The Power of Five
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On October 3, 1996, La'Shea Cretain was shot five times by her ex-boyfriend. Then he turned the gun around, shooting and killing himself. La'Shea was only 18-years old at the time, with two young children. La'Shea's injuries were so severe that responding officers listed La'Shea as a 'victim'. But La'She
La'Shea Cretain
Lashea Cretain is a mother, faith counselor, activist and a popular motivational speaker. She has spoken at events for Moms Demand Action for Gun Sense in America, The Brady Campaign, and Women's Day. Her uplifting and empowering message of turning adversity into your own inner-strength has inspired everyone who has ever heard her speak. Now, she is sharing her story with the world.
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The Power of Five - La'Shea Cretain
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UNLIKELY ACTIVIST
Speaking at Atlanta GSU in 2018
My name is La’Shea Cretain. Like millions of Americans, I am a gun violence survivor.
A few years back, my daughter Shayla and I were kicking back, watching Keeping up with the Kardashians - like you do on a lazy Sunday afternoon. It happened to be an episode where Kim was talking about her passion for gun sense laws, and her work with a group called Everytown for Gun Safety. Shayla turned to me and said, You have to look into the group that Kim is talking about.
It had never really occurred to me that my story could help anyone else. I never considered myself an activist or an advocate, but when I looked up Everytown, and their other group, Moms Demand Action for Gun Sense in America, I realized that that this was something I had to do.
Since joining Moms and Everytown, I’ve told my story at many events all across the country. My story has been printed in Time Magazine, the New York Times, and Vogue, along with many other publications. I am living with five bullets inside my body, but as I said in my quote recently for artist Jenny Holzer’s installation in New York City, I consider myself lucky compared with people who have lost their loved ones to gun violence.
It’s not always easy for me to tell my story. It’s hard for me to relive it time and time again. It takes a physical toll on my body to stand for long periods of time. But my hope is that, by sharing my story here, I can help someone else overcome their own trials. Because despite all the things that divide us, there is one thing that unites us – we will all face our own challenges at some point. This is the story of how I discovered the Power of Five inside of myself to help me heal and fight my way back from being shot by my ex-boyfriend. I hope that those powers can help give you strength, too.
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SHOT
2013 X-Ray taken in San Diego, CA.
Iremember waking up the morning of October 3, 1996 thinking it was going to be a good day. The hot, humid Louisiana summer was finally breaking. Sunlight and a slight breeze were drifting in through the window at my Great Aunt’s house. My baby girl was sleeping peacefully beside me. Her big brother was resting across the room beside my Great Aunt. My dad had bought a car for me for graduation a few months earlier. He had been doing a little work on it, but he was bringing it to my Aunt’s house later that day. I couldn’t wait to have that freedom. I was planning where to begin my new life with my babies. Little did I know that in a few hours, I would be shot.
My Aunt and I had a great day together. I’ve always loved kids and even though I was ashamed at times to have two babies from two different fathers by the time I was eighteen, I loved my kids with all my heart. I was determined to be a good mother. But that afternoon, as I walked to my Great Aunt’s front door, my body was full of dread. My ex Ricky Jr. was there, waiting for me. I was so tired of fighting. I’d broken up with him a year earlier, due to his mood swings and our volatile relationship. But he wouldn’t take no for an answer.
Ricky Jr. had already stopped by earlier that day and slapped me. I did not want to see him again, but his mother Mrs. C had come to the house, begging me to talk to her son. He was threatening to take his own life. My Great Aunt and I had just finished feeding my four-month old daughter Shayla and my almost two-year old son Donte. I went to the door and faced Ricky Jr. through the glass screen. I told him once again that it was over and that I didn’t want to open the door or go anywhere with him. The last words I said to him were, "Ricky, I love you. You can have the