COMMUNICATION SKILLS

TRAINING
 
 

ATTRACT, INFLUENCE AND

CONNECT BY IMPROVING
YOUR COMMUNICATION
SKILLS
 
 
Robert Moore

Table of Contents
INTRODUCTION

CHAPTER 1: COMMUNICATION SKILLS 101

CHAPTER 2: HOW YOU COMMUNICATE

CHAPTER 3: CONFIDENCE

CHAPTER 4: VERBAL COMMUNICATION SKILLS

CHAPTER 5: NON-VERBAL COMMUNICATIONS

CHAPTER 6: BODY LANGUAGE

CHAPTER 7: EYE CONTACT

CHAPTER 8: THE WALK

CHAPTER 9: THE POSTURE

CHAPTER 10: GESTURES

CONCLUSION

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INTRODUCTION
 
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Have you ever experienced the frustration of frequently not being able to
communicate clearly with people? You know, you say something and
people understand it differently? Do you also find it frustrating that you
can’t seem to connect with people, influence them or draw them to you? If
so, then you may be suffering from very poor interpersonal communication
skills.
The ability to make people get what you’re really saying can either help you
succeed or fail in attracting, influencing or connecting with people. That’s
why interpersonal communication skills are critical for personal success.
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that is critical for your interpersonal communications success, without
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CHAPTER 1: COMMUNICATION SKILLS 101

 
“Take advantage of every opportunity to practice your communication skills
so that when important occasions arise, you will have the gift, the style, the
sharpness, the clarity and the emotions to affect other people.” – Jim Rohn
Communication skills are those that we use to effectively make others know
how we are feeling and what do we need and want. It’s also the skill set that
we use to make others know that we know how they feel, what they need
and what they want. Communication skills are critical for personal success
for the simple reason that without other people’s help, we won’t be
successful at achieving our goals and people won’t be able to help us if they
don’t know how they can help us and if we aren’t able to convince them to
help us.
So how can you tell if your communication skills need improvement? First,
I suppose you already acknowledge that you do as you are reading this
book. But if you still don’t know if you need improvement in this area,
there are several ways for you to find out.
One way of assessing if you need to improve your communication skills is
by thinking of several personal interactions where things didn’t go as
planned or desired. Think about why it didn’t go as well as you had hoped it
would and see if it was because of miscommunication or the way things
were said.
Another way, which I find to be the most objective and easiest is simply to
ask the people closest to you that you trust to give objective feedback. Ask
them if you’re able to say things clearly, say the right things and act
consistently with what you’re saying.
Say for the sake of argument that you do need to improve on your
communication skills, how do you go about doing it?
 
IMPROVING COMMUNICATION SKILLS
 
One way you can improve your communication skills is knowing what it is
you really want to say and why you want to say it. You’ll have a hard time
saying something that you’re not sure you want to say. Knowing the reason
for saying it is equally important because it helps you figure out the best
words and tone of voice to use in communicating that which you really
want to communicate. If you can also learn more about who you’re
communicating with, you’ll increase your chances of being able to clearly
communicate to that person.
One good example of why it’s also important to know your audience is
public speaking engagements. Being a public speaker myself, I try to find
out who my intended audience are in advance, whenever possible, so I can
plan on how to best present the lessons or principles to my audience in
ways they can understand. If my audience were a class of high school
students, I’d do some research on current pop culture and use popular
figures they’re familiar with to illustrate principles. I can’t use Tom Jones as
an example to an audience of elementary students nor can I use Miley
Cyrus as an example to an audience of mostly senior citizens.
Another way of improving your communication skills is considering how
you’ll communicate that which you want to. One of the best communicators
I’ve read of is Jesus Christ. Religious or not, you can appreciate His use of
parables as a way of illustrating relatively deep spiritual truths. He already
knew ahead of time that stories help people learn spiritual or moral lessons
better.
But you can’t use parables to communicate a scientific finding resulting
from a series of controlled experiments. For such, you’ll need more
numbers than stories.
Listening is another way to communicate better. How? When you listen
better, you’ll be able to know the other person or the audience better. When
you do, you’ll know what to communicate and how to communicate better
in ways that they’ll really understand.
Lastly, the best way to really up the ante on your communication skills is to
understand that communication skills are made up of verbal and non-verbal,
the importance of both and how to effectively use both to effectively
communicate what you want to communicate. In the next chapter, we’ll
take a more detailed look into that.

CHAPTER 2: HOW YOU COMMUNICATE

 
“The single biggest problem in communication is the illusion that it has
taken place.” – George Bernard Shaw
When it comes to effectively communicating something to the other person
or to a group of people, there are two kinds: verbal and non-verbal. Verbal
communication includes all ways of communicating that require spoken or
written words. The news headlines, your friends’ text messages and your
ordering food over the phone for delivery are all examples of verbal
communications.
Verbal communications is very important because it’s the primary way we
communicate and impart knowledge. You can’t use non-verbal
communication to teach complex mathematical processes, can you? I
thought so. As much as verbal communications is very important, it still
gets taken for granted and as such, many people fail to clearly articulate that
which they’re trying to.
Verbal communications can also be a great persuasion tool and helps in
deepening and creating new relationships. Without verbal communications,
we won’t be able to communicate over great distances or even across time.
Only words are able to transcend both time and space in passing on
communications to different generations.
 
NON-VERBAL COMMUNICATIONS
 
It’s been said that effective interpersonal communications are just 10%
verbal and 90% non-verbal. Non-verbal communications can validate or
invalidate what was communicated verbally. Can you imagine someone
threatening to beat you to a bloody pulp if you don’t give him his money
and he does so with a trembling voice, shaking hands and crouched
posture? What will you believe – his words or his body language? I have a
funny feeling you’ll believe the latter.
In the book Bodily Communication, author Michael Argyle enumerates five
major functions of non-verbal communications:
 -Expression of emotions;
-Interpersonal relationship communication;
-Verbal communications support;
-Personality reflection; and
-Rituals.
 
IMPROVING BOTH YOUR VERBAL AND NON-VERBAL
COMMUNICATION SKILLS
 
Throughout the rest of this book, you will learn how to improve both your
verbal and non-verbal communication skills through self-confidence, body
language, eye contact, walking and posture. Individually improving on each
of these will do you good but combining them will lead to even more
significant improvements in your communication skills.
But before we go to the verbal and non-verbal communications, let’s first
look at the foundation upon which effectively utilizing verbal and non-
verbal communications are grounded on – confidence. Without it, you
won’t be able to enjoy true and lasting success in attracting, influencing and
connecting with people.

