modesty

from WordNet (r) 3.0 (2006)
modesty
    n 1: freedom from vanity or conceit [syn: {modesty},
         {modestness}] [ant: {immodesty}]
    2: formality and propriety of manner [syn: {modesty}, {reserve}]
    
from The Collaborative International Dictionary of English v.0.48
Modesty \Mod"es*ty\, n. [L. modestia: cf. F. modestie. See
   {Modest}.]
   1. The quality or state of being modest; that lowly temper
      which accompanies a moderate estimate of one's own worth
      and importance; absence of self-assertion, arrogance, and
      presumption; humility respecting one's own merit.
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   2. Natural delicacy or shame regarding personal charms and
      the sexual relation; purity of thought and manners; due
      regard for propriety in speech or action.
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            Her blush is guiltiness, not modesty. --Shak.
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   {Modesty piece}, a narrow piece of lace worn by women over
      the bosom. [Obs.] --Addison.
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   Syn: Bashfulness; humility; diffidence; shyness. See
        {Bashfulness}, and {Humility}.
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from Moby Thesaurus II by Grady Ward, 1.0
128 Moby Thesaurus words for "modesty":
      aloofness, altruism, backwardness, bashfulness, blankness, boggle,
      boggling, chilliness, coldness, commitment, compunction,
      consecration, constraint, coolness, decency, decorousness, decorum,
      dedication, delicacy, demur, demurral, detachment, devotion,
      diffidence, discreetness, discretion, disinterest,
      disinterestedness, distance, dullness, elegance,
      expressionlessness, fairishness, falter, faltering, frigidity,
      frostiness, guardedness, hesitance, hesitancy, hesitation,
      homeliness, humbleness, humility, iciness, impassiveness,
      impassivity, impersonality, inaccessibility, indifference,
      ingloriousness, innocuousness, introversion, lackluster, lowlihood,
      lowliness, meanness, mediocreness, mediocrity, meekness,
      middlingness, moderateness, modestness, objection, passableness,
      pause, plainness, poorness, propriety, protest, pudency, pudicity,
      qualm, qualm of conscience, qualmishness, recoil, remoteness,
      repression, reserve, reservedness, respectability, restraint,
      reticence, reticency, retirement, sacrifice, scruple, scrupulosity,
      scrupulousness, seemliness, self-abasement, self-abnegation,
      self-denial, self-devotion, self-effacement, self-forgetfulness,
      self-immolation, self-neglect, self-neglectfulness,
      self-renouncement, self-sacrifice, self-subjection, selflessness,
      shame, shrinking, shyness, simpleness, smallness, standoffishness,
      stickling, subduedness, submissiveness, suppression, teachableness,
      tediousness, tolerableness, unacquisitiveness, unaffability,
      unapproachability, uncongeniality, undemonstrativeness,
      unexpansiveness, unimportance, unpossessiveness, unpretentiousness,
      unselfishness, withdrawal, withdrawnness

    

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