.
Symbolically, whenever his symptom of not writing was acted out, it meant he
was free because the culprit parent was dead – murdered by him – and further, the
memory of the murder therefore kept unconscious. Hence there was a relief of
tension each time he didn’t write.
Of course, this entrenched symptom, which at all costs and with respect to his
delusion, apparently needed to be protected, reinforced, and fortified, kept him
behind The Line in an insular obsessive/paranoid withdrawal – albeit encapsulated –
and made it impossible for him to be front of The Line, in a reality position.
The postscript here is that his father died of throat cancer ten years earlier when
the patient was in his mid-40’s; his mother, still quite extant, and in her late-70’s.
Chapter 16
“I’m not Going to Work Today”:
A Case of Agoraphobia
“I’m not going to work today.” That quote was the first crystallized conscious hint
of the problem in a 60-year-old woman who for the past 20 years, had worked as
a bookkeeper for the same firm. She had never married, and despite her modest
income, owned her own luxurious condominium apartment in a large metropoli-
tan area. In addition, she owned an expensive luxury automobile, and her closets
were literally jammed with the latest and most expensive tailor-made clothing.
She vacationed twice a year for a month at a time. She never cooked for herself,
and dined in expensive restaurants. All of this considered, her only visible source
of income was that from her job as bookkeeper.
Her problem began with her initial statement, “I’m not going to work today,”
that she made to herself, out loud, and ended with her repeating out loud: “As a
matter of fact, I’m not going to work, period.”
This is how she reported the revelation that she was feeling different. In this
case of a woman with severe agoraphobia, it could be predicted, as in the previous
chapter of a case of delusion, that psychotherapy treatment would not be the effi-
cacious sole strategy of choice. In the previous chapter, the therapy alone would
have been impossible because of the chronic, entrenched nature of the problem,
and because the symptom was encapsulated as a psychotic delusion, and further
because the patient’s memory of past people and events was quite vague. This
made it difficult to capture the memory of the specific who with whom he had
been angry.
Similarly, with the present case, psychotherapy alone could not solve the prob-
lem or cure the symptom, because a severe, even cataclysmic implosion of rage
was assumed to be the cause. Moreover, this implosion is assumed to have been
so devastating, that the anger-debris was, most likely scattered throughout her
psyche. It would be impossible, therefore, to collect the anger and reconstitute it
into the original rage reaction; that is, to reconstitute the memory of the who as it
is connected to the rage. An effective therapy without medication was thus pre-
cluded. And this conclusion seemed valid, even in the face of her very conscious
identification of the who.
Along with a medication regimen, a psychotherapeutic process was undertaken
with this woman in a quest to stem the tide of the accelerating agoraphobia. The
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point was that she was deteriorating, the agoraphobia was accelerating, and she
was set on the worst possible pathological course. By the time the patient began
treatment, she was unable to be away from her apartment. As fortune would have
it, she was able to visit a therapist whose office was at a separate entrance to the
building in which she lived. However, these visits required her to leave the build-
ing, walk four or five steps to this other door, and yet, even this was only possible
for a while. Despite the medication and therapy sessions, after only some ses-
sions, the agoraphobia became resistant to any sort of intervention.
In short order, not only would she not go to work, but she would not leave the
lobby of her apartment building. Soon thereafter, she could not leave her apart-
ment. Still later, she had decided she would not leave her bedroom, and then, of
course, her perimeter was reduced to the circumference around her bed so that
then her bed itself became her universe. This sort of extreme agoraphobic symp-
tom is not unlike that of Howard Hughes, the billionaire who eventually would
not or could not leave his bed.
Although knowing the symptom-code and feeling certain that applying it could
produce some insight, for sure, it’s use could not cure this hugely dense symptom.
The symptom itself was profoundly resistive to treatment and her hypothesized
implosion of anger so very severe, that she was entirely and hopelessly infused
with rage. The story she initially told, which she herself described as the problem,
seemed indeed to be the problem.
Apparently, for the past 20 years, the duration of her employ, this woman had
been having an affair with her very wealthy employer. When she first started
working for this man she was about 40 years of age, and this was to be the first
long-term relationship of her life. She reported having had several boyfriends, but
all these past relationships were of short duration.
Her history implied that she was a very dependent person, having lived with a
bachelor brother for the 10 year period prior to her bookkeeping job. At that time
she had no real savings and lived month to month, spending all of her earnings for
rent and other necessities. When the affair began, this man who was married with
a family of his own, was 60 years old. Before the end of the first year of their liai-
son he purchased an apartment for her and there had her safely ensconced for the
ensuing duration of their 20 year relationship. In addition, he continuously show-
ered her with expensive clothing and jewelry, and as a bonus, generous cash gifts.
Over the ensuing two decades, she invested much of that money and became
affluent on her own.
Because he was so considerate as well as generous with her, she never believed
he would terminate their relationship. Rather, it seemed that because she became
financially independent, it would be she who could step away from the relation-
ship. As it turned out, and in a psychological sense, she would never have been
able to leave the relationship because she was so emotionally dependent on this
man. She believed that the same need she had for him, he had for her. To whatever
extent that may or may not have been true, eventually, and immediately preceding
the point of the acute onset of her agoraphobic symptom, he had broken their tie.
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At first, after he turned 80, he began to complain that rather than his schedule
easing, it was becoming tighter, busier. Then he suddenly announced that he
would be unable to see her as much. It was then that she started spending week-
day evenings as well as weekends, alone. This was in contrast to how it had
always been with them. In the past, for them to spend one weekend day and one
or two evenings per week together, had become a tradition and this had continued
throughout their relationship.
In addition, her bonuses stopped and he informed her that her job would be
reduced to two days a week. Decreasing her visibility at the office was the partic-
ular stimulus that crystallized her anger, – making it palpable. The other insults
made her feel “bad, upset, disappointed, sad,” but not consciously angry. Of
course, these adjectives she used were all code words for anger, but she was not
able to experience the anger. At first, she could only experience feeling “bad,
upset, disappointed, and sad.” Then she began to realize she was angry at him. All
along, however, and unconsciously, she was most likely, raging against him. Yet
she could not permit herself to be conscious of this rage because its very magni-
tude would indicate to her that their relationship was really, in effect, no more.
The point about her minimal presence at the office felt to her as though he was
going to incrementally decrease her presence to zero. This seemingly inexorable
advance to zero was difficult for her to bear because, as she put it, “My only claim
to fame was that everyone at the office knew I was important.” Apparently, all the
employees knew that she was the boss’ “special friend,” and so they all deferred
to her, and for those two decades she was treated like royalty. This was the only
period of her life that she felt special, despite the fact that she was special only
insofar as she was illegitimate royalty. Her employer never intended to leave his
wife and family and always told her so. She accepted the arrangement because as
she herself said, “I knew I was never going to be married, and I never wanted to
have children, so this was just perfect for me, and I loved him.”
felt bad and sad and disappointed, anything but furious, and enraged. Thus, this
woman used an entire glossary of anger synonyms or code words for anger rather
than being conscious of her debilitating, volcanic inner devastation. Certainly, this
kind of utter rejection assumes the presence of a maximum amount of repressed rage.
Third, the who, with whom she was enraged, was obviously her boss/lover.
Knowing it did not at all have any salubrious effect on her. The fact was that her
emotional dependency on this man was all-consuming. She herself could never
have left him, and she knew that he was aware of this. In addition, it was he, who
terminated the relationship in the abrupt, impersonal manner that she reported,
and this was enough evidence to reveal quite a plausible rationale for her pro-
found sense of diminishment. The result of it all was the appearance of a terrible
symptom that was inaccessible to treatment.
It was a death. In a case with such intense dependency, the abrupt cessation of
the dependent relationship could easily produce the kind of powerlessness, the
kind of helplessness that generates intense rage, that in this case was initially
managed by keeping the intense feelings unconscious, out of awareness. Thus,
the agoraphobic symptom resulting in this woman’s confinement to the perimeter
around her bed was equivalent to her death. She could not function without the
dependent relationship. She was not alive without it, and for all intents and pur-
poses, she was essentially acting out her death. The acting out, the agoraphobic
symptom, was so acutely entrenched that it would seem that only one key could
unlock it, and that key was not the symptom-code nor perhaps was it even the
medication. The only key that would seem able to unlock the symptom was a
reconstituted and secure dependent relationship.
Thus, if her lover would suddenly appear at her bed, and tell her that it was all
a mistake, that the relationship would continue to be how it always was, and that
most importantly, she could, of course, return to her job full-time, then it is
assumed that her sense of self-esteem would instantly return and like magic, she
would surely recover her bearings; especially with the realization that her royal
privileges still obtained. Only then, would she permit herself to be cured and only
then would she be able to cross The Line into a doing reality place and out of her
deadly withdrawal. It was not to be.
Chapter 17
Chaos: A Case of Compulsive
Collecting and Hoarding
A 55-year-old man had been collecting disability insurance since his accident in a
machine shop some years earlier. He had slipped on an oil spill and eventually
needed back surgery. He never again had a salaried job. However, he was exceed-
ingly happy with his avocation. He fancied himself a master craftsman.
He lived with his wife and 15 year old daughter in a house that his wife had pur-
chased with inherited funds. His wife and daughter were attentive to him.