CHAPTER 3: CONFIDENCE
 
“The most beautiful thing you can wear is confidence.” – Blake Lively
People admire those who have self-confidence. Why? It’s because self-
confidence allows their other admirable qualities to shine forth. Without
self-confidence, those admirable qualities will be lucky to even be noticed
or glimpsed at.
Those qualities include effective communication skills. If you’re not
confident, no amount of communication skills training will ever suffice.
You won’t be able to successfully apply them because you’ll just be too
afraid to do it. Even if you tried doing it, your lack of self-confidence will
only jeopardize your efforts at communicating effectively.
Effective communications start from within. It starts with your belief in
yourself and in your ability to communicate well. The good news is that
lack of self-confidence isn’t something you’re doomed to suffer from for
the rest of your life. No my friend, it isn’t permanent. You can cultivate a
strong confidence in yourself and your abilities – enough to help you
become a very effective communicator.
 
ARE YOU CONFIDENT ENOUGH?
 
There’s no perfect confidence in one’s self. However, there’s a level where
you’re able to do many things and succeed at them, including
communicating effectively. The key is to ensure you’re confident enough to
do so.
So how do you know? Consider the following comparisons and see which
among the alternatives are applicable to you most of the time:
-Do you do what you know is the right thing to do even if you get
criticized for it (confident) or is your behavior determined by what
others would think or say (not confident)?
-Are you willing to take risks and do more than what’s required to
achieve your goals (confident) or would you rather minimize risk
 taking, avoid failure and stay within your comfort zone (not confident)?
-Do you owe up to your mistakes and learn from them (confident) or do
you deny them and where possible, cover it up (not confident)?
-Can you actually wait for other people to congratulate you when you
accomplish something (confident) or you’re eager to – and actually do –
toot your horn to as many people as possible (not confident)?
-When complimented by other people, do you thank them for it and
acknowledge the accomplishment (confident) or do you dismiss it and
say that it’s nothing special or others could’ve done it too (not
confident)?
Did you notice the contrasts in each of the situations? Low self-confidence
usually appears as negativity at one’s self while self-confidence manifests in
a positive attitude towards themselves and life in general.
 
PRIMARY CONTRIBUTORS
 
Self-confidence is dependent on two important factors: self-esteem and self-
efficacy. Self-efficacy refers to your ability to get things done and get them
done well, especially in very important areas of life. You have to admit,
even if you’re not generally confident about yourself, you often times have
confidence when it comes to the things you do or know really well. As
such, self-efficacy is the stronger foundation between the two to build self-
confidence on. It’s already there, it’s solid proof that you are capable. Such
confidence can allow you to accept bigger challenges and be resilient in the
face of setbacks and disappointments.
Self-esteem is how you view yourself. Often times, self-esteem is a by-
product of one’s self-efficacy or lack of it. But in many instances, it’s also a
by-product of how people see the person – social proof. You can improve
self-esteem through accomplishments and positive affirmations. Positive
affirmations, however, can only go so far. Yes, to some extent you can
speak yourself confident but if over time, those statements aren’t supported
or buttressed by actual accomplishments or competencies (self-efficacy),
your self-esteem will drop and continue to be low. The proof of the pudding
is in the eating and in terms of self-esteem, the eating is actual
accomplishments or competencies.
 
HOW TO BUILD UP YOUR CONFIDENCE
 
There are no shortcuts for long-lasting and enduring self-confidence. You
have to work at it but the good news is, you can succeed at it if you but stay
the course and persevere. In this case, slow and steady wins the race.
You can do this in several steps, which can be classified into 3 categories:
preparation, coming out (action) and acceleration.
 
Preparation
 
Remember this, badass: failing to plan is planning to fail. This is especially
applicable to building up your self-confidence. Part of successful planning
is preparation.
Preparing yourself for this worthwhile endeavor requires serious reflection:
where are you now, where you eventually want to be, identifying
destructive mindsets and committing to the task at hand.
One way to prepare is by looking back on the things you’ve already
achieved. Why not list down your biggest life accomplishments on a sheet
of paper such as getting married (if you are happily married though),
academic honors, buying your first car, winning best employee award,
bagging that account everyone in your company’s been dying to close or
successfully giving a speech in a very important gathering. Look at your list
at least once a day to help you gradually boost your confidence.
Another thing you can do as part of preparing for project self-confidence is
something that’s normally done in the corporate world or in classroom case
studies: SWOT or Strengths, Weaknesses, Opportunities and Threats
analysis. You may or may not refer to your achievements list to reflect on
your current state of affairs. You can also ask feedback from your friends as
to what your key strengths and weaknesses are.
When evaluating your weaknesses in particular, don’t do so from a point of
view that you absolutely need to fix it. Look at it more as an opportunity to
improve and further build up your confidence later on and not an obligation
or necessity. If this were not a confidence building exercise, that’d probably
be the best approach but since you’re looking to build up your confidence,
we’ll be more focused on what needs to be done. Same goes for
opportunities and threats you’ve identified. Look at it from the perspective
of strengthening your confidence and not further eroding it.
Next, consider what are the things you hold most dear and where do you
really want to go, i.e., what are the personal goals you want to accomplish.
When you identify what’s truly important to you, it’s easier to decide what
goals to prioritize. It will also help if your goals are SMART, i.e., specific,
measurable, achievable, realistic and time-bound. Why? It’s hard to know
exactly if you’re successful or not it can’t be objectively judged as such. A
clear example of a goal that isn’t SMART is this: I want to be filthy rich,
quick! Why is this not SMART? It’s neither specific (rich can mean many
things), measurable (how much money do you need to be “rich”?),
achievable (it’s impossible to know if you’ve already achieved something if
it isn’t specific), realistic (seriously, how else can you get filthy rich quickly
if not for the lottery?) nor time-bound (how many months or years is
“quick”?).
A SMARTer way of expressing this goal would be: I want to start earning
an average of $1 million dollars annually within the next 10 years. It’s
specific, measurable, achievable, realistic and has a time frame. The
SMARTer your goals are, the higher your chances of being able to achieve
them and strengthen your self-confidence even more.
Lastly, you need to commit yourself 100% in this endeavor. Anything less
is unacceptable. Without a 100% commitment, you run the risk of dropping
the ball in the middle, fail and erode your self-confidence even more. If you
can’t commit, rather you stay where you are instead of eroding what’s left
of your confidence.
 
