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The B.A.B.Y. (Best Advice for Baby & You) Book - Karen L. Brewer BSN RNC-MNN
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© 2018 by Karen L. Brewer
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Print ISBN: 978-1-54392-285-1
eBook ISBN: 978-154392-286-8
Contents
Introduction
Preface
Mother’s Care
Immediate Post-Delivery
Fundal Massage
IV Fluids
Rehydration
Getting Out of Bed/Back into Bed
Vaginal Deliveries
Perineal Care
Moving Around in Bed/Moving up in Bed
Urgent/Emergent Issues During Labor and/or Delivery
Cord Prolapse
Breech Presentation
Placenta Previa
Shoulder Dystocia
Fetal Distress (Fetal Intolerance to Labor)
Cesarean Section Deliveries
What to Expect During your Recovery
Incisional Care/Issues
Some Incision Do’s and Don’ts
Pain Management
Vaginal Pain Relief
Cesarean Section Pain Relief
Pain Management Conclusion
Voiding (Urinating)
Bleeding, Clots, Hemorrhaging
Other Medications/Supplements
Colace or Peri-Colace
Miralax/Milk of Magnesia/Ducolax
Tums/Gas-X/Phasyme/Mylicon/Mylanta
Prenatal vitamins
Iron tablets (ferrous sulfate)
Vaccinations
Hepatitis B
MMR (measles, mumps, rubella)
Tdap (tetanus, diphtheria, pertussis)
Influenza vaccine
Pneumococcal vaccine
Lab Work
CBC (complete blood count)
ABO & Rh factor incompatibilities
Group B beta strep (+ or -)
Hepatitis B, syphilis, gonorrhea, HIV (or AIDS)
To Mothers Using Illicit Drugs or Having
Limited/No Prenatal Care
Q & A on Other Post-Delivery Concerns
Post-Hospital Complications or Emergencies
The OTHER
Topics
Visitors, Visitors, Visitors…
Inexcusably Pushy Visitors
Social Media
Hospital Gifts
Baby’s Care
Beginning with Recovery
Detailed Recovery for Baby
Suctioning out the baby
Vital signs
Apgar scores
Baby’s measurements
Ballard scoring
Vitamin K
Erythomycin eye ointment
Hepatitis B vaccine
Blood sugars (blood glucose)
Baby’s 1st bath
Diapering Your Baby
Some Oddities
You Might Encounter Changing Diapers
Small number of diapers
Pink-tinged spots on the diaper
Sacral dimples
Lots of large stools at the beginning— and then nothing
Swollen genitals
Findings with Girls
Findings with Boys
Other Newborn Observations
Findings on the Head
Findings on the Eyes, Ears, and Face
Skin Color and Conditions
Surface Skin Conditions/Lesions
Immature Body Systems
Preterm or Premature Newborn
Q & A on Your Baby
Feeding Your Baby During Your Hospital Stay
Exclusive Breastfeeding is BEST…but It’s YOUR Choice
Starting to Breastfeed
Establishing Breastfeeding
Supplementation
Nipple Damage from Breastfeeding
Breast Augmentation/Reduction
Flat or Inverted Nipples
Pacifier Usage During Breastfeeding
Pumping Your Breasts
Breastfeeding Conclusion
Q & A on Breastfeeding
So… You Chose to Formula Feed Your Baby
First Thing to Do Before Beginning to Feed
Baby’s Not Wanting to Eat
Baby Having Difficulty Feeding from the Nipple
Forgetting to breathe while sucking the bottle
Sucking very hard, thus sucking down the formula
Overfeeding Your Baby Formula
Burping your Baby
After the Feeding and Burping is Over…
Q & A on Bottle Feeding
Circumcisions (The Boys Only
Club)
Care of the Circumcision Site
Other Topics of Discussion
Sudden Infant Death Syndrome (SIDS)
Infant Risk Factors
Maternal Risk Factors
Co-Sleeping
Bed Sharing
Rooming-In
Anxiety Around the Baby
Passing Around Baby Like a Football
Sick Visitors
Generational Pictures
Your Discharge from the Hospital
Birth Certificate/Affidavit
Car Seat Check
Screenings for Baby
It’s the Little Things…
Last… But Not Least
Conclusion
References
About the Author
The anticipation and waiting are over!! You are in the home stretch and are either ready to deliver or have just delivered your brand-new bundle(s) of joy. You have been reading books, scouring the internet, and/or getting advice and info from your family and friends. For the first-time parents, you have feelings of excitement and anxiety for the new baby. Will the baby be born okay? Will I be a good mother/father? Am I ready for this? Then… after the baby comes, you become anxious over every little thing. Is the baby too hot or too cold? Getting enough to eat? Am I doing everything right? Am I doing anything right?
