Question and Answer-1
Question and Answer-1
Question and Answer-1
fbid=10153752890470918&set=a.430807215917.215912.554050917&type=3&theater Dorry
Beutel
How long have you been using online dating? So tell me something, how are your
experiences so far on Dating Websites been with Men Online
I am new to online dating, registered a weeks ago, and so far my experiences is
Terrible. I find most women are looking for sex only. No one is really looking for
a Relationship. I have been single for 4 years now. And it took me so many years to
find myself and to realize what it is I'm looking for
Do you think with the experiences you've had, do you really believe that you can
find your soul mate through online dating?
Though I have some weird experiences with some woman, but I believe there's a Good
Woman out there for me, I have the courage that I will find the woman whom I which
to spend the rest of my life with. I do believe in soul mates. I have seen people
that have found theirs and live very happily with them and I have decided a while
ago that I would never "settle" for anyone less than my soul mate. I am here
because I know life is not all about me." That is why I decided to join that site,
because I am hoping to meet someone nice enough to share life's simple pleasures
with. I hope to find someone I truly connect with. Someone who likes to laugh and
have fun, but can be serious as well. I am looking for someone that will be my best
friend and more. Someone who has my best interest at heart because I will have
hers. It would be great if I could talk to her about anything.
Where originally are you from? And where do you live now?
I'm originally from New York City, Born in a small town called Middle town. I'm a
British American, My Dad was born and raised in Washington D.C. While My mom was
from East London, England, and I lived in London until I was through with my high
school level, before moving to the States with my parents. So I have a British
Ancent, I love it.
I live in Queens, New York, But I'm presently at my place of Work here in Central
Coast of Alaska's Arctic Ocean
What's your present Marital Status Do you have kids of your own
I am a widower for 4 years now. I lost my wife & My First Daughter Chloe same
day. They were Vicitims of the Plane Crash in Kingston, Jamaica, N.Y on 22 December
2009 When the aircraft landed during a rainstorm, and was unable to stop on the
runway. . They were returning from a visit trip to my late wife home town in New
York. It was so hard for me to accept the fact that they were no more, at that
moment, I couldn't believe it. But that's life for you my dear, I realized I had to
be strong for little Angel Oshyn. She's my joy and happiness, I love her very much
with all my Heart
So tell me how big is your family? I mean how many brothers and sisters you have?
What about your parents?
Dad died when I was just a Kid, Mom died 2001, I'm the only Child of my Parents, My
Daughter Oshyn is the only close family I have got at the moment, she's my best
friend, sister and everything to me.
How many relationships have you been into before you came into online dating?
I had three (3) deep relationships in my life; The first I had was when I was still
a teenager with a girl named Amber, we were both attending the same school she was
from Milan, then we used to see each other everyday, helping one other with our
assignment, unfortunately our final exam at high school, she told me that her
parents will be living the country for Canada and she was going with them also, I
felt like wooh!!!, that means that you are going to live me, she said she does not
know what to do, so they left I was really unhappy during that period.
The second was with my late wife and was my longest met her at New York. After her
death I stayed a year and 5 months alone were I had a very special lady Named Ana;
she was from Wyoming, I thought I was going to get married to her. We stayed 3
months together and I later found at that she was lieing and has been cheating on
me, so I had to brake up with her and it hurts so much and so bad. Since then I
have been single and I decided to come into online dating and find my soul mate.
I go for the inner beauty, it radiates and it speaks for itself over time and for a
woman like you who is family oriented is an added advantage to me.
Are you a sports fan? And what are your favorite sports?
I have a passion for sports and my favorite sport is football and I also like Sea
Fishing, kayaking, boating, sailing are my sports of choice. I�m not afraid to
speak my mind, trust my gut, and follow my heart. Even if it gets me in
trouble...lol
How do you feel when someone upset you? And what will you do to calm yourself down?
I do feel unhappy for that moment; go to quite place and listening to a cool music
that will calm me down.