Coming Out (Action)
 
No, I’m not referring to my gay friends but to stepping out in faith to start
your journey towards building a strong self-confidence. This is where you
start the ball rolling and as you do the things that need to be done and
experience more and more successes, you’ll experience a growing self-
confidence that will neither be easily shaken nor robbed from you. 
The first thing you’ll need to do is to acquire knowledge for success. Based
on your SWOT analysis during planning, you’ll be able to identify what are
the things you’ll need to learn in order to successfully build up your
confidence.  And when acquiring such knowledge, don’t settle for just
enough. If you have the time and resources, go for classes or courses that
have a proven track record of quality and value for money learning. Even
better if such classes or courses will give you a certificate or qualification
credentials at the conclusion – something you can always look back on as a
symbol of your accomplishment and something you can use to advance in
your career.
Also, don’t get ahead of yourself when looking to enroll in such courses or
classes by going for more advanced ones. Stick to the basics first. The
important thing is to build a solid foundation upon which you can build
with more advanced techniques in later classes and courses. Can you
imagine building a 100-story building on shifting soil?  I don’t think so.
Oh, and don’t aim for perfection. Aim for excellence instead. No one is
perfect or can ever be. But excellence is something that anyone can achieve
with the right amount of effort and attitude.
As you apply what you’ve learned, be careful not to fall into the trap of
quickie success. What this means is avoid aiming for big goals just yet.
Start with relatively small goals, which benefits you two ways. First, it
gives you a higher chance of succeeding more frequently. Second, as your
small but frequent victories pile up, your abilities, skills and confidence also
pile up but exponentially, i.e., it grows at a much higher rate. Allow your
confidence, skills and successes to grow naturally and you’ll be able to take
on bigger goals and achieve them in time.
 
Acceleration
 
As mentioned previously, as your successes and skills pile up, your
confidence and abilities grow at a faster clip than the previous one. At this
point, you are starting to accelerate your success and confidence building.
A word of caution though – acceleration requires stretching of your talents,
skills and even patience. It’s because as your goals become bigger and more
rewarding, so will the commitment needed, skills, talents and patience be.
You’ll also need to take on bigger risks and for that, you’ll need to walk at
the edge of your confidence.
Just like accelerating your car as you build up speed, there are some
precautions you’ll need to take. One is humility. Never let your successes
get into your head. There’s a difference between confidence and arrogance.
Arrogance often leads to taking on excessive risks and massive failures.

CHAPTER 4: VERBAL COMMUNICATION

SKILLS
 
“If you can’t explain it to a 6-year old, you don’t understand it yourself.” –
Albert Einstein
You may have, at some point, attended or enrolled in a communication
skills training class as a requirement for your job or business. And that’s
great.
Such trainings are, however, limited because they more on the formal side
of communications rather than the personal and informal ones.
Since we’re talking about improving your interpersonal verbal
communication skills, here are several tips to help you start improving your
interpersonal – and mostly spontaneous – verbal communication skills.
 
INCREASE YOUR READING
 
There’s a saying that voracious readers make for great writers. I believe that
is the case. Though I won’t go as far as tooting my horn as a “great” writer,
I’d say that I’m better than most – and this book is a proof of that.
How’d I become a very good writer? Let me tell you my not-so-secret
secret – reading…and lots of it.
Because I read a lot, my idea bank for writing projects and assignments are
loaded with many different ideas that I can either combine or build up on.
In other words, reading a lot of other people’s writings helped me to write
about many things and write them quite well.
In particular, you can pick up verbal styles, vocabulary and practical
application of relatively complex topics when you’re a very voracious
reader. Those things can seriously help you not just with writing but also
with talking to other people.
 
THINK YOUR WORDS THROUGH
 
Quantity and understandability are two areas where many people screw up
their personal communications. Talking too much will either bore your
listener or make him or her resent you for hogging up much of your
interaction, thereby reducing their capacity or willingness to understand
what you’re saying.
Even if you use fewer words but if you use very complex and technical
ones, you significantly lower the chances of effectively communicating with
people. It may sound adorable on Sheldon Cooper on each and every
episode of The Big Bang Theory but notice the reactions of ordinary folk
like Penny: what? Instead of saying, “You make my pupils dilate and my
heart rate elevated past normal levels of metabolism”, you can just say
“Hey, I find you attractive. Let’s hang out.” Isn’t that much easier to get?
 
PLAN
 
Since the nature of interpersonal verbal communications is mostly
spontaneous and unplanned, you can still do a bit of planning to maximize
your communications with the other person. An example of such planning
would be how divulge a very important matter, like why the electricity
company sending a third and final warning when your mom already asked
you to pay for last month’s bill and even gave you the money for it.
 
GENUINELY LISTEN
 
Your ability to say the right words in the right tone and at the right time
depends a whole lot on your understanding of the other person and what he
or she’s saying. How can you understand them if you don’t listen and aren’t
genuinely interested in what is being said? Listen isn’t just about hearing
them talk – it’s about actively paying audio attention and focusing on what
is being said. You may hear but not understand hence the importance of
genuinely listening to the other person.
 
BE HONEST
 
No amount of “right” words at the “right” time and at the “right” tone will
ever compensate for lack of integrity. Dishonesty has a way of damaging
integrity to the point it can effectively hamper your ability to communicate
well. When trust is gone, people will intentionally not listen to what you
have to say. Goodbye effective verbal communications!
 
A DIFFERENT ANGLE
 
One way you can effectively communicate with another person is by
putting yourself in their shoes – see things from their perspective or angle.
You may understand that which you want to say but just because you do
doesn’t mean they do too. I remember a professor back in college who was
a very brilliant man. The problem is that he was too engrossed with
communicating from his perspective – that of an expert – instead of our
perspective as students whose minds are like clean slates or tabularaza. The
result? Almost everyone in his class failed his exams, which prompted the
university to look into his teaching methods.
 