However, they were really pitying him and trying to shore him up, to reassure him,
to strengthen his ego. The real problem they faced was that he was a collector and
hoarder. Further, although he knew how to build things, he was never able to finish
a project, and so there were half-chairs, and half-cabinets, and so forth, strewn all
over the house. The problem was so severe that the daughter could never have
friends over because the scene was quite bizarre.
This was the case of an obsessive-compulsive disorder, with an emphasis on
the compulsion, almost certainly masking deeper pathology. His penchant for
amassing clutter was based on his notion that whatever tool or stray piece of
wood he would come across, could possibly be useful to him in his work. Thus,
over more than a decade, the house was loaded with junk. Apparently, not a sin-
gle surface was available on which even to place a saucer.
His wife was at her wits end, and threatened to leave him unless he sought
treatment. She reasoned with him, trying to appeal to logic, saying to him that of
course he knew that he never finished making even a single piece of furniture.
Everything was always in the process of becoming. In response, he would
acknowledge that she was right, but insisted that his plan was also always to get to
each project and indeed, finish it, but he never did. His capacity for rationalization
and denial was immense, and his ability to amass clutter–hundreds, even thou-
sands of tools, as well as wood strips, planks, partitions, and random wood
objects–was world class. Even he was beginning to see that the rooms in the
house were filling up. Yet, this didn’t prevent him from collecting and amassing
new supplies each day. When his wife threatened to leave, and despite the fact
that it motivated him to seek treatment, he was also rather of two minds about his
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wife leaving home because as he finally said, “It was embarrassing for me to have
her live in that, and for her to see it every minute.”
Thus, this man knew how crazy the whole thing was, but knowing was not suf-
ficient to motivate him to do something about it. Rather, his feeling held sway and
it was this feeling of needing to do “it” that transcended any intellectual knowing.
The fact was, that this chaotic clutter collecting, was a severe symptom of com-
pulsive hoarding.
His tendency to save (hoard) things began as early as he could remember.
He always felt that to have “it,” or to save “it,” felt good. The “it,” changed from
time to time, but sometime in his late 30’s, when he began to feel good about
tools, this compulsive hoarding symptom flowered into a life’s work. He
reported that at times he felt “a little pressure” and when that happened, any tool
he could find or buy, made him feel better. He just loved collecting them. Along
with this compulsive penchant for curing his “pressure” by collecting tools, by
his early 40’s he also began collecting wood objects that he planned to utilize in
his furniture projects.
After a while, his wife would comb through the various and sundry items and
dispose of duplicates. This would anger him, but he was able to let it pass. It
reminded him of what his mother would do when he was a child and his room
became too cluttered. From time to time, he would arrive home from school, and
his mother would have cleaned it all up and actually thrown much of it away.
This would always infuriate him but he was too young and couldn’t persuade her
not to do it.
As the youngest of three siblings (two older sisters), with a span of 12 years
between him and the middle sibling, given his baby status in the family, it might
be expected that he would have been overprotected and overfed. However, what
happened was that he was underfed, undersupervised, and relatively unattended.
In addition, in his growing-up years, the patient reported feeling alone much of
the time. He was most at peace when he created games for himself and, as he said,
“collected things.” He claimed his mother would always insist on getting her own
way and that his father was weak. He reported also that his father was kind to him
but was controlled by his mother so that “he was never able to stand up to her, and
I always hated his weakness.”
For the most part, he indicated that he felt his parents favored his sisters. “No
one talked to me,” he said. He also indicated that he never felt entitled to anything
and grew up with “a humongous inferiority complex.” His response to feeling
inadequate, unentitled, and not a bona fide family member, was to develop expert-
ise in various areas. For example, he was a good artist and apparently would
spend almost all of his time drawing and painting. He also learned how to build
things and became proficient with tools. But from an early point on, he began
noticing that he wouldn’t finish things and that he procrastinated. This was espe-
cially true in school, when he would be perennially late handing in homework as
well as papers that he needed to write. He also noticed that he was “anxious a lot
of the time,” and eventually, he dropped out of high school.
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Of course the qualifier in any such case is that the entire psychodynamic pic-
ture is just an imposition of theory, and that this sort of difficulty – collecting,
hoarding, as well as all other such life-long difficulty – may really be an example
of a genetic or organic brain anomaly that expresses itself this way.
Taken together, his hoarding and his compulsive tension-reduction technique
of collecting, may have offered him a symbolic solution to his problem. The more
he collected and saved, the more his possessions increased and correspondingly,
the more solid he could feel. In addition, it is possible that all of his unfinished
projects perhaps served the purpose of creating the condition where the anticipa-
tion of finishing something and making it whole, meant that possibly he too could
be bona fide and whole.
Of course, this kind of repetition-compulsion of collecting and hoarding could
never make him bona fide and legitimate. Perhaps an examination of his early his-
tory, an analysis and working through of his early sense of not belonging, and a
look at what he experienced as emotional and affectional exile, could help address
his core conflict. With the addition of medication, it is possible that the compul-
sive behavior could entirely disappear. It would then be more possible for him to
work on, and at least to talk about and examine, these formative influences that, it
is assumed, were sustained in his unconscious, plaguing him his entire life.
Since his ostensible wish was a positive and direct one–to be accepted as one
equal to his siblings, to possess a sense of legitimacy–then his symptom of com-
pulsive collecting relieved his tension. Nevertheless, this particular problem, his
symptom of compulsivity and hoarding, as well as the diagnostic implication of
deeper psychotic (or brain) pathology, rendered this man unable to conduct his life
in a normal manner. He had been unable to work for many years (notwithstanding
his accident), and had been effectively unemployable mostly because, even at his
job, complaints were heard about his lateness and failure to complete work.
It may be assumed that this man’s predominant wish in childhood was to be
accepted and that this wish was thwarted. It also may be possible to assume that
he reflexively became angry at what he may have experienced as a sustained dis-
empowerment regarding this dominant thwarted wish. In such a situation where
he may have felt unentitled and not bona fide, it could be predicted that his anger,
rather than becoming directly expressed, would probably become repressed and
that the repression would have created the symptom. Thus, the issue was, what
did his symptom mean, what did it symbolize?
The amassing and filling the house with compulsively collected tools and
wood, and the hoarding of such material, leads to a rather simple symbolic con-
nection of symptom and wish. That is to say, it might be hypothesized that he
wanted to fix it all. He wanted to fix the family and fix himself; tools and wood,
build something good. But alas, it all remained unfinished, behind The Line in
withdrawal-wood, tools, and him. The wish was good, to repair his experience,
but as a symptom destined to remain unfulfilled.
Chapter 18
“Not Thin Enough!”:
A Case of Anorexia
A 28-year-old woman was hospitalized by her family after she made good on her
promise, “Maybe suicide will work for me.” She was found partly conscious in
the family garage, locked in the closed car, with the engine running. It was con-
sidered a serious suicide attempt and not merely a gesture. It was absolutely clear
that had she not been discovered in time, she would have died.
This woman was an only child, and had been anorectic, more or less, for the
past 13 years, since her mid adolescence, starting at about the age of 15. Hers was
a rather typical anorexia in which she constantly fretted about her weight, pushed
food away, weighed herself frequently, and for years, repeated her mantra: “Not
thin enough!”
Along with her fetish of thinness, she had been somewhat withdrawn, dating
also from her mid adolescence. The diagnosis arrived at in this, her first ever hos-
pitalization, was depression with chronic anorexia and high suicide risk.
This kind of chronic anorexia along with her history of withdrawal, signaled
that hers was a clinical syndrome that would be resistive to treatment, and the
anorexia symptom itself was in all likelihood an inaccessible symptom, consid-
ered to be, more or less, incurable with known existing talk-treatment technology.
Obviously, in such a case, various medication regimens would be tried in the hope
of hitting upon some miracle agent or combination of agents.
The patient stated that her most important relationship was with her mother and
that she never really took her father seriously. “He’s weak,” she said. “We patronize
him, and that’s about it.” Her mother was the major power in her life, and she indi-
cated that she talked everything over with her mother, including sexual matters.
When her mother was interviewed, the first thing she said was that her daugh-
ter hated to chew. The mother said that her daughter had never been withdrawn or
demonstrated any bizarre or unusual behavior in childhood. But from childhood
her daughter had been finicky over food, although, not anorectic.
In trying to identify some recent pivotal event that immediately preceded her
suicide attempt, as well as fix on some person associated with such an event, the
patient denied any such possible specific causative stimuli. However, in continu-
ing to trace her history from the present to the recent past, and then to the more
distant past, the patient happened to reveal that she had not gotten her period for
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almost the entire past year, about eight months. In reviewing what may have hap-
pened eight months prior to her suicide attempt and hospitalization, she revealed
that she had an emotionally draining experience. She had been heartbroken
because a man she had met, who she felt liked her, and whom she very much
liked, rejected her because he actually told her she was “skin and bone,” and that
he “couldn’t do it.” He was harshly direct with her and told her he didn’t like to
lie, so that was how he felt. She was just “too thin.” Interestingly enough,
although this man told her she was too thin, her own incessant refrain for the past
half of her life was, “Not thin enough!”
