The Path Leads Here: How to live mindfully in a busy world
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Finding a way to deal with the stresses, pressures, and anxieties of modern living can be hugely challenging. This book collection of contemplations and simple exercises can help.
The Path Leads Here: How to Live Mindfully in a Busy World, helps us understand how to change perspective, and how to re-think the ways we
Simon Michaels
Simon Michaels combines 30 years experience in business management with 25 years meditation and mindfulness practice. 'My mission is to create happier workplaces, and a kinder world. Whilst the delivery of my work, essays and courses is entirely secular, I'm also an ordained Buddhist. This ancient wisdom is the foundation for effective mindfulness practice, as my belief is that sound ethical values must underpin the techniques used. I have formal qualifications in business support, coaching, and mindfulness teaching.'
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The Path Leads Here - Simon Michaels
The path leads here
Whatever paths and spiritual journeys we may take, the only destination is right here, right now. The answer to our quest for understanding is right in front of our face, if only we could see it.
This is the great secret. It’s so simple that we don’t notice it. It’s like the story of the fish:
One day, a fish was swimming around, much like every other day. He did his chores, ate, swam with the shoal, cheekily dipped a fin at an attractive she-fish, and opened his gills to catch the oxygen, as usual. This day, everything was calm, and his mind was still and open. Quite suddenly he noticed something that changed everything - yet changed nothing at all. He noticed the water.
In the same way, there comes a point in meditation practice when we realise that Awareness exists beyond ‘my’ awareness, and that it is has always been present. When this insight comes, life transforms. Nothing changes. We still have to get up, deal with family, work, breathe, eat, go to the loo, sleep. There are still bad times and good times, life and death, mediocre and amazing coffees. At the same time our perspective alters, and that changes everything. We know that we are no longer, and never have been, separate from Existence itself - an unchanging field of infinite possibility.
When this becomes apparent, we understand that everything we perceive, feel and think is no more than a temporary appearance in the mind. And that our mind has a space-like, infinite, non-judging and timeless quality.
Happily, this realisation is not difficult to come by. We just have to create the right conditions and one day, the truth quite unexpectedly appears. The core conditions for its discovery are to be in a relaxed, yet alert state and to take the approach that it’s not about ‘me’.
Right now, as you read this, you can touch on this realisation. Consider your thoughts; notice that between each thought there is a gap. Or look for the gap between your in-breath and out-breath. Catch the feeling of this gap. It has no ‘me’ to it. It is simply a gap. It has no agenda, and it is unchanging. Now, try to rest your awareness in that gap, simply staying present to the spacious quality of this moment.
‘Mindfulness’ is the term that’s used today for the practice of 'staying with' this awareness.
When we stay present with mindful attention to this ever present awareness, our perspective changes, suffering reduces, and life feels better.
The paths we take in our spiritual journeys will be different for you and for me, but all the paths lead back here.
This precious life
Live now. What are you waiting for?
Look around as if this might be your last day on Earth. Listen as if it might be the last day you hear. Take in the scent of the next flower you find as if you might never smell another. Savour the sweetness of the next fruit you eat as if you may lose the ability to taste tonight. Open up to the touch of another person’s skin as if you might never hold anyone’s hand again.
We don't know when we’ll lose our senses, but one thing is certain: sooner or later we will lose it all. We have this precious gift of being alive, conscious and aware. Just knowing that, and realising the fragility of our health and life, gives us every reason for simple celebration, in every moment.
Of course, life and its challenges distract us. We might go for days or weeks wrapped up in our problems and busy-ness. Days or weeks can pass without the delight that simply being alive can bring.
We don't need a bigger house, a faster car, more sex, a better job, or more zeros at the end of our bank statement to appreciate this simple joy in being alive. It's right here, within you. It is accessible in any moment - like now... and now... and now...
How to wake up and feel good
It is common to release a huge burst of stress hormones within minutes after waking. This can affect us for the whole day. The stress hormone cortisol, for example, is very persistent in the bloodstream. So, it's really useful to get the day off on the right track from the first moment. I've had some personal challenges to cope with in my life, some quite recently. What I'm about to share has helped me through these difficult times.
The first moments of consciousness on waking follow a particular pattern. First of all, there’s a kind of innocent, open quality – similar to when you’re staying away from home, and for a second or two you can’t think where you are. This is actually a great moment to tune in to our naturally ‘unformatted’ consciousness.
The second thing that happens is that we remember who we are and all our problems can come flooding back in. We may replay internal conversations and fantasies from the night before, or recall a stressful situation we've been (or might go) through.
The third thing that arises upon waking, within a second or less, is the emotional response to all that mental confusion. It can be overwhelming. So we need a powerful practice to counteract the negativity and the stress that can result – and we need to deploy it really quickly.
So here is my formula:
1) Gratitude. Think of one thing you are thankful for. It can be as simple as waking up safe and warm, with food in the fridge. Recognise how much we take for granted. For example, your body’s systems have kept you breathing without any conscious effort all night, and your blood’s pH level has been maintained perfectly, all by itself. Our bodies truly are miraculous.
2) Get perspective. Ask yourself this question: ‘Am I happy to be alive?’ Even if you have problems, or are suffering anxiety or depression, are you nevertheless grateful to experience this life as a conscious human being? This question helps me realise that whatever difficulties are present, they are temporary and in a state of constant change, that it’s all just ‘stuff’. The bigger picture is that I’m actually okay, I just have stuff to deal with. Your answer to the question, 'Am I happy to be alive?' will probably be ‘yes’. If your answer is ‘no’, however, get help – you’re probably suffering acute anxiety or depression and you may not have the resources to get out of it by yourself. And that’s ok too.
3) Get up and move. If you feel stuck mentally, the body feels it too. You can, however, reverse the whole thing by moving your body. Yoga, exercise, a brisk walk or a run, can be hugely effective, partly due to the well-documented dopamine release. If you are indoors, opening the window will help, but ideally get outside, into nature if possible or just the local park. While you are there, use all your senses take in your environment and make this sensory experience the focus of your attention.
Hooray! It’s hopeless.
Nothing is certain or reliably the same. So where does that leave us with finding joy in the things we value?
Well oddly enough, it’s exactly in the knowledge that everything changes all the time that we can take some comfort and, ultimately, find freedom and bliss.
One of the core foundations of Buddhist philosophy is impermanence. The theory goes that as every thing is assembled from components, at some stage it must fall apart again. Some things disassemble pretty quickly, like the mayflies whose adult life does not even last 24 hours. Mountain ranges take millions of years to break