CLARITY
 
Lastly, speaking clearly can make or break your efforts to verbally
communicate well. If they don’t hear you well enough to understand, they
won’t understand. To help you improve speaking clarity, here are some tips
for doing so:
-Hydration: Dehydration causes your body to limit mucus production,
which is important for lubricating your vocal folds. When your vocal
folds are regularly deprived of enough mucus, it is more prone to
irritation, swelling and injury – all of which affect your ability to speak
clearly.
 -Phlegm: Most people clear their throats of phlegm simply by “eh-em”.
Doing so isn’t the best way to do it, however. There are two better ways
to do it, which reduces your risk of further throat irritation or injury.
First is by breathing deeply then exhaling as hard as you can through
your mouth. The exhaling action should dislodge your phlegm enough
either to be spit out or swallowed. Another way is to breathe in deeply
but this time, hold your breath and swallow.
-Ditch The Barry: Many people, especially men, try to lower their
voices as deep as possible – often attempting to do a Barry White kind
of vibe just to sound formidable and authoritative. Unfortunately, Barry
White is a one of a kind human being in the same mold as James Earl
Jones and Michael Jai White and often forcing yourself to go just as
low can increase your risk for injured pipes. Speak at your natural pitch,
which can be determined by saying “mmmm” and “hmmmmm”. Your
highest pitch as you say those words is your optimal speaking pitch.
-Take It Slow: Regardless of your tone and diction, talking too fast can
prevent your listener from understanding what you just said, especially
if you’re talking in a very deep and profoundly technical way. So learn
to slow down your speech so that people can catch up with what you’re
saying.
-Work On Your Vocals: Garbling and being tongue-tied are two of the
biggest obstacles to effective interpersonal verbal communications. The
solution? Do vocal exercises to train your speech muscles well. Here
are a couple of exercises to help you train your speech muscles for
optimum verbal communication.
Exercise #1: LTTT
The wider you open your mouth, the clearer and better resonating your
speech can be. If you notice the best singers in the world open their mouths
wide when trying to hit the high note with clarity. And one way to
unconsciously create more space for clarity and power is through the LTTP
exercise, or the Lips, the Teeth and the Tip of the Tongue vocal exercise.
You do the LLTT exercise simply by repeating this sentence quickly several
times: “The lips, the teeth and the tip of the tongue.” Notice what happens if
you don’t open your mouth properly. You’ll either fumble, get tongue-tied
or garble. To be able to clearly say the sentence, you’ll need ample mouth
opening. Other exercises worth doing are the tongue twisters you did as a
child like Peter Piper picked a peck of pickle peppers.
Exercise #2: A2E Exercise
A2E stands for A and 2 Es. A stands for Articulate and the 2 Es mean
Enunciate and Exaggerate. This type of exercise is great for minimizing the
tendency to mumble. How does this exercise go?
Say the words “enunciate, articulate, exaggerate” by emphasizing each
syllable. Don’t say each word as one word but rather as several syllables.
It’s important for effective verbal communications to pronounce words or
parts of it clearly – enunciating them. This requires that you pronounce each
of the syllables separately with your mouth wide open. If you’re finding this
quite hard to imagine, then imagine this: you’re talking to someone on your
cellular phone with the speaker mode on and in very windy weather saying
the phrase “e-nun-ci-ate, ar-tic-u-late and ex-agg-er-ate.”
Exercise #3: Reading Out Loud
For this exercise, get something you can read out loud, e.g., novel,
magazine article or pamphlet. Simply read it aloud and pay attention to
keep your lips moving and mouth open. If you really want to open your
mouth for optimal clarity, exaggerate the words’ syllables.
Exercise #4: Pencil Mouth
This rather fun exercise begins with you singing a line or a sentence several
times, taking it a pitch higher each time. As before, remember to really
pronounce each syllable clearly and opening your mouth as much as
possible as you do.
When done, repeat it but this time with a pencil lodged horizontally in your
mouth. You don’t have to sing this time but if want to, go ahead as this will
make it even more challenging – and rewarding.
Exercise #5: Record Your Speech
The last exercise is relatively simple: use a video recording device to record
yourself as you talk. As you watch the recorded video, take note how much
you open your mouth as well as those words, syllables and letters you
pronounced unclearly. How do you know if you opened your mouth wide
enough? There must be at least a finger’s width of space in between your
lips. Record yourself and watch the video again until you get it right.
 
OTHER ANTI-MUMBLE TIPS
 
The young singer Becky G gave such a very good anti-mumble advice
when she sang “singing in the shower.” Actually, simply singing as often as
possible can help you reduce and minimize your tendency to mumble words
and improve your speaking clarity.
When you heed Becky G’s advice, whether in the shower or otherwise,
breathe from your diaphragm and not your chest. If you’re not used to
diaphragm breathing, simply place your hand on your stomach and breathe
in. If your tummy expands as you breathe, then you got it. If it doesn’t, then
you’re breathing with your chest, which is a shallow way of doing so.
Establishing eye contact – we’ll discuss this in more detail later – and
standing up straight when talking to someone is an other anti-mumble
technique you can employ. When you’re looking at someone in the eye and
standing straight, it’s harder to mumble for some reason.
Lastly, if there’s anything I’d want you to take home from this chapter, learn
to open your mouth like Steven Tyler of Aerosmith if you want to really
speak clearly and not mumble or get tongue-tied.

CHAPTER 5: NON-VERBAL
COMMUNICATIONS
 
“The body never lies.” – Martha Graham
Whenever you interact with someone else, you unconsciously give and
receive subtle signals. All of your actions – from the way you sit, stand,
walk or even look at the person – send very strong messages that often
times escape the conscious mind.
There are times when your words contradict what you say and sad to say,
non-verbal communications often trump the verbal one. Often times, the
person you’re interacting with will tend to believe what they see over what
they hear. Often times, this manifests as a gut feel or the sensation that
something you said just isn’t right.
An example of this is when salespeople try to entice me to patronize their
products or services. Often times, I can tell if their verbal sales pitch is
truthful or if it’s just hogwash. When they’re too perky and seem agitated, I
know that either they don’t fully understand what they’re selling or they’re
exaggerating. Either way, they lose me as a potential customer.
The way you look, listen, react and move your body communicates to the
other person your sincerity and honesty – or lack of such. Non-verbal
communication skills are a powerful way to back up your words and when
they work together, you’re audience – regardless if he or she’s just one
person or a group – will get what you’re trying to say and follow your
suggestions hook, line and sinker. When they don’t, you generate doubt and
resistance.
In what ways does non-verbal communication help you get the message
across effectively? One is through repetition of your verbal message in a
non-verbal way. If you say you’re the person for the job, your posture and
gestures can repeat the same message in a different form, thus validating
your claim.
Another way non-verbal communication can help you get your messages
across is by complementing what you just said. An example of this would
be when a dear friend you haven’t seen for quite a while tells you she
missed you a lot. Often times, merely saying it empathically sends the
message across but accompanying or supplementing hit with a very tight
hug that can rival a bear’s is like driving the final nail that seals the message
really tight. She did miss you lots!
Non-verbal communication also helps you get your message across by
substituting for words. If for example, you just lost your job and you’re not
in a good financial position, I’m pretty sure you’ll be very, very sad and
worried. If I see you from across the room, your posture and facial
expression will tell me exactly how you’re feeling, especially if we’re very
close friends. Even without saying a word, your body language – including
facial expression – will say it all.
Lastly, non-verbal communication helps you get the message across by
emphasizing what you just said. I can tell you I’m angry but you may not
necessarily get that until I throw my brandy glass at the wall, breaking it
into pieces.
If you don’t do it right, however, non-verbal communication can actually
kill your verbal message, without meaning to. For example, you’re pitching
your company’s services to a potential client by citing its many
accomplishments and awards but if your body language shows nervousness,
it may invalidate the truth you’re stating, at least in the potential client’s
mind.
 
