Abstract
Marriage and offspring play an essential role in mainland China, and most sexual minorities face enormous pressure to get married because of traditional culture. In Chinese Confucian culture society, gay men and lesbians experience culture-specific stress due to the conflict between same-sex attraction and conventional notions of filial piety and the morality perception of getting married. This study explored how minority stress and traditional culture-specific stress (i.e., perceived filial piety of getting married and the morality perception of mixed-orientation marriage) are related to relationship status and affect the intention to marry among gay men and lesbians in China. Participants (326 gay men and 168 lesbians) completed an online questionnaire that assessed minority stress (i.e., internalized homophobia, self-concealment), perceived filial piety of getting married, the morality perception of mixed-orientation marriage, relationship status, and marital intention. Results indicated that participants with high minority stress, who perceived getting married as filial piety, and who did not perceive mixed-orientation marriage as immoral were more likely to be in an opposite-sex relationship or have a greater intention to marry than were their counterparts. Culture-specific stress had a stronger impact on marital intention for gay participants than for lesbians. Minority stress facilitated the influences of culture-specific stress on marital intention. The findings indicated that both minority stress and culture-specific stress shape the marital intention among Chinese gay men and lesbians, and minority stress has more extensive influences on marital intention than culture-specific stress.
Similar content being viewed by others
References
Adamczyk, A., & Cheng, Y. H. A. (2015). Explaining attitudes about homosexuality in Confucian and non-Confucian nations: Is there a ‘cultural’ influence? Social Science Research,51, 276–289.
Balsam, K. F., & Szymanski, D. M. (2010). Relationship quality and domestic violence in women’s same-sex relationships: The role of minority stress. Psychology of Women Quarterly,29, 258–269.
Bregman, H. R., Malik, N. M., Page, M. J., Makynen, E., & Lindahl, K. M. (2013). Identity profiles in lesbian, gay, and bisexual youth: The role of family influences. Journal of Youth and Adolescence,42, 417–430.
Brewster, M. E., Moradi, B., Deblaere, C., & Velez, B. L. (2013). Navigating the borderlands: The roles of minority stressors, bicultural self-efficacy, and cognitive flexibility in the mental health of bisexual individuals. Journal of Counselling Psychology,60, 543–556.
Buxton, A. P. (2001). Writing our own script: How bisexual men and their heterosexual wives maintain their marriages after disclosure. Journal of Bisexuality,1, 155–189.
Buxton, A. P. (2005). A family matter: When a spouse comes out as gay, lesbian, or bisexual. Journal of GLBT Family Studies,1, 49–70.
Caraveo, E. (2012). The psychological and emotional experiences of men who came out as gay or bisexual while in or after a heterosexual marriage. Dissertations & Theses—Gradworks.
Chou, W. (2001). Homosexuality and the cultural politics of Tongzhi in Chinese societies. Journal of Homosexuality,40, 27–46.
Coleman, E. (1982). Developmental stages of the coming out process. American Behavioral Scientist,25, 469–482.
Dandona, L., Dandona, R., Gutierrez, J. P., Kumar, G. A., McPherson, S., & Bertozzi, S. M. (2005). Sex behavior of men who have sex with men and risk of HIV in Andhra Pradesh, India. AIDS,19, 611–619.
Frost, D. M., & Meyer, I. H. (2009). Internalized homophobia and relationship quality among lesbians, gay men, and bisexuals. Journal of Counsuling Psychology,56, 97–109.
Han, S. (2000). Asian American gay men’s (dis)claim on masculinity. In P. Nardi (Ed.), Gay masculinities (pp. 206–223). Thousand Oaks, CA: Sage.
Hatzenbuehler, M. L. (2009). How does sexual minority stigma “get under the skin”? A psychological mediation framework. Psychological Bulletin,135, 707–730.
Herek, G. M., Gillis, J. R., & Cogan, J. C. (2009). Internalized stigma among sexual minority adults: Insights from a social psychological perspective. Journal of Counseling Psychology,56, 32–43.
Hesketh, T., Lu, L., & Xing, Z. W. (2005). The effect of China’s one-child family policy after 25 years. New England Journal of Medicine,353, 1171–1176.
Higgins, D. J. (2002). Gay men from heterosexual marriages: Attitudes, behaviors, childhood experiences, and reasons for marriage. Journal of Homosexuality,42, 15–34.
Hirshfield, S., Wolitski, R. J., Chiasson, M. A., Remien, R. H., Humberstone, M., & Wong, T. (2008). Screening for depressive symptoms in an online sample of men who have sex with men. AIDS Care,20, 904–910.
Ho, D. Y. F., Xie, W., Liang, X., & Zeng, L. (2012). Filial piety and traditional Chinese values: A study of high and mass cultures. PsyCh Journal,1, 40–55. https://doi.org/10.1002/pchj.6.
