Complete Module UTS
Complete Module UTS
Complete Module UTS
Self
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CHAPTER 1: VMGO
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VISION
MISSION
INSTITUTIONAL OUTCOMES
ISU Expected Graduate Attributes
Communicator (Cm)
Recognizes and values communication as a tool for conveying and interacting
with others and fostering their own learning.
Competitive (Cp)
Initiates and innovates better ways of doing things
Promotes quality and productivity
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LEARNING OUTCOMES:
At the end of the course, students will be able to:
1. Discuss the different representations and conceptualization of the self from
various disciplinal perspective;
2. Compare and contrast how the self has been represented across different
disciplines and perspectives;
3. Examine the different influences, factors, and forces that shape the self; and
4. Demonstrate critical are reflective thought in analyzing the development of
one’s self and identity by developing a theory of the self.
LEARNING CONTENT
1. Socrates
-Socrates was a Greek philosopher and one of the very few individuals who
shaped western thought. He was known for his method of inquiry in testing an
idea. This is called Socratic Method whereby an idea was tested by asking a
series of questions to determine underlying beliefs and the extent of
knowledge to guide the person toward better understanding. (Maxwell, 2015).
Some of Socrates’ ideas were:
• The soul is immortal
• The care of the soul is the task of Philosophy
• Virtue is necessary to attain happiness
One of his most –quoted phrases is,
“The unexamined life is not worth living.”
According to Socrates, “self-knowledge” or the examination of one’s self, as
well as the question about how one ought to live one’s life are very important
concerns because only by knowing yourself can give you hope to improve
your life. (Rappe, 1995)
Socrates said existence is of two kinds:
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1. The visible existence (changes)
2. The invisible (remain constant)
2 Plato
One of the famous quotation coming from Plato said “GOOD ACTIONS GIVE
STRENGTH TO OURSELVES AND INSPIRES GOOD ACTIONS IN
OTHERS.”
Plato was a student of Socrates before. He is best known for his “Theory of
Forms” that asserted the physical world is not really the real world because the
ultimate reality exists beyond the physical world.
• Plato is perhaps the single most important influence of the western concept of
the “self”. According to him, the soul is indeed the most divine aspect of the
human being. However, his concept of the divine is not a spiritual being but
rather one that has an intellectual connotation.
• Plato emphasizes that justice in the human person can only be attained if the
three parts are working harmoniously with one another.
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- The element that forbids the person to enjoy the sensual experiences; the part
that loves truth, hence should rule over the other parts of the soul through the
use of reason.
(Forged by reason and intellect has to govern the affairs of human person)
2. The Spirited (feeling)
- The element that is inclined toward reason but understands the demands of
passion; the part that loves honor and victory. (in charge more on emotions)
3. The appetitive (sensual)
-in charge of base desires, like eating, drinking, sleeping and having sexual
intercourse, is controlled as well.
Note: When this ideal state is attained, the human person’s soul becomes just and
virtuous.
3. St. Augustine
His written works are among the foundations of medieval and modern
Christian thought. He is one of the Latin Fathers of the Church, one of the
doctors of the church and one of the most significant Christian thinkers.
St. Augustine was deeply influence by Plato’s ideas. - According to him:
“There is an aspect of man, which dwells in the world, that is imperfect and
continuously yearns to be with the divine while the other is capable of
reaching immortality.”
He also believes: “That the body is bound to die on earth and the soul
is to anticipate living eternally in realm of spiritual bliss in communion
with God.
• According to St. Augustine spiritual bliss is our goal in this life, but in order to
attain that we must live virtuously here on earth.
• St. Augustine said that the soul held the truth and was capable of scientific
thinking.
• St. Augustine concept of the “self” was an inner, immaterial that has self-
knowledge and self-awareness.
• He believe that human being was both a soul and body, and the body
possessed senses, such as imagination, memory, reason, and mind through
which the soul experienced the world.
• He believe that human being has capacity to ascend and comprehend truths
through the mind.
According to him, “If we neglect to use our minds we will lose to reach the
real and lasting happiness.
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4. Rene Descartes
Rene Descartes was a French philosopher, mathematician and scientist. He is
considered as the father of Modern Western Philosophy.
Descartes proposed that doubt was a principal tool of disciplined inquiry.
His method was called hyperbolical/metaphysical doubt. It is a systematic
process of being skeptical about the truth of one’s beliefs in order to
determine which beliefs could be ascertained as true.
• According to him; thinking is immaterial substance and thinking entity could
exist without the body.
• Immaterial substance is the self (self) possesses a body and is so intimately
bound/joined by it that the “self” form a union with its body. Despite the union
of the body and the soul, still Descartes reason out that this two is distinct
from each other.
5. John Locke
John Locke was a philosopher and physician and was one of the most influential
enlightenment thinkers. The age of enlightenment or the age of reason was an intellect
and philosophical movement that dominated the ideas in Europe during 18th century.
If Descartes described the “self” as a thinking thing, Locke expanded this definition of
“self” to include the memories of that thinking thing.
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This is also interpreted to mean that the “self” consists of the memory; that the
person existing now is the same yesterday because he or she remembers the thoughts,
experiences or actions of the earlier self (Natsoulas, 1994; Fuchs, 2017)
However, Locke insisted that a person could only be held accountable for
behaviors if he or she can remember. Locked believed that punishing someone for
behaviors he or she has no recollection of doing is equivalent to punishing him or her
for actions that was never performed.
He asserted that the state of a person who cannot remember his or her behavior is
the same as the state of the person who never committed the act, which meant the
person was ignorant.
[Example]
Jack knows Jill that Jill is another person it is not because he sees her soul but
because he sees her, hears her and touches her. (Babor; 2007)
According to Hume: if one tries to examine his experiences, he finds that they can all
be categorize into two:
1. Impressions- when one touches an ice cube, the cold sensation is an
impression (because it is the product of our direct experience.
2. Ideas- Imagination and feelings of being in love for the first time is still an
idea (something that you imagine or picture in your mind)
7. Immanuel Kant
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Philosopher Immanuel Kant is a central figure in modern philosophy. He
proposed that human mind creates the structure of human experience. On the
other hand, Kant’s view of the “self” is transcendental, which means the “self”
is related to a spiritual or non-physical realm. For Kant, the self is not in the
body. The self is outside the body, and it does not have the qualities of the
body.
• To Kant, there is necessary a mind that organizes the impressions that men get
from external world.
Example: Time and Space are ideas that cannot find in the world, but is built in our
minds.
According to Kant, we have 2 Components of the Self:
1. Inner self- The “self” by which you are aware of alterations in your own state. This
includes your rational intellect and your psychological state, such as moods, feelings,
and sensation, pleasure and pain.
2. Outer self- It includes your senses and the physical world. It is the common
boundary between the external world through the senses, which the inner self
interprets and coherently expresses.
8. Sigmund Freud
He is a philosopher, physiologist and psychologist. Sigmund Freud was one of
the most influential thinker of the 20th century.
His most important contribution, particularly in psychology was psychoanalysis,
a practice device to treat those who are mentally ill through dialogue.
In his earlier structural division of the psyche, Freud distinguished three levels
of consciousness
1. Conscious- which deals with awareness of present perceptions, feelings, thoughts,
memories, and fantasies at any particular moment;
2. Pre conscious/subconscious- which related to the data that can readily be brought
to consciousness; and
3. Unconscious- which refers to the data retained but not easily available to the
individual’s conscious awareness or scrutiny.
The analogy of the Iceberg: to described the 3 Levels of the Mind
1. Id- it operates on the pleasure principle
2. Ego- it operates the reality principle
3. Superego- it operates the morality principle
The superego consist of 2 systems:
*Conscience
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*Ideal Self
9. Gilbert Ryle
Philosopher and Professor, Gilbert Ryle produced a critique on Descartes Ideas,
that the mind is distinct from the body.
According to Ryle, rationalist view that mental acts is distinct and separated from
the physical world is misconception.
He explain that there is no hidden entity or ghost called “soul” inside a machine called
body.
He did not believe that mind has mental images, able to perceive, apprehend and
remember.
Our knowledge, memory, imagination, and any other abilities or dispositions do
not reside “within” the mind were a space in which these could be stored or located.
• Gilbert Ryle asked: Where do we get our sense of self? -he asserted that it is
from our behaviors and actions.
Example:
YOU THINK YOURSELF AS A KIND PERSON BECAUSE OF YOUR ACTS OF
KINDNESS. (Your actions define your own concept of “self” (who you are)
10. Paul Churchland
Philosopher and Professor Paul Churchland known for his studies in neuro
philosophy and the philosophy of the mind.
Churchland idea is called eliminative materialism or the claim that people’s
common-sense understanding of the mind is false, and certain classes of
mental states which is most people believe in do not exist. (Churchland, 1989;
Baker, 1995)
• According to him, there is nothing beyond sensory experience. In other words,
if something can be seen felt, heard, touched or tasted, then it exist.
• To prove his point, Churchland pointed out that in mental conditions, such as
depression, is technically wrong to say that the person is “out of his mind”
because neuroscientists have found that brain activity and even brain shape
appears to be associated with severe mood disorders. Moreover he pointed out
that if the mind is a separate entity, then the victim should have retained his or
her personality despite the damage to the brain. Thus, Churchland asserted the
sense of “self” originated from the sense itself, and that this “self” is a product
of electrochemical signals produced by the brain.
Activity 2.
Name: ________________________ Date: __________________
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Course and Year _________________ Score: ________________
Match the description/concepts in Letter A with the philosophers/ theorists in Letter
B. Options can be answered ONCE.
A.
______ 1. He is known for his Theory of Forms
______ 2. He claimed that the soul holds the truth, which is capable of scientific
thinking.
______ 3. He is famous for this phrase “I think therefore I am.”
______ 4. He proposed that human mind at birth is a “tabula rasa.”
______5. He asserted that rationalism is the foundation of all knowledge.
______ 6. He proposed that knowledge bridges the “self” and the material things
together.
______ 7. He practiced psychoanalysis in answering the question about the human
psyche.
