Born: 1963-07-05
Profession: Actress
Nation: American
Biography of Edie Falco
The second you are handed a newborn it is yours. It doesn't matter what body it came out of. I've never felt more strongly about anything in my life.
Tags: Body, Life, MatterThe world gets very small after a while, if you stick around long enough.
Tags: After, Enough, SmallThere were a lot of times I wondered if I was deluding myself. I had nothing else to fall back on, but I never enjoyed anything else.
Tags: Else, Fall, TimesThere's a little good and bad in everyone. Everybody I've ever loved is very complicated.
Tags: Bad, Everyone, GoodWhen a show has gotten as much attention as this one, everyone wants to join in with something to say.
Tags: Attention, Everyone, ShowAnd hey-the psychiatrist in the show is Italian also. So people are going to focus on what they want to focus on. There's not much you can do about that.
Tags: Focus, Italian, ShowBeing a single mother was the right thing for me. But I have a tremendous amount of help from my friends. They're in love with my kids, and my kids are in love with them.
Tags: Help, Love, MotherI don't have examples in my life of people who are all good or bad; I have deeply loved many people who are both, and I relate to those kinds of people on a far greater level.
Tags: Bad, Good, LifeI don't know what it must be like to be a writer in general, but to be a comedy writer, it's got to be something - it's a very special kind of talent.
Tags: Comedy, Special, TalentI have lots of friends and, like me, they're not married. So my kids have lots of godparents - men and women, gay and straight. My loft is always filled with people helping me out with them and loving them.
Tags: Gay, Men, WomenI have this dog named Marley, and it is a kind of love I had never known. I have a hard time believing Marley did not come from my body. I know that sounds insane, but I feel that connected to her. She made me realize I wanted to adopt children.
Tags: Children, Love, TimeI think there was a time when I considered myself a work addict, but that's no longer accurate. My life has changed so dramatically over the last number of years, especially having a family now. My priorities have shifted.
Tags: Family, Life, WorkI'm an old-school, embarrassing Joni Mitchell fan. Her music made a hook in my soul and hasn't let go for all these years. I even sing her songs as lullabies to my kids.
Tags: Her, Music, SoulI've watched those shows my whole life - being on one is like a dream. It's hard to balance that dream with the fact that this is the Edie I've known my whole life.
Tags: Dream, Hard, LifeIs it harder having kids and working? It definitely is, but the payoff is you get to go home to your kids, and it all balances out. And I know I'm a better mother when I'm engaged in something outside of the house.
Tags: Home, Mother, WorkingIt's a very complicated issue, this fame thing - I was not really cut out for it. There are some really fantastic things about it, but it's difficult for a private person like myself.
Tags: Difficult, Fame, PrivateMy friends started having children after college, while I was pursuing this crazy acting career and living hand to mouth. Plus, all my boyfriends were artists struggling to make a living. Having kids didn't make any sense - why would I take on more of a financial burden when I couldn't even afford a dog?
Tags: Career, Children, CrazyMy kids have never seen me scream at anybody. They've never seen an argument. There's never been even a cold silence. And those are things that I grew up with because my parents did end up divorcing.
Tags: End, Parents, SilenceThe high-grossing films are not all that interesting to me, I have to say. It's not stuff I would want to be in. Yes, you would want the big paycheck, but that's never really been my concern.
Tags: Big, Films, StuffThroughout my career I've played a lot of parts that might've been played by a man. They're human roles rather than specifically men or women. I've never been as hooked into that as a lot of women are, you know, like, 'There aren't enough roles for women.' There aren't necessarily a lot of good roles for anybody.
Tags: Good, Men, WomenWriters, actors, anybody working on an ensemble-type thing, there are going to be some creaks in the beginning. It seems like there's tremendous potential in just letting things sort of breathe a little bit. It's tremendously important.
Tags: Beginning, Seems, WorkingComing home to my family afterward makes the work richer, easier and more fun.
Tags: Family, Home, WorkWe're living in a time when parenting is not at all mirroring the way I was parented. For me, I just followed my parents around on their errands; when they were busy on the phone, I was quiet. It's a different kettle of fish these days: They run the house, and you listen to their music, and you go to their appointments.
Tags: Music, Parenting, TimeI've also learned to no longer feel guilty if I'm invited out and don't want to go. If I start to say to myself, 'What's wrong with you that you're staying in five nights in a row to watch 'Forensic Files' instead of going out with your friends' I remind myself that it's what I need to do for myself at that point.
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I actually washed my window once, and it fell through - it was being held together by the dirt.
Tags: Actually, Once, TogetherI do not cook.
Tags: CookI don't watch a lot of television.
Tags: Television, WatchI grew up kind of a tomboy and I used to fight with all the neighborhood boys.
Tags: Fight, Tomboy, UsedI love to hand sew. I sometimes make clothing for my children, which of course they grow out of in a matter of minutes. I thoroughly love it.
Tags: Children, Love, SometimesI never really wanted kids. I didn't not want them, but motherhood just wasn't something that pulled at me.
Tags: Kids, Motherhood, WantedI really am profoundly grateful just in general in my life. I've had an embarrassing amount of good fortune.
Tags: Good, Grateful, LifeI sort of love reading the scripts and going, 'Oh wow, what a great idea. I never would have thought of that.'
Tags: Great, Love, ThoughtI think that you do get a little extra jolt of confidence when you win an Emmy.
Tags: Confidence, Emmy, WinI wanted to act; that was my one goal. I wanted to devote all my time to acting and not waitressing or anything else.
Tags: Acting, Goal, TimeI was a young kid from Long Island who wanted to do something large with her life, so I can relate to that.
Tags: Life, Wanted, YoungI was able to support myself by acting alone about six years ago. Until then, I was just scraping by.
Tags: Able, Acting, AloneI'm a very ritualistic, routine-oriented person, and I discovered over the years that I love working Monday through Friday.
Tags: Friday, Love, WorkingI'm just not one of those people who thought having biological children was that important, to me it was more about wanting to raise a child.
Tags: Child, Children, ThoughtI'm not sad about any of my life. It's so unconventional. It doesn't look anything like I thought it would.
Tags: Life, Sad, ThoughtI've never been all that interested or aware of what people are thinking about me or saying about me. I think that has kept me safest and sanest.
Tags: Interested, Saying, ThinkingIn my household there is an insane amount of laughter and celebration.
Tags: Household, Insane, LaughterIt's hard to notice things without people noticing me and that takes some getting used to.
Tags: Getting, Hard, UsedOne of the ways I think I gain fodder for characters is by watching people.
Tags: Characters, Watching, Ways