A podcast where an aromantic asexual girl and a biromantic demisexual girl talk about all things to do with love, relationships, sexuality, and pretty much anything else that they just don't understand.
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Nix (she/they) gives advice from her neuroqueer anti-capitalist perspective. Like talking to your favorite aunt...if that aunt were a tired, disabled, autistic, anarcho-communist 😘
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This podcast is the audio companion to my written blog, where I explore my experiences of life, disability, chronic illness, mental health, and general life lessons. Step inside my little head, and listen to some of my big thoughts.
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A GenZer and a GenXer rage about every damnable topic under heaven. Featuring Bryan Todd and Cuyler Marshall.
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Understanding your personal health journey can be a perilous and exciting journey! Learn about one woman's struggle, as a single, self-employed artist to navigate her self-health through the challenges of chronic illness, spiritual questions and life altering surgery. Learn about coping mechanisms and resources in this transparent storytelling, and participate in your own path to healing with the short, included workbook. Start navigating your own self-health today!
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Lovers by Shan is an education-first space where listeners come to better understand their own intimate lives through the life lessons and expertise of others. Shan Boodram’s mission is to empower everyone to be their own intimacy expert in the bedroom and beyond by treating guests of the podcast as educators in their own right. Past guest include Kelly Rowland who taught us about being a sensualist. Becky G who shared the importance of healthy love in an unhealthy body. Kerry Washington who ...
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Here we will be talking about love (in its simplicity and complication), sex of course, consent, sexuality, as we find them written in books. I am excited about this and I hope that you are a bit curious to see where these conversations take us.
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Each episode we go through a label in the LGBTQ+ community and try to explain what it means and bust any myths about it.
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We get curious about all things gender, sex and sexuality, as well as relationships, feminism (the inclusive kind), mental health and kink, and all that makes us humans unique and diverse. From body positivity to body dysmorphia, it’s all welcome here. Come with us on a journey of inclusion, acceptance and respect. This podcast is for you if: • You're curious and want to learn more about experiences of gender outside the gender binary; • You are questioning your gender, or • You have a loved ...
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Very Handsome, Very Chill, and Extremely Dutch
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1:13:25Also: • Aardvark, Van der Kaamp, Beethoven, Roosevelt, Ruurlo • I Was a Ho, Bryan • Funny How White These Schools Were • What Generation of Communist Sympathizers are They Raising? • I Oughta Kick Your Ass Right Up Between Your Eyeballs • We Have Local Blast Chambers • The Booty Was Called, the Booty Responded • He's a Filthy, Greasy Rat Bag, and K…
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Episode 11 – Your Curiosity is Not Worth My Trauma
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6:02Your Curiosity is Not Worth My Trauma Find the written version of this blog at - https://nelltyler.com/2024/11/29/your-curiosity-is-not-worth-my-trauma/ Find more content from me at: YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@nell_tyler_warninghonestyahead Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/the_nell_tyler/ TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@the_nell_tyler…
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Please Don't Look at Kevin Find the written version of this blog at - https://nelltyler.com/2024/11/08/please-dont-look-at-kevin/Find more content from me at: YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@nell_tyler_warninghonestyahead Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/the_nell_tyler/ TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@the_nell_tyler Facebook - https://www.…
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Can You Hear Me Now? Find the written version of this blog at - https://nelltyler.com/2024/10/17/can-you-hear-me-now/Find more content from me at: YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@nell_tyler_warninghonestyahead Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/the_nell_tyler/ TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@the_nell_tyler Facebook - https://www.facebook.com…
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If It Is Broke, Why Fix It? Find the written version of this blog at - https://nelltyler.com/2024/09/01/if-it-is-broke-why-fix-it/Find more content from me at: YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@nell_tyler_warninghonestyaheadInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/the_nell_tyler/TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@the_nell_tylerFacebook - https://www.fa…
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S2 Ep121: Having the Sex I’d Want My Daughter to Expect with Xosha
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1:05:22What kind of stories do we pass down through the way we love? Actor and mom Xosha Roquemore sits down with Shan to talk about sex, self-worth, and how becoming a mother shifted everything. It starts with one question she asked that stopped us both: “Have the kind of sex you’d be proud to tell your daughter about.” We talk about the early messages s…