______ 8. He was known for this phrase, “I act, Therefore I am.”
______ 9. He was famous for his idea on Eliminative materialism.
______ 10. He is known for his belief on embodied subjective.
B.
a. Augustine
b. Churchland
c. Descartes
d. Freud
e. Hume
f. Kant
g. Locke
h. Merleau-Ponty
i. Plato
j. Ryle
k. Socrates
Reflection Paper # 1
What is your own philosophy in life, since you are still a student? Write it in a
piece of paper. (Minimum of 200 words)
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RUBRIC
RELEVANCE 10pts.
ORIGINALITY 5pts.
CREATIVITY 5pts.
ORGANIZATION OF THOUGHTS 5pts.
TOTAL 25pts.
Modernization has significantly change the society, and this has affected how an
individual builds and develop his or her self-identity. On the other hand, people
behave according to social rules and traditions while the family and the immediate
environment provided supervision on how to get through the life.
Key Characteristics of Modernity (Giddens 1991)
1. Industrialism- the social relations implied in the extensive use of material,
power and machinery in all process of production;
2. Capitalism- a production system involving both competitive product
markets and the commodification (putting a price tag) of labor power.
3. Institutions or surveillance- the massive increase of power and reach by
institutions, especially in government, and
4. Dynamism- the most evident characteristics of a modern society.
Dynamism is characterized as having vigorous activity and progress. In a
modern society, life is not predetermined path with limited options based on
location, family, or gender, it is society full of possibilities. Everything is
subject to change, and changes happen much rapidly than ever before in
human history.
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[Example] Family, Circle of friends, Classmates etc.
2. Social Network- refers to the ties or connections that link you to your social group
[Example] the connection you have with your Family is your blood relation. On the
other hand, the connection you have with your Barkada is your friendship and lastly
the connection you have with your Classmates is the common interest to learn.
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Can you watch yourself as objectively as you do to others?
-Question from Sociologist Gene
Mead
• George Herbert Mead was a sociologist from the late 1800’s. He is well
known for his “Theory of the Social Self”
His theory is based on the perspective that the self is a product of social interaction
and internalizing the other people views along with one’s personal view about
oneself.
Mead believes the “self” is not present at birth; rather it develop overtime
through social experiences and activities.
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Course and Year: __________________ Score”_______________
Self as presentation
• Erwing (1989) asserted that a “self” is illusory. This means, that sometimes we
are replacing our self-representation when the context changes”.
• According to Ewing (1990), people from all cultures have been observed to be
able to rapidly project different self-representation depends on the situation.
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Cultural psychologists distinguished 2 ways of how the self is constructed.
1. Independent
2. Interdependent constructs
Independent- the independent construct is the characteristics of individualistic
culture such as in North America and Europe. This individualistic culture
represents the self as separate, distinct, with emphasis on internal attributes or
traits, skills and values.
Interdependent construct-is typical in the collectivist culture in the East Asia
stressing the essential connection between the individual to other people.
On the other hand, Developmental Psychologist Catherine Raeff (2010), believe
that the culture can influence on how you view: relationships, personality traits,
achievement and expressing emotions.
Relationships- culture influences how you enter into and maintain
relationships. For example, relationships may be seen as voluntary or as a duty
based. In western societies, it is essential for a person to choose whom to
marry while some Eastern societies still practice arranged marriage.
Personality traits- culture influences whether (and how) you value certain
traits, like humility, self-esteem, politeness, assertiveness, and so on, as well
as how you perceive hardship or how you feel about relying on others.
Achievement- culture influences how you define success and whether you
value certain types of individual and group achievements.
Expressing emotions- culture influences what will affect you emotionally, as
well as how you express yourself, such as showing your feelings in public or
keeping it private.
(Filipino are resilient)
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Catherine Raeff Sigmund Freud Collectivistic culture
Katherine Ewing
Psychological Perspective
Psychology is the scientific study of how people behave, think and feel. It
includes topics, such as how the brain works how our memory is organized, how
people interact with groups and how children learn about the world.
• Psychologist Jean Piaget was a Swiss clinical psychologist known for his
pioneering work in child development.
• He pioneered “THE THEORY OF COGNITIVE DEVELOPMENT”, a
comprehensive theory about the development of human intelligence.
• He believes that children construct an understanding of the world around
them, experience, inconsistencies between what they already know and what
they discover in their environment and adjust their ideas accordingly. (Mcleod,
2009).
Sensorimotor 0-2 The child learns by doing: looking, touching, and sucking. The
child also has a primitive understanding of cause-and-effect
relationships. Object permanence appears around 9 months.
Preoperational 2-7 The child uses language and symbols, including letters and
numbers. Egocentrism is also evident. Conservation marks the
end of the preoperational stage and the beginning of concrete
operations.
Concrete 7-11 The child demonstrates conservation, reversibility, serial
Operations ordering, and a mature understanding of cause-and-effect
relationship. Thinking at this stage is still concrete.
Formal 12+ The individual demonstrates abstract thinking at this stage is
Operations still concrete.
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2. A sense of being unique- this is how I differ from everything in my environment; I
perceive there is only one Me.
3. A sense of continuity- I am the same person from day to day.
4. A sense of awareness about being aware- I understand what is going on in me and
around me; and I know I understand it.
“The Me-self”
-is the self that is object. It is the “self” that you can describe, such as your physical
characteristics, personalities, social role, or relationships, thoughts and feelings.
(Newman, 2017) James called it Empirical self which defined as “base on, concerned
with, or verifiable by observation or experience rather than theory or pure logic”
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ANXIOUS ATTRACTIVE CARELESS DEPRESSED
DISHONEST ENRGETIC FUNNY HAPPY
HONEST INTELLIGENT KIND LAZY
OPTIMISTIC ORGANIZED OUT-GOING PLAIN
RELAXED SAD SERIOUS SHY
SLOPPY STRONG UNHELPFUL WEAK
Part B. Select again 10 terms to described you wish you were like-- (your ideal).
Arrange it from the most ideal or significant to least significant ideal self.
Scoring
• The first term is equivalent to 10 points, second term is = to 9 points, the last
term will have the value of 1 point.
• For any terms which do not appear on both lists change it to zero, for terms
that appear on both list give the value assigned.
• sum of list A+sum of list B)/(1.1)=score
• The score is range from 0-100 presenting the perfect match of the self and
ideal self. The mead score is 50, in general, the lower the score, the less=
congruent the relationship between one's self and ideal self.
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Carl Rogers based his theories of personality development on humanistic psychology
and theories of subjective experience. According to Rogers, all behavior is motivated
by self-actualizing tendencies and these tendencies drives you to reach your full
potential.
As we interact to our environment and the people around us, individual will form a
structure of the self-concept.
• If the person holds a positive concept, he or she would tend to feel good about
himself or herself and would see the world as a safe and positive place. If the
person holds a negative self-concept, then he or she may feel unhappy with
who he/she is. (Kirschenbaum&Henderson, 1989).
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Allport's Personality Theory
• Psychologist Gordon Allport (1961) proposed his “personality trait” theory
asserting that every person possess “traits”.
• According to him; a “trait” is your essential characteristics that never ever
changes and sticks with you all your life.
• Moreover, these traits shape who you are (how you think, feel or behave,) etc.
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-the false self is a mask or persona. It is a form of defense that constantly
seek to anticipate others demands and complying with them, as a way of
protecting the true self from a world that is felt to be unsafe.
• Healthy false self- the person can still function both as an individual and in the
society. Person is still connected with the true self.
• Unhealthy false self- an individual who may seem happy and comfortable in
his or her environment but actually feels forced to fit in and constantly needs.
True Self
• Winicott described the true self as a sense of “self” based on “spontaneous
authentic experience”, we feel creative and real.
-it has a sense of integrity and connection with wholeness.
-the aliveness that we feel will lead us to be genuinely close to others and to be
creative.
Chapter 3
Defining the Self from the East: Personal and Developmental Perspective
on the self and Identity.
INTRODUCTION
Why is it essential to understand and later on accept one’s Self? This is a
question of self-identity. The name of a person, derived from the well acclaimed
celebrity, respected politicians or historical personality or even a saint can be best
influenced one to personify although it is hardly attained to become one.
But where does derive his name? In an answer to the question, name
represents who a person is. It has not been a custom to just randomly pick a
combination of letters and numbers or even symbols to denote one’s being. Human
being attached names are meaningful to birthed progenies because names are
supposed to designate us in the world. Thus, some people get baptized with name
such “precious”, “beauty”, or “lovely.” Likewise, when parents call their child’s
name, he was taught to respond to them because name represents who a person is. As
a student, one is told to always write his our name to papers, projects, or to any for
that matter. Names signify a person. Death cannot even stop this bond between the
person and his name are inscribed even into one’s into one’s gravestone.
LEARNING OUTCOMES:
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At the end of the lesson, students are expected to”
1. Explain the concept of self-according to Eastern thinkers’ philosophy;
2. Discussed the different concepts of self from the perspectives of various
oriental philosophers coming from China, India, and the Muslim country
across time and place; and
3. Identify qualities of the self that the eastern philosophies emphasize to develop
the self or identity of a human person.
Man in Hinduism
• Vedas - this is a sacred text, where in the religious and philosophical doctrines
of the Hindus can be found. These are the works of Aryan people, which are
the people of India.
• The term “veda” means knowledge in Sanskrit
• In Hinduism, the concept of the human is closely related to his or her
relationship with the whole of reality.
• Reality could be interpreted through the notions of Brahman and Atman.
• Brahman- everything of what ones sees or knows
• Atman- one does not really see or exactly know the totality of reality because
it is really beyond one's understanding.
• The human person is part of reality, which is called Brahman but also we are
part of individual reality which is called atman.
The ultimate goal of the self or the human person is to be Brahman and reach
Nirvana (lasting happiness)
In order to attain that, the human person must purify himself/herself and detach
oneself from the world.
If the person does not attain the Nirvana, they believe that we will be reincarnated
or born again. (The cycle of rebirth is called samsara)
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Human actions is governed by a LAW which is “karma” the law of Karma states
that good actions results in a positive outcome; bad actions results in a bad
outcome.
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3. Right Speech (samma-vaca)
4. Right Action (samma-kammanta)
5. Right Livelihood (samma-vayama)
6. Right Effort (Samma-vayama
7. Right Mindfulness (samma-sati)
8. Right Concentration (samma-samadhi)
MAN IN CONFUCIANISM
• The Confucian concept of the human person is centered on the proper conduct
of a person in society.