When her mother was asked about the patient’s failed relationship with this
man, she indicated that the end scene was quite horrible and confirmed that her
daughter had felt terribly heartbroken over the rejection. Apparently, the patient
spent the remaining months pining for the absent partner, and it seemed to her
mother that she had not gotten over it and that, again, according to the mother, this
rejection may have been “the cause of all of her trouble.” It also seemed likely,
based upon the correlation of events, that the patient’s current menstrual inhibition
(amenorrhea), was fortified by this rejection trauma.
At first the patient was reluctant and even in protest about discussing her feel-
ings regarding this failed relationship, and especially with respect to the fact that
she was terribly hurt by it. When she did finally discuss it, a torrent of emotion
erupted. She cried and admitted to feeling devastated by the experience. Part of
her distress concerned a wish on her part to look good for this man, yet she con-
stantly felt that despite his desire for her to gain weight, she was not thin enough.
Her answer obeyed a more compelling personal inner demand, and therefore, by
default, she dismissed his feelings. Thus, rather than comply with his wishes by
gaining weight, she obeyed those personal inner commands of hers, unconscious
though they certainly were, and continued to avidly work at actually losing more
weight and therefore, getting thinner.
This woman harbored ambivalent feelings about her mother. She felt that she
needed her mother’s blessings for all sorts of daily decisions, as well as for emo-
tional support, and simultaneously she resented that she could only feel good when
she had won her mother’s approval. Any question posed to her about the pivotal
condition that ignited a suicidal impulse in her was met with a studied silence. She
would stare but not answer. Finally she admitted that a friend of hers had told her
that this man, about whom she was agonizing, was engaged and was soon to be
married. It was then, she finally confessed, that she decided to kill herself.
Apparently, this woman had developed an entire fantasy life involving this
man, and in the process of developing her fantasy, had decided that he would
change his mind and would be in touch with her. This thought would make her
feel better, and it was just about the only thing that in fact, could make her feel
better. She indicated that when her friend had told her about his impending mar-
riage, she felt “everything crashing down,” – that she really had nothing to live
for. According to her mother, at that time, she became embroiled in an argument
with her parents and shouted: “Nothing works for me. I’ve tried everything but
suicide. Maybe suicide will work for me.” In any event, her parents had not taken
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what she said about trying suicide as a serious threat. They only understood it as
a figure of speech and an hysterical verbal lashing out.
Thus, the two issues that became at least somewhat clear in the distillation of
her history, in her interviews, as well as in the interviews with her mother, were:
(1) that she was exceedingly hurt by the man who rejected her; and, (2) that the
relationship with her mother contained strong dependency features on the
patient’s part, along with an imputation of power on the mother’s part. Whether or
not her mother had personal needs to control everything around her, or whether
by default, the mother was endowed with such power by her daughter, neverthe-
less, the patient was infantilized within the family. This family constellation con-
sisted of a powerful mother, an ineffectual father, and the patient herself, an
infantilized, somewhat regressed only child, who had grown up to be a dependent
woman.
her extreme dependency on her mother’s approval would in all likelihood gener-
ate great anger. The principal upon which this proposition is based concerns the
relation of dependency and anger insofar as dependency always breeds anger.
Thus, because she always had been so dependent on her mother, she would cer-
tainly always have been angry at her, but at a deep unconscious level.
An example of the operation of such a principal can be seen in the psychology
of the dependency of childhood giving way to the sturm und drang of adolescence.
In addition to new hormonal activity in adolescence that usually causes such upset,
nevertheless, the many years of childhood dependency, where reliance on parents
is so great, also contributes to the outbreak of anger during adolescence. Second,
there were intimations in this case, that the patient’s mother was a controlling type.
Assuming the truth of this impression, then a strong potential for anger in the
daughter, would also surely be a possibility. Third, the severity of the symptom
also suggests that a great store of anger was being unconsciously sustained.
It would be easy to assume that because of the dependency problem in this
woman her basic wish was to become more autonomous, more independent, more
mature. Yet, it might be that the nature of the anorectic symptom implies some-
thing different. Since the dependence on the mother was so strong, and since this
implies that the repressed anger in this woman was similarly strong, then it may
have been that this woman’s wish was an indirect, negative one–an avoidant wish.
The wish may have been targeted at her needing to reduce the tension generated
by the anger; that is, the wish would be not to be angry. In this sense, the wish
would be that the anger somehow would become less intense, and not be so per-
vasive. This sort of indirect wish indicates that the symptom, in this case of
anorexia, can never relieve tension; that is, the indirect wish would produce a
painful symptom and not one that relieves tension–“Damn it, not thin enough!” It
is this kind of indirect avoidant wish that reveals what the anorectic symptom
really says.
equivalence has been construed between anger and thinness, then if one wants to
reduce anger one then goes ahead and reduces weight, tries to get thinner. Of
course, in reality, thinness and anger have no seeming discernible relation, no sig-
nificant correlation. Yet, once such a symbolic equivalence is established, there
forms an inextricable unconscious cause and effect relationship between getting
thinner and reducing anger. The problem is that this cause and effect relationship
is just that, a symbolic, unconscious, and strictly behind The Line construction. It
is a construction based on distortions, on unfulfilled needs, and on constraints that
the person feels, the solution to which is to create fantasy connections of cause
and effect–in this case, thinning out her anger. These, or course, are behind The
Line connections, connections made in withdrawal, that have virtually nothing to
do with real cause and effect but can become so powerful that such fantasy distor-
tion can constitute a path to personal destruction.
Thus, this woman’s anorectic symptom, about which she says, “Not thin
enough!” strongly implies that her reservoir of unconscious, repressed anger is
intense and deep, and that it is putting tremendous pressure on her. In an attempt
to reduce the pressure, she reduces her weight but alas, the anger remains
untouched. For an anorectic person to try to reduce the magnitude of the anger by
losing weight and of course fail at it, and then need to lose more weight, and
become even thinner, and then again not have it work, would most likely produce
a secondary anger which would then be a result of poor performance–actually,
failure. One anger on top of another is what becomes typical, so that this kind of
symptom would in this way be fortified, reinforced, and then neurotically and
consistently nourished. So, rather than the nourishment of the person, we get a
nourished symptom!
Despite the fact that such a symptom is so entrenched, nevertheless the use of
medication to neutralize some of the anger can be very helpful, and in addition,
perhaps can help provide access to the symptom via psychotherapy. Yet, in its
present form, this anorectic symptom would most likely be inaccessible solely to
therapy. In addition, in this case the symptom was of a chronic nature so that the
prognosis for an efficient recovery strictly on the basis of psychotherapy was
guarded.
With respect to her suicide attempt, we may assume that her almost-romance
with the man who crushingly rejected her also felt as though it was her only
chance of liberation from a nuclear dependency on her mother which she
ambivalently both wanted and did not want, and this hope was resoundingly
dashed. But liberated from what, from whom? Would she be liberated from her
mother, and directly into the arms of another figure upon whom she would again
depend? The hope was a false one. Her suicide attempt thus was possibly based
upon another behind The Line hope resting on the assumption that if only the
relationship with this man worked, then she would have achieved her love aim
and, in addition, become liberated from a life of infantile, regressive dependency
on her childhood parental figure. Paradoxically, however, this may have been
only half her wish–the other half perhaps being a need to remain dependent on
this self-same childhood parental figure.
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A 35-year-old man had been hospitalized for the second time in one year, for
major depression and withdrawal. Shortly after each hospitalization, the depres-
sion seemed to lift, and it was thought that even without medication, these hospi-
talizations tended to revitalize him. The second hospitalization was at a state
mental institution.
He worked as a handyman to clients whom his adoptive mother cared for in her
capacity as a home nurse’s aide. This arrangement apparently had been successful
for them over a period of many years. The patient would become agitated when
discussing this mother-son arrangement primarily because, when she was work-
ing, he felt deprived, actually bereft over his separation from her. Yet, it was this
mother who convinced the patient to admit himself to the hospital, and whose
requests, he confessed, he could not refuse.
At first, his diagnosis was easily decided upon because he demonstrated each
of the main constituent properties of depression. Yet, before any medication was
even ordered, his depression lifted. At the same time, however, he had managed to
acquire as well as conceal, some women’s toiletries, cosmetics, and clothing–
panties, padded bra, blouse and short leather skirt. He was eventually appre-
hended by hospital security after they found him changing from female clothing
into his shirt and pants. His problem was that he didn’t have time to dispose of the
female garb he was wearing. He did, however, manage to wipe off his lipstick and
rouge. After a chase, he was found in his hospital room with a jar of cold cream in
his hands, paper towels smeared with lipstick, and female clothing strewn on his
bed. He was being pursued by hospital security after it was reported that a man in
women’s clothing was exposing himself in full view of the windows of one of the
buildings housing female patients. He had been exhibiting himself while in full
female regalia.
When he was apprehended for exhibitionism, he was not at all depressed. An
astounding part to the story was that this man was 6 feet 4 inches tall, was a lithe
mesomorph, and was handsome and charming. On the negative side, he had a
child like innocence about him. Nevertheless, when he was apprehended, a
padded bra, a blouse, and a blonde wig with shoulder length curls, were found
under the covers of the bed.