Relief, joy, worry overwhelm you. The first few days after delivery become a blur and you cannot remember anything. You panic!!! Your nurses have educated and instructed you on how to care for yourself and your baby, and maybe went over it only once or twice. Well, unfortunately you may only remember less than half (<50%) of everything that your nurse went over during your stay… maybe more like 25%. As the saying goes, in one ear and out the other.
That’s not a lot of retention, but just remember how wild, crazy, and overwhelming the past few days have been for you! By the time you go home you’ll be wondering, What just happened?? It was all a blur.
Thus, begins the worry…
Three things I tell my patients: Do not hesitate to ask questions, do not worry about asking them more than once, and do not apologize for asking them!! This includes all moms and dads, not just the newbies. Sometimes you just forget things from one child to the next, especially the little details
, and that’s okay to ask questions again. Your nurse should not make you feel guilty for any of these things, and if they try to—don’t let them!
Because you’re getting inundated with so much information in such a brief period, and are trying to retain all this information on what is probably an immense lack of sleep—you cannot possibly comprehend it all. And that’s okay. No question is a stupid question… no matter how many times you might ask it!! We as nurses want you to be well educated and comfortable with everything before you leave to go home, no matter if it’s your postpartum care or your baby’s care.
Teaching my patients and significant others how to care for themselves (and I do mean the guys, too) and how to care for the baby is so important. It is probably the most important task I perform as a postpartum nurse. Yes, I carefully assess and check all my patients, make sure they’re pain-free (or as close to that as possible), and deal with any problems and/or challenges that come up during their stay—but I spend much of my time teaching the family about mom and baby care… or reminding and/or re-educating the experienced parents. Sometimes the smallest details get forgotten, so that is why I have taken the time to provide a more comprehensive reference guide to help with questions or concerns you might have before or after you are discharged from the hospital.
~Education is the shared commitment between dedicated teachers, motivated students and enthusiastic parents with high expectations.
— Bob Beauprez
With over 20 years of in-hospital mother-baby experience, I have loved and continue to love teaching my patients how to take care of themselves and their new babies. But one of the things I noticed during my career is that parents have a lot of questions, and some of those have nothing to do with the routine care but are about… little things.
At least, what I think are little things
can be very concerning for parents, even veteran parents that have not encountered something specific with themselves or previous babies. It’s those concerns and questions that gave me the idea for this book. I started researching online to see if I could find something out there that has been written for parents to help address these concerns and questions, and I found that there simply is nothing out there .
There are self-help books for breastfeeding, postpartum depression, pregnancy, baby care and the like, but nothing specifically related to mom and baby care during their hospital stay and for things that might pop up shortly after returning home. At least— with the exception of buying several other books, or for piece-meal information which might have helped resolve their questions, it still will cost some additional money. And who wants to spend a lot of money for multiple books when there are other things that would be more important to spend your money on? I mean, there is now the new baby you must be financially responsible for and we all know that is EXPENSIVE! Let’s spend our money wisely, shall we?
