How To Have Sex If You're Not Human
By Mary Batten
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Despite all our love songs and romantic fantasies, reproduction is the name of the game in biology. All forms of life are genetically programmed to reproduce. Nothing is off limits so long as it produces babies. Animals—plants, too—“do it” in wild, bizarre ways. With both a vagina and a penis, hermaphroditic snails form orgiastic daisy chains. In the ultimate form of togetherness, walking sticks (insects, not skinny people) stay locked in copulo up to 79 days! Some reef fishes change sex—male to female or vice versa, depending on whether their social structure is headed by a dominant male or a dominant female. Pygmy chimpanzees called bonobos use sex to greet each other: male-male, female-female, male-female, young old—nothing is off limits to these animals with whom we share 96 percent of our DNA. Among bonobos, sex helps to keep the peace. Plants also have sexual lives but for them, three is not a crowd; it’s a necessity. Plants trick and seduce a variety of animals to do their sexual bidding by carrying the plant’s sperm—the pollen—to fertilize the female part of another blossom. Avocados and orchids, no less than mammals and insects, strive to reproduce.
Mary Batten
Mary Batten is an award-winning writer for television, film and publishing. Her many writing projects have taken her into tropical rainforests, astronomical observatories, scientific laboratories, and medical research centers. She is the author of Baby Orca (Penguin, scheduled for release spring 2016), Please Don’t Wake the Animals: A Book About Sleep (Peachtree 2008); Who Has a Belly Button? (Peachtree 2004); Aliens from Earth: When Animals and Plants Invade Other Ecosystems (Peachtree 2003) – 2006 Izaak Walton League of America Conservation Book of the Year Award; Adopted by New York City Public Schools in support of science requirement for study of ecosystems; Hey, Daddy! Animal Fathers and Their Babies – Named Outstanding Science Read Aloud 2003 by the National Association for the Advancement of Science (Peachtree 2002); Wild Cats (Random House 2002); Anthropologist: Scientist of the People -- Named Outstanding Science Trade Book for Children by the National Science Teachers Association and the Children’s Book Council (Houghton Mifflin 2001). Other books include: Hungry Plants (Random House, 2000); The Winking, Blinking Sea -- Named one of the Best Children’s Books for 2001 (Millbrook Press, 2000); Extinct! Creatures of the Past (Golden Books, 2000); Baby Wolf (Grosset and Dunlap, 1998); Sexual Strategies: How Females Choose Their Mates, (Tarcher/Putnam, 1994); Nature’s Tricksters (Sierra Club Books/Little Brown, 1992), Discovery By Chance (Funk and Wagnalls) and The Tropical Forest: Ants, Ants, Animals and Plants (T.Y. Crowell). She has appeared on OPRAH and various other television shows. Her magazine articles are published in a variety of publications, including Cosmopolitan, Ladies Home Journal, Modern Maturity, Shape, International Wildlife, National Geographic World, ZooNooz, and Science Digest, Mary Batten was nominated for an Emmy for her work on the Children's Television Workshop's science series 3-2-1-CONTACT, and she has written some 50 nature documentaries for television series, including the syndicated WILD WILD WORLD OF ANIMALS (Time-Life Films) and others for National Geographic and Disney Educational Films. Her magazine article for Science Digest, Sexual Choice: The Female’s Newly Discovered Role, won The Newswomen’s Club of New York’s Front Page Award for best feature story. She was editor of The Cousteau Society’s award-winning membership magazine, Calypso Log, for six years. She was married to the late composer Ed Bland. They have two children: dancer/choreographer Stefanie Batten Bland and writer Robert Bland.