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It was reported by the women who saw him, that he had pulled up the leather
skirt he was wearing, to reveal his genitals. He was apparently fully erect. Yet he
denied ever having anything to do with these female items, and could not explain
how they happened to be there, on and in his bed. In scouring his room, hospital
security also discovered a diary in his bureau drawer. The diary was essentially a
conversation; one person, a man, talking to another, a woman. In the diary, the
man explained to the woman that he felt good only when attacking others, while
the woman, in answering him, explained that she only felt good when exhibiting
her penis. And the diary went on like that, one or two pages from him to her, and
then one or two pages from her to him.
The patient denied knowing anything about the diary, and in fact, his script was
different from the script of the other two in the diary. However, evidence against
him began to mount when, along with some of the female patients’ positive iden-
tification of him as the exhibitionist, a male patient complained that he was
almost attacked by our patient for no reason that he could see, and that then our
patient was often in a foul mood, scornful and smoldering, and always, it seemed,
looking for a fight.
This unusual patient who was at first obviously under diagnosed as only
depressed, was presented at a staff conference, and in the face of patently clear
evidence, denied ever exhibiting himself. He also denied ever feeling aggressive
toward others, also here again, even in the face of eyewitness accounts. Yet, his
denials were seemingly authentic, and therefore, believable.
Thus, it was felt that his actual diagnosis, although certainly, at least containing
an episodic depressive condition, was deeper, more extensive, and implied a more
serious complex of variables. This more complex syndrome qualified as a classic
case of dissociative identity disorder, formerly known as multiple personality, and
before that, referred to in the professional nomenclature as, split personality. The
depression was then seen as secondary to the fuller picture of this possible diag-
nosis of dissociative identity disorder.
After some time it became evident that his only visitor was his adoptive
mother, who it seemed was rather inappropriate in her demeanor. She was in her
mid 50’s. She had adopted the patient when he was 3 years old. She divorced soon
thereafter and retained custody of him.
Her inappropriate demeanor consisted of a rather garish display of her figure–both
with respect to style of clothing and color. She was a vividly voluptuous woman who
wore shockingly bright clothing of a cut that would display her figure to what she
considered to be its best advantage. She admitted that the patient cross-dressed
and often even exhibited himself to her. She dismissed this as: “Some people do
this and some do that–everyone has something strange about them. He’s basically
harmless.”
The patient only gave scant information about his life and was uniformly gen-
eral in his descriptions. His only interest, it seemed, was in describing his adop-
tive mother, whom he called “beautiful.” He would regale staff personnel with
stories of how beautiful she really was, and it became clear that his only focus of
interest was on her.
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In the case of this patient, when he occupied the sexual exhibitionistic alter
role, exhibiting himself gave him pleasure, and he also felt good when in the
aggressive role, he could expostulate his anger in aggressive acts. Thus, his wish
was gratified by an organization of personality that housed three separate aspects
of his needs. The first was the host, a nice, if rather innocent man; the second, a
rather argumentative and aggressive person; and the third, a highly sexualized
cross-dressing exhibitionist.
His cross-dressing is also interesting because often in such cases, the cross-
dresser needs to disguise his manliness before he can assert it–a double dose of
disguise, as it were. The data concerning his relationship with his mother also
reflected strong dependency along with an inability to refuse her anything. This
sort of relationship could, of course, contain imperatives concerning some covert
instruction for him to remain child like, thereby denying any overt masculine sex-
ual maturity. In such a case, it could be hypothesized that his exhibitionism
would, actually and ingeniously, only occur in female form.
Of course, the entire syndrome here is a bold example of a behind The Line sce-
nario where this man existed most of the time in fantasy–albeit extensive fantasy, in
roles acted out with meticulous care. His story and his acting out of these roles is par-
ticularly poignant, especially when viewed from the vantage point of his diary. The
diary seems to have been a profound example of his loneliness. It created for him the
ability to have friends–both of his alters had become friends, and had begun writing
to one another. Despite the fact that he claimed he knew nothing of this relationship
between them, nevertheless he was the author of their relationship and therefore, on
an unconscious level he was deriving some gratification from their kinship.
This is not the kind of symptom that can be cured with the simple application of
the symptom-code. With respect to treatment, a delicate, gradual accommodation
would have to be made between his alters and himself, the host. This would neces-
sarily constitute a rapprochement among all of them, accomplished through
dialogue. He would have to get together with them, to talk about them, even perhaps,
with them. Most of all, the apparent prohibition against integrating these motifs of
aggression and sex into his personality would need to be investigated, and the distor-
tions about their dangers would have to be resolved. In addition, it may be expected
that for him to become conscious of this inner drama, necessarily he would need to
become more conscious of the experiences that were presumably repressed.
The original problem may concern his anger regarding the entire circumstance
of the hypothesized cooption in his early life. Despite the presumed trade-off he
made, that of giving up sex and aggression so that he could have his wish (exclu-
sive rights to his adoptive mother and her likely seductions), nevertheless, for him
to have developed such a complex symptom picture, points to an enormous
amount of repressed anger toward this who.
The key to the entire picture therefore, seems to be an ostensible repressed
anger toward his adoptive mother. This may be what is repressed in the deepest
psychological sense, and at some point, along with other therapeutic work, would
need to be made conscious in order to create for this person a new synthesis
regarding a possible transformation of a fractured self into a whole one.
Chapter 20
An Asperger’s Mind:
An Examination of the Case
of Nobelian John Forbes Nash, Jr.
A biography of the Nobel Prize winner John Forbes Nash, Jr. was written by
Sylvia Nasar and published in 1998. The book, A Beautiful Mind won a National
Book Critics Circle Award for biography, and a film based on the book, was also
an Academy Award winner.
Dr. Nash was, by all accounts, considered to be a mathematician of genius
whose intuitive abilities as well as his knack of utilizing novel ways of solving
seemingly insoluble problems, engendered accolades. He was also considered by
his colleagues to be so extraordinarily special that for most of his professional
life, and despite his incapacitated psychological/emotional condition, various
institutions and many colleagues, bent over backwards to support him, subsidize
him, and even offer him intellectual professional shelter within their respective
institutions.
Many of his colleagues as well as others, recognized that he was at least, odd.
Many attributed this odd quality to his idiosyncratic genius, and much of what was
considered a social inappropriateness, was overlooked or forgiven or just tolerated.
He was occasionally abrupt with others, or could not or would not look directly at
the person he was talking to. He could say things, quite unselfconsciously, that
were so rudely direct as to embarrass, hurt the other person’s feelings. For exam-
ple, during a period when Professor Nash was trying to reconcile with his out-of-
wedlock son, John David Stier, whom he had for the longest time neglected, Nash
became critical of him suggesting that John David’s profession of nursing was less
than a stellar achievement, and that what he should really do is go to medical
school. Further, Nash also suggested that it might be a good idea for John David to
look after, and care for, John David’s younger half-brother, John Charles, who was
Nash’s legitimate Ph.D. mathematician son, who was schizophrenic. As reported
by Nasar in A Beautiful Mind, instead of trying to harmonize his own proposed
union of the half-brothers, Nash, on second thought, then quite directly said to
John David, that in reality he didn’t think it would do his schizophrenic son any
good to be around a “less intelligent older brother” – meaning John David, the son
to whom he was talking.
This absence of empathy or strange relatedness, was typical of Nash. At
best, these were genuine, authentic examples of a kind of socially aberrant
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Diagnosis
Although indeed, Nash was afflicted with schizophrenia, as well as experiencing
bouts of mania and depression, nevertheless, the vast amount of clinical evidence
actually suggests a more relevant diagnosis–that of Asperger’s syndrome. As a
diagnosis Asperger’s syndrome may be more relevant because it seems evident
that the diagnosis of Asperger’s underlies the more symptomatic elements of his
schizophrenia, his mania and depression, as well as the oddities of his behavior
noted throughout his life, by many of his family and acquaintances.
Asperger’s Syndrome
In the 1940’s, this syndrome was formulated by a Viennese pediatrician, Hans
Asperger. It is now considered to be among the spectrum of pervasive develop-
mental disorders (PDD), and many professional psychiatric personnel, consider it
to reflect high- level autism with neurologically based implications.
Most Asperger individuals show deficits in several broad categories of function-
ing, although variations on these themes are also quite common. Deficits in social
relatedness usually characterize one of these categories. Another concerns a rather
restricted and narrow, yet entirely intense corridor of interest in some particular
subject matter. With Nash, this laser-beam corridor of interest was mathematics.
Further, Asperger individuals are frequently found in professorial positions or
in professions that imply above average I.Q., and they also frequently demon-
strate great talents in one or another area of functioning. In childhood, these kinds
of people do not make friends very easily, and are loners. They are, however, usu-
ally immersed very early on in whatever is their particular narrow interest. In
John Nash’s case, it was science in general and mathematics in particular that
attracted his attention early on, and fully absorbed his time.
Such children seem to exclude everything else from their daily interactions and
even their daily conversations. Also, many Asperger children will express an
abiding interest in cars, trains, and other transportation venues. In Nash’s case, it
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was math that transported him. Mathematics was the vehicle of his cerebral geog-
raphy, his mind, that he utilized, to travel. It could be said that he was always on
some math excursion. As a matter of fact, when later Nash became schizophrenic,
he may have expressed this inner signal to travel by externalizing it, and actually
doing it. He literally would traverse continents, seemingly quite impulsively. Of
course, it could be that out of the tyranny of his delusional state, he did this trav-
eling to and fro, often, and for reasons that seemed entirely woven out of the fab-
ric of his delusions–his inner distortions, fantasies, and even hallucinations.