• Chinese philosopher Confucius wanted his disciples to be more than a literati
or ju, he wanted them to be well rounded men, men who are not only literate
but also useful to the state and the society.
• The most ideal type of a person is to become a sage and not everyone can be a
sage like Confucius. Hence, Confucius encouraged his followers to be a juntzu
for anyone can be a gentleman. The juntzu is second only to the sage.
1. Being Sage
2. Being Gentle
A juntzu is also obedience, being hardworking and does not engage in an empty
talk. (Aguas, 2017)
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It is not egoistic in nature but social because it is loving others.
The capacity to love others is innate in man.
Human-heartedness is also rooted in Golden Mean Rule: “Don't do to others
what you yourself do not desire”
2. Yi (Righteousness) - refers to the rightness of an action in a given situation.
Doing what is “ought to be done” requires no compensation because a person
who does what is right is doing it for the sake of nothing.
This means, that righteous action should be done for nothing in return.
3. Zhong (Conscientiousness) - Conscientiousness and altruism are two distinct
virtues considered as the two ways of practice in human heartedness. Thus, to
practice in ren should conscientious and altruistic.
4. Li (Propriety) correct social behavior - is concerned with the “rule of conduct
that reflects a person's good will”. It, therefore means doing things the right way.
It is the ethics, manner, behavior and conduct ordered.
5. Xiao (Filial Piety) means respect, reverence and honor of one's parents, blood
relatives or the family members as a whole.
It is an authentic concern for parent's welfare, both spiritual and emotional.
Confucius indeed has developed and taught a high regard for parents, above
all.
Thru Xiao, it shows that Confucius gives much importance to the family.
According to Confucius, all moral teachings should be first practice to the family.
At last, a good description of the “perfect man” is one who “combines the
qualities of saint, scholar and gentleman.
MAN IN TAOISM
• Taoism's concept of man is based on its understanding of the whole of the
universe which follows certain universal and unchanging law.
• The way of the Tao is universal and since a person is part of this universe, he
she must follow the way of Tao.
• According to Lao Tzu, Chinese philosopher, the universe was viewed
holistically to express harmony, purpose, order and calm power. (If we attempt
to separate things just to understand the part without understanding the whole
it will lead us to error, suffering and unhappiness. (Aguas, 2017).
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• According to Lao Zi (Lao Tzu) we have great principle and rule that is
unchanging, these laws are called invariables which came from the word
“ch'ang, which could be translated as eternal or abiding.
• The understanding and practice of the invariable law is called practicing
enlightenment.
AN ENLIGHTENED MAN FREES HIMSELF OR HERSELF FROM
SELFISHNESS AND DESIRE
AND APPRECIATES SIMPLICITY.(Aguas 2017)
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a. the obligation to profess faith
b. the obligation to pray
c. the obligation to give alms
d. the obligation to fast
e. the obligation to do pilgrimage
Islamic understanding of man revolves around his or her creation, attributes,
capacity to understand, capacity to do good and avoid evil.
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• According to Islamic teachings; we came into this world through our mothers
but the ultimate origin is Allah in which we should remove our arrogance and
humble ourselves to Allah.
• Allah is also expecting that a person must be in charge of all his creation
because we are privileged people, we are in charge of the whole creation but
according to him we should not bow down before any of these objects but to
Allah alone.
• We are given by Allah the capacity to distinguish and choose between good
and evil or differentiate good from evil and we have the freedom to choose
between good and evil.
We are privileged people. Thus, we are accountable for the consequences of our
deeds.
The Islamic philosophers were influenced by the Greek Philosopher Aristotle in
their interpretation of their Islamic Faith. Hence, while the Qur'an provides them with
their theological doctrines, in order to interpret these doctrines rationally or
philosophically, they relied on the philosophy of Aristotle. (Aguas, 2017)
CHAPTER IV
Defining the Self from Western World Perspectives: Personal and
Developmental Concept on Self and Identity
INTRODUCTION
The Philosophical conceptions of the human person from Western philosophy can
be traced through the development of philosophy in the West. In the Western
Philosophy the development of the conceptions about the human person is related to
the research for the truth and knowledge about the reality. Just like an eastern
conceptions, man or the human person is viewed as part of reality. But the east and
west have different interpretations of reality and therefore have different conceptions
of man. The east always considers reality as a whole even if there are different aspects
of the same reality. The eastern mind of the holistic and views everything as part of
one reality. The parts are harmoniously related. The Western mind views reality as
composed of different parts which are usually opposed to each other. There is for
example of dichotomy or distinction between the material and spiritual aspects of
reality. The development of philosophy in the West can be divided into several
periods, namely ancient, medieval modern and contemporary, and postmodern.
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The History of philosophy is replete with men and women who inquired into the
fundamental nature of the self. Along with the questions of the primary substratum
that defines the multiplicity of thing in the world, the inquiry of the self has
preoccupied the earliest thinkers in the history of philosophy: the Greeks. The Greeks
were the ones who seriously questioned myths and moved away from the attempting
to understand reality and respond to perennial questions of curiosity, including the
questions of the self. The different perspectives and views on the self can be best seen
and understood by revisiting its prime movers from the ancient times to contemporary
period.
LEARNING OUTCOMES:
At the End of the lesson, students are expected to:
1. Define the western philosophers’ view on the concept of Self;
2. Explain the general perspectives of the Western philosophy of the Self;
3. Point out the concept of Self as propounded by the Greek and Medieval
philosophers;
4. Illustrate how the self is being regarded based from the understanding of
modern and contemporary perspectives of human person.
5. Define the Self as a complex being; and
6. Discuss the Self as Cognitive Construct.
Concept of the self from the West: Personal and Developmental Perspective on
Self and Identity.
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I. ANCIENT GREEK CONCEPTION OF MAN
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SOCRATES
The ancient Greek philosophers were cosmologist. They were too busy looking
for the stuff or the basic and original stuff that makes the world.
To them, man’s place in the cosmos is vital. In fact, they generally consider man
as microcosm (small version) (We are a design world).
The sophist, (philosophers) preceded the three great Greek educational theorists.
Protagoras is considered as the foremost sophist.
“Man is the greatest measure of all things”--- Protagoras
Philosophers emphasize the individualism, because of its great emphasis, there
was a fear that men might be tempted in self-aggrandizement and personal glory.
(Self-increase.)
Socrates was chiefly concerned to find a way to excellence in the individual and
integrity in state.
According to him, the first requirement for individual happiness is to return to
one’s inner self and understand one’s essence.
“Know yourself” he counsels. To live is not enough; one should be aware of his
life. That’s why he said: “Unexamined life is not worth living”.
He said, “He who kindles others must himself glows.”
For Socrates, every man is composed of body and soul. This means that every
human person is dualistic wherein we are composed of two important aspects of
person hood. For Socrates, this means all individual have an imperfect and
impermanent aspect, the (body) while maintaining that there is also a (soul) that
is perfect and permanent.
PLATO
Plato is Socrates student before and his fervent admirer. Plato supported his
masters’ ideas that man is dual nature of body and soul.
Plato’s theory of ideas was his most influential contribution in the field of
philosophy.
He argued that the objects of the real world are merely shadows of eternal form of
ideas. According to him, the object of the true knowledge is changeless.
Plato’s Theory of knowledge said that both material objects that is being perceive
and the individual perceiving them are constantly changing (individual is capable
of changing) but knowledge can be concerned only the unchangeable universal
objects.
ARISTOLE
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If Plato has his academy, Aristotle has his Lyceum. Aristotle, gathered his
disciple to sit at his feet.
Aristotle’s famous dictum of man: According to him, “Man is rational animal.”
(or capable of reasoning)
According to Aristotle the body and the soul are in a state of unity.
Soul- acts as the perfect or full of realization of the body
Body- is a material entity which has a potentiality for life.
There is only a” life” when the body possess and united with the soul.
The body lives because of the soul which is considered as the principle of life and
this is considered as the principle of life and this is undividable.
The human being as a whole is composed of body and the soul.
According to Aristotle, the human beings are the same as the soul of any others.
(We are animated by the same set of capacities) but we have different bodies.
Aristotle proclaimed that man is rational animal. It is reason that makes man
resemble the supreme reason that rules and guides the destinies of individual and
nations that leads all things to their proper ends. (Montemayor, 1995).
The three hierarchical levels of living things: / 3 kinds of soul:
a) Vegetative Soul- possessed by plants and all living things which enables them
nutritive activity of growth, substance and production.
b) Sensitive Soul- bestow in animals that is capable of motion and sensation.
c) Rational Soul- which is the conscious and intellectual soul peculiar to human
beings. Man alone is capable of reason which makes him or her as the only
possessor of all three kinds. (Far over and above.)
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2. The body is not conscious and is moved by mechanical forces acting on it. Body
is corruptible.
Therefore, they are two separate entities. They can only interact but cannot be united.
(Aguas 2017).
The modern philosophy focuses on the rational and natural powers of human
person rather than on faith and salvation.
The aim of human life is the satisfaction of the natural desires of the self.
The conceptions of human person is focus on reason and source of experience.
One can improve his or her natural powers through education and this will
ultimately lead to happiness.
RENE DESCATES
According to him, man is composed of 2 substances. The body and the mind.
Body- refers to being that is extended in length, width and breath. The body is
located in time and space. It is material and subject to decay. It is not conscious.
It is publicly observable. It is divisible.
Mind- refers to the conscious or thinking being which understands, capable of
imagination and has senses. It experiencing thoughts, feelings, senses and
imagines. This is private and non-observable. Mind is invisible and immaterial.
Motion by the body is caused by the mind.
Thus, the body and mind interact even though they are not the same in nature.
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As an empiricist who believes that one can only know because of its senses and
experiences.
Empiricism- the knowledge can only be possible if it is sensed and experienced.
(Man can only attain knowledge through experience).
Impression- are the basic objects of our experience or sensation. (product of
direct experience)
What is self then? - Simply, according to Hume it is “bundle or collection of
different perception”.
In reality, what one thinks is a unified self is simply combination of all
experiences.
IMMANUEL KANT
To Kant, there is necessary a mind that organizes the impressions that men get
from external world. Time and space, for example. These ideas cannot be found
in the world, but it is built in our minds. This is called apparatuses of mind.