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Ep 346: Reddit Rabbit Hole (AITA) pt. 17
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1:06:47Hey what's up hello! We are back and so are the people who make so many bad decisions and then post about them on Reddit. Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/bookBy Sounds Fake But Okay
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S2 Ep120: It Doesn’t End With Him - Jessie Woo on Love and Pursuing Great Sex After Sexual Assault
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1:09:00Reclaiming Intimacy: Jessie Woo’s Journey Beyond Trauma. Comedian and media personality Jessie Woo joins Shan for a powerful conversation about healing, love, and rediscovering sexual joy after surviving sexual assault. Jessie shares her painful story of her assault and her joyful story of her relationship with Jay Allen aka Mr Easter. Now Jessie i…
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Ep 345: Pets Boost Wellbeing More Than Partners
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1:06:59Hey what's up hello! This week we're talking about a new study that found that having a cat or a dog to keep you company could boost your wellbeing as much as being married. The only problem is the study makes absolutely no sense and we don't understand math. Either way, pets are important!!! Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/pe…
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Also: • Easily the Most Petty Version of Nebraska Behavior • Hiding Behind the Piano, Sobbing • With the Jawbone of a Donkey, Heaps Upon Heaps • It's Up There With Lemon-Scented Contacts • A Minimum of Three Genocides • He's a Cuz Nuzzler • Bilhah and Zilpah Get the Shaft Coming and Going • We're Going Back to Mud Huts, Folks • It Danced Out of His…
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S2 Ep119: Death, Love and Grieving What’s Still Here featuring Alessia Cara
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53:30Nothing good lasts. Right? In this deeply moving episode, Canadian singer-songwriter Alessia Cara joins Shan Boodram to explore the connection between intimacy, loss, and the fear of death (thanatophobia). Inspired by her song "Sublime" from Love and Hyperbole, Alessia opens up about her personal journey with grief and how it shapes the way she lov…
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Hey what's up hello! This week we're joined by Debbie Urbanski to talk about her excellent collection of short stories, Portalmania. Portalmania dives bravely into the shadowy depths of betrayal, parenthood, revenge, murder, coercive sex, open marriages, asexuality, neurodiversity, and second chances. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/trans…
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All Living Creatures Will Eventually Evolve Into Crabs
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1:09:28Also: • Judges is an Adorably Problematic Book • Unwilling to Tear Open Your Friend's Chest Cavity • Feelin' Pretty Fucking Unappreciated, Al • It's a Manifestation of the Infinite Microculture • I Can Finally Bring Out My White Pumps • You Know This Was a Sexual Audition, Right? • Put in in February, Like the Icelanders Do • The Accumulation of St…
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S2 Ep118: Sleep Divorce: Raven-Symoné and Miranda’s Bold Relationship Move
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54:11In this week’s episode, I sit down with Raven-Symoné and her wife Miranda Pearman-Maday for a refreshingly honest conversation about love and what it really takes to sustain a modern relationship. They share why they chose a sleep divorce, and how sleeping separately has deepened their emotional bond, sharpened their communication, and brought them…
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Hey what's up hello! This week we discuss the phenomenon of queer women loving boy bands and yell from the mountaintops about how you can be a boy band fan without finding any of the band members attractive!!! Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/on-queer-women-loving-boy-bands Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakep…
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S2 Ep117: I Lost My Sex Drive Because He Never Did THIS ft Cree Summer
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56:36In this week’s episode, I sit down with the legendary Cree Summer to talk about her journey through love, loss, and rediscovery in her 50s. Cree opens up about losing her sex drive during her marriage due to a lack of emotional shelter and the importance of finding a partner who provides safety and calm during life’s storms. We also dive into how h…
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Hey what's up hello! This week we're reading some more lore submitted by our listeners. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/listener-lore-pt-4 Submit your lore: https://forms.gle/zHQTVVZRACvxmgFn8 Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.sound…
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Somebody Sneezed on the Croutons While Eating Bat Soup
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1:07:39Also: • Wearing a Sandwich Board in Front of a Del Taco • Not the Least Interested in Cocaine Right Now • Mow My Lawn Menacingly • Where the Hell You Came Up With Iron Ore • Oh, There's No End of Whimsy • A Mishmash of Fabrications and Paranoid Fantasies • Diving Headfirst Into the Quicksand • The Most Gay I've Ever Felt in My Entire Life • Your Ve…
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S2 Ep116: Don't Waste Your Time With People Like This!