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How To Have Sex If You're Not Human - Mary Batten
How to Have Sex if You’re Not Human
Intimate Journeys in Natural History
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Mary Batten
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TABLE OF CONTENTS
Chapter 1: How To Have Sex If You’re Not Human
Chapter 2: The Surprising Sex Life of Plants
Chapter 3: Sexual Olympics
Chapter 4: Beastly Love
Chapter 5: Earth’s Odd Couples
Chapter 6: Fishy Sex
Chapter 7: Survival Tactics
Chapter 8: Mating Strategies
Chapter 9: Weirdos of the Animal World
Chapter 10: Dinosaurs; Just When You Thought You Knew Everything About the Big Rascals
Chapter 11: Making It To the Top
Chapter 12: Sexual Choice: The Female’s Newly Discovered Role
Preface:
The essays in this collection comprise natural history articles that I wrote between 1980 and 1993. Three (How to Have Sex If You’re Not Human,
Weirdos of the Animal World,
and Dinosaurs: Just When You Thought You Knew Everything About the Big Rascals
) originally appeared in Cosmopolitan magazine. Six (The Surprising Sex Life of Plants,
Sexual Olympics,
Earth’s Odd Couples,
Survival Tactics,
Mating Strategies,
and Sexual Choice: The Female’s Newly Discovered Role
) originally appeared in Science Digest magazine, which ceased publication in 1986. The others are published for the first time in this collection. All deal with the fascinating, sometimes bizarre, mating behaviors and survival strategies in the animal and plant kingdoms.
In writing these articles, I was privileged to interview some of the top scientists in the world—men and women whose meticulous, painstaking work has contributed enormously to our understanding of the natural world. I am grateful to all of them for taking the time to answer my questions and share their work with me.
Since these articles were written, some of the scientists have moved to different institutions, others have retired and now have emeritus status, and others, sadly, have died.
As a science journalist, I have always found the natural world wilder than anything science fiction writers could possibly imagine: sex-changing fishes, hermaphroditic snails, and deceptive plants are just some of the ruses and strategies that all organisms use to achieve their reproductive ends. And make no mistake, for all our romanticizing, the drive to reproduce underlies much of our behavior, social structures, politics, religion, mythology and everything else we call culture. As Darwin reminded us in 1859 in his monumental work, The Origin of Species, In looking at Nature, it is most necessary to keep the foregoing considerations always in mind—never to forget that every single organic being may be said to be striving to the utmost to increase in numbers.
As a result of researching and writing these articles, I became intensely interested in female mate choice and the female’s role in evolution. The article that I wrote on this subject, Sexual Choice: The Female’s Newly Discovered Role,
which originally appeared in the March 1982 issue of Science Digest, won The Newswomen’s Club of New York’s Front Page Award for Best Magazine Feature of 1982. This article became the basis for my 1992 book, Sexual Strategies: How Females choose Their Mates, which was originally published by Jeremy P. Tarcher/Putnam. I brought out an updated edition of this book in 2008 through the Authors Guild BackInPrint Program with iUniverse.com.
Mary Batten
November 2011
Websites: marybatten.com
sexualstrategies.com
Chapter 1: How to Have Sex if You’re Not Human
If Freud had known more about the birds and bees, he might never have fantasized his theory of penis envy. In fact, a lot of theories about what sex is or ought to be might be vastly different if they were more firmly grounded in biology than in romance. The truth is: What passes for the story of the birds and the bees is a bedtime tale for innocents that leaves out more than it tells. In the reality of the wild, birds, bees, butterflies, snails—even orchids and avocados—do it
in ways that would make the erotic Hindu sculptures at Konarak blush all the way down to their stone toenails. A tableau of nonhuman sexual strategies includes cannibals, transvestites, hermaphrodites, homosexual rapists, males with two penises, and plants that deceive, seduce, and kill. When it comes to mixing genes—and biologically, that’s what sex is all about—anything and everything goes.
There are almost as many ways and positions for doing it
as they are creatures on the face of the Earth. Our human repertoire of seduction techniques seems unimaginative by comparison. Some animals and plants change sex as blithely as humans slip into evening clothes. Others resort to trickery—the biological equivalent of our sexual con games. A few animals even give up their lives for sex, but unlike us humans, they don’t have any choice in the matter.