Without the self, one cannot organized the different impression that one gets in
relation to his man that synthesizes all knowledge and experience.
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He is a phenomenologist. He said that mind and the body are intertwined that they
cannot be separated from one another. According to him, all experience is embodied.
Because of our body we are in the world.
The living body, our thoughts, emotions and experiences are all one.
Activity 4
Name: _____________________________ Score: _____________
Year/Course& Section: __________________
Directions: Answer the following questions succinctly and direct to the point.
1. Discuss briefly the Socratic view of the human person or the Self.
2. Briefly describe how Plato regard the human person or the self in
relation to Plato’s conception of the World.
3. Explain the self or the human person’s body-mind interaction
according to the doctrine of Cartesian Cogito of Rene Descartes.
4. Illustrate hoe medieval philosophers view man
5. Discuss the meaning of self as described by David Hume as a
“bundle or collection of Different perception.”
6. Explain how Kant conceptualizes the nature of man.
INTRODUCTION
History discloses that the nature of self has been debated, discussed, and
rationalized by the different western philosophers. With the advent of the social
sciences, it became possible for new ways and paradigms to re-examine the true
nature of the self. People put a halt on speculative debates on the relationship between
the body and soul, eventually renamed body and the mind. Thinkers just eventually
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got tired of focusing on the long-standing debate since sixth century BC between the
relationship of those two components of the human person and whatever relationship
these two have is less important than the fact that there is a self. The debate shifted
into another locus of discussion. Given the new ways of knowing and the growth of
the Social Sciences, particularly Cultural Anthropology, digging out the cultural
understanding about man, it became possible for the new approaches to the
examination of the self to come to the fore. One of the loci, if not the most important
axis of analysis is the relationship between the self and the external world.
What is the relationship between external reality and the self? In the famous
Tarzan story, the little boy named Tarzan was left in the middle of the forest. Growing
up, he never had an interaction with any other human being but apes and other
animals. Tarzan grew up acting strangely like apes and unlike human person. Tarzan
became an animal, in effect. His sole develop as human persons without intervention.
This story, which was supposed to be based on real life, challenges the long-standing
notion of human persons being special and being a particular kind of being spectrum
of living entities. After all, our selves are not special because of the soul infused into
us. We may be gifted with intellect and the capacity to rationalized things but at the
end of the day, our growth and development and consequentially, our selves are truly
products of our interaction with external reality.
Every person lives in a certain society under a given culture. His thoughts and
behavior guide by the kind of culture. It is through a culture that humanizes a person.
It is through a culture that humanizes a person. It is through a culture that helps
realize person’s possibilities. It shapes one’s life the human way. Culture which
embraces all that a person thinks of and all that he possesses as a member of a given
society distinguishes him from animals.
Customs, traditions, beliefs, values and norms that make up what sociologists call
artifacts define the historical person. They characterize person’s ways and actions. A
person perceives things and judges them accordingly based on his cultural
perspectives. In fact, we understand man by his kind of culture. In other words, one
could hardly know a person devoid.
However, culture is dynamic. It changes from time to time, from place to place. It
develops according to circumstances that surround him. Our needs and aspirations
determine as well our kind of cultural development. Cultural lag is observable could
impede the growth of culture.
The progress or backwardness of a person reflects the stage of one’s cultural
development. Remote places that have limited socialization experience often cultural
lag and vice versa. This is conspicuous in the people’s mentifacts and artifacts.
Technology is one factor that contributes significantly to changes in culture. It
influences one’s view of reality, one’s attitude and all that he is as a person. The dawn
of information technology has done a lot of things in the way people believe as
members of society. Traditional values slowly eclipse by values emanating from the
fast and contemporary works of technology. However, there is one fact that person
should take into consideration, that is, a person’s being natural before being cultural.
As natural being, he is endowed with characteristics borne out of his human nature.
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His thinking ability as well as his constitutional freedom makes him a universal being
or what modern person call global. The naturality of person serves as the ground of
his being cultural. His naturality opens the threshold of his being a global citizen. As
global citizen, the person goes beyond his cultural boundaries.
Who are you today may be a product of culture and socialization that influence
your Self, where you derive trainings from the society, community, and family and
school.
LEARNING OUTCOMES
At the end of the lesson, students should be able to:
1. Explain the relationship between and among the self,
society, and culture;
2. Discuss the different ways on how society and culture
shape the self; and
3. Identify some differences and similarities as to how the
self can be influenced by the different institutions in the
society; and
4. Construct own definition of self and share this in the
whole class.
Activity
Direction: paste a picture when you were in elementary, high school and college.
Below the picture, list down your salient characteristics that you remember.
2. SET IN FAMILIES
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While every child born with certain given’s, disposition coming from his parents
genes and general conditions of life, the impact of family is still deemed as a
given in understanding the self.
The kind of family we are born will certainly affect us and the kind of
development that we will have as we go through life.
We cannot deny that family is important. (Ex. A child during dependency period)
(Ex. Babies internalize ways and styles that they view from their family. (Ex.
imitating the language of their families, babies learn language).
Without a family, biologically and sociologically, a person may not even survive
or become a human person.
One is who he is because of his family for the most part.
Carl Rogers - theory of personality also use the same terms, the “I” as the one
who acts and decides while the “Me” is what you think and feel about yourself as
an object.
Self-Identity - is composed of personal characteristics, social roles and
responsibilities, as well as affiliation that define who one is.
Self-Concept - is what basically comes to your mind when you are asked about
who you are
Self-Identity and Self-Concept are not fixed in one time frame.
Carl Rogers - captured an idea in his concept of self- schema or our organized
system or collection of knowledge. The schema is not limited it include your
interest, work, course, name and physical characteristics.
On the other hand, current researches point out that the self and identity is created
and recreated in memory specifically the frontal lobe of the brain associated in
the processes concerning the self.
Self-awareness - the term used when we are aware of our self-concept. However,
there are two types of self that we can be aware of:
The private self - or your internal standards and private thoughts and feelings.
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Public Self - or your public image commonly geared toward having a good
presentation of yourself to others.
SELF AWARENESS - also presents us with at least three other self-schema: the
actual, ideal and ought self.
*actual self - who are you at the moment
*ideal - who you like to be
*ought self - who do you think you should be
Self-awareness maybe positive or negative depending on the circumstances and
our next course of action. Self-awareness can keep you from doing something
dangerous but on the other hand, if self-awareness is too much (concerned about
being observed and criticized by others) people have the tendency to become
“self-conscious”.
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CHAPTER V: UNPACKING THE SELF
PHYSICAL SELF
INTROUCTION
We are living in a world where the material and immaterial self are both
represented. How is that possible? Thanks to advances in technology, we not only live
in physical world, we have also virtual reality. How do you view yourself in both
worlds?
Society shapes us in many ways, possibly more than we realize it. This involves:
How we perceive our body visually
How we feel about our physical appearance;
How we think and talk to ourselves about our bodies; and
Our sense of how the other people view our bodies.
LEARNING OUTCOMES
At the end of the course, the students will be able to:
1. Discuss the different representations and conceptualizations of the self from
various disciplinal perspective;
2. Compare and contrast how the self has been represented across different
disciplines and perspectives;
3. Examine the different influences, factors, and forces that shape the self; and
4. Demonstrate critical and reflective thought in analyzing the development of
one’s self and identity by developing a theory of the self.
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PHYSICAL SELF
A positive view of “self” involves understanding that healthy and attractive
bodies come in many shapes and sizes, and that physical appearance says very
little our character or value as a person.
“Beauty is when you can appreciate yourself. When you love yourself, that’s when
you’re most beautiful”. --Zoe Kravitz
Research found that a person who is perceived as attractive makes more money than a
person of below-average looks.
Cognitive bias- also called “halo effect”. This is an error of reasoning, evaluating
on any other mental process.
The Halo effect is also known as the Physical attractiveness stereotype and the
“what is beautiful is good” this is the tendency of people to rate attractive
individuals more favorably for their personality traits or characteristics as
compared to those who are less attractive.
A.
_______ 1. It is an error of reasoning, evaluating, or remembering.
_______ 2. It is about how you value yourself.
_______ 3. It is generally defined as how one thinks and feels towards one’s body.
_______ 4. This Philosopher states that, “Beauty exists merely in the mind...”
_______ 5. He asserted that forms of beauty are order, symmetry, and definiteness
that can be demonstrated by mathematical sciences.
B.
a. Aristotle
b. Body Image
c. Cognitive bias
d. Hume
e. Kant
f. Self-esteem
Reflection # 2
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(10 pts. Each)
1. How do you personally define beauty
2. Do you think you are ‘beautiful”? What are your bases why you consider
yourself as beautiful?
“Self-love is about respecting and appreciating every single part of who you are, and
being proud to be you.” -Miya Yamanouchi
1. The skin
A. Non Specific type
B. Specific type
Prepuce- is the retractable fold of skin. Covering the tip of the penis. The non-
technical name of this is foreskin.
FEMALE EXTERNAL GENITALIA
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- Mons pubis
-Clitoris is the female sexual organ that is small, sensitive and located in front of the
opening of the vagina.
-Labia Majora and Minora
Majora- are the fleshy lips around the vagina, these are the larger fold of vulva.
Minora- Known as inner labia or inner lips.
-Vaginal introitus -is the opening that leads to the vaginal canal.
-Hymen -is a membrane that surrounds or partially covers the external vaginal
opening.
-Perianal Skin -area of the body surrounding the anus. A skin that is very sensitive.
-Lips - soft and movable, serve as the opening for food to intake. It is design for the
articulation of sound and speech. Human lips is designed to perceive touch and can be
erogenous zone when used in kissing and any other acts of intimacy.
Nipples - are the raised region of tissue on the surface of the breast.
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Hypothalamus- is important in human sexual activity because of its relation to the
pituitary gland.
Pituitary glands- it secretes the hormones produced in the hypothalamus.
1. Oxytocin -it is also known as the “love hormone” and believed to be involved in
our desire to maintain close relationships. It is released during sexual intercourse
when orgasm is achieved.
2. Follicle-Stimulating Hormone (FSH) -It is responsible for ovulation in females.
3. Luteinizing Hormone- (LH) -it stimulates the testes to produce testosterone. In
males, testosterone appears to be a major contributing factor to sexual motivation.
