Changes in The Body: What Is Puberty?
Changes in The Body: What Is Puberty?
Changes in The Body: What Is Puberty?
Puberty is a time of big changes inside and outside your child’s body. It helps to know about the
major physical changes in puberty that you can expect for girls and boys, and when these
changes happen.
What is puberty?
Puberty is the time when your child moves through a series of significant, natural and healthy changes.
These physical, psychological and emotional changes signal your child is moving from childhood to
adolescence.
This usually happens around 10-11 years for girls and around 11-13 years for boys.
But it’s normal for the start of puberty to range from 8-13 years in girls and 9-14 years in boys. Every
child is different.
There’s no way of knowing exactly when your child will start puberty. Early changes in your child’s
brain and hormone levels can’t be seen from the outside, so it’s easy to think that puberty hasn’t started.
Puberty can be completed in about 18 months, or it can take up to five years. This range is also
completely normal.
You can support your child during puberty by talking about puberty, supporting healthy eating and
physical activity, and encouraging healthy sleep routines.
Breasts will start developing. This is the first visible sign that puberty is starting. It’s normal for the
left and right breasts to grow at different speeds. It’s also common for the breasts to be a bit tender
as they develop. If your child wants a bra, a soft crop top or sports bra can be a good first choice.
Your daughter will have a growth spurt, and she’ll get taller. Some parts of her body – like her
head, face and hands – might grow faster than her limbs and torso. This might leave her looking
out of proportion for a while. On average girls grow 5-20 cm. They usually stop growing at around
16-17 years.
Your daughter’s body shape will change. For example, her hips will widen.
Your daughter’s external genitals (vulva) and pubic hair will start to grow. Her pubic hair will get
darker and thicker over time.
Around 12-14 years (about two years after breast development starts)
The external genitals (penis, testes and scrotum) will start to grow. It’s normal for one testis to grow
faster than the other. You can reassure your son that men’s testes usually aren’t the same size.
Pubic hair will start to grow. It will get darker and thicker over time.
Your son will have a growth spurt. He’ll get taller and his chest and shoulders will get broader.
Some parts of his body – like his head, face and hands – might grow faster than his limbs and
torso. This might leave him looking out of proportion for a while. On average boys grow 10-30 cm.
They usually stop growing at around 18-20 years.
It’s common for boys to have minor breast development. If your son is worried by this, you can let
him know it’s normal and usually goes away by itself. If it doesn’t go away or if your son’s breasts
seem to be growing a lot, he could speak to his GP.
Hair will start growing on other parts of your son’s body – under his arms, on his face and on the
rest of his body. His leg and arm hair will thicken. Some young men will grow more body hair into
their early 20s.
Your son will start producing more testosterone, which stimulates the testes to produce sperm.
Your son will start getting erections and ejaculating (releasing sperm). During this period, erections
often happen for no reason at all. Just let your son know that this is normal and that people don’t
usually notice. Ejaculation during sleep is often called a ‘wet dream’.
The start and stages of puberty happen at different times for different children. But if you’re worried
that your child is starting puberty early or late, it’s a good idea to talk to your GP.
Clumsiness
Because children grow so fast during puberty, their centres of gravity change and their brains might take a
while to adjust. This might affect your child’s balance. You might see a bit more clumsiness for a while,
and your child might be more likely to be injured.
Physical strength
Muscles increase in strength and size during this period. Your child’s hand-eye coordination will get better
over time, along with motor skills like ball-catching and throwing.
Weight
Your child will gain weight and need more healthy food. Teenagers’ stomachs and intestines increase in
size, and they need more energy, proteins and minerals. Foods with plenty of calcium and iron are
important for bone growth and blood circulation.
Sleep patterns
Sleep patterns change, and many children start to stay awake later at night and sleep until later in the
day. Also, the brain re-sets the body clock during puberty. Children going through puberty need more
sleep than they did just before puberty started.
Sweat
A new type of sweat gland in the armpit and genital area develops during puberty. Skin bacteria feed on
the sweat this gland produces, which can lead to body odour. Hygiene is important.
Your child might find her hair gets oilier, and she needs to wash it more. This is normal.
Teeth
Children will get their second molars at around 13 years. Third molars – ‘wisdom teeth’ – might appear
between 14 and 25 years. These teeth can appear in singles, pairs, as a full set of four wisdom teeth – or
not at all. Healthy teeth and gums are vital to your teenage child’s health, so teenage dental care is
important.
Some children might have delayed physical development because of chronic health problems, which
might cause a delay in the onset of puberty