In many individuals with Asperger’s syndrome, one sees either an evident
timidity as a permanent character or personality trait, or an impulsive aggressive-
ness. In some cases, these polar opposites coexist. On the one hand, the person
can be quite timid and this quality can take various forms; it can appear as humil-
ity, shyness, reticence, modesty, diffidence, and so forth. On the other hand, along
with this cluster of timidity traits, there can also simultaneously exist an impulsiv-
ity, a narcissistic greed, and an aggressiveness. In Nash’s case, it seems that both
existed simultaneously. He was timid, shy, modest, even childlike, while also at
times demonstrating belligerence, stridency, impulsivity, provocativeness, and
aggression.
A hard-core characteristic in the diagnosis of Asperger’s is an absence of delay
in cognitive functioning, or language development, and the person easily shows
the ability to work in his own interest. Certainly, Professor Nash met these required
diagnostic conditions of Asperger’s. In addition, and as stated, he exhibited certain
social impairments, including a poor understanding of social cues, and, frequent
inappropriate emotional responses. Thus, to diagnose him with a serious disorder
of empathy seems justified because his response style could be defined as one in
which the person suffers with such a sufficient absence of empathy.
Dr. Nash also had an iron-clad will that was governed certainly more by his
internal signal than by any external reality cue. This willfulness, was imposed on
others as much as it was self-imposed, and in addition, was a greater imperative
of his personality than was any consideration of empathy toward others. In fact,
later in life he was able to ignore the compelling force of his auditory hallucina-
tions by sheer will-power. He refused to comply with those ever-present voices of
his hallucinations. Only the willpower of an Asperger’s mind would likely be able
to accomplish this considerable emotional/cognitive feat.
With respect to language, rather than showing prosody difficulties–intonation,
rate of speech, inflection–he was quite proficient in his use of language and could
and would spontaneously create brilliant puns. He displayed excellent command
of language, and just for the fun of it, even created several interesting strategic
games.
Although, Asperger’s is not considered curable, symptoms can become either
greater or, less visible as the person ages. In addition, Asperger individuals often
marry and have families. They are usually not terribly good at it, but with an
understanding spouse, the marriage can be managed and even sustained, although
under continued stress. Nash’s marriage qualifies in this respect, although his
wife, Alicia Larde Nash, eventually divorced him after almost a lifetime of such
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emotional and psychological stress, struggle, and strain, along with, it should be
noted, extraordinary, even uxurious devotion.
not, reconstitute himself. Delusions and hallucinations would then haunt him for
years to come.
But even in his schizophrenic state, his struggle with a great problem like revis-
ing quantum theory or solving the Riemann, as well as his struggle with his mega-
lomania was not over. He had also become incoherent and was exhibiting classic
schizophrenic delusional thinking. Yet, even though his behavior seemed random
and sick, nevertheless, it could be that all of it, all of his seemingly random, sick,
pathological, paranoid, delusional thinking, revolved around, and made perfect
sense, when viewed from the perspective of his ostensible megalomaniacal strug-
gle with the great problem of the Riemann. There are many such examples of this
struggle, but for the purpose of this exposition, two or three such examples should
suffice.
The first example of the connection between his floridly schizophrenic symp-
toms and this presumed struggle with the Riemann, concerns Nash’s obsessive
and intrusive thoughts about seeing codes in newspapers and magazines. He
would clip these articles and apparently plaster them all over his life. What he was
doing was most likely using this delusion as a template in order to see the osten-
sible coded meanings from these articles. But what did this behavior really mean?
One possible, and perhaps not very far-fetched hypothesis, is that his obsessive
focus on newspapers (in order to receive their coded messages) was really an
attempt to connect the coded messages to the solution of the Riemann. In fact, his
repetitive, insatiable pursuit of these articles, and more importantly, the satisfac-
tion this pursuit and these articles afforded him, indicated that getting these coded
messages was his unconscious confirmation that he had indeed solved the
Riemann, or was now about to. His basic wish was to solve the Riemann and his
schizophrenic pathological musings and behaviors could likely have reflected a
multitude of gratifications he derived each time he clipped an article or saw what
he deemed to be a coded message. All of it could well have been about finally
finding the solution to the Riemann. With all of these daily clippings, he could
then solve it over and over again, a classic perseveration. And the concrete collec-
tion of these articles was his proof positive, that he was, in fact, doing it, and
doing it, and doing it, solving it over and over.
Thus, all of his obsessional thinking as well as compulsive behavior regarding
coded messages and clipping articles, rather than reflecting some random, crazy,
and schizophrenic cognition, could now be seen as Nash’s quite original and even
brilliant solution to his conflict–an ingenious solution perhaps rivaling that of
actually solving the Riemann. It possibly could be called The Magnificent Nash
Synthesis.
This “Magnificent Nash Synthesis” would mean that the conflict no longer
concerned the solution to the Riemann. Rather, his conflict was now resolved by
figuring out a solution to not being able to solve the Riemann. In other words,
Nash was so brilliant that because he couldn’t solve the Riemann, then rather than
solving it, he derived a way to solve the problem of not being able to solve it, and
therefore, he was able to retain his megalomaniacal belief in his infallibility as a
genius-the greatest genius.
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What he may have done was to figure out a way to erase the Riemann as a
problem by derealizing it. Assuming the validity of this conclusion, (tentative
though it may be), the speculation here is that Nash’s approach to erasing the
Riemann, was to find the code in the magazine or newspaper, and clip the article.
Article clipped-problem finished! This kind of solution to his conflict, given his
schizophrenic condition, could be considered an overarching cognitive/organiza-
tional achievement, a feat of major proportion. Again, the problem was no longer
the Riemann. The proof of his genius now, was that Nash had figured a way of
retaining his grandiosity because he couldn’t solve the Riemann. Thus, the great-
est problem in mathematics was not the solution to the Riemann. The greatest
problem in mathematics was in not solving it. Through a psychological transfor-
mation, Nash wins by not solving it.
As indicated, his initial answer to these supra and super cognitive/organiza-
tional achievements, was in the appearance of his transformed state, in the
appearance of his schizophrenia. It may have been Nash’s way to make something
visible (in his schizophrenic state of seeing coded messages) that could perhaps
not be visible in any normal thinking state. But he was not able to accomplish this
intended goal of seeing some unusual path to the solution of the Riemann via his
schizophrenic persona.
Thus, with respect to actually solving the Riemann, this schizophrenic transfor-
mation did not work. The only thing that worked was his Freudian acted out
repetition-compulsion that never really mastered his anxiety. Rather, this repeti-
tion behavior only mastered his acting out of the conflict. In a practical sense
then, in his schizophrenic state, his solution was to hear voices and become delu-
sional about coded messages. And in these coded messages, was his perseverating
solution to the Riemann. This was a schizophrenic perseveration of the first order,
serving to gratify his need for a successful Riemann closure. Yet, this solution
was enclosed in his even greater supra cognitive/organizational feat of erasing the
Riemann altogether.
If this rather speculative scenario has some validity, then for him to remain
schizophrenic would be an imperative in order to continue to disarm the grenade in
his stomach at not really solving the Riemann. Remaining schizophrenic, there-
fore, was to control, erase, and solve the Riemann, all at the same time. An ingen-
ious Nash paradox!
Another example of this kind of logic to the retention of his schizophrenia, to
his unconscious organization, and to his confluence of thinking and behavior, also
lending a kind of support to this theory of how Nash managed both to solve and to
erase the Riemann, concerned his attempts to renounce his United Stated citizen-
ship. He went to considerable lengths, over a long period of time, trying to do this.
A possible answer as to why he would do so, again concerns his failure to solve the
Riemann, along with another way of erasing the problem altogether. A possible
hypothesis is that in his unconscious he could have posed an equation; that is, as a
United States citizen, his mission was to solve the Riemann, which he wasn’t able
to do, so that naturally, to renounce his citizenship, could mean that he no longer
felt the mandate to solve it, and therefore was off the hook. Thus, no mandate, no
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Riemann, no agony. Under such a condition he could retain the full measure of his
megalomania. “I am still the greatest genius,” would be the surviving mantra
because as a citizen of another world, the Riemann would not even exist!
A third hypothesis regarding his schizophrenia and its purpose, other than actu-
ally serving a compensatory need with respect to his actual failure in solving the
Riemann, or to whatever extent a schizophrenic predisposition may have existed,
concerns the relation between his basic presumed Asperger’s state on the one
hand, and the serious realistic challenge that he very likely experienced regarding
his self-appointed megalomaniacal genius role, on the other. It must be realized
that in Asperger functioning, despite the fact that such individuals can indeed
have relationships with friends and family, the individual’s basic relationship is
with the self. When the experience as well as the belief tells the individual that a
profound failure has occurred, a challenge emerges to this sort of narcissistic
arrangement of the self. Thus, a challenge of the relationship of self to self is cre-
ated. In the face of such a challenge, the Asperger individual has been forsaken.
In this case, because of his failure to solve the Riemann, his grandiose self would
have been subtracted from itself, and under such circumstances he would then
have felt quite alone; feeling that perhaps he was not, and had never been the
greatest genius he had hitherto believed himself to be. The problem is that in such
a narcissistic, no less megalomaniacal Asperger’s condition, when one is not the
greatest, then one is nothing.
