I'm So Effing Hungry: Why We Crave What We Crave – and What to Do About It
By Amy Shah, MD
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Amy Shah, MD, leading medical doctor and Instagram personality @fastingmd, shares her proven 5-step program for battling excessive hunger and food cravings by harnessing the power of psychobiotics and intermittent fasting.
“My mission is to revolutionize the way we think about hunger and nutrition, and to help people manage hunger and cravings and break free from the tyranny of diets and battles with food. I’ve seen my program work for people all over the world. And it will work for you, too.” —from the introduction by Dr. Amy Shah
Dr. Amy Shah kept hearing the same complaints from her patients: “I feel hungry all the time, even when I just ate.” “My cravings are out of control.” They were white-knuckling it through yet another diet plan, only to feel depleted, frustrated, and really effing hungry.
So she created I’m So Effing Hungry, a science-based plan designed to help you take charge of your health and your cravings, without feeling deprived. As Dr. Shah explains, cravings aren’t your fault—and eating a healthier diet isn’t just a matter of self-discipline or willpower. There are powerful biological forces at play in your body that govern your hunger levels and cravings.
Drawing on the emerging science of psychobiotics—healthy gut bacteria that help improve mood and regulate hunger, weight, and cravings—Dr. Shah has created a 5-step plan to help you make peace with food and your body:
STEP 1. REPLENISH: your body by eating more nourishing, mood-balancing foods.
STEP 2. REWIRE: your brain to undo the addiction pathways and cravings for processed foods.
STEP 3. RESET: your circadian rhythm to activate hunger hormones that reduce your appetite.
STEP 4. REFRESH: with a good night’s sleep, using proven good sleep habits used by the U.S. military.
STEP 5. RETRAIN: your body with exercise that regulates key neurotransmitters that influence our hunger response.
Complete with more than thirty delicious recipes and peppered with easy Hunger Hacks and Cravings Crushers—like eating walnuts to reduce hunger and getting direct sunlight first thing in the morning—I’m So Effing Hungry is a complete guide to help you reframe decades-old dieting patterns and stop fighting the scale.
Amy Shah, MD
AMY SHAH, MD, is a double-board-certified medical doctor and nutrition expert with training from Cornell, Columbia, and Harvard Universities. Drawing from her background in internal medicine and allergy/immunology, as well as her own wellness journey, she has dedicated her practice to helping her patients feel better and live healthier through her integrative and holistic approach to wellness. She was named one of mindbodygreen’s Top 100 Women in Wellness to Watch in 2015 and appears regularly on national television shows and podcasts and in national magazines. She lives in Arizona with her family. To learn more, visit her on Instagram at @fastingmd or online at www.amymdwellness.com.
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I'm So Effing Hungry - Amy Shah, MD
Dedication
To my wonderful husband, Akshay, and my two children, Jaden and Lara, without whom this book would have been completed one year earlier. Jokes aside, I owe them everything and more. Thank you for being my rocks. And to my readers—I am nothing without you. I have so much gratitude for you.
Contents
Cover
Title Page
Dedication
Introduction: It’s Not Your Fault
Part I: The Hunger Puzzle
1: How Did My Hunger Get So Effed Up?
2: The Hunger Hijackers
3: The Power of Psychobiotics
4: Unlearned Eating: Are You Really Hungry?
Part II: 5 Steps to Freedom from Hunger and Cravings
5: Step 1: Replenish
6: Step 2: Rewire
7: Step 3: Reset
8: Step 4: Refresh
9: Step 5: Retrain
Part III: Effing Hungry No More!
