Soul-Ties: Breaking the Ties That Bind
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Soul-Ties - R.C. Blakes, Jr.
WORD
INTRODUCTION
LET’S JUMP RIGHT TO IT! I was a young kid and older women introduced me to sex. This experience perverted my young life and steered me down a path of depravity. I developed relationship after relationship based on things that were far away from any righteous foundation.
As I lived, I discovered that many of the women I had these encounters with were living in my head, many years after the affairs. They were in my SOUL, and in some cases, I was in theirs. Have you ever had anyone living in your head?
This reality would constantly creep into every new relationship and sabotage its success.
Why did my mind constantly revert to old people and old experiences? Why was my history imposing itself upon my present and even assassinating my destiny?
At the time, I had no understanding of spiritual dynamics, and I had no concept of soul-ties. It does not matter if we are aware or ignorant; if we contact fire, it will always burn us.
Ignorance is not bliss! Ignorance is dangerous and possibly fatal. I was in the grips of a demonic stronghold. I had developed soul-ties, and it took me many years to break free and to be my best self.
Over the years, I have dealt with hundreds of people who have gone through the same things I did. In some cases, my experiences have served to guide many through the treacherous waters of soul-ties. As you read this book, my prayer is that you too will find the freedom that others and I have attained.
R.C. Blakes, Jr.
CHAPTER 1.
WHAT ARE SOUL-TIES?
The very term soul-tie carries a sense of spooky spirituality. Religious people become apprehensive and suspicious. The term soul- tie is not found in the bible, but the principle and function of soul-ties are clearly there.
A soul-tie is defined as a spiritual and emotional connection that ties one person’s life to another in an ungodly fashion.
The Bible speaks of souls being knit together, becoming one flesh, etc.
For instance, the Bible says in 1 Samuel 18:1
And it came to pass, when he had made an end of speaking unto Saul, that the soul of Jonathan was knit with the soul of David, and Jonathan loved him as his own soul.
Here we see the souls of Jonathan and David being knit together in brotherhood. This is an example of a righteous soul-tie instigated by the Holy Spirit. The connection was healthy for both and provided a foundation for righteousness in both parties.
We see another biblical example of an unrighteous soul-tie that cost a man of God his anointing and his life. The biblical character is Samson and the soul-tie was with Delilah.
In Judges 16:15-21 it states: And she (Delilah) said unto him, How canst thou say, I love thee, when thine heart is not with me? thou hast mocked me these three times, and hast not told me wherein thy great strength lieth. And it came to pass, when she pressed him daily with her words, and urged him, so that his soul was vexed unto death; That he told her all his heart, and said unto her, There hath not come a razor upon mine head; for I have been a Nazarite unto God from my mother’s womb: if I be shaven, then my strength will go from me, and I shall become weak, and be like any other man. And when Delilah saw that he had told her all his heart, she sent and called for the lords of the Philistines, saying, Come up this