WantsandMore:
That’s true anyways… you see some children’s rascality you wonder how they came from a good home.

During our days, just the sound of a man's motorcycle restores peace and order in the house but today, father's are twerking with their children on TikTok.

pocohantas:


My own is, how do they get to this point?
E get as you go shout on me sef, I will run.
Let alone cutlass. Hian!

Is you must kill me today a joke to you? One was was having issue with her husband last year and she no gree three women hold, and na so she short. Landlord had to evict them.

It will never make sense to me too, and I always keep wondering how things get back to normal after the fight and all.

meobizy:
What makes spouses snap and take the lives of their loved ones? The man should say why he did it.

The man was an abusive murderer. The deceased was a stupid woman.

Three days before their wedding, he attacked her with a cutlass yet she still went ahead and married him.

If he could do that so close to the wedding, it clearly wasn’t the first time. And still, she foolishly said 'I do.'

People really don’t value their own lives anymore.

dominique:
Nigerian men expect women to contribute 50% financial upkeep and 100% domestic upkeep. Bunch of lousy scammers! If she's working and contributing to the family finances and she's unable or unavailable to cook all the time, you arrange your own damn meals. Heaven won't fall!

If we embrace 50/50 in all aspects of marriage, you online noise makers will run with your tails between your legs. To begin with, 50/50 doesn't start after marriage—it should start from day one. I come to your place to get a list, and we split the bill 50/50, or you go to mine and get your list. Your sisters will stop planning their dream weddings with a ₦100k bank account.

Once we're done with the marriage and she moves into my house, she will start paying rent based on the value of the house. We’ll also split every other responsibility 50/50—down to who turns on the generator and fixes the lights. And if we're unlucky enough to have criminals break in, both of us will be walking side by side to open that door.

If the government and police fail, and men on the street have to keep watch, you all are coming out too. Now, on having kids, we will take turns—I’ll get you pregnant, and then it’s your turn to get me pregnant. If you fail within two years, then it’s my turn again.

Do you really think cooking and cleaning are problems for men today? How much is a washing machine? You're here supporting a foolish man just because your son isn’t the groom. Nonsense.

Men shouldered responsibilities for years, no problem but the moment some of you started bringing nonsense N30 support, we will not hear words again.

Another fallen soldier from the South

Stupid man

Mariangeles:
If you condone that, get ready to be played like a ping-pong.

😂 😂 😂 😂 😂. My sister don go see another man.

All this drama is just to save face—deep down, the man is hurting badly.

helinues:


Some of you can lie for the world. As around 2015, Lagos to Abuja was around N25-N30k+ depends on airline for economy class.

Tell us the name of the airline that give discount with students id. How can some of you just be lying so cheapishly like this

Tell those bunkum to those who didn't have privilege of travelling by air back then

If I were a liar, I would be in APC. Jonathan's government started in 2010 and ended in 2015, so when I talk about affordable air tickets, 2010 and 2011 etc must be included.

We are not brain-dead like you lot in APC. Air tickets were ₦25,000 to ₦30,000 in 2015 after a 50% increase—now ask yourself how much they were before that. Also, remember that booking in advance gets you a better deal.

Abuja to Lagos with Med-View was ₦15,000 in 2012—an amount that can’t even buy original jeans trousers today.

Look at the attached picture and see what soulless fools, who claim to be patriotic, have done to this country

kokoA:
20k don do you to import babe from another state successfully. I mean her Tfare, feeding, accomodation, flexing and small "thanks for coming" to use hold body.

20K kee? Air travel used to be 10K (6,800+ with a student ID), then 12K, then 15K—I think it maxed out at 20K, but I’m not so sure. Unless you're flying her in, you don’t need 20K. Otherwise, that 20K will cover her round trip and flexing while she's in your house. I was doing Abuja to Enugu by road for just N2,500 in the park and 1500 if I stand by road.

And then?

Proserpina:
Lol 😂😂😂

You dey mind Tallesty1 ?

Is it a pole standing beside Censori? Aren't men supposed to be the head of the family and leader of now and future?

The gender that does not sexual or scream to be respected don turn cuck.hold for the world


Kanye come wear all black . All is see is light and darkness illusion from my creative lens 😤😤

Nobody should stress me

Rest

folake4u:



Thank you oh.

As if the Kanye standing beside her is complaining.

So Kanye has to complain before others can complain?

GloriousGbola:


That is the exact vibe I got and why I assumed the guy is trolling. It honestly sounds like what these chicks push out all the time. Looking for the ultra complete and perfect man

A guy couldn't get his girlfriend a gift for her birthday because he was having financial problems. Meanwhile, the lady received money from several other guys, even a flower bouquet, and posted it on her WhatsApp status. The guy saw it and sent it to an influencer, asking for advice.

The influencer shared it, and the comments were wild. Some blamed him, some told him to move on because she had no respect for him, and others supported the girl, arguing that a man shouldn't allow another man to outgift him on his girl's birthday.