10: Incredibly Filling Meals: Reset Your Hunger and Cravings in Two Weeks
11: Delicious Recipes That Keep You Full
Breakfast/Brunch Dishes
High-Fiber Vegan Banana Pancakes with Blueberry Sauce
Spicy Indian Eggs
High-Protein Oat Pudding with Cardamom and Plums
Chai Latte Oatmeal Bowl
Chickpea Omelet with Spinach and Goat Cheese
Turmeric Egg White Scramble with Kale, Chickpeas, Sweet Potatoes, and Yogurt
Mixed Berry Compote with Yogurt
Healthiest Yogurt Parfait
Entrees
Date-Olive Chicken/Tofu with Sautéed Kale
Lebanese Chopped Kale Salad with Air-Fried Falafel
Black Bean and Sweet Potato Hash
Stir-Fry with Tofu, Broccoli, Snow Peas, and Bean Sprouts
Crispy Air-Fried Tofu Lettuce Wraps
Crispy Berbere-Roasted Tofu and Vegetables
Curried Tofu Scramble with Spinach and Tomatoes
Roasted Tempeh and Broccoli with Peanut Sauce
Spiced Moroccan Lentils
Side Dishes, Soups, and Salads
Brussels Sprouts Stir-Fry with Walnuts and Lemon
Garlicky Baby Bok Choy and Shiitake Mushroom Stir-Fry
Kimchi
Yogurt Ranch Veggie Dip
Leek, Cabbage, and Sweet Potato Soup
Creamy Broccoli-Cheese Soup
Beverages
Coconut Kefir
Iced Oat Milk Chai
Vanilla Chai Protein Shake
Peppermint-Mocha Sipper
Sweet Cherry–Almond Butter Smoothie
Kombucha
Treats
Dark Chocolate–Dipped Fruit
Dark Chocolate–Peppermint Coins with Cacao Nibs
Fudgy Black Bean Brownies
Pumpkin Spice Chia Seed Pudding
Green Tea Yogurt Bowl with Berries and Chocolate
Acknowledgments
Bibliography
Index
About the Author
Also by Amy Shah, MD
Copyright
About the Publisher
Introduction: It’s Not Your Fault
It’s Not Your Fault
I once caught an episode of Sex and the City that made me laugh, cringe, and feel sad all at the same time. Miranda Hobbes—the brilliant, hard-working, efficient, and articulate corporate lawyer—was standing in her kitchen.
Miranda picked up a small piece of chocolate cake and ate it, but then decided to toss the rest of the cake into the garbage can, presumably to stop herself from finishing it off. But wait—she then plucked another piece of the cake right out of the trash can and devoured it. Disgusted, she squirted liquid dishwashing detergent over the trashed cake so there was no way to wash the cake off, much less eat it.
Amusing? Yes. Gross? Kinda. Unusual? No!
Honestly, it is very normal to crave certain foods, and these cravings are not always the result of the disordered eating seen in this fictional example. I’ve talked to, and worked with, thousands of people from all walks of life and from all over the world who deal with hunger issues and cravings. They make three-o’clock runs to the coffeehouse for a latte and sweet treat, open the fridge to satisfy midnight cravings, eat off their kids’ plates, love sugary foods, plan cheat days, and all the while go on and off diets. In every city they’ve ever lived, they can give you directions from any part of it to the nearest convenience store, fast food joint, donut shop, or deli.
And why?
Because they feel famished all the time, even after finishing off a delicious meal. Or they simply crave sweet, salty, or crunchy stuff constantly. Or they’re lonely or stressed out, and to comfort themselves, they cave into cravings. Some are just plain addicted to food, especially sugar, and feel very out of control with food in their eating habits.
Many of these women (myself included) have suffered through never-ending, harmful cycles of weight loss and weight gain. They’ve tried diet clubs, low-carb, keto, paleo, vegan, and other flavor-of-the-month diets so many times that they’ve lost count. They’ve stressed over all this and have struggled with their poor relationship with food.
Let me tell you a story about my 37-year-old patient Monica, who like the fictional Miranda was an attorney with a successful practice. She restricted her food intake during the week but went overboard on the weekends with lots of wine and late-night, carb-filled meals. She would eat a full meal, only to continue eating second and third helpings. During a vacation to Colombia one year, she was served a dinner of fresh breaded shrimp on board a boat—a local specialty. As she drank more wine, she ate more until she was stuffed. Yet she couldn’t stop—and even went for a third helping, snuck in after everyone else was asleep.
On a deeper psychological side, Monica was depressed by this behavior and had developed so much anxiety over food that she couldn’t eat anything without guilt. She felt out of control when it came to her appetite and eating, and she didn’t know how much food was enough.
Monica asked me, Am I crazy for doing this?
Of course, I assured her that she was not and that she was not at all alone, and that her story is all too common these days.
For many women like Monica, hunger has become their great enemy, and they’re constantly fighting it. The battle steals their self-confidence, piles on guilt (and pounds), and makes their spirits ache. This fight has owned them for so long that freedom from it seems elusive.
You get the picture.
Maybe you’re in it.
And you’re wondering: Why am I so effing hungry?
The Real Reasons for Hunger
So many people (like the old me) needlessly go through life suffering because of their relationship with food and constant need to give in to cravings They feel like food cravings have a strong hold over their lives. They walk around all day, thinking about their next meal. They feel beaten down by their lack of willpower to resist food. Nobody wants to go through life like this, but it happens despite their best intentions—far more often than you might realize.
Does any of this sound familiar?
If so, I’ve got the best possible news for you: Constant hunger and cravings are not your fault! Seriously, I repeat, it’s not your fault.
They are NOT caused by a result of what you DO. Nor are they a sign of weakness or a lack of strength. And they have little to do with willpower. Willpower, self-restraint, discipline—none of that effing matters in this case. So repeat after me: It’s not my fault.
