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speak, this material onto an entirely different plain, one philosophical and
one psychological. Consequently, the elements of the two disciplines-
their goals, methods, basic concepts, topics of conversation, dynamics of
interaction, etc.-take place in different domains, the former operating
within the domain of ideas (conceptual analysis, logical relations, etc.)
while the latter in the domain of psychological processes and mechanisms
(emotional, behavioral, cognitive, etc.).
This points to a deeper unique characteristic of Philosophical Coun-
seling. In aiming at wisdom, philosophical Counseling aims at horizons
that lay beyond the current person, to conceptual coordinates that extend
beyond the person’s present way of living. This contrasts with most
forms of psychotherapy which attempt to deal with psychic materials that
are already within the person, consciously or unconsciously, actually or
in the form of a yet undeveloped potential: hidden desires, unconscious
traumas, unelaborated conceptions of life, unexpressed tendencies, etc.
While psychotherapy aims mostly at modifying the person’s current
psychic forces and processes, Philosophical Counseling attempts to take
him to new ideational landscapes outside himself.
In this sense, philosophizing in Philosophical Counseling is not a
solipsistic endeavor, it does not h i t itself to the domain of humanly
generated ideas, but is rather a dialogue between human life and the
broader horizons in which it is embedded. As Pierre Hadot aptly says in
discussing the ancient Greek conception of wisdom : “For wisdom, says
Diotima in Plato’s Symposium. is not a human state, it is a state of
perfection of being and knowledge that can only be divine. It is the love
of this wisdom, which is foreign to this world, that makes the philosopher
a stranger in it.”3 Wisdom is not invented in the person’s minds but
appears in the person’s philosophical encounter with the world.
This conception of philosophizing may be compared to the one
expressed in Plato’s cave parable. philosophizing enables the person to go
out of the narrow confines of his current life and reach out to broader
understandings. It is not satisfied with reshuffling and modifying the
shadows which the person already has, but seeks to go beyond them.
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are certain standards of personal worth, and that I fall short of them. In
sum, to feel or behave or think one way rather than another is to express
a certain understanding about the nature of the self, about what is
important, moral, or beautiful, about what is love, friendship, courage,
and so on. We constantly interpret our world, not just through beliefs
and thoughts, but through our entire way of being.
Hence, our way of being expresses certain ways of understanding
life and our world (although they are not necessarily coherent and unitary;
our lives are often inconsistent). It embodies an understanding of life
which resembles a personal philosophical ‘Yheory”; although it is a
“theory” which the person lives, not necessarily thinks in words. I will
call a philosophical understanding that is embodied in the person’s way of
being a lived philosophical understanding, or for short, a lived under-
standing.
It is important to note that people are usually not fully conscious
of their lived understanding. But neither do they have it in their un-
conscious. Lived understanding is not statements residing in the person’s
head, but rather the “statements” made by the person’s way of being
towards himself and his surroundings. It is embodied in the way the
person relates to the world through his behavior and feelings and comports
himself towards life. For example, my tormenting guilt-feeling may be
said to express the idea that what I did was morally wrong. However, to
the extent that this is a lived understanding, “I am morally wrong” is
not an idea in my mind but ope which I embody’in my attitude towards
myself. The structure of my attitudes and feelings reflects the structure
or meaning of the concept of guilt-which includes moral wrongness-
but this meaning need not have a psychological reality in my head, either
consciously or unconsciously.
A few analogies may illustrate this point. Consider, for example,
a piece of art and its aesthetic meanings, or a move in a chessgame and its
strategic meaning. A painting can be said to express a balanced composi-
tion without regard to the psychology of the painter, and a move on a
chess board may constitute a threat to the right flank independently of
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A CASE STUDY
This may or may not open new avenues for overcoming her predicament.
Greater understanding does not always lead to solutions for personal
problems. She agreed.
The move which I would like to mention here was the exploration of
the concept of freedom. Through our conversations we came t o see that
her attitudes expressed a particular conception of the nature of freedom.
Freedom for her was the state of not being constrained by external
constraints, or what in the philosophical jargon is termed “negative free-
dom” (freedom-from). This conception was not something she had
thought about in words, but one which was ‘lived” by her through her
longing not t o be constrained, her nostalgia for her previous lifestyle,
the absence of any clear idea what she wanted t o do with her freedom,
and so on.
After we exposed this conception of freedom, I pointed out that it
is only one among several others, and furthermore, that it is not obviously
the most valuable. During the following conversations we explored other
conceptions of freedom. Using my phdosophical knowledge, 1 brought up
alternative conceptions: freedom-for, i.e., the inner capacity t o have an
inner ideal or goal, follow it, and thus do whatever one really wants t o do;
the Bergsonian freedom of acting spontaneously out of one’s entire
personality; Gabriel Marcel’s view of freedom as a capacity to create one’s
life in a way that stands against societal norms and pressures the Stoic
notion of freedom as accepting whatever happens t o one; and the
conception of freedom, often appearing in religious writings, of the
capacity to do that which is good.
We explored these conceptions keeping one foot in her concrete
world of experiences and the other foot in philosophical considerations.
Thus we examined the inner logic of each of these conceptions; their
implications concerning the concepts of the self, authenticity, responsi-
bility, and other related concepts; and their connection to concrete life,
and specifically to her past, present, and future life.
The result was that S. came to see her predicament from a broader
perspective. She now saw the broader network of ideas that were inter-
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woven into her way of being in the world, as well as of further horizons of
other possible ways of being. She realized how narrow her urge for
freedom-from had previously been, and now wished to go beyond it. In
our following conversations we worked on expanding and exploring this
new understanding in a way that could be interwoven into her concrete
way of living.
CONCLUSION
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