Men clapped back, asking what these people knew about the guy’s finances—he could be a student or in his early twenties. But the ladies wouldn’t have it. They said he shouldn’t date if he didn’t have money and should focus on making money first.

That’s case one.

Case two: A guy in his late twenties posted that he had nothing—no house, no car, still living with his parents. Men who made their first million in their mid-30s shared their stories to encourage him.

Then some ladies started saying that if you’re in your twenties with no house or car and still living with your parents, you’re a failure.

That’s why the guy made this post, and suddenly, the same ladies started complaining that he shouldn’t expect a 24-year-old to be financially stable because most of them are still in school.

It’s a gender war.

cc Pocohantas

pocohantas:
The most conflicting thing there is the age and expected financial status.

Not more than 24 and MUST be doing well for herself financially.

It took him 36yrs to be emotionally, financially and physically ready. But he wants a 24yrs old lady to be doing well for herself FINANCIALLY.

Oh well, we have the outliers who graduated at 20, served at 21/22 and got jobs in Total at 23. He would definitely get one of them at 36yrs.

On Twitter, ladies say that men in their twenties who don't own a car and a house have failed. Then he made this tweet, and suddenly, the same ladies realized how difficult it is to be financially stable at 24. You won't understand what's up if you're not active there.

The only gender that came naked is the same gender that wants respect simply because it's the F gender—the same gender that objectifies and sexualizes itself, then blames the other gender for it.

Creamypie:
95 % of single girls na ashawo

Shut up

kingbee90:

Oga I disagree with you.
Most of these shade throwing na only on social media. Especially nairaland and X.
Why do we marry each other? Why do we transact businesses successfully with each other?

Nigeria na cruise!

Igbos have been mass-murdered in the North in tribe-induced genocide.

Hausa trucks, their wares, and their people have been burned down in the East for the same reason.

Aboki and Yoruba clash and kill each other all the time for the same reason. As a matter of fact, about three Yoruba kings are currently sitting idly in the Hall of Two Truths because they cannot pass without their heads.

These are not normal crimes; they are the dividends of tribalism.

Gbadebo lost due to tribalism.

Another governor candidate was called Jimi Chukwu because of tribalism.

Also, in the last election, what do you think is the reason people who looked clean, tall, fair, and spoke good English without any tribal marks were not allowed to vote?

Tribalism has done more harm to Nigeria than colonization.

Absolutely. You're not angry because a vice president used billions to renovate a house, but you want Nigerians to be angry because of Trump? No be ment?

Tightpussy2024:

Toke and Tiwa called him out on the timing of announcing the news! You can't do this when your partner is in rehab and when you are battling a kidney issue.

They didn't call him out for divorcing her

So they can divorce when her mental health is in shambles and he is battling kidney disease but they can't post about it?

Tell me what Toke and Tiwa did when Tonto dragged her husband nonstop for years.

There is no good time for breaking bad news, they're all angry because 2Face beat them to it.

He didn't give them to polish their story and make up for the camera.

Tiwa is a hypocrite

pocohantas:


Whatever is their reason for calling him out, which wasn't even for the divorce (all semantics), I see it as overzealousness. This marriage wasn't one to end without drama and some insanity. Tiwa did a whole production for Teebillz. Toke wrote a book. They should focus on giving Annie the support she needs. If she decides to go back to 2face, which isn't impossible, their business. Nothing 2face would do and surprise Nigerians. As far as na woman matter sha.

Gbam.

Chai, how I wish your brand of drink still dey market. I for say make you carry two packs.

GloriousGbola:


tiwa savage and toke makinwa are drug addicts?

the irony is tuface reportedly has kidney failure - since 2015. not to be judgmental - but that is likely because of lifestyle

That's just an illustration, the guy I quoted is not Annie's father.

pocohantas:


Toke/Tiwa are anything but Annie's friends. In between ensuring Tuface doesn't follow other women and acting crazy, I doubt Annie has close friends or anything going on for herself.

Generally, her and Tuface do not have known industry friends. The only difference is, irrespective of his shortcomings, Tuface is loved by many. Annie? Not so much.

Annie should count herself lucky for having them as her first respondents because I wonder who you guys think would have been nonjudmental enough to give her any direct attention.

There was a time these two were in the news, and I said some things. You quoted me, and I remember telling you that there’s a point where someone’s actions become so predictable that the blame shifts to those who still expect them to be responsible.

2Face crossed that threshold long before he married Annie, so she knew exactly what she was getting into. If you hire a security guard who has been fired multiple times for sleeping on duty, and your house gets robbed while he’s asleep, the blame is on you.

If they have anything on 2Face beyond cheating, they should bring it forward; otherwise, they should keep quiet. If Annie had come online to announce she was done with 2Face, people would have celebrated her because leaving him has been long overdue—so why all the unnecessary noise?

This isn’t me being judgmental, just stating facts. Even the Bible says, "Don’t give what is sacred to pigs" for a reason.

If 2Face announces tonight that he wants a wife, women will queue then years later we will be called judgemental for telling them that actions has consequences.

