Almost Everything Quotes

“Help is the sunny side of control.”
― Anne Lamott, Almost Everything: Notes on Hope

“More than any other sentence I have ever come across, I love Ram Dass’s line that when all is said and done, we are all just walking each other home.”
― Anne Lamott, Almost Everything: Notes on Hope

“Haters want us to hate them, because hate is incapacitating. When we hate, we can’t operate from our real selves, which is our strength.”
― Anne Lamott, Almost Everything: Notes on Hope

“Books! To fling myself into a book, to be carried away to another world while being at my most grounded, on my butt or in my bed or favorite chair is literally how I have survived being here at all.”
― Anne Lamott, Almost Everything: Notes on Hope

“There were moments when I understood that there was nothing much I was going to understand or figure out. There was simply the present moment, awareness, impermanence, birdsong, love. There is no fixing this setup here. It seems broken and ruined at times, but it isn’t: it’s simply the nature of human life.”
― Anne Lamott, Almost Everything: Notes on Hope

“The Dalai Lama said that “religion is like going out to dinner with friends. Everyone may order something different, but everyone can still sit at the same table.”
― Anne Lamott, Almost Everything: Notes on Hope

“...when humans experience something as powerful as a forest or a rainbow, it is not crazy to assign its existence to a Greater Intelligence.”
― Anne Lamott, Almost Everything: Notes on Hope

“Almost everyone is screwed up, broken, clingy, scared, and yet designed for joy. Even (or especially) people who seem to have it more or less together are more like the rest of us than you would believe. I try not to compare my insides to their outsides, because this makes me much worse than I already am,”
― Anne Lamott, Almost Everything: Notes on Hope

“We have all we need to come through. Against all odds, no matter what we’ve lost, no matter what messes we’ve made over time, no matter how dark the night, we offer and are offered kindness, soul, light, and food, which create breath and spaciousness, which create hope, sufficient unto the day.”
― Anne Lamott, Almost Everything: Notes on Hope

“What helps is that we are not all crazy and hopeless on the same day.”
― Anne Lamott, Almost Everything: Notes on Hope

“My lifelong and core belief, right after the conviction that I was defective, mildly annoying, and better than everyone else was that my help was helpful.”
― Anne Lamott, Almost Everything: Notes on Hope

“If it is someone else’s problem, you probably don’t have the solution.”
― Anne Lamott, Almost Everything: Notes on Hope

“Peace of mind is an inside job, unrelated to fame, fortune, or whether your partner loves you. Horribly, what this means is that it is also an inside job for the few people you love most desperately in the world. We cannot arrange lasting safety or happiness for our most beloved people. They have to find their own ways, their own answers. Not one single person in history has gotten an alcoholic sober. (Maybe you’ll be the first. But—and I say this with love—I doubt it.) If it is someone else’s problem, you probably don’t have the solution.”
― Anne Lamott, Almost Everything: Notes on Hope

“There is almost nothing outside you that will help in any kind of lasting way,”
― Anne Lamott, Almost Everything: Notes on Hope

“The medieval German mystic Meister Eckhart said that if the soul could have known God without the world, God never would have created the world.”
― Anne Lamott, Almost Everything: Notes on Hope

“At the same time, the truth is that we are beloved, even in our current condition, by someone; we have loved and been loved. We have also known the abyss of love lost to death or rejection, and that it somehow leads to new life. We have been redeemed and saved by love, even as a few times we have been nearly destroyed, and worse, seen our children nearly destroyed. We are who we love, we are one, and we are autonomous.”
― Anne Lamott, Almost Everything: Notes on Hope

“For thirty years, she has answered all of my distressed or deeply annoyed phone calls by saying, “Hello, Dearest. I’m so glad it’s you!” I’ve come to believe that this is how God feels when I pray, even at my least attractive.”
― Anne Lamott, Almost Everything: Notes on Hope

“When we are stuck in our convictions and personas, we enter into the disease of having good ideas and being right.”
― Anne Lamott, Almost Everything: Notes on Hope

“Jesus was a rabbi, schooled by rabbis, who thought like rabbis. Rabbis, upon being asked a question by a disciple, usually answer with a paradoxical inquiry or a story. This can be annoying and time-consuming for those of us looking for neat, simple answers. But truth is too wild and complex to be contained in one answer, so Jesus often responded with a question or a parable.”
― Anne Lamott, Almost Everything: Notes on Hope

“..The people you lose here on this side of eternity, whom you can no longer call or text, will live fully again both in your heart and in the world. They will make you smile and talk out loud at the most inappropriate times. Of course, their absence will cause lifelong pangs of homesickness, but grief, friends, time, and tears will heal you to some extent. Tears will bathe, baptize, and hydrate you and the seeds beneath the surface of the ground on which you walk.”
― Anne Lamott, Almost Everything: Notes on Hope

“The lesson here is that there is no fix. There is, however, forgiveness. To forgive yourselves and others constantly is necessary. Not only is everyone screwed up, but everyone screws up.”
― Anne Lamott, Almost Everything: Notes on Hope

“We have to make ourselves available to one another, or we can’t experience goodness. It’s not so much us seeking God, tracking Her down with a butterfly net; it’s agreeing to be found. The Old Girl reaches out to everyone and wants to include us in this beautiful, weird, sometimes anguished life. All people: go figure.”
― Anne Lamott, Almost Everything: Notes on Hope

“My good ideas for other people so often seem to annoy them.”
― Anne Lamott, Almost Everything: Notes on Hope

“Empathy says: You and I are made of the same lovely, heartbroken, and screwed-up stuff.”
― Anne Lamott, Almost Everything: Notes on Hope

“Haters want us to hate them because hate is incapacitating. When we hate we can't operate from our real selves, which is our strength.”
― Anne Lamott, Almost Everything: Notes on Hope

“Besides, those few people who aren’t a mess are probably good for about twenty minutes of dinner conversation.

This is good news, that almost everyone is petty, narcissistic, secretly insecure, and in it for themselves, because a few of the funny ones may actually long to be friends with you and me. They can be real with us, the greatest relief.

As we develop love, appreciation, and forgiveness for others over time, we may accidentally develop those things toward ourselves, too.”
― Anne Lamott, Almost Everything: Notes on Hope

“Those plates would be filled with love, pride, and connection. That care is what we have longed for our whole lives, and what we create when we are kinder to our bodies and our hungry souls.”
― Anne Lamott, Almost Everything: Notes on Hope

“I hoped her life would turn topsy-turvy enough to get her attention. Topsy-turvy is often a symptom for the presence of God—the last become first, the hungry are fed, the obnoxious are welcomed.”
― Anne Lamott, Almost Everything: Notes on Hope

“I absolutely don't buy into the current mania for tidiness and decluttering. For a writer, piles of papers and notes are a fertile field. Keep all those books you read in college, or had certainly meant to read. Keep all those clothes that last fit during the Carter administration. Or give them away. It's for you to choose. You has value.”
― Anne Lamott, Almost Everything: Notes on Hope

“To paraphrase Paul Tillich, the opposite of faith is not doubt, but certainty.”
― Anne Lamott, Almost Everything: Notes on Hope