Okay, so I know you’re wondering—If it’s not my fault, what exactly is the problem?
There are not one but three big problems at work. I will elaborate a bit more in this introduction and explain in much greater detail throughout the book, but here’s the short version. The first problem has to do with a societal response to food that has been engineered by food manufacturers to be highly palatable and addictive.
The second is a psychological response, often brought on by moods or emotions. Emotional triggers to eat include stress, loneliness, habit, boredom, or anger, as well as more enjoyable feelings like happiness and celebration. (Food companies capitalize on these issues, too.)
The third is a physiological response—controlled by your brain and your gut and of which you are unaware—that causes your hunger and satiety (fullness) signals to stop working as they should. True hunger, of course, is mostly a physiological need for nutrients to fuel your body. Just like your car requires gas to function, your body needs food and nutrients to survive and thrive. Once your tank is empty, you must refill it.
So, when you find yourself constantly hungry, craving certain foods, and not able to stop eating—these are the main reasons why this happens.
This is largely information no one has told you about before, at least not the food and diet industries. And probably not even your doctor. Doctors will blame you for your hunger and cravings because they don’t understand the physiology or the neuroscience themselves—these topics are not taught in medical school.
For decades, we’ve been brainwashed to believe that if someone has a weight problem it’s because they eat too much. They need to consume fewer calories than they burn—slashing calories and eliminating foods is the answer. And if you do this, you too can look like Gwyneth Paltrow! Not true—and a total myth. (No offense, Gwyneth!)
In fact, in medical school, doctors are taught this myth—and we’re taught that to solve the issue, people just have to stop eating so much. But it turns out it’s not that easy. Being overweight and gaining excess weight are not simply a matter of calories in and calories out. There’s so much more, including the involvement of hormones and the neuroscience of hunger and appetite. These factors, however, are not adequately covered in medical school, unfortunately.
And don’t think for a moment you’ll always be a prisoner of your cravings—without a solution. You can do something about this and I’m going to give you the solution in this book. The program I share in these pages will naturally tame out-of-control hunger and cravings, help you trust your hunger signals, stop dieting, and free you from negative feelings associated with food and eating.
This book and the 5-step plan evolved from my experiences studying nutrition, becoming a doctor, working with patients, and researching little-known facts about the gut, brain, emotions, and hunger. It was developed to help the thousands of people like you with whom I’ve worked over the past few years and who have struggled with hunger, cravings, food anxiety and guilt, weight ups and downs—and have even been known to walk twenty blocks for their favorite dessert. Happily, using this plan and its steps, my patients have escaped the angst of being hungry all the time. The same success can happen to you! (You’ll read more of my patients’ stories later in this book, and I know they will inspire you and give you hope.)
Now for some background.
Unraveling the Mysteries of Hunger
Before I became a double-board-certified doctor of medicine (internal medicine and allergy/immunology), I obtained a bachelor’s degree in nutrition at Cornell University’s Division of Nutritional Sciences, which offers one of the country’s top-notch programs.
Nutrition was a topic that had always fascinated me. In high school, I became worried after my grandmother was diagnosed with type 2 diabetes—a disease my grandfather had died from when he was only 60. Not only that, my dad and his four brothers had all been diagnosed with diabetes in their early thirties. One of my uncles is a cardiologist who once reminded us over a carb-filled family dinner that no one in our family lived past the age of 60.
Since moving to the U.S. at age 5, I had noticed that my parents’ dietary habits started to veer from eating the vegetarian-based meals of our Indian culture—lots of vegetables, roti, and other traditional foods—toward eating more of the processed foods so prevalent in a Western diet. Although they still enjoyed our traditional cuisine, they began to eat pizza, fast food, and nachos a few nights a week and drank a lot of cola. Doritos became their favorite snack. I knew this behavior was largely responsible for their diabetes and had certainly worsened it. I wanted to figure out how to curb these eating habits and prevent my family and other families from having to deal with diabetes and its possible consequences.
What also terrified me was that diabetes doesn’t just affect someone in the short term. It is a leading cause of death because it triggers the onset of cardiovascular disease, kidney and nerve problems, and many other serious issues.
These weren’t just things that happen to other people, either. They were happening right in my own family. So I decided to take an active role in my father’s health care by monitoring his diet and nutrition and trying different diets with him—high fat, low carb, vegan, paleo, Ayurveda (a natural system of medicine that originated in India more than three thousand years ago that I learned growing up in my family’s culture), among others. When I got involved, my father was game to make changes, and I was proud of his attitude and motivation.
Eventually, we landed on a plan that worked—and worked wonders. Over a two-year period, my father went from using 50 units of insulin to fewer than 20, lost 30 pounds, and received consistent reports of improved health from his doctor. And he no longer craved sugary, processed foods.