In Nash’s case therefore, a truly remarkable and actually superbrilliant solution
would have been for him to get a friend for his Asperger self. And that friend may
well have been a schizophrenic one–John Forbes Nash, Jr., Asperger individual,
in concert with John Forbes Nash, Jr., schizophrenic individual. If this is so, not
only would it be that Nash is a mathematical genius, but for all intents and pur-
poses, he would have to be considered a psychological one as well, notwithstand-
ing the fact that the genius of his psychology would be to keep himself in a failure
free state; that is, in a schizophrenic state with different citizenship, and therefore,
of course, away from the Riemann.
It is thus proposed, that this may have been the case with Nash and his intellec-
tual, emotional, and psychological focus, or actual fusion with the Riemann. He
personified the Riemann as though, quite naturally, it was a person. When he
could not penetrate the problem of the Riemann, however, rather than becoming
furious at the person who was thwarting his basic wish to solve it, he may have
become enraged at the Riemann itself. The Riemann would have been the object
of his thwarted wish, and rather than knowing it consciously, he would have
repressed a great magnitude of rage toward the Riemann. The index of this mag-
nitude of rage would most likely be determined by the same magnitude of his
megalomania. This is because at the core of the megalomania, is the megalomani-
acal wish, a wish of maximum intensity, perhaps equivalent to the wish for life
itself. Thus, in the face of the thwarting of this wish, the rage would necessarily
have had to have been atomic. This rage would have been enormous enough to
create an implosion, so much so that he would have been left with rage-debris
spanning, covering, and penetrating his psyche, equivalent to a permeating, per-
vasive radioactive contamination.
This then, could have been the basis of his schizophrenic meltdown. All of his
schizophrenic symptoms, therefore, would be derivatives of this basic conflict;
namely, love of the Riemann, and simultaneously, hatred of it. Expecting to solve
the Riemann and thus confirm his grandiosity, and the actual failure to solve it,
and an equally deflating blow to his megalomania. All of it created an ingenious
way of both erasing and solving the Riemann simultaneously, albeit through a
schizophrenic distortion.
Part of Nash’s schizophrenic amalgam of distortions and hallucinations, included
anti-Semitic sentiments. Here, it could also be hypothesized that, along with his
other symptoms, all of which served the purpose of managing his megalomaniacal
fury regarding his real failure to solve the Riemann, his anti-Semitic rantings were
defensive machinations designed to isolate and nullify any credence given to
Jewish genius. This speculation is based upon his experiences as a mathematician,
often encountering Jewish scientists whom, he knew, were brilliant. In addition,
Nash also occupied a place at Princeton, and despite his admiration of Einstein, in
no way could he not have been envious of Einstein’s stature in the world, certainly
in popular culture, as the greatest genius of all. In this sense, the way Nash could
eliminate any possible challenge to his own megalomaniacal assumption as being
the greatest of all, would be to necessarily nullify Jews generally and Jewish scien-
tists in particular. It is proposed that if not for this schizophrenic megalomaniacal
state of failure regarding the Riemann, Nash’s focus would be on his work, and his
relationship with Jewish friends or colleagues may not have had the slightest tinge
of anti-Jewish feeling whatsoever. Perhaps the only issue was his conviction that if
any scientist was going to solve the Riemann, the likelihood was that that scientist
would be a Jew; a Jewish scientist, genius, of whom he knew many. To Nash, some-
one other than himself solving the Riemann was probably equivalent to psycholog-
ical or emotional death. Since he may have believed that a Jewish scientist was the
one likely to do it, then Jews were generally no good – to be negated.
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Of course, before the onset of his schizophrenia, and despite his Asperger state,
he still lived within, at least the minimal limits of normalcy. He had a family. In
this respect, despite his Asperger condition, he made some attempt to care for a
number of people. Nevertheless, it could be that in his personal, subjective sense
of self-importance, his narcissism and megalomania called him to the Riemann,
and it very well may have been that this focus prevailed as the defining circum-
stance of his adult life.
In addition to these speculations, it could be that there was another person,
probably a mathematician, who could also qualify as a support person with
respect to who could have been the original focus of Nash’s anger – the human
who. If this is so, such a person would have had to play an important role in
Nash’s emotional life around the time of his slide into greater pathology.
Treatment
In the treatment of this complex person, Professor John Forbes Nash, Jr., involv-
ing Asperger’s imperatives and a schizophrenic overlay, it is possible that the
schizophrenia may, in effect, be urged to a point of remission, or at the very least,
be neutralized. This is a clinical possibility based upon the assumption that
Nash’s schizophrenia, despite the fact that his son, John Charles, was also schizo-
phrenic, could be a functional impairment brought on by emotional pressures, and
necessarily by the appearance of some epigenetic pathology awaiting its develop-
mental time and pivotal circumstance, to reveal itself.
The same cannot be said of his presumed Asperger’s condition. The Asperger’s
complex would have had to have clearly been with him from birth. In any therapy
treatment, Nash would have to begin to see the connections between his narcissis-
tic megalomaniacal great-man inner Asperger’s tyranny, and how it would not per-
mit his tyrannical self to be a lenient inner self. Rather, this tyrannical Asperger’s
inner self which may have needed to have him be the greatest of all, would have
mercilessly pushed him to render his most ingenious solution to any problem he
ever tackled. In Nash’s case, this attempt at an ingenious solution may have been to
repress his rage toward the Riemann and then to develop a schizophrenia in which
each and every symptom of this pathology reflected part of a strategy he uncon-
sciously used: (1) to think of himself as prevailing over the Riemann, and when
that was not enough; (2) to try to renounce his American citizenship as an uncon-
scious way of freeing himself from the perhaps tyrannical mandate of solving the
Riemann. These circumstances may have been his only way to loosen the grip of
this inner psychic tyranny. The schizophrenia also may have been a way to under-
mine the genetic tyranny of his presumed Asperger imperatives.
Thus, Nash would need to get in touch with his anger, this proposed rage
regarding his assumed thwarted wish. Further, it is proposed that then the very
life, the very essence of his schizophrenia, would be challenged. The axiom
remains: Where there is no repressed anger, not only will there not be a symptom,
there cannot be a symptom.
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Conclusion
True, this entire chapter is highly speculative, a metapsychological study.
Nevertheless, the theoretical synthesis seems large enough to include virtually
each and every symptom of Nash’s pathology, and possible pivotal variables have
been identified as likely culprits in the process of Nash’s decline into a bizarre life.
The symptom-code of the wish, repressed anger, the who, and a doing thing
related to the original problem, offered here as a template to understand and
organize most, and possibly all of the phenomena of Nash’s decline into pathol-
ogy, has been one way to take a great amount of anecdotal material, and a com-
plex set of pathological symptoms, and organize them into what might be an
understandable model that possibly could be utilized in a therapeutic framework,
even with Professor John Forbes Nash, Jr., this genius – a man with a beautiful
Asperger’s mind.
Part IV
Examining Theoretical Issues
of the Symptom-Code
Chapter 21
Acting Out: The First Symptom,
and the Primacy of Anger or Sex
In Part IV, a number of theoretical issues will be raised that are directed at a criti-
cal examination of various questions regarding the efficacy of the symptom-code
as a cure-all for a certain class of symptoms. Most of these symptoms were those
of recent onset, and which had not fully contaminated the personality. Thus, the
person and the symptom remained distinguishable, and such symptoms were seen
to be encapsulated in a neurotic and nonpsychotic state. This class of symptoms
was also not encrusted in a chronic somatized transformation, and in addition was
free from any neurological or biological influences. In other words, these curable
symptoms, for the most part, were those that remained in an ego-alien position in
relation to the personality.
Of course, this formulation of the difference between accessible curable symp-
toms and the more inaccessible resistant symptoms, raises many questions. We
need to ask, for example, what it is about a symptom, in the context of a psychosis,
or what it is about a symptom that has been chronically somatized, or what it is
about a symptom that has been sustained for a lifetime, which makes it relatively
immune to psychotherapy using the proposed symptom-code, or for that matter,
using any psychotherapy method at all?
There are many such issues to examine, along with questioning the basic
axioms that have been presented. After all, an axiom is also an uncontested
assumption. We need to contest the assumptions made, and examine the probabil-
ity of their so-called self- evident truths.
Is it Anger or Sex?
An indirect approach to understanding whether it is anger or sex that constitutes
the basic emotion, impulse, or instinct involved in symptom formation, can be
examined in light of the following question: In prehistoric man, what was the first
symptom? If we go back in time, 50,000 or even 75,000 years ago to the early
Pleistocene Era, to Australopithecus prometheus, could we speculate as to
whether such a being had psychological symptoms? And if so, what might the
first one have been? And further, would such a symptom be any different from
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what we see in modern man? Of course, would this symptom have been the same
for Java man of the Pithecanthropine or Homo erectus species, of the middle
Pleistocene Era, or Cro-Magnon man of the Homo sapiens species, approaching
the late Pleistocene Era, even 30,000 years ago?