Even though patients are educated in the hospital, or at least I hope they are, sometimes the little things
are forgotten; things that should be taught to every patient but never are. Nonetheless nursing care can be varied. Some nurses don’t give thorough explanations of things, but only give very brief summaries of specific issues and move on. Some don’t like to do the teaching and try to only give direct patient care, thus cheating parents of a well-rounded educational experience. And, not all nurses can give patients their undivided attention all the time, due to time constraints or having other more time-consuming patient issues. (Unfortunately, emergencies and problems to do come up that must take precedence.) So, the light bulb came on; that aha
moment when I realized that patients might benefit from a book that would help address those questions or concerns with their selves and with their babies.
Now—not all the information is evidenced-based, because there may have not been a study done on a particular situation or matter, although a lot of information does come from evidenced-based practice. Some of it comes from reference books, journals, and web sites that are used to educate medical professionals throughout their careers. And—some of it comes from good old-fashioned nursing judgment and practice. Wherever the information comes from, you can be assured that it has been researched, documented, and referenced for accuracy… and tested in the hospital setting.
I would like to thank first, and foremost, my nursing educator guru and nurse manager, Kim Dishman. You helped nudge me along to do more with my nursing career just in the first few years I have known you, and I thank you for that. Without your encouragement and enthusiasm for my ideas, I don’t think I would have had the guts to do this. Who would have thought I had it in me?? To my partners-in-crime: Gloria Theno, Amy Horton, Sheila Green, Elizabeth Murphy, Cindy Robinette, Terri Jenkins, Amber Tenay, and some others: whom I have laughed, cried, bounced around ideas, and had each other’s back with. We have been together so long that I truly value your opinions… and trust you explicitly. To my newer nurse buddies
: Sara Gena, Kerry Davenport, Linda Grossglauser, and Michelle Andrews thank you for your support. And a special shout out to Bree Fallon, our OB nursing educator, for if not the continued support, honest opinions, and meticulous review of my transcript, I might have done a serious injustice to this book. You all rock!!!
And last… but not least, to my family.
To TJ and Jessica— Thank you for helping to support my nursing career all the way back to the beginning. I know I spent a lot of time missing games and activities while you were growing up, but I did it to make life much better for you and I hope it was.
To Jenna, who came along after the career change— You got the biggest benefit of my life-changing career move, for if I hadn’t done it you may not have graced us with your presence. It was an immense struggle with two kiddos, but my career change soon allowed us to have three. So, I’m very glad you came along when you did!
To Bobby, my husband and best friend— Although you may have thought this idea was silly, and that your wife couldn’t possibly be an author I say… ha, ha, ha… in your face!! LOL! No really, thanks for supporting me through all the many months it has taken writing this book and all the time spent to putting it, and my website, together. I know I have put off many things to write this, so I really appreciate the patience. I will get the rest of the house completed now— the housecleaning, the painting, the flooring, the decorating, etc. I promise!!
Karen
Care of the mother after birth is crucial to her well-being which assists her to not only heal after the delivery, but allows her to take care of the baby (or babies) and family as well. From the time of the delivery, mother’s focus is usually about the baby and what life will be like in the days, months, and years ahead. How will the new baby fit in? How will I be able to cope? Many thoughts race through a parent’s mind on how much impact will this new little being have on their family. It’s essential to focus on the baby and what their daily needs entail, but mothers need to also be aware how much of their focus must be on themselves as well. When teaching various aspects of post-delivery care, one of the main topics that I emphasized on a regular basis is: You must take care of yourself… to be capable of taking care of your baby.
With this thought in mind, let’s move on to taking care of mom. We will focus on both vaginal and cesarean deliveries with regards to recovery and care.
Immediate Post-Delivery
Immediately after delivery, you will begin the recovery phase of your postpartum care. Your blood pressure, pulse, respirations, and temperature will be monitored repeatedly, and you will be given various medications along with intravenous (IV) fluids to aid in your recovery. You will also be monitored for response to your body’s ability to start moving normally (post-epidural, spinal or general anesthetic) which will allow you to be able to start caring for yourself. You may be given additional medications such as antibiotics if you have been diagnosed with an infection, or uterotonics (Methergine®, Hemabate®, Cytotec®, additional Pitocin®), which aid in uterine muscle contraction, if you are having a postpartum hemorrhage. There are other medications as well that may be given to you depending on your individual plan of care, but for the sake of this guide we will just focus on the routine care.