4. Vasopressin -it involves in the male arousal phase. The increase of vasopressin
during erectile response is believed to be directly associated with increased
motivation to engage in sexual behavior.
5. Estrogen and Progesterone - it regulates the motivation to engage in sexual
behavior for females, with estrogen increasing motivation and progesterone
decreasing it.
GENDER IDENTITY
Sexual Orientation- is a person’s emotional and erotic/sex attraction toward
another individual.
Gender Identity- refers to one’s sense of being male or female
WHAT IS LGBTQ+?
Lesbian- Female attracted to women.
Gay- Males who are attracted to any other males.
Bisexual- sexually or romantically attracted to both men and women.
Transgender- an umbrella term for people who do not identify with the gender
assigned to them at birth. (Trans woman: Male to Female; Trans Man: Female to
Male) they identify themselves.
+ - the plus, it signifies that many identities are not explicitly represented by the
letters. This includes intersex or people who are born with a mix of male and female
biological traits that can make it hard for the doctors to assigned them a male or a
female sex; asexual or a person who is not interested in or does not require sexual
activity.
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SEXUAL ORIENTATION AND GENDER IDENTITY ISSUES
(Your biological or assigned sex does not always tell your complete story)
Sex- is label-- male or female-- that assigned by a doctor at birth based on the
genitals you are born with the chromosomes you have. It goes on your birth
certificate.
Gender- gender is not determined biologically, as a result of sexual
characteristics of either women or men but is constructed socially.
Gender Identity- one’s innermost concept of self as male, female, a blend of
both or neither-- how individuals perceive themselves and what they call
themselves.
Sexual Orientation- is an inherent or immutable enduring emotional, romantic or
sexual attraction to some other people. (Same sex or opposite sex attraction).
SOCIOCULTURAL FACTORS
-can influence the various issues related to sexual orientation and gender identity.
Ex. In Philippines- view as the heterosexuality/ opposite sex as the norm.
New Guinea- young boys are expected to engage in sexual behavior with any other
boys for a given period because it is believed that doing so is necessary for these boys
to become men.
Thailand- it has more than two categories. Male and Female and Kathoey.
Kathoey- is an individual who would be described as transgender in western cultures.
FAMILY INFLUENCES
The children’s interests, preferences, behaviors and overall self-concept are
strongly influenced by parental authority and figure teachings regarding sexual
stereotypes.
URBAN SETTING
Research discovered that homosexuality (same sex) is positively correlated with
the urbanization. Large cities seem to provide a friendlier environment for same-
gender interest to develop and be expressed (a support group) than in rural areas.
HISTORY OF SEXUAL ABUSED
Previous studies claimed that abused adolescents, particularly those who
victimized by males are more likely to become homo-sexual or bisexual in
adulthood.
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SEXUALLY TRANSMITTED DISEASES (STD’S)
STD or sexually transmitted diseases also known as sexually transmitted
infection. It is a disease or infection acquired through sexual contact where the
organism that cause STD are passed through blood, semen, vaginal or any other
bodily fluid.
It can also passed through a non-sexual form
-Pregnancy (mother to infant)
-Blood transfusion
-People sharing needles for injection.
THE RESPONSIBLE PARENTHOOD ACT AND REPRODUCTIVE
HEALTH ACT OF 2012
Known as the Republic Act 10354 (reproductive health law or RH Law (a law in
the Philippines that guarantees access to contraceptive methods, such as fertility
control, sexual education and maternal care.
DISADVANTAGE
Birth control health risk- for some women, oral contraceptives can lead to hair
loss and weight gain, and the used of diaphragms can lead to urinary tract
infections.
Possibility of Pregnancy- Family Planning is not 100% reliable. Other than
abstinence, there is no birth control method that is completely effective. Couple
who are engaging in sexual activity should always consider the possibility of an
unexpected pregnancy.
Pregnancy after birth control- it is possible to get pregnant almost right away
after stopping the hormonal contraceptives, such as birth control pills or after
having the IUD removed.
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Periodic abstinence (fertility awareness) method
A. Rhythm (calendar) method; the couple tracks the woman’s menstrual history to
predict when she will ovulate. This helps the couple determines when they will most
likely to conceive.
B. Basal body temperature monitoring- relieves on monitoring a woman’s basal
temperature.
C. Cervical mucus ovulation method- also called the Billing’s method examining the
viscosity of the cervical mucus to discover when ovulation is occurring.
Lactation Amenorrhea Method
Breastfeeding can suppress ovulation. This is called (LAM). However, after 3
months of breastfeed, a woman must choose another method of contraception.
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___________________ 10. It refers to a method that manipulates the hormones which
directly affect the normal menstrual cycle so that ovulation will not occur.
Reflection # 3
10 pts. Each
1. For Girls: How was your experience the first time you had your menarche or
first menstruation? Were you afraid? How did you cope with your feeling of
awkwardness/ negativity, especially since it was accompanied by bodily
changes?
For Boys: How was your experience the first time you had your nocturnal
emission? How did you cope with your feeling of awkwardness/ negativity,
especially since it was accompanied by bodily changes?
RELEVANCE 10pts.
ORIGINALITY 5pts.
CREATIVITY 5pts.
ORGANIZATION OF 5pts.
THOUGHTS
TOTAL 25pts.
What makes us want to have the products today are connected with who we are.
What we want to have and what we already possess is relate to ourselves.
We regard our possessions as parts of ourselves. We are what we have and what
we possess. Belk (1988)
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There is a direct link between self-identity with what we have and possess.
Material self- this is the aspect of self that we want to have possessions.
Reflection # 4
Debit card challenge. (5 points each)
Direction: a very wealthy person gave you a debit card and told you to use it as much
as you want to make yourself happy. What are you going to do with your debit card?
Make a list of what you want to have. Write as many as you want.
_____________________________________________________________________
_____________________________________________________________________
_____________________________________________________________________
_________
Analysis:
Answer the following:
1. What did you feel as you do the debit card challenge?
2. Which among the items in your list you like most? Why?
3. If ever you were given the chance in real life, to have among the list, which will
you choose and why?
4. Does your choice different from what you answer in question number two? Why or
why not?
5. Let you classmate read your list. In the quick impression of your classmate did he
or she knows the truth about you?
MATERIAL SELF
William James wrote in his book, The Principles of Psychology that when it
comes to understanding the self it can be examined in different components.
According to James we are deeply affected with the following because we put
much investment of our self:
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2. Clothes- clothing is essential part of our material self. Clothing is a form of self-
expression. We choose and wear clothes that are reflection of our self. (Watson,
2014).
3. Immediate Family- our siblings and parents hold another great important part of
ourselves. What they do or become affects us. We place huge investment to our
immediate family when we see them as the nearest replica of ourselves.
4. Home- this is the fourth component of our material self. “Home is where your heart
is” it is the earliest rest of our self-hood.
The more investment of self is given to the particular thing, the more we identify
ourselves to it.
“Man’s self is the sum total of all what he can call his”- William James 1890
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Sometimes, people are slowly realizing that the power of consumption is stopping
us from finding true and sincere happiness. It often works as substitute as what
we are missing in life.
CONSCIOUS CONSUMPTION
Conscious consumption- it is about practicing responsible buying habits. Every
person has a free will and consumers are not often portrayed as “victims”.
PSYCHOLOGICAL/ SOCIOLOGICAL CONSUMPTION
Happiness seems attached to buy something. Thus, sometimes consumption has
become an addiction.
On the other hand, many people have forgotten that there are things in life that
can really bring lasting happiness such as family, friends, to have “me” time,
enjoy the nature etc.
Characters of consumer Culture
1. Consumer consumption is a culture of consumption
2. Consumer culture is the culture of market society
3. Consumer culture is universal and impersonal
4. Consumer culture identifies freedom with private choice and life
5. Consumer needs are insatiable and unlimited
6. Consumer culture is privileged medium for building personal identity and status
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THE PROBLEM WITH CONSUMERISM
1. It is intrusive.
2. It is manipulative.
3. It cannot provide many of the things that are important to us.
4. It restricts our choices and lives.
5. It affects our worldviews and characters.
6. It is unsustainable.
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II. Application (2 pts each)
1. What is your purpose for going shopping?
2. Have you tried online shopping? If yes, what makes it different from shopping
in malls? If no, why not?
3. What particular item do you usually buy? Why?
III.
(4 pts.)
“I shop, therefore I am”
4. Suppose you won a cash prize of P10,000.00 but with one condition: to spend
the said amount in only one day or the prize would be forfeited. What are the
things that you will buy? Enumerate them below with approximated prices.
Amount Item
Philosophy started the moment humans started to wander (with just about
anything.)
As college student, it is vital that you develop a healthy sense of wonder with an
open mind that seeks to understand belief systems that may not be the same as
yours.
SPIRITUAL VS. RELIGIOUS
Spiritual- is defined as “relating to or affecting the human spirit or soul as
opposed to material or physical things.
Religion and Spirituality- are both paths to God; however they are different in
their approaches.
Religious person- someone who believes in God or group of Gods and
consciously adheres to the beliefs of his or her religion.
Spiritual person- places little importance on beliefs and traditions and it is more
concerned with growing and experiencing the divine.
Religion approach- it emphasizes sin, guilt and the concept of a punishing God.
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Spiritual approach- it emphasizes God as the path of love. A love where there is
no condemnation and judgement but a mercy and acceptance.
Religion- believes in God who is high up in the heavens. God is depicted as
separate from humanity who is impartial but impersonal.
Spirituality- believes in God who is omnipresent and omniscient, someone who is
a living presence in our hearts.
Religion path- it is the only way to salvation and other religions are wrong, so a
person needs to be converted to their faith in order to attain salvation.
Spirituality path- feels that all faith are valid “different paths that lead to the same
destination”. This path feels that all faith are valid. It embrace all the worlds’
religion, but at the same time it is not constrained/control by any religious
dogmas/forms.
3. Yoga-
*Hindu theistic Philosophy- teaches the suppression of all mind and body activity so
that self may realize its distinction from the material world and attain liberation.
*In Western Culture- Yoga is a system of physical postures, breathing techniques and
sometimes meditation to promote physical and emotional well-being.
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THE PRACTIVE OF RELIGION: BELIEF IN SUPER NATURAL BEING
AND POWER
Over 4,000- number of religions and spiritual traditions in the human population.