If you could change something about yourself, what would it be & why?
I would change how I tend to dwell on the past, because it's really dragging me
down lately. Our experiences in life made us who we are. No one is free from
difficult times in life or what some may call baggage. How you've dealt with those
experiences will determine if you're damaged or resilient. I'm a prime example of
resilient and not looking to do damage control. I understand everyone has old
baggage, but I want someone who has put the old baggage up for old memories and is
ready to create new memories. Life is short and you never know about tomorrow, so
if you want to live life "like there is no tomorrow.
who is ur mentor?
My mentor is my late dad, he was a nice, caring and understanding dad, who loves
and take good care of his family, he always speaks the truth and he is a self
discipline man, my dad is ready to risk everything he has for his loved ones, but I
do feel the pain because he never lived to enjoy me, he was really the best dad in
the world. He always tells me that uneasy lies the head that wears the crown, so
for you to be successful in life you have to face some challenges.
So tell me; what are some of the places you have visited?
I have already lived in Italy when I was young, before moving to the states with my
parents. I have been out of the States several times on different occasion, maybe
on a work trip, or vacation trip. My work has took me to places like; Spain,
Malaysia, England.While on vacation trip I and my daughter have been to;
Switzerland, Italy, Yugoslavia,Greece, Bermuda, Paris, Rio DE Janeiro of Brazil,
and Dubai. I would love my next vacation trip to be with that special someone,
because I don�t believe I�m destined to travel this road alone; I look forward to
sharing my last journey in love, laughter & friendship. Loving a woman is no longer
enough for me. The genuine friendship that develops, enjoying each others company,
the ability to communicate one�s needs, desires, hopes & dreams, for me, will
sustain the relationship. I may not be perfect, but I am perfect, for someone.
Looking for my "Lover and Companion" to live a fun loving life and "Travel" around
the would with. I'm looking for a woman who is a good communicator.
So tell me when travelling do you travel alone or you like travelling with a
Companion?
I love travelling with my daughter, because she is my only family that I have now.
Have you ever thought of leaving your country in search of the man you want to be
with in the future?
Yeah, like I said; I would swim a Thousand Rivers and Climb a Hundred Walls just to
be with the Person I Love
What languages can you speak? Which would you like to learn?
I speak English fluently
What positive lessons have you learned from your past relationships that will help
you succeed in future relationships?
"Love" "Trust" & "Understanding".
If you are at a loose end what are some of the following things you do?
I will have hope and never to give up.
What do you think is the biggest mistake that men/women make in their
relationships?
Not trusting, understanding and trying to find time and share things with each
others.
I know this question can be out of the line... lol Lets say If you could wake up
tomorrow with any superpower, what would it be?
Hmm, that would be the power of Clark Kent also known as superman, I want to be the
one to save the day.
If you are found guilty of a crime, would you admit yourself and accept your
mistakes?
I will admit my self, accept my mistakes, and face the consequences, because I am a
God fearing man, and I do abide to the truth.
If you see somebody you don't know who needs help, would you be of any support?
Yes I would help in anyway, because God in heaven says it is good to help those
that are in need and he loves a cheerful giver. I think it's important to have
compassion for others in need of help. I have a good and caring heart. I don't like
arrogance or to be selfish. It's the strangest thing, but kindness attracts
kindness, like whenever I see someone�s car got broke down, I always love to help
and assist that person, because when mine also gets broke down or I had a flat tire
someone always has come to my rescue.
In a relationship how do you see a situation whereby the woman earns more money
than the man?
A good relationship where two lovers understand each other, they're concerned for
each other and they respect one another, I don�t think that there will be problem
about that, to me is no problem as far as they both love their selves.
Do you like holding hands and exchanging casual kisses with your partner?
Yes...Holding her close and make her feel the warmth of my body while kissing her.
Marriage they say "Is For Better, For Worse" do you believe in this principle?
Yes, I do believe in that, because that is where you have to show that you love
your partner very much.