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41:24This is a rare solo episode with just Shan behind the mic—no guests, no distractions. Just her, answering some of your most pressing, unfiltered questions. From personal reflections to deeper dives on topics you’ve been dying to hear her take on, this one’s intimate, insightful, and straight from the heart Join My Mailing List https://www.loversbys…
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Hey what's up hello! This week we discuss the overlap between transphobia and aphobia and the importance of trans aspec solidarity. TW: transphobia Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/trans-aspec-solidarity Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book:…
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Also: • Speaking as an Amateur Body Builder With Truly Middling Results • It Doesn't, as Far as I Know, Creep Anyone Out • Five Beats or Three Dry Swallows • Did Somebody Poop During This Session? • Inviting Myself Into That Big Giant Cornucopia • Throw 5-Year-Olds Off a 10-Story Building • Izzy's Glizzy Party • Long Stretches of "Kitty Cat in Extr…
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S2 Ep115: Soul Ties and Seeking Sacred Love: B. Simone on Chastity and Demisexuality
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53:41Are you ready to dive deep into the complexities of love, faith, and identity? In this thought-provoking episode, Shan Boodram sits down with B. Simone to discuss the transformative journey of embracing chastity, understanding soul ties, and exploring the nuances of identity and connection. While B. Simone does not identify as demisexual, Shan sugg…
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Hey what's up hello! This week we're talking about making assumptions about people. They really do make an ass out of you and me. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/making-assumptions Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com…
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Also: • A Bromance Between a Robot and a Dog • Of Course It's a Werewolf Thing • Once You've Discovered a Japanese Toilet • Hey Everybody, My Just Dad Died! • That's an Expensive and Dangerous Philosophy • The Fact That I Have Nipples • Leaking Gasoline and Melted Crayons • The Maori Eat Each Other • Sit in a Chair and Watch the Emperor Sleep • You…
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S2 Ep114: What Happens to Old Love When You Have New Intimate Needs? Ft Karamo Brown
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46:47Does a change in your intimate needs have to mean a change of heart? In this episode of Lovers Shan Boodram sits down with Karamo Brown, TV personality (Karama and Queer Eye), author, and culture expert, for a raw and revealing conversation about intimacy and growth. Karamo opens up about how his intimate needs evolved through his 20s, 30s, and 40s…
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Hey what's up hello! This week we're talking about doing things by yourself when they are normally done as a couple or in a group. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/doing-things-alone Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.co…
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The Vanilla Ice Cream of Psychedelic Mushrooms
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1:13:39Also: • Penis Envy is a Hot Tub Time Machine • My Negative Harumphy Vibes • An Epistemologist Feeling a Little Cantankerous • Was it the Tip or the Shaft? • A Teaspoon's Dollop of the Blue Honey • The Substance Tolerance of a 93-Pound Vietnamese Girl • My 6th Erectile Dysfunction Test This Week • Rapid Onset Ego Death • Surely There are Witch Docto…
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S2 Ep113: Partnership Over Pride: Khadeen and Devale Ellis on Defying Gender to Save Their Marriage
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43:46Are You Loyal to Your Gender or Your Relationship? Shan Boodram sits down with Khadeen and Devale Ellis, the dynamic married duo known for their raw honesty, humor, and insights on love and relationships. Together, they share how they saved their marriage by breaking free from traditional gender roles and prioritizing their partnership above all el…
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You know what time it is. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/reddit-rabbit-hole-pt-16 Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/bookBy Sounds Fake But Okay
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Also: • He Didn't Want to Take the Spigot Out of the Guy's Leg • Do You Do Caffeine Enemas for Fun? • Ingest Adrenaline By Drinking the Blood of Your Enemies • Someone's Always Plotting a Genocide • Hoisted By His Own Petard • I've Been Thinking a Lot About Impaling • A Lead Stake Moving 52,000 Miles an Hour • I Have Eaten Pig Brain, By the Way • O…
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S2 Ep112: They Liked You More When You Had No Boundaries ft Jessie Reyez
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44:38Jessie Reyez joins the podcast to celebrate her new album, Paid in Memories and to dive into the complexities of boundaries and self-respect. Together, we unpack what it means to be labeled a "villain" (by both yourself and others) for setting boundaries and standing firm in your self-worth. Jessie shares her personal journey of choosing to stay si…
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Hey what's up hello! Today we talk about the morning shed, appealing to various gazes, and other such beauty standard shenanigans. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/beauty-standards Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/…
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Also: • I'm Schnauzing the VapoRub Kleenex • As Australian as it is Gay • Unless They're Actively Bludgeoning People on the Battlefield • Close Enough to Pejorativize • Never Say "Supposedly" When "Ostensibly" Will Do • That's Literally Onanism • Tie My Head to an Anthill and Smear My Ears in Jam • His is a Teeny But Hers is Not • Accused of Bangin…
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By Jennifer Wilcove
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