Amar Prem Ki Prem Kahani

While it is admirable to watch an LGBTQ themed film, I felt there was scope for so much more. Casting two appealing actors who are so uncomfortable with being perceived as gay is so deeply unconvincing for the audience. It was after watching this film that I felt that perhaps casting queer characters (who are comfortable with their sexuality) would have made so much of a difference. The vibe between the two protagonists were those of two besties rather than lovers. The embrace, or kiss, if it was one at all, might have passed had it been a pantomime. Certainly not for a film. That the heterosexual kiss was more convincing than the embrace of the two queer men was an absolute shame. The comic elements in the script was what worked well. One moment that stood out for me was the grandmother being accepting of her grand-son-in-law knowing that he too is a child created by God. What we definitely need are films with actors who are comfortable embodying their characters.

Many people are criticising about how they failed as a LGBTQ+ movie , being gay in an Indian family, not showing those moments fully but for me this movie isn't focused on how you face difficulties for being gay in an Indian family or how much you suffer in relationships , it was just a good , romantic , simple movie with just happiness with the purpose to enjoy it with whole heart Although I also feel that everything happened so fast in the movie but as we know India is still trying to make LGBTQ+ projects so we should be patient and enjoy these little projects Personally I enjoyed it so much.

A Heartfelt Journey with Flaws

This film offers a touching storyline that beautifully weaves together emotion and music, creating moments that genuinely resonate with the heart. The plot is engaging, with a climax that delivers a satisfying conclusion, leaving viewers with a sense of fulfillment.

However, the acting performances, particularly by Amar, fall short of the film's emotional potential. Instead of immersing the audience in the story, it often feels like they are merely going through the motions. In contrast, Prem stands out with a more authentic performance, managing to bring a sense of realness to his character, despite the fact that he doesn't align with the character's background.

Despite these shortcomings, the film is still worth a watch. Its beautiful music and poignant moments make it an experience that many will appreciate, even if the acting could have been stronger. Overall, it's a heartfelt journey that, despite its flaws, leaves a lasting impression.

Amar Prem Ki Prem Kahani attempts to break new ground in Bollywood by portraying a same-sex relationship, and for that reason alone, it deserves recognition. In an industry where LGBTQIA+ representation has often been sidelined, having a mainstream movie like this signals progress. I was excited to see a film that had the potential to bring authenticity to the queer community's relationships on screen. While the film is full of feel-good moments and is overall entertaining, it falls short in areas that matter the most when portraying a same-sex love story.

Let's start with the positives. The fact that this film was made at all is a step in the right direction. Bollywood has a long-standing history of underrepresenting queer relationships, and to see a director and production team finally take the leap deserves praise. The film's visuals are bright, the soundtrack is memorable, and the pacing keeps you engaged. Additionally, the actors are undeniably talented, with both having delivered phenomenal performances in their past roles. The emotional climax towards the end of the film, where tears are shed and emotions come to the forefront, was easily the most compelling and heartfelt scene.

But, despite the earnest attempt, Amar Prem Ki Prem Kahani doesn't quite land the authenticity that a queer love story needs in 2024. The romance between the two leads feels forced and lacks genuine chemistry. The characters behave as if they are close friends rather than romantic partners. If you've ever seen a truly well-executed LGBTQIA+ love story on screen, you'd know it isn't just about putting two men or two women together and calling it a romance; it's about capturing the nuances, the struggles, and the deeply personal emotional journey that queer individuals go through. That is sorely missing here.

One of the major flaws in the movie is that the relationship depicted feels oddly straight. By that, I mean that the dynamics, the interactions, and even the tropes in the love story feel like they've been lifted from the playbook of heterosexual Bollywood romances. Queer relationships are unique, and while there are overlaps in the human experience of love, there are aspects specific to LGBTQIA+ relationships that this film barely scratches the surface of. There's no deep exploration of their identities, no examination of the challenges queer people face. Instead, the movie sticks to a formula we've seen over and over in countless Bollywood romances - a formula that doesn't fit when the characters are queer.

The lack of romance is a huge problem as well. Even though the actors are phenomenal in their other roles, their performances here feel awkward and hesitant. It's almost as if they are holding back, and this is painfully obvious during the kissing scenes. The awkwardness of these moments is distracting. While one lead actor previously played a romantic scene with a woman convincingly, their interactions with their male co-star feel stilted, and the "kissing" scenes barely register as affectionate. You can tell the actors are moving their heads in ways that avoid any real intimacy, which completely undermines the emotion of those moments. When you are watching a love story, whether straight or queer, you want to feel the romance, but here, it falls flat.

Despite these flaws, I'm giving this film 10 stars because we have to acknowledge the courage it takes to create a movie like this in Bollywood. There's no doubt that Amar Prem Ki Prem Kahani is a fun watch - the pacing, the music, and the light-hearted moments will keep you entertained. However, it's crucial that Bollywood filmmakers understand that queer representation is not just about swapping out the gender of a romantic lead; it's about telling stories that resonate deeply with the LGBTQIA+ community. It's 2024 - we watch films not just for entertainment but to see parts of ourselves reflected on screen. Queer relationships deserve the same level of care, relevance, and authenticity that straight relationships have received for decades.

Here's hoping that this film opens the door for more realistic, emotionally impactful, and genuinely queer love stories in Bollywood's future.

I just watched a movie with high hopes, as there are only a few LGBTQ-themed movies in Bollywood. However, I found that the story was lacking in many ways. Two people met by chance at the airport and quickly fell for each other, which felt a bit unrealistic. The portrayal of a gay son and his acceptance by his family in Punjab happened too easily, with minimal drama. The movie included a lot of unnecessary family drama and failed to showcase the actual challenges of being gay in an Indian family. The actors' performances were not great, and it felt like they were just going through the motions without focusing on their characters. I would say it's worth watching once, but it could have been much better if the focus had been on the storyline.