Fundal Massage
This is the part which all patients really hate when it is being administered. Your nurse supports the uterus from the bottom, right above the pelvic bone, and finds the top of your uterus at about your belly button, and then pushes down from the top then SQUEEZES AND RUBS IT REALLY HARD!!! If you’re lucky enough to have had an epidural or spinal that has not worn completely off, then this is maybe only slightly uncomfortable. However, if you aren’t so lucky… WOW! You may feel like you want to punch out your nurse for hurting you so badly! I assure you that your nurse is not a sadist. She is making sure that after your delivery, your uterus is contracting effectively to close off the blood vessels where the placenta was attached, and that any blood clots that might have been forming after the baby delivered are completely removed.
Clots in the uterus that aren’t removed increase the potential for later developing a postpartum hemorrhage. It’s also essential that any placental fragments are removed as well. Generally, your doctor will inspect the placenta after removal to make sure of this, but even the very smallest fragment might be missed. Remaining tissue can cause a postpartum infection— and we absolutely do not want to go there! Just be reassured, this intense fundal massage is generally during your recovery phase only, which is usually the first two hours.
After recovery is complete, your nurse will just be checking to make sure that your uterus is staying firm and in the right location, and should not massage anywhere near as hard (unless you have one who really is a sadist, then I feel for you.) If it is not firm, be aware that the heavy fundal massage will be commencing again until such time that it is firm. So, while you may think that your wonderful delivery nurse has now become Evil Incarnate, you will be thankful she is doing what is necessary to ensure you have a good recovery. Brace yourself, it really is a "necessary evil!"
IV Fluids
You will begin receiving IV fluids either right before you deliver during a scheduled cesarean section or when you come into the hospital for an induction or are in labor. Either way, this is to help get you and keep you hydrated during the labor/delivery process, and to rehydrate you after delivery is complete, as you lose fluids throughout either process. Lactated ringers and D5LR are the most commonly used IV solutions.
Depending on if you have a vaginal or cesarean section delivery is dependent on how long you will continue to receive these fluids after your delivery and recovery complete. For vaginal deliveries, IV fluids will usually be removed after recovery is completed and you have been up to void without any difficulties. For cesarean sections, IV fluids generally will be continued past the recovery period until approximately 12 hours or so, depending on the institution, and you are taking water orally without any nausea and vomiting, enough to help keep you hydrated without further use of additional IV fluids.
You may have the IV fluids restarted if you have any signs, symptoms, or complications, such as: dizziness/passing out during you 1st trip to the bathroom; fever; nausea and vomiting; increased blood loss, clots, or hemorrhaging; decreased blood pressure, etc., Once the crisis has resolved and you have recovered from whatever situation required additional fluids, then you will be removed from the fluids again.
Rehydration
After you have delivered, it is very important that you get rehydrated with plenty of fluids. If you have had or will have a vaginal delivery, your nurse will likely finish giving you IV fluids until she determines that you have been thoroughly rehydrated. She will also strongly suggest you drink plenty of water to keep you hydrated, which helps to aid in recovery. This does not mean drinking soda, tea, coffee, etc. to get the job done, although these may be had in moderation. Water is the preferred way to go to get rehydrated.
If you have had/or will be having a cesarean section, you will be slowly introduced to ice chips, and if you are tolerating that, then will move on to taking sips of water. Once you are tolerating that as well, you will be advanced to drinking water. You will, however, remain on IV fluids until you are putting out a significant amount of urine through the Foley catheter you have in place. Only then will you be removed from IV hydration and continue with drinking lots of water.
Getting Out of Bed/Back into Bed
Your nurse will check on you at various times during your recovery to check your Aldrete score: 1) how awake you are, 2) how well you can breathe, 3) what your blood pressure looks like, 4) how good is your oxygen saturation in your blood, and 5) how much function you have in your arms and legs after your delivery. If you have not had an epidural, spinal, or general anesthesia, then you will recover relatively quickly. This is used to help determine if you have any after-effects of your anesthesia, or will be able to get out of bed without any difficulty. However, you have had blood loss and some medications that may affect you when you stand up and move around, so she will also be checking repeatedly how you feel as you move.