Imagine Chioma complaining that Davido dey cheat, no be ment?

descartes400:


The women 2face cheated with while in relationship with Annie is a public news., can you cite just one man that Annie is alleged to have cheated with?

Since all these 2face-annie saga, I have not heard pim about Annie cheating but the same cannot be said of 2face...infact...he is well known as a serial cheat...

If you haven't, I have—so leave it like that. I'm not citing anyone because either of them could swallow me whole without even feeling a movement in their throat, and I can't risk that just to convince you (who is neither friend nor foe) that 2Face (who in turn is neither friend nor foe) is cheating on Annie (who is also neither friend nor foe)

It's not worth it. Like I said at the beginning, we've all taken sides. If you haven't, pick one—that's the best way to enjoy this kind of news.

2. Are you inferring that because she's a friend to Tiwa and Toke, that's why her marriage collapse?

Let's assume you have a daughter, and her two best friends are drug addicts and chain smokers. Would you really be surprised if you heard that she started drinking alcohol?

The wives of Pastor Chris okotie, and pastor Chris oyakhilome are not friends to Tiwa nor Toke, yet their marriages has since collapsed...so?

Researchers: The average height of a woman is 5 feet 3 inches.

That Someone: But my sister is 5 feet 5 inches. So?



Typical and unwise

The 2Face in the video looks really sick—I just knew something was wrong. As for their divorce, Nigerians have already picked sides. Those who know that Annie isn’t just a cheat but also a very abusive partner have sided with 2Face. The 'witches' have pitched their tent with Annie, and then there are those who just want 2Face to be the villain simply because he’s a man.

2Face was already cheating on someone else with Annie before leaving that person to marry her, so you can’t pin cheating on just him. The difference between men and women is that men will see what they can’t change, accept it, and make peace with it, while women will see what they can’t change, convince themselves they can, try and fail, then blame everyone but themselves.

And then there’s the funniest take—the idea that 2Face "used and dumped" Annie. 2Face, who started his music career when Annie was 13 or 15? She was there when he had nothing? Please. There was never a time 2Face had "nothing." Maybe not money, but he was born talented, and women invested in his future with nothing but feelings—ungenuine feelings at that. 😂😂😂

A married woman whose best friends are Tiwa and Toke? 😂😂😂😂😂

May God grant each of them peace.

He also said that if he were a Nigerian woman, he wouldn’t date or marry a Nigerian man because they were both shaped by the same environment, making it too toxic

This woman is just too smart.

Banie:
This is why I love china. Don't joke with their
Technology.

These guys have always made things easier and more affordable. They're the reason almost anyone can own a smartphone today. If not for Chinese phone makers, only celebrities would be using smartphones.

Sadly, when discussions about innovation or progress come up, you’ll hardly hear African countries mentioned. Take Nigeria, for example. The topics of the day are always VDM, VAT, IGR, nyash, Igbo vs Yoruba, Obi, Hilda, Toke, Ronu, IPOB, Bigger Tribe debates, and so on.

It’s honestly so unfortunate.

princepee:
2baba wan kill my akwa ibom sister,
2baba na community prick he can never stay with one woman.
Annie made a very big mistake marrying him.

Tuface Loved having a lot of girls by his side.
And then money and fame came,

Lmao. 2Face is a community prick, that's known but Annie isn't faithful either.



She cheats on him too.

cococandy:


He cheated with one of his old time friends. Mind you he’s been accused of cheating in the past. Maybe the fact that he did it with an old friend is the straw that broke the camel’s back. After him and Melinda have been together for decades. Of course he regrets it. I think it’s an issue of having a conscience.

That’s a big betrayal that even he wouldn’t forgive if Melinda did the same to him. Especially if it’s a friend they hang out with all the time. He’d be imagining what was going on when he’s not around.

I don’t know why people are quick to blame the wives before researching what actually happened

Man even got a second chance and blew it too. His regrets just dey begin

ayourbamie:
I thought Melinda was the one that divorced him

Any man who has been with a woman for as long as those two have been together will hurt when she leaves. It doesn’t matter if she cheated or even attempted to kill him. The fact that he regrets the situation doesn’t mean he wants her back. After all, God regretted creating man. He regrets it maybe because it was his mistake that lead to the divorce so the divorce is his fault even though he didn't initiate it.

meobizy:
Good. The same holy book says a Christian shouldn’t judge. Live life as you deem fit and let the other person do the same.

It didn't. This is one of the most misquoted sayings of Jesus. In the chapter that says 'do not judge,' it also says, 'by their fruits, we shall know them.' How can you know without judging? To say that we should not judge implies that everything is okay, but it also means we should not preach repentance. I mean, how can you tell someone to repent if you haven't judged them? How can you even recognize sin without judgment? Anything that is not true is a lie, and to recognize a lie is to pass judgment. Matthew 7 is not against judgment; rather, it teaches how to judge. Christ says, first remove the speck from your own eye so you can see clearly to remove the log from your brother's eye. It is against unfair, unforgiving, and hypocritical judgment—not judgment in its entirety. John 7:24 tells us to stop judging by mere appearances but instead to judge correctly.