Religion
is defined as “the belief in and worship of a superhuman controlling power,
especially a personal God or Gods” (Oxford Univ Press, 2017)
It is also a “particular system of faith and worship.”
A systematic “attribution of human characteristics of behavior to a God/animal or
object.
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Ex. Social contact attract both introvert and extrovert (introvert; religion encourages meditation,
private and solitude; while extrovert people is for fellowship with other.
MAJOR RELGIONS
1. Judaism- religion, philosophy and culture of the Jewish people. They believe in one transcendent
God. Torah is their sacred text.
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2. Christianity- is an Abrahamic monotheistic religion based on the life and teaching of Jesus Christ
which is the focal of the Christian Faith. The word of God is written in the Bible.
3. Islam- Islam means submission or surrender “Salam” is the root word which means “peace”
A Muslim is one who surrenders himself to God’s will.
Islam is the religious faith of the Muslims
Allah- is their sole deity
Mohammad- his prophet
Koran- Holy Scriptures of Muslim.
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HOW DO DUNGAN AND GINHAWA DIFFER?
DUNGAN- is a life force, an energy as well as an ethereal entity, a spirit with a will of its own that
resides in the human body and provides the essence of life.
Everyone has a “dungan” similar western concept of the “soul”
“Dungan” leave the body when the person is asleep and return in person’s body if he/she
becomes fully conscious again.
If the “Dungan” was harm by other spirits while it was outside the body it cannot return again
and the person will die.
GINHAWA- (is the breath of life)
Ginhawa is the responsible for the hearts ability to breath.
If ginhawa left the body the person also dies.
WHAT IS THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN THE SOUL AND THE SPIRIT OF MAN
ETHYMOLOGY
Soul- old english as “sawol” that meant as spiritual and emotional part of person’s animate
existence.
Spirit- latin as “spiritus” a breathing (respiration, and of the wind, breath of life.)
BIBLICAL BELIEFS
Soul- conscious, the moral and thinking part of a person; the soul is immortal (go to hell,
purgatory or heaven after person dies.)
Spirit- or the holy spirit/part of the trinity. (Force of God through which blessings are bestowed
upon his people) one should develop faith.
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IN WESTERN CULTURE
Soul- moral consciousness. (Ex. cruel killer could be said to have no soul.)
Spirit- a ghost or any other super natural beings (those who died with unfinished business
wander the earth until task is fulfilled).
IN EASTERN CULTURE
Soul- in Hinduism, soul is part of the person that has dharma which has an obligation to respect
the caste, social custom, civil law and sacred law.
Spirit- TAOISM- nature and ancestor spirits are common.
JAPAN- there is an animistic folk which emphasizes shamanism, particularly divination, spirit
possessions and faith healing.
CONFUCIANISM- the Chinese folk recognition of existence of animistic spirits, ghost and deities.
RITUAL CEREMONIES
A ritual is a ceremony or action performed in a customary way.
Rituals include not only the worship rites and sacraments of organized religion and cults but also
rites and sacraments of organized religion and atonement and purification rites, oaths of
allegiance, dedication ceremonies, coronations, presidential inauguration, marriages, and
funerals --perhaps all kinds of human activity.
WHERE DOES RITUAL ORIGINATE?
1. Origin approach- the earliest form, the premise of this approach is that ritual behavior was part of
the human evolution.
2. Function in society- ritual behavior as an individual and socio needs.
3. History of religions approach- the ritual behavior is an expression of sacred, it is how the
material human connects with the transcendent realm/ultimate reality.
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CLASSIFICATION OF RITAULS
1. Imitative rituals- belief system that was patterned after myths and the ritual repeats of myths or
aspect of the myth. Ex. New Year and Nian
2. Positive and Negative ritual-
Negative rituals- should be avoided because it is forbidden/rules of prohibition so that one will
avoid misfortune.
Positive rituals- mostly concern with giving blessings to an object or to an individual.
3. Sacrificial rituals- seen as the earliest form of religion. The sacrifice can be a human being, an
animal, food crops, or an objects. The destruction could be by burning, dismembering, cutting the
sacrifice into small pieces, eating or burying.
4. Life crisis ritual- is the transition of one mode or stage of life into another. This ritual usually
defines the life of an individual.
EX. Filipino tradition to bury the placenta right after birth and it is the father who is tasked to do this.
Succeeding children- it is also important for them to bury the placenta of their children together so
that they will always love and care for one another.
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_____________________ 8. It is spiritual communion with God as in supplication, thanksgiving,
adoration, or confession.
____________________ 9. It is defined as ‘the belief in and worship of a superhuman controlling
power, especially a personal God or Gods.
___________________ 10. Another contemplative practice that can be help you become more
aware of your inner life and feel more connected to your experience and the world around you.
SPANIARDS- Hispanic culture influence natives. Thus, Christianity became the dominant religion.
On the other hand, western based of political organization was established in the Philippines.
AMERICAN- manifested the wide spread use of the English language in Philippines today.
Psychologist and educator and former chairperson of the CHED, Dr. Patricia B. Licuanan, wrote
that the strengths and weaknesses of the Filipino characters are rooted in factors such as:
Home environment- Filipino children are taught to value family and give it primary importance.
Filipino Social environment- depending one another to survive. This dependence on relation make
Filipino’s become group-oriented.
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Culture and language- depict openness to foreign elements, such as the importance of the English
language in our educational system. (The wider following of the Hollywood movies, shows and
music is a manifestation of our attachment to foreign elements).
The Philippine educational system- is an instrument in molding the strengths and weaknesses of the
Filipino character. Schools are highly authoritarian, it teaches the children on early state to be well-
behave and obedient that will later on get a praised and rewards.
Religion- taught optimism and being resilient.
Economic environment- the hard life drove Filipino’s to work hard and take risks, such as learning
families to work abroad.
Political environment- political power is the mainly in the hands of elite. Sometimes, the economic
and political environments are among the elements that have developed the culture of corruption in
the Philippines.
Mass media- it reinforce colonial mentality. In fact, the emphasis on the superiority of an imported
brand or product through mass media is part of Filipino’s daily life.
Leaders and role model- “any person with authority is looked up”. Thus, when the leader violate the
law and there is a lack of accountability, Filipino’s mindset is highly affected in a negative way.
(Licuanan, 1994).
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WEAKNESSESS OF THE FILIPINO CHARACHTER
Generally this weaknesses are:
1. Extreme Personalism- “palakasan system”, “inside connections” Ex. Family and friends are given
preference in hiring.
2. Extreme family Centeredness- family is valued above anything and everyone else. Extreme
family centeredness is manifested in our political system where political dynasties lord over our
elected government post from Barangay level to national positions.
3. Lack of discipline- “Ningas cogon” Ex. “Projects starts out with full enthusiasm and interest, but
sooner the enthusiasm and interest dies down.
4. Passivity and lacking initiative- Filipino’s do not feel the need to initiate or contribute for
solution. (Lack of discipline.)
Ex. In traffic problems, people are expecting the government to solve the problem yet the traffic rules
and regulations in the first place is sometimes ignored by the Filipinos.
5. Colonial Mentality- “Filipino’s love anything about foreign” that sometimes leads in losing
cultural identity. This is a general feeling of inferiority where we think foreigners --especially
westerns, are superior. (1994).
6. Kanya- kanya syndrome- it is related to extreme personalism and extreme family-centeredness.
The expression of crab mentality exemplifies “kanya-kanya syndrome.
7. Lack of self-analysis and reflection- is the expression that Filipino’s are “madaling makalimot”
or have a short memory. “We easily forget the mistakes we have made; hence, we make the same
mistake again. Ex. Reelected Politicians.
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____________________ 2. This trait demonstrated in our willingness to take risks and work in other
countries.
_____________________ 3. This trait is demonstrated by Filipinos to carry on and endure even
trough harsh economic and social circumstances.
____________________ 4. This trait emphasizes personal and in-group interests, which are
insensitive to the common good.
_____________________ 5. This trait starts with enthusiasm but sooner or later that enthusiasm just
dies down.
_____________________ 6. This is demonstrated when Filipinos become cheerful and fun-loving,
especially during fiestas and any other social gatherings.
_____________________ 7. This involves personal contracts, which make requests become difficult
to turn down and many may lead to the prevalence of graft and corruption in the country.
____________________ 8. Family is valued above anything and everyone else because the family is
the source of strength.
____________________ 9. This trait is connected to our general feelings of inferiority, where we
think foreigners are superior.
____________________ 10. This trait is actually a positive side to “bahala na” mindset, which
serves as a “Kickstarter” or a “pampalakas loob” to move someone into action.
“There will be time, there will be time, to prepare a face to meet the faces that you
meet”
Lionel Trilling’s (1997) analysis of literature about the “self” and its relationship with others
distinguished sincerity and authenticity.
Sincerity- refers to the exposure in public of what one feels privately.
Authentic person- is one who takes actions based on some internal standard and takes
responsibility for this freely chosen action.
I, Me, Myself, and my user I.D. Online identity.
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CHARACTERISTICS OF THE DIGITAL SELF
1. Oriented inward- the digital self is oriented inward toward the world of thought and feelings
because others cannot see the online user’s overt (hidden) attributes.
2. Narrative in nature- online users will only come to know the person primarily through what the
person tells them.
3. Retractable- others are unable to link the online self- claims to the offline identities.
4. Multipliable- because people can interact with another in different domains of the online world at
relatively the same time.
Self- Presentation- people able to present themselves online that they want to.
The basic kinds of people you interact with online are:
1. People you do not know at all
2. People you know both online and offline; and
3. People you know only online
Regardless of how much you have known them online, their offline identity largely remains
unrevealed or unverified.
SELF PRESENTATION BEHAVIOR- is any behavior intended to create, modify, or maintain
an impression of ourselves in the minds of others (we are creating an impression)
WHY DO PEOPLE ENGAGE IN SELF- PRESENTATION?
Self- presentation
helps facilitate social interaction;
Enables individuals to attain material and social construct desired identities.
Generally, social media platforms are used for
Social browsing
Social searching
Communication and
Impression management
Impression management- is the attempt to control or influence any other people’s perceptions.
2 main motives of attempting to manage the impressions of others:
Instrumental- motive to gain reward and increase one’s self-esteem.