PREPPING UP FOR POWERFUL AND EFFECTIVE NON-VERBAL
COMMUNICATION
 
Non-verbal communication may be considered as a quick-flowing and
reciprocal process that needs attention and concentration because if you’re
daydreaming or thinking about something else as this process is
commencing, you will miss out on the subtle but very important signals that
can spell the difference between successfully communicating to the other
person and offending him or her. As such, your 100% focus and attention
are required.
 
Stress Management
 
One of the best ways to prime yourself up for effectively communicating
sans words is by managing your stress well. Now what has stress got to do
with it? For one, stress can hamper your ability to effectively communicate
with your body. If you lack sleep, for example, you’ll probably act sleepy
during your social interactions and even if you say all the right things at the
right times, your sleepy body language may convey all the wrong things to
the other person. And unfortunately, body language often times trumps
words and even if the other person’s impression is totally wrong, it sticks to
him or her as if it were the truth.
When you’re stressed out, you also tend to be agitated and act as if you’re
angry or unpleasant, even if you’re not. Again, even if your words convey
interest and acceptance but your body language screams anger or
disappointment, guess which one will have more credibility?
 
Emotional Awareness
 
You need to be aware of your emotions and their effect on you if you want
to send the appropriate non-verbal cues and validate what you’re saying to
other people. You must be able to do that for others as well. When you’re
aware of both your and your audience’s emotions, you’ll be able to read
others very well and speak and act accordingly. You’ll also be able to
cultivate a deeper level of trust and understanding between you and others,
further validating what you say.

CHAPTER 6: BODY LANGUAGE

“I assume the body language, no matter what in doing voiceover. There is a
transformative effect.” – Jennifer Hale
When talking about non-verbal communication, we talk about body
language. There are many different ways you can use your body to
effectively communicate something either by itself or by reinforcing what
you’re saying with words. These include:
-Facial Expressions: You may not just be aware of it but your face is a
very effective messenger – even if you thought you’re deadpan. In fact,
it’s so effective that there are people who actually make a living from
reading facial expressions. If you want to find out just how powerful
your facial expressions are, watch the TV series Lie To Me, starring
Tim Roth who plays the lead role of Dr. Cal Lightman who is a
professional face reader. He assists the US Government in determining
if criminal suspects are telling the truth or not. The series is based on
the exploits of Dr. Paul Ekman, who is like the character that Tim Roth
plays in the show.
-Posture And Body Movements: Have you ever thought about the
impressions you get about people with the way they sit, stand, walk or
how they position their heads? Wouldn’t you agree that the way they do
so affects the way you perceive them? It’s the same with other people.
You communicate subtly what you’re about with your posture and body
movements.
-Gestures: These little movements, often taken for granted, are very
much an intricate part of your life. The way you point your hands, point
your fingers or even wave when speaking or making a point – all of
these are unconscious on your end and it subtly communicates some
aspects of your personality. The interpretation of gestures, however,
varies from culture to culture, country to country. Hence, it’s important
to study the local culture in terms of what gestures are considered polite
or impolite when going to another region or country.
-Eye Contact: The way you “eye” someone or look at them also
communicates aspects of your personality and character such as
 affection, interest, sincerity, hostility, attraction and affection, among
others. Eye contact is important for keeping a good conversation going
too, because without eye contact, the person or people you’re talking
too may get the idea that you’re not listening to them.
-Touch: Another body language that’s often taken for granted, touch can
also convey to the other person how confident – or unconfident – you
are. Consider the last time you shook someone else’s hand – do you
remember how strong or weak it was and what was your impression of
the person as a result of that? Or how about the last time you were
hugged by a friend of family member – how did you feel about them?
Did they convey feelings of missing you, empathy or sympathy?
-Personal Space: Have you ever been in a conversation where the other
is so close to you that it seems you’re already exchanging oxygen or
worse, carbon dioxide? Didn’t it feel uncomfortable because – apart
from the possibility of halitosis on their end – they’re invading your
personal space? Or how about talking to a loved one you haven’t seen
or spoken to for ages who seems to keep his or her physical distance
from you – didn’t that feel as if they aren’t interested in you or worse,
as if they’re avoiding you for some reason? That’s the power of
personal space in communications. It can convey dominance,
aggression, affection, intimacy or lack of it.
-Tone Of Voice: It’s been said that you can be right but still be wrong at
the top of your voice. It means saying the right things won’t cut it if
you’re using a different tone of voice. For example, you may apologize
to a person you offended but if your tone is more sarcastic than
apologetic, that person will not believe your “I’m sorry.” Tone of voice
can communicate confidence, affection, anger or even sarcasm.
 
NO PIRACY
 
While many body languages can be employed to communicate your
confidence, personality and status, you can’t really fake it for long. Yes, you
may succeed at first but just like pirated DVDs and CDs, it’ll breakdown
sooner than you think unless you’re authentic. This is why I’ve place the
chapter on self-confidence ahead of the techniques – when it comes to
faking it, you can only go so far. Or short.
Make no mistake about it, body language can help you develop your
confidence but only to a certain degree. If you have deep self-confidence
issues, body language may not even be enough.  Body language – and even
verbal communication for that matter – is primarily a fruit of your inner
state. If you’re genuinely confident about yourself, it’ll be sustained
naturally. If you’re not, it won’t be long before you slip and show your real
color.
Regardless if you’re already confident or not – learning the following body
language expressions as soon as possible will be of great help in helping
you master the skill of communicating effectively to attract, influence and
connect with people. It can either give you a quick boost to help you
develop your inner self-confidence or if you’re already confident, reinforce
that confidence. Either way, it’s a win-win situation.