Hu, X., & Wang, Y. (2013). LGB identity among young Chinese: The influence of traditional culture. Journal of Homosexuality,60, 667–684.
Jeffries, W. L. (2009). Sociodemographic, sexual, and HIV and other sexually transmitted disease risk profiles of nonhomosexual-identified men who have sex with men. American Journal of Public Health,99, 1042–1045.
Jones, K. T., Wilton, L., Millett, G., & Johnson, W. D. (2010). Formulating the stress and severity model of minority social stress for Black men who have sex with men. In D. H. McCree, K. T. Jones, & A. O’Leary (Eds.), African Americans and HIV/AIDS (pp. 223–238). New York: Springer.
Kwok, D. K., & Wu, J. (2015). Chinese attitudes towards sexual minorities in Hong Kong: Implications for mental health. International Review of Psychiatry,27, 444–454.
Kyu-taik, S. (1995). Measures and dimensions of filial piety in Korea. The Gerontologist,35, 240–247.
Lai, D. W. L. (2010). Filial piety, caregiving appraisal, and caregiving burden. Research on Aging,32, 200–223.
Li, Y. (1998). Subculture of homosexuality. Beijing: China Today Press.
Li, X., Zhang, B., Li, Y., Antonio, A. L., Chen, Y., & Williams, A. B. (2016a). Mental health and suicidal ideation among Chinese women who have sex with men who have sex with men (MSM). Women and Health,56, 940–956.
Li, B., Zhu, J., & Wei, W. (2016b). Research on marital living condition of gay men’s wives in mainland China. Bosom Friend Inspiration,3, 240.
Liu, J. (2017). Initial investigation of formal marriage based on perceptive of subject construction. Master’s thesis. East China Normal University, Shanghai, China.
Liu, J. X., & Choi, K. (2006). Experiences of social discrimination among men who have sex with men in Shanghai, China. AIDS and Behavior,10(4 Suppl.), S25–S33.
Liu, H., Feng, T., Ha, T., Liu, H., Cai, Y., Liu, X., & Li, J. (2011). Chinese culture, homosexuality stigma, social support and condom use: A path analytic model. Stigma Research and Action,1, 27–35.
Lum, T. Y. S., Yan, E. C. W., Ho, A. H. Y., Shum, M. H. Y., Wong, G. H. Y., Lau, M. M. Y., & Wang, J. (2016). Measuring filial piety in the 21st century: Development, factor structure, and reliability of the 10-item Contemporary Filial Piety Scale. Journal of Applied Gerontology,35, 1235–1247.
Maehara, T., & Takemura, A. (2007). The norms of filial piety and grandmother roles as perceived by grandmothers and their grandchildren in Japan and South Korea. International Journal of Behavioral Development,31, 585–593.
Malyon, A. K. (1982). Psychotherapeutic implications of internalized homophobia in gay men. Journal of Homosexuality,7, 59–69.
Meyer, I. H. (2003a). Prejudice, social stress, and mental health in lesbian, gay, and bisexual populations: Conceptual issues and research evidence. Psychological Bulletin,129, 674–697.
Meyer, I. H. (2003b). Prejudice as stress: Conceptual and measurement problems. American Journal of Public Health,93, 262–265.
Meyer, I. H., & Dean, L. (1998). Internalized homophobia, intimacy, and sexual behavior among gay and bisexual men. In G. M. Herek (Ed.), Stigma and sexual orientation: Understanding prejudice against lesbians, gay men, and bisexuals (pp. 160–186). Thousand Oaks, CA: Sage Publications.
Min, L. (2013). Two gay men seeking two lesbians: An analysis of Xinghun (formality marriage) ads on China’s Tianya.cn. Sexuality and Culture,17, 494–511.
Newcomb, M. E., & Mustanski, B. (2010). Internalized homophobia and internalizing mental health problems: A meta-analytic review. Clinical Psychology Review,30, 1019–1029.
Page, M. J. L., Lindahl, K. M., & Malik, N. M. (2013). The role of religion and stress in sexual identity and mental health among lesbian, gay, and bisexual youth. Journal of Research on Adolescence,23, 665–677.
Peng, T. (2014). The reason and effect of Chinese homosexual choosing marriage of convenience. The Chinese Journal of Human Sexuality,23, 97–99.
Preacher, K. J., & Hayes, A. F. (2008). Asymptotic and resampling strategies for assessing and comparing indirect effects in multiple mediator models. Behavior Research Methods, 40, 879–891. https://doi.org/10.3758/BRM.40.3.879.