Whatever you do— DO NOT get out of bed for the first time without your nurse present! Nothing is worse than a patient who thinks I feel just fine. I can do this on my own.
You can go from feeling just fine to I’m going to pass out
in a heartbeat. So— make sure she’s there!!! For cesarean deliveries, it may be several hours before you will be allowed to get up, but the same concept applies to you as well. I’ll let you in on a little secret— we really don’t like having to fill out an incident report if you have fallen— so, please, please, please—don’t make us!!?? I am batting 1,000 with this very detailed suggestion, and not one of my patients have ever hit the floor on my watch— in all my 20+ years!! That’s a record I intend to keep, as long as I am capable of still working on the hospital floor.
When you are ready to get up, position your bed so that the head is raised up. Bend your knees and place your feet flat on the bed. The closer you can comfortably manage to pull them up toward your bottom— all the better. Then place your hands flat on the bed next to your hips. Use your hands and feet to gently lift your bottom up off the bed and move over towards the edge of the bed. You may have to do this a couple of times to get to the edge, and that’s okay. Once you have done this, rotate your hips to the side, place your elbow against the raised headboard and your other hand by your elbow or grasp the handrail, swing your legs over the edge of the bed and push yourself to a sitting position. Now— do not immediately get up! Sit there for a minute or two to make sure you have your bearings and that you are not lightheaded, dizzy, ears ringing, vision blurring, etc.
Once you feel stable, plant your feet on the floor shoulder length apart, look straight ahead and not down to the floor, push off the bed, and then stand up. Now again, wait at least 15-30 seconds to make sure you are still stable before heading to the bathroom or walking around the room for the first time. If at any time during this you start to feel lightheaded, dizzy, ears ringing, vision blurring— let your nurse know immediately! You can go from, I am starting to feel…
to hitting the floor rather quickly. This way she can get you back to the bed quickly and safely. She may request assistance from other staff to help get you back to bed without incidence, so don’t be alarmed when she does.
The concept of how to properly get out of bed is based on my observation of mechanics utilized by different nurses. I have found that in my many years of nursing that both vaginal and cesarean delivery patients can decrease the amount of potential pain they might cause themselves by following my method. For vaginal delivery patients: this eliminates scooting
on your bottom area, which may be sore, swollen, and possibly all stitched up. Any way to decrease the amount of pain and discomfort in this area is always a plus. For cesarean section patients: this helps by utilizing your arms and legs to assist maneuvering into a new position without placing additional strain on the incision site. If you scoot
on your bottom, you will be pulling your incision site from the lower segment. Since your vaginal skin is attached all the way up to your incision site, when you scoot
forward that pulls your skin below your incision downward, causing pulling on the incision and unnecessary additional pain. And also, any time you can keep from using your abdominal muscles (which I might add are not functioning for the time being) to move around and out of bed— this is a good thing.
Vaginal Deliveries
After your baby is delivered and you are fawning all over the new bundle of joy on your chest, your doctor is busy making repairs to your vaginal area and cleaning you up. You will be checked for lacerations, tears, any bleeding areas, and the appropriate repairs will be made. If you’re lucky there aren’t any repairs to be made— you get to skip the step of the repairs and just jump into the clean-up phase.
Once everything is completed on the doctor’s end, your nurse will follow behind and clean your perineum, remove all the drapes surrounding you, possibly put an ice pack to your perineum— if you might be swelling soon, then taking your legs down from the stirrups and replacing the parts of the labor bed previously removed.
Once you have completed your recovery, you will be getting up to the bathroom for the first time after your delivery. Your nurse will assist you getting up for the first time, and then go over how to take care of your perineum once you have sat down on the toilet. The following is what I go over with my patients on how to care of yourself post-delivery.
Perineal Care
Care for your perineal area, which includes your vagina and rectal area, is very important to help eliminate the