One way to understand what this first symptom may have looked like, is to
examine the axiom or the symptom-code element concerned with the manage-
ment of anger. This axiom of the symptom-code states: Where there is repressed
anger, not only will there be a symptom, there must be a symptom. This axiom is
invoked when a person’s wish is blocked or thwarted. With the thwarted wish, at
once there is created the feeling of helplessness or disempowerment; that is,
wishes that are gratified are empowering, and in contrast, wishes that are
thwarted, are disempowering. Since an accepted premise or hard core psycholog-
ical law holds that all helplessness breeds rage, then it certainly seems that in a
state of even momentary disempowerment, the evolutionary impulse, or reflex, is
to become angry. The answer to the question of why is this so is that when one is
in a state of helplessness or disempowerment, then frequently, the only way to
become reempowered, is to be angry. Anger is a release, an expostulation of
power. It may not always be productive, or even successful in actually achieving
reempowerment, and yet in that momentary state of helplessness, the release of
anger brings relief in the sense of the feeling of reempowerment.
Seen from this perspective of empowerment versus disempowerment, it seems
evident that anger, as an explosive expression of energy and power, could always
be experienced as an empowerment. The same, of course, could not be said of a
sexual impulse, which on the face of it is quite an iffy, and at best, conditional
response to circumstances of disempowerment. In fact, there is probably a very
high inverse correlation between an intense sexual impulse and an intense cir-
cumstance of disempowerment. However, the anger response to disempowerment
certainly seems, even on the face of it, and with respect to each and every person,
everywhere in the world, to be the ubiquitous response to all disempowerment.
before the person is aware of its existence? If repressed, then it is proposed that a
symptom will begin to gestate, and the symptom will in turn presumably reflect a
gratification of the original wish, albeit in a transformed, neurotic, or perverse
form–the symptom. The symptom, therefore, will be the wish gratified, a Freudian
discovery of major significance. And the symptom can include anything from the
development of anxiety to a more generalized symptom of acting out.
In prehistoric man, anxiety would be the probable initial response to some real
or perceived threat, but the sense of disempowerment resulting from a persistent
feeling of danger or threat would surely have led to a chain of events, the likely
purpose of which was to generate reempowering behavior despite the obvious pro-
tective, guarded, and fear behaviors that surely existed. Further, in prehistoric man,
in the face of the existence of varieties of predators, as well as the experience of the
greater force of nature, initial anxiety would necessarily have needed to be replaced
by some motoric act in order to achieve some ambulatory possibility–some doing
thing. Again, the aim of this doing thing would be to guard and secure the self – an
attempt at mastery and therefore also reempowerment.
Thus, with respect to a generalized acting out, or even in a more undifferenti-
ated expression of a symptom, it is proposed that in prehistoric man, for example,
the first symptom may have been an undifferentiated one – generalized anxiety
transformed to a generalized acting out, based upon the repression of anger
regarding a thwarted wish, which would have been what it always has been, a
wish to be empowered; fear leading to disempowerment, leading to anger, leading
to repression of anger, leading to acting out.
choice. In all likelihood, acting out became the expression of a psychic equation,
that is, the acting out was in symbolic form, an attempt to gain the wish, to gratify
it. As man evolved, symptoms became gradually more specific, more differenti-
ated, until a profusion of adaptive possibilities emerged in the form of psycholog-
ical/emotional symptoms–from phobias to panic attacks, from obsessions and
compulsions to somatized symptoms, and from delusions and hallucinations to
any number of intrusive thoughts or even any number of psychotic regressive
behaviors.
Thus, in this probabilistic theoretical examination of the management of anger,
the repression of anger, the nature of acting out, the experience of anxiety, the
relation of the wish to anger-repression, the nature of the symbolic equation of the
symptom to the wish, the psychology of empowerment and disempowerment, as
well as attempting to derive some clue as to the nature of symptoms from the
dawn of human evolution, from all of this it seems that it is anger and not sex, that
is the linchpin of symptom formation.
she very likely would have been angry about his marriage, then anger and not
sexuality would be the key emotion that became subject to repression
Her father was the who, who was making her angry by his behavior – he mar-
ried. Her wish was to keep him unmarried, so she began to vomit. The vomiting
was more likely an attempt to expel, to rid herself of this new formation, this mar-
riage. Of course, since the wish was an indirect avoidant one (for him not to
marry), then it would be predicted that her symptom would be unpleasant and not
pleasurable. Vomiting is not pleasurable.
Thus, in this case, her statement, “See I have morning sickness,” as a message
of the symbolic gratification of her wish may indeed be an accurate reflection of
the correlation of the wish and the symptom. Nevertheless, to consider this con-
nection to be a possible result of some sexual repression would, at best be tangen-
tial, and at worst be wrong, a tortured explanation and an incorrect explanatory
stretch, at best. It is the repression of anger regarding the thwarting of her basic
wish with respect to the who, her father, which reveals the mechanics in the birth
of her vomiting symptom. It is this equation of the repressed anger to the who,
that connects her wish to the symptom–and, it is proposed here, nothing else.
In another vignette (Brenner, 1974), a soldier developed an anxiety attack while
on the front lines, and had to be removed from battle. This case also exemplifies
how the repression of anger generates the symptom. The soldier’s anxiety attack
would be considered to be merely a symptom of the wish to flee the front line of
danger. Parenthetically, anxiety attacks as symptoms would be always considered
a result of repressed anger to some condition of helplessness. These sorts of
attacks would be defined as fears or panics only on a manifest, concrete level. The
soldier’s helplessness or powerlessness presumably developed out of a sense of
vulnerability on the front lines. Yet, most certainly, such helplessness always gen-
erates anger that then, because of the appearance of the anxiety attack necessarily
implies that the soldier’s anger was repressed. Without the repression, the anxiety-
attack could not have crystallized, because, according to the understanding consid-
ered here, in the absence of repressed anger, there cannot be a symptom, including
an anxiety attack.
With the repression of anger, anxiety emerges as a gratification of the wish to
be protected. The anxiety above, is here seen as radiating from the repressed
anger below, thereby satisfying the wish to escape danger. Since each basic emo-
tion such as fear or anxiety contains its own fundamental nature, then when one is
anxious or fearful, fleeing is the only wish that expresses the unidimensional
nature of that particular emotion. Thus, in the case of the soldier, repressed anger
produced an anxiety condition that then enabled the person to become removed
from the perceived threat – wish gratified.
And this entire issue reveals a profound psychoanalytic implication that seems
to invite, or strongly suggests, a revision of the Freudian understanding of symp-
tom formation. The revision is expressed in the symptom-code; that is, the
thwarted wish produces a sense of powerlessness that generates anger as a
method of reempowerment. This anger when becoming instantly repressed, in
turn, generates a symptom that is a perverse or neurotic way of gratifying the
Summary 147
original wish. And this process does not depend on which psychosexual stage the
original historical material was based, on how strong or weak was the ego, or how
strong or weak was the id impulse. In this revision, the only factor that symptom
formation seems to depend upon, is whether or not anger is repressed – and
always in relation to a who.
If the anger is indeed repressed, the result will necessarily be an acting out (or
acting-in), in the form of the development of a symptom. Since, it is proposed that
general hostile acting out may likely have been the first symptom of human his-
tory, then it may be possible to trace this dimension of hostility to the present,
where rather than exhibiting generalized hostility, evolutionary development has
enabled such acting out to crystallize in the form of the appearance of a matrix or
gradient of differentiated symptoms; in the case of the soldier, an anxiety symp-
tom. This gradient of differentiated symptoms is now in such profusion that to be
parsimonious in understanding them entire categories of symptoms have been
conceived. These include phobias, obsessions, compulsions, intrusive thoughts,
and so forth, as well as more overarching distinctions presented here – namely
accessible and inaccessible symptoms.
Summary
In this chapter, the repression of anger was examined and said to be the linchpin
of all psychological symptomatology. Further, with respect to the mechanics of
symptom formation, a proposed revision of traditional psychoanalytic under-
standing of symptoms and their formation was suggested, in which, from the
point of view of curing symptoms, considerations of psychosexual historical
material and sexual impulses were relegated to a secondary position, although
sustained in importance with respect to the psychoanalytic treatment process. In
contrast, from the point of view of the mechanics of symptom formation, as well
as the cure of symptoms, anger and its repression, in relation to the wish and the
who–the object–were elevated as the basic and sole variables accounting for such
symptom phenomena.
In the following chapter, the difference between symptoms that can be cured by
the talking method and through the use of the symptom-code will be discussed, in
contrast to those symptoms that resist such treatment and seemingly nullify the
effectiveness of the symptom-code. The issue of what makes this difference will
be considered.
Chapter 22
Symptoms Versus Character
Traits: Accessible Versus
Inaccessible Symptoms
It has been proposed in this volume that, with respect to psychotherapy treatment,
symptoms can be classified as either accessible or inaccessible. What this essen-
tially means is that there are some symptoms (the inaccessible symptoms), that
resist cure through psychotherapy, while other symptoms (the accessible symp-
toms), that indeed, can be cured through psychotherapy.
Further, it has been proposed that those intractable inaccessible symptoms,
those that are not responsive to the power of the symptom-code, actually join the
patient’s repertoire of character traits, and in effect, those symptoms then operate
in the personality as though they were character traits. Assuming the truth of this
ostensible and proposed phenomenon, then of course, application of the symptom-
code to these inaccessible symptoms would not, strictly speaking, be addressing a
symptom. It would be as if one were treating a malady that started out as a com-
mon cold but developed into a sinus infection, thereby perhaps and in all likeli-
hood, requiring a different order of treatment.
