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Ep 33: Does Your Teen Bully You?
Ep 33: Does Your Teen Bully You?
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27 minutes
Released:
Nov 15, 2018
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Click for full show notes, exercises, and word-for-word scripts from this episodeIs your teenager mean to you? What can parents do with teens who bully them and treat them cruelly? And why do teenagers even treat their parents like this in the first place?This week on the podcast, I talked with Sean Grover, the author of the award-winning book When Kids Call the Shots: How to Seize Control from Your Darling Bully and Enjoy Being a Parent Again. Sean is an expert in child bullying behaviors. He teaches workshops to parents around the country and works privately with families and teens to end this kind of unruly behavior.Sean explained that, to teens, bullying is not about being mean. It's about getting what they want.He told me about a teen he worked with who was torturing his mom because she missed his piano recital. When Sean suggested the boy let his mom off the hook, he replied, "If I keep this up, I think I can get a new laptop."Yes, your teenager is bullying you in order to manipulate you and get what they want. Your teen has realized that he or she can get things out of you by making you feel bad about yourself.Sean has mapped out the most common types of bullying that occur in families and he's developed specific strategies for exactly how to get your teenager back under control. All of that (and much more) is covered in this episode.
Released:
Nov 15, 2018
Format:
Podcast episode
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