CHAPTER 7: EYE CONTACT

 
“Two types of people who can’t look you in the eyes: someone trying to
hide a lie and someone trying to hide a love.” – from hplyrikz.com
It’s normal and natural to establish eye contact. What’s not is avoiding it.
As the quote above says, it’s primarily a sign of hiding something. It can
also be a sign of a mental condition such as autism, especially in very
young children.
When it comes to interpersonal communications, eye contact is clearly
indispensable because it’s your primary way of connecting with people. If
you don’t look at them in the eye while talking, you’re essentially saying I
don’t want to connect with you. It’s the same when the other person denies
you such contact.
Because the face is the most crucial part of non-verbal communications, it
goes without saying that eye contact is that important. In particular, eye
contact involves the eyeballs themselves, the eyelids, eyebrows and the
immediate areas surrounding the eyes.
 
LOOK, NOT STARE
 
People often confuse good eye contact with having to stare at the other
person’s eyes all the time, as if trying to hypnotize. Truth is, they’re 2
different things. Staring directly into a person’s eyes – and for an extended
period of time at that – may convey the message that you’re either trying to
hypnotize them, sexually attracted to them or angry at them. In other words,
you may convey the message that you’re up to no good. Unless that’s what
you really want to tell the other person.
In a good flowing conversation, good eye contact doesn’t mean looking at
the eyes directly but doing so in a semi-random kind of way within the
areas immediately surrounding it such as the space in between their eyes,
their forehead, nose or lips. It also means you look away every now and
then and quickly coming back to establishing such eye contact to dispel any
impressions of intense feelings, desirable or otherwise.
It may seem contradictory that the term good eye contact doesn’t actually
involve looking directly into their eyes but this is how it’s best done in
normal conversations. In most cases, the “speaker” normally limits eye
contact to about 30% of the time only while the “listener” does so about
70% of the time. As you switch back and forth between being a speaker and
listener, limiting eye contact duration to those percentages will help you
create more influence and connection to the other person.
And speaking of staring, hiding something isn’t just manifested in lack of
eye contact, though most of the time that is the case. In some cases, staring
straight into the eyes more than the usual can also indicate lying. Why? To
overcompensate, i.e., avoid looking as if hiding something by establishing
eye contact. The problem lies in trying to hard to make sure the other
person is convinced, which results in staring.
 
CULTURAL IMPACT
 
It would be worth noting that good eye contact, as we know it, can actually
be disrespectful in certain cultures. In Native American and some Asian,
Latin American and African regions, direct eye contact can imply negative
connotations such as aggressiveness, being confrontational, impertinence
and arrogance. Again, it’s best to have a general idea of how the local
culture works in the new region or country you’re gonna travel to rolls in
order to communicate effectively with the local people and increase your
chances of influencing and connecting with them.
 
EYE SHAKE
 
Eye contact is also important during handshakes. Good eye contact when
shaking hands can reinforce your firm handshake’s message of confidence
as well as imply that you are paying serious attention to what you just
talked about or agreed on.
 
SMILE WITH YOUR EYES
 
You may have heard some people say that if you don’t smile with your
eyes, your smile looks insincere. So what does it actually mean to do so?
Well, smiling with your eyes simply mean your eyes widen a bit (just a bit
ok?), brows raised a little (static brows make you smile like a dog, i.e.
insincere) and a momentary partial close of your eyelids. Sad people who
smile for the sake of assuring their loved ones that they’re fine often smile
at the mouth only.

CHAPTER 8: THE WALK

 
“Some folks look at me and see a certain swagger, which in Texas is called
“walking”.” – George W. Bush
The way you walk can reduce your chances of being mugged in public
because if you walk with enough confidence, you won’t look like an easy
prey. The way you walk can help you in work because again, it can convey
confidence, which is important for getting promoted. To the extent you
exude great confidence is the extent to which people may respect you, fear
you (in a good, life-saving way) and be drawn to you. All of these help you
stay alive, healthy and succeed in most if not all of your endeavors.
A confident person says a lot of things even without talking. It
communicates good health – mental and physical – as well as the ability to
get things done. People acknowledge people who they think knows what’s
going on and can get the job done as leaders without batting an eyelash.
And such confidence can be communicated with your walk.
 
CONFIDENT WALK
 
So how do you walk with confidence? For one, you walk with a straight
body posture, not hunching or crouched, both of which are signs of lack of
self-confidence. In particular, walking with your head in a level position –
neither looking up nor down but parallel to the ground – and shoulders back
and moving, with chest a bit puffed (don’t over do them) will make you
look confident as you walk. A confident walk also means you do so with
your hands relaxed at your sides and relaxed, rather than tight-fisted.
Confident walking also means walking in long, slow strides instead of short
fast ones. Long and slow strides tell people “Hey, I’m not in a hurry
because I got things under control!” which is the epitome of confidence.
Short, fast strides however scream, “I gotta hurry up because otherwise, I’m
dead! I have no control over situations and as such, I need to keep up!”
If you’d like to see how it all comes together, watch video clips of James
Bond on YouTube, particularly Sean Connery, Pierce Brosnan and Daniel
Craig. Once you see how they do it, you’ll immediately get it and start
walking confidently.

CHAPTER 9: THE POSTURE

 
“A good stance and posture reflect a proper state of mind.” – Morihei
Ueshiba
With the right posture, your body language can do lot to help you succeed
or succeed even more. The right posture can help you influence, connect
and attract people even without saying a word. In fact, your posture may
just as well be what opens the doors of opportunities for you to speak to
other people who you don’t personally know yet.
So how does a confident posture look like? How can your posture
communicate confidence and competency in order to help you win people
over? Here are some of the best ways to do that.
 
TALL OCCUPATION
 
One of the ways you can clearly communicate status, power, confidence and
competency is by standing tall and occupying a bigger space than most
other people. Standing tall means standing straight with chest out, shoulders
back and your head parallel to the floor. This posture screams, “I’m ready
for anything that may come my way. I’m confident!” without you having to
actually scream.
Taking up more than the usual space is also another way of exuding
confidence. You can do this by taking up more space as you stand or move
around. When sitting, you can hook one elbow on your chair’s back or
spreading out your personal things on the conference table and mark more
space.
 
STAND WIDER
 
Standing with your feet close together sends the signal that you’re unsure or
hesitant of what you’re saying or of yourself. A relatively wider (not sumo
wrestler wide) stance with relaxed knees and bodyweight centered in the
lower half of your body makes you look more confident and solid.
 