Pyun, T., Santos, G. M., Arreola, S., Do, T., Hebert, P., Beck, J., … Ayala, G. (2014). Internalized homophobia and reduced HIV testing among men who have sex with men in China. Asia-Pacific Journal of Public Health,26, 118–125.
Rendina, H. J., Gamarel, K. E., Pachankis, J. E., Ventuneac, A., Grov, C., & Parsons, J. T. (2016). Extending the minority stress model to incorporate HIV-positive gay and bisexual men’s experiences: A longitudinal examination of mental health and sexual risk behavior. Annals of Behavioral Medicine,51, 1–12.
Shao, J., Chang, E. S., & Chen, C. (2018). The relative importance of parent–child dynamics and minority stress on the psychological adjustment. Journal of Counseling Psychology,65, 598–604.
Shi, X., Xu, W., & Zheng, Y. (2018). Heterosexual marital intention: Effects of internalized homophobia, homosexual identity, perceived family support, and disclosure among Chinese gay and bisexual men. Journal of Homosexuality. https://doi.org/10.1080/00918369.2018.1547558.
Steward, W. T., Miege, P., & Choi, K.-H. (2013). Charting a moral life: The influence of stigma and filial duties on marital intentions among Chinese men who have sex with men. PLoS ONE,8(8), e71778. https://doi.org/10.1371/journal.pone.0071778.
Szymanski, D. M., Kashubeck-West, S., & Meyer, J. (2008). Internalized heterosexism: Measurement, psychosocial correlates, and research directions. The Counseling Psychologist,36, 525–574.
Wang, F. T. Y., Bih, H. D., & Brennan, D. J. (2009). Have they really come out: Gay men and their parents in Taiwan. Culture, Health & Sexuality,11, 285–296.
Wang, X., Yu, Y., Xiao, S. Y., & Sun, Z. (2011). The marital desire and its related factors of the users in gay QQ groups affiliated to universities. Chinese Mental Health Journal,25, 122–127.
Williamson, I. R. (2000). Internalized homophobia and health issues affecting lesbians and gay men. Health Education Research,15, 97–107.
Xing, F. (2012). An investigation report on the survival of “gay men’s wives” in China. Sichuan: Chengdu Times Press.
Xu, W., Zheng, L., Xu, Y., & Zheng, Y. (2017). Internalized homophobia, mental health, sexual behaviors, and outness of gay/bisexual men from Southwest China. International Journal for Equity in Health,16, 36. https://doi.org/10.1186/s12939-017-0530-1.
Yan, F., Li, X., & Zhang, Y. (2016). Research review on the quality of life of gay men’s wives in China. Journal of China Women’s University,6, 61–67.
Yu, Y., Xiao, S., & Xiang, Y. (2011). Application and testing the reliability and validity of a modified version of Herek’s Attitudes Toward Lesbians and Gay Men Scale in China. Journal of Homosexuality,58, 263–274.
Zamboni, B. D., & Crawford, I. (2007). Minority stress and sexual problems among African-American gay and bisexual men. Archives of Sexual Behavior,36, 569–578.
Zhang, B., & Chu, Q. (2005). MSM and HIV/AIDS in China. Cell Research,15, 858–864.
Zhang, B., Li, X., & Chu, Q. (2008). Correlation between AIDS and homosexuals: A study of 2046 male homosexuals in nine major cities of China. The Chinese Journal of Human Sexuality,17, 6–10.
Zhang, B., Liu, D., Li, X., & Hu, T. (2000). A survey of men who have sex with men: Mainland China. American Journal of Public Health,90, 1949–1950.
Zhou, Y. R. (2006). Homosexuality, seropositivity, and family obligations: Perspectives of HIV-infected men who have sex with men in China. Culture Health & Sexuality,8, 487–500.
Acknowledgements
This research is supported by the Fundamental Research Funds for the Central Universities (SWU1709244).
Author information
Authors and Affiliations
Corresponding author
Ethics declarations
Conflict of interest
The authors declare that they have no conflict of interest.
Ethical Approval
All procedures performed in studies involving human participants were in accordance with the ethical standards of the institutional and/or national research committee and with the 1964 Helsinki Declaration and its later amendments or comparable ethical standards.
Informed Consent
Informed consent was obtained from all individual participants included in the study.
Additional information
Publisher's Note
Springer Nature remains neutral with regard to jurisdictional claims in published maps and institutional affiliations.
Rights and permissions
About this article
Cite this article
Wen, G., Zheng, L. Relationship Status and Marital Intention Among Chinese Gay Men and Lesbians: The Influences of Minority Stress and Culture-Specific Stress. Arch Sex Behav 49, 681–692 (2020). https://doi.org/10.1007/s10508-019-01528-6
Received:
Revised:
Accepted:
Published:
Issue Date:
DOI: https://doi.org/10.1007/s10508-019-01528-6