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Expressive- this is a motivation attempting to control of one’s personal behavior and identity. It
is a response to moral norms, expectations, or restrictions. (Seeking to show others that he/she is
different.
1. Self-promotion- is a proactive process in which a person is actively says things or takes an action
to show his or her competence to an audience. (It increases wherever there is an opportunity to
openly impress someone.)
2. Ingratiation- process by which someone tries to win the approval or acceptance of another)
Ex. Trying to win your mother in law by way of giving compliments or gifts.
3. Exemplification- involves a strategic self- sacrifice so that observers may recognize the
dedication. An exemplifier often wants other people to know how hard he or she has been working
because of the need to advertise his or her behavior.
4. Intimidation- strategy that involves showing off authority, power or the potential to punish in
order to be seen by observers as someone who could be or is dangerous (this is designed to increase
the credibility of one’s threats and enhance the probability the target will complex with the demands
for agreement.
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“Kids are always looking at each other, comparing themselves to each other”.
“The difference for teenagers today is that there is an endless supply of people whom they can
compare themselves.
Study indicated that the more time spent online caused a decline in communicating with family
members.
Sometimes it may lead to altered impression of the physical and personality traits of the users.
This may lead to incorrect conclusions regarding physical appearance, educational level,
intelligence, moral integrity, etc.
Some study:
Relationship
Self-esteem SNS = narcissistic behavior.
Another study: suggested that Facebook use may actually enhance self-esteem.
HYPERPERSONAL MODEL- this is a interpersonal communication theory which suggested
that the advantage of computer- mediated communication is that a person can edit his or her self-
presentation, which in turn positively into acts impressions in the self; thus, greater intimacy is
possible.
Too much use of SNS will lead to:
Anxiety, restlessness, irritability, insomnia, headaches, poor concentration, depression, social
isolation.
WHAT MAKES US SO ADDICTED?
“One cannot not communicate” (one cannot avoid communication.)
Social networks have the power to amplify the human nature. They have broken the barriers of
distance and time; of presence and visibility.
They expand the possibilities of sharing and playing identities.
People is craving for social validation (FB “Like”; twitter “favorite”)
PRIVATE VS PUBLIC SELF
PRIVATE- the prevalent definition among social psychologists is “private” refers to mental events in
a person that are inherently unobservable by others.
PUBLIC- are behaviors that are open to the observations of other people.
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-peer relationship
-cultural influences
4. MEDIA AND INTERNET
Reflection # 5
(5 pts each)
1. What are your reasons/ purposes for going online?
2. What network site/s do you usually visit? (e.g., FB, Yahoo, Google, YouTube and the
like) Why?
3. How do you often do you stay online? (e.g., 5 hours a day, 8 hours a day, and so on)
4. If you open your FB account, do you keep your identity public or private? Why?
5. What would be the possible “benefits” and “risks” if your online profile is made
public?
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Chapter 6 Managing and Caring for the Self
INTRODUCTION
Are you stressed right now? What are your stressors? Family? Boyfriend/Girlfriend? Studies?
How do you cope with stress? Life as a college student is not easy. You need to learn how to manage
your responsibilities. Learning, however, is not just about lectures and homework. In fact, we use the
term “learning” all the time in everyday life.
Before going into trying to understand the relevant science behind the learning process, let’s
consider the nature of learning that is drawn from research.
The Lawrence Hall of Science/UC Berkeley NSF-WIDER Grant, outlined five points of the
“learning” process:
1. Learning is Active
2. It builds on prior knowledge
3. It occurs in a complex social environment
4. Learning is situated in an authentic context
5. It requires learners’ motivation and cognitive engagement.
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same time. But to do so, you need to know yourself first. Understand how the human brain works
during learning. Once you understand the biological process, work on a mental strategy that will suit
you best. Learning is a lifelong process, and your college years are just part of this process. How you
approach learning matters because it will definitely have an impact on the quality of your life in the
future.
LEARNING OUTCOMES:
At the end of the course, the students will be able to:
1. Discuss how to be better students using different strategies
2. Understand how the human brain works during learning;
3. Identify short-and long term-goals;
4. Discuss various sources of stress;
5. Compare and contrast the different coping strategies, and
6. Apply positive coping strategies.
According to the Lawrence Hall of Science, he outlined five points on the learning process:
1. Learning is active.
2. It builds on prior knowledge.
3. It occurs in a complex social environment.
4. Learning is situated in an authentic context.
5. It requires learners’ motivation and cognitive engagement.
Learning is a lifelong process and your college years are just a part of this process. (as long
as we live we are learning.)
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LEARNING TO BE A BETTER STUDENT
• WHAT ARE YOUR STRATEGIES THAT YOU PERSONALLY USED WHEN YOU
STUDY FOR AN EXAM?
(Do you prefer handouts? Colored pens? Handwritten notes or what?)
Instead of asking what you want to be when you grow up, ask what
problems you want to solve ---- Lauren Hurt- Ashwin
Self-evaluation:
• Are your strategies effective when you study for an exam?
• Do you get high scores in your exam using your strategies?
If yes, that is good! Then what if no? What are you going to do?
2. The peripheral nervous system (PNS) is composed of spinal nerves that branch from the spinal
cord and cranial nerves that is branch from the brain.
Brain
Figure 1. The brain has three main parts: the cerebrum, cerebellum and brainstem.
• Cerebrum: is the largest part of the brain and is composed of right and left hemispheres. It
performs higher functions like interpreting touch, vision and hearing, as well as speech,
reasoning, emotions, learning, and fine control of movement.
• Cerebellum: is located under the cerebrum. Its function is to coordinate muscle movements,
maintain posture, and balance.
• Brainstem: acts as a relay center connecting the cerebrum and cerebellum to the spinal cord.
It performs many automatic functions such as breathing, heart rate, body temperature, wake
and sleep cycles, digestion, sneezing, coughing, vomiting and swallowing.
Fig. 2
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• The cerebral hemispheres have distinct fissures, which divide the brain into lobes.
• Each hemisphere has 4 lobes: frontal, temporal, parietal, and occipital (Fig. 3).
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• Figure 3. The cerebrum is divided into four lobes: frontal, parietal, occipital and
temporal.
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• Frontal lobe
• Personality, behavior, emotions
• Judgment, planning, problem solving
• Speech: speaking and writing (Brocas area)
• Body movement (motor strip)
• Intelligence, concentration, self-awareness
• Parietal lobe
• Interprets language, words
• Sense of touch, pain, temperature (sensory strip)
• Interprets signals from vision, hearing, motor, sensory and memory
• Spatial and visual perception
• Occipital lobe
• Interprets vision (color, light, movement)
• Temporal lobe
• Understanding language (Wernicke’s area)
• Memory
• Hearing
• Sequencing and organization
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Left Brain function Right Brain Functions
(right handed people) (left handed people)
Right side of the body control Left side of the body control
• Number skills • 3-D shapes
• Math/scientific skills • Music/art awareness
• Analytical • Synthesizing
• Objectivity • Subjectivity
• Written language • Imagination
• Spoken language • Creativity
• Logic • Emotion
• reasoning • Face recognition
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The two process of metacognition:
1. Knowledge of cognition
This involves:
a. Being aware of the factors that involve learning
b. Identifying the strategies you can use to effectively learn; and
c. Choosing the appropriate learning strategy
2. Regulation of cognition involves:
a. Setting goals and planning;
b. Monitoring and controlling learning; and
c. Evaluating own regulation (assess if the strategy is working, if not you will make adjustment
and try something new)
Metacognitive note-taking skills
Reflective writing
• Reflective writing - help student makes connection between what they are learning in their
homework/class content.
• Writing will help the students to observe themselves before, during and after their reading,
watching and listening experience.
The most popular reflective writing activity is the “minute paper”
- It is responding to the prompts about their experiences with the home work, class activities or
recent learning experiences in your class.
Some examples you can use for reflective writing activities:
The most important part of the reading, video, or class is…
The ideas that stand out most in my mind are…
Two ideas that I have found confusing are…
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3. Reflects on the outcome
(The cycle repeats, as it repeats we reflect and make adjustment)
1. PLAN, SET GOALS AND LAY OUT STRATEGIES - Planning your action before you
start working on a task.
Analyze the learning task Ask:
Is this a task I’ve done before or something
new?
How much time will it take?
How much focus will I need?
Set goals
Ask:
How will I structure this task?
What are your sub goals?
Can I complete an outline within 2 weeks?
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Ex. When I studied in a quiet location in the library, I completed the reading more quickly than
when I read at home.
b. Plan out what to do when obstacles arise.
Ex. My teachers’ consultation time is every Wednesday;
I will go and clarify some of the topics here that I don’t understand.
c. Stick with these strategies
d. Monitor your progress – you need to accept the feedback from your teacher regarding your
progress.
3. Reflect on your performance
Ex. In grades (why I earned that certain grade and how to improve my performance?
TIPS ON HOW TO REFLECT ON YOUR PERFORMANCE
1. Compare your performance with your original goal and your results. Do not compare yourself
to others.
2. Was your strategy effective? Did you used the appropriate strategy? Did you follow your
strategy?
3. Do not blame yourself failure by saying you lack the ability.
4. Reflect on the effort you made and the strategy you used that may have caused poor
performance.
5. Manage your emotions. Accept help from your teachers and significant people around you.
(Even outcome is not what you hoped, you can still learn from that experience.
• Self- Efficacy- refers to your belief in you capacity to perform necessary actions to produce
specific performance goals. (Bandura, 1977, 1986, 1997)
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• Self-Efficacy- is the reflection of your confidence in the ability to control your motivation,
behavior and social environment.
• A strong sense of self efficacy adds to your sense of well-being that helps you perform your
tasks well.
High self-efficacy – see a difficult task as a challenge that must be conquered rather than a
problem that must be avoided. (SKIP)
- It will sustain/ boost our efforts even in times of adversity.
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Ex. You feel depressed/ you have a fever-
(Yet you still have to review, these factors will affect individual (the feeling of being unmotivated to
study because you will feel that you will not understand any of the topic.
What is self-concept?
• Self- concept – the term self-concept is a general term used to refer to “how someone thinks
about or perceives themselves”.
• Self-concept- is your idea of who you are based on your personal beliefs and your perceived
notion of how people see you.