In the nonhuman world, sexual behavior is genetically programmed. Here, sex is straight and unadulterated. Nobody worries about who’s on top or who comes first or whether orgasms are clitoral or vaginal. There are no value judgments attached—no crimes against nature,
sexual deviates, unnatural
sex acts. Evolution favors whatever strategy best enables an animal or plant to pass along its genes and leave successful offspring.
It’s fun to be a voyeur in the world of nonhuman sex, but there’s a more serious reason for paying close attention to the birds and the bees. Training binoculars on nonhuman erotic windows can provide new biological perspectives on human sexual behavior—particularly taboos and discrimination, rape, wife-beating, and possibly other forms of sexual aggression. First, however, it’s necessary to give up some of our human chauvinist ideas.
Switching Sexes
Sexual behavior that seems bizarre in some human circles is perfectly normal among other organisms. Every imaginable sex change occurs routinely, without controversy, operations, or gender-determination tests, among many species of coral reef fishes, for example.
For some species of wrasses, known as cleaner fish because they remove parasites from larger fish, sex reversal is a means of maintaining social order. These wrasses live in small groups consisting of a harem of three to six mature females, several immature offspring, and a dominant male. The young all start out as females, but can later switch gender under certain conditions. If the dominant male dies, for example, the largest female begins converting to male within half an hour, even if she’s carrying a bellyful of eggs. Both her behavior and biology change. She begins behaving like a male, courting the other females and aggressively defending her territory. Her sex glands, the gonads, undergo rapid reorganization. According to behavioral ecologist Dr. Ross Robertson, of the Smithsonian Tropical Research Institute in Panama, the new male can release sperm within two weeks. Fortunately or unfortunately, depending on your point of view, medical science hasn’t advanced enough to bring about such complete sexual transformation in human beings . . . not yet.
Sex change is even more common among plants. Yes, even the blooming plants do it! In this case, the switch serves to prevent the genetic havoc that can result from incest or self-pollination. Avocados, for example, aren’t as innocent and passive as they seem. Every twenty-four hours they change sex in full view of anyone who happens to be watching . . . but no one except the avocado knows the difference.
Each kind of avocado has two types of trees. Type A’s flowers may open as female in the morning, close in the afternoon, and open as male the next afternoon. Type B’s sex changes are exactly the reverse, male in the morning and female the next afternoon. This seemingly strange behavior prevents incest and ensures diversity by guaranteeing that a tree will be fertilized by pollen from another tree rather than from its own blossoms. The process is the botanical equivalent of incest taboos found in all but a very few human societies.
Hermaphroditism: Having It Both Ways
Another deviation from what we consider the sexual norm, hermaphroditism—the possession of both male and female genitals—is both normal and advantageous for animals and plants that have difficulty finding mates or live in small, isolated populations. Take the sea hare, a large marine snail endowed with a penis just to the right of its mouth and a vagina in the center of its back. Mating combinations for this anatomical wonder vary from conventional male-female pairing to orgiastic splendor that would titillate even hard-core porn aficionados. Imagine the viscous pleasure of a daisy chain in which each snail simultaneously performs both male and female functions. Hermaphroditism may be the way to have your sexual cake and eat it, too.
Sexual Tricksters
Contrary to our most moralistic fables, evolution favors such tricksters. The individual who can successfully put one over on its rivals usually wins out. Consider the transvestite scorpionfly. Courtship etiquette among this species demands that the male hunt down a large, tasty prey and present it to a female. Although he risks his life by exposing himself to predators as he hunts, he’s sure to die a virgin if he has no nuptial gift to attract a mate. Some opportunistic males have found a way out of this Catch-22 by becoming transvestites. Posing as females, these devious fellows grab a courting male’s nuptial gift and fly off to offer it to a female of their