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Hymen Truths

Definition of the hymen

The hymen is a thin membrane that may partially cover the opening of the vagina in some female bodied individuals.
There are many myths about the hymen; it is often referred to by the slang term “cherry.” The presence or absence of a
hymen cannot prove whether a person with a vagina has had vaginal intercourse. Many people with vaginas are born
with no visible hymen, and, if present, the hymen can disintegrate over time. It is normal for a person with a vagina to
have a noticeable hymen, and it is also normal if a person with a vagina does not have a noticeable hymen.

Debunking the myth – “Popping the cherry”

During penetrative vaginal intercourse the hymen can be painful if it’s not used to being stretched – that’s one of a
number of potential causes of pain with penetration, but it is by no means the most common (one of the most common
reasons is lack of lubrication). The hymen doesn’t break and stay broken forever. If a hymen tears or bruises, it heals.
Any bleeding with first penetrative vaginal intercourse is more likely due to general vaginal tearing from lack of
lubrication than to damage to the hymen. So, ultimately the hymen stays with one, their entire life!

Everybody’s bodies are different!

Some people with vaginas are born without hymens. Others have imperforate, microperforate, or septate hymens.
Some people with vagina’s hymens are durable, others are fragile. Some disappear in early adolescence, and some are
still in evidence past menopause.

Nagoski, Emily. Come As You Are. London: Scribe, 2015. Print.


The hymen serves no biological purpose

The hymen was not selected by evolution. It has no reproductive or any other biological function. It is a byproduct of a
person with a vagina’s reproductive organ development in the uterus.

The story that is told about the hymen is super powerful!

Our culture made up a powerful story about the hymen a long time ago. This story has nothing to do with biology and
has so much to do with controlling women. Culture saw a “barrier” at the mouth of the vagina and decided it was a
marker of virginity (a biologically meaningless idea). This idea is unfortunately a product of a society in which women
were literally property, valued only for their reproductive abilities.

Why this matters

Even though hymens perform no physical or biological functions, these myths surrounding the hymen are so profound
that there are surgeries available to “reconstruct” the hymen.

In a sense, the hymen is relevant to a person with a vaginas health: in some places around the world people with vaginas
are beaten or even killed for not having a hymen. Some people with vaginas are told they “couldn’t have been raped”
because their hymen is intact. For these people the hymen has a real impact on their physical wellbeing, not because of
their anatomy but because of what their culture believes about their anatomy.

Nagoski, Emily. Come As You Are. London: Scribe, 2015. Print.

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