Ex. Your personal beliefs is your body image (I am sexy)
Your notion about yourself (I am hardworking”)
What is self-esteem?
“Everything that happens to you is a reflection of what you believe about yourself. We cannot
outperform our level of self-esteem, we cannot draw to ourselves more than we think we are worth.
- Iyan Lavanzant
Self-esteem
Self- esteem- it refers to the way we see and think about ourselves.
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Self- esteem- always involves a degree of self-evaluation
- It used to describe a person’s overall sense of self-worth or personal value. Generally,
children who have warm and secure relationships with their parents/caregivers are more likely to
have a positive self-concepts and high self-esteem.
Self-esteem- affect your trust in others, your relationships, your work--- nearly every part of your
life.
Positive self-esteem/ high self-esteem-- help you to try new things, like approaching
people and building your social network.
Low self- esteem- - makes you unsure of yourself
- You are lack of self-confidence and your self-doubt will affect your
motivation to work toward your goals.
Persons with positive self- esteem Persons with low- self esteem
• Feel proud of what they can do • Wish to be/look like someone else
• Believe in themselves, even when they don’t • Always worry about what others may think
succeed at first
• Are pessimistic
• See their own good qualities, such as being kind
or capable • Have a negative view of life
• Accept themselves even when they make • Mistrust others- even those who show signs of
mistakes affection
• Independent but are cooperative • Have feelings of being unloved and unlovable
• Have the ability to accept mistakes, either their • Show dependence- letting others make decisions
own or those of others • Are afraid of being ridiculed
• Are able to say “no” appropriately
• According to Locke, he proposed three factors that will make individuals highly
motivated.
1. Goals are challenging and specific.
2. They are strongly committed to the goal/goals.
3. They are strongly believe in their ability to accomplish their goal.
3. Commitment – “goal commitment and difficulty often work together” (the harder the goal, the
more commitment is required.
- If you have an easy goal, you do not need a lot of motivation to get it done.
4. Feedback- feedbacks provides opportunities to clarify expectations, adjust goal difficulty and gain
recognition.
(How effective your strategies are?) (How your best practices are recognized?)
(How your areas for improvement are determined?)
5. Task complexity – it involves your appropriate balance. (Ex. In complicated task, make sure to
learn or practice what is expected to you so that you can give yourself sufficient time to meet you
goal.
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According to Locke, he gave way to a goal setting technique called SMART
1. Specific- for you to be motivated to perform, you need to have a specific goal. Ex. “get a
grade” is too vague. Specific goal would be “my target is 1.0 in Understanding the Self.
2. Measurable – a measurable goal is important so that you can monitor your progress and
received feedback.
Thus, a specific and measurable goal would be, “increase my grade in Understanding the
Self from 1.5- 1.0
4. Realistic- you cannot say “my grade is from 95-100”. Likewise, you cannot also say that my
grade should be 85-86.
Goals that are too difficult and to too easy to achieve will not positively motivate your
performance. “Set goals that are difficult enough to be realistically attained”.
5. Time-related – It’s all about setting a time frame for your goal. Thus, it will help you to develop
a habit or routine (avoidance of forced effort.)
Part 1. True or False. Write T on the blank if the statement is TRUE and F if it is false.
____1. Metacognition is thinking about how others think.
____2. The cortex is divided into four lobes.
____3. Cognition refers to emotions.
____4. Neuroplasticity usually happens in the cortex.
____5. The two components of self-regulated learning are knowledge and regulation.
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____6. Self-regulation is a mental ability.
____7. The number of neurons and synapses declines with age.
____8. Learning is a constant process.
____9. Self-regulated learning is a cyclical process.
____10. The structures of the brain keep on changing.
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c. Spiritual
d. None
3 Kinds of Stress
1. Eustress – considered as good stress.
- A result from a situation or activity that you find motivating or inspiring, enjoyable and
not threatening activity.
(Ex. Finding the nerve to talk to your crush).
2. Neustress- “Neutral Stress”
- A sensory stimulus that has no direct consequence or effect on the person.
(Ex. Incidents you hear in the news).
3. Distress – situations or activities that you considered negative, harmful, threatening
-It could happen for just a short span of time or it could be linger for prolonged period
(hours, days, months, years)
What is stressors?
Stressors- any situation, activity, or individual that gives you mental or emotional strain is a
stressors.
Good stressors – it can make you feel both nervous and excited at the same time
(The so called- “butterflies in your stomach)
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Bad stressors- can cause you to feel angry, petrified or depressed.
Physical – low energy, headaches, chest pain and rapid heartbeat, loss of sexual desire, excess
sweating, cold or sweaty hands and feet etc.
Cognitive or perceptual – forgetfulness, lack of concentration, attention deficit, disorganization of
thought, reduced creativity, negative self-statements and negative evaluation of experiences.
Emotional- Depression or general unhappiness, anxiety, agitation, loneliness and isolation,
moodiness, irritability or anger etc.
Sources of coping and strength.
Coping with stress
Coping- it refers to the strategies you use to deal with real or imagined problems to protect yourself
against negative emotions.
- It refers to the adaptive strategies you employ in an attempt to reduce stress.
Types of coping
1. Problem-focused coping – it targets on controlling or changing the source of stress.
2. Emotion-focused coping – it involves lowering, if not eliminating negative emotional
responses (i.e. embarrassments)
3. Cognitive coping – it involves a conscious intellectual activity of managing stressful situation.
- You used your mind to combat stress including thoughts.
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3. Positive self- talk – or “positive affirmations”; you talk to yourself in a positive manner. This is
useful for confidence building.
4. Count to ten – giving you time to gain control of your emotions. It allows you to rethink the
situation and find a better coping strategy.
5. Cost- benefit analysis – asking how yourself beneficial your thoughts, emotions or actions are. “Is
it worth it?”
6. Smell the roses – a way of telling yourself to relax. It’s about taking conscious effort to appreciate
the usually neglected aspects of life.
7. Keeping perspective – breaking down your problems into little task and knowing which problems
need to be addressed right away as compared to those that do not need much attention.
8. Reducing uncertainty – as saying goes “lamang ang may alam”, gathering as much as information
as you can about your problem. Gathering a positive information rather than negative ones.
9. Using imagery or visualization – remembering your pleasurable experiences. This is more
effective when combined with breathing exercise.
4. Behavioral coping strategies- these are ways of dealing with stress by taking action to modify
behavior.
Strategies include:
Physical exercise
Relaxation
Parenting
Breathing
Smile and laughter
Time management
social support/friends
Seeking professional health.
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American- “we are sorry for your loss” nod and shake hands, they will makes a hasty retreat
and leave the family to mourn in private.
Filipinos – other than expressing sympathy for the loss, they will ask questions.
Thus, culture can affect stress and coping process.
Ex. Europeans – find crowded places as stressful because they crave for privacy while Filipinos are
delighted to see a crowd (uy may kasiyahan!)
Filipino traits and values Why it is negative in western Why is it positive in oriental
concept concept
Utang na loob It makes the person overlook the trait personifies the
moral principles because he or Filipino saying
she is beholden to those who
“ang hinDI marunong
gave him/her a favor
lumingon sa pinanggalingan ay
hindi makakarating sa
parorooan”
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• Social status- seen as a common denominator for social stress
Ex. If you are poor - it usually having less income opportunities, lower quality of education and
decreased access to proper health care (powerlessness)
If we could not change the situation the person is more susceptible to stress.
Ex. Peer pressure – usually it affect young people. Those with lower self- confidence are more to be
stressed because of peer pressure. It becomes dangerous when drugs, alcohol, smoking and gambling
are involved.
Stress and sociological perspective
Emile Durkheim’s book entitles ‘suicide’
3 types of suicide (Durkheim, translated 1951)
1. Egoistic Suicide – occurs when a person feels he or she is not accepted by or does not belong
to society. The social bond is very weak.
2. Altruistic suicide- occurs when a person ends his/her life because of others.
3. Anomic suicide – is linked to disillusionment and disappointment.
2 Types of stressors (Aneshensel, 1992)
Life events – important, specific experiences that interrupt an individual’s usual
activity/routine that he/she needs to adjust to.
Chronic Strains- problems that have been occurring for some time; the person’s social role is
strained or threatened.
Common types of role strains (Copelton, 2000):
1. Role overload –the role demands on an individual exceeds his or her capacity to handle. For
example, you are working student and a single parents. You are shuffling roles as a students, a
worker, a parent, and a breadwinner.
2. Interpersonal Conflict – these are the problems and difficulties that arise in a relationship
(i.e., wife-husband, parent-child, and worker-supervisor.
3. Inter-role Conflict – the demands of two or more roles held by a person are incompatible
(ex. As a working student, your work shift suddenly and this ran in conflict with your class
schedule)
4. Role reconstructing- long established patterns undergo considerable change and the person
needs to adapt/adjust. Ex. As an adult (support and care to your ageing parents.
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• Coping- refers to personal responses that can be activated when stressful circumstances arise
(prevent, avoid, control emotional distress)
TAKING CARE OF THE SELF: THE NEED FOR SLEF-CARE AND COMPASSION
MASLOW’S HIERARCHY OF NEED
Why do we feel stress? Psychologist Abraham Maslow presented a motivational theory
outlining human need: illustrated in a hierarchal manner.
Deficiency versus Growth
• Maslow called the bottom levels (physiological, safely, belongingness and love, esteem (as
“deficiency needs”)
(The person does not feel anything if these needs are met, but he or she becomes anxious if these
needs are not met.
• The fifth level (self-actualization) also known as the (“growth need”) (it enables the person to
reach his or her potential as a human).
Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs If not satisfied
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antisocial behavior
2. Higher form
• If pathological, met
Self-actualization pathologies, such as boredom,
cynicism, alienation (feeling
isolated, detached, lack of
sympathy, estrangement.
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Self- care: what is it and why is it important?
• Caring for the “self”, however, is more than being clean (hygiene) and living clean (lifestyle)
• Self-care- entails taking deliberate acts of looking after your mental, emotional and physical health.
• Proper self- care- is taking a very active and powerful choice to engage in activities that will result in
acquiring or maintaining optimal health that cover the physical, psychological, emotional, social and
spiritual components.
• The keyword to self-care is balance; being good to yourself will enhance the likelihood of living your
fullest potential.
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