Nurse Barb's Personal Guide to Pregnancy: The Most Incredible Journey of Your Life!
By Barbara Dehn
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Barbara Dehn
A practicing women's health nurse practitioner and nationally recognized health expert.
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Nurse Barb's Personal Guide to Pregnancy - Barbara Dehn
CHAPTER 1
When You First
Find Out
When you first find out that you are pregnant, the question Is this really happening?
might spring to mind. Many women can’t believe that they’re really pregnant the first time that a pregnancy test comes back positive, and some will take two, three, or more pregnancy tests before the reality actually sinks in. In case you’re wondering, the pregnancy tests that are available over the counter at any pharmacy or drug store are just as accurate as those available from your healthcare provider or clinic.
There’s no one right
way to experience a pregnancy. You may feel elated and delighted by the news, enjoying every aspect as your body changes, your baby grows, and delivery approaches. Or you may feel a little bit unsure and ambivalent. It’s normal to have mixed feelings, especially when you first find out. For many women, every moment of their pregnancy is magical; for others, it can be a mixed bag of delightful surprises and difficult challenges.
Your pregnancy and baby will be as unique as you are. What you experience is influenced by numerous factors, including your age, family history, any medical conditions, nutrition, work, exercise, and hormone levels, to name just a few.
IT’S NORMAL TO FEEL OVERWHELMED
Even if they’ve been trying for months or years to get pregnant, many women feel unsure, scared, and overwhelmed when they see a positive test result. It’s normal to have conflicting feelings, especially if you’re nauseated or have other challenges in your relationship or with your family. It’s also normal to feel guilty if you’re not as happy as you thought you would be, or as elated as other people are when you share your news with them.
My Advice
After practicing for over thirty years as a nurse, my advice is to try to let go of any guilt or fear you might be experiencing and give yourself time to get used to the idea of being a new mom and adding to your family. That’s why you get many months to prepare for your baby’s arrival. If your ambivalence turns into sadness and a feeling of being completely overwhelmed by your situation, do talk to your doctor or midwife.
HOW FAR ALONG AM I?
This is one of the most common questions people have. Most think that pregnancy lasts for 9 months, when actually it’s 40 weeks from the first day of the last menstrual period. Though we know that pregnancies don’t start on the first day of the last period, it does provide a date to start calculating when ovulation and conception may have occurred, which is usually sometime between 10 and 16 days after the first day of the period.
Pregnancy is 40 menstrual weeks, which means that when a woman is 1 week late for her period, she is 5 weeks pregnant. In reality she’s only been pregnant for 3 weeks. Though this can be confusing, everyone around the world calculates pregnancies based on the number of weeks from the last period. If there hasn’t been a period, then we use ultrasounds or other ways to determine how many weeks along the pregnancy is.
It’s very important to be able to calculate the number of weeks along a mom is in order to determine how the baby is growing throughout the pregnancy, to estimate the due date, and to prepare for the tests that need to be done at certain times. Knowing the number of weeks is also important if a mom goes into labor too early or too late because both situations affect the baby’s health.
You’ll also want to know your due date and how long you have been pregnant, as that will influence your appetite, how tired you are, when you might expect nausea and queasiness to improve, and many other changes that you will experience. Planning for the future will also be easier when you have a better idea of what your body and your baby will be experiencing week to week and month to month.
CHAPTER 2
Nausea and
Morning Sickness
The good news is that not every newly pregnant mom will experience morning sickness, though the nausea in pregnancy can occur any time, day or night, and can last minutes, hours, or all day.
You may be lucky, like one in three pregnant women, and you may not feel queasy, seasick, or unable to eat. However, approximately two out of every three pregnant moms will start to feel nauseated, starting at about 7 to 8 weeks of pregnancy. The nausea and queasy stomach may be mild at first and worsen every few days.
WHY IT HAPPENS
Nausea is caused by the rapid increase in pregnancy hormones and usually improves by the twelfth to fourteenth week. Moms with twins have more pregnancy hormones present in their bodies and may be more likely to experience nausea.
We also know that genetics plays a role. Women with a family history of a mother, sister, or grandmother who suffered from morning sickness are much more likely to also feel queasy in pregnancy. Sorry to say it, but, if