It is proposed that there are symptoms that start out as symptoms, but are then
subject to the vicissitudes of some yet unknown process or phenomenon of the
psyche, so that the symptom becomes translated into a character trait, or becomes
integrated into the character structure and then behaves as a trait, or is knitted into
the character structure, as it were, minus any ego-alien tension regarding its pres-
ence. Under this sort of condition, such a symptom presumably loses its symptom
context insofar as it no longer addresses issues solely regarding satisfaction of the
wish. Rather, it is proposed, the symptom remains as an idiosyncratic symptom
presence, but assumes another hue within the personality – that of a trait.
Therefore, it misses the point to treat such a symptom with psychotherapy that
targets cause and effect relationships, ties the symptom to the memory of a
repressed emotion in relation to an object, a person. Thus, applying the symptom-
code to such a translated symptom, no less a code that uses the same metapsycho-
logical notion of direct cause and effect between the repressed emotion and the
object, is also to miss the point. In contrast, to treat a symptom that has been
converted into a trait would all be well and good provided that the symptom as
character trait could be reconstituted as, strictly speaking, a symptom. Then, psy-
chotherapy and the application of the symptom-code could be a powerful tool in
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helping the patient to more efficiently cure the symptom. But treating an
intractable symptom in this way, as though it exists within a typical symptom
context, is perhaps a failure to understand that: (1) the symptom is no longer
merely a symptom; (2) there needs to be a clear understanding of the difference
between symptom and character trait; (3) the symptom in the psyche has been
converted into a character trait and needs to be reconstituted as, strictly speaking,
a symptom, and only then treated as a symptom; and, (4) the treatment then
should consider targeting the psychology of character trait structure, in addition
to that of symptom structure.
perhaps the true who. Instead, the question becomes: Does finding a surrogate
who (a transferential figure or figures) ever satisfy the emotion (the anger) in any
real sense? This is what may determine why the symptom becomes intractable,
inaccessible. It is a generalized repetition compulsion acted out by mechanisms
of the psyche that produce perseverative psychological impulses. The need such
mechanisms serve concerns attempts to master the original problem of reigniting
the memory, reattaching the object to the repressed anger. Thus, it would seem
that when the repressed anger remains attached to its target object, the who, then
the symptom is retained in the psyche as an encapsulated one. In such a case, the
symptom is not part of the person’s character trait context, but rather remains
within the domain of the psyche concerned with wishes. In this sense then, the
symptom that remains apart from the character trait context would be considered
the class of symptom accessible to psychotherapy and indeed, could be cured by
applying the symptom-code.
It is the magnitude, intensity, depth, and duration of the anger that needs to be
examined in order to understand why the memory of the who detaches from the
anger. These seem to be the essential factors of the anger, its infrastructure, that
give it its final form.
because under these conditions of the vicissitudes and nature of the repressed
anger, the vast probability is that, in the alliance of all of these infrastructural fac-
tors to the anger, the detachment of the memory of the who from the anger that is
repressed, would be more definite.
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Identification
This character defense is to character traits what repression is to emotion.
Identification is a ubiquitous phenomenon that occurs axiomatically. It is the
common underlying element in the development of trait patterns and acts to
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Internalization
This character defense absorbs or infuses values and attitudes from model objects
or figures, and imprints them so that such values and attitudes can ultimately pre-
vail over the press of other external influences on the personality.
Splitting
This character defense enables self-contained compartmentalizations to exist in
the psyche. Thus, splitting prevents the ambiguity that would ordinarily be asso-
ciated with conflict. Individuals can be divided into good and bad objects, and
idealizations as well as devaluations can be directed to the same person, rendering
contradictions insignificant.
Symbolization
This character defense enables wishes, fantasies, and impulses, to become dis-
guised through internal or external representations. Freud first indicated that it is
the capacity for symbolization that largely determines, and underlies, the basis of
character structure. Josephs (1992), elaborates and points out that Freud came to
this conclusion by seeing that the essence of symbolization in the development
of character traits concerns the notion of the unacceptable idea, impulse, emotion,
or attitude, needing to find a place to reside. The answer was that the symbolic is
connected to the unconscious because of the unacceptable idea. Actually, in
conventional psychoanalytic understanding, symbolization permits an indirect or
substitute satisfaction of the wishes. Freud regarded these wishes as unacceptable.
In the theoretical formulation proposed here, however, it is assumed that sym-
bolization permits gratification of wishes to occur, but not merely with respect to
unacceptable wishes. Rather, symbolization can indeed permit gratification of
unacceptable as well as thwarted wishes which may not be unacceptable, but
which may have become thwarted because of a possible variety of other reasons,
all however, related to the connection of self-interest, survival, and fear.
The idea of symbolization is crucial to the understanding of several important
seeming conundrums. For example, Freud’s ingenious discovery that every symp-
tom reflects and represents a particular wish in a completely gratified way, albeit
in neurotic form, meant that the wish was symbolized in the symptom, and as the
symptom. This insight also permitted Freud to understand that because the symp-
tom represents the gratified wish, then everyone loves their symptoms (whether
they know it or not), even those that are painful, because these symptoms are
really the wishes, gratified.
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The idea that character formation is in part, based on the capacity for symbol-
ization, also has great currency in contributing to the understanding of why the
wish joins the anger in repression. The symbol contains the essence of the wish
and is sustained, fueled by the repressed anger. Also, when anger cannot be
directly expressed to its intended object, it becomes instantly repressed, so much
so, that the subject is not aware of the anger ever having even existed. Then, when
the anger, alloyed with the wish is repressed, a symptom will necessarily appear.
The rules governing such a connection between repressed anger and the appear-
ance of a symptom are based on theoretical insights presented throughout this
volume.
Parenthetically, such insights represent a clear departure from traditional
Freudian understanding that a symptom is, strictly speaking, derived from some
childhood sexual trauma and that because of the failure of repression in adult life,
infantile sexual impulses find their release and end up causing symptoms. The
departure here is based on the notion that symptoms only derive from repressed
anger against a who someone who has thwarted a wish, and is not at all a function
of some infantile sexual disturbance. In fact, it is proposed that the only way
infantile sexuality can contribute to the formation of symptoms, concerns the
thwarting of a sexual wish–at any time during development, including, but not
necessarily solely during childhood–and because of this thwarting of the sexual
wish, the subject (whether child or adult) becomes angry, and cannot, because of
any number of factors (especially those factors of survival), express this anger
directly to the object. Then, the anger, and not the sexuality, is repressed.
Summary
In this volume, the theoretical framework of the traditional view of symptoms,
and their formation and treatment has been contrasted with an alternative under-
standing. In this alternative understanding, accessible symptoms, those that, it is
claimed, can be cured through the symptom-code that is presented, and via the
psychotherapeutic method, have been contrasted with inaccessible ones, those
symptoms that resist change and are thought to require a different code, one con-
cerned with the penetration of character traits and character structure.
Furthermore, an important difference in the fundamental understanding of
symptoms has been asserted. Rather than seeing infantile sexuality as the crux
of the matter in symptom formation, the theory proposed here, points to the
basic or nuclear factor of all symptom formation as a process beginning with a
thwarted wish and ending with the symbolization of that wish as associated
with repressed anger. This repressed anger is fused with the memory of the
who–the person or object toward whom the anger was initially directed but
toward whom it could not be expressed.
The salient psychoanalytic shift here is from sexuality to anger. Of course, both
drives of sexuality and anger satisfy the pleasure principle. Both are empowering
insofar as both satisfy needs. But whether sexuality becomes repressed, or
whether it is really anger about thwarted sexuality or about any other thwarted
wish that becomes repressed, is the essential issue.
The answer, although tentative, nevertheless seems to have profound implica-
tions in understanding a variety of issues within the arena of the psychoanalytic
discussion. The core shift of focus is that it is anger and not sexuality that
becomes repressed and therefore, that anger is the salient variable in symptom
formation. Anger now becomes the focus. Repressed anger produces symptoms,
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Coda
A new, although related theme emerges in relation to the entire consideration of
symptom psychology. That is, that to further understand the genesis of symptoms,
it may just be that symptoms involve a cluster of concerns that combined, consti-
tute a syndrome common to all people. This syndrome may be identified as one
containing thematic strands of separation anxiety, dependency, sorrow, depression,
abandonment, and loss. This syndrome may be labeled “attachment/separation.”
Thus, it may be that every symptom has as its fundamental reason for being, some-
thing connected with the broad issue of attachment/separation. In other words,
with respect to psychoanalytic drive theory, the ubiquitous reflex of anger (in this
case with reference to feelings of disempowerment), is likely to be animated by an
epigenetic trigger. And this epigenetic trigger – this environmental stimulus that
ignites the process that ultimately leads to symptom formation, always may be
based upon an attachment/separation theme.
In a future evolution of the symptom-code addressing both accessible as well
as inaccessible symptoms, the theme of attachment/separation may contribute to
a general synthesis. The reader is invited to consider this proposition related to
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the theme of attachment/separation with each symptom that has been presented in
this volume.
Taken as a whole however, the symptom-code presented here has generated a
system of propositions, assumptions, and axioms, that congeal an array of phe-
nomena, sufficient perhaps, to qualify as a body of work, to this point identified
as: The Psychoanalysis of Symptoms.
References
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