Over the years, I refined this plan based on my education and experience as a doctor. Now it forms the blueprint of the programs I tailor for my patients and clients and led to my writing my first book, I’m So Effing Tired, in 2021.
With this new book—I’m So Effing Hungry—I cover brand-new territory. Different hormones. Different insights into nutrition. Different plan. Plus, I present cutting-edge science about what goes on inside the body to control hunger, appetite, and cravings. Hunger is a completely different beast than fatigue, and in this book you’ll learn some amazing facts about why you’re so effing hungry and what to do about it.
My mission is to revolutionize the way people eat. To change the way they think about hunger and nutrition. To help them handle hunger and cravings—and break free from the tyranny of diets and battles with food. This program can give you the tools to handle all the hunger
you have in life (i.e., hunger
for good relationships, more purpose, bigger impact). I’ve seen my program work for women all over the world. And it will work for you, too.
I’m thankful I started on this path by studying nutrition first. It taught me about food science, the role of nutrients, what happens to your body when you eat different foods, and the various diseases associated with nutritional deficiencies. Not many doctors have this kind of background.
When I was a nutrition student at Cornell, I attended nutritional conferences and seminars to augment my knowledge. It was at these events that I became aware of a strange and alarming disconnect.
I remember with crystal clarity the first conference I went to. Held at the Hynes Convention Center in Boston, the conference was littered with booths decorated with huge, bold, and colorful banners and where freebies, pens, and other knickknacks were being given out. I entered the center, frazzled and sweating from trying to find a parking space and walking around in ill-fitting high heels to try to fit in. I was young and inexperienced but I was there to absorb. After registering, I was handed a huge canvas bag filled with samples and pamphlets from food giants like Nestlé, General Mills, and Kraft.
Educational sessions were sponsored by different companies, particularly big-name cereal companies. One seminar covered how gluten was being falsely accused of causing gastrointestinal troubles. I was surprised. Whenever I ate gluten, my stomach hurt, I lost energy, and I got bloated. A lot of people are sensitive to gluten, and I’m one of them—so I was mystified by hearing gluten being presented in such a positive light—and without acknowledgment of those who had a sensitivity.
There was also a session covering the China Study—a huge research project about the health benefits of a vegan diet—in which the presenter discussed the link between eating meat and developing cancer. As a lifelong vegetarian, I was fascinated by that session. But I was MORE shocked to see so much processed meat served at the luncheon right after this seminar!
Overall, I just couldn’t believe there was so much blatant promotion of processed food over real food at a convention where nutrition was the topic. No wonder so many people were dealing with weight gain, obesity, diabetes, and other food-related illnesses—many medical professionals and practitioners didn’t even have a basic familiarity with good nutrition.
Those experiences really opened my eyes. We were (and are) being so duped! These conventions, which normalize or even encourage the consumption of processed food and dismiss health trends that focus on food sensitivities, are part of the societal connection to hunger that I mentioned earlier.
I went on to medical school, first at the Albert Einstein College of Medicine in New York City, followed by a residency at Harvard Medical School’s Beth Israel Deaconess Medical Center in Boston. Three years later, I was accepted into the Columbia Presbyterian Hospital/Columbia University immunology program.
While I was in medical school, I was taught everything a doctor-to-be needed to know about anatomy, physiology, disease, and treatments. But I don’t remember learning much about nutrition or preventive medicine. What little I did learn comprised about 15 percent of my nutritional knowledge.
After many years of school and training, I started my private practice, thrilled to put all my training to work. But deep down, I knew that my special training and expertise would be mostly wasted in the Western model of medicine, with its emphasis on treating symptoms rather than finding the root causes of illness and preventing them. Western medicine has some strengths in addition to its weaknesses, for sure, and it is great in an emergency or when surgery is needed. But it often fails to support illness prevention and the self-healing processes that go on inside the body.
I was determined to change the way I practiced medicine to impact more people.
While all of my education has been enormously important and formed a tremendous foundation, I decided to teach and practice in a way that was different, using my South Asian upbringing and my special in-depth training in nutrition and immunology to treat people successfully. I’m named as a medical doctor on my diplomas, but I consider myself a practitioner of integrative medicine as well. This means that I focus on healing through nutrition, wellness, and lifestyle.
Psychobiotics, Hunger, Cravings—and You
Since the publication of my first book, I’m So Effing Tired—which offers a proven plan for overcoming the issue of fatigue in women—I’ve been studying the forces behind excessive hunger and food cravings.
As I mentioned, I was motivated to explore this topic because so many of my patients as well as other women were telling my how constantly hungry they were and that they prayed that the next day would be different. Their urges for different types of food—sugary, salty, crunchy, and all of the above—were strong and real. Some could open a bag of potato chips and eat every chip in a