Transformational Love
By AJ Silva
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Imagine a love so powerful it can heal your heart, reshape your life, and restore the church!
Are you ready to be completely transformed into the image of Christ Himself? Prepare yourself to see other people through God’s eyes—and with the heart of Jesus!
AJ Silva, lead pastor at Oakdale Family Church of the Nazarene, helps readers navigate the ancient words underlying the pages of Scripture to reveal the many meanings of ‘love’ and the life-changing power of godly love.
In this book, you will learn:
–What the critical differences are between loving your spouse, family, friends, and God
How to recognize the most important kind of love when you see it—and when you don’t
Why love is supposed to hurt sometimes
How tough love keeps us on the narrow road
– How to protect the flock from spiritual wolves
Are you ready to turn your life into one continuous, sweet-smelling offering to God?
Then begin reading Transformational Love today and discover what it means to love at the highest level. Learn to love God, other believers, and those outside the church the way God always intended—the way He loves you!
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Transformational Love - AJ Silva
Foreword by Rev. Timothy R. Gaines
If you’re going to follow Jesus, love is bound to become the center of your existence. It will be love that you encounter in His words, and love will be that which shapes you to be more like the One you are following. Love will summon you, draw you in, and eventually turn you into the kind of person you were created to be. To hear the calling of Jesus is to come to know what it means to be loved, and to walk in His way is to learn how to love others with all we are. While all of this is deeply and profoundly good, none of it is easy.
That’s why I’m glad AJ Silva has taken the time to offer this collection of challenging reflections on what a life centered on love looks like, and how one goes about following Jesus to the point that love moves to the middle of life. In these pages, you’ll find an engaging confluence of pastoral wisdom and insightful teaching—the kind of thing that will be helpful to those who have been following Jesus for decades, those who are just beginning to explore what it means to follow Him, and those somewhere in between.
Wherever you’re coming from, this is the kind of book that will shape you to the degree that you allow. My recommendation is to read it with an open heart and embark on this journey with courage. If you’ll let it, this will be a journey into the beautiful mysteries of divine love; and because it’s the love of God, you’ll discover a love that is boundless. May you come to know the depths of that love and to be overtaken by its goodness—and may you be changed forever along the way.
Rev. Timothy R. Gaines, Ph.D.
Asst. Professor of Religion
Trevecca Nazarene University
Nashville, TN
INTRODUCTION
Love in Context
The concept of God’s love is woven throughout the pages of the Bible. However, it’s impossible to understand God’s love if you assume it’s comparable to love as a human emotion. Such an assumption minimizes this central aspect of God’s character to the extent that a person may believe He loves or does not love them depending on how they feel one day to the next. This is an error. We can never understand God’s love if we begin with our own perspective—instead, we must turn to the Author of Love to truly understand how He loves.
To understand in English what kind of love the Bible is referencing, context must be considered. Take, for example, the word ‘trunk.’ ‘Trunk’ can mean the trunk of an elephant, the trunk of a car, the trunk of a tree, or the main part of the human body. It can even mean a large piece of sturdy luggage, or a superstructure over a ship’s hatches—the part of the cabin of a boat that projects out over the poop deck.
The only way to know what kind of trunk is being talked about in text or speech is to consider context. Tom touched the trunk
doesn’t indicate what kind of trunk is being talking about. However, the sentence Tom excitedly reached out and put his hand through the gap in the fence to touch the gigantic grey animal’s trunk
does.
Aha! It’s an elephant’s trunk!
Now we understand what’s being talked about. Context illuminates much in conversation so that we don’t have to assume what is being talked about. Without context, English words can mean many things.
In the same way, context is very important in understanding what God means when He says He loves us.
Taking verses out of context opens up the possibility of misinterpreting Scripture and can lead to a misunderstanding of what a particular passage is actually saying. Clarifying context will help believers and students of the Bible come to a correct understanding of what biblical love is—and what it means when God calls those He loves to love Him, and others, in return.
This kind of love is quite different from the love human beings speak of. People tend to have preset concepts about what God’s love is and what it looks like because they associate it with a human, feelings-focused, emotional type of love. Human love fails; human love hurts. The secular world has crafted an idea of love that is pulling further away and is a dim shadow of God’s true, perfect love. It is God’s love that transcends human understanding.
A Note about the Workbook
Following each main chapter of this book, you will find a workbook section that includes reflective questions, application-oriented action steps,
and pages for recording notes. The workbook sections may prove useful for independent reflection, group study, or simply discussion with a friend, as you begin to apply critical truths about God’s love to your own life and relationships in life-changing ways.
Now, join me on a journey of discovering what it means to love—and be loved—as God loves!
CHAPTER ONE
The Highest Form of Love
All you need is love, love / Love is all you need. — John Lennon[1]
John Lennon’s song All You Need is Love
was born from a request to bring a song to the world that would be understood by all nations—a message of love and peace. Love is all a person or a nation needs, but is the kind of love Lennon was singing about truly able to bring peace to a broken world?
Everyone wants to be loved. It’s a deep-rooted longing no person can deny. But often, the love people think they want is not the kind of love they truly want or need.
When most people think of what it means to love, they immediately think of a feeling—something that makes a person happy all the time. For a moment, consider the following ways in which we as twenty-first-century Americans authoritatively speak about love: In an article in the Huffington Post on July 16, 2015, author Carly Spindel wrote, Love is a feeling of deep affection. It’s an intense attachment to someone. Love draws you to that person, in ways you can’t always explain.
[2] Even Merriam-Webster’s dictionary defines love first as a feeling of strong affection
for a person or as attraction based on sexual desire.
[3]
It is critical that the definition of godly love not be according to human standards!
When Jesus was asked what the greatest commandment was in all of biblical law, He responded, ‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.’ This is the first and greatest commandment. And the second is like it: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself’
(Matthew 22:37–39 NIV). Jesus’ desire for believers was that they would love as God loves. If the greatest of all commandments is to love God and to love others, we’d better know what godly love means!
Biblical Love
Edgar Allan Poe once wrote, We loved with a love that was more than love.
[4] Although that