POSE WITH POWER
 
Studies have shown that the simple act of assuming an expansive power
pose – hands at the back your head, leaned back onto your chair and feet up
on your desk or standing with arms and legs wide open – for as quick as
just 2 minutes can lead to lower cortisol (stress hormone) levels, which can
make you feel even more confident. Oh, it also projects just how
comfortable you are in your own skin and that you don’t give a hoot about
what the other person thinks, which is a very strong way of saying you’re
confident and able.

CHAPTER 10: GESTURES

 
“Gestures, in love, are incomparably more attractive, effective and valuable
than words.” – Francois Rabelais
Psychologically speaking, gestures are movements that communicate an
attitude or some sort of meaning. Examples of gestures include waving,
pointing fingers and even yawning. Gestures are often taken for granted
because they aren’t as grand as say, the way people walk or talk, but it
doesn’t mean they don’t communicate much. In fact, it’s the assumption
that gestures don’t mean much that makes people fall into the trap of
gesturing in ways that make them subtly communicate something other than
what they really want to. The worst part is that it happens unconsciously.
By being aware of the most common gestures and how they can be used for
effective interpersonal communications that help you connect, influence and
attract people, you increase your chances of succeeding in life.
 
LET YOUR HANDS DO SOME TALKING
 
Studies have shown the intricate link between speech and gesture through
brain imaging, which shows the region of the brain responsible for speech is
also activated when the hands are waved. On a simpler level, try speaking
to another person with your hands tied. Isn’t it hard or unnatural? I know,
right?
That being said, it goes without saying that you can communicate well with
hand gestures. Not only can hand gestures reinforce what you’re verbally
saying for maximum verbal communications impact, they can also help you
power up that region of your brain responsible for speech, the Broca’s
region or area. Doing so may help you articulate your message much better
using the right words and less hesitation (using filler words like “uhm” or
“uh”). Try it for yourself and feel the difference.
 
INTO THE GREAT WIDE OPEN
 
Open and relaxed gestures like open palms, open arms (not crossed in front
of chest) and legs while sitting (except if you’re a kilt or skirt) are subtle but
powerful signals of candor, confidence and credibility. If you regularly
employ open gestures, people may look at you as more upbeat, persuasive
and open-minded compared to if you regularly use close gestures like arms
crossed in front of you. Holding your arms at the level of your waist while
gesturing with them can help you project credibility, confidence and
assurance.
 
STEEPLE IT
 
A steeple is a gesture where you join the tips of both your hands’ fingers
together in front of your body with your palms not making contact. Public
speakers like politicians and lecturers often gesture this way when they’re
confidently driving home a point. If they use it, why shouldn’t you, eh?
 
RELAX
 
Lack of self confidence and nervousness are often manifested in self-
pacifying and touching behaviors like bouncing feet, rubbing hands, hair
twirling, table drumming with fingers and fidgeting. As soon as you realize
you’re exhibiting such gestures, stop! Relax by taking a deep breath, firmly
plant your feet on the floor and rest your hands on your lap or table with
palms down. Being still exudes a quiet confidence and as you relax, you’re
able to do that.
 
SMILE
 
It goes without saying that smiling makes people more receptive to you and
increases your chances of connecting, influencing and attracting them
compared to a deadpan or a frowning face. So smile.
 
SHAKE IT FIRM
 
With touch being one of the most basic – and subtly effective – non-verbal
communications cues, learning to develop a firm handshake is an
investment worth making. A firm handshake helps you send the message
that you’re confident and strong while a weak one sends the opposite. Oh,
and very strong handshake can also be bad because apart from sending the
signal that you’re domineering, you might also break the other person’s
hand. Not a good way to make a first impression.
 
SYNERGY
 
Gestures are best employed for maximum communication efficacy together
and not individually. Whether it’s together with other gestures, body
language and verbal communications, gestures can significantly enhance
your interpersonal communication skills for influencing, attracting and
connecting with others.

CONCLUSION
 
Thanks again for buying this book, badass.
I am confident that the information you learned here will motivate you to
start working on your interpersonal communication skills to help you
attract, influence and connect with people much better. By working, I mean
to say you will either start applying the things you learned here or research
more about the things you’ve read in my book.
Remember, knowing is just half the battle.
The other half is applying what you know. So start acting on what you’ve
learned and become a masterful communicator!
Since you are an action-taking badass who invests in himself, I decided to
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A badass body positioning is so rare nowadays: only political leaders and
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I will show you those secrets and teach you the exact method I followed in
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Thank you again, my friend, and good luck!
 
Robert Moore
 
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The 10 Principles of High Status Body Language

 
Now I will show you different high status body language positions and
principles.
 
First of all, understand that as a high status man, you will always make
yourself comfortable first, wherever you go. That’s not a selfish behavior,
since it will give everyone else around you the permission to relax, feel
good and be comfortable too.
 
#1 principle: take up more space.
 
Low status people tend to make themselves small, invisible, sitting or
standing in an uncomfortable way. They are not sending their energy out to
the world, because they don’t see themselves as high status persons: in their
mind they’re not worth it.
 
They’re closed on themselves, they’re hiding from the outside world.
You, on the other hand, will think that your energy is so valuable that of
course you’re willing to share it with the world, so you’re going to open
yourself and take up more space.
 
Spread your legs and your arms: be comfortable!
Simply ask yourself: “am I closed or open right now?”
You’ll know the answer: take action and open up the positioning of your
body.
 
#2 principle: show your crotch.
 
Dominant men who attract, seduce and fu*k a lot of girls, have no problem
showing their sexuality to the world.
 
So, don’t be afraid to draw attention to the crotch region of your body while
you’re sitting. Open your legs, maybe put a hand in that region to
subconsciously draw attention there; showing a nice belt can help you, too.
 
Aren’t your proud of who you are?
Aren’t you proud of your body and your incredibly energetic, attractive sex
drive?
Always show your pride: be a MAN, be proud of your sexuality.
 

 
This is George Clooney. As you can see, he clearly knows how to show his
crotch!
 
#3 principle: slow down your movements.
 
Move slower!
Low status people move quickly and fidgety, they’re not comfortable, they
don’t believe in themselves.
From now on, you’ll cut your movements in half.
 
When you’re walking, when you’re turning your head, whenever you’re
moving your body around, do it slower, in half the time you do it right now.
 
#4 principle: be non-reactive.
 
Don’t react to something outside of your reality. When you’re talking with a
girl and you hear a siren or a noise, do not turn your head. Stay focused on
her and she will feel your masculine, dominant power. She won’t look at the
source of the noise and she will stay in the moment, following your high
status behavior.
 
Also, be aware of your fidgety movements and correct them: maybe you’re
touching your hands, or you’re moving your feet as a sign of anxiety.
 
Stop doing that. Be still and relaxed.
 
#5 principle: lean back.
 
Learn to lean back most of the time.
 
Remember that leaning in is a really low status behavior. Learn to make
people, especially girls, feel a subconscious urge to lean towards you,
simply by leaning back.
 
This little trick will change the whole dynamic of your conversations,
giving you the power of a badass.
 
This also means that when you’re walking or just standing, you will have
your shoulders up and back and your chin up. Just a masculine, healthy
posture.
 
 
Look at this picture: who is perceived as the highest status person here?
 
Berlusconi is relaxed, he’s leaning back and his legs are crossed.
 
Obama is leaning forward, his hands are closed, as well as his legs.
 
The answer is clear, right? This time, the Italian wins.
 
If you’re talking to a girl in a loud club (or whatever loud place) then move
slowly, lean in, whisper your words into her ear and then go back to leaning
back. This will make her come to you whispering in your ear: that’s how
high status men communicate in loud places, without leaning in in a low
status way.
 
If you want to know the other principles and the great exercises in order to
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What if I told you that with some tips, your standing position could become
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What if after reading this short guide, you will be able to attract the girl you
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Trust me, body language is really that powerful.
 
You should already know that human beings are constantly reading
situations and other people so that, really quickly, they can know what
category put them in: low status, middle status, and high status.
 
It’s just a survival mechanism, because you have to know who has the
power and who hasn’t. That’s something that’s been hardwired into us over
thousands and thousands of years.
 
So, most people don’t trust words, because we’ve been taught from a young
age to lie with them.
 
They prefer to read those status cues through the body language: THAT is
the honest signal!
 
High status body language = high status person.
 
It’s that simple, and we trust it.
 
Once we make the decision or opinion about that person, it’s almost
impossible for us to break it.
 
Therefore, your body language is the UNSPOKEN TRUTH.
 
When you have a high status body language, people conclude that you are
in CONTROL of your own reality.
 
Remember this, my badass friend:
"The body follows the mind, but the mind follows the body even
more."
 
Keeping a high status body language will make you have a high status
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powerful, relaxed eye contact…
How to command complete control of your eyes and your attention: this
SCREAMS high status to anybody watching…
Eye Contact Training: how to OWN your internal tension - Specific
practices and exercises to train you how to handle tension inside and
outside…
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Voice Training: How To Unleash Your Inner Badass Vocal Power With
Vocal Exercises, Become A Leader And Get A Deeper Voice In 7 Days
Or Less
Voice is one of the most important qualities of a leader.
When you have a POWERFUL voice, life becomes so much easier. Your
social life will be much better and your business life will reward you so
many times. Girls will be much more attracted to you... and if you're a
woman, your voice will be the SEXIEST it is ever been.
Just imagine yourself at a business meeting: you will be the most valuable
guy there, because your voice will be so STRONG and COMMANDING.
Everyone will be raptured by your words.
Political leaders and actors were not born with a powerful voice, they
TRAINED it up to that point.
In fact, you don't have a quiet voice, you simply trained it that way.
Now it's time to train it the other way around!
Here Is A Preview Of What You'll Learn In Voice Training...
Why A High-Status Voice Is So Powerful: how to make people know, like
and trust you immediately…
The 5 Secret Traits Of A Powerful Voice: capture attention and hold it in a
trance-like state every time you open your mouth!
Voice Training: mouth and voice strengthening exercises and tonality
secrets used by Hollywood actors to command your audience’s attention…
The Power Of Enunciation And Suspense: how to become a master
storyteller who holds people rapt, fully engaged and hanging on your every
word…
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Confidence Training: - Become An Alpha Male by Mastering Your
Confidence, Self Esteem & Charisma
Confidence is one of the most important traits to master if you want to
succeed in your life.
While you decided to bet on yourself, most men out there are going to
continue on their boring lives, controlled by their emotions, like weak little
leaves in the wind. You will not.
You’re meant for greatness, and I hope this guide will help you reach your
goals and transform your life.
In fact, for some guys, mastering their emotions and becoming truly
confident will be their graduation from little children to ALPHA MALES.
Because from now on, your emotions will work for you, instead of the other
way around.
I’m talking about pure, unshakable confidence, which means untouchable
indifference and emotional mastery at its finest.
So you can finally start ENJOYING and LIVING LIFE like the king you
know you are, staying cool, calm, and collected, no matter what life throws
at you.
I’m talking about you finally being able to ask that girl out that you’ve so
desperately wanted to.
I’m talking about you walking straight up to your boss’ office and
demanding that raise that you deserve (the right way) and getting it within
the snap of a finger.
I’m talking about you finally being able to take on ANYTHING that life
throws at you, without even flinching.
I’m talking about complete and utter state control over your emotions, for
good.
I'm talking about laser-like focus, allowing you to get done in a day what
most people get done in a month.
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Social Anxiety: Social Skills Training - Unleash Your Charisma!
Overcome Anxiety, Shyness & Fear
In any and every kind of society structure... school... a job... a city...there
are people who seem to have it all...
         
The fame...
         
The popularity...
         
The recognition...
         
The adoration and fawning...
 
Doors magically open for them in all kinds of life-changing ways.
 
It seems their life defies the laws of gravity. They’re immune to failure.
While they're enjoying life to the fullest, you are spending your nights
alone.
 
You know THE PAIN.
The pain of being ignored.
 
And I know it too.
 
I used to be shy and reserved... just like you. And you know what?
 
One day I discovered that everyone can unleash their inner CHARISMA
so that they can start seducing not only girls, but the whole world, easily
and naturally.
 
You have the inner power to break your "social anxiety cage" and free your
true, awesome self.
 
You don’t have to be creative. You don’t have to fake anything...
 
Being charismatic is a skill that has immeasurable power and influence in
the world.
Unleashing your charisma will help you overcome social anxiety,
depression, shyness and fear.
 
You will soon be recognized as a valuable member of your social circle or,
even better, as the leader.
 
After my
Social Skills Training
, you'll be able to land the best job
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THAT easy.
 
After reading Social Anxiety - Social Skills Training, this is what will
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
        
People will instantly acknowledge you. They won’t know quite
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
        
You won't fear conversations with big groups of people - ever
again!

        
Doors will open. Opportunities, made especially for you, will
present themselves. People will seek you out and remember you

        
You will simply be the person in the room that everyone is
drawn to!
 
 
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