4 Secret Ways To Make Anyone Chase You

4 Secret Ways To Make Anyone Chase You
Do you feel like you're always the one chasing people around?
Do you wish the tables were reversed for once?
How much effort should you put in to make people interested?
You may feel silly for asking yourself these questions but sometimes, it just feels nice
to be wanted. Remember that without self-love, self-validation, and contentment, no
amount of appreciation and attention from others will give you the peace and love that
you deserve. It's all about balance. But without further you do, here are four helpful
ways to make anyone chase you.
1. Give Room for Mystery

Why are mysterious people so attractive? What is it about the silent and mysterious
types that make you want to learn more about them? Let's look at Levi Ackerman
from the attack on Titan series. He is pretty silent and detached but somehow he has a
whole Army of fans screaming at support and adoration. So what makes this brooding
character so appealing? Mystery is linked to fascination. When humans encounter
something unfamiliar, they'll most likely explore to acquire more information. This
type of behavior may be linked to the early humans who are constantly faced with
danger and had to develop strategies to overcome them. A mysterious setting easily
attracts us as a potential source of unprecedented knowledge and is therefore a source
of fascination. So if you want to become that Source, try finding more ways to add
mystery to your life. You could start by spending less time on social media and more
on your hobbies. Focus on your own goals and practice listening more than speaking.
Shifting the focus to the other person and less on you.
2. Develop your Physical Appearance

Have you ever been interested in someone because of their appearance alone? There's
no shame in following people online because you find them drop dead gorgeous.
Good-looking people just tend to receive more attention, but why is that? Several
different studies have found that when we rate people as good looking, we tend to
believe that they have positive personality traits and that they're more intelligent so are
more likely to receive benefits like being paid more. Getting considered for more jobs
and having stronger social skills. This contrast in treatment is also highlighted in the
webtoon lookism where the main character Daniel Park, who is bullied for being
chubby and weak suddenly becomes a highly popular and agreeable individual after
waking up with a more attractive body. Another study showed attractiveness is also
highly linked with higher levels of self-esteem. This means that if you're interested in
increasing your appeal it may help to develop confidence in your capabilities and
looks. Maybe you need a haircut or even a new style whatever it is it's good to explore
and do things that make you feel empowered and self-assured. Practice dressing well,
taking care of your hygiene, and learning how to best Express Yourself socially.
Exercise and having a balanced diet have also been shown to have positive effects on
your self-esteem. Lastly, try embracing your bad qualities and highlighting the good
ones. Developing your physical appearance isn't something done in a day. It's a
byproduct of how you choose to live your life. You're already stunning but maybe it's
time to elevate it.
3. Keep Yourself Busy

Aside from being mysterious, it's also good to fill your schedule with fun and
productive activities. This doesn't mean playing hard to get of course. If people start
asking you out and you want to socialize with them, do it. Try to avoid playing mind
games like breadcrumbing, benching, and playing hard to get to make them miss you
more. Those tactics are defense mechanisms and survival instincts for people with
insecure attachment styles. Sometimes you may feel like you aren't being chased
because you have too much free time on your hands. It's good to be preoccupied with
other things and let life flow naturally. You could try hiking, going to the gym, or
maybe even partying. By being more active and productive you can meet new people,
create more relationships, and increase the quality of your social life.
4. Be The Best Version of Yourself at This Moment
Everyone is different and therefore chases after different types of people. So how can
you be the best version of yourself? Whether you're an introvert, extrovert, or
ambivert, there's always an aspect of yourself that you can work on. Try not to fight it
too much. In learning ways to make people chase after you it may get easy to forget
the most important tip of all. Being genuine as much as possible, avoid pretending to
be someone you're not instead identify the qualities you admire and slowly integrate
them into your life.
Which qualities do you chase after and why? If it's physical attractiveness then
perhaps it might help to focus on exercise and developing your looks. And if it's
personality or self-esteem you may want to focus on self-reflection. Developing habits
and saying affirmations. Remember we are all works in progress and there will always
be someone appreciating you. Have you ever chased after someone, what made you
do it how did it end?

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4 Secret Ways To Make Anyone Chase You

1. Give Room for Mystery

2. Develop your Physical Appearance

